What A Narcissist HOPES When You Go No Contact| Stoic Mindset

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @StoicPathways28
    @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад +3

    Gain insight into the psychological games narcissists use to control others. Don’t be a victim-arm yourself with the knowledge to recognize and deal with them effectively!
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  • @hibbertsh
    @hibbertsh Месяц назад +9

    This just strengthens the fact the door has been closed and the silence remains.

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад

      Thanks for sharing! It is true that when you decide to close the door and not react, you create protection for yourself. Silence is a great way to keep the peace and not let anyone hurt you.

  • @Securedata5
    @Securedata5 Месяц назад +10

    Yes I have seen the crying with no tears and bombarded with text messages. I'm so glad I left and no contact. I would never ever go back to that house of horror, The thing was a complete mess.

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад +2

      You are very strong when you decide not to let yourself be drawn into those mind games and manipulations. Leaving and cutting off contact completely is not an easy decision, but it is the most important turning point for you to protect yourself from hurt and negative influences. That home is not just a place to live, but also a place full of fear, pressure and negative emotions. Leaving is not only the first step to regaining freedom, but also helping you regain inner peace and strength. Be proud of your decision, because you have chosen to protect your own soul and emotions, not to let anyone or any toxic environment disrupt your life anymore. You deserve a peaceful and loving living space.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 Месяц назад

      Same it was a real horror show all right

    • @Securedata5
      @Securedata5 Месяц назад

      ​@@StoicPathways28yes and this creep just commented. Lisaz4411 still stalking ridiculous, unbelievable this thing is pathetic

  • @QueenieGriffin-y8g
    @QueenieGriffin-y8g Месяц назад +9

    Shut the door keep out the devil❤💜🔥🔥🙏🎵

  • @Gematria142
    @Gematria142 Месяц назад +12

    Makes me more determined to keep the door shut

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад +2

      Congratulations on sticking to your decision! Keeping the door closed and not letting anyone manipulate you is a very strong and intelligent action. You are doing the right thing, and you deserve a life of peace and freedom.

  • @shannonpickens7695
    @shannonpickens7695 Месяц назад +8

    It’s all really quite exhausting. That’s when I get tired of it all and walk away. Then I’m the bad guy.

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад +1

      Walking away is not the act of a coward, it is the act of a person who knows how to protect himself. You are not a bad person for knowing when to stop when you feel tired. Continue on the path of self-respect and peace.

  • @LydiaKettle
    @LydiaKettle Месяц назад +2

    I learned this year I'm a narc magnet. Dealing with one recently made me seek information, which led me to see I've been with narcs all my life. I'll be fine after a load of therapy and hopefully know all the initial signs so it doesn't happen again. I've married two narcs, my last long term relationship was with a narc, had no idea until now that's what they were. So in truth I am grateful to my latest narc for leading me on this path of awareness.

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад +1

      Congratulations on recognizing the issue and being ready to change! This is such an important step because identifying narcissists and understanding their behavior is the key to protecting yourself from manipulation and deceit. I’ve also gone through a similar journey, and I realized that toxic relationships can make us feel lost and disconnected from ourselves. However, once I started to understand and recognize the signs of narcissists, I was able to set clearer boundaries and protect myself. What matters is not just recognizing them, but also taking action and changing how we deal with people like that. Once you understand them, you will no longer get caught in their emotional games. Building your self-confidence and living by your own principles is the path to a free life, no longer influenced by manipulators

    • @BecauseOfHim1111
      @BecauseOfHim1111 Месяц назад

      Hi! Your comment caught my attention, specifically where you noted “Dealing with one recently made me seek information…” This is where you and I share similar discoveries; yours - this year / mine - five years ago. My discovery was eye opening to say the least; even more so, life changing. For as long as I could remember, God was always in my life. Fast forward to the present, for the first time in my life, I know what real love feels like; that being my relationship with God. Everything in my life happened for a reason. God allowed it and for a reason. Just like you leaving your comment and me finding it, that was His plan as well. Some people may have difficulty understanding why it was His plan and that’s okay. What has become my life long goal is to share the goodness He has given me in hopes that others will want the same. He saved me from a lifetime of suffering and trauma. If you do not know Him, I pray you will. His love is so pure, so beautiful. God bless you. 🙏

  • @sjmullen6691
    @sjmullen6691 Месяц назад +1

    It took me fifteen years to finally break away from a narcissist. The very last tactic he used was sympathy. Even going as far as to say that he was dying. It always worked before, but no more.

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад

      It’s been a long and tough battle. However, once you recognize the tactics, you’ve taken back control of your life. Keep moving forward and don’t let anyone manipulate you again.15 years is a long time, but you’ve proven that your mental strength is far greater than their tactics. Congratulations for not falling back into that negativity!

  • @donnamartaofficial9903
    @donnamartaofficial9903 Месяц назад +3

    exactly! well well said!! 🎉

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much! I'm so glad my words resonated with you! 🎉 Your strength and faith are truly inspiring, and I’m confident that they’ll continue to guide you through anything that comes your way. Keep shining and staying true to yourself! 🌟

  • @grmay2163
    @grmay2163 Месяц назад +2

    5yrs,I,experienced.

  • @jochetdaniel9471
    @jochetdaniel9471 Месяц назад +3

    She’s in the silent phase right now

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад

      Certainly, periods of silence can be a sign of change, and can be an opportunity for you to find peace. Remember that you don't have to play anyone's mind games. Stay strong and continue to take care of yourself!

  • @ΒάσιαΚουμουνδούρου
    @ΒάσιαΚουμουνδούρου Месяц назад +2

    Σευχαριστω.Πραγματικα οταν αρχισα να βρισκω τον εαυτο μου [10 χρονια[ αρχισαν τα μνμ.Ξουτ σκουλικαντερα...,

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад

      Βρίσκεστε σε ένα μακρύ ταξίδι, και το να το αναγνωρίσετε αυτό είναι ένα σημαντικό βήμα. Όταν αρχίζουμε να βρίσκουμε τον εαυτό μας, συχνά είναι η στιγμή που τα άβολα πράγματα από το παρελθόν ή οι τοξικές σχέσεις αρχίζουν να επιφανώνονται πιο καθαρά. Ωστόσο, αυτό που έχει σημασία είναι ότι το αναγνωρίσατε και δεν αφήνετε πλέον αυτές τις επιρροές να αναστατώνουν τη ζωή σας. Είστε στο σωστό δρόμο, μένετε δυνατοί και κρατάτε την αυτοεκτίμησή σας. Αυτό είναι το κλειδί για να εισέλθετε σε ένα φωτεινότερο μέλλον.

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 Месяц назад +3

    Nothing is impossible with the HOLY of HOLIES.

  • @QueenieGriffin-y8g
    @QueenieGriffin-y8g Месяц назад +2

    AMEN!!!❤💜🔥🙏

  • @grmay2163
    @grmay2163 Месяц назад +1

    He,betrayes

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад

      I'm truly sorry that you’re going through this pain. Betrayal is such a difficult feeling to accept, and it hurts deeply, but recognizing the betrayal is the first step in protecting yourself. The key is not to let it destroy your belief in yourself or in others. You deserve a life full of love, respect, and peace. Always remember that self-protection is the key to healing and overcoming the hurt. You have the right to set boundaries and find peace in your heart again

  • @Bch60482
    @Bch60482 Месяц назад +1

    But what if they discarded you and you continued calling and messaging in hopes they will come to their senses and realize they are hurting you?

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад +4

      Continuing to call and message in hopes that they will realize their mistakes only causes you more pain. The longing and waiting for someone to change may make you forget your own worth. Remember, you deserve a healthy relationship where love and respect are prioritized. You don't need to keep enduring hurt because of someone who doesn't see your value and the love you offer. Silence is the greatest strength you can have right now - it not only protects you but also helps you regain your peace. Set firm boundaries and walk away from this situation, because you deserve to be loved and cherished the right way

    • @leonasweny1525
      @leonasweny1525 Месяц назад +2

      They don’t care that they are hurting you , they probably have their eye on new supply, why would you keep trying to make someone come back when they clearly don’t have any feelings for you. Stay away because if they do invite you back into a relationship you will be discarded again in a short time.

    • @Bch60482
      @Bch60482 Месяц назад +1

      @ he actually told me he met someone three weeks ago and is in love. How is that possible when he made me guess for 8 months after telling me things like he wants to do life with me….and then when id believe him he’d yell at me .

    • @leonasweny1525
      @leonasweny1525 Месяц назад +2

      @@Bch60482 he’s playing games with you .He knows you’ll do anything to get him back and he’s controlling you.
      Please sit back and seriously think about the way you are being treated. Nobody treats someone they really love like that .
      You are feeding into his narcissistic power and he’s milking it for all he can . Love yourself and drop him like a hot brick.

  • @HyokaBancroft
    @HyokaBancroft Месяц назад +1

    77 yes the 666 the flying demon monkeys who flollow gods wrath my life my future covered in Jesus's blood royal divine blood

    • @StoicPathways28
      @StoicPathways28  Месяц назад

      It’s truly powerful to see you expressing such deep faith and strength in your life. No matter the challenges or toxic people you face, the protection of God and the strength that comes from faith will always guide you through. You deserve to live in peace and safety, and your faith will continue to be a shield protecting you from all negative forces.

  • @sapna8565
    @sapna8565 Месяц назад +1

    • @sapna8565
      @sapna8565 Месяц назад +1

      Innama al usri yusra " quranic verse Verily with every hardship there is ease❤

  • @sarojanidoddapaneni9734
    @sarojanidoddapaneni9734 Месяц назад

    Please Remove
    Changt is inevitable.