I would listen to this straight if it were 10 hours long. Made me think of my INFJ. I felt her ISTJ superego and she felt my ESTP superego. I forgive her. I hope she forgives me. If I ever get the chance to come across my golden pair again then I’ll hold myself accountable to allowing Se inferior to have full reign over me - never allowing them to feel unwanted or inadequate. This was hard to watch for me because of how (for lack of a better word) merciless you were on ENFPs but I understand that it’s all for our edification. Thank you.
INFJs tend to forgive anything, even things most tend to think they shouldn't from the moment the other person is ready to admit they were wrong and did a mistake because it's liberating for them. Most people usually don't want to because they're afraid to feel vulnerable by doing so and someone could take advantage of that. But that's something INFJs typically wouldn't do because they recognize the strength and wisdom there is in admitting your mistakes. They usually find themselves in this cruel dilemma where they want to forgive someone from the get go but they're afraid that if they do the other person won't learn anything from this experience and will clash again for the same reasons. So they might actively force themselves to not forgive you for your own sake if that makes sense. INFJs are always very people focused in their mindset.
At this point, I think I am an INFJ…. What you said to break the INFJ in your story also broke me to the point that I started shedding tears in the middle of working.
2:53 - ENFP/INFJ Exquisite Golden Pair 5:20 - Emotional compatibility lies in the judgement functions 7:22 - Interaction styles 10:33 - Golden pair relationships are like walking down a hill instead of climbing up a mountain 12:45 - Yes, I can see parts of you that are absolutely perfecto! (Insert Chefs Kiss 👨🏾🍳🤌🏾) 15:05 - Virtues & Vices 16:39 - Going all in on an INFJ 18:03 - Not the grapes tho lol 😂 19:20 - ENFP/INFJ helps each other become the best version of themselves 22:08 - What Chase really cares about 25:37 - Chase is not like Jesus 27:47 - 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 29:30 - Exactlyyyyyyyyyyy!! The marriage bed is undefiled. Ain't nobody gonna tell me what I can and can't do with my wife! 31:55 - I will never abandon you. Where else will I go? You have what I want! 33:32 - INFJ, don't let me (ENFP) get away with limiting you. Communication is key. Speak up!!! 35:18 - Exactly! Don't treat me like I'm cheating on you... Where is your proof? Where is your evidence? Stop assuming and prove it! -39:50 - INFJ, you know who you are, I apologize if you felt abandoned by what I said all them years ago. I was afraid but I've overcome those fears now. I would always be loyal to you. Can't you see? The proof is in the pudding...I've been trying to win you back for the last 3yrs now! I wish I would have at least kept walking you to your car now 46:20 -Part Begins 49:09 - Fellow ENFP's... we are supposed to be an advocate for truth! 52:45 - Chase I have been seeking for truth naturally, I believe that's one reason why I've come across your content. I've been sharing this stuff with my INFJ friend, I'm not sure if she actually watches all the videos I send her tho. I wasn't seeking for truth from a spiritual perspective but The Lord Jesus revealed the truth to me through a man named Pastor Gino Jennings -54:16 - I consume mad RUclips videos at 2x speed almost everyday. I try to talk about my findings with my INFJ friend but she won't even have lunch with me lately...smh 56:20 - Why INFJ's are alone 1:01:15 - ENFP's stand up and advocate whenever the INFJ is being ridiculed for telling the truth 1:04:30 - ENFP, be willing to put your reputation on the line for the truth teller INFJ 1:06:00 - The curse of the flawless 1:09:25 - Exactly! We might have a few dead trees over here but so what! I don't need perfection. The rest of the forest is still worthy and valuable. 1:11:18 - INFJ's are the least forgiving of all the types... (Believe me I know. I've seen it first hand...smh) 1:12:40 -The ultimate truth is integrity... the ultimate good is love...Wow! That was a bar 1:20:20 - This Golden Pair loves beyond death 1:28:07 - Let's make a deal 1:29:30 - I read about this in one the "Forbidden Books"... I think it was the Apocalypse of Peter... It's funny because I always kind of saw myself in the Apostle Peter 1:30:30 - WOW!!! YOU SAID IT!!!! 1:34:50 - ENFP's, let's rise to the occasion. 1:35:35 - Chase I appreciate the time and effort you put into getting this knowledge out into the world. I'm trying to help spread it. I love you 💪🏾 To the reader of these time stamps. I'd like to leave you with some knowledge that was revealed to me during a fast earlier this year... In the book of 2Esdras 12:10-18 reads: [10] And he said unto me, This is the interpretation of the vision: [11] The eagle, whom thou sawest come up from the sea, is the kingdom which was seen in the vision of thy brother Daniel. [12] But it was not expounded unto him, therefore now I declare it unto thee. [13] Behold, the days will come, that there shall rise up a kingdom upon earth, and it shall be feared above all the kingdoms that were before it. [14] In the same shall twelve kings reign, one after another: [15] Whereof the second shall begin to reign, and shall have more time than any of the twelve. [16] And this do the twelve wings signify, which thou sawest. [17] As for the voice which thou heardest speak, and that thou sawest not to go out from the heads but from the midst of the body thereof, this is the interpretation: [18] That after the time of that kingdom there shall arise great strivings, and it shall stand in peril of failing: nevertheless it shall not then fall, but shall be restored again to his beginning. Question#1 - Which nation was founded in the year 1948? Question #2 - How many presidents has the state of Israel had? Question #3 - Which president had the longest term? Was it the second president? Question #4 - When is the next presidential election for the State of Israel and the USA? Final Question - Have you done your research on Pastor Gino Jennings? We are running out of time...
Amazing, thank you... gave me perspective. Many different things to meditate on. Humility has been a mystery to me, but I see more clearly that it is directly connected to truth and identity. Not devaluing myself or raising myself, but being grounded on the truth of who God says I am. Humility is not doing what I want to do, it is doing what God tells me to do. But not out of simple obligation, but out of His love and desire that becomes my love and desire. Humility is courageous and bold, and it always gives all the glory to God. Even though I am severely flawed, I am the righteousness of God in Christ. God's love for me goes beyond myself. I have no right to hate myself. We the Church are the bride of Christ, and now is the time to champion the Truth and share His love to the ends of the earth.
Funny how I’m an infj and my only goal right now is to get rich and buy a nice house to invite over anyone I’ve ever known and loved, create that utopia heaven
This relationship really is about extremes, extreme highs and extreme lows. The love and compatibility are intense and like no other, but it's also very challenging. I'm the INFJ woman in this case and I've told my ENFP to stop always expecting his idea of perfection from me and to stop guilting me but to go about it softly. God knows I try to be the perfect partner but I want to let go of that. I won't be "doing" anymore, I'll just relax and let things flow. I will try my best anyway. Hard to balance Fe/Se with feminine qualities of receiving more than giving so that's also an awesome challenge for me:)
As an INFJ man who's dealt with ENFP women before, I get what you're saying. It's annoying dealing with personal perfectionism on my end, it's REALLY annoying when ENFPs push this fairyland idealism onto their partners, especially INJs. I think it's their lack of any pragmatism combined with N dominance. Obviously, this is also a bigger conflict if both types are UD
@@chriskozak7356 Absolutely. To top it off, seems like no ENFP actually gives a feeling of security to their partner (basing this on my experience and people around me in relationships with ENFPs) which is a real problem for me. It's like Chase explained, they're great at initiating but not seeing it through. They get insecure and doubtful when they see that things are getting real. Do you have any experience with this type of situation?
I know this is so out of topic but I'd like to share a book called "Breaking the habits of being Yourself" by Dr. Joe Dispenza. The author talks about the interesting combination of science (biology, quantum physics etc.) and spirituality (not by religious standpoint though). I think C.S. Joseph would like that book and the rest of my fellow INFJs here in the comment section. I'm currently reading half way of it and so far i found it really wonderful how we can create our own reality by intentional thought and elevated emotion that unified into a state of being.
@@CSJoseph Chase, do you know the video game Alan Wake? That game goes with this story perfectly, it just came to my mind. It has the love beyond death sacrificing each other to each other to save each other from the "death" (because it has to do more than just death). Because of a fictional nightmare that came into reality by dark magic (idk the appropriate name for it). But I think it's more of a ENTP & INTJ golden pair. But you can verify it for me if u're interested in it. Beautiful story, most of the world knows it, hope you do too. Because it's a story that you don't wanna miss. :)
as an INFJ I want to thank you, from my perspective what we need is not only the commitment from the enfp, also the-child-like play and innocence through te is like medicine to us. we can finally have a relief from all the lies in the world, and can finally let go and not give a damn but in a positive way. from an infj perspective, we have ne as "god-"function, and as Chase said their istj-superego is unforgiving because the istj is examining the whole time to ultimately make an judgment . Do you know obito in Naruto? he is making war with the whole existence itself because of betrayal. Istj-superego is crazy-powerful and once it made a judgement, it is over like to 99 percent; we desperately NEED somebody who is mentoring us to a good outcome. When you know Naruto then you know that Obito met Madara, a vengeful narcissist, while Naruto met Jiraija, an humble optimist. so there is a war inside our head deep in the superego: is the world worth living for, like Naruto does, or is the world worth for destruction, like obito. the reason why we are drawn to enfp especially is because of this ongoing war. The enfp is like a butterfly, has fi-god-functions, they are very unique and sensible persons, if it can manage its depravity and find themselves, develop their fi, being authentic and so on, the world is worth fighting for, from a systemic point of view, and we find joy, because we could live through their ego in a way. i do however have something negative to say about conception of Jesus and God with regard to personality types, but also a positive thing. The positive thing is that it can help us understand the psychological necessity of Jesus from a psychological perspective. we need somebody who is so truthful, and so forgiving, that He IS the truth and the forgiveness. but psychology can only say that we need something from a psychological perspective. But we cannot state that Jesus needs to be an INFJ to be the truth and the forgiveness. we have to humble our intellect, and our ideas, in that regard. Because God is God, not psychology because humans lost their innocence. We always speak from fallen state, so we cope the best way we can. The Holy Spirit does not follow the rules of this psychology, nor can we say that the Holy Spirit created the rules of the psyche, because we are not angels who have been shown God`s intellect from the beginning. Just trust Jesus, not because of psychological reasons, but because of honest prayer. A good friend of mine is also an ENTP like chase who also has intj as their soul temple. when we have discussions he always tries to rip everything apart in the Bible to understand the little things so he can rebuilt everything like an architect. but I fear that he does not consult the Holy Spirit, when he tries to reconstruct everything. The Spirit is the Spirit and it can because it is. God is. there is no explanation, nor justification. just self-sufficiency. When it is trusted, it is integrated into the great I AM, if not then not. I think this attitude can even help more analytical systematic types when it comes to spiritual health, especially because they are systematic. One word with regard to ENFPs; I think we should learn to value ENFPs more, not dismiss them because of their depravity, and because they take nothing serious. Maybe they are right in that we should not take the world serious, because it leads to depravity, it sucks the soul. Their ESTP-superego might have understood that the world needs a deep deep change while others are still asleep coping and adapting. Love the neighbor as yourself might well translate into love the superego of the other person.
ENFP here. Not knowing about personality typing resulted in drug addiction and suicidal ideation when I lived by myself. Thank God I’m over it, I’m more self aware, and I’m watching your videos so I don’t end up there again. Number 1 rule, ENFPs should NEVER live alone!! I pray I find my INFJ one day. Thanks.
It's because that golden pair to bond up it takes up the whole world. Because INFJs is rare af, and so is the ENFP, especially with genders it gets even up more low. Show me a Stat using whatever idc how u take it, to see if u can find an INFJ ENFP golden pair every out of 1 million people, who fit into that chase's golden pair bill, just paring them is not enough.
The difference in energy with the previous videos is so interesting. That was quite nice to see, hope you had a similar positive energy in the previous ones as well, that would've been nice especially that one INFP-ENFJ vid.
Thanks for this great video, Chase! This video certainly embodies the amazing teacher abilities that you have. It gets very tiring constantly hearing about the INTJ + ENFP being the “ultimate coupe”, whom have this great sex and conquer the world. Truth is many of these relationships end with one cheating on the other; unlike the ENFP and INFJ whom are typically true to each other.
Sorry to hear about your love ❤️ sounds like you developed into the person you wanted to be when younger. Younger you would be impressed. I found the first part most helpful. Thank you.
I'm challenged by the fact he makes me love the INFJ-ENFP relationship again more than the INFJ-ENTP one as I'm always hesitating between which one I prefer lol. Lastly my only two main problems with the two were POTENTIALLY being insensitive for ENTP and being selfish for ENFP. But romantically and ease in relationship wise, of course it will always be easier with ENFP but I think ENTP will make you feel more understood and being understood is like the number 1 thing INFJs usually crave in life. If only you could order a ENFTP or ENTFP as you prefer, life would be so much easier.
For context I am an INTJ woman who’d like an ENFP woman as my bestie but I am scared of coming off as too clingy or desperate 😭. I dunno what put that in my mind but would really appreciate advice from any ENFPs 🙏. She’s such an interesting and wonderful person who I’d love to befriend. 😅 As an INTJ who wants to be friends with an ENFP, I can’t wait to watch this video and learn. The last INTJ and ENTP video made me smile and tear up so much because ENTP sounds like the man of my dreamsss ❤❤❤. I’ve typed myself several times with the type grid and can confirm that I am definitely INTJ (not ENTP or INTP like I thought I was). I’ve realized that ENFPs and ENTPs really help to bring me out of my shell as I am really so shy and insecure on the inside but they make me feel like I can just be myself. As for the ENFP, we’ve talked a few times but my shyness really gets in the way. Any advice (you don’t have to if you don’t want) would be amazingggg 😊 ❤❤❤
Enfp like to feel they have that impact on you. They love feeling wanted. Validating their thoughts and having someone interested in getting them to expand on it is an enjoyable experience. So you overtly showing interest in her is a good thing, you won't come across clingy. And be very careful with entp men. They know how to be endearing and lovable. Love them, but stay guarded , it actually makes them respect you more. They're also prone to suffer from failure to launch mentality, and they can direct this negative energy towards their partners.
Forgiveness, kindness. Too many have forgotten their meaning, these days. That is why I follow in Jesus his footsteps, and forgive those who have wronged me. Communication is so important. But if the ENFP does not say a word, there is no communication to begin with. And I'll forgive them, over and over again, despite everything. But it would be so nice, if I could forgive them in person. I just want to help them grow. Nevertheless, they need to be open to communicate first. There is nothing I can do, if they choose not to, out of discrimination and/or wrath. I am doing the time. That does not mean, I have to do the crime. A choice we all have, and a lesson I would like to grant to them. I will carry this cross, no matter what. Eternal love, and absolute forgiveness. Because if I don't, then how would I be worthy in turn?
Ew absolutely not. Smokes and mirrors. Intp men rub me the wrong way when either they are extremely awkward and girly or when they are blatantly rude and disrespectful or get into their Fi (which happens more than any other type getting stuck in their demon) in a way that's just cringe. Like you watching an episode of button and this one incel nerd comes along who's vibe is just "off" like he takes pride in how pathetic his behaviour is.
People just don’t want to hear the truth. Even when they are asking for the answer. As an INFJ, I’ve experienced this in so many forms. It ruins relationships and alienates you from others. Taking the right approach is key to an extent but it feels wrong and unsettling to just pretend and let people live in the lies and struggle. They don’t have live like this but they don’t want the answers.
Me and my partner is suppose to be a golden pair INFJ/ENFP relationship, but many times I feel that it is leading to corruption than to strengthening. I have been trying to tell him, inspire him and strengthen him, but many times, I just makes my partner more insecure and more anxious which makes me feel bad. I have tried talking about my needs (like I have a sugar addiction and if I wish to get rid of it, I need my partner to help me through it and not buy snacks home), yet my partner neglects it and expects me to only care for his needs while criticising me; which eventually leads to me speaking up less and less because what is the point? It’s almost like my partner is locking me into UD/UF and making my life unnecessarily hard, and I feel myself loosing more and more of myself the longer I am in the relationship although I love him. The longer time goes the less I start to trust typology, or the typing of my INTP friend who has typed both of us, as I ponder whether a relationship should be this hard on everyone else’s psychie unless both of us are mistyped.
I think, regardless of type, we have certain restrictions and resistances that can’t be overcome other than by, it would seem, luck or time. Sometimes we have to lose the things we value to rediscover what value those things really had. As for your personal situation, I’m not at liberty to comment. All I have to say is that I hope yous overcome those restrictions and begin to feel the power of the pairing yous likely encountered at the beginning.:)
Call me a healthy infj because I’ve been alone for two years😂 and yes it is because my friends were losers, I wish I would’ve invested more in my friends who were not losers, but fi critic. It is not healthy, I need intimacy
Well.. since I'm a UD|SF I actually wait around that they have an extreme need of me be4 I give my passion. Because why not, I don't wanna feel one-sided, because I'm pretty sure when it comes to a Ni it's almost always about being one-sided. I don't wanna be abaonded but it the is thing I'm getting the most in my life for providing them my best. Even the family I grew up is a great drama of betrayal. But I'm extremely grateful that I can attract NT and NJs in my life to have the absolute happiness with them and grow with them together. (Not that I hate NFPs. Just gimme a break with that. I'm already living with an ENFP family member who's oscillating between being charitable and being depraved) And I'm absolutely grateful for my ability to attract them because they're critical for my existence. I love bein with them and I want relationships with them.
Another question that came into my mind, why am I suppose to set apart myself from the people when I know for a fact that I'm gonna lose my human life? If I'm gonna do that where I'm gonna find the love, support and the my own made family I've been dreaming of? Because you know for a fact how painful it's gonna be for me. Why do I have to do this when I know for a fact that I'm gonna get alienated and potentially get kicked out from my own human life, love life? I am a human after all, I do have my wants and needs for love just like other people. If I'm goin to keep goin up on this ladder means I'm gonna get even more out numbered with choosing a potential partner for myself and have a family and live a normal life. Why do I have to sacrifice myself? I didn't ask any of this. Why am I like this? I think this is making me get overwhelmed. And now I'm stuck.
This may sound extremely unreal but can you explain why I (INFJ) feels this extremely telepathic connection with my ENFP girl? I literally feel the way she is feeling even if we live 300 kilo meters away without talking to her or being in her presence. Fe parent feels feelings from kilometers away?
I worked with an ENFP client recently. I put everything into her consultation and she rejected all my insights because she couldn’t find corroboration of my advice on the internet. It still hurts. I dream of her having a Eureka moment and coming back, but I have to be realistic.
Please chase, a video about cross temple compatibility, trying to work it out is doing my head in! Surely temple compatibility can override conflicting type functions And surely temple camaraderie can pose problems even when compatible
23:12 just to make it clear the prophet mohammad did not write the quran he is a messenger of the word of god, just wanted to address that the quran is the word of god not the prophet mohammad. And thanks for the lecture really enjoyed it.
16:40 Very obvious to why you broke this INFJ here because as an Introverted Intuitive, he most likely already guessed all of it by himself through intuition but because of lack of confidence and too much modesty he couldn't bring himself to dare thinking that as it would be considered socially inappropriate or pretentious to think you worth better and so he started to tell himself it was probably wrong. Because of Fe-Ti INFJs need their worth to be acknowledged by others for them to admit it as real. And so they keep working hard until being acknowledged. Harsh but good motivation. This is why INTJs resonate well with INFJs because they come to the same type of intuitive conclusions but INFJs tend to reject it when INTJs tend to fully lean in it and one or the other ends up being correct. And so when the INTJ was correct, it will comfort the INFJ in the fact they're justified in thinking what they think. And yet INFJs get accused of being pedantic when it couldn't be further from the truth. They sometimes play the "I'm superior" game much like ENTPs interestingly but to a minor extant only when they're attacked but they actually never considered themselves better than anyone. They can even perceive it in ENTPs as well which is probably the reason why they click better than with other people who will judge ENTPs too quickly. INFJs are great at seeing everyone's quintessential value and potential. Close to seeing their true self and personality type exposed but in a more vague way when you think about it.
Can you do videos on associate pairings? I'm an INFJ with an ISFP and I'm interested in the different challenges they face and how they can grow from it!
I was with an ENFP, and we dated for 10 years since 18. We just connected, and things felt really easy. The difficulties were that we're both immature and didn't really know how to communicate our needs and overtime let each other down due to feeling neglected. I also felt overwhelming feelings of guilt, i felt the relationship was holding him back from exploring the world and experiencing life. So i had to let him go. I still to this day have no idea what infj have fo offer enfp. Enfp seems to be ideal for most types. I have not come across anyone who just does not like an enfp.
Maybe it was just the fact that you were both too young and that's it. How come you don't know what INFJs have to offer to ENFPs when there is literally almost 2 hour long video on that subject😅? And let me tell you something; you are so gorgeus! If this is you on this profile pic. My gosh. Believe in yourself...there are so many ENFP men out there, even on Reddit ENFP sub, who suffer because they can't find love, that is if you even still like ENFPs... Big hugs from this ENFP - look and you shall find ❤
As a enfp man, i've rejected basically all relationships because they all lack that NiFe that I so much crave, you are the very definition of value to us! & I'm searching for that as much as anyone.. Hope all is well for you!
What are your thoughts on INFJ and INTP pairings? They seem like a really stable, compatiable, and common pairing that appears to last! I havent been successful with INFJ's and Im wondering if my preference is leaning towards INTJ - Any thoughts on why I might not be able to pair up with my "Golden Pair"? Why I/others like me prefer the Thinker types more?
I am an infj ,, I noticed most my friendships or relationships have a pattern,,, the ones who reach out to me first even in female friendships are usually ENTPS ,, to the contrary the ones I find intriguing and I reach out for them or try to befriend them are usually Intps ,,, so obviously Entps like me and I like intps 🤣🤣 I don’t mind both entp and intps understand me like no other and see the good side of me,, but ENFPS AND ENFJ they lack the depth and though I admire their funny and empathetic nature,I never was able to form bonds with them ,,,funny enough I think esfj and isfjs can tolerate me in a workplace or friendship more than enfk or enfps
As an INFJ, I find INTPS to be much more tolerable overall than ENFPs. ENFPs can be annoying sometimes with how much they will take of your energy and time and their exuberant energy. At the same time, INTPs always make me crave more from them and, especially, affection 😅 I always want be a bigger part of their world but their vast world is easily navigated alone, so they don’t seem to notice.
I disagree about ENFPs tending to be socially extroverted. ENxP types are almost more introverted than INFJs in many ways. The “E” in ENFP merely means that the base of their first preferential function is focused externally (but still processed in the mind) and by-and-large that’s the extent of it. Many ENFPs are fundamentally more introverted than an Fe-Se-using type could be, however reserved. Extroverted intuition, despite the manic-pixie-dem-on-skittles stereotypes, isn’t inherently social. There’s a reason ENFPs are considered the most introverted of the extrovert-types. But good video overall.
@Brickwilliams 8 pairs lmao of which, this is the finale. he says so himself. honestly i'm not bothered. i'm enfp myself just wanted to see how istj pairings go.
Cs. Joesph I made aa comment regarding ur entp and Intj post safe to say I'm trying something I never told someone to go back after they made new content n its not that its Important by I'll be amongst the 1st my comment is still quite new But I'm quite sure I'm not the only who has this problem wit Intjs staring it's not problem as much as it's a why? But if u want to read my story it's short paragraph it's steadily available
Lol God made prophet Muhammad illiterate so that people do not accuse him to be the writer or the creator of the Quran , even though prophet Muhamed peace be upon him was very smart and educated .
@@Ruu555 we are not harsh we are correcting the wrong information , chase is really smart but we don’t want him and other people to have wrong input , the Quran is words of god , and god made prophet Muhamed peace be upon him illiterate so that people do not accuse him to be the writer or the creator or the Quran , even though Prophet Muhamed peace be upon was very smart and educated leader .
Ar Rahiqul Maqtum is a good book on Prophet Muhammad (S.A.S) for further study plenty of books are available in the market you can read beside Al-Quran Majid to have a clear understanding of Allah (the Arabic name of god) is one and Prophet Muhammad (S.A.S) was his messenger and servant. Prophet Mohammed (S.A.S) was illiterate and he couldn't read and write. The Quran was revealed to Prophet Mohammad by the 23 years of time span from Allah through his messenger angel Gibril (A.S) (Gabriel). Gibril (A.S)came to Prophet Mohammed (S.A.S) at Hera Cave in a human form and hugged Prophet Mohammad (S.A.S) and said Iqra (means read) Prophet Mohammad (S.A.S) said I can't read . The author of the Quran challenges humans if you are claiming the Quran is a human made book then write something like 1 (consist of three sentences)chapter as like Quran verses till now after 1450 years of passing Prophet Mohammed (S.A.S) no human were able to write something like Quran has revealed.
oof. I'm so sorry. Their sin is wrath and depravity. Depravity to the max. But you have to remember everyone can be good or bad. Your type too. Ik this is difficult to deal with but you can't hold a snake in ur arms and angrily ask it why they bit you. You just have to focus on healing yourself. And report this snake to the authorities.
@@aladdout9454 I know, I luckily don’t give a fuck. He means nothing to me. We dated years ago and he never got the chance to be with me. We reconnected recently and he took it as an opportunity to take what I never gave previously. I blocked him immediately the next day. I didn’t even feel anything. He just showed his character and I want nothing to do with him. If he finds a way to contact me again, I will threaten to report him.
I absolutely love this video, but I cannot agree with a forgiveness portion about the INFJ. If it is true that I am an INFJ then it just doesn’t make sense. I’ve been a forgiving person my entire life, to the point that I don’t even know how to not forgive. It’s effortless and automatic.
Chase, Jesus resurrected. He was the first one so he can make the same with your infj who died. And all the people who has died. Its a promise, and its in the bible John 5:28,29. Apocalypse 20:12
@@CSJoseph i'm just saying according to the Bible you can see again the people who died, come to Life again in the future. Or if You die You can come to Life, not now, but in the new earth John 11:24-26
Thanks for making these exclusive lectures public 😁
“He actually resurrected the dead… like… that’s pretty dope”… this made me crack up between the bouts of shame and guilt. - ENFP
I love how honest and caring INFJs are, and i love what a positive attitude and how loving ENFPs can be.
Thank you so much.
I would listen to this straight if it were 10 hours long. Made me think of my INFJ. I felt her ISTJ superego and she felt my ESTP superego. I forgive her. I hope she forgives me. If I ever get the chance to come across my golden pair again then I’ll hold myself accountable to allowing Se inferior to have full reign over me - never allowing them to feel unwanted or inadequate.
This was hard to watch for me because of how (for lack of a better word) merciless you were on ENFPs but I understand that it’s all for our edification. Thank you.
INFJs tend to forgive anything, even things most tend to think they shouldn't from the moment the other person is ready to admit they were wrong and did a mistake because it's liberating for them. Most people usually don't want to because they're afraid to feel vulnerable by doing so and someone could take advantage of that. But that's something INFJs typically wouldn't do because they recognize the strength and wisdom there is in admitting your mistakes.
They usually find themselves in this cruel dilemma where they want to forgive someone from the get go but they're afraid that if they do the other person won't learn anything from this experience and will clash again for the same reasons. So they might actively force themselves to not forgive you for your own sake if that makes sense. INFJs are always very people focused in their mindset.
First! Man I never clicked on a video so fast in my life lol - Pulls up a chair and a bag of popcorn!
Thank you, Chase. I am at a loss for words for this powerful message you shared, and I think that powerful is still an understatement
At this point, I think I am an INFJ…. What you said to break the INFJ in your story also broke me to the point that I started shedding tears in the middle of working.
2:53 - ENFP/INFJ Exquisite Golden Pair
5:20 - Emotional compatibility lies in the judgement functions
7:22 - Interaction styles
10:33 - Golden pair relationships are like walking down a hill instead of climbing up a mountain
12:45 - Yes, I can see parts of you that are absolutely perfecto! (Insert Chefs Kiss 👨🏾🍳🤌🏾)
15:05 - Virtues & Vices
16:39 - Going all in on an INFJ
18:03 - Not the grapes tho lol 😂
19:20 - ENFP/INFJ helps each other become the best version of themselves
22:08 - What Chase really cares about
25:37 - Chase is not like Jesus
27:47 - 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
29:30 - Exactlyyyyyyyyyyy!! The marriage bed is undefiled. Ain't nobody gonna tell me what I can and can't do with my wife!
31:55 - I will never abandon you. Where else will I go? You have what I want!
33:32 - INFJ, don't let me (ENFP) get away with limiting you. Communication is key. Speak up!!!
35:18 - Exactly! Don't treat me like I'm cheating on you... Where is your proof? Where is your evidence? Stop assuming and prove it!
-39:50 - INFJ, you know who you are, I apologize if you felt abandoned by what I said all them years ago. I was afraid but I've overcome those fears now. I would always be loyal to you. Can't you see? The proof is in the pudding...I've been trying to win you back for the last 3yrs now! I wish I would have at least kept walking you to your car now
46:20 -Part Begins
49:09 - Fellow ENFP's... we are supposed to be an advocate for truth!
52:45 - Chase I have been seeking for truth naturally, I believe that's one reason why I've come across your content. I've been sharing this stuff with my INFJ friend, I'm not sure if she actually watches all the videos I send her tho. I wasn't seeking for truth from a spiritual perspective but The Lord Jesus revealed the truth to me through a man named Pastor Gino Jennings
-54:16 - I consume mad RUclips videos at 2x speed almost everyday. I try to talk about my findings with my INFJ friend but she won't even have lunch with me lately...smh
56:20 - Why INFJ's are alone
1:01:15 - ENFP's stand up and advocate whenever the INFJ is being ridiculed for telling the truth
1:04:30 - ENFP, be willing to put your reputation on the line for the truth teller INFJ
1:06:00 - The curse of the flawless
1:09:25 - Exactly! We might have a few dead trees over here but so what! I don't need perfection. The rest of the forest is still worthy and valuable.
1:11:18 - INFJ's are the least forgiving of all the types... (Believe me I know. I've seen it first hand...smh)
1:12:40 -The ultimate truth is integrity... the ultimate good is love...Wow! That was a bar
1:20:20 - This Golden Pair loves beyond death
1:28:07 - Let's make a deal
1:29:30 - I read about this in one the "Forbidden Books"... I think it was the Apocalypse of Peter... It's funny because I always kind of saw myself in the Apostle Peter
1:30:30 - WOW!!! YOU SAID IT!!!!
1:34:50 - ENFP's, let's rise to the occasion.
1:35:35 - Chase I appreciate the time and effort you put into getting this knowledge out into the world. I'm trying to help spread it. I love you 💪🏾
To the reader of these time stamps. I'd like to leave you with some knowledge that was revealed to me during a fast earlier this year...
In the book of 2Esdras 12:10-18 reads:
[10] And he said unto me, This is the interpretation of the vision:
[11] The eagle, whom thou sawest come up from the sea, is the kingdom which was seen in the vision of thy brother Daniel.
[12] But it was not expounded unto him, therefore now I declare it unto thee.
[13] Behold, the days will come, that there shall rise up a kingdom upon earth, and it shall be feared above all the kingdoms that were before it.
[14] In the same shall twelve kings reign, one after another:
[15] Whereof the second shall begin to reign, and shall have more time than any of the twelve.
[16] And this do the twelve wings signify, which thou sawest.
[17] As for the voice which thou heardest speak, and that thou sawest not to go out from the heads but from the midst of the body thereof, this is the interpretation:
[18] That after the time of that kingdom there shall arise great strivings, and it shall stand in peril of failing: nevertheless it shall not then fall, but shall be restored again to his beginning.
Question#1 - Which nation was founded in the year 1948?
Question #2 - How many presidents has the state of Israel had?
Question #3 - Which president had the longest term? Was it the second president?
Question #4 - When is the next presidential election for the State of Israel and the USA?
Final Question - Have you done your research on Pastor Gino Jennings?
We are running out of time...
Wow.. u have done some really serious work.. thank you
@@LonerWolf1224 You're certainly welcome!
Thank you, ENFP! @@POVofanENFP
@@honor9lite1337 Like Chick-fil-A...it's my pleasure 🫶🏾
Really great summery thx
Amazing, thank you... gave me perspective. Many different things to meditate on.
Humility has been a mystery to me, but I see more clearly that it is directly connected to truth and identity. Not devaluing myself or raising myself, but being grounded on the truth of who God says I am. Humility is not doing what I want to do, it is doing what God tells me to do. But not out of simple obligation, but out of His love and desire that becomes my love and desire. Humility is courageous and bold, and it always gives all the glory to God. Even though I am severely flawed, I am the righteousness of God in Christ. God's love for me goes beyond myself. I have no right to hate myself.
We the Church are the bride of Christ, and now is the time to champion the Truth and share His love to the ends of the earth.
Funny how I’m an infj and my only goal right now is to get rich and buy a nice house to invite over anyone I’ve ever known and loved, create that utopia heaven
This relationship really is about extremes, extreme highs and extreme lows. The love and compatibility are intense and like no other, but it's also very challenging. I'm the INFJ woman in this case and I've told my ENFP to stop always expecting his idea of perfection from me and to stop guilting me but to go about it softly. God knows I try to be the perfect partner but I want to let go of that. I won't be "doing" anymore, I'll just relax and let things flow. I will try my best anyway. Hard to balance Fe/Se with feminine qualities of receiving more than giving so that's also an awesome challenge for me:)
As an INFJ man who's dealt with ENFP women before, I get what you're saying. It's annoying dealing with personal perfectionism on my end, it's REALLY annoying when ENFPs push this fairyland idealism onto their partners, especially INJs. I think it's their lack of any pragmatism combined with N dominance.
Obviously, this is also a bigger conflict if both types are UD
@@chriskozak7356 Absolutely. To top it off, seems like no ENFP actually gives a feeling of security to their partner (basing this on my experience and people around me in relationships with ENFPs) which is a real problem for me. It's like Chase explained, they're great at initiating but not seeing it through. They get insecure and doubtful when they see that things are getting real. Do you have any experience with this type of situation?
I know this is so out of topic but I'd like to share a book called "Breaking the habits of being Yourself" by Dr. Joe Dispenza. The author talks about the interesting combination of science (biology, quantum physics etc.) and spirituality (not by religious standpoint though). I think C.S. Joseph would like that book and the rest of my fellow INFJs here in the comment section. I'm currently reading half way of it and so far i found it really wonderful how we can create our own reality by intentional thought and elevated emotion that unified into a state of being.
@csjoseph I believe she was an infj. We Love you enough to let u go. Enough to not put you thru trauma of watching someone you love die.
the energy we had together,put us in the group omg amazing to ppl drawn to our energy
We can’t let him forget about the ESTP/ISTJ lecture.
the what?
I wonder why he skipped it
Open a support ticket
@@CSJoseph Chase, do you know the video game Alan Wake? That game goes with this story perfectly, it just came to my mind. It has the love beyond death sacrificing each other to each other to save each other from the "death" (because it has to do more than just death). Because of a fictional nightmare that came into reality by dark magic (idk the appropriate name for it). But I think it's more of a ENTP & INTJ golden pair. But you can verify it for me if u're interested in it. Beautiful story, most of the world knows it, hope you do too. Because it's a story that you don't wanna miss. :)
as an INFJ I want to thank you, from my perspective what we need is not only the commitment from the enfp, also the-child-like play and innocence through te is like medicine to us. we can finally have a relief from all the lies in the world, and can finally let go and not give a damn but in a positive way.
from an infj perspective, we have ne as "god-"function, and as Chase said their istj-superego is unforgiving because the istj is examining the whole time to ultimately make an judgment . Do you know obito in Naruto? he is making war with the whole existence itself because of betrayal. Istj-superego is crazy-powerful and once it made a judgement, it is over like to 99 percent; we desperately NEED somebody who is mentoring us to a good outcome. When you know Naruto then you know that Obito met Madara, a vengeful narcissist, while Naruto met Jiraija, an humble optimist. so there is a war inside our head deep in the superego: is the world worth living for, like Naruto does, or is the world worth for destruction, like obito.
the reason why we are drawn to enfp especially is because of this ongoing war. The enfp is like a butterfly, has fi-god-functions, they are very unique and sensible persons, if it can manage its depravity and find themselves, develop their fi, being authentic and so on, the world is worth fighting for, from a systemic point of view, and we find joy, because we could live through their ego in a way.
i do however have something negative to say about conception of Jesus and God with regard to personality types, but also a positive thing. The positive thing is that it can help us understand the psychological necessity of Jesus from a psychological perspective. we need somebody who is so truthful, and so forgiving, that He IS the truth and the forgiveness.
but psychology can only say that we need something from a psychological perspective. But we cannot state that Jesus needs to be an INFJ to be the truth and the forgiveness. we have to humble our intellect, and our ideas, in that regard. Because God is God, not psychology because humans lost their innocence. We always speak from fallen state, so we cope the best way we can.
The Holy Spirit does not follow the rules of this psychology, nor can we say that the Holy Spirit created the rules of the psyche, because we are not angels who have been shown God`s intellect from the beginning.
Just trust Jesus, not because of psychological reasons, but because of honest prayer. A good friend of mine is also an ENTP like chase who also has intj as their soul temple. when we have discussions he always tries to rip everything apart in the Bible to understand the little things so he can rebuilt everything like an architect. but I fear that he does not consult the Holy Spirit, when he tries to reconstruct everything.
The Spirit is the Spirit and it can because it is. God is. there is no explanation, nor justification. just self-sufficiency. When it is trusted, it is integrated into the great I AM, if not then not.
I think this attitude can even help more analytical systematic types when it comes to spiritual health, especially because they are systematic.
One word with regard to ENFPs; I think we should learn to value ENFPs more, not dismiss them because of their depravity, and because they take nothing serious. Maybe they are right in that we should not take the world serious, because it leads to depravity, it sucks the soul. Their ESTP-superego might have understood that the world needs a deep deep change while others are still asleep coping and adapting. Love the neighbor as yourself might well translate into love the superego of the other person.
ENFP here. Not knowing about personality typing resulted in drug addiction and suicidal ideation when I lived by myself. Thank God I’m over it, I’m more self aware, and I’m watching your videos so I don’t end up there again. Number 1 rule, ENFPs should NEVER live alone!! I pray I find my INFJ one day. Thanks.
Chase using much more religious and emotional language in the ENFPxINFJ episode compared to the ENTPxINTJ episode is hilarious. Damn ego hacker LMAO.
It's because that golden pair to bond up it takes up the whole world. Because INFJs is rare af, and so is the ENFP, especially with genders it gets even up more low. Show me a Stat using whatever idc how u take it, to see if u can find an INFJ ENFP golden pair every out of 1 million people, who fit into that chase's golden pair bill, just paring them is not enough.
I think that’s mainly because Jesus was an infj
same as the INFPXENFJ. It was quite ummm..... aggressive.
Know your audience
So I guess the others don’t deserve a positive language 😄
xstp i have to say enfp was the most amazing relationship ever omg she was a goddess!
The difference in energy with the previous videos is so interesting. That was quite nice to see, hope you had a similar positive energy in the previous ones as well, that would've been nice especially that one INFP-ENFJ vid.
Thanks for this great video, Chase! This video certainly embodies the amazing teacher abilities that you have. It gets very tiring constantly hearing about the INTJ + ENFP being the “ultimate coupe”, whom have this great sex and conquer the world. Truth is many of these relationships end with one cheating on the other; unlike the ENFP and INFJ whom are typically true to each other.
u think golden pairs don't cheat on each other?😂😂😂😂
@@aladdout9454 I didn’t say that. Lol
Sorry to hear about your love ❤️ sounds like you developed into the person you wanted to be when younger. Younger you would be impressed. I found the first part most helpful. Thank you.
This is nice of you to say
I'm challenged by the fact he makes me love the INFJ-ENFP relationship again more than the INFJ-ENTP one as I'm always hesitating between which one I prefer lol. Lastly my only two main problems with the two were POTENTIALLY being insensitive for ENTP and being selfish for ENFP. But romantically and ease in relationship wise, of course it will always be easier with ENFP but I think ENTP will make you feel more understood and being understood is like the number 1 thing INFJs usually crave in life.
If only you could order a ENFTP or ENTFP as you prefer, life would be so much easier.
For context I am an INTJ woman who’d like an ENFP woman as my bestie but I am scared of coming off as too clingy or desperate 😭. I dunno what put that in my mind but would really appreciate advice from any ENFPs 🙏. She’s such an interesting and wonderful person who I’d love to befriend. 😅
As an INTJ who wants to be friends with an ENFP, I can’t wait to watch this video and learn. The last INTJ and ENTP video made me smile and tear up so much because ENTP sounds like the man of my dreamsss ❤❤❤. I’ve typed myself several times with the type grid and can confirm that I am definitely INTJ (not ENTP or INTP like I thought I was). I’ve realized that ENFPs and ENTPs really help to bring me out of my shell as I am really so shy and insecure on the inside but they make me feel like I can just be myself. As for the ENFP, we’ve talked a few times but my shyness really gets in the way. Any advice (you don’t have to if you don’t want) would be amazingggg 😊 ❤❤❤
Enfp like to feel they have that impact on you. They love feeling wanted. Validating their thoughts and having someone interested in getting them to expand on it is an enjoyable experience. So you overtly showing interest in her is a good thing, you won't come across clingy. And be very careful with entp men. They know how to be endearing and lovable. Love them, but stay guarded , it actually makes them respect you more. They're also prone to suffer from failure to launch mentality, and they can direct this negative energy towards their partners.
@@veebee3837 Thanks. I’ll be sure to keep that in mind. 😊
This is Great stuff 👏. CSJ is funny as hell
she always kept me in the loop yes LOVE
Woow...Thank you very much for this lecture Mr. CSJ 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Forgiveness, kindness. Too many have forgotten their meaning, these days.
That is why I follow in Jesus his footsteps, and forgive those who have wronged me.
Communication is so important. But if the ENFP does not say a word, there is no communication to begin with.
And I'll forgive them, over and over again, despite everything.
But it would be so nice, if I could forgive them in person. I just want to help them grow.
Nevertheless, they need to be open to communicate first.
There is nothing I can do, if they choose not to, out of discrimination and/or wrath.
I am doing the time. That does not mean, I have to do the crime.
A choice we all have, and a lesson I would like to grant to them.
I will carry this cross, no matter what.
Eternal love, and absolute forgiveness.
Because if I don't, then how would I be worthy in turn?
Second 😂 I'm done with This pair. All My Life (30yrs) surrounded by ENFPs, My mom, lovers, Friends, mentors, bosses. Now mything is strangely ISTPs
she was there for me like no other
I am curious about why many seem to heavily support that infj- intp are the golden pair? Great videos btw
My good friend is an INFJ, and absolutely loves her INTP whom she’s been married to for almost 20 years.
Ew absolutely not. Smokes and mirrors. Intp men rub me the wrong way when either they are extremely awkward and girly or when they are blatantly rude and disrespectful or get into their Fi (which happens more than any other type getting stuck in their demon) in a way that's just cringe. Like you watching an episode of button and this one incel nerd comes along who's vibe is just "off" like he takes pride in how pathetic his behaviour is.
People just don’t want to hear the truth. Even when they are asking for the answer. As an INFJ, I’ve experienced this in so many forms. It ruins relationships and alienates you from others. Taking the right approach is key to an extent but it feels wrong and unsettling to just pretend and let people live in the lies and struggle. They don’t have live like this but they don’t want the answers.
Me and my partner is suppose to be a golden pair INFJ/ENFP relationship, but many times I feel that it is leading to corruption than to strengthening. I have been trying to tell him, inspire him and strengthen him, but many times, I just makes my partner more insecure and more anxious which makes me feel bad. I have tried talking about my needs (like I have a sugar addiction and if I wish to get rid of it, I need my partner to help me through it and not buy snacks home), yet my partner neglects it and expects me to only care for his needs while criticising me; which eventually leads to me speaking up less and less because what is the point? It’s almost like my partner is locking me into UD/UF and making my life unnecessarily hard, and I feel myself loosing more and more of myself the longer I am in the relationship although I love him. The longer time goes the less I start to trust typology, or the typing of my INTP friend who has typed both of us, as I ponder whether a relationship should be this hard on everyone else’s psychie unless both of us are mistyped.
I think, regardless of type, we have certain restrictions and resistances that can’t be overcome other than by, it would seem, luck or time.
Sometimes we have to lose the things we value to rediscover what value those things really had.
As for your personal situation, I’m not at liberty to comment. All I have to say is that I hope yous overcome those restrictions and begin to feel the power of the pairing yous likely encountered at the beginning.:)
Call me a healthy infj because I’ve been alone for two years😂 and yes it is because my friends were losers, I wish I would’ve invested more in my friends who were not losers, but fi critic. It is not healthy, I need intimacy
Well.. since I'm a UD|SF I actually wait around that they have an extreme need of me be4 I give my passion. Because why not, I don't wanna feel one-sided, because I'm pretty sure when it comes to a Ni it's almost always about being one-sided. I don't wanna be abaonded but it the is thing I'm getting the most in my life for providing them my best. Even the family I grew up is a great drama of betrayal. But I'm extremely grateful that I can attract NT and NJs in my life to have the absolute happiness with them and grow with them together. (Not that I hate NFPs. Just gimme a break with that. I'm already living with an ENFP family member who's oscillating between being charitable and being depraved) And I'm absolutely grateful for my ability to attract them because they're critical for my existence. I love bein with them and I want relationships with them.
I remember this one. Very well.
Another question that came into my mind, why am I suppose to set apart myself from the people when I know for a fact that I'm gonna lose my human life? If I'm gonna do that where I'm gonna find the love, support and the my own made family I've been dreaming of? Because you know for a fact how painful it's gonna be for me. Why do I have to do this when I know for a fact that I'm gonna get alienated and potentially get kicked out from my own human life, love life? I am a human after all, I do have my wants and needs for love just like other people. If I'm goin to keep goin up on this ladder means I'm gonna get even more out numbered with choosing a potential partner for myself and have a family and live a normal life. Why do I have to sacrifice myself? I didn't ask any of this. Why am I like this? I think this is making me get overwhelmed. And now I'm stuck.
Will you be doing the silver and bronze pairings?
This may sound extremely unreal but can you explain why I (INFJ) feels this extremely telepathic connection with my ENFP girl? I literally feel the way she is feeling even if we live 300 kilo meters away without talking to her or being in her presence. Fe parent feels feelings from kilometers away?
I worked with an ENFP client recently. I put everything into her consultation and she rejected all my insights because she couldn’t find corroboration of my advice on the internet. It still hurts. I dream of her having a Eureka moment and coming back, but I have to be realistic.
It's her loss dear ❤.Our(INFJ)desire for learning and giving useful output will take us to great heights ....
@@riyajacob2909 aww, thanks ❤
Please chase, a video about cross temple compatibility, trying to work it out is doing my head in!
Surely temple compatibility can override conflicting type functions
And surely temple camaraderie can pose problems even when compatible
23:12 just to make it clear the prophet mohammad did not write the quran he is a messenger of the word of god, just wanted to address that the quran is the word of god not the prophet mohammad.
And thanks for the lecture really enjoyed it.
16:40 Very obvious to why you broke this INFJ here because as an Introverted Intuitive, he most likely already guessed all of it by himself through intuition but because of lack of confidence and too much modesty he couldn't bring himself to dare thinking that as it would be considered socially inappropriate or pretentious to think you worth better and so he started to tell himself it was probably wrong. Because of Fe-Ti INFJs need their worth to be acknowledged by others for them to admit it as real. And so they keep working hard until being acknowledged. Harsh but good motivation. This is why INTJs resonate well with INFJs because they come to the same type of intuitive conclusions but INFJs tend to reject it when INTJs tend to fully lean in it and one or the other ends up being correct. And so when the INTJ was correct, it will comfort the INFJ in the fact they're justified in thinking what they think.
And yet INFJs get accused of being pedantic when it couldn't be further from the truth. They sometimes play the "I'm superior" game much like ENTPs interestingly but to a minor extant only when they're attacked but they actually never considered themselves better than anyone. They can even perceive it in ENTPs as well which is probably the reason why they click better than with other people who will judge ENTPs too quickly. INFJs are great at seeing everyone's quintessential value and potential. Close to seeing their true self and personality type exposed but in a more vague way when you think about it.
Can you do videos on associate pairings? I'm an INFJ with an ISFP and I'm interested in the different challenges they face and how they can grow from it!
makes me cry
I was with an ENFP, and we dated for 10 years since 18. We just connected, and things felt really easy. The difficulties were that we're both immature and didn't really know how to communicate our needs and overtime let each other down due to feeling neglected. I also felt overwhelming feelings of guilt, i felt the relationship was holding him back from exploring the world and experiencing life. So i had to let him go. I still to this day have no idea what infj have fo offer enfp. Enfp seems to be ideal for most types. I have not come across anyone who just does not like an enfp.
Maybe it was just the fact that you were both too young and that's it. How come you don't know what INFJs have to offer to ENFPs when there is literally almost 2 hour long video on that subject😅?
And let me tell you something; you are so gorgeus! If this is you on this profile pic. My gosh. Believe in yourself...there are so many ENFP men out there, even on Reddit ENFP sub, who suffer because they can't find love, that is if you even still like ENFPs...
Big hugs from this ENFP - look and you shall find ❤
As a enfp man, i've rejected basically all relationships because they all lack that NiFe that I so much crave, you are the very definition of value to us! & I'm searching for that as much as anyone.. Hope all is well for you!
What are your thoughts on INFJ and INTP pairings? They seem like a really stable, compatiable, and common pairing that appears to last!
I havent been successful with INFJ's and Im wondering if my preference is leaning towards INTJ - Any thoughts on why I might not be able to pair up with my "Golden Pair"? Why I/others like me prefer the Thinker types more?
Love your wand! (EnFP
I find enfp's are usually mad about the things in the world that are wrong, so what if showing mercy is the ticket? forgiveness is key I think
so the infj wants most to not be forgotten? that's why they tailor the enfp's experience just for them?
I am an infj ,, I noticed most my friendships or relationships have a pattern,,, the ones who reach out to me first even in female friendships are usually ENTPS ,, to the contrary the ones I find intriguing and I reach out for them or try to befriend them are usually Intps ,,, so obviously Entps like me and I like intps 🤣🤣 I don’t mind both entp and intps understand me like no other and see the good side of me,, but ENFPS AND ENFJ they lack the depth and though I admire their funny and empathetic nature,I never was able to form bonds with them ,,,funny enough I think esfj and isfjs can tolerate me in a workplace or friendship more than enfk or enfps
As an INFJ, I find INTPS to be much more tolerable overall than ENFPs. ENFPs can be annoying sometimes with how much they will take of your energy and time and their exuberant energy. At the same time, INTPs always make me crave more from them and, especially, affection 😅 I always want be a bigger part of their world but their vast world is easily navigated alone, so they don’t seem to notice.
@@samthecentaur correct intps have a sweet side though they aint feelers
I disagree about ENFPs tending to be socially extroverted. ENxP types are almost more introverted than INFJs in many ways. The “E” in ENFP merely means that the base of their first preferential function is focused externally (but still processed in the mind) and by-and-large that’s the extent of it. Many ENFPs are fundamentally more introverted than an Fe-Se-using type could be, however reserved. Extroverted intuition, despite the manic-pixie-dem-on-skittles stereotypes, isn’t inherently social. There’s a reason ENFPs are considered the most introverted of the extrovert-types.
But good video overall.
Is it possible to be not focused in your unconscious or subconscious, but in your ego? As well as developed?
Looking drippy as usual
no video for estp and istj golden pair?
guess bro isn't a fan lol
That’s actually my parent’s pairing. They make it work, but they do get on each other’s nerves.
He might eventually put it out as per it's availability.
Pls be thankful and not be sarcastic 🙏.....basic respect for the content he put it out there?
Huh? He’s only 8/16 through why you yappin
@Brickwilliams 8 pairs lmao of which, this is the finale. he says so himself. honestly i'm not bothered. i'm enfp myself just wanted to see how istj pairings go.
Can you do Infj x Entp please!????-infj
INFJ when that person is a woman, for men INFJ it's almost impossible to find an ideal pair.
she was married tho met her husband no less he gave her a choice but me and her omg
Cs. Joesph I made aa comment regarding ur entp and Intj post safe to say I'm trying something
I never told someone to go back after they made new content n its not that its Important by I'll be amongst the 1st my comment is still quite new But I'm quite sure
I'm not the only who has this problem wit Intjs staring it's not problem as much as it's a why?
But if u want to read my story it's short paragraph it's steadily available
Why do 80% of enfp women have blonde hair or am I trippin
23:09 wrote the Qur'an was enfp? 😂. But Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) couldn't read or write.
He probably means that other people scribed for Muhammad (pbuh). Try not to be too harsh 😅
Lol God made prophet Muhammad illiterate so that people do not accuse him to be the writer or the creator of the Quran , even though prophet Muhamed peace be upon him was very smart and educated .
@@Ruu555 we are not harsh we are correcting the wrong information , chase is really smart but we don’t want him and other people to have wrong input , the Quran is words of god , and god made prophet Muhamed peace be upon him illiterate so that people do not accuse him to be the writer or the creator or the Quran , even though Prophet Muhamed peace be upon was very smart and educated leader .
@@tommy5512
Compare and Contrast:
1. Quran 2:216 & Ezekiel 28:16-17
2. Quran 2:191 & Matthew 5:43-48
3. 1 John 4: 1-16 & Quran 4:171 & John 14
Ar Rahiqul Maqtum is a good book on Prophet Muhammad (S.A.S) for further study plenty of books are available in the market you can read beside Al-Quran Majid to have a clear understanding of Allah (the Arabic name of god) is one and Prophet Muhammad (S.A.S) was his messenger and servant. Prophet Mohammed (S.A.S) was illiterate and he couldn't read and write. The Quran was revealed to Prophet Mohammad by the 23 years of time span from Allah through his messenger angel Gibril (A.S) (Gabriel). Gibril (A.S)came to Prophet Mohammed (S.A.S) at Hera Cave in a human form and hugged Prophet Mohammad (S.A.S) and said Iqra (means read) Prophet Mohammad (S.A.S) said I can't read . The author of the Quran challenges humans if you are claiming the Quran is a human made book then write something like 1 (consist of three sentences)chapter as like Quran verses till now after 1450 years of passing Prophet Mohammed (S.A.S) no human were able to write something like Quran has revealed.
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So why did an ENFP SA me, an INFJ?
oof. I'm so sorry. Their sin is wrath and depravity. Depravity to the max. But you have to remember everyone can be good or bad. Your type too. Ik this is difficult to deal with but you can't hold a snake in ur arms and angrily ask it why they bit you. You just have to focus on healing yourself. And report this snake to the authorities.
@@aladdout9454 I know, I luckily don’t give a fuck. He means nothing to me. We dated years ago and he never got the chance to be with me. We reconnected recently and he took it as an opportunity to take what I never gave previously. I blocked him immediately the next day. I didn’t even feel anything. He just showed his character and I want nothing to do with him. If he finds a way to contact me again, I will threaten to report him.
If Jesus is INFJ, Peter is his ENFP bestie?
Can I correlate this information with my enfj wife or are they completely different in their needs?
Its a diffrent personility than infj
I absolutely love this video, but I cannot agree with a forgiveness portion about the INFJ. If it is true that I am an INFJ then it just doesn’t make sense. I’ve been a forgiving person my entire life, to the point that I don’t even know how to not forgive. It’s effortless and automatic.
Chase, Jesus resurrected. He was the first one so he can make the same with your infj who died. And all the people who has died. Its a promise, and its in the bible John 5:28,29. Apocalypse 20:12
I am not claiming Jesus did not resurrect so I am confused
@@CSJoseph i'm just saying according to the Bible you can see again the people who died, come to Life again in the future. Or if You die You can come to Life, not now, but in the new earth John 11:24-26
Hey! I'm an INTP! INFJs can hang out with me.