We Had to End It. The Suffering Was Too Much.

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Комментарии • 123

  • @mainemagic4968
    @mainemagic4968 5 месяцев назад +11

    Bravo to you both. The life on a farm, as farmers is never a walk in the park. In third grade I had a Holstein twin calf that also had to be put down due to Pneumonia. The cycle of life to those babies is never set in stone. We just do our best and continue on the next day.

  • @joyceterra2265
    @joyceterra2265 5 месяцев назад +6

    😢It always hurts to lose an animal!, especially when they become such an integral part of our families it is the hardest part of homesteading. My heart goes out to you.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +2

      We really did have high hopes for her. It was so hard, she was just suffering so much. 😕

  • @cyclinggoatfarm9152
    @cyclinggoatfarm9152 3 месяца назад +1

    What a beautiful tribute to the rise and fall moments on a farm. My heart goes out to you

  • @ninirossau2304
    @ninirossau2304 5 месяцев назад +14

    it always hurt even when you know its the right decision. you feel their pain.

  • @monicajensen859
    @monicajensen859 5 месяцев назад +4

    I cried so hard when you have the end the suffering

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      Oh Monica, us too! By far the lowest point of homesteading.

  • @gelwood99
    @gelwood99 Месяц назад +2

    So sorry! It is a part of raising animals we hop and pray to avoid but sadly it happens! Your beautiful words hit hard and made me cry remembering a calf I too lost to illness when I was a child. Never forgotten.

  • @jaymurray5790
    @jaymurray5790 5 месяцев назад +2

    i am 69, grew up on a Farm / Ranch we had Chickens, Hogs, Cattle, and quail. have had to put down several animals due sickness or damage.
    for me these are the worst days of farming and ranching, butcher day for me can be just as bad, but if your hungry it is a necessity.
    hang in there, have been watching and would say our doing a great job. carry on farmers.

  • @Homestead-ish
    @Homestead-ish 5 месяцев назад +4

    Man that’s so rough! It’s so hard making these decisions! ❤❤

  • @leftfieldfarmgirl
    @leftfieldfarmgirl 5 месяцев назад +8

    You are eloquent and an amazing storyteller. And I am sorry for your loss but love how you are able to tell the story beautifully.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks. It was the hardest story to tell. So many tears when we went through it, but then when we had to work out how to “tell it”, it was way harder than we thought.

  • @pamelamore5032
    @pamelamore5032 5 месяцев назад +3

    I’m so sorry.

  • @oldnndway4641
    @oldnndway4641 5 месяцев назад +3

    Such a difficult thing to have to do. Sorry y'all had to go through that.

  • @paulawhite2882
    @paulawhite2882 5 месяцев назад +3

    I'm so sorry for the suffering you had to deal with. I sometimes feel sorry for the men. Thank God, that He gives them the duty and strength to do those hard things.+

  • @BrambleBerryHills
    @BrambleBerryHills 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks for sharing your experience. Praying for healing and comfort for you and your family.

  • @melaniepace2584
    @melaniepace2584 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for sharing! You are a beautiful wordsmith! What a life you are living and teaching your children! Keep it up…through the joys and sorrows of real life!

  • @thechristiangamer9140
    @thechristiangamer9140 5 месяцев назад +2

    I'm so sorry that this had to happen. My prayers are with your family. Death is hard to fully comprehend. But hope can always be found if you look for it.

  • @ShowBand7
    @ShowBand7 5 месяцев назад +2

    So sorry for your loss. Animals are a part of our families and we care about all of them and yes, Love them. I was raised in Iowa on a dairy farm and a few times we would have to hand feed 1 of them because of different reasons and sometimes we lost them. 😢 So I feel your pain but just like you said, the Baby calf is finally at peace. Thank you for sharing this video.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so so much. It is certainly hard. But thank you!

  • @maryellencook9528
    @maryellencook9528 5 месяцев назад +3

    You both did the right thing, Kelly. Pumpkin knew that she was loved. 😢❤💔🐂

  • @yourmother8271
    @yourmother8271 5 месяцев назад +3

    Omg the allergies today are killing me.
    Beautiful video.

  • @Serendipity_Strawberry_Farm
    @Serendipity_Strawberry_Farm 5 месяцев назад +2

    We raised Miniature Murray Greys on our property and never had to do this, thankfully. My heart breaks for you and your family as I know how bonded we became with our cattle and I can’t imagine the sadness you must have felt to have to do this. Keep smiling xx Theresa Australia

  • @clint4472
    @clint4472 5 месяцев назад +3

    Animal husbandry is hard and often hurts, sorry y'all had to experience this.

  • @TheNakidGardeners
    @TheNakidGardeners 5 месяцев назад +3

    So sorry Beau and Kelly. It is never easy to lose an animal. Big or small.

  • @commonsense2462
    @commonsense2462 5 месяцев назад +3

    Such a beautiful and heartfelt experience. Both the beginning and ending are miracles of nature. It's easy to receive the gift of life but so hard to let that gift go. Bless you, your family and homestead.

  • @angelapriddy6308
    @angelapriddy6308 5 месяцев назад +4

    I cry too. I'm so sorry. ❤

  • @francisbennett5965
    @francisbennett5965 5 месяцев назад +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. That is heartbreaking. I am so sorry you and your family had to endure that.

  • @aidenmudge3585
    @aidenmudge3585 5 месяцев назад +1

    Im so sorry for your lose
    I always hate having to put an animal down.
    Atleast you know pumpkin is in a beeter place.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you Aiden. It is hard for sure, and we still miss her!

  • @TheLifeMidwife
    @TheLifeMidwife 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for sharing... life and death are a delicate dance. Bless you.

  • @CourtneyR821
    @CourtneyR821 5 месяцев назад +2

    I’m sobbing. This was so sad. Thank you for sharing though. ♥️

  • @plowestory
    @plowestory 5 месяцев назад

    Beautifully put together, so much respect, sorry for the loss - its always so tough.

  • @loriking5667
    @loriking5667 5 месяцев назад

    My heart goes out to you guys. Its never easy to have to take those steps on the farm. Peace and Blessings.

  • @kathrinekerns8398
    @kathrinekerns8398 5 месяцев назад +10

    I am crying for her right now. The precious baby. Sorry for you loss. 😢😢😢

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you Katherine!! That’s means so much.

    • @plowestory
      @plowestory 5 месяцев назад +3

      Me too - so so sad but in peace now.😢

  • @bowtielife
    @bowtielife 5 месяцев назад +1

    I am 58 years old. Over my life I've had to put down two of our animals and was there for my childhood German shepherd when her life contained so much pain it was the only humane choice. I cry with you as those three worst times of my life are relived. So sorry you had to go through that. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so so much. It was a very tough time. But gotta keep moving forward!

  • @LBRS2nd
    @LBRS2nd 5 месяцев назад

    They have such gentle spirits. Sorry for your loss. ❤

  • @rich6246
    @rich6246 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’m so sorry friends! Love y’all! Praying for peace & strength! ❤️🙏❤️
    -Heather

  • @Starry_Night_Homestead
    @Starry_Night_Homestead 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh how heartbreaking! 💔 So sorry for your loss.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you. It was so tough….but we just gotta keep moving forward.

  • @albrightfs
    @albrightfs 5 месяцев назад +1

    Such a beautiful video,.. so very sorry for your loss. We too endured this with a lamb this year. Your heart aches and your dreams shattered yet the seasons change and time goes on and brings new life and new hope.. New beginnings. God bless you

  • @jessecarney7305
    @jessecarney7305 4 месяца назад +1

    I am so sorry for y’all!😢

  • @joanneganon7157
    @joanneganon7157 5 месяцев назад +2

    Oh gosh ,I'm so sorry😢.
    It's never easy ,no matter the situation.
    JO JO IN VT 💞

  • @sandragrecki6283
    @sandragrecki6283 5 месяцев назад +5

    Beautiful tribute!!!! I am balling, I know this all too well. Bless her heart and you guys!!!!! MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL!!!!!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥

  • @laymanhomestead4711
    @laymanhomestead4711 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh this is so sad, but a beautiful memorial for sweet "Pumpkin".

  • @bethhansen5122
    @bethhansen5122 5 месяцев назад +1

    So, so sad. But you did the right, strong thing. 💕

  • @naturekat3
    @naturekat3 5 месяцев назад +1

    What heartache, my tears are flowing. But this is a part of the cycle of life. I am grateful your husband was able to pull the trigger, and you were able to embrace pumpkin and see her peace. ❤

  • @lesleywatkins1172
    @lesleywatkins1172 5 месяцев назад

    Poor little Pumpkin. You did the very best for her, praying for you all. 😊

  • @SundryTalesOfConstance79WESTY
    @SundryTalesOfConstance79WESTY 5 месяцев назад +1

    Homestead comes with many aches and pains. Thank you for sharing the hardest part. All our love! 😎 STOC

  • @robinmcmillin6589
    @robinmcmillin6589 5 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so very sorry 😢❤

  • @ashleylovepace1941
    @ashleylovepace1941 5 месяцев назад +1

    Awe. I’m sorry

  • @awz079
    @awz079 5 месяцев назад

    That was haunting but beautiful. Reality is never just brightness.

  • @jessecarney7305
    @jessecarney7305 4 месяца назад +1

    She was a beautiful little girl 🥺

  • @ahtemmathehun3506
    @ahtemmathehun3506 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sometimes being the good stewards God has instructed us to be is one of the hardest jobs we can be given. Thank you for sharing your joy and pain with us! I will pray that this next year will give us abundant weather and conditions so that we can all experience the full joy of stewardship. This was an excellent video too! You encapsulated the story and emotion so well.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you. We didn’t really want to tell it, but it was good for us to get it off our chest. And maybe it allows some people to learn something. Not sure what though. Haha.
      Thank you so so much!!

  • @dsy096
    @dsy096 5 месяцев назад +1

    It even gives me a tear and I'm just a 3rd person. Idk how y'all handled this from the start of the birth to end. It shows nature of life cycle and wisdom. This is like a documentary almost kids especially living in the city where parents have government jobs. Thank you for this precious video!❤

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      It is very tough. And connects us with life for sure. Our kids truly understand the value of life….as well as us too!!

    • @dsy096
      @dsy096 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@BetterTogetherLife Thank you for replying kindness❤️ I wish all the best for your family and the farm! Life learning lesson and teaching your child with wisdom is just awesome at this days!

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you!!! 🙏 🙂

  • @vbrown7530
    @vbrown7530 5 месяцев назад +2

    😩 good job you two
    Hard call!

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      The worst hard call ever. So many tears.

    • @vbrown7530
      @vbrown7530 5 месяцев назад

      @@BetterTogetherLife I’m sure!!!! 😭

  • @Mjones8383
    @Mjones8383 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yea wheather is always the factor for young animals. You have to have a barn to get them out of the cold if they are not normally in the cold. Its sad but part of farming. Just let this not go to waste and learn from everything you guys have done

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      I might have helped. But after some vet consultations, they said that barns can increase the risk of pneumonia. They’re just really susceptible at their young age. So I think we’ve resolved to just having spring calves who have a longer chance to mature before the temperatures go up and down.

  • @heatherjolly8389
    @heatherjolly8389 5 месяцев назад +2

    Sooooo sad, sooooo hard😢

  • @Revelation22-13
    @Revelation22-13 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hebrews 12:3
    King James Version
    3 For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds. Gods blessings over you .

  • @raybo34
    @raybo34 5 месяцев назад +3

    A fitting tribute and a look at some of the realities of homesteading.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you Ray. This means a lot. That honestly is all we tried to do in this video….and hopefully for most of our channel.
      Thank you for watching and for commenting. It brightens our day.

    • @raybo34
      @raybo34 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@BetterTogetherLife You're very welcome.

  • @SusanWoods-ww7wi
    @SusanWoods-ww7wi 5 месяцев назад +1

    💔

  • @joycemyrick7053
    @joycemyrick7053 5 месяцев назад +2

    😢😢😢

  • @debbiemize2269
    @debbiemize2269 5 месяцев назад +1

    It is so difficult to give this a like when my heart is breaking for y’all. My husband was raised on a farm, I was not. He has told me so many stories similar to this, and I cry every time. I have watched your channel since y’all bought this property and am amazed at all y’all have done ♥️🙏

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +2

      I’m like you, feeling every heartbreak each time!

  • @suemcculley7073
    @suemcculley7073 5 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @user-vk9dh7dd2k
    @user-vk9dh7dd2k 5 месяцев назад +3

    😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔

  • @timray1827
    @timray1827 5 месяцев назад +1

    😢❤

  • @shermdog6969
    @shermdog6969 5 месяцев назад +3

    Been there many times. Never gets easier. I don't think a lot of people realize that we truly care for our farm animals.

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +2

      So much!! It was the worst. We’ve been married and dating for almost 20 years. So it has been 20 years since I felt that heart break ache in my stomach.
      I forgot what it felt like. It is horrible.

  • @troyhenrygent
    @troyhenrygent 5 месяцев назад

    sad

  • @beccasbythebay
    @beccasbythebay 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is heartbreaking. Hugs to all yall striving to care for your beloved animals. Did the Vet do blood tests for momma and baby for Vitamin A deficiency? Here's a playlist on some videos that address drought which weve had here in texas and vitamin A deficiency in cows birthing cows and calf's lacking this essential vitamin. Pneumonia looks to be a multi factual cause. Winter time, needing vacinations, proper nutrition of momma before giving birth & immediately after birth nutritional needs of the baby cow. ruclips.net/p/PL9yB5uxmXWZ6vNy-jFI4X1weHsARuiHOE&si=e1nP9JdhjoovnfOa

    • @BetterTogetherLife
      @BetterTogetherLife  5 месяцев назад +1

      Oh thank you!!!!! We NEED THIS!!!!
      Because yes our property is almost bare of nutrients! We give them free choice minerals, but never feel confident with their nutrition.