I had a few. I tried the super empath route but people don't deserve it. The dark empath is quite fun; it's like using others' insecurities against them. Being a sociopath was okay, it protects you the best because you don't care what others say. Ego death was the one for me as nihilistically you realise "nothing matters in all honesty".
it's the fact that I don't know what I want, or nothing excites me long enough to follow through. I feel like I kill a lot of projects because in my head they're all doomed. And they're all doomed, because none of them excite me enough. I like to work, I want to work, but when I try to visualise what the "perfect work" is, I can't picture anything
I don't really get bored unless I'm with other ppl. And nothing is ever missing when I'm alone. I'm beginning to think I'm a completely healed empath now. My best friend is God, and He's never boring and nothing is ever missing with Him. He guides me to the proper path (obeying His commandments) and then everything else is so smooth. Peace.
As an INFJ-A, I agree. Thank you for reaffirming what I intuitively knew as a teen. My adult is taking charge of my teen, letting her know its ok, to step aside from the negativity, of my relatives and live authentically according to how God made me. I will use my planner to plan around work, school, activities that I like to do with or without someone.
Not worried about being bored. I enjoy my hobbies and my own company. Don’t need anyone’s energy, they can do their own thing and I have the liberties to do likewise. Sometimes a guy, bores people out of his life.
It scares me tbh how the Ni world of my mind feels so damn real and I can insert these realities unto ppl in my life but what's most scary is when I finally have waken up and realize the dissonance between my Ni world and my Te world. I have to regularly ground myself (engaging in sensory activites) and actively plan activities/goals in my real life. Now I know why having a planner has been so pivotal since grade school - It literally allows me to organize my real world into actionable things and a place to house reminders and thoughts because I lose touch with my reality all the dang on time.
Oh yes being Te blind can really feel like I left myself in the cold. That's why I love making lists and plan my days especially during luteal, it makes me feel better
I'm finding SE to be easier to connect with - and it's always worth it. However, it still isn't emotionally easy. Right now I have a somewhat stressful thing I need to do fairly soon. It's something I will need to complete next week so I've already started setting things up so that I can do it in the least stressful way possible and already I feel better. i'm helping my extroverted sensing by planning ahead of time, and even having an alternative plan just in case. I may even end up doing it a whole different way, but when I can look SE in the eye and let it know that even if it is my weaker function I am firmly in charge, and it can be done. It's helping me to actually look forward to it 😊!
Setting boundaries hard to do until your tired of the Cognitive Dissonance it causes... Complex-PTSD from childhood learned behavior patterns from Covert narcissistic family. Blacksheep of family...born an illegitimate child from an adulterous relationship before Roe vs Wade Scapegoated most of my life... ignorantly! Not anymore... took personality test... Infj-AT here... not my choice but Gods. Thank you for completing our personality test! As promised, here are your results: Personality type: Advocate (INFJ-T) Traits: Introverted - 66%, Intuitive - 83%, Feeling - 85%, Judging - 68%, Turbulent - 60% Role: Diplomat Strategy: Constant Improvement
Is that a filter or is that really what the room you’re in looks like? I wish you could get a larger painting so I don’t have to see the white walls lol
If you have a creative imagination, why not go into art or music and create something in the real world with that? There are a lot of real world opportunities waiting to happen.
What is the hardest part of choosing "YOUR" energy/path as an INFJ?
I had a few. I tried the super empath route but people don't deserve it. The dark empath is quite fun; it's like using others' insecurities against them. Being a sociopath was okay, it protects you the best because you don't care what others say. Ego death was the one for me as nihilistically you realise "nothing matters in all honesty".
Do you want me to tell you your insecurities, @wenzes?
@@infjmale91sure, always open to suggestions
@@Wenzes You just did. By replying. Take care with influence. Thou shalt have no idols/Gods beneath me. Best of luck.
it's the fact that I don't know what I want, or nothing excites me long enough to follow through. I feel like I kill a lot of projects because in my head they're all doomed. And they're all doomed, because none of them excite me enough. I like to work, I want to work, but when I try to visualise what the "perfect work" is, I can't picture anything
never in my life have I felt what it's like to be bored
I love art and nature. I build my interests around that and it is a great experience
Accepting how dull some other types are.
Time to chose our own energy INFJ.
Choose your pain. I prefer the pain of the occasional loneliness, than the constant pain of toxic, dysfunctional people causing chaos in my life.
Amen 🌸
Having a high IQ along with INFJ means that finding your “tribe” can be challenging. As long as you enjoy your company, you are never lonely.
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This is so true, once I made peace with my boring life, I really felt better. Loved this video, very informative ❤
I don't really get bored unless I'm with other ppl. And nothing is ever missing when I'm alone. I'm beginning to think I'm a completely healed empath now. My best friend is God, and He's never boring and nothing is ever missing with Him. He guides me to the proper path (obeying His commandments) and then everything else is so smooth. Peace.
I feel exactly the same 😊
No problem being alone.
As an INFJ-A, I agree. Thank you for reaffirming what I intuitively knew as a teen. My adult is taking charge of my teen, letting her know its ok, to step aside from the negativity, of my relatives and live authentically according to how God made me.
I will use my planner to plan around work, school, activities that I like to do with or without someone.
Serenity Now! I am enjoying the "Blacklist" series. Jesus is Lord!
Not worried about being bored. I enjoy my hobbies and my own company. Don’t need anyone’s energy, they can do their own thing and I have the liberties to do likewise. Sometimes a guy, bores people out of his life.
I do not remember ever being bored. I do get tired or need some alone time.
It scares me tbh how the Ni world of my mind feels so damn real and I can insert these realities unto ppl in my life but what's most scary is when I finally have waken up and realize the dissonance between my Ni world and my Te world. I have to regularly ground myself (engaging in sensory activites) and actively plan activities/goals in my real life. Now I know why having a planner has been so pivotal since grade school - It literally allows me to organize my real world into actionable things and a place to house reminders and thoughts because I lose touch with my reality all the dang on time.
YES! I used to love using my planners in middle and high schools. I've slacked off
Oh yes being Te blind can really feel like I left myself in the cold. That's why I love making lists and plan my days especially during luteal, it makes me feel better
Very good I understand, Very cool and thank you
Needed to return for my daily “get outta my head” message❣️
Biggest fan of your channel 👍👏
From Algeria ..
🌸thank you
This is my main challenge: “living in my mind.”
I am so deeply thankFULL for you, your choice to live by example, and your Divine progress!!! Much LOVE, sis
It seems I don’t choose my reality until it hits me in the face and I finally am aware of it .. I always try to please others and it drains me
genius!!! kisses from Brasil!!
Thanks!
Thanks!
What if it never got any better? I keep repeating this question. And it hurts....
Sounds like a toxic person. Also there is nuerochemistry.
I'm finding SE to be easier to connect with - and it's always worth it. However, it still isn't emotionally easy.
Right now I have a somewhat stressful thing I need to do fairly soon. It's something I will need to complete next week so I've already started setting things up so that I can do it in the least stressful way possible and already I feel better. i'm helping my extroverted sensing by planning ahead of time, and even having an alternative plan just in case.
I may even end up doing it a whole different way, but when I can look SE in the eye and let it know that even if it is my weaker function I am firmly in charge, and it can be done.
It's helping me to actually look forward to it 😊!
I just wish the physical me matched up with the thought of me.
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Setting boundaries hard to do until your tired of the Cognitive Dissonance it causes...
Complex-PTSD from childhood learned behavior patterns from Covert narcissistic family.
Blacksheep of family...born an illegitimate child from an adulterous relationship before Roe vs Wade
Scapegoated most of my life... ignorantly!
Not anymore... took personality test...
Infj-AT here... not my choice but Gods.
Thank you for completing our personality test!
As promised, here are your results:
Personality type: Advocate (INFJ-T)
Traits: Introverted - 66%, Intuitive - 83%, Feeling - 85%, Judging - 68%, Turbulent - 60%
Role: Diplomat
Strategy: Constant Improvement
Is that a filter or is that really what the room you’re in looks like? I wish you could get a larger painting so I don’t have to see the white walls lol
If you have a creative imagination, why not go into art or music and create something in the real world with that? There are a lot of real world opportunities waiting to happen.
I know why ….. ! 0:44
I was bored few days ago.😊hehehe
Making choices is a great source for growth😊
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P.S. Thank you pretty eyes.🙇(bowing)