I really appreciate how this video stresses the importance of maintaining your boundaries and independence in any relationship. By disappearing, you’re not chasing someone’s attention or approval; instead, you’re letting them miss you and realize your value. It’s a great reminder that respect and desire grow when we don’t over-give or sacrifice our sense of self. The Stoic approach to love, detachment, and self-respect is something I’ll definitely carry with me in future relationships!
The most freeing thing is, I don't care how he is feeling about my ghosting him. I don't care about him or his feelings, and that is the best feeling in the world. It's been over three months since I went ghost, and I feel better every day. I actually think I started feeling better on Day 2 and each day brought a more freeing feeling. My heart soars. So good to be done with the BS.
Excellent content! I love how this video highlights how disappearing doesn’t mean you’re weak-it’s a power move. The Stoic principles of self-sufficiency and detachment are exactly what I needed to hear. So much value in this!
Listen guys, if you're at a point where you have to disappear from someone's life as a preservation method etc, you have already seriously screwed up. I guess you may have to do it, but next time you meet someone you like, do not act so impulsively as to making this an actual option. Take preemptive steps from DAY ONE to make a romance work...or at least boost the highest possible % chance. Sadly for men, romance cannot be sustained naturally, they need to sustain it artificially, making the woman believe it's natural. Generally speaking -- temper your romanticism BIG TIME. Men, generally speaking, will reciprocate love and cherish all of it they receive. Women, maddeningly, actively like you less and less if you show love to them in a committed, monogamous manner. Once they know they "have" you you're finished/completed. They will possibly hang on due to your other resources ($$$ and the traits being a good father perhaps) but they won't really love you any longer. The only way you can work it is by creating an artificial scarcity of affection/romance. Eventually this becomes genuine. I am somewhat reluctant writing that because I don't think that's how things should be but honestly, that is the reality.
It's a harsh reality, I'm dealing with these emotions and realize the feelings she had if she ever had are very faint. It's a tough time for me with winter coming and it's hitting me hard.
@stephenj5505 You need to realise this mate it's done, it's comparable to a death, and there is no benefit in wishful thinking. The BEST thing you can do is use that energy and turn it towards something productive. You will not enjoy that initially but it will yield fruit eventually.
Well silence and despise are my best friends. Yes I love my space and whoever try to evade it fail. Feels great walking 🚶♀️ on a straight path without turning your head after you have been too forgiving. A bad conscious can kill most particularly if you cross on the other side. 😅Many cases don’t deserve to restore or restart. Just let all go and it’s a great feeling
They are too used to you! Become a memory in their review mirror! Disappear and take your energy with you! They feel the absence and lose sleep! You are done being predictable! ❤
In my opinion! When you disappear, it often reveals how much people truly value you. Some may feel relieved, others sad, and some indifferent, but your absence speaks volumes. Those who care will feel a deep emptiness, searching for answers or closure. Some may feel regret, realizing they took you for granted. It’s a test-it shows the depth of your relationships, the value of your relationships, and the unspoken impact you’ve had on their lives.
Just be a good human understand they’ve got issues. If they circle back to be strong enough to politely tell them you’re not interested and that you’re life is more important than someone putting you second or third. Be very nice if they come back around do not be angry. Do not give them that satisfaction, be very pleasant but firm
@ it’s too easy brown eyes. There’s a lot of troubled people out here and it takes some mature minded, healthy person to cut through and see through these monsters. I’ve silenced many women in my life. Trust me I’m pretty good at walking away and staying gone, I don’t chase I replace.
@ honestpainter When you make the decision to go silent and absent, then you already know this person doesn’t need to be in my life. So there’s nothing else to say, you can sleep at night knowing it wasn’t your fault- this silence and you moving on will secretly destroy them the rest of their life . Would you miss you ??
@@browneyes9507 I agree with what you’re saying and absolutely I would miss me very much. I’ve just had people hurt themselves in the past tonight. Don’t want someone to do that.
@ I get it but I personally prefer not to give them another conversation you probably said enough anyway. They usually just wanna hear from you again anyway nothing will change- When I’m truly done, there is nothing else to say. I went to the store and never returned. He didn’t see it coming. He took me & the “ marriage “ for granted. I changed my number and moved away. 5 yrs ago. I heard he immediately hit rock bottom when I left. He destroyed the best he ever had & he’s aware now that I’m long gone. 50 fabulous & free with beauty & brains Thank you GOD🙏🏿. Video 💯true
I WON'T BE RETURNING TO A NARCISSIST, WHEN THERE IS NO HOPE THAT THEY WILL CHANGE. I AM NOW AFTER 8 MONTHS OF NO CONTACT, AT THE PINNACLE OF INDIFFERENCE. I DON'T NEED ANYONE THAT DOESN'T NEED ME.
Imagen she give me 5 min per day byt im redy to go after 13 november and she ask to cheing and she dont even know whot to cheing byt im gona cheing only to improve my self in ewery facking direction and you know for what im only good just to give and give and give i dont hawe naw cash byt she ore ewerybody else gona wont to be whit me when im ful of cash,then i dont need nobady when is ewerytink good for me i need them olso when i fall to be my suport this is whot i show many times over and over byt after showing me this face to me im redy toʻ gone and im swearing she gona cray sou mutc she is not aver of this byt this is whot im redy to do when she start to feel only folings and foling byt lot more she gona be sou disapointed more and more im not good becose i dont hite im teling the true.no more i promise 12.11 i give one day to my love one and i did give her 300 days and whot she showe me becose she gona be whit enybody else good byt not whit one hu give her heart and when im back im gona do the some whot she give and this is noting lays chiting not wont to hawe real love in bad then this is it game over from me to she gona find out becose its nobady like her soult mate
I really appreciate how this video stresses the importance of maintaining your boundaries and independence in any relationship. By disappearing, you’re not chasing someone’s attention or approval; instead, you’re letting them miss you and realize your value. It’s a great reminder that respect and desire grow when we don’t over-give or sacrifice our sense of self. The Stoic approach to love, detachment, and self-respect is something I’ll definitely carry with me in future relationships!
Thank you enormously for posting this video. Blessings to all who are watching this video.
Silence is my Power
Stay strong kings
The most freeing thing is, I don't care how he is feeling about my ghosting him. I don't care about him or his feelings, and that is the best feeling in the world. It's been over three months since I went ghost, and I feel better every day. I actually think I started feeling better on Day 2 and each day brought a more freeing feeling. My heart soars. So good to be done with the BS.
Excellent content! I love how this video highlights how disappearing doesn’t mean you’re weak-it’s a power move. The Stoic principles of self-sufficiency and detachment are exactly what I needed to hear. So much value in this!
My silence is my power I reflect but I don’t reget
My silence speaks volumes I am worth the chase
If they play you there not worth your time
They lost something they never realized they really needed in you!
Thanks for all the great videos.
I ACCEPT THE CHALLENGE
Relieved but then regret. I've been there.
Listen guys, if you're at a point where you have to disappear from someone's life as a preservation method etc, you have already seriously screwed up.
I guess you may have to do it, but next time you meet someone you like, do not act so impulsively as to making this an actual option. Take preemptive steps from DAY ONE to make a romance work...or at least boost the highest possible % chance. Sadly for men, romance cannot be sustained naturally, they need to sustain it artificially, making the woman believe it's natural.
Generally speaking -- temper your romanticism BIG TIME. Men, generally speaking, will reciprocate love and cherish all of it they receive. Women, maddeningly, actively like you less and less if you show love to them in a committed, monogamous manner. Once they know they "have" you you're finished/completed. They will possibly hang on due to your other resources ($$$ and the traits being a good father perhaps) but they won't really love you any longer.
The only way you can work it is by creating an artificial scarcity of affection/romance. Eventually this becomes genuine. I am somewhat reluctant writing that because I don't think that's how things should be but honestly, that is the reality.
It's a harsh reality, I'm dealing with these emotions and realize the feelings she had if she ever had are very faint.
It's a tough time for me with winter coming and it's hitting me hard.
@stephenj5505 You need to realise this mate it's done, it's comparable to a death, and there is no benefit in wishful thinking.
The BEST thing you can do is use that energy and turn it towards something productive. You will not enjoy that initially but it will yield fruit eventually.
Well silence and despise are my best friends. Yes I love my space and whoever try to evade it fail. Feels great walking 🚶♀️ on a straight path without turning your head after you have been too forgiving. A bad conscious can kill most particularly if you cross on the other side. 😅Many cases don’t deserve to restore or restart. Just let all go and it’s a great feeling
They are too used to you! Become a memory in their review mirror! Disappear and take your energy with you! They feel the absence and lose sleep! You are done being predictable! ❤
I reflect but I don’t regret
In my opinion! When you disappear, it often reveals how much people truly value you. Some may feel relieved, others sad, and some indifferent, but your absence speaks volumes. Those who care will feel a deep emptiness, searching for answers or closure. Some may feel regret, realizing they took you for granted. It’s a test-it shows the depth of your relationships, the value of your relationships, and the unspoken impact you’ve had on their lives.
I’m done begging for the attention the thought the feeling the hurt the love the support the acceptance
Nice
I accept the challenge 😊❤❤❤
I attract, i dont chase
I attract...I don't chase
Just be a good human understand they’ve got issues. If they circle back to be strong enough to politely tell them you’re not interested and that you’re life is more important than someone putting you second or third. Be very nice if they come back around do not be angry. Do not give them that satisfaction, be very pleasant but firm
@ honestpainter Why would you be nice and tell them anything? You don’t have to your Silence and absence speaks for you
@ it’s too easy brown eyes. There’s a lot of troubled people out here and it takes some mature minded, healthy person to cut through and see through these monsters. I’ve silenced many women in my life. Trust me I’m pretty good at walking away and staying gone, I don’t chase I replace.
@ honestpainter When you make the decision to go silent and absent, then you already know this person doesn’t need to be in my life. So there’s nothing else to say, you can sleep at night knowing it wasn’t your fault- this silence and you moving on will secretly destroy them the rest of their life .
Would you miss you ??
@@browneyes9507 I agree with what you’re saying and absolutely I would miss me very much. I’ve just had people hurt themselves in the past tonight. Don’t want someone to do that.
@ I get it but I personally prefer not to give them another conversation you probably said enough anyway. They usually just wanna hear from you again anyway nothing will change-
When I’m truly done, there is nothing else to say. I went to the store and never returned. He didn’t see it coming. He took me & the “ marriage “ for granted. I changed my number and moved away. 5 yrs ago. I heard he immediately hit rock bottom when I left.
He destroyed the best he ever had & he’s aware now that I’m long gone.
50 fabulous & free with beauty & brains
Thank you GOD🙏🏿.
Video 💯true
❤❤❤❤❤thanks ✅
In letting him go, I found myself.
I accept the challenge 🙏
Keep it up
I WON'T BE RETURNING TO A NARCISSIST, WHEN THERE IS NO HOPE THAT THEY WILL CHANGE. I AM NOW AFTER 8 MONTHS OF NO CONTACT, AT THE PINNACLE OF INDIFFERENCE. I DON'T NEED ANYONE THAT DOESN'T NEED ME.
I accept the challenge 😊
I attract I don't chase
Im done baging
What's that song music please? Thanks a lot!
I accept the challenge
I am worth to chase
I am worth the chase
I accept the challange
I am more than enough.
I'm done proving.
I attract I don't chase.
I am the mystery they can’t solve
I accept the chalenge
I attract! I don't chase
I attract I don't chase Amen in Jesus name.
I attract I don’t chase
I am the mystery they can't solve.
I am more than enough
I atrack, I don't chase
I become a conundrum that can’t be solved
I am done chasing
I am morethan enough
I attract not chase
I am done begging
I too
Im rhe mystery they cant solve
I attract
❤
I no longer play games
I atract not chase
I’m done begging
I don’t play games
Am done begging
Im done begging
Imagen she give me 5 min per day byt im redy to go after 13 november and she ask to cheing and she dont even know whot to cheing byt im gona cheing only to improve my self in ewery facking direction and you know for what im only good just to give and give and give i dont hawe naw cash byt she ore ewerybody else gona wont to be whit me when im ful of cash,then i dont need nobady when is ewerytink good for me i need them olso when i fall to be my suport this is whot i show many times over and over byt after showing me this face to me im redy toʻ gone and im swearing she gona cray sou mutc she is not aver of this byt this is whot im redy to do when she start to feel only folings and foling byt lot more she gona be sou disapointed more and more im not good becose i dont hite im teling the true.no more i promise 12.11 i give one day to my love one and i did give her 300 days and whot she showe me becose she gona be whit enybody else good byt not whit one hu give her heart and when im back im gona do the some whot she give and this is noting lays chiting not wont to hawe real love in bad then this is it game over from me to she gona find out becose its nobady like her soult mate
I reflect but I don’t regret
I accept the challenge😊
I accept the challenge
I attract I don’t chase
I am more than enough
I am the mystery they can't solve.
I'm done begging
I am done begging
Im done begging
I accept the challenge
I accept the challenge