Most everyone has a past, with experiences before you...just as you probably do too. If she's fit and fine and cool, with a hard pass you could be missing out on a nice experience.
"Take me to a good restaurant" girl is a walking red flag. A girl who wants "experiences" is one who wants a lifestyle that she cannot generate for herself and that becomes the function of the man in her life.
Whatever dude. If you just expect to sit around doing nothing (always cooking and eating at home like the 1950’s America), you will be sending your story to Thai talk with Dan. A good mate will take their Thai girlfriend out and on adventures. You have to put more into the relationship than just sausage….
@@mixingjd Actually my Thai wife has spent most of the money she earned in the United States to buy every piece of land that has become available in the vicinity of her village. Rather than go on vacations she has spent money on education to earn IT and nursing certifications. And yes, we spend most nights at home cooking and playing with our daughter.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ If you want to find a great wife in Thailand, learn functional Thai. That is your gateway to millions of normal Thai women who have normal expectations in a relationship. For most Thai women, this is a man who will treat them well and provide sufficient security to have a child or two. Traditional Thai women are immensely practical and will give 100% to a relationship. They understand the maxim "A wise woman chooses the man who will choose her."
I had a good time and really enjoyed the conversation in this episode with all my girls ❤ Thanks to Eric for hosting such a great podcast! I also really appreciated all the nice comments. Please subscribe and stay tuned for the upcoming episodes! And guys... these are just some of our experiences. For sure, not every Thai girl thinks the same way as us. And that’s normal because we’re all different. So, I hope you all are open-minded and look forward to the new guests sharing their insights and experiences, which you might never have heard before. Thanks for watching again! Love ❤️ See you again at #onenightinbangkok !
I love this podcast. You add a lot of great experience and information to it, Earn. Thanks to you, your friends and Eric for producing these great videos.
You are a suai and well spoken pooying. Thanks for being open and sharing. FYi farang don't prefer tan skin it's just to us we don't mind either way. In Europe a tan means you are rich and can afford to travel and holiday a lot on the beach. In Asia, a tan means you work on a farm. Different perceptions and expectations. @_@
Sadly it's getting more and more popular and I honestly do feel disgust when I see girls who are over done their plastic surgery I dont understand why they think its attractive
@@maximilianswansson1264 I live in Chantaburi Provice trust me when I say the puffy lip is spreading everwhere in Thailand although most of them are in Bangkok for now but its getting more popular amongst Thai girls all over the country
Maybe if your an old creep trying to select from the masses of younger ladies but going there as a very young man it was extremely easy to figure out whos had a lot of experiences. Especially in the big cities which I would stay away from for the most part.
Some fkn people who comment need to look in the mirror, stop fkn worrying about why and what everyone else is doing in Thailand, and work on your own insecurity, and jealousy.
Who knew that within 10 years, the dating market would transform into this. I was in Thailand 2014 and very rarely a woman was flown out the country. Step up boys!!
This was such a great episode. I love how forward and direct Earn is with everything she does. When I was there for Songkran a lot of the girls I talked to were pretty shy. I’m trying to learn Thai before I move there, so hopefully that’ll help. Looking forward to the next episode.
Another awesome and spicy episode . The subjects , talking point plus the camera and audio quality all top quality and Im enjoying it 👍. Good chatting with you last week .
Most guys coming here are coming for fun and a lot of them are already married. You really aren’t getting the cream of the crop and they have a lot of baggage. The good high value guys here are usually already married . When I came here I came with my Thai American wife of 15 years. We aren’t looking and are quite happy. There are some good guys in the crop but they are very hard to find. If you do find one treat him like gold. He isn’t going to put up with a lot of the nonsense some girls dish out here. He doesn’t have to.
I think you missed last 10 years of radical feminism destroying masculinity in western countries. High value men from your times that just want to provide and have peaceful, loving home are enemies number one. Sure, you can find a good partner, but it's like navigating a minefield if you're not top 0.1% of men.
Thailand was actually decent before it got flooded with tourists. Before social media and before girls became too westernized (as in this video). I think this happened around 2015/2016 when the previous King passed away and when Instagram became more popular in Thailand. As someone who lives here since 2001 it's sad to see this happening. I used to love Thailand but now I often wonder if it's actually better to just pack my stuff and move somewhere else, like Vietnam for example.
Im someone who has been visiting Thailand since 2008 and also lived there between 2016 to 2020 and I agree 100% what you are saying. So sad to see how its changed for the worse in just few years. FYI I spent last few years in Vietnam and its becoming just as bad, I would say the majority of girls I speak to now are feminist and more focused on working and making money versus being in a relationship or starting a family anymore. Also the SGBB culture is INSANE in Vietnam.
@@cash4cat it's crazy in Vietnam. Soooooooo many girls saying they rather wait until they're 30+ to get married or into serious relationships. Honestly its shocking how fast western feminism has spread here. Philippines seems the best overall option if you're strictly looking for old school wifey girls in abundance.
Love Earns opinion about the guy and this podcast is golden always.This episode is awesome,I have watched it after episode 19.So much interesting stories.Yes I think important is not to be shy,because guy has to make moves all the time to be successful with lady
That girl talking about Dubai is a hard “no”. Shopping and restaurant whining a dining. Seems materialistic. No thanks. The other 2 seems more honest/real
I heard that in Thailand that if you cheat the spouse is able to sue the person cheating with your spouse for heaps of money, and that they will typically win the lawsuit. Anyone out there able to confirm or debunk this?
Love ya pods mate, but truthfully and honestly these girls you are getting on aren’t really a true representation of the majority here in Thailand 🇹🇭. In bkk maybe and still “only a percentage”. I know you are trying to get people to see the other side and not have that sleazy mindset or thoughts of Thailand. 0:01 Ive had my fair share of all types from high class working professionals to the bar girls and working girls. And unfortunately these are the more true representation and what us foreigners experience. So instead of asking questions to the girls who dont know the actual answers, ask the questions from the horses mouth so to speak and get these type of girls on and delve deep into their minds to help us and obviously yourself as i feel the majority of questions are coming from what you have experienced. Food for thought and i look forward to the next pod 🫶🏼🇹🇭👍🏽
I agree, you will never see here the majority of thai girls which are shy, dont speak english, never drink party or smoke, just go work and back home, so cannot generalize with these 3 ladies with all thai ones.
I agree, I give some harsh criticism but I honestly really like his podcast, the set up, and he seems like a cool dude. I just wish he'd get more variety type Thai girls and ask deeper questions as well. I give him shit in the comments but it's because I'd like to see his podcast really blow up. Dont even know the guy 🤣 but I enjoy seeing others win!
Awesome selection of different girls. The chat between you all was great. Earn is a very smart girl. The girl in the middle had great morals and interesting how she only likes Asian and mentioning her lighter skin color. Does seem important for Asian people. The girl on the right, well.. Good luck to her. I did laugh when you said you don’t like girls with lip fillers. Haha. All three are very young though and will have bright and interesting futures for sure! With hopefully less trips to Dubai. 😉
"I NEED A GUY THATS OLDER THAN ME TO GIVE ME ADVICE, BUT IF A GUY SAYS IM OLDER THAN YOU THIS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO, THATS NOT WHAT I WANT" .................
In asian culture the “drug dealer gf” is called an ABG. Currently that means Asian Baby Girl. Back 20 years ago it was Asian Baby Gangster. The description is the same. Blonde hair tattoos and fake boobs.
35:11 Maybe butterfly is not the most appropriate word. Thai people usually calls someone a butterfly when they hook up with different people (they go from one flower to another flower) That’s why the girls looked a bit confused when Eric said “treat them like a butterfly” Their faces were like WTF 😂😂
Butterfly is a bar girl slang term for a guy that likes to go with different girls every night. Most Thai women not in the bar scene are not familiar with this term "butterfly guy"
@@Raddical09 Anyone who had several boyfriends/girlfriends and had short relationships can be called a butterfly…it is not only bar slang. Everybody in Thailand understands the term, indeed not only in Thailand, in other languages the same analogy is commonly used.
@@dannmm6745in Thailand specifically it is definitely a term pretty much exclusive to bar girls / kathoey slang. Other girls might be aware of it depending on their knowledge of the bar scene but it isn't universally known. Probably why he got side eyes lol
No matter how pretty the woman I like is, if she doesn't work on our future with me on an equal footing and does everything together, she can stay where she is and look for a man who can be exploited and isn't smart enough to ignore these red flags. Yes, it is possible to enjoy such a functioning relationship without the role of the man or the woman being neglected. Most people are no longer able to do this because of the media. Btw.. Being a woman does not mean letting your man pay for everything just because you look good and are able to convert oxygen into carbon dioxide.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ of course, there are a 100 reasons to come to Thailand. It’s just that for most single farang who realize normal Thai women will visit his hotel with VERY little effort, the 99 other reasons become something he does while taking a break from one reason. In between his rotation of women he will explore the other great things about Thailand. NATWALT, I know. I didn’t say all. I just mean a below average looking white guy will have a problem of too many. Not saying it’s good what he does or bad. But we aren’t gonna ignore what the average single young man is into, and we aren’t gonna pretend Thailand isn’t the place he can have an abundance, his only payment being barely anything more than a few texts and maybe a translator app.
14:16 i'm half Tha and in order i to avoid misunderstandings, you have to distinguish buddhism (theradava), that could be different from thai Culture, in religion it's totally forbidden to have "Miai Noi" you have to split then have an other GF if the woman does not suits u (I mean too material girl, not so spiritual in final etc...), In some yes certain regions I agree that some Thai are have multiple relations, 53:50 I prefer a woman who confirms family first is more important than anything because a woman who runs a business can potentially ruin the family and take less time with children and education, I don't want to generalize but it will be more difficult.
I've never heard the words that sounded like "sai faw" and "sai gao" that the ladies explained at 19:18 into the video. How do you spell those words in Thai? It sounds like maybe it's spelled สายฝอ and สายเก๊า but I'm not sure. Are these Thai words, or do they come from another language, like แต้จิ๋ว (Teochew)?
Ok, I did a little digging and found the answer. The word สายฝอ or สายฝ. comes from the word สาย (line) and the initial letter of the word ฝรั่ง "farang" (foreigner of European descent). It means a Thai woman who follows Western cultural norms and dresses in Western clothing styles.
I found another explanation that says it comes from the word สายฟ้าฟ้า "saai faa-faa", where "faa-faa" means a person who likes to wear makeup, have tanned skin and dress like a foreigner. I'm not sure which is correct, but I'm leaning towards "farang" because its spelled with the same letter ฝ, while "faa-faa" is spelled with ฟ (same consonant sound but a different tone).
As for สายเกา "saai gao", the word เกา "gao" comes from an abbreviation for เกาหลี "gao-lii", the Thai word for Korean. So "saai gao" means Korean style.
Is it true that many thai women undergo cosmetic procedures? I've seen many thai women with that particular look of high nose bridge, sharp nose tips, plump lips, narrow chins and pale skin (see 45:56) who are especially common in the nightlife or entertainment industry.
Hate how he didnt even challenge them on their "Gik" term. Its literally cheating, having a side piece cause youre not fulfilled in your relationship? Dudes just let chicks do whatever they want these days.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ I meant their as in "Thais" term not directly from the girls obviously. You're not the only one that's lived years in Thailand......
I’d say a gik is more like friends with benefits or a f*ck buddy. Sure it’s involves infidelity, but this something common and part of the culture. I don’t think, especially where it came up in the video, that these ladies could be expected to answer, it’s a sensitive topic.
My understanding is that a gik is not exactly the same as a side piece. You can have a gik when you are not in a serious relationship with someone else. It's just a person you are hooking up with that you are not in a serious relationship with. I think Earn alluded to this at 11:47 when she said "if you just want to have some fun, then you have some fun, but if you are in a relationship, please just stay focused on your relationship". This implies that if you're not in a serious relationship, then having a gik is fine. It's basically dating someone that you are not committed to. I'm not Thai, so take this with a grain of salt. My experience comes from what my Thai friends and family have explained to me (my wife is Thai).
It really isn’t this guy is amateur af. Rule of thumb if they have a big following and spend all day on their phone. Have fun but don’t take them seriously.
i know and understand you used topic to make your channel supported i understand but so much of your content swings towards the younger set about party things to do what clubs but what about us more mature men i like you interviews with johnny because he does bring into play some older thoughts and ideas im 66 and lets be real no no way am i going to get a much younger woman that will be true and honest about her desires in a relationship coming first time soon doing thai friendly to hopefully find some kind of relationship and be able to show me around my mission is two fold just to see what its like and could i live there i hame 3000.00 a month social security plus substantial from the sale of my home like say 100,000.00 so i dont think money would be an issue at this point but i was wondering if you could set up a podcast for us more mature viewers and your advice would always be welcome oh and by the way id like to keep an active lifesty7le i mean stay busy not really a club person anymore but every now and then ok thanks hope to hearom you
Mei, you are wrong, I am farang and I live 14 years in Korea… I love light skin, short, demure, shy, innocent East Asian looking women, you are 1000% my type.
good episode! Thai women can be extremely jealous Women, I've been here many years dated all ages, always suspicious and can be demanding for the good things in Life, I feel the good ones are off the market married to Thai men, best advice: As an Expat if you want to marry a Thai women make sure you move back to your Country and live! if not, you will be supporting their families it's a prerequisite.
is that possible to have a normal relationship with a thai lady or is all about these foreigners to show how much money they have paying flights ticket to dubai and europe? Not sure
@@seanwan30 even normal ones ask you to buy you tickets, asia or anywhere, they see you traveling and wanna join for free..how many times they told me: buy me ticket! NEXT!
@@OneNightinBangkok_ when we come into their life after these guys they have a kind of expectation or see from their friends how have been treated by foreigners before. That's why they seem never happy, in my opinion. Also many girls have been trying with me to ask to buy them tickets for join me in my holidays
It’s possible, just not as possible as every other country without Thai in the name. No complaints either, there are pros and cons with a culture cool with transactional relationships
@@OneNightinBangkok_ no. It’s not that simple. For example, just because you are born in Thailand doesn’t mean that you automatically are a Thai citizen Your biological mother must be Thai!! There are many foreigners who have children born here that are effectively ‘Stateless’. They have to apply to the country of their mothers for citizenship. In today’s world, many, many Russians in Thailand have found this out.
@@peterh0862 She wasn't born inside of Thailand. It sounded like she went through an official adoption proceeding, so I'm assuming she became a naturalized citizen as a result of that.
They are probably all ran through by a lot of guys, they just don't want to say it. People tihnk they are innocent or some shiet bro its a hook up culture there. Unless she is a virgin or like 18-20 years old, you are late to the party. Especially if they are "bar girls" going out frequently etc
Too many dudes merry-go-rounding when it's simply about Dhamma ..... which supersedes the highest royal. A lot of confusion will terminate the day Thai can truly opine, as well as others. ...... The interview you want to really have will get you jailed. I can keep my mouth shut a a month or two; living there, which I could easily is far off. It's a huge downer being restrictive of a country totally mismanaged.
If a girl has a picture of her in Dubai she’s a hard pass
😅😅😅
lmao
Singapore is part of the "circuit" too.
Most everyone has a past, with experiences before you...just as you probably do too. If she's fit and fine and cool, with a hard pass you could be missing out on a nice experience.
@@djxs666 Many fish in the sea. I’ll leave that baggage for you.
"Take me to a good restaurant" girl is a walking red flag. A girl who wants "experiences" is one who wants a lifestyle that she cannot generate for herself and that becomes the function of the man in her life.
Whatever dude. If you just expect to sit around doing nothing (always cooking and eating at home like the 1950’s America), you will be sending your story to Thai talk with Dan. A good mate will take their Thai girlfriend out and on adventures. You have to put more into the relationship than just sausage….
@@mixingjd Actually my Thai wife has spent most of the money she earned in the United States to buy every piece of land that has become available in the vicinity of her village. Rather than go on vacations she has spent money on education to earn IT and nursing certifications. And yes, we spend most nights at home cooking and playing with our daughter.
@@sunareekaewnat8967 And that’s a whole different story. Congratulations.
@@mixingjd You are 100% correct
@@OneNightinBangkok_ If you want to find a great wife in Thailand, learn functional Thai. That is your gateway to millions of normal Thai women who have normal expectations in a relationship. For most Thai women, this is a man who will treat them well and provide sufficient security to have a child or two. Traditional Thai women are immensely practical and will give 100% to a relationship. They understand the maxim "A wise woman chooses the man who will choose her."
I had a good time and really enjoyed the conversation in this episode with all my girls ❤ Thanks to Eric for hosting such a great podcast! I also really appreciated all the nice comments. Please subscribe and stay tuned for the upcoming episodes! And guys... these are just some of our experiences. For sure, not every Thai girl thinks the same way as us. And that’s normal because we’re all different. So, I hope you all are open-minded and look forward to the new guests sharing their insights and experiences, which you might never have heard before.
Thanks for watching again! Love ❤️
See you again at #onenightinbangkok !
You’re my favorite!
I love this podcast. You add a lot of great experience and information to it, Earn. Thanks to you, your friends and Eric for producing these great videos.
You are a suai and well spoken pooying. Thanks for being open and sharing. FYi farang don't prefer tan skin it's just to us we don't mind either way. In Europe a tan means you are rich and can afford to travel and holiday a lot on the beach. In Asia, a tan means you work on a farm. Different perceptions and expectations. @_@
we came to Thailand to get away from this kind of horrible puffy lip surgery type girls. Now its here too lol
Sadly it's getting more and more popular and I honestly do feel disgust when I see girls who are over done their plastic surgery I dont understand why they think its attractive
@@pix00l they make more money with big boobs this quite obvious
Go to the cities in the province's, it's not the same ... Yet
Have to go to the smaller cities of the province...social media connects the world good and bad
@@maximilianswansson1264 I live in Chantaburi Provice trust me when I say the puffy lip is spreading everwhere in Thailand although most of them are in Bangkok for now but its getting more popular amongst Thai girls all over the country
Finding women in Thailand is easy. Finding a good one to settle down is much harder.
Truer words have never been spoken 👍
Maybe if your an old creep trying to select from the masses of younger ladies but going there as a very young man it was extremely easy to figure out whos had a lot of experiences. Especially in the big cities which I would stay away from for the most part.
Couldn't disagree more
Some fkn people who comment need to look in the mirror, stop fkn worrying about why and what everyone else is doing in Thailand, and work on your own insecurity, and jealousy.
100%
Who knew that within 10 years, the dating market would transform into this. I was in Thailand 2014 and very rarely a woman was flown out the country. Step up boys!!
This was such a great episode. I love how forward and direct Earn is with everything she does. When I was there for Songkran a lot of the girls I talked to were pretty shy. I’m trying to learn Thai before I move there, so hopefully that’ll help. Looking forward to the next episode.
thanks for watching
Kate definitely did "work" in Dubai.😊
Another awesome and spicy episode . The subjects , talking point plus the camera and audio quality all top quality and Im enjoying it 👍. Good chatting with you last week .
thanks for watching habibi 👏
Fascinating interview. I like how u draw out their thoughts. Man, i have to get over there.
Thanks for watching
@@OneNightinBangkok_ plz do a live chat interview w May. U don't have her info listed.
Thai woman are natural born police detectives 🕵️♀️
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As soon as you said “ I don’t like lip fillers“
I looked straight at the girl to the right 😂😅
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Most guys coming here are coming for fun and a lot of them are already married. You really aren’t getting the cream of the crop and they have a lot of baggage. The good high value guys here are usually already married . When I came here I came with my Thai American wife of 15 years. We aren’t looking and are quite happy. There are some good guys in the crop but they are very hard to find. If you do find one treat him like gold. He isn’t going to put up with a lot of the nonsense some girls dish out here. He doesn’t have to.
I think you missed last 10 years of radical feminism destroying masculinity in western countries. High value men from your times that just want to provide and have peaceful, loving home are enemies number one. Sure, you can find a good partner, but it's like navigating a minefield if you're not top 0.1% of men.
Thailand was actually decent before it got flooded with tourists. Before social media and before girls became too westernized (as in this video).
I think this happened around 2015/2016 when the previous King passed away and when Instagram became more popular in Thailand.
As someone who lives here since 2001 it's sad to see this happening. I used to love Thailand but now I often wonder if it's actually better to just pack my stuff and move somewhere else, like Vietnam for example.
Im someone who has been visiting Thailand since 2008 and also lived there between 2016 to 2020 and I agree 100% what you are saying. So sad to see how its changed for the worse in just few years. FYI I spent last few years in Vietnam and its becoming just as bad, I would say the majority of girls I speak to now are feminist and more focused on working and making money versus being in a relationship or starting a family anymore. Also the SGBB culture is INSANE in Vietnam.
Social media is in Vietnam too. My friend has been living in Vietnam for many years and has just moved to Thailand for the same reason 😂
@@cash4cat it's crazy in Vietnam. Soooooooo many girls saying they rather wait until they're 30+ to get married or into serious relationships. Honestly its shocking how fast western feminism has spread here. Philippines seems the best overall option if you're strictly looking for old school wifey girls in abundance.
I kinda agree with this. In 2015 i remember seeing ALOT of less white dudes, now its flooded. The secret about thailand is out
Vietnamese women are just diet Chinese women. They are the same at the core, with only the amount of money they require separating them.
Loving Ern's thinking but adoring May's genuineness.
Rule to thumb! Rather be a player than a simp overseas!!
Great episode mate, well done 😄👍
thanks jonny 👍
Good conversation 👌
Hard to buy coffees 🥲
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EARN is my kind of girl. She is out going , down to earth and have family value. ❤❤❤
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Love Earns opinion about the guy and this podcast is golden always.This episode is awesome,I have watched it after episode 19.So much interesting stories.Yes I think important is not to be shy,because guy has to make moves all the time to be successful with lady
Thanks for watching
It’s difficult to find a thai girl who doesn’t get very jealous,you can be accused of liking her friend sister cousin even if you don’t
Totally true.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ the one in the middle is sweet shame she doesn’t like Farang so much
would be interesting getting some thai guys with similar questions
That girl talking about Dubai is a hard “no”. Shopping and restaurant whining a dining. Seems materialistic. No thanks. The other 2 seems more honest/real
Only the middle one comes across as not for the streets
Yea she's real fake and definitely a no that dubai one
Great show and fun to watch, been living in Dubai for 10 years and you make me wanna move to BKK lol P.S. get Johnny Asia back on hes great 👍🏻
Jonny is the best
May is a way better girl!
I heard that in Thailand that if you cheat the spouse is able to sue the person cheating with your spouse for heaps of money, and that they will typically win the lawsuit. Anyone out there able to confirm or debunk this?
I’ve never heard of this but sounds interesting.
Love ya pods mate, but truthfully and honestly these girls you are getting on aren’t really a true representation of the majority here in Thailand 🇹🇭. In bkk maybe and still “only a percentage”. I know you are trying to get people to see the other side and not have that sleazy mindset or thoughts of Thailand. 0:01
Ive had my fair share of all types from high class working professionals to the bar girls and working girls. And unfortunately these are the more true representation and what us foreigners experience. So instead of asking questions to the girls who dont know the actual answers, ask the questions from the horses mouth so to speak and get these type of girls on and delve deep into their minds to help us and obviously yourself as i feel the majority of questions are coming from what you have experienced.
Food for thought and i look forward to the next pod 🫶🏼🇹🇭👍🏽
I agree, you will never see here the majority of thai girls which are shy, dont speak english, never drink party or smoke, just go work and back home, so cannot generalize with these 3 ladies with all thai ones.
I agree, I give some harsh criticism but I honestly really like his podcast, the set up, and he seems like a cool dude. I just wish he'd get more variety type Thai girls and ask deeper questions as well. I give him shit in the comments but it's because I'd like to see his podcast really blow up.
Dont even know the guy 🤣 but I enjoy seeing others win!
Good podcast but i think if he had 35 year olds on he might get some different answers.
Good podcast 🇹🇭🔥 Boston stand up 💪🏿☘️
Love the show!
Thanks for watching
Awesome selection of different girls. The chat between you all was great. Earn is a very smart girl. The girl in the middle had great morals and interesting how she only likes Asian and mentioning her lighter skin color. Does seem important for Asian people. The girl on the right, well.. Good luck to her. I did laugh when you said you don’t like girls with lip fillers. Haha. All three are very young though and will have bright and interesting futures for sure! With hopefully less trips to Dubai. 😉
"I NEED A GUY THATS OLDER THAN ME TO GIVE ME ADVICE, BUT IF A GUY SAYS IM OLDER THAN YOU THIS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD DO, THATS NOT WHAT I WANT" .................
In asian culture the “drug dealer gf” is called an ABG. Currently that means Asian Baby Girl. Back 20 years ago it was Asian Baby Gangster. The description is the same. Blonde hair tattoos and fake boobs.
Eric, Mike from New Bedford living in Bangkok where you at?
Currently at Encore Boston Harbor as I type this 😂
35:11 Maybe butterfly is not the most appropriate word. Thai people usually calls someone a butterfly when they hook up with different people (they go from one flower to another flower) That’s why the girls looked a bit confused when Eric said “treat them like a butterfly” Their faces were like WTF 😂😂
He's right; the girls are probably more butterflies than us! 555
Butterfly is a bar girl slang term for a guy that likes to go with different girls every night. Most Thai women not in the bar scene are not familiar with this term "butterfly guy"
@@Raddical09 Anyone who had several boyfriends/girlfriends and had short relationships can be called a butterfly…it is not only bar slang. Everybody in Thailand understands the term, indeed not only in Thailand, in other languages the same analogy is commonly used.
@@dannmm6745in Thailand specifically it is definitely a term pretty much exclusive to bar girls / kathoey slang. Other girls might be aware of it depending on their knowledge of the bar scene but it isn't universally known. Probably why he got side eyes lol
Hey Brother cool channel what Visa are you on? Currently in Philippines and want to move to Bangkok. Appreciate any help.
Thanks!
Amazing. Thank you 🙏
The big bird cut scene 😂😂😂😂
No matter how pretty the woman I like is, if she doesn't work on our future with me on an equal footing and does everything together,
she can stay where she is and look for a man who can be exploited and isn't smart enough to ignore these red flags.
Yes, it is possible to enjoy such a functioning relationship without the role of the man or the woman being neglected.
Most people are no longer able to do this because of the media.
Btw.. Being a woman does not mean letting your man pay for everything just because you look good and are able to
convert oxygen into carbon dioxide.
Great episode. But come on….women don’t know what they want. What they say they want and what they actually respond to is light-years apart.
Wow so nice. 3 beautiful girls
If woman want a reliable BF in Thailand make sure he's not on a tourist visa otherwise she will most likely be just another notch in his belt.
Everybody starts somewhere. A lot of people have been for years on tourist visas.
Why date a farang in the first place though? He’s probably not there to see the temples.
@@eddiejohnson4434 that's a really narrow view. People come to Thailand for all kinds of reasons.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ of course, there are a 100 reasons to come to Thailand. It’s just that for most single farang who realize normal Thai women will visit his hotel with VERY little effort, the 99 other reasons become something he does while taking a break from one reason. In between his rotation of women he will explore the other great things about Thailand.
NATWALT, I know. I didn’t say all. I just mean a below average looking white guy will have a problem of too many. Not saying it’s good what he does or bad. But we aren’t gonna ignore what the average single young man is into, and we aren’t gonna pretend Thailand isn’t the place he can have an abundance, his only payment being barely anything more than a few texts and maybe a translator app.
14:16 i'm half Tha and in order i to avoid misunderstandings, you have to distinguish buddhism (theradava), that could be different from thai Culture, in religion it's totally forbidden to have "Miai Noi" you have to split then have an other GF if the woman does not suits u (I mean too material girl, not so spiritual in final etc...), In some yes certain regions I agree that some Thai are have multiple relations, 53:50 I prefer a woman who confirms family first is more important than anything because a woman who runs a business can potentially ruin the family and take less time with children and education, I don't want to generalize but it will be more difficult.
You girls are very beautiful.
Don’t see you with the drug dealer girlfriend after seeing your last GF.
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I believe she wanted to say "Fatboy Izakaya" ; 59:15. It's on Ekamai road and is a Gem of a place.
Yes that’s it
You do on occasion get good recommendations from this podcast, but most of these questions are skin deep and juvenile
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I've never heard the words that sounded like "sai faw" and "sai gao" that the ladies explained at 19:18 into the video. How do you spell those words in Thai? It sounds like maybe it's spelled สายฝอ and สายเก๊า but I'm not sure. Are these Thai words, or do they come from another language, like แต้จิ๋ว (Teochew)?
Ok, I did a little digging and found the answer. The word สายฝอ or สายฝ. comes from the word สาย (line) and the initial letter of the word ฝรั่ง "farang" (foreigner of European descent). It means a Thai woman who follows Western cultural norms and dresses in Western clothing styles.
I found another explanation that says it comes from the word สายฟ้าฟ้า "saai faa-faa", where "faa-faa" means a person who likes to wear makeup, have tanned skin and dress like a foreigner. I'm not sure which is correct, but I'm leaning towards "farang" because its spelled with the same letter ฝ, while "faa-faa" is spelled with ฟ (same consonant sound but a different tone).
As for สายเกา "saai gao", the word เกา "gao" comes from an abbreviation for เกาหลี "gao-lii", the Thai word for Korean. So "saai gao" means Korean style.
Interesting
Is it true that many thai women undergo cosmetic procedures? I've seen many thai women with that particular look of high nose bridge, sharp nose tips, plump lips, narrow chins and pale skin (see 45:56) who are especially common in the nightlife or entertainment industry.
These 3 girls are not Thai guy's type at all.
I think Mei is okay, so what’s Thai guy type
Thailand is beautiful
i like the channel!
Thanks for watching
Hate how he didnt even challenge them on their "Gik" term. Its literally cheating, having a side piece cause youre not fulfilled in your relationship? Dudes just let chicks do whatever they want these days.
It’s not “their” term. It’s a Thai thing - both men and women. Nobody said it was okay. In fact, they themselves said it’s NOT okay.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ I meant their as in "Thais" term not directly from the girls obviously. You're not the only one that's lived years in Thailand......
I’d say a gik is more like friends with benefits or a f*ck buddy. Sure it’s involves infidelity, but this something common and part of the culture. I don’t think, especially where it came up in the video, that these ladies could be expected to answer, it’s a sensitive topic.
My understanding is that a gik is not exactly the same as a side piece. You can have a gik when you are not in a serious relationship with someone else. It's just a person you are hooking up with that you are not in a serious relationship with. I think Earn alluded to this at 11:47 when she said "if you just want to have some fun, then you have some fun, but if you are in a relationship, please just stay focused on your relationship". This implies that if you're not in a serious relationship, then having a gik is fine. It's basically dating someone that you are not committed to. I'm not Thai, so take this with a grain of salt. My experience comes from what my Thai friends and family have explained to me (my wife is Thai).
Come on “Top Golf” BKK way to Western that’s exactly why I go to Phuket, Phi Phi , Ko Samui,
37:15 lol Kate I knew you went to Dubai for money 😂
Seems like dating over there is as complex as in the west. Hmmm ... 🤔
It really isn’t this guy is amateur af. Rule of thumb if they have a big following and spend all day on their phone. Have fun but don’t take them seriously.
i know and understand you used topic to make your channel supported i understand but so much of your content swings towards the younger set about party things to do what clubs but what about us more mature men i like you interviews with johnny because he does bring into play some older thoughts and ideas im 66 and lets be real no no way am i going to get a much younger woman that will be true and honest about her desires in a relationship coming first time soon doing thai friendly to hopefully find some kind of relationship and be able to show me around my mission is two fold just to see what its like and could i live there i hame 3000.00 a month social security plus substantial from the sale of my home like say 100,000.00 so i dont think money would be an issue at this point but i was wondering if you could set up a podcast for us more mature viewers and your advice would always be welcome oh and by the way id like to keep an active lifesty7le i mean stay busy not really a club person anymore but every now and then ok thanks hope to hearom you
Sorry, our show isn't for everyone
Earn for me Eric hands 🙌 down but I’m an older guy …
I’m actually in your neck of the woods in July …
Yes, she is lovely. Thanks for watching 🙏
It’s too bad mei don’t like westerners… I speak fluent Korean maybe she can make an exception for me 😍
Mei, you are wrong, I am farang and I live 14 years in Korea… I love light skin, short, demure, shy, innocent East Asian looking women, you are 1000% my type.
Great podcast and lovely woman, but the first and third girl sitting seem more westernised than girls from my city in England 🤣
good episode! Thai women can be extremely jealous Women, I've been here many years dated all ages, always suspicious and can be demanding for the good things in Life, I feel the good ones are off the market married to Thai men, best advice: As an Expat if you want to marry a Thai women make sure you move back to your Country and live! if not, you will be supporting their families it's a prerequisite.
is that possible to have a normal relationship with a thai lady or is all about these foreigners to show how much money they have paying flights ticket to dubai and europe? Not sure
@@seanwan30 even normal ones ask you to buy you tickets, asia or anywhere, they see you traveling and wanna join for free..how many times they told me: buy me ticket! NEXT!
I can tell you from experience you can 100% have a normal relationship without trips to Europe or things like that.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ when we come into their life after these guys they have a kind of expectation or see from their friends how have been treated by foreigners before. That's why they seem never happy, in my opinion. Also many girls have been trying with me to ask to buy them tickets for join me in my holidays
@@user-uv8in3kb9q It depends on the girl, how you met, and the expectation you set. I've never had this problem.
It’s possible, just not as possible as every other country without Thai in the name. No complaints either, there are pros and cons with a culture cool with transactional relationships
How is it that May has a Thai ID Card?
No parents and born in Taiwan 🇹🇼
Adopted by Thai parents. Not sure the specifics of how it works.
@@OneNightinBangkok_ no. It’s not that simple. For example, just because you are born in Thailand doesn’t mean that you automatically are a Thai citizen Your biological mother must be Thai!!
There are many foreigners who have children born here that are effectively ‘Stateless’. They have to apply to the country of their mothers for citizenship. In today’s world, many, many Russians in Thailand have found this out.
@@peterh0862 She wasn't born inside of Thailand. It sounded like she went through an official adoption proceeding, so I'm assuming she became a naturalized citizen as a result of that.
Mis-pronouncing "Cheating on me" can quickly take on a very different meaning....
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y u dont show the guys whos talking behind camera.. so weird
I am a FBI lol
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They are probably all ran through by a lot of guys, they just don't want to say it. People tihnk they are innocent or some shiet bro its a hook up culture there. Unless she is a virgin or like 18-20 years old, you are late to the party. Especially if they are "bar girls" going out frequently etc
Don’t trust urn, mei is loyal and real good girl… wow urn even explicitly is quarrelsome. She is not submissive and will not follow directions.
It’s okay if she has an opinion … it really is.
Thailand culture is very pragmatic
American born asian men very unique also😂
So racism is in every country 😅
Yes, it’s natural. It’s unnatural to hold one group of people to a standard that the whole world doesn’t have.
Kik is cheating too
Too many dudes merry-go-rounding when it's simply about Dhamma ..... which supersedes the highest royal. A lot of confusion will terminate the day Thai can truly opine, as well as others. ...... The interview you want to really have will get you jailed. I can keep my mouth shut a a month or two; living there, which I could easily is far off. It's a huge downer being restrictive of a country totally mismanaged.
Did you have a stroke writing that?
I wonder if the host knows that Thai girls get exported to ALL Western countries to "work" so why he is so focused on Dubai is a question for me ....
I didn’t bring up the topic of Dubai… she was the one that brought it up.
Dubai focuses on it though. The way the whole system is set up facilitates taking advantage of immigrant labor
37:39 showing Albania flag instead of U.A.E ...
He’s an Albanian singer
@@OneNightinBangkok_ you are talking about Dubai not Tirana
Just came across this, definitely sounds rehearsed
LOL this is the furtherest thing from rehearsed. It’s basically all live
Picked some quality women there hoss
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Honestly, Earn is over confident!! Cringe
Excellent podcast
Thanks for watching