living alone | adulting and socializing in a new city
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- Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
- I know this transition period is temporary as I continue to challenge my ability to adapt and grow, but opening myself up has been the push of courage that I needed.
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0:00-1:13 good morning
1:13-5:25 making friends as an adult
5:25-7:35 lunch
7:35-8:22 errands
8:22-12:17 social in a new city
12:18-15:21 a semi productive day
15:21-16:09 closing words
#livingalone #makingfriends #cookwithme #easyrecipes #dayinthelife #vlog #howtomakefriends #adulting
Waking up is like going into the great unknown. I have discovered that friendship is fluid and transient these days.
your videos are literally saving me from getting stuck in my lowest points in life
I have your videos on repeat after watching when I'm doing things around the house because of your voice and music choice. Please consider starting a podcast one day!
I find it truly refreshing how you were all honest about feeling nervous when meeting each other. Most of us would try to play it cool and pretend that we're good at meeting new people
OMG I struggled with good friendships all my life, with finding people who wouldn't leave, or were extremely superficial, or ones who wouldn't stab me in the back. All through childhood from 6th grade until the end of uni. And in the last year I FINALLY found good friends, people who actually care, who make me feel like I belong and who finally make me feel seen, held and loved. I just got home after a day hanging out with them and you posted this video and my heart is so full right now
I love the new placement of the bed. It really does seem much cosier 😊
You’ve done an amazing job with the limited space you had in the studio.
Such a dream ❤
aw thank you! The bed definitely a lot cozier here 🥰
you are so bold for being in a new city and meeting new people omg!! speaking about the reality of it is so comforting 🥺❤️
As an adult, I found myself actually making really meaningful friendships at the gym! I would meet people in a group class or someone I saw regularly on the gym floor who were like-minded and eventually made friends.
Almost 90k 👏💛💕
I don’t really like commenting on videos but I just thought that I had to express how much I love your videos, I’m so glad I came across your channel. I always watch your videos and replay them. It makes me want to do better with my life and motivates me to try new things or reassures me that sometimes it’s okay to feel a certain way. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos!
The new friends stuff really hit home loved this video
yess you dropped this while i was doing my hair and needed something to watch lol . i love this video bc being more social has been very big for me lately . im happy you made some good connections with your neighbors !
off of the topic, but gurl!!! your skin is literally so perfect, it's glowing!
My comfort vlog 💖 Thank you for consistently uploading!!
Tam, your heart is so big we see it through the screen
your videos bring me so much comfort, ily💗💗💗
Love your vlogs❤
you make the best comfort, cozy videos.. i be always watching your videos while i eat lunch or dinner hehe
the best videos, the best perspectives, the best heart
Favorite tea is earl grey.
love these videos, so much beautiful work in the editing and paired with the vibe of self-discovery/philosophy I always end your videos feeling refreshed
Thank you so much for posting this! I just moved to a whole new place and was feeling a little weird and nervous. This helped so much!!!
You're living my dream life. I hope you live your life to the fullest ^^ It's so cool to see someone who is out there doing the things you want to do - it keeps me inspired and motivated that I can also one day achieve that goal too.
Oolong tea has my heart. Coffee, sometimes, makes me feel more anxious so tea it is!
We need a skincare vlog. How is your face dewy and glory everyday!
Another Beautiful reassuring and raw video ! , ty for being my comfort Person , keep shinning mama sending u love 🙌🏽💖
i jumped here from the video of you the first day you moved into nyc! i love the new hair color, the new space, and your unattachment as you navigate being what feels like an adult in nyc... i'm in the same boat and its so nice to watch
we could totally be friends Tammy! i feel like there's so much i could learn from you and the conversations we could/would have would be great!
seeing you interacting w new people and trying things out is giving me hope that i can do that too (i think i've been stuck in the state of comfort, it's been about 6 months since ive moved to this new place)! my favorite beverage at the moment has been a tiramisu latte ☕
i loved this video , my fave beverage is an iced matcha
Nice vlog! Love seeing you grow! Can't wait to see what the universe brings to you next!!❤🧡💛💚💙💜💕
my new favorite comfort RUclipsr
Black T ❤️ this video came to me at the right time very comforting just what I needed
My fav tea is chai latte with almond milk
Yet another beautiful video Tâm. I'm so proud of you for stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing everything that comes with it! My favorite drink at the moment - Strawberry Oatmilk Matcha latte 😋
I rly needed this tammy tysm
Lately I have been into getting Lattes sweetened with honey, cinnamon, and vanilla. It makes me feel so cozy
First of all, the red hair is still so stunning on you! The topics that you talk about are so relatable and comforting. I'm glad that you found some people to talk with discovering new people is so challenging. wish you the best tam!
i love cappuccino! also your videos are so nice and especially this one since i’m having trouble making friends so thank you! for showing its possible
immaculate vibes as always Tammy 😌 my favorite drinks are either oat milk matcha lattes with a pinch of cacao powder or just plain ol water.
I wish i could be your friend, but I'm on another part of the globe. Your videos are litteral lifesavers, you are such a comforting person, I absolutely adore you and wish you success and thriving in your precious 20s
“Green Tea Frappuccino w/Vanilla Bean Powder” 🍵 I love you Tam!🤗 This one made me a little emotional…😢 I’ve totally closed myself off to friends (old & new)! Trying to heal past/present traumas🙏🏾 Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing with us! Until next time…💛
You’re always so inspiring!! Resonated w this soooo much - also def get a cat 🩷
new video my life is complete
Would love to see a Japan vlog! Ive wanted to go for soo long and have binged so many travel vlogs🥲 I'd love to see Japan from your pov ♡ i loved your Paris vlogs as well! Regardless of the travel, thank you for all the insightful thoughts you shared. Another great video, thank you for sharing!
i LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH. Also my favourite beverage is hot chocolate. It feels like a warm hug to me.
tammy is almost at 90k!
so wild 🥺🤍
matcha & chai & earl grey tea
this video really resonated with me as someone who moved to the other side of my country where I barely knew anyone. I’ve finally managed to find a group of people that make it feel like home
I really love watching your videos and you really inspired me to start cooking on my own. Can you please make a video talking about how you learned your recipes and how you experiment with the ingredients you have? I'm in my early 20s and learning how to make fresh and delicious recipes while living on my own
very nice
I’m in a similar spot, I just transferred to a new uni and just finished one year. I’ve been a student athlete for 3 years previously so finding a friend group wasn’t difficult. But now I’m just a regular student and I barely made 1 friend in class if that. It’s been pretty hard because I’m comfortable being alone but I’m afraid that I’m too comfortable now.
I don't know you that well, but I already adore you :)
Girl you need to make a podcast! I need to listen to your voice while on a drive! Lol :D I love watching your videos! It seems making friends as an adult wouldn’t be too bad :) ❤
BABES this is such a good topic!! I recently moved to a new city alone and this was what I was wondering. Also I thought you were in NYC? Where did you move for the year?
I am liking Black Cherry Tea lately...and my regular Vanilla & Carmel Oat milk latte hot or iced i love them both
love your videos because I’m moving into my loft soon, may I ask where you got your shelf from by your desk?
she’s baaaaack!
heyyyy 🌹🥰
amo tus videos me
dan ✌️ paz
Tammy u need to update ur amazon fav list 🤞
Wow you jus taught me how too cook with that tuna melt 😮😮😊 reminds me of subway with that tomato 🍅
I would love to see a skincare routine.
Get the kitty! Also, thanks for inspiring me to eat a tuna melt on a baguette, oh my lawd
Mexico (puerto escondido) def your vibe! Highly recommended ! :3
I have a couple favorite drinks😅. Traditional hot matcha no milk, iced chai latte with oat milk, mint tea, and ginger tea with lemon❤️
What im really scared about this of is that when ill go to college, move from my home and my country and probably go to UK, ill need to make friends and talk with people in english and its not my first language, i find hard making new friends in my own language but go there and easily talk with new people in english (mostly in UK since they all speak there fluently), my english isn’t even that bad and i understand it quit good, i watch movies, tv, vidoes, read books and news in english but i cant imagine doing that irl with new people…
People who are patient and genuinely want to be friends with you, will be there to understand your difficulties, accept you, and help you. Remember that. Those are real friends on top of other things!
Taaaaaam Maiiiiiiiii!!!!❤❤❤❤
You’re a 10 ❤️🔥
lemon C2 juice is pretty good
This applies to dating too
First! ❤ love this!
Thank you 💌
where is the easel from for your frame tv?
Where is your easel stand for your frame tv from?
i’ve been meaning to ask what bedding are you using? i’ve been looking for some for my apartment and yours looks so luxe! ❤❤
thank you so much! It’s brooklinen (I have a discount code in my cozy loft update vlog!)
I think Montreal matches your vibe. Would be worth a visit!
I have a good friend there hehe I might need to visit soon!! 😌💌
Been struggling with making friends in my 20s as well and having social anxiety doesn’t help. Sometimes I wonder if I move to a different city/country, would I be more willing to try and this video gives me hope if that were to happen one day!
Also yes to getting a cat. My baby just turned 1 and he’s the best companion ever!
helooo can i get the recipe for the tuna salad something thank you!!!!
i missed a chapter, what city did you move to?!
I love you💔
my favorite average would be anything with apples in them, I had a virgin cocktail once and it was apple based it was DELICIOUS 🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏
Record party!? So interesting! I don’t imagine too many people having records though? Can I bring a CD? 😆
Favorite tea is oolong 🫖 Coffee is currently this blend called “Beekeeper” from Elixir ☕️
I too reorganize my apartment furniture every 48 hours
Come to Japan! We can walk around together and go to some nice cafe. Just don't come right now cause we dying of heat 🫠 (September/October best times)
when u visit warsaw ☕✌🏻
Random question lol but where is your bed frame from? 🥺✨😭
It’s from Floyd!
Thank you!! 🤎
Please come to Japan but not now😂it is too hot here now🥺
For me, I love Vietnam since i went there. I miss banh mi...
I love your vlog🐱🤎Have a great day.
I love u
-Jun
❤❤
Chai Latte
Hello..Haa tuna 🐟 still trying, too have the last swim/word (bubble gibberish) Tomatoes..Yess..Attack of the Killer Tomatoes
Banana peppers, spinach, pepper..my go to. On cheese bread 👍 (not in that order)
Earl Grey.
12:18 You are absolutely jaw-droppingly beautiful
you’re so cute gaaah
get a cat!!!! you won't regret it
thinking about it hardddd 😩🤍
Yes!!!!!!!🐱🐈
Get a 🐈 for a keep your company
I love your videos. I’d love to be friends with you!!$
PLEASE GET A CAT GIRL LOL YOU 🤝 A BRITISH SHORT HAIR or a tabby?!
thank u so much for your videos it make me stay grounded it also make me stop of thinking so much ps i love black tea with milk ❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹❤🩹
I like this style of editing. This was randomly recommended to me and I'm glad that it was. 🧋