Not in my case. As soon as I told my boss I was pregnant he congratulated me and started to give me lighter work and would even let me leave early so I can go home and rest. I am so thankful for that. But no one should ever have to hide it from their boss. Embrace and enjoy your pregnancy to the fullest.
Veronica Flores I also had a positive experience at my workplace. Employers know there are laws to protect employees so making you feel comfortable is their priority.
I feel bad for Adrienne. Fertility issues are no joke... And added to family pressure that we all have, now she has pressure from all of those fans always asking if she's pregnant yet.
Flower Petal yeah it’s rude she has asked that people stop asking. You need to think of the person you don’t know the affect it could have on the person.
It's going to happen. I'm only 22 and just had my first baby. We were NOT preventing it for 5 years if you know what I mean. It doesn't always happen so fast.
She doesn’t have fertility issues, it’s just not working the way they wanted it to. She says it in a video that it’s probably just her age or something but it isn’t fertility issues
Same here I cry everyday I had 4 miscarriages and been with my dude for 13 yrs and all his family and my family a sending on the pressure but they don't understand at all first wen u lose something that's you've wanted for so long it's a disaster and then everyone still on ur back about it its crushing I live it everyday to the point where I just wanna give up on life cause all i wanna do is be a MOTHER i have 11 God kids lol cause i just love children so much
I'm not surprised at this. It's even hard getting your period in the workplace. I get painful cramps and a lot of the other symptoms that come with pms. Sometimes the pills aren't enough but ya still gotta sit there and get through the day. I even get paranoid about taking my bag to the bathroom cause I feel like I'm being judged.
@Chicago Finest First, she never said that having your period at your work place is worse than being pregnant, second, yeah sure you have your period only for a few days but it happens every month, so that argument isn't valid anyway.
@Chicago Finest she didnt say having a period at work is worse than being pregnant at work, I think she was saying that even having a period is bad at work, so being pregnant must be hard.
It depends on the job, you girls are privileged to work on a TV show where you're the main focus. I'm a lawyer and my colleagues feel VERY anxious to tell our manager that they're pregnant. I've been married for 2 years so I want to start a family but because I am pretty new to my job, I don't want to make a bad impression.
Right. This show has 4 female celebrities with only one who had pregnancy experience. She considered her as a role model but actually her life is not very relatable to most of American women. She's been a celebrity since her teenage time and has a great financial status. Other women aren't like that, so most of her preach is seldom practical and useful for other women.
This is so true. I work Corporate at an IT firm and I was nervous to tell people at work too. My company is 80% all men and I was scared nobody was going to be sympathetic about how terrible I was feeling. Luckily they were very accommodating so I am very grateful for that.
Sandra I feel the same, I’m currently looking at law firms for training contracts and one big thing on my list is how they cope and work with pregnant women and people with children. It’s also hard if you’re pregnant in the first few years as that’s when the workload is very heavy and it’s when you make the biggest impression for promotions
Sandra, I'm in school right now studying law and medicine. I hope all things go well, I am manifesting that everything does! Good luck and best wishes.
Anisa Islam good luck! I understand your point. Luckily for you they don’t discriminate gender for training contracts. It also greatly depends on where you work. The previous law firm I worked at was awful in the way they treated me so I’m lucky I’m now at a firm that values me. So be careful with that aspect too!
It's sad that they see men as more of a hardworking parent than a pregnant woman, when they're the ones carrying the baby. They're literally at work with another human being in their belly.
@@deewani5847 I FINALLY became a mom last year at 35. I had a miscarriage at 29 and had surgery for endometriosis years ago. I gave birth to my pandemic baby last Mother's Day💓 I'm praying for any woman who is trying to get pregnant. I was beyond scared but it's so worth it!!!!❤❤❤
I feel blessed, when I told my job I was pregnant they were very understanding and supportive... I ended up miscarrying and even after, they let me to take a week off and offered more time off but I didnt take it
I was emotionally and mentally abused by my boss. When I told her I was pregnant I thought things would change but nope she continued. I sued her for pregnancy discrimination. Praise God he blessed me and now I’m a stay at home mom.
I feel like men at work place maybe a little more understanding than fellow women. Don’t know why that is... We are always just bitching amongst ourselves 🙄🙄
Irene Mwinuka Yes!!! allllll of my male management were so understanding & accommodating.. while the 1 female i had to deal with would make comments when i was back after giving birth. she told my co worker in front of me, you dont have any children right? she said no. she replied good because you wont be tired here at work. 😑
My cousin’s boss is totally different... he gave her less work... he never asked her to stay over time... he always checked on her whether she had her lunch or if she needs anything to eat... he does that to all his pregnant employees...
That's actually very nice of him to do that. Some people may think it's weird cuz he's a man doing that but what's the difference if it was a woman? Props to him for actually caring enough for those expecting mothers
America needs to make it easier for women at the work place. In South Africa you get up to 6 months paid maternity leave and your job is secure till you get back to work. Pregnancy is not looked at in a negative way.
Its funny how Americans often look down on other countries yet yall don't have the basics like Healthcare & solid labour laws. I'm proudly Canadian, over here we get anywhere between 12-18 mnths paid maternity leave😄
My pregnancy was a blessing for my career. When I left for maternity leave my company saw how much work I actually did. Things fell apart while I was gone. Got a promotion the second I came back haha 😆
It's so sad that this is what some many working expecting mothers or mothers in general have to deal with. It's terrible that when a woman wants to start a family of her own she has to take into account how her job will take this and if they will look down on her because she's pregnant. We as a country need to implement more avenues for working expecting mothers or mothers in general. Starting a family is beautiful and you shouldn't have to worry about your job when you do.
I understand your point but to a certain extent, you should. Anything can happen if you have a job and you're trying to start a family. You could lose your job(by either getting fired or quitting on your own)if you have to be a stay at home mom. Or if your employer feels like you won't be able to be there when he or she needs you. Anything can happen. Or your pay and hours could get reduced because you are a parent now. Not saying this is the only way it happens but a lot of factors can determine whether or not you'll keep your job when and if you're trying to start a family.
Marcus Melton I get what you’re saying, but why should your job be in jeopardy when you want to start a family? Why do employers feel like you are no longer fit for the job once they find out that you are expecting and or a mother in general?
Johnnese P I know right!!! If anything I’d want more mothers. They can go off of two minutes of sleep a week, and STILL grow, raise, feed, nurture, WORK, LITERALLY ANYTHING YOU NEED THEY GOT IT. It’s a shame so few people truly know how much work it is to creat and sustain life and even then still be able to beyond excel in your work. It’s not even a sexist issue. It’s scientifically proven that females are hardier, stronger willed mentally and physically (don’t get sick as often, don’t require the same amount of constant care and attention as males), so I don’t understand
100%. I can't afford a pregnancy at the moment. I will be broke AF. Also Cardi B was judged for getting pregnant early in her career. Pregnant shaming is a fact fact.
I can't say I was shamed per say but my husband and I were months in at a new job working in the same place together and when I announced I was pregnant the supervisors initial reaction was that he it was a huge inconvenience for him. He was ticked that he'd have to find a replacement for me once I gave birth. So the rest of my time there I felt like it was a dead end job, like I had one foot out the door even tho I didn't want to leave. I quit two months early bc of health complications and I will say that before I left the staff threw together a beautiful baby shower for me and my husband and I'll never forget how they loved on me. I understand the inconvenience it caused, I just wished that he had congratulated me before making me feel like a pain for be being pregnant.
@Olivia Simmons no one said it was his problem boo. Announcing a pregnancy as working woman shouldn't be a PROBLEM, and therefore a woman shouldn't be shamed for it. Period.
I work for Memorandum Translations in London and we are THE best when it comes to maternity. You get paid leave as soon as you announce that you are pregnant, then an extra 8 months PAID new mother leave to take care of your baby for the first 8 months AND you receive a "welcome baby" package full of gifts and vouchers for your baby. I am so proud to work for this company. It's so important to not waste your time and labour with companies who do not care for new mothers and fathers. Fathers also get paid new father leave and a gift package. #yaaas
I'm a nurse and I didn't tell anyone I was pregnant until I was halfway through my pregnancy. I definitely feel like you get treated differently. Sometimes for the better, and sometimes for the worst. What I hated was when everyone knew I was already really tired but continued to give me the more difficult group of patients or patients they knew were more physically demanding.
y'all can't lie though, there are plenty of jobs that women CANNOT do while pregnant. clearly office jobs or sedentary jobs, or jobs where you're just standing is reasonable...but there are so many jobs that require a lot of physical activity.
Agreed, I just told someone in this comment section of this video that you getting pregnant or trying to start a family will ultimately determine whether or not you keep your job or if you'll be able to work. As you mentioned already, some jobs pregnant women can't do because of the physical requirements. And some they can't do.
This is true. However even jobs that women can do pregnant they are looked down upon. And even the jobs women can't do pregnant they shouldn't be looked down upon but given a leave of absence. There are several European countries that give alot of time for maternity leave. What is the reason America cannot?
@Natasha Williams I think he was trying to say if a women is a construction worker chances are she's going to be let go for pregnancy like let's just keep it real 💯
That is sometimes true. And while my work is done at a desk, while I was pregnant I didn't have any physical limitations. I got lucky, I got to continue doing everything I normally would when not pregnant. So I was literally helping my husband and siblings build a porch for my parents at 20 weeks and then assembling furniture and moving it around at 40 weeks. It really just depends, so automatically saying "You're limited while you're pregnant" is not always the case.
I have a manager at my job who is suppose to give birth on Valentine’s Day n she’s still working till this day. It’s sad but, they shame you for having kids and not having them as well.
I felt pressure to work harder when I worked for a restaurant. The other servers and hosts would make slick remarks like I was getting special treatment. And after, trying to pump breastmilk was almost impossible because they hardly wanted to give the breaks. They eventually started cutting my hours so I quit. Best decision ever
It depends on the job. When I was first pregnant I didn’t tell my job until I was 6 months and showing. I was so scared, and being in the food industry I was so nervous on being less than in my job. With my second pregnancy I was a preschool teacher. I vomited in the trash in front of a classroom full of 4 year olds. That was interesting, haha. Thankfully with my teaching job my teachers aid, and the preschool director were so sweet to me.
lmao😅 this is so sad that at 2:25 jeanie had to say being a mom and pregnant doesn't take away your intelligence of doing your job... it's 2019 people come on
It’s so nice to see that women are becoming more open about fertility struggles. These stories really offer encouragement to others. It’s only a matter of time for you Adrienne.
Hey Adrienne, I'm praying that u will be blessed with a beautiful baby soon. Good things take time. I hope that there are no physical issues hindering your journey
Your industry also makes a huge difference. I was 20 weeks before I told my job.. My regular slacks unzipped weren’t cutting it anymore so it was time for me to switch over to maternity pants 😅. Nevertheless, remember ladies, you’re literally growing a little human, which NO MAN can do. It’s a precious gift. And even still I want to adopt because life is precious and children don’t pick the situations they’re born into
I got pregnant at 18, i dealt with so much hate and discrimination in my work place. I came to work everyday but was throwing up all day, they would refuse me my breaks and would threaten to fire me if i kept getting sick . Not once did i complain though and i would came back from the bathroom and get straight back to work. It got so bad that eventually i sat down with the GM and they basiaclly agreed with my managers they would even hear me out . I ended up quitting.. i then got a really great job offer but needed references, i put that place down because i didnt have many jobs legally they cant aay anything about me personally although they did anyways. They said "yeah that bitch got knocked up" and went off saying a bunch of stuff about me (they didnt tell me in very much detail other than they said terrible things about me). It was just ridiculous, people are so judge mental and rude nowadays..
That’s really horrible and I’m sorry you went through that. Those people should not be in a supervisor position if they are going to say such terrible things and act really discriminatory.
Well, I think we have gotten to use to mothers being the primary caregiver that we forget fathers can be as well. Sometimes I watch The Real and I'm left to think "What bout the fathers?" My mum left me to marry my dad's best friend and my dad took care of me until the day he died. It's acc time that we start to appreciate single fathers as much as we appreciate single mothers
I didn't tell my employer or even family until I was in my second trimester cause I didn't want anyone to know I was pregnant yet, bc what if I miscarried in the first trimester (when it's most likely to happen) it just seemed like a better idea to keep everyone in the dark till the second trimester, but I'm pretty sure my constant morning sickness gave it away.. Cause no one was even surprised when I started telling people lol.
This is so true !!! I’m currently dealing with this now I found out I was pregnant after took a government job and I ended up going on maternity leave two months after I started and I made it a point to hide it until my boss asked me .. but now that I’m out they have been pressuring me to come back and when I had complications I had to stay out longer and my job is really doing the most smh it’s sad and stressful
This is so funny for it to be a topic. I was literally just going through this like last week! I started a new job and I was 3 months pregnant, I didn’t know how to tell my employer because they just hired me and I didn’t want to lose my job. Plus I reallyyyyy love my job, it’s what I went to school for. Thank god, when I told my supervisor , they were very understanding ❤️
Ingris Palacios 😎 SWEETIE...YOU WERE BLESS TOO HAVE A UNDERSTANDING BOSS WERE SHE A FEMALE?...WHY YOU DIDN'T WAIT UNTIL AFTER YOU HAD THE BABY TOO LOOK FOR EMPLOYMENT ?? WHAT IS YOUR PROFESSION MAY I ASK??
Phillips Watson the commissioner of the police department, my mentor, offered me the position. It was a great opportunity for my field and I decided to take it.
Fatouma Yassin if she’s actively trying to get pregnant then she might not be drinking alcohol and might be taking medication in order to help with her fertility. It would be lovely if she IS actually pregnant though🙏🏾🙏🏾
Women that reproduce are at a disadvantage. Last week I was actually offered to start a new job and when I told the owner I was expecting and would be due in April, he said it wouldn't work and rescinded the offer then told me not to come in the next day... It happens, ladies
I am so blessed to have an amazing supervisor, the moment I told her I was pregnant she was super excited and wanted to tell everybody, 😂 everyone that she sees she’s like I’m having another work grand-baby 😍
Yes we are! When I was pregnant with my son, my job cut my hours and refused to train me in another area. I had an emergency c-section and came back to work 6 weeks later to find out I no longer had a job. Especially in the state of Ohio, there is no job security anywhere, especially for pregnant women.
I work at an establishment for 9 years and I told my employers I was pregnant at almost 4 months because I wanted to get over that fearful first trimester before announcing it and by the time I was 5 months they tried to fire me, so I went to the revelant authorities and they had to give me my job back or pay me out, but by that time I didn't want the job anymore because of how I was treated because I was pregnant cause they didn't want to make slight changes to accommodate my pregnancy, so I got paid out and I left the job.
I was fired from a job because I was pregnant. And then when I was hired at Hustler, I was pregnant And hid it til I was 6 months due to past experience from other job.
I feel like they're scared more about not wanting to miss out and not working as hard as usual because of their pregnancy more than about their boss... I mean there are women who feel ashamed , and I don't think any mother or expecting to be should be... because that adds stress and you don't want that... trying to work harder , trying to prove you have the mindset that you are hard worker whether you're pregnant or not...
Myronn Coleman I don't know if women are concerned about missing out or not working as hard, but I've heard stories of woman going out on maternity leave and not having a job when they got back. Obviously it's illegal to get fired for going on maternity leave, but companies will hire a temp that they intend to replace the pregnant woman. When she comes back from maternity leave, they reduce her workload and have the "temp" doing her job. After a while, the woman realizes her services are no longer needed and she has to find a job elsewhere. This happens very often. Employers are very savvy about getting around laws.
I love that Loni brings a “real world” perspective. She has worked and done the 9-5 corporate thing and she understands how many of us average folks feel. Its so nice to feel understood and heard.
I think America is stressing woman out about having babies earlier. When I was growing up, it was normal to see women having babies in their early thirties or late thirties. Now people are having them as a teen or early 20s and are done before the are 30. Then they keep stressing that complications start at 35 and I'm like where? Even seeing some women in their mid 30s and early 40s having kids and people in there 20s are like omg they are old. They must not be if they ste able to carry a baby. How is having a baby in your 30s so suprising and being a grandmother at 30 isn't?🤔
There’s a very important issue that isn’t being addressed here. When a woman becomes pregnant we begin to PLAN. It’s our nature. If the pregnancy is without issue and the mom to be can continue along with her normal Job duties that’s wonderful! As a woman AND a business owner I’ve been on both sides of this. The stress of having to find a person to stand in for a mom while they take maternity leave can be difficult but with proper planning it can work. Now what comes AFTER that child arrives is what your boss is REALLY focusing on. Sick kids, snow days, school holidays, sitters calling off ect. It comes with the territory, we all know it. BUT, it usually comes down to the MOM to figure it out and organize how to “make it work”. Even when it’s a two parent home, the mom is typically the one having to make a few calls, see who can pickup the kids, drop them off, stay with them a couple of hours, seeing if she can go in late or leave a bit early. Men, are typically less prone to offer to step up and call off from work because as a society we are taught by example that his place is working and ours is with the kids. Now I’m not talking about the rare dads that exist and truly parent 50/50. Obviously they exist but let’s be REAL here, it’s not the typical situation. I’ve been married 10 years. We have a 7 year old. My husband is great! He cooks and cleans as much as I do. I work early so he’s the one who gets our son up, dressed, fed and out the door for school everyday. BUT, god forbid this kid sneezes! He will look at me in a heartbeat and say “ well obviously I can’t call off.” Men are looked down upon by other men when they step up in this manor. Disagree? Go to your HR Department and ask how many men have taken Paternity Leave? According to the Family Medical Leave Act, men have just as much legal right to take off as women do but they don’t. Now imagine yourself at work and you look around and go, “ Hey Steve is out again today. Anybody know what’s up? “ They answer, “ Oh yeahhhhh, he took off a month for paternity leave.” Most people’s reaction would be that of shock. We just aren’t there yet as a societal norm and THAT is where the true issue is.
My boss was the first to know out of everyone I worked with. For me I felt that because I was pregnant i needed to step it up I didn't want being pregnant an excuse to work my best.. I went to work everyday until the day my water broke. I still went to work with my horrible morning sickness.
In my case I told everyone at my work which was Wal-Mart here in Oceanside California that I was pregnant and they seemed very welcoming till I got fired due to my pregnancy of me being sick all the time .
Lol at my first job at the Mentor Network it took 2 months to get the nursing room ready I was pumping in a closet with a desk chair only and when I followed up after a month I was told “things take time you’re going to have to sit tight” lmao the stress caused me to stop producing milk for my son that had surgery mind you this is a healthcare company and corporate at that & when I was taking a nap at my desk 8 months pregnant someone complained to my manager and she told me to take a nap in the BREAK ROOM or the BATHROOM my coworkers flipped out cus there were 2 other recent preggers too 🤣🤣🤣
@Olivia Simmons I was on break you WHOLE DUMMY! when did I claim equality? when did I claim to a feminist? watch ya fucking mouth before somebody else breaks it in the future making assumptions out ya neck. A WOMAN IS THE REASON YOU ARE HERE SO HOW DARE YOU DISCREDIT THAT SHAME ON YOU AND your existence and any breed you may have. SHAME no your mother and any breeder in your bloodline you are a disgrace to human society.
I'm so thankful that the aviation company I work for did not just look at our Manufacturing Engineer as like a pain or loss because she was pregnant. She actually got promoted to the Production Supervisor (SUPER well deserved) in the last 3 weeks before she was due to go on maternity leave. She is coming back in the second week of April from maternity leave and we are so freaking proud and excited for her. 😁💪🏻💖🛩
Actually, in Washington state in 2008 I was fired under false accusations once I told my employer I was pregnant. At the time, I found out the law was I had to work there for 1 year before the pregnancy, in order to be "safe". So, I was fired...
My sister got hired at Subway and she just found out she was 2 months pregnant... she worked a WEEK to then get FIRED all because he found out she was pregnant!! So ignorant!
Exactly how I feel. I am an electrical engineer and even though they have laws I feel as when my husband and I do plan on having a child I will be treated differently and will not be given certain projects to work on🙁
Im sorry but yeah Tam was pregnant but like i dontknow that much about show bussines but its a talk show its different than being a teacher, enginer, managers and those kind of jobs like...
I work with attorneys and I don't have an office, so they designated one of the part time staff member's office my pumping room. They put blue paper over the windows and everything. It's so funny when we are there at the same time on Fridays. everyone go out of their way to make him leave the office for me. And he rushes out of there like it's an emergency 😆
My sister is a supervisor and got pregnant a couple months after her assistant supervisor. Their timeline was lined up perfectly and it was unplanned. When her assistant went on maternity leave my sister was still there and when her assistant came back, it was her turn to hold down the fort.
My mom had just gotten a new job closer to home. She found out she was pregnant . We lived in Texas at the time and in Texas there’s a 90 day “trial” for the employers to choose to keep you or let you go. She worked at a clinic so her office was next a doctor and she had morning sickness bad. The doctor announced her pregnancy without even asking her. But it was on the 92cnd day so she didn’t get let go
I will say it's all up to God.... he is the only one who knows when the time is right! My sis thought she wasnt able to carry but when she turn 30 she got pregnant. I have 4 of my own but b4 I had my last I had a miscarriage and at that time, time was ruff.... and once things calmed down I got pregnant again.... God does things for a reason and he knows when its time!!!!
I work in a hospital total patient care and while pregnant I had to be honest and tell my manager. She did not care. The staff made it worse for me. I had to go to HR. It is absolutely sad even with a Drs note with strict precautions. I ended up in the ER at my own hospital. smh
Hell yea I was afraid! I hid mine for 8 months and the blessing in all of it was I physically never showed; I wore my regular clothes (and I was very tiny) my ENTIRE pregnancy, never had to buy any maternity clothing, started to show (but the smallest bump) in my 9th month so just wore leggings with a sweater. I delivered at 104 lbs, went home 2 days later at 90lbs.
I am 33 weeks pregnant. I had to get a letter from my dr stating that I couldn’t lift certain weigh my because I do work at the airport, they wanted me to lift bags during my pregancy and I wasn’t going to loose my baby and my well being. It’s hard working pregnant
Olivia Simmons first of all I’m not complaining but like most people we have to work and I’m not saying working while pregnant is bad. And my husband does provide for me, but I’m not gonna be the type of women who stays home while her husband pays her bills. I do work too and I’ve learned that marriage is a team. Sorry if you don’t agree with me. Have a nice day and God bless you.
Olivia Simmons i didn’t get knocked up I am happily married thank you very much and first of all you don’t know my life, so why don’t you move on with yours, I made a comment if you took that as an opportunity to offend me then that’s your problems. You took the comment I posted the wrong way. But hey it’s the internet. That’s what people do. And I won’t sit here and argue with a compete stranger. ✌🏼
Well, you see me. I am gonna be working while pregnant. I'm not gonna let my pregnancy stop me from making my smoney. They gonna know I'm pregnant. I'm gonna be feirce and pregnant so with that being said. I'm gonna be pumping and cooking on the job. Much love, BossladyK
I said the EXACT same thing. Unfortunately you DO NOT always have control of what your body goes through and how the hormone change effects it. You may be uncontrollably tired, sick, throwing up DAY and NIGHT ALL the way through your pregnancy! Even if you want to work, your boss will tell you to go HOME!
Did she say Bright Horizons? I think this is crazy! I work for that company and we actually just had a teacher that hide her whole pregnancy until the day she gave birth. I am not sure why, but I think it is crazy how this happened within the company that made the study. I wonder if women does this because people treat the different once they know that pregnant. I worked with a pregnant teacher before and I did not want her to do anything but she always insisted that she could do it. After this experience I learned to always ask her first. Just because she is pregnant do not mean she is not capable of doing the things she did while she was not pregnant.
I’m currently pregnant and got my job while pregnant but didn’t say anything until I had the jobs and people asked me . I was really scared of being discriminated against
With my first I had just got a job as a server and literally found out I was pregnant right after I passed my training. I was nervous to tell my manager. One of my coworkers who was excited for me let it slip one day in the office but it all worked out
Jeannie's story is so reflective of how God women are! We all deserve to be treated with respect and love 🌸 *We are the welcoming nurturing space for all human beings that have excited and ever will!*
My job didn’t let me take time off when I had a miscarriage I had to call out and I’d get lectured about it. They didn’t believe me whenever I had to have a D&C at the hospital so I had to bring copies of paperwork for them to make copies of and had to have the surgeon call them to confirm. Two days later I was scheduled. I called off. The following week I showed up to work and was in a bad mood and an emotional wreck because the managers blabbed to all the other employees about my miscarriage and everyone was asking me about it. The manager pulled me aside and said I needed to fix my attitude and sent me home. She took me off the schedule for that whole week. I was basically fired because I had to “call in so many times” when if they would’ve given me enough time to gather myself and understand I just lost a baby at 16 weeks pregnant I would’ve thrived so much more at work. They were so toxic. In the end it was a blessing in disguise that I got let go from there. I’m now 25 weeks pregnant and felt very intimidated to let the new job I got know that I was pregnant. I didn’t tell them until I was 19 weeks along in fear of them giving me less hours or talking bad about me behind my back. I now work from home but it’s a serious problem! They put in their contract that they don’t discriminate against pregnant women but their energy makes you definitely feel otherwise!
she always makes those faces. since season 1. She probably thinks she looks more engaged in the conversation or that she looks smart. it's quite annoying, indeed!
Awww Hell Naw!! It is a gift! And should be showered with love n respect! This negativity affects the fetus/baby and is sure as hell not needed!! All mom's to be!! Please get your AWSOME blessed to be pregnant selves on to WORK 😍😍😍😍
I love the show because of this diversity it’s my favorite show to watch I watch you guys every single day it is so amazing to just hear different opinions and different backgrounds and different ethnicity. one thing that you guys are missing well let me rephrase that one thing that I would love to see on daytime television is a Muslim woman with hijab on that would change a lot of accusations towards us and it will show America what Muslim stand by right now 🙏 love you the real
Yeah, I work in the corporate world. I'm not married yet or have kids but I can imagine that it will be difficult to tell my boss when that point comes.
Women are more likely to take off work for events for their children or appointments or whatever, and they should. Nothing can replace a good mother. That being said, there should obviously be more accomodations and understanding for the people bearing and raising the next generation.
I’m dealing with this right now. Just finished my MBA and I’m so scared to find a great job. I’m 5 months pregnant.. someone told me that pretty much only a temp job would be willing to hire me. ☹️
Gee Gar I hope that’s not the case! I’ve worked so hard in school and in my career. I need to provide for my family and we all need good healthcare. Worse case/best case scenario I will start my own business!
I actually had a boss tell me how inconvenient it was for him that I decided to have a baby. I didn't take a single day off while pregnant. And I scheduled my c-section around the weeks we had off for the holidays.
I was fired because of my pregnancy. I filled unemployment, they fought it, but I won! I was going to pursue legal action but I had some complications towards the end and didn't want any added stress.
My sister got a job at Payless Shoes and was 1 month pregnant when we got hired. After she told her co worker they let her go about a week later stating it was her “performance” and she was just in a 90 day probation period.
When I found out I was pregnant I was working at a call center here in Jamaica its an international one. When I told my manager she seemed to change instantly and they'd just start doing things to make the job even more stressful for me even went as far as putting in lies in a report. After the security personnels conducted their investigation using footage on a camera they realised the report didn't add up. They made the whole experience so stressful for me. When it really started affecting me I just took 3months of medical leave of absence which time I did not get paid
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Not in my case. As soon as I told my boss I was pregnant he congratulated me and started to give me lighter work and would even let me leave early so I can go home and rest. I am so thankful for that. But no one should ever have to hide it from their boss. Embrace and enjoy your pregnancy to the fullest.
Veronica Flores where do you work friend?
You Tube it’s rare lmao
@@mireillepasgo8847 I work at a warehouse
Veronica Flores I also had a positive experience at my workplace. Employers know there are laws to protect employees so making you feel comfortable is their priority.
T Y yeah it’s real privilege to be oppressed for hundreds of years 🙄
I feel bad for Adrienne. Fertility issues are no joke... And added to family pressure that we all have, now she has pressure from all of those fans always asking if she's pregnant yet.
Flower Petal yeah it’s rude she has asked that people stop asking. You need to think of the person you don’t know the affect it could have on the person.
It's going to happen. I'm only 22 and just had my first baby. We were NOT preventing it for 5 years if you know what I mean. It doesn't always happen so fast.
She doesn’t have fertility issues, it’s just not working the way they wanted it to. She says it in a video that it’s probably just her age or something but it isn’t fertility issues
Ona Hooper I wasn’t saying it was fertility issues but still rude.
Same here I cry everyday I had 4 miscarriages and been with my dude for 13 yrs and all his family and my family a sending on the pressure but they don't understand at all first wen u lose something that's you've wanted for so long it's a disaster and then everyone still on ur back about it its crushing I live it everyday to the point where I just wanna give up on life cause all i wanna do is be a MOTHER i have 11 God kids lol cause i just love children so much
Once them 3 months hit. I'm telling THE WHOLE STAFF I'm pregnant.
I'm not surprised at this. It's even hard getting your period in the workplace. I get painful cramps and a lot of the other symptoms that come with pms. Sometimes the pills aren't enough but ya still gotta sit there and get through the day. I even get paranoid about taking my bag to the bathroom cause I feel like I'm being judged.
@Chicago Finest First, she never said that having your period at your work place is worse than being pregnant, second, yeah sure you have your period only for a few days but it happens every month, so that argument isn't valid anyway.
@@elenigalanis3645 well said
@Chicago Finest she didnt say having a period at work is worse than being pregnant at work, I think she was saying that even having a period is bad at work, so being pregnant must be hard.
@@elenigalanis3645 Thanks Emma:)
@@jferguson2372 Thank you for capturing what I meant:)
It depends on the job, you girls are privileged to work on a TV show where you're the main focus. I'm a lawyer and my colleagues feel VERY anxious to tell our manager that they're pregnant. I've been married for 2 years so I want to start a family but because I am pretty new to my job, I don't want to make a bad impression.
Right. This show has 4 female celebrities with only one who had pregnancy experience. She considered her as a role model but actually her life is not very relatable to most of American women. She's been a celebrity since her teenage time and has a great financial status. Other women aren't like that, so most of her preach is seldom practical and useful for other women.
This is so true. I work Corporate at an IT firm and I was nervous to tell people at work too. My company is 80% all men and I was scared nobody was going to be sympathetic about how terrible I was feeling. Luckily they were very accommodating so I am very grateful for that.
Sandra I feel the same, I’m currently looking at law firms for training contracts and one big thing on my list is how they cope and work with pregnant women and people with children. It’s also hard if you’re pregnant in the first few years as that’s when the workload is very heavy and it’s when you make the biggest impression for promotions
Sandra, I'm in school right now studying law and medicine. I hope all things go well, I am manifesting that everything does! Good luck and best wishes.
Anisa Islam good luck! I understand your point. Luckily for you they don’t discriminate gender for training contracts. It also greatly depends on where you work. The previous law firm I worked at was awful in the way they treated me so I’m lucky I’m now at a firm that values me. So be careful with that aspect too!
It's sad that they see men as more of a hardworking parent than a pregnant woman, when they're the ones carrying the baby. They're literally at work with another human being in their belly.
I absolutely cannot wait for Adrienne to get pregnant! 🤗😍❤️
she has hashimoto, it is difficult to get pregnant. i hope we will hear the good news soon :) #pandemicbaby
Ov hmph y y y yay ughhhhh bc
@@deewani5847 I FINALLY became a mom last year at 35. I had a miscarriage at 29 and had surgery for endometriosis years ago. I gave birth to my pandemic baby last Mother's Day💓 I'm praying for any woman who is trying to get pregnant. I was beyond scared but it's so worth it!!!!❤❤❤
I feel blessed, when I told my job I was pregnant they were very understanding and supportive... I ended up miscarrying and even after, they let me to take a week off and offered more time off but I didnt take it
Sorry for your lose, its great to have a good work environment
I hope you have one at home as well!
Dridri1212 sorry for your loss
Dridri1212 Sorry for your loss
I was emotionally and mentally abused by my boss. When I told her I was pregnant I thought things would change but nope she continued. I sued her for pregnancy discrimination. Praise God he blessed me and now I’m a stay at home mom.
Very sad when it's other women who bully pregnant women. I'm glad you were blessed after.
Cynthia Esparza May I ask how she mentally abused you, did you eventually quit?
I feel like men at work place maybe a little more understanding than fellow women. Don’t know why that is... We are always just bitching amongst ourselves 🙄🙄
Irene Mwinuka Yes!!! allllll of my male management were so understanding & accommodating.. while the 1 female i had to deal with would make comments when i was back after giving birth. she told my co worker in front of me, you dont have any children right? she said no. she replied good because you wont be tired here at work. 😑
@@Nash0303 cuz women are incapable leading
My cousin’s boss is totally different... he gave her less work... he never asked her to stay over time... he always checked on her whether she had her lunch or if she needs anything to eat... he does that to all his pregnant employees...
Olivia Simmons their man ?
Olivia Simmons ooooooo sorry I was bit lost 😂
That's actually very nice of him to do that. Some people may think it's weird cuz he's a man doing that but what's the difference if it was a woman? Props to him for actually caring enough for those expecting mothers
America needs to make it easier for women at the work place. In South Africa you get up to 6 months paid maternity leave and your job is secure till you get back to work. Pregnancy is not looked at in a negative way.
Presantha Pillay yes we do and it gives us a peace of mind
Yeah we are awesome like that. I'm craving maternity leave without the baby lol
same in Denmark for both women and men, it really depends how long but sometimes it goes up to 1 year, and you still get paid.
Its funny how Americans often look down on other countries yet yall don't have the basics like Healthcare & solid labour laws. I'm proudly Canadian, over here we get anywhere between 12-18 mnths paid maternity leave😄
Same as the uk x 🤍🇬🇧
America is fucked up, in that department xx
Same with Sweden America is a third world country with a Gucci belt
Canada 4 life🙌🏾🙌🏾
My pregnancy was a blessing for my career. When I left for maternity leave my company saw how much work I actually did. Things fell apart while I was gone. Got a promotion the second I came back haha 😆
It's so sad that this is what some many working expecting mothers or mothers in general have to deal with. It's terrible that when a woman wants to start a family of her own she has to take into account how her job will take this and if they will look down on her because she's pregnant. We as a country need to implement more avenues for working expecting mothers or mothers in general. Starting a family is beautiful and you shouldn't have to worry about your job when you do.
I understand your point but to a certain extent, you should. Anything can happen if you have a job and you're trying to start a family. You could lose your job(by either getting fired or quitting on your own)if you have to be a stay at home mom. Or if your employer feels like you won't be able to be there when he or she needs you. Anything can happen. Or your pay and hours could get reduced because you are a parent now. Not saying this is the only way it happens but a lot of factors can determine whether or not you'll keep your job when and if you're trying to start a family.
Marcus Melton I get what you’re saying, but why should your job be in jeopardy when you want to start a family? Why do employers feel like you are no longer fit for the job once they find out that you are expecting and or a mother in general?
Johnnese P I know right!!! If anything I’d want more mothers. They can go off of two minutes of sleep a week, and STILL grow, raise, feed, nurture, WORK, LITERALLY ANYTHING YOU NEED THEY GOT IT. It’s a shame so few people truly know how much work it is to creat and sustain life and even then still be able to beyond excel in your work. It’s not even a sexist issue. It’s scientifically proven that females are hardier, stronger willed mentally and physically (don’t get sick as often, don’t require the same amount of constant care and attention as males), so I don’t understand
100%. I can't afford a pregnancy at the moment. I will be broke AF. Also Cardi B was judged for getting pregnant early in her career. Pregnant shaming is a fact fact.
I can't say I was shamed per say but my husband and I were months in at a new job working in the same place together and when I announced I was pregnant the supervisors initial reaction was that he it was a huge inconvenience for him. He was ticked that he'd have to find a replacement for me once I gave birth. So the rest of my time there I felt like it was a dead end job, like I had one foot out the door even tho I didn't want to leave. I quit two months early bc of health complications and I will say that before I left the staff threw together a beautiful baby shower for me and my husband and I'll never forget how they loved on me. I understand the inconvenience it caused, I just wished that he had congratulated me before making me feel like a pain for be being pregnant.
@Olivia Simmons no one said it was his problem boo. Announcing a pregnancy as working woman shouldn't be a PROBLEM, and therefore a woman shouldn't be shamed for it. Period.
I work for Memorandum Translations in London and we are THE best when it comes to maternity. You get paid leave as soon as you announce that you are pregnant, then an extra 8 months PAID new mother leave to take care of your baby for the first 8 months AND you receive a "welcome baby" package full of gifts and vouchers for your baby. I am so proud to work for this company. It's so important to not waste your time and labour with companies who do not care for new mothers and fathers. Fathers also get paid new father leave and a gift package. #yaaas
I'm a nurse and I didn't tell anyone I was pregnant until I was halfway through my pregnancy. I definitely feel like you get treated differently. Sometimes for the better, and sometimes for the worst. What I hated was when everyone knew I was already really tired but continued to give me the more difficult group of patients or patients they knew were more physically demanding.
y'all can't lie though, there are plenty of jobs that women CANNOT do while pregnant. clearly office jobs or sedentary jobs, or jobs where you're just standing is reasonable...but there are so many jobs that require a lot of physical activity.
Agreed, I just told someone in this comment section of this video that you getting pregnant or trying to start a family will ultimately determine whether or not you keep your job or if you'll be able to work. As you mentioned already, some jobs pregnant women can't do because of the physical requirements. And some they can't do.
This is true. However even jobs that women can do pregnant they are looked down upon. And even the jobs women can't do pregnant they shouldn't be looked down upon but given a leave of absence. There are several European countries that give alot of time for maternity leave. What is the reason America cannot?
@Natasha Williams I think he was trying to say if a women is a construction worker chances are she's going to be let go for pregnancy like let's just keep it real 💯
My job is one that i wouldn't be able to do fully while pregnant. I'm a mobile groomer and work alone so that would be tough.
That is sometimes true. And while my work is done at a desk, while I was pregnant I didn't have any physical limitations. I got lucky, I got to continue doing everything I normally would when not pregnant. So I was literally helping my husband and siblings build a porch for my parents at 20 weeks and then assembling furniture and moving it around at 40 weeks. It really just depends, so automatically saying "You're limited while you're pregnant" is not always the case.
I have a manager at my job who is suppose to give birth on Valentine’s Day n she’s still working till this day. It’s sad but, they shame you for having kids and not having them as well.
You're damned if you do, and damned if you dont. Sad reality.
I felt pressure to work harder when I worked for a restaurant. The other servers and hosts would make slick remarks like I was getting special treatment. And after, trying to pump breastmilk was almost impossible because they hardly wanted to give the breaks. They eventually started cutting my hours so I quit. Best decision ever
It depends on the job. When I was first pregnant I didn’t tell my job until I was 6 months and showing. I was so scared, and being in the food industry I was so nervous on being less than in my job.
With my second pregnancy I was a preschool teacher. I vomited in the trash in front of a classroom full of 4 year olds. That was interesting, haha. Thankfully with my teaching job my teachers aid, and the preschool director were so sweet to me.
lmao😅 this is so sad that at 2:25 jeanie had to say being a mom and pregnant doesn't take away your intelligence of doing your job... it's 2019 people come on
It’s so nice to see that women are becoming more open about fertility struggles. These stories really offer encouragement to others. It’s only a matter of time for you Adrienne.
Why... I am 24wk pregnant and also student of medicine.... sooo happy and I live my life normal... Be proud your diamond and don't shy 💪💪
Omg, how r u doing it? I'm trying to get into the program and am nervous.
Good luck with that girl
Hey Adrienne, I'm praying that u will be blessed with a beautiful baby soon. Good things take time. I hope that there are no physical issues hindering your journey
Your industry also makes a huge difference. I was 20 weeks before I told my job.. My regular slacks unzipped weren’t cutting it anymore so it was time for me to switch over to maternity pants 😅. Nevertheless, remember ladies, you’re literally growing a little human, which NO MAN can do. It’s a precious gift. And even still I want to adopt because life is precious and children don’t pick the situations they’re born into
I got pregnant at 18, i dealt with so much hate and discrimination in my work place. I came to work everyday but was throwing up all day, they would refuse me my breaks and would threaten to fire me if i kept getting sick . Not once did i complain though and i would came back from the bathroom and get straight back to work. It got so bad that eventually i sat down with the GM and they basiaclly agreed with my managers they would even hear me out . I ended up quitting.. i then got a really great job offer but needed references, i put that place down because i didnt have many jobs legally they cant aay anything about me personally although they did anyways. They said "yeah that bitch got knocked up" and went off saying a bunch of stuff about me (they didnt tell me in very much detail other than they said terrible things about me). It was just ridiculous, people are so judge mental and rude nowadays..
That’s really horrible and I’m sorry you went through that. Those people should not be in a supervisor position if they are going to say such terrible things and act really discriminatory.
@@2glamgal the craziest part is she was getting her masters in psychology to be a therapist
Haily Parker wow. i cant believe people act this way. they must have had miserable personal lives.
@T Y well, most 18 year olds don't have a steady source of income. You can't blame her for needing to work because of the economic times.
Well, I think we have gotten to use to mothers being the primary caregiver that we forget fathers can be as well. Sometimes I watch The Real and I'm left to think "What bout the fathers?" My mum left me to marry my dad's best friend and my dad took care of me until the day he died. It's acc time that we start to appreciate single fathers as much as we appreciate single mothers
They even stopped giving us maternity leave at my job 😒 so god forbid you’re a single mom and now you’re home for 2 months with no money at all.
How is that even legal??
Love everything you’re saying Jeannie 💜
And yes Adrienne, it’s crazy. I can relate 🖤
I didn't tell my employer or even family until I was in my second trimester cause I didn't want anyone to know I was pregnant yet, bc what if I miscarried in the first trimester (when it's most likely to happen) it just seemed like a better idea to keep everyone in the dark till the second trimester, but I'm pretty sure my constant morning sickness gave it away.. Cause no one was even surprised when I started telling people lol.
This is so true !!! I’m currently dealing with this now I found out I was pregnant after took a government job and I ended up going on maternity leave two months after I started and I made it a point to hide it until my boss asked me .. but now that I’m out they have been pressuring me to come back and when I had complications I had to stay out longer and my job is really doing the most smh it’s sad and stressful
pressure to get married, pressure to have babies, pressure to DO IT ALL.
man, we women have it tough.
This is so funny for it to be a topic. I was literally just going through this like last week! I started a new job and I was 3 months pregnant, I didn’t know how to tell my employer because they just hired me and I didn’t want to lose my job. Plus I reallyyyyy love my job, it’s what I went to school for. Thank god, when I told my supervisor , they were very understanding ❤️
Ingris Palacios 😎
SWEETIE...YOU WERE BLESS TOO HAVE A UNDERSTANDING BOSS WERE SHE A FEMALE?...WHY YOU DIDN'T WAIT UNTIL AFTER YOU HAD THE BABY TOO LOOK FOR EMPLOYMENT ??
WHAT IS YOUR PROFESSION MAY I ASK??
Phillips Watson
the commissioner of the police department, my mentor, offered me the position. It was a great opportunity for my field and I decided to take it.
"You gonna be here no matter what. You ain't going nowhere." I'm sure Tamar believed that, too
Awe 💕 you can tell Adrienne is so grateful for this job. Trying to plan her pregnancy around the seasons of the real.
Loni's face when Adrienne said "it didn't work out that way" 👀 @ 3:34
Also, peep Adriennes drink.. why does it look different than all the other girls drinks? no alcohol?
Fatouma Yassin right her drink doesn’t have a pineapple on it either. Maybe hers is alcohol free?🤷🏾♀️
you got good eyes
@@ambersmall Her pineapple fell into the glass
Fatouma Yassin if she’s actively trying to get pregnant then she might not be drinking alcohol and might be taking medication in order to help with her fertility. It would be lovely if she IS actually pregnant though🙏🏾🙏🏾
Women that reproduce are at a disadvantage. Last week I was actually offered to start a new job and when I told the owner I was expecting and would be due in April, he said it wouldn't work and rescinded the offer then told me not to come in the next day... It happens, ladies
I am so blessed to have an amazing supervisor, the moment I told her I was pregnant she was super excited and wanted to tell everybody, 😂 everyone that she sees she’s like I’m having another work grand-baby 😍
Yes we are! When I was pregnant with my son, my job cut my hours and refused to train me in another area. I had an emergency c-section and came back to work 6 weeks later to find out I no longer had a job. Especially in the state of Ohio, there is no job security anywhere, especially for pregnant women.
I work at an establishment for 9 years and I told my employers I was pregnant at almost 4 months because I wanted to get over that fearful first trimester before announcing it and by the time I was 5 months they tried to fire me, so I went to the revelant authorities and they had to give me my job back or pay me out, but by that time I didn't want the job anymore because of how I was treated because I was pregnant cause they didn't want to make slight changes to accommodate my pregnancy, so I got paid out and I left the job.
I have been waiting on Adrienne to announce her pregnancy. God, Please Bless her with a child because she and her amazing family deserve it
I was fired from a job because I was pregnant. And then when I was hired at Hustler, I was pregnant And hid it til I was 6 months due to past experience from other job.
I feel like they're scared more about not wanting to miss out and not working as hard as usual because of their pregnancy more than about their boss... I mean there are women who feel ashamed , and I don't think any mother or expecting to be should be... because that adds stress and you don't want that... trying to work harder , trying to prove you have the mindset that you are hard worker whether you're pregnant or not...
Myronn Coleman I don't know if women are concerned about missing out or not working as hard, but I've heard stories of woman going out on maternity leave and not having a job when they got back. Obviously it's illegal to get fired for going on maternity leave, but companies will hire a temp that they intend to replace the pregnant woman. When she comes back from maternity leave, they reduce her workload and have the "temp" doing her job. After a while, the woman realizes her services are no longer needed and she has to find a job elsewhere. This happens very often. Employers are very savvy about getting around laws.
I love that Loni brings a “real world” perspective. She has worked and done the 9-5 corporate thing and she understands how many of us average folks feel. Its so nice to feel understood and heard.
I think America is stressing woman out about having babies earlier. When I was growing up, it was normal to see women having babies in their early thirties or late thirties. Now people are having them as a teen or early 20s and are done before the are 30. Then they keep stressing that complications start at 35 and I'm like where? Even seeing some women in their mid 30s and early 40s having kids and people in there 20s are like omg they are old. They must not be if they ste able to carry a baby. How is having a baby in your 30s so suprising and being a grandmother at 30 isn't?🤔
If I'm pregnant....I'm quitting. Periodt!😭😂👏🏃🏃🏃🏃
There’s a very important issue that isn’t being addressed here. When a woman becomes pregnant we begin to PLAN. It’s our nature. If the pregnancy is without issue and the mom to be can continue along with her normal Job duties that’s wonderful! As a woman AND a business owner I’ve been on both sides of this. The stress of having to find a person to stand in for a mom while they take maternity leave can be difficult but with proper planning it can work. Now what comes AFTER that child arrives is what your boss is REALLY focusing on. Sick kids, snow days, school holidays, sitters calling off ect. It comes with the territory, we all know it. BUT, it usually comes down to the MOM to figure it out and organize how to “make it work”. Even when it’s a two parent home, the mom is typically the one having to make a few calls, see who can pickup the kids, drop them off, stay with them a couple of hours, seeing if she can go in late or leave a bit early. Men, are typically less prone to offer to step up and call off from work because as a society we are taught by example that his place is working and ours is with the kids. Now I’m not talking about the rare dads that exist and truly parent 50/50. Obviously they exist but let’s be REAL here, it’s not the typical situation. I’ve been married 10 years. We have a 7 year old. My husband is great! He cooks and cleans as much as I do. I work early so he’s the one who gets our son up, dressed, fed and out the door for school everyday. BUT, god forbid this kid sneezes! He will look at me in a heartbeat and say “ well obviously I can’t call off.” Men are looked down upon by other men when they step up in this manor. Disagree? Go to your HR
Department and ask how many men have taken Paternity Leave? According to the Family Medical Leave Act, men have just as much legal right to take off as women do but they don’t. Now imagine yourself at work and you look around and go, “ Hey Steve is out again today. Anybody know what’s up? “ They answer, “ Oh yeahhhhh, he took off a month for paternity leave.” Most people’s reaction would be that of shock. We just aren’t there yet as a societal norm and THAT is where the true issue is.
Paid maternity and paternity leave needs to be a thing in America
My boss was the first to know out of everyone I worked with. For me I felt that because I was pregnant i needed to step it up I didn't want being pregnant an excuse to work my best.. I went to work everyday until the day my water broke. I still went to work with my horrible morning sickness.
In my case I told everyone at my work which was Wal-Mart here in Oceanside California that I was pregnant and they seemed very welcoming till I got fired due to my pregnancy of me being sick all the time .
Lol at my first job at the Mentor Network it took 2 months to get the nursing room ready I was pumping in a closet with a desk chair only and when I followed up after a month I was told “things take time you’re going to have to sit tight” lmao the stress caused me to stop producing milk for my son that had surgery mind you this is a healthcare company and corporate at that & when I was taking a nap at my desk 8 months pregnant someone complained to my manager and she told me to take a nap in the BREAK ROOM or the BATHROOM my coworkers flipped out cus there were 2 other recent preggers too 🤣🤣🤣
@Olivia Simmons I was on break you WHOLE DUMMY! when did I claim equality? when did I claim to a feminist? watch ya fucking mouth before somebody else breaks it in the future making assumptions out ya neck. A WOMAN IS THE REASON YOU ARE HERE SO HOW DARE YOU DISCREDIT THAT SHAME ON YOU AND your existence and any breed you may have. SHAME no your mother and any breeder in your bloodline you are a disgrace to human society.
I'm so thankful that the aviation company I work for did not just look at our Manufacturing Engineer as like a pain or loss because she was pregnant. She actually got promoted to the Production Supervisor (SUPER well deserved) in the last 3 weeks before she was due to go on maternity leave. She is coming back in the second week of April from maternity leave and we are so freaking proud and excited for her. 😁💪🏻💖🛩
Actually, in Washington state in 2008 I was fired under false accusations once I told my employer I was pregnant. At the time, I found out the law was I had to work there for 1 year before the pregnancy, in order to be "safe". So, I was fired...
Lol I would be like Adrienne stressing over my baby that’s is not even conceived
My sister got hired at Subway and she just found out she was 2 months pregnant... she worked a WEEK to then get FIRED all because he found out she was pregnant!! So ignorant!
Exactly how I feel. I am an electrical engineer and even though they have laws I feel as when my husband and I do plan on having a child I will be treated differently and will not be given certain projects to work on🙁
Pregnant women are so beautiful!!!! Let God have his way!
Im sorry but yeah Tam was pregnant but like i dontknow that much about show bussines but its a talk show its different than being a teacher, enginer, managers and those kind of jobs like...
I'm just curious, what do you mean by different? In what ways?
@@paigez7680 it’s not a 9-5 job they can’t give leanancy
I work with attorneys and I don't have an office, so they designated one of the part time staff member's office my pumping room. They put blue paper over the windows and everything. It's so funny when we are there at the same time on Fridays. everyone go out of their way to make him leave the office for me. And he rushes out of there like it's an emergency 😆
My sister is a supervisor and got pregnant a couple months after her assistant supervisor. Their timeline was lined up perfectly and it was unplanned. When her assistant went on maternity leave my sister was still there and when her assistant came back, it was her turn to hold down the fort.
Adrianne don’t” stop trying “ just keep doing whatever you doing and don’t think about it too much it will happen !!
My mom had just gotten a new job closer to home. She found out she was pregnant . We lived in Texas at the time and in Texas there’s a 90 day “trial” for the employers to choose to keep you or let you go. She worked at a clinic so her office was next a doctor and she had morning sickness bad. The doctor announced her pregnancy without even asking her. But it was on the 92cnd day so she didn’t get let go
I will say it's all up to God.... he is the only one who knows when the time is right! My sis thought she wasnt able to carry but when she turn 30 she got pregnant. I have 4 of my own but b4 I had my last I had a miscarriage and at that time, time was ruff.... and once things calmed down I got pregnant again.... God does things for a reason and he knows when its time!!!!
I feel like Adrienne low key wants to be like Tamera 😂
Teyonce Jones yesssss
Teyonce Jones how is that funny ?!😑
I went through the most insane type of pregnancy discrimination anyone could ever imagine.
I told my boss, and ended up in the emergency room because I passed out due to the amount of running around she had me doing.
I work in a hospital total patient care and while pregnant I had to be honest and tell my manager. She did not care. The staff made it worse for me. I had to go to HR. It is absolutely sad even with a Drs note with strict precautions. I ended up in the ER at my own hospital. smh
Yes!! I waited until the last minute to fell my job and since it was for the government I worried my contract would end at any moment. It’s awful!
Hell yea I was afraid! I hid mine for 8 months and the blessing in all of it was I physically never showed; I wore my regular clothes (and I was very tiny) my ENTIRE pregnancy, never had to buy any maternity clothing, started to show (but the smallest bump) in my 9th month so just wore leggings with a sweater. I delivered at 104 lbs, went home 2 days later at 90lbs.
I WENT THROUGH THIS !!! I’m 35 weeks and nobody will hire me just because I’m pregnant . Even at 6 months I had to lie about my pregnancy
I am 33 weeks pregnant. I had to get a letter from my dr stating that I couldn’t lift certain weigh my because I do work at the airport, they wanted me to lift bags during my pregancy and I wasn’t going to loose my baby and my well being. It’s hard working pregnant
Olivia Simmons first of all I’m not complaining but like most people we have to work and I’m not saying working while pregnant is bad. And my husband does provide for me, but I’m not gonna be the type of women who stays home while her husband pays her bills. I do work too and I’ve learned that marriage is a team. Sorry if you don’t agree with me. Have a nice day and God bless you.
Olivia Simmons i didn’t get knocked up I am happily married thank you very much and first of all you don’t know my life, so why don’t you move on with yours, I made a comment if you took that as an opportunity to offend me then that’s your problems. You took the comment I posted the wrong way. But hey it’s the internet. That’s what people do. And I won’t sit here and argue with a compete stranger. ✌🏼
This is such a deep topic. Could be 20 episodes
Well, you see me. I am gonna be working while pregnant. I'm not gonna let my pregnancy stop me from making my smoney. They gonna know I'm pregnant. I'm gonna be feirce and pregnant so with that being said. I'm gonna be pumping and cooking on the job. Much love, BossladyK
I said the EXACT same thing. Unfortunately you DO NOT always have control of what your body goes through and how the hormone change effects it. You may be uncontrollably tired, sick, throwing up DAY and NIGHT ALL the way through your pregnancy! Even if you want to work, your boss will tell you to go HOME!
Awww Ade's face at the end was so cute
So true! The moment I told my boss I was pregnant, my boss started cutting down on my hours.
Did she say Bright Horizons? I think this is crazy! I work for that company and we actually just had a teacher that hide her whole pregnancy until the day she gave birth. I am not sure why, but I think it is crazy how this happened within the company that made the study. I wonder if women does this because people treat the different once they know that pregnant. I worked with a pregnant teacher before and I did not want her to do anything but she always insisted that she could do it. After this experience I learned to always ask her first. Just because she is pregnant do not mean she is not capable of doing the things she did while she was not pregnant.
When people found out I was pregnant at work the only response I got was "you know there's birth control right?" 🙄
I’m currently pregnant and got my job while pregnant but didn’t say anything until I had the jobs and people asked me . I was really scared of being discriminated against
"We ain't going no where" Wheres Tamar? teehee
With my first I had just got a job as a server and literally found out I was pregnant right after I passed my training. I was nervous to tell my manager. One of my coworkers who was excited for me let it slip one day in the office but it all worked out
I’m a nurse not yet married but very fearful that when I do want to start a family I won’t be able to keep my job due to the physical demands
Jeannie's story is so reflective of how God women are! We all deserve to be treated with respect and love 🌸
*We are the welcoming nurturing space for all human beings that have excited and ever will!*
I’m gonna start praying for Adrianne to get Pregnant 🤰🏾God let your will be done
I’m working on it to girl ❤️ hubby and I are trying
My job didn’t let me take time off when I had a miscarriage I had to call out and I’d get lectured about it. They didn’t believe me whenever I had to have a D&C at the hospital so I had to bring copies of paperwork for them to make copies of and had to have the surgeon call them to confirm. Two days later I was scheduled. I called off. The following week I showed up to work and was in a bad mood and an emotional wreck because the managers blabbed to all the other employees about my miscarriage and everyone was asking me about it. The manager pulled me aside and said I needed to fix my attitude and sent me home. She took me off the schedule for that whole week. I was basically fired because I had to “call in so many times” when if they would’ve given me enough time to gather myself and understand I just lost a baby at 16 weeks pregnant I would’ve thrived so much more at work. They were so toxic. In the end it was a blessing in disguise that I got let go from there. I’m now 25 weeks pregnant and felt very intimidated to let the new job I got know that I was pregnant. I didn’t tell them until I was 19 weeks along in fear of them giving me less hours or talking bad about me behind my back. I now work from home but it’s a serious problem! They put in their contract that they don’t discriminate against pregnant women but their energy makes you definitely feel otherwise!
Adrienne!!! Release your Face Dammit!!!!
None Newenski hahaa! I think the same
Smh it’s so annoying
omg it looks so ugly lol i don't know why she does that
she always makes those faces. since season 1. She probably thinks she looks more engaged in the conversation or that she looks smart. it's quite annoying, indeed!
None Newenski omg right..it should hurt too no?Plus its too conspicuous lol
Awww Hell Naw!!
It is a gift! And should be showered with love n respect! This negativity affects the fetus/baby and is sure as hell not needed!! All mom's to be!! Please get your AWSOME blessed to be pregnant selves on to WORK 😍😍😍😍
I love the show because of this diversity it’s my favorite show to watch I watch you guys every single day it is so amazing to just hear different opinions and different backgrounds and different ethnicity. one thing that you guys are missing well let me rephrase that one thing that I would love to see on daytime television is a Muslim woman with hijab on that would change a lot of accusations towards us and it will show America what Muslim stand by right now 🙏 love you the real
Yeah, I work in the corporate world. I'm not married yet or have kids but I can imagine that it will be difficult to tell my boss when that point comes.
Tamera is stunning 😍
Women are more likely to take off work for events for their children or appointments or whatever, and they should. Nothing can replace a good mother. That being said, there should obviously be more accomodations and understanding for the people bearing and raising the next generation.
I’m dealing with this right now. Just finished my MBA and I’m so scared to find a great job. I’m 5 months pregnant.. someone told me that pretty much only a temp job would be willing to hire me. ☹️
Stefany Hyer wait until after.. they definitely wont hire you.
Gee Gar I hope that’s not the case! I’ve worked so hard in school and in my career. I need to provide for my family and we all need good healthcare. Worse case/best case scenario I will start my own business!
Please bring up the stigma of miscarriages and how people look down on women who talk about it and why women feel embarrassed or ashamed of it.
I actually had a boss tell me how inconvenient it was for him that I decided to have a baby. I didn't take a single day off while pregnant. And I scheduled my c-section around the weeks we had off for the holidays.
I wish you all the best.
I was fired because of my pregnancy. I filled unemployment, they fought it, but I won! I was going to pursue legal action but I had some complications towards the end and didn't want any added stress.
Yea too much pressure A. Flow with God! Just keep bed dancing and enjoy the journey!!!
I miss these girrrlllss these are besties hanging out rather co workers
My sister got a job at Payless Shoes and was 1 month pregnant when we got hired. After she told her co worker they let her go about a week later stating it was her “performance” and she was just in a 90 day probation period.
When I found out I was pregnant I was working at a call center here in Jamaica its an international one. When I told my manager she seemed to change instantly and they'd just start doing things to make the job even more stressful for me even went as far as putting in lies in a report. After the security personnels conducted their investigation using footage on a camera they realised the report didn't add up. They made the whole experience so stressful for me. When it really started affecting me I just took 3months of medical leave of absence which time I did not get paid