Gavin said in his home growing up there was "Open dialogue every step of the way". I think of how this young boy could move through the world with his parents, muscles relaxed, not being on egg shells, not worried at every turn what was going to happen. It sounded like he had a safe place to fall and grow. Also what moves me is living by principle.
I enjoyed Gavin's Raw, Unpretentious, and Authentic way of showing up. It wasn't "Holy" or "Wretched", it was Straight Down the Middle Path. With Love and Deference to the vulnerable. I imagined what I could offer and how I would show up were I a guest on this show, and now..... I'd have to reconsider it altogether 🤔 Steel sharpens Steel⚔️ Would stood out for me is when Gavin spoke about the expectations that men are held to, and the value of principles and ethics in the discussion of healing Masculinity.
I enjoyed the conversation. I really dug the nuances in some of Gavin's responses. Even within the masculine approach, you could feel the emotion. Shielded and vulnerable at the same time. Or human, as you all would say.
What a fantastic, raw interview with Gavin!👏👏 As if we couldn't Love him any more.❤️🤠 Thank you Gavin for always being authentic and real with us, so appreciated and rare with many artists in the industry, and people in general in this world. You are awesome and we Love you. Thank you for sharing yourself and your gifts with all of us. Truly a blessing. 🙌
Oh...absolutely amazing !!! Thank you all from my heart:-) So much strength, courage and divine masculinity ... thank you all very much ...THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORK.....
Fantastic discussion about bullies and I'm glad it was talked about at some length. I'd have to agree with both of them, really. I was bullied to the point of quitting high school, and much of what I dealt with was because I had my "hands tied." I was a martial artist and I had a strict rule of '"No fighting. If you do, no more martial arts." This became a catch-22 for me. Martial arts had given me the mental fortitude to not hurt myself or others, so in one way it was my savior. (I'm convinced I didn't commit suicide because of what the arts taught me. 100%) But it held me back from even speaking up for myself because I was worried it would escalate. So I dealt with it until I basically just gave up and quit high school, which I hid from my family. Fast forward to many years later and many of the bullies would reach out to me to apologize and would almost verbatim share with me what Justin described: their own insecurities, violence at home, pressure of being who their father or parents wanted them to be, being in the closet because of the strict religious household they'd come from. There were a lot of tears and emotions on both sides of these conversations. It's also something that I felt that I'd learn to forgive, but it still bubbles up constantly and is one of my biggest hurdles. And forgiveness or not, it's something that I dealt with nonstop for over a decade of my life, during my most formative years. I say all of this because I feel like bullying is where so much of this patriarchal structure comes into play into us men masking and armoring up, just as Justin talks about in his book. It turns sensitive, caring boys into men that hide the deepest parts of themselves in an effort to fit in, oftentimes to irreprable damage to themselves and those around them. Another reason why I think A Call To Men, Success Stories, and others like them are doing such incredible work. And another reason why I hope against hope that Justin's next book becomes an Oprah-Book-Club level phenomenon. Because I feel like it's at the core of everything that's discussed on this show. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk. 🤣 I know it's a wall of text here. This one just hit home. Hard.
I dealt with a lot of bullying in school too and was coming here to say something like this, but you said it better than I would have! Thanks for sharing your story - I'm glad you're here!
@@okayheykae Thanks so much being here as well, Kae! I'm sorry to here you had a similar story. I hope that you've been able to find a path to healing since then. ❤️
@@okayheykae yes indeed. This last year has been ... a lot (that's an understatement) but I'm pointed in the right direction now. Thanks to this team of awesome folks. 😁
What another interesting conversation. Gavin is so real.Just like "Man Enough "is All About.....Just another reason for us as humans yo think about how we treat people everyday.And Stand up when we need to.And they way he speaks about his parents is Awesome...It make me think about how Awesome my parents were and we still praise them everyday.❤❤❤❤🙏🙏✨✨✨
Gavin said in his home growing up there was "Open dialogue every step of the way". I think of how this young boy could move through the world with his parents, muscles relaxed, not being on egg shells, not worried at every turn what was going to happen. It sounded like he had a safe place to fall and grow. Also what moves me is living by principle.
Yeah. He was lucky. We had to walk on eggshells not knowing if we had a place to live, if we said something my mom didn't agree with🫠
Gavin is such a deep human being. A real way with words. Such a poet and philosopher. Amazing talent.
Thank you, we agree.
Man O man Gavin I love him, he has a fabulous voice love his singing 😍 and I love how funny he is 😂 he makes me laugh/cry/joyful he's just the man 🥰
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed this.
I Loved this conversation with Gavin. I have been following his career for a long time. 🙌🏾🙏🏽💜
Thank you. So glad to hear that. It was beautiful to see him embrace the conversation so genuinely as we went along.
I enjoyed Gavin's Raw, Unpretentious, and Authentic way of showing up. It wasn't "Holy" or "Wretched", it was Straight Down the Middle Path. With Love and Deference to the vulnerable. I imagined what I could offer and how I would show up were I a guest on this show, and now..... I'd have to reconsider it altogether 🤔 Steel sharpens Steel⚔️ Would stood out for me is when Gavin spoke about the expectations that men are held to, and the value of principles and ethics in the discussion of healing Masculinity.
Another deep conversation.
I enjoyed the conversation. I really dug the nuances in some of Gavin's responses. Even within the masculine approach, you could feel the emotion. Shielded and vulnerable at the same time. Or human, as you all would say.
What a fantastic, raw interview with Gavin!👏👏 As if we couldn't Love him any more.❤️🤠 Thank you Gavin for always being authentic and real with us, so appreciated and rare with many artists in the industry, and people in general in this world. You are awesome and we Love you. Thank you for sharing yourself and your gifts with all of us. Truly a blessing. 🙌
Oh...absolutely amazing !!! Thank you all from my heart:-) So much strength, courage and divine masculinity ... thank you all very much ...THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORK.....
What a nice conversation. Enjoyed all of them and just one more reason to love Gavin Degraw.
Fantastic discussion about bullies and I'm glad it was talked about at some length. I'd have to agree with both of them, really.
I was bullied to the point of quitting high school, and much of what I dealt with was because I had my "hands tied." I was a martial artist and I had a strict rule of '"No fighting. If you do, no more martial arts." This became a catch-22 for me. Martial arts had given me the mental fortitude to not hurt myself or others, so in one way it was my savior. (I'm convinced I didn't commit suicide because of what the arts taught me. 100%) But it held me back from even speaking up for myself because I was worried it would escalate.
So I dealt with it until I basically just gave up and quit high school, which I hid from my family. Fast forward to many years later and many of the bullies would reach out to me to apologize and would almost verbatim share with me what Justin described: their own insecurities, violence at home, pressure of being who their father or parents wanted them to be, being in the closet because of the strict religious household they'd come from. There were a lot of tears and emotions on both sides of these conversations. It's also something that I felt that I'd learn to forgive, but it still bubbles up constantly and is one of my biggest hurdles. And forgiveness or not, it's something that I dealt with nonstop for over a decade of my life, during my most formative years.
I say all of this because I feel like bullying is where so much of this patriarchal structure comes into play into us men masking and armoring up, just as Justin talks about in his book. It turns sensitive, caring boys into men that hide the deepest parts of themselves in an effort to fit in, oftentimes to irreprable damage to themselves and those around them. Another reason why I think A Call To Men, Success Stories, and others like them are doing such incredible work. And another reason why I hope against hope that Justin's next book becomes an Oprah-Book-Club level phenomenon. Because I feel like it's at the core of everything that's discussed on this show.
Thanks for coming to my TedTalk. 🤣 I know it's a wall of text here. This one just hit home. Hard.
I dealt with a lot of bullying in school too and was coming here to say something like this, but you said it better than I would have! Thanks for sharing your story - I'm glad you're here!
@@okayheykae Thanks so much being here as well, Kae! I'm sorry to here you had a similar story. I hope that you've been able to find a path to healing since then. ❤️
@@ronsparkman4913 A lot of healing has happened and there's still more to go! I hope the same healing is happening for you!
@@okayheykae yes indeed. This last year has been ... a lot (that's an understatement) but I'm pointed in the right direction now. Thanks to this team of awesome folks. 😁
@@ronsparkman4913 I'm sorry things have been tough and I hope they keep getting better!
What another interesting conversation. Gavin is so real.Just like "Man Enough "is All About.....Just another reason for us as humans yo think about how we treat people everyday.And Stand up when we need to.And they way he speaks about his parents is Awesome...It make me think about how Awesome my parents were and we still praise them everyday.❤❤❤❤🙏🙏✨✨✨
Great podcast!!! episode!
Thank you! Glad you're here.
Thank you, interesting episode.
Thank you for another great conversation💖
Great interview, sounds like a great human being!
Another great episode
So glad you enjoyed!
Oh My Hat Jamey I thought is only us Girls who suffer from "Dropsie" when we grow older🤦♀️🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣❤❤