Love this video. My parents actually got divorced and then found God and got married again. They were married for 7 years, got divorced for 6 years and now they have been married again for 12!
To comment on the children that grow up in a divorce household and spouse relationships: I can tell you, the first year of marriage was miserable for me, not because of my husband, but because I saw the true horrible repercussions of my parents divorce when I was 12. (I got married at 21). I was literally reenacting my parents fights, ways they yelled, literal words my mind remembered from their arguments, ways they interacted, all subconsciously. It was scary. But thankfully god has allowed me to let go and heal my heart to be a better spouse and honor my husband.
I was honestly 2-3 weeks away from being divorced in October. We took a marriage class in church and are still trying to figure our way after deciding to reconcile… marriage is definitely not for the faint of heart. Takes a lot!
Jordan and Milena, in addition to the 5 love languages, I think y’all should look into the 16 personalities. It has helped me in SO MANY relationships to understand my friends’ and partner’s thinking processes, why they act how they act, their strength and weaknesses, etc. Once you understand one’s personality on that level you have way more grace towards them as well, you are able to predict what they will do in certain situations or what they really mean, without getting too upset! 🙂
This is exactly what my husband and I are going through. We been through a divorce and got remarried and been on the break of divorce, and now we are working on rebuilding again through God.
So good, so much truth and great advice! I've applied some of these things over the years and I found that pride was the biggest issue. When pride is swallowed and we humble ourselves it makes a huge difference. In the same way when we humble ourselves Infront of the Lord, barriers are broken down
Loving these pods this season 🤍 so relatable in my life. I'm praying for community as a new mom and wife so these have been helpful for me since I don't have the community.. yet 😊
Hey! I absolutely loved this episode as it has practical steps that we can all use in our marriage. My husband and I have a redemption story! Our divorce was literally finalized days before we got remarried! All glory to God!
I’ve been loving these episodes so much! Thank you for sharing! Definitely do similar things in my marriage! I appreciate the vulnerability from y’all!
@@ralieghhm i mean same here! I thought it was cute in the beginning of their podcast but now it is a little distracting. They’ve had this podcast for a long time lol. Because I’ll be interested into what Jordan has to say but sometimes milena will cut him off & sometimes he doesn’t finish his thought
This video came right on time where my husband and I are trying to improve our conflict resolution. Especially with all the baggage I have from my parents toxic relationship ending up in divorce... So this topic 29:00min mark hits hard.
I love that you both are humble enough to work through your problems like this & then still joke about it when you revisit issues for our sake. ❤️ Do you have any advice for couples who have a partner who isn’t as humble/easy to do this with?
Why are all the old ones deleted? And why are the new ones so short😢 it seems you guys aren’t passionate about this anymore, the FB group has basically died down :(
Sometimes Jordan just talks to much or is trying to explain but it’s he just lagggggsssss it and it makes me loose interest in the topic . Sorry I don’t mean to offend but maybe cut down on explaining things Milena perfectly explained in the 1st place .
Love this video. My parents actually got divorced and then found God and got married again. They were married for 7 years, got divorced for 6 years and now they have been married again for 12!
that’s so so beautiful, thank you for sharing🥺
Can you make an episode: boundaries with in law when you have kids
Yessss
Yes pleaseeee!!!
Honestly yes......
Yesssssssss
Yasssssss👏🏻
This episode couldn’t have come at a better time. Currently struggling in my marriage, asking for prayers🙏🏼
To comment on the children that grow up in a divorce household and spouse relationships: I can tell you, the first year of marriage was miserable for me, not because of my husband, but because I saw the true horrible repercussions of my parents divorce when I was 12. (I got married at 21). I was literally reenacting my parents fights, ways they yelled, literal words my mind remembered from their arguments, ways they interacted, all subconsciously. It was scary. But thankfully god has allowed me to let go and heal my heart to be a better spouse and honor my husband.
I resonate with this so much & my husband and I are actually separated now to deal with our own trauma before we destroy our kids and marriage
@@michelleoktober6964 trust in God & he will come through for you both 🤍
Wow, beautiful testimony! Thank you for sharing! ❤
Literally me. Thank you for sharing ❤
I was honestly 2-3 weeks away from being divorced in October. We took a marriage class in church and are still trying to figure our way after deciding to reconcile… marriage is definitely not for the faint of heart. Takes a lot!
I'm going through this right now, hoping to start counseling soon❤️
Jordan and Milena, in addition to the 5 love languages, I think y’all should look into the 16 personalities. It has helped me in SO MANY relationships to understand my friends’ and partner’s thinking processes, why they act how they act, their strength and weaknesses, etc.
Once you understand one’s personality on that level you have way more grace towards them as well, you are able to predict what they will do in certain situations or what they really mean, without getting too upset! 🙂
This is exactly what my husband and I are going through. We been through a divorce and got remarried and been on the break of divorce, and now we are working on rebuilding again through God.
So good, so much truth and great advice! I've applied some of these things over the years and I found that pride was the biggest issue. When pride is swallowed and we humble ourselves it makes a huge difference. In the same way when we humble ourselves Infront of the Lord, barriers are broken down
Loving these pods this season 🤍 so relatable in my life. I'm praying for community as a new mom and wife so these have been helpful for me since I don't have the community.. yet 😊
OMG this has been on my mind for a while. It's so important to know the right way to handle disagreement. Thank u guys for sharing this video
I’m not married yet but enjoy listening to this topic in my season of singleness! Thank you 🙏🏼💗 May God continue to bless your marriage and family.
Hey! I absolutely loved this episode as it has practical steps that we can all use in our marriage. My husband and I have a redemption story! Our divorce was literally finalized days before we got remarried! All glory to God!
Yes!!!! 50+ min!!! So excited for this
Amazing content^_^ Would love to hear aby marriage advice/lessons learned/relationship and how to deal with big life transitions
Hey guys!! What is Jordan’s opinion on Botox and lip filler? As a believer, is he against it? Just want to know Jordan’s view on it!❤️❤️
Posted just in time for me to go to sleep. I love listening to y’all when I rest.
My friend just told me about that Wise Words for Moms!! Going and getting it now because it was so convincing for me as an adult!!
I’ve been loving these episodes so much! Thank you for sharing! Definitely do similar things in my marriage! I appreciate the vulnerability from y’all!
So encouraging! I love listening to your words... full of wisdom, conviction, Scripture, and grace :)
Them interrupting eachother is very distracting.. 🙄😬
I agree! Especially at 8:45
Really?? I love it, It is reminiscent of how my Husband and I communicate when we are excited and passionate about something! It felt organic
@@ralieghhm i mean same here! I thought it was cute in the beginning of their podcast but now it is a little distracting. They’ve had this podcast for a long time lol. Because I’ll be interested into what Jordan has to say but sometimes milena will cut him off & sometimes he doesn’t finish his thought
This video came right on time where my husband and I are trying to improve our conflict resolution. Especially with all the baggage I have from my parents toxic relationship ending up in divorce... So this topic 29:00min mark hits hard.
Highly suggest the book How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich helped my husband and I so much along with the “i feel” statements
I love that you both are humble enough to work through your problems like this & then still joke about it when you revisit issues for our sake. ❤️
Do you have any advice for couples who have a partner who isn’t as humble/easy to do this with?
This was just what I needed to hear!! I’d love for you guys to share specific Bible verses that help teach them self control
God bless you guys! Your podcasts are so insightful!
Thank you for this podcast ❤ please do one on examples of how to serve your spouse.
Great episode! Can you link the study you mentioned?
Advise on how to handle a spouse who has left the faith and now very cold and distant from me ( don’t think he loves me anymore, should I leave)
Thank you for this.. loved it!!❤
Lmao “coming together” 😂 I caught that. 😆
Don't feel petty, Milena... 30 minutes with three little ones is like 3 hours in adult time. 😅❤ Been there with the mad cleaning! Lol
I found myself “Aww-ing” a lot in the last 10 mins of the vid. 😅❤️
What was the day in the life episode that shares how you overcame feeling weird about praying together? Would love to watch it! :)
LOVE THIS TALK!!!!!!!❤️😍
Can you please link the study? ❤
What is the study? Can you link it please
Another amazing podcast! Thank you guys!
Milena, I was wondering what books of Ginger Hubbard you recommend if any?
I miss you guys!!! Please come back soon!!
Generally speaking is it unforgiveness if there isn’t repentance? Asking for a friend 🤔
Where can I find the link for the study that showed the most important bond is between the parents?
The thumbnail is messed up
When i say the timing of this episode 😭
Could you link the chart you have? I’d love to get one to keep on my fridge as well!
Love this
Can you link the study?
Why are all the old ones deleted? And why are the new ones so short😢 it seems you guys aren’t passionate about this anymore, the FB group has basically died down :(
Literally I feel the same way. Maybe because milena gets a lot of hate.
Are you from the Middle East milena? You have beautiful features!
Brazil 😊❤
I think her ancestry is Italian
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My parents separated, but didn't get divorced and God brought them back together and my MIL and FIL did get divorced and got remarried! Lol
One of my fave episodes !!!!!
Sometimes Jordan just talks to much or is trying to explain but it’s he just lagggggsssss it and it makes me loose interest in the topic . Sorry I don’t mean to offend but maybe cut down on explaining things Milena perfectly explained in the 1st place .
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