Never Say This To A Man Or He Won't Forgive You ✅️

[@americafirst3562]

Her mother was the last of a great generation..

[@Numb3rOn3_]

You can say that again brother!

[@Coldfront-sg3tt]

Basically a psychopath? Men were psychos back then.

[@Numb3rOn3_]

@Coldfront : Clown.

[@kenviegas5903]

1000%

[@voltear]

Yaaa

[@LeCarla]

Never hit ANYONE on their weakness. Not a woman, not a man, not a child….

[@magmminaj6320]

Exactly! This shit got nothing to do with gender!!! And do onto others as you would have them do onto you👍👍👍

[@Indigobaby1111]

Ikr men do this to is ALL the time but women cent fight back cuz then they won't love us? Sorry but where was the love in the first place??????

[@cottoncandy710]

Yes!

[@Danish-ww2jl]

no
it's different with women

[@Shaolin91z]

Thanks Lord for your salvation.
Thanks Lord for your peace
Thanks Lord single no kids

[@bluefury105]

"They NEVER. FORGET IT."
Probably the most real quote ever

[@friendlytank]

she's right. It happened to me and it's a fact. I think about it everyday

[@vinito19]

​@@friendlytank It's time to heal, bro.
It's ok to forgive, as far as you don't forget.

[@friendlytank]

@zabuzalescelerat7254 @vinito19 yeah you're both right I have been healing. I understand the struggles of the female condition in face of the male condition.. buuutt they could be a little friendlier....

[@Efe09695]

​@@vinito19I agree that time heals, but if something like this happens what you will never forget, i think of it like a scar. Time makes it less painful, but the scar will stay. (Idk how true it is what i say tho, i dont have direct experience and i am still quite young.)

[@vinito19]

@@Efe09695 I said forgive and DON'T forget.
Forgive, so you can move on, and don't forget, so you don't repeat the same mistake.
Stay strong, life is but what you make of it.

[@yomomshouse100]

Whenever i was hit at my weakest it always made me realize how little that person actually cares about me.

[@eldorshodiyev8335]

true words

[@xenaburg2362]

My friend hit me when I was weak by involving my sick mother into our argument 😢

[@sweetmeadowmedia]

I agree!

[@uzibitch1]

​@@xenaburg2362 they would no longer be a friend, and they'd also have a beatdown on the way

[@mahatiggy]

​@@xenaburg2362that's fucked. good luck with your mom.

[@outsideview9052]

If a man trusts you with his weakness and you later use that against him, that kind of betrayal can never be overcome. He will never forget that.

[@LostEquation21]

Not only that. He'll never open up to you again. He'll shut u out no matter how much he loves you. I lived it.

[@dylan112588]

This. 💯

[@AnimalLover-xe2cd]

True of woman also

[@thefiretrainer1921]

My ex did that.. i have found a person i can be vulnerable there are great women out there keep the hope up

[@jaheimre9730]

Uhhh yeah. That's exactly what she said.

[@Nakamurayoru]

This is called respecting your partner.

[@dimv2140]

Nah it’s good advise and it works 100% of the time I’ve used it on my make friends my boyfriend and family but no it’s not respect it’s manipulative.

[@EllieMoonHaven]

​@@dimv2140 so stabing your partner in the back and using thier weakness against them isn't manipulative. But respecting someone's boundaries and not attacking them when they reveal themselves to you is?

[@dimv2140]

@@EllieMoonHaven both are manipulative in my book

[@EllieMoonHaven]

@@dimv2140 your delusional if you think that way. I'm sorry life has been this way for you and hope you get help and find true happiness where you don't seek out evil in others kind actions.

[@amala4963]

Exactly, mutual respect 🙏.

[@fearthisgamerneed4gs-skysu485]

An ex got me a job. I don't work there anymore but she filled out the application on indeed and I got the job. Every time we fought she'd bring it up and threaten to call my boss and tell him I was stealing and tell me I was a loser and couldn't even find my own job. That moment plays over in my head from time to time when I'm feeling crappy about something or having a bad day and I tell myself I'm strong and capable and I will never let anyone feel like they have/had control over my life ever again.

[@4LLT0G3TH3R]

That wasn't even a weakness of yours, that was just manipulation and abuse on your ex's part. I'm sorry you didn't deserve that friend, glad things are better now.

[@Amanda-hp4nd]

Sorry to be ‘crappy’ or blunt but don’t let anybody contribute too much to reaching certain goals or getting somewhere.. because then this stuff can happen.. unless ofcourse there are certain circumstances or sudden extreme setbacks where you temporarily have no choice but you could have already looked for your own job found by yourself in stead of staying in the one she ‘gave’ you. People are shit sometimes and when they appear to be shit make sure there’s not too much they can oppress you with… I am sorry you had to go through this manipulation and abuse. It will help you reflect and make different choices though. It is truly a lesson. 💚 Life is about balance and if she gave you a job she thought she was powerful over you and that took your power away. You were treated poorly but still, it hurt you unnecessarily to a certain extent because you just deserve better. Create better by learning from these experiences. I bet you have. I hope you are in a very good place right now after that.

[@therealkflo..]

Same, mine got me a job thru family connections & swore I wouldn't be anywhere in life without her lol

[@bslayedbellydance]

I’m so sorry that happens to you I pray for your strength

[@SeanEnginetechnology]

Amen to all the replies, I too know that abuse and controlling attempts by my ex-wife - I am blessed with 2 of the absolute most beautiful children with her, and some HARD ass lessons of what not to let happen to me because of her evil, cruel ways -- but my babies made all of the suffering worth it, wouldn't change a thing just because of those amazing little girls that call me their father now 💯🙏♥️
God bless you all, and God bless OUR great Country!!

[@darrellbetts837]

My wife said the same thing, bae I know what your weaknesses are. I said you do and she had a whole list. I said why you never told me that you knew that. She said because you tell me In so many was all the time. And then she said, your my partner, my homie, lover, and friend. Why would I hurt you!!!! I hurried up and throw a ring on that beautiful finger. 7 years together 2 years married and many more to come.

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

My fiancé asked me to tell her my story about my ex wife and my daughter, my dreams of raising children under my moral values, my highs and my lows. She behaved amazed at how much I suffered and how amazing I was as a father by all the things I had to endure to travel to see my daughter and visit her. She was good to me, so good to me, man, really good to me, man. Seven months and a half later, I put a ring on her finger and gave her marriage, commitment, a relationship, and we loved each other deeply. She was my wife and I was her man. A year and a half later, she got tired of me being poor and having to support me financially, and of my constant complaints about her bad behavior, about not having any time for us without any interruptions, and about prioritizing her dogs over her marriage. She threw on my face all my past mistakes about my ex wife, daughter, family and other people that I grew close to, made fun of my past, mocked my manhood, and pierced my heart with her rejection and twisting of reality. She was the one who told me "I don't wanna hurt you. I don't wanna make you feel bad. You're the love of my life, my best friend, my husband".
I do wish you the best in your marriage. Love does exist, and there are good women out there who really value the heart of a man. Jah bless!

[@ruben12180]

Bro reading that gave me so much happines. Tell your lady she a real one

[@04foreverinvincible69]

@@ruben12180fa real

[@spacenightmares7767]

I'm glad you put a ring on your partner, brother! If she was like that as your girlfriend, I bet she is even better as your wife. Congratulations, brother! Guard and protect this treasure very well! I hope you're both doing well!

[@GABRIELADAWSON]

CAP lol.

[@queenjesse1000]

If a person hits you where you are weak, they are trying to break you, break your confidence and take your power.

[@leahv.2537]

Nobody can do that without our permission. People willingly give away their power because they don't know any better. But folks better learn fast to become strong, stay strong, build one's self up and direct one's own life and not outsource that to a partner. EVER.
I learned that the hard way in my 20s and needed to take a long time to heal from a relationship that almost destroyed me. I wish I learned this from an early age.

[@pankajsaraf82]

Usually, dominating people have such a mentality to mentally hit you hard...

[@armandobonkes8801]

@@leahv.2537Jesús Christ is our strength and He is the only one to lean upon

[@user-pp4vy5ll7c]

Yes this is very true in my own opinion much like a pimp does to a prostitute sad to say I was raised that you don't put somebody down or treat them like crap to make your own self confidence, feel, public persona & or Big Guy rep or whatever on the streets I believe each and every man and woman in a relationship deserves equal amount of respect like if you don't want to be with a person tell them that in the nicest way possible but don't play with somebody's head just because you can while shredding their heart soul and feelings to a pile of Brokenness for somebody else to deal with it's not right....,....🤷‍♂️

[@2b248]

FAX

[@mariaglass2968]

It's called compassion and respect. No mariage can survive without it

[@silvestre7]

Stop with the compassion bullcrap lol

[@RowanWarren78]

Yes, agreed. My husband is my best friend. Otherwise, our marriage wouldn't thrive.

[@venktesh6600]

what does it mean that "You can get him to do what you need him to do." ? ?

[@staciegarcia7021]

That's a very crucial thing to understand

[@ibnebatuta4868]

Women too have an alpha'e ego many times and many many women have it
İt's in their nature
At the core humans are same, man or women

[@moefun19]

I'm a 45 years old
I'm on my knees trying to tell you and your mother thank you.❤

[@crazytracy71]

The best advice for EVERY WOMAN! I'm a woman, n I've hit a man at his weakest point. I also learned, to NEVER do it again bc it's true. They never forget it, let alone, forgive it.

[@tpwk3321]

When your partner tells you their weakness they trust you not to use it against them

[@kreativeforce532]

Husband

[@najjssxd7357]

​@@kreativeforce532 Wife

[@mg_manishgautam]

But I don’t have a partner 😂

[@TheGreedDemon]

And they destroy them with it. Cause people aren't to be trusted. If I ever date again, as far as they know, I don't have any weaknesses.

[@gulamahmed4773]

You can tell him but not hit him where he is weak , there is a difference

[@sharonshookup]

It's also very important to not make someone "lose face" in public. Some things need to be dealt with privately.

[@awho33]

VERY TRUE

[@iliaselbourji1865]

Pride for men is increased by testosterone... women don't feel the same but sometimes empathy of a woman arrive...
Women dont want a broken man cz they dont know how to treat a broken men...
A woman who know can raise a god...

[@NMSUNSETGOURMET]

​​​@@iliaselbourji1865
A Woman who knows can raise a GOD.
Mary, measuring.
Me as u ring in G.
Kneel to trace picture children.
G is an incomplete whole with one square angle drawn in Earth.
O is a Whole measure.
D is a split whole with two square angles drawn in Earth.
Sacrificed, Holy measured.
Me as u red.
G's us, drawn towards a whole measure with one angle draw in.
Those who don't see are split from argument, being two angles drawn to measure.

[@SerterSerter]

I needed to hear that earlier.

[@hellocolor101llo5]

Silence and secrecy only benefit abusers.

[@nomercy4186]

Her mother was a wise soul

[@user-fp8cm9ro7o]

My ex of 4 years said the most dark things to me that made me feel so broken as a man that I could never love again. To this day at 28 all I ever wanted was a family and kids and she mentally took that from me. I could never open my heart again after the evil things she said and she knows I have nobody or nothing. I was a door mat to someone I gave my all too and I stayed in that toxic relationship because I always felt like nobody else will love me.

[@overit16]

You are giving your ex to much power over your life and happiness. You need to seek counseling. To give up on love because of one evil person is too much. You can't continue to blame someone for your happiness because they won. You have to love yourself 28 is still young. Don't give up. ❤

[@trems8815]

He bro, many have been there. 28 is way to young, way to young to allow someone so cruel to determine your future. Believe me. One day you will thank her and she will envy you. Two songs that helped me. One was Boys 2 Men “I’m doing just fine” .The other was a song by The Natural Four “Try Love Again” ruclips.net/video/al8VilHqAeU/видео.htmlsi=EFMcZnH8Ftrrw3QY both painful but inspiring. All the best

[@funscapeuganda8433]

Heyy bro we as men we understand what you are trying to say here but look. You are giving that person too much power over your life man. You need to let them go and make peace, the world has just to much good to offer you as well, pick your lessons and move on with your life man. Otherwise I pray you get out of that place brother. 💪

[@almadixon-cider31]

She Doesnt Use Her Love To Make Him Weak,
She Uses Love To Keep Him Strong.
-Stevie Wonder

[@blahblah7050]

Never hit anyone where they're weak period

[@brandonalex5593]

A person should never hit someone in an open wound physically or figuratively

[@edmondsaunders7165]

This is obvious, but she's talking about how she's kept her marriage intact for all of these decades. If you're married, you should understand how easy it is for most to go there in an argument.

[@sampsonlittle7368]

That goes both ways.

[@autumnskai6383]

Absolutely goes both ways... A mutual respect is necessary for any relationship, especially marriage. You don't go there and bring up something the person is insecure or struggling with.

[@Wise114]

@@sampsonlittle7368 but we talking about man’s right now for this episode, listen to what her mom said for now

[@cocochocookiedough]

A lot of people do that. I was punched and gang raped by all the members pf my family recently and some "friends". Only figuratively of course.

[@therealkflo..]

I will never forget the things my narc ex used to say to me
No woman will ever catch me that vulnerable again thats for sure

[@0KRJ0]

You have a true super power if you understand this woman

[@YoungMoneyfast7Boss]

Truly

[@vivianbraxton4941]

For real. This point right here is going to far if you ask me. He should t cause you to hit him where it hurts.

[@Gazzza416]

But if you are able to not hit home where he is weak he will grow to love you with all his heary

[@j1thegod]

@@vivianbraxton4941 nah. Many of y’all come from this complex of being physically weaker and insecure to where it makes you overcompensate in arguments. Idk if it’s power lust sometimes because you don’t truly know what it means to wield physically threatening power over others, which means you don’t know how to regulate power. I know a lot of men will relate

[@j1thegod]

Coz I’ll add this, in most cases a man consciously withholds low blows in an argument in preventing the argument escalating unnecessarily. Y’all just be saying anything to feel right even if it means stooping.

[@cantinandaba4419]

Never hit a man where he’s weak
And never neglect a woman when she needs you

[@dave3987]

Men have been told we’re not needed anymore because women are strong and independent. Chivalry is dead

[@cantinandaba4419]

@@dave3987 chivalry is only dead when you stop doing it.

[@putrik6498]

@@dave3987 we are strong and independent because we are neglected

[@futureteacher7986]

​@@dave3987Why can't men get this fact straight that women need men who respects them and emotionally support them.......money is not always the factor

[@itchfinger]

Chivalry is died long ago, but good manners are dying too.

[@kennethmoragne5870]

Her mom was a VERY wise woman. I approve this message...she ain't never lied! 💯%

[@Z-gg3fc]

Yea she is right. Goes for everyone . I know when I’m upset at someone I stick to the situation and talk about it , I never take their weakness and use it against them because I want to hurt them. Once this is done there is no turning back. Sadly I had this done to me and it really hurt. Because it came from someone I loved. Think before you speak people please.

[@CharlesMacro]

I had a woman I really loved who would say evil things when she got mad. I told her no matter how mad I got I would never say hurtful things to a person I claim I love. I stick to the argument but never personally attack. You can't unsay things.

[@tonysmith4091]

There in lies the difference between men and women brother. Men will stick to the argument and if we're wrong, we're wrong. Women will take something that has absolutely nothing to do with the argument and that is personal and that occured 3 years ago and will use it as an ad hominem attack on you when they know they have lost the argument just to get you angry and keep you off track logically.

[@jamespulliam3672]

All facts

[@silentecho8315]

I concure

[@hnn8759]

Same brother

[@danield1051]

So true you can apologize but you can never take back what you say because you already said it

[@stephenmurray9923]

ALLLLL MY LIFE, I never heard a Real WOMAN speak wisdom that touched my heart like she did. Love the soul! Bless You and Yours

[@marskeelove4166]

And it's rare to speak up for men

[@Jah_AP]

Facts

[@Jah_AP]

@@marskeelove4166 facts smh

[@HoMidontplaythat]

Girl it was the piano and the suspenseful music

[@valentinered3657]

@@HoMidontplaythat 😂😂😂😂 Im dead asf and they really added the dark filter 😭

[@maduro169]

My ex wife and got into an argument that started over me not wanting to go to church with her . She got so mad she yelled that our son was not my baby . She later calmed down an said she just wanted to hurt me and that she didn't mean it .I never forgot that .

[@MrDavorinho]

Out of thousands of available psychologists, couples "expert" videos and "charismatic" reunion folks, something honest and down to earth, good old simple plain respect.

[@tigre9271]

This is sooo true. My husband got stopped for a DUI. He had a drink but wasn't drunk. The cops let him call me to pick up his car. And I said I'll be right there. He refused a breathalyzer. The cops explained everything to me and my husband said something that wasn't true that I can't remember. I just remember not contradicting him. They took him to the station and he took the breathalyzer there, and he tested NOT drunk. They let him go but he was still freaked out. He came home and apologized and also thanked me for not getting mad or yelling or scolding him (I never yell at him anyway, but I guess he felt it would be justified in this case). He just appreciated how I was calm and supported him and was there for him. Before the cops put him in the car, I asked the cops if I could hug him, which they let me do.

[@FirstLast-pl3uv]

You're a great person. Everyone needs someone like that.

[@tigre9271]

@@FirstLast-pl3uv Thank you.

[@KingPhill87]

You asked the police to give you permission to hug him when he expected you to yell at him? Wow. Amazing.

[@tigre9271]

@Phill Munyaradzi Yes. He was freaked out. He didn't need someone yelling at him (although I never yell at him anyway). But I also didn't want to come across as mad either. I just stayed calm and assured him I love him and it would be OK. And I would see him soon. I believe times of intense stress show who you really are and a test of a relationship. It was a scary incident, but we came out stronger for it.

[@voltear]

Woooow, thats cool

[@lemonhashberry5799]

Nope... it's truly sad so many men and women abuse their partners verbally. Same goes for parents to kids, family, etc...

[@Pauwwhh]

Yes and then they act like everything is okay it’s disgusting

[@captainrob9044]

Verbal abuse is barely touched on, if ever. Your word (choices) matter!

[@kingdomofblk]

Especially the kids. This is why society has produced soft and abused adults because the parents were weak and abused themselves. The cycle of inflicting pain and despair on others while being in pain and despair, is real and will take God to bring deliverance. Heal the men, the women and the children Father in Jesus name.

[@captainrob9044]

@@kingdomofblk I'm verbally self-abusive which is insane.

[@Rae_Naeee]

Facts

[@krishansingh-ji8tp]

The first time I seen a woman be kind to a man😊

[@CuriositySavedTheCat]

She had a good mother 💯

[@cwillboxer3413]

Facts, I still remember EVERYTHING that my ex said to me when I was struggling to make ends meet 😔

[@alexanderrichie7968]

That shit don't leave you

[@xedasxedas]

I'm just going to sit right here for a while.

[@88trapordie]

@@alexanderrichie7968facts

[@wordtothewise711]

Wife said some foul shit while we were in the car. It cut deeper than anything. Damn near lost focus. Had to pull over and just punch the steering wheel I was so pissed off. It doesn't go away. It just sits in a dark corner. And I know those words exist. If I say something I keep it on topic no matter what. But some women will pull out anything if it helps them take the spotlight off them. It's upsetting

[@tray2885]

@@wordtothewise711keep your head up Brodie I be praying for you🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@osasenagadominion7668]

Thanks for the words of wisdom, never hit a woman where her weakness is too. If a man breaks easily let alone a woman. I wish we treat one another with love and care.

[@livingwithbipolar2]

Men intentionally & unintentionally hit women in their weaknesses all the time. Neither are right.

[@bippitybopitybooty1127]

I really truly believe this comes down to respect, and it's still a huge value of the southeast where I come from. You respect your parents and authority figures. You respect your spouse. You even respect your children.

[@jov2172]

Amen

[@christelwilk6166]

@@bippitybopitybooty1127 Agreed, but your children have to respect you first, that is more important.

[@noname54eeee]

This is conversation about men not women...

[@eugene7101]

I opened up about my weaknesses to my husband and I trusted him. But later I found out he had shared even small things between us to his mother. And she started attacking me with those . I found out she was a narcissistic lady and he was fully in control of her. They literally blamed me for small reasons. And I felt sick and stressed. I was going in depression. But luckily my parents saved me from there. It was 2 years ago. But those incidents never leaves from my mind. Because I believed he was loyal and faithful in our marriage but turned out like this. If someone came to my life again , I don't think I can fully trust and show my weaknesses to that person.

[@jm7578]

A spouse should not do that because after all’s said and done; once a barrier is crossed, coldness sets in.

[@CWMalako91]

It all starts with love. If they don't love you they will attack your weaknesses and sleep like a baby right after.

[@jvillain9946]

So a typical woman

[@user-up4zi1do6p]

That's scary to even think that. Then you are sleeping with someone who doesn't have your back and eventually will turn on you.

[@jamesdawson1171]

Sounds like my ex

[@lisakaye3919]

Totally agree

[@katcraig7525]

Yep. They will exploit them, then cheat on you.

[@mohammadfaiz9116]

I will just thank her for passing this immensely great message to next Generations.

[@Therealgordongekko]

As a man, I will say she is 100% right. Will never forget it and we already know when we fucked up. The last thing we need is a reminder

[@1SeekTruth101]

Yes, we are aware. Problem is they aren't aware of their own sh!t.

[@zaygfazinetto]

Her momma was a wise woman 💯

[@poeticnation6251]

Facts!!!

[@positivelygrowing12321]

Two people a man never forgets. The one who crossed him. And the one who never left his side.

[@s.w.3476]

FACTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!STAND ON IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Hadeshands]

💯

[@cashmoney6935]

This goes for everyone not just men

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Not true. People take kindness and loyalty for granted all the time.

[@BabalonNuit]

Plenty of men have dumped "the one who never left his side". Plenty of women have "stood by their man"- and got this particular kick in the teeth from him. Let's not paint men as these "wronged saints" shall we? After all we have 2000 YEARS of men shitting on women...they are just getting the treatment they doled out to women back in THEIR teeth.

[@mysryuza]

I needed to hear this. Someone I used to look up to hurt me in various ways when I called him out in times where I was vulnerable. I never forgot.

[@mikedwyer2925]

Don't hit anyone where they are weak! Better to help and support the human beings who are trying their best!

[@heniwirihana6322]

"Love does not dishonor others"

[@corwinroberts4756]

Then he will remain weak if you don't say anything.

[@erhiueQWEF]

​@@corwinroberts4756well it's ok to talk about him but the woman in the clip is saying not to use his weakness to hurt him.

[@fmarobase5343]

​@@corwinroberts4756 "You can get him to do what you need him to do"... Meaning there are other ways to rise his awareness of the weakness and work on it, WITHOUT HITTING HIM where he's weak.

[@erichughes8723]

Amen 🙏 to that..

[@ARandomPerson--]

I like that energy. Keep it. Scream it from the roof tops so everybody knows what you are.

[@RichieBagoDonuts]

Your mother is a sage. I hear the same in You. Well Said!

[@natsiejewelry654]

Love and support out black men ♥️💚🖤🇭🇹🔥👍🏽

[@angelsbackgroundsounds]

my grandma from my dad and mom side was the same lol thats why 1 got chop in her head with a matchette and the other run out the house by her husband with a shotgun lmao yaa these women sage af not me though lmao

[@blainebartellsr]

I'm a 51 year old man that just lost it while this replayed. I never realized how deep we bury our feelings and hearts 💔 and realizing there's much more to come out but can't in fear of being a disappointment.

[@1SeekTruth101]

Same thing happened to me. That's how we know this truth is legit.

[@kayreeves2000]

A man sharing his weakness is the ultimate form of trust that even his bros sometimes don't know about him. And if someone attacks and breaks that kind of trust there is no going back.

[@godisgood117]

As a single father of 4 and 2 failed relationships..u never let a women disrespect u..and as a man u never stoop to a scorned woman's level..this woman is a QUEEN

[@brikskwadmafia6526]

absolutely bro. my ex and i had children and always would bash me in front of them and abuse me in so many ways around them and told me ill never be a good father. we broke up. she got evicted with the kids caught a felony charge for assaulting a police officer now shes on the run to a different state and now the kids are traveling the country with her on the run meeting random men on the way. dhs got involved and now im more than likely getting my kids. the kids are everything to her but she doesnt deserve them. this quote couldnt be more true!

[@Alice45894]

True, toxic femininity is as real as toxic masculinity

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

Ofc u let them
As they let u
It’s called marriage
And u learn to get thru things
Not run away
And u DO forgive, not hold grudges
That’s called Grown Up

[@godisgood117]

@@brikskwadmafia6526 I'm sooo sorry u and ur babies gotta go through that brother..got a knot in my throat just readin..i prayed for the best for ur children which is #1..God bless u

[@godisgood117]

@@YeshuaKingMessiah ur right to an extent..i couldn't handle it

[@FirstLast-pl3uv]

She should do more podcasts. She's one of the realest people i've heard speak in a really, really, really long time.

[@isaiahthomas4444]

Who is she?

[@amariantiquity8543]

​@@isaiahthomas4444 Judge Lynn Toler. She had her own TV show in early 00's

[@miamiflutist]

I'm hoping when she decides on what to do, Judge does these here to connect with people and spread healing everywhere

[@oerprd5529]

I think she just recently lost her husband too

[@moeeshangpate6320]

​@@isaiahthomas4444A REAL WOMAN

[@Felipe-zl1rj]

Don't have weaknesses. The only weakness is to be emotionally affectable by what other people do or say.

[@Hawthorneheights888]

This is it right here 💯too many self-made victims in the comments. Also people should take accountability for who they choose to allow in their lives.

[@34BGIRL]

This goes both ways. I agree. Just be there during the good times & stand even stronger with them during their weakest moment

[@Alphadogg27]

Bruh. Shorties be acting like enemies when they get upset with us. I actually had to tell a girl in a previous relationship, “when you’re mad, you act and say things like you’re my enemy.” I said this after we made up from a 3/4 day argument session. I know it sunk in with her cus after I made her aware, she looked shocked and got really quiet and then said “you’re not my enemy.” Simple yall, either y’all fit or you don’t. But don’t fight it. And focus on yourself. The right one will come along and find you.
Shorties will turn into a whole opp when they get mad… know when it’s time to go. this goes for women and men.

[@sebk4980]

Real

[@lostrhodes8244]

💯

[@NorFam]

❤

[@MrKingVulture]

Only wit tha sisters bro

[@rahsunallah2825]

Absolutely true homie!

[@washthehateoff7233]

Your mother was truly something magical.

[@tremell7559]

She wasn't magical for not being a piece of 💩

[@koreypaul6698]

🤩🤩

[@shelleycarrell-fq4mj]

A woman never forgets either

[@Jude13able]

A man never forgets either

[@Billionairemindset_777]

It's a powerful reminder that empathy and respect should guide our actions. Choosing kindness over cruelty leaves a lasting positive impact that's impossible to forget. Thank you for sharing this wisdom.

[@ladylightvybe4138]

That is absolute truth & allows him to maintain his dignity. When you love someone, you support them, not pull them down.

[@daianaxi1295]

Shut up

[@markmessi9020]

Narcissists have entered the chat

[@Shaolin91z]

Thanks Lord for your peace
Thanks Lord for your salvation
Thanks Lord single no kids

[@rachellelingad9698]

Thank you for this message. The Lord has answered my question thru this wise lady. Thank you🙏🏾 💯 Us women are their rib we are supposed to support them no matter what because our men already has to deal with this world the stress that comes in this world.

[@andrewdowns3673]

Yeah, a girl or a woman should never hit a man in his chestnuts. That spot where we men are weak is a no no.

[@bazimyan]

This is absolutely true. And I wouldn't attack my lady where she's weakest either in an argument, never. If you love someone you shouldn't want to intentionally inflict upon them pain. And I could never be with someone who would attack me where I'm lost vulnerable just cause we're in an argument. I'd end the relationship right there because the trust and respect is gone.

[@HIGH_noon]

yeah but most men dont or wont do that to women unless pushed and pushed to breaking point... alot of women feel like one little slight toward them is freedom to go all out on how he this or that, the weak shit... cuz they know we cant resort to violence against them even tho they know its right there and at any time could just come out.
patrice oneal had the best story explaining this... a woman and him got into some road rage shit and he was like she knows she can get away with all this reckless behavior as female but what would happen if i just rage mode on her ass pulled her out the car i bet that tone would change immediatly but the fact she knows that i cant lets her walk around like she a man.

[@ItsMoya15]

Frl bro

[@brianbloomfield4384]

Y would parents do that ?

[@theosaka69]

Great advice.

[@justinberg3616]

She’s specifically talking about being with a man tho. You just weakened what she said.

[@7learthur]

That’s a real woman right there 💯

[@kw1384]

Yes, I believe this. I have never hit my Husband below the belt! Why would I and he is the provider and MY King in our house. This would make him feel as if he is not enough for me and that he couldn't provide for his family. We all have weaknesses but I can have a conversation when we not angry or having a disagreement.❤

[@poojakumari-ci8cx]

He hit me where I was weak, where I was struggling, I was dealing with my own mental demons, n he said to me that I was good for nothing.

[@ElverGalarga58855]

"Everybody makes firewood from a fallen tree"

[@chrischandler5746]

I'm stealing this

[@andresmith3135]

This is the quote I needed to boss up thank you 🙏🏽

[@detroitbling3417]

That quote right there! We’re all guilty if we don’t check ourselves. btw… I’m using this quote. 😉

[@sofeyah8]

I know that’s right, The TRUTH will set us free if we let it~

[@M_P26]

💯

[@couldntcareless2602]

We need more Queens like this to be influencing this generation

[@FrankWolenczak]

Judge Lynne Toller, she used to do Divorce Court

[@Jumpmaster507]

There is nothing more defeating to a man than being rejected by the woman he loves!

[@belle3055]

By they reject a lot of women that love them

[@sicembrace]

I don't let anyone in that deep to tell or show them my weakness. Trusting the wrong ones will get you to trust no one!!

[@darwinhughey3861]

Works both ways!! Great advice in marriage!!

[@Riva2025]

I think the point is that everyone knows that women can be vulnerable or sensitive and will express that, but many don’t realize men can have insecurities too, and being disrespected by the one they love can destroy them inside, even if they don’t cry or show it outwardly.
Because a man may not show it, women say all kinds of hurtful things to get a reaction. They have then ruined their own relationship unknowingly, just to win an argument. Mentally, he’s moved on. You are the enemy.

[@juneelle370]

@@Riva2025 uhhh both sexes know how to give low blows… when you’re a couple, you get to know what hurts people. If you’re decent, you don’t hit where it hurts with the intention TO hurt-ever--even in a fight! Many people save up arrows and then just sling all the have in a battle-figuring whoever does the most damage “wins”. But that is all destructive ego and you can NEVER have a loving relationship with that type of behavior. And no, women aren’t better equipped to handle low blows. It’s destructive to both sexes. Most importantly, GET OUT of a relationship like that. Even someone who “teases” with the intention to hurt… you know they have the intention to hurt if you’ve TOLD them it hurts and they continue.

[@youtubecensoringcomments7427]

Women do this all the time

[@evanweeks8620]

Not now days. Women are men😂 dam sad. Shemen cops are a dam joke. America sucks. Old days was the best

[@mikelugo8983]

I'll never hit my baby when she weak I love and respect her to much.

[@lucydoe1334]

My Korean mother told me the exact same thing. Words of wisdom transcends all boundaries.

[@PisceanDesigner]

Yes it does. Wise women have no boundaries. Their words travel from one end of the earth to the other. 🙌🏾

[@royal_eternal]

❤

[@jaquicx9500]

If you do not tell them about their weaknesses so that they can get an outside perspective, and they do not know they exist, then they can never turn their greatest weaknesses into their greatest strengths.

[@alexandrucornel9221]

​@@jaquicx9500 men are fully aware of their own weaknessess, there is no need to tell them about them, because sometimes the consequences can be fatal

[@vogelfaenger6830]

@@jaquicx9500 do you know how to tell your man his weakness and how he can make this weakness into a strength? You don't. And even if you think otherwise the probability that you are right is too tiny. So you don't.

[@bDz416]

Truer words have never been said.
I've experienced it on countless occasions and because of it, i no longer share certain information with certain people (family specifically for this particular instance), regardless of myself always being an introverted private person from the jump.

[@ferinawega9280]

Respect to each other as a couple ❤❤

[@scotoftheanarchic.7903]

That's so true, you can forgive but you can never forget. It's a low blow to hit anyone so hard nevermind someone who's "supposed" to love and care about you. Respect is the most important thing in a relationship it can endure anything but if there's no respect forget it.🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@andreneal282009]

respect is the most important thing to a man. it's more important than love or sex. A man will never truly feel like a man without respect. Respect is needed by your woman as well but to her the number one thing she needs is that you are the provider. it's not the only thing needed but that is number one. ijs

[@jackboyholla4002]

Facts respect and trust if you ain’t got those you got nothing

[@number1fan262]

​@@andreneal282009 not sure what country you live in, but, as a woman, I speak for the majority of us who don't usually need a man to be a "provider".
We need & would rather he be PRESENT and a PROTECTOR - both and especially emotionally.

[@rayajayce2034]

​@@number1fan262 than you're lucky you haven't been broken yet in the hospital while having his kids. USA: number one out of all developed nations for neonatal, infant and maternal injury and death (and lack of patient rights is the main contributor of this). Once you're that broken and traumatized, you have no choice but to need a "provider." And there i was just thinking I needed someone present.

[@rayajayce2034]

Thank you, whomever reported the pedophile before I did.

[@SethKash]

Your momma was very insightful. I like this thank you.

[@shawngordon6626]

YOU WRIGHT EBONY ❤❤❤

[@PiotrKundu]

We will forget, do to a whole bunch of stuff, and forget the stuff we say, but hit that soft spot we have carried in secret from childhood and we will never forget it. Forgive, maybe, forget never.

[@EthanBurrito15]

And if you complement us it will also live with us forever😢

[@jeffreynapisa122]

That's called respect, that's what else man call respect... You never hit anyone where you know their weakness is no matter who they are

[@sed8181]

This is why men don’t hit below the belt or claw at eyes even when we get into fights with our enemies. Every time I’ve seen a woman fight, they go for weaknesses. You cannot do things like that if you want the relationship to succeed. Man or woman it doesn’t matter, respect needs to be reciprocated.

[@_Hollie_]

@@sed8181yep if you dont want someone to do the same to you then dont do it to them. Im a big believer in karma, not in the sense that you get it back but that your actions will always come back to you. If your feeding out negativity, eventually thats all the university will give you back.

[@JadeTokier]

​@sed8181 you've got to be kidding me. You've met every man? I've mer plenty of men who do just that.

[@wetshart5860]

@@JadeTokiermen don’t pull hair and claw faces like women do in fights, don’t make things up just because you’re offended, why don’t you make like a man and grow a pair😂😂😂

[@jackmurphy8696]

It's tougher for women to learn the basics of human decency but they can learn. Usually takes their life having some amount of struggle for them to get it.

[@mylegacytransformed]

I’ve often said it in these words: “do not ever bruise a man’s ego; not even a young boy’s ego-it sets the stage for his current & future personal & professional success”

[@aybojackson]

THIS that “ yAlL duDEs hOlD oNtO gETtIn hEaRTbRokEN iN 4/5th gRaDE & tuRN sAVagE, nEVa trUsT a bItCh AgaIN iN yO liFE. 4L “🗣😭🗣🤣
Deadass though. It’s the 1st examples & memorabilia of what/here OUR version of that warm, pure, unconditional, vulnerable, starter-kit typa love, got us🤞🏾

[@raheemcamal998]

​@@aybojackson facts

[@kaylacarter8766]

Yikes

[@mylegacytransformed]

@@aybojackson people do need to learn to walk in their healing to effectively move forward in personal and professional relationships

[@aybojackson]

@@mylegacytransformed
SAME-TEAM

[@ellencook3070]

Respect.. No one likes to feel weak.

[@brendanhayward1803]

Your mother taught you well! Hats off to her

[@C-BASS89]

Its true, shes hits home for me. I may foget some things in life but, it has happened to me more than once and it will live me for the rest of my life

[@victoro1373]

Could recall when I said loud to this girl “I am not your enemy” cos it literally felt like it.
Folks need to learn there are certain attitudes you don’t throw off with your partner, no matter how mad you are, it hurts cos they consider you to be a safe space.

[@indiradeja4218]

Both ways

[@MrMAGisG]

Goddamn i felt that. I want a partner not a combatant 🥊

[@Rae_Naeee]

This!!!! That’s how I felt with my ex husband! Felt like I was in a land mine when he would come home! I felt like a unnecessary enemy!

[@Quepsy]

@@Rae_Naeee facts ruclips.net/video/_C0DRYN08jY/видео.html

[@HunnidGorillaxSAVAGE]

Major facts

[@adriannieves1495]

Now that’s a real woman right there, with a mother that raised her right 💯👍🏾👍🏾

[@jujubee2903]

And men need to apply this ideal when it comes to women aswell. It goes both ways.

[@Jo093]

It is better to tell your weakness to domestic animals than peoples.
Bcoz they don't use you as they don't understand it and they love their Master very much and no one can steal that love.

[@Last1toBlast]

I love it. This goes for males & females. Try your best to be a true team mate to one another 👍🏾 ☝🏾

[@LightBeing369]

✌🏼

[@nsasupporter7557]

It’s the same with hitting. I hear all the time “never hit a woman,” you’re not supposed to hit men either! Hello!

[@Last1toBlast]

@@nsasupporter7557 I hit women all the time....when they're naked in my bed.☝🏾

[@Katrn30]

Yes!

[@wmcguire1979]

She's too right. We don't forget.

[@samanthashannon221]

You had a wise mother. Not all of us are blessed with that kind of mother. I pray by the grace of God I can pass this type of wisdom on to my daughter's

[@dereckwarren6276]

she's dropping facts 💯. thank you sister 🙏🏾

[@DefeatLust]

​@Not only a member But the president Everyone manipulates. Everyone. However, her mother's advice is real

[@DefeatLust]

@Not only a member But the president ... sure bro.

[@DefeatLust]

@Not only a member But the president Nah, there's no point in talking with you, little man. You're just not intelligent.
Good luck to you, though 👍🏽

[@greenghost2212]

​@Not only a member But the president your boss is manipulating you to work at the wearhouse for pennies

[@geecheeboycooking751]

They don’t make ‘em like her anymore!!!

[@luvelyjay]

It’s the same for a woman… she may forgive but she NEVER forgets.

[@Joyinthemorn]

Facts

[@tsukujinaan4381]

Whataboutism. Never fails.

[@TheMan-qv1bl]

True but not the same. A man’s pride is different. A woman who foolishly does so risk her life over it.

[@annemarielaluna9350]

​@@TheMan-qv1bl yeah, that's actually men's weakness. Their pride.

[@NicholasVictor-cz1lq]

No,this rule is especially for mens ,not women.

[@alibaptiste687]

Words of wisdom! No lies detected here 😎

[@healthrenovationstation]

The best advise coming from one of the best people.

[@IanOvidBares]

"I know what his weaknesses are... he doesn't even know i know they're there." I legitimately got chills

[@gavincampbell7488]

Best part is that she does know of her man’s short comings. Being the only one with that information, you can do a lot of good, even great things for that man. And in turn, probably be very very happy. It’s the ones that find out this information and use it for the wrong reasons that really drive a man to the edge.

[@Tony_Tucka]

​@@gavincampbell7488 Facts

[@leahflower9924]

I feel like hitting where they are weak can go both ways though like in a lot of toxic relationships each partner plays on the other partner's vulnerabilities to manipulate or blackmail them

[@dash7661]

Best part is you’ll never see a women like that again ! 😅 enjoy gentlemen ur girlfriends probably been run thru ask them about dem holidays 😂

[@dantemagliari1073]

@@dash7661 huge facts. Atleast 95% of the women who we would assume and think of as a classy lady is most likely a liar and cheater at best and if ur really unlucky about 30-35% of these girls are narcissists, but the most unlucky man can be falling in love with a beautiful woman…. She’s got narcissistic personality disorder lol and in this most fucked up situation you will believe to have an amazing trustworthy faithful best friend as the woman who knows you and loves you more than anyone in the world and you believe you obviously know her more than anyone else by far as well. Then it happens. Could be a year, 3 years, 10 years and all the way to 80 years before you find out the truth about the woman who has been sharing your bed, life, family, money, heart,children, shoot even grandchildren you name it. Myself it was after 8 years of this until in one single day I found out the woman that I had committed my life to was never a real person. I have no idea who I was sleeping in bed next to or what else she was planning that she hadn’t already done and pulled off flawlessly. Cheating on me (duh), started stripping lmao she told me she was the bartender (I believed and trusted her I’ve never been a sucker or had to keep tabs on a woman esp if we together if I can’t trust you I’m cool, but that’s also what I was pissed at myself for because I can always read peoples character and I did ignore a couple red flags, then Covid hit and stripping turned into (house calls) so pretty much prostitution now, then I told her to go stay w her grandmother in Michigan because she was very sick and ‘‘twas her favorite person in the world and she helped me take care of my grandma with Alzheimer’s for 3 year outta the 9 I did and she helped me immensely which is why even tho she did me so wrong I’ll always respect and remember that she did that. Bought her a $1500 Louis and she deserved every penny for what she did.. so I tell her to go take care of her grandma now or she will regret it forever and I meant it and knew she would have regret it forever and I trusted her with my whole heart and she instead was staying with a sugar daddy and having a whole other life. She would come visit every week or other week and I was dropping her off at the airport in 30 mins and I asked to use her phone to cash app someone because my phone wasn’t working. Once she gave me her phone I could tell she was hovering around and she had something to hide. So I looked and very first message was everything I had to see. Put her ass outside right away and listened to he me ball like a banshee at 11 pm and finally she called her ass an Uber and got the fuck gone… obviously it’s guys and girls that do this terrible shit.. I had no idea until it happened to me. I’ve always been such a “ladies man” never been a sucker but I was also a gentleman and I didn’t cheat when i decided to have a real relationship I could have just stayed single and continue to be a hoe if I didn’t want a relationship with you.. but anyways. That’s more than y’all needed to hear outta my dumbass I’d say lol. Guys/girls if this happens to you remember they have problems like you couldn’t imagine and it’s 100% them and not you that caused the hell you’ve been through… if you’re going through it still then please do yourself and me a favor and end that shit forever and never look back and stop all contact with that person and work on making yourself whole again and who you are.

[@twill5077]

No one should he hitting where another is weak. It's totally unnecessary and neither party forgets it.

[@kennyhardy1884]

Absolutely! The objective is to build not destroy

[@sylviaj270]

Right. That is like kicking someone when they are down.

[@konkoor881]

well it’s for different reasons for females you can’t do that because one she will lose respect for you, second you want her to rely on you, and u want her to admire and respect you and you don’t want her to feel bad
it’s mens job to make sure women feels safe and peace
and for women it’s their job to make mens lives easier and nurture

[@linkueicatastrophe9727]

That's literally a warfare tactic. It has no place in a relationship lol

[@konkoor881]

@@BrockGarrett-fm9he well that's what YOU think there's only one truth
and men protect, women support and nurture
that's how it goes. simple.

[@itzmezelio5433]

I recently made a comment to an ex-friend of mine. Told him it’s hard for me to be friends with people who are unfaithful (he always cheats on his gf) at the time I didn’t realize the impact of what I said was but it must have sent him into a rage. Shortly after he devised a plan to start a situation where he knew I would react to him. After that he drug my name threw the mud at my workplace. Some people are evil, but be careful to point those things out to them. They would rather be evil than make a positive change for themselves or even worse. They’ll change after they destroyed you for reminding them that they have things to work on.

[@ORUMAITO17]

Im in tears by what she said. Being compared all my life, I was a sheltered and confident boy growing up, it led to some undesireable attitude and immature thinking. This led to me being ridiculed and outcasted for my whole 5 years in boarding school, I only started trying to self-reflect and change in the last 2 years. I am to this day shy and can only act on things I truly care or whats left of it. But I am thankful that I'm still trying each day because for all those criticism there are still a few that believes I can Improve and I will never forsaken them.

[@papayo8178]

Men feel loved through respect, women feel respected through love.

[@kennethwoods2071]

Exactly and if you don't respect he will never love you.and that's is his weakness for you but if you use that against him you have messed up.

[@chrisgreen1989]

Sheeesh I feel that.
My ex called me unreliable and weak because I wasn't paying 100% of her bills while trying to fix her broke ass house using all my money to pay everything I could. I had ZERO money for me or myself. I put all my enjoyment on hold to save money to fix her shit. I stood up to her one day when she said I was unreliable and she couldn't believe I didn't pay for everything.
She told me I had to quit working out because I was trying to impress other women, I had to quit running, I quit fishing, I dedicated all my time and money to fixing her life. And not mine.
She decided to kick me out and I looked at her and said "okay I'll see ya later " now I make 64k a year, I workout, I got a better car, better house, enrolled back in school for another bachelor's, and I still walk into that grocery store she works at and don't say shit to her. But I make sure she notices me. Whose unreliable now.
All she had to do was go 50/50 when I begged for help. But nooooo she had other plans. I shoulda known shit was gone when the kisses changed.

[@KonohazFinest]

Bro we're situation twins lol but also I'm truly glad it worked out for you in the end.

[@troysimmons2742]

God got a real one for you bro pray and stay solid God got you!!

[@chrisgreen1989]

@@KonohazFinest what about you? How are you doing. Things looking up for you friend?

[@chrisgreen1989]

@@troysimmons2742 hey friend I really appreciate it. I keep my head up so I can pay attention to the greatness I will create :) no looking behind, no looking down. I will be the success and greatness I achieve.

[@troysimmons2742]

Yes sir all is well my bro God is good 👍 🙏

[@pousalikonar5030]

I hit him with a truth....because the truth was hurting me....now he left me but i wasn't wrong

[@DeepakSingh-wt3bt]

Never hit someone on their weakness, especially when they can hit back at you.

[@HigherSelfCompanion]

Love your spouses. Love them the way they need to be loved. 🙏🏾

[@frankspikes7858]

Love, encourage, motivate.

[@HigherSelfCompanion]

@Free Spirit 💯

[@marymeeks6680]

@higher self...love them the way they deserve

[@marshawnhester6671]

Fact💯. A red flag is when a woman hits you when you're weak and then forget what she says to you and when you remind her what she said. She acts like you need to get over it and stop letting things get to you( stop be soft)!!. She believes that she can say anything to you, and you should just keep it moving. That means she's not your peace. You can't be vulnerable with her.

[@poeticnation6251]

I been through this - I understand EXACTLY what you mean.

[@johnpre62]

That's called narcissism.

[@MrHutchiemcfly]

Sheeit, replace woman with America and you’ve described how many conservatives view blacks and our history in this country

[@keeroe2020]

Your trained her that's is OK to disrespect you.

[@nicoleraheem1195]

My mom and my ex ! They are just like this
They also said, "Stop playing the victim", when they were the ones that bullied me 😅. Shit is crazy.

[@JenniferSmith-zi7wu]

A true life lesson... growing up in toxic household my tongue use to be so mean and now the guilt