@@giovannihernandez2236 As a former skinny guy, now gym goer that's graduating with his masters, I can tell you that women don't know a guys personality by looking at them or talking to them once, so that "personality" argument is bs
I mean, not really. Not everyone likes jacked guys and people go for personality in a relationship. A good body doesn't outweigh a bad personality. I use to think being stronger and more fit made me a better option, but that just made me very conceded. No one cared about my body. Just my personality and if I was a chill guy.
@@anti1trainingif you took 2 guys with the same personality and one was 500 pounds and the other was lean and jacked who do you think the girl would choose? This is coming from someone who is 239 pounds
@ObsidianArrowYT 500 lbs is an extreme. That's not mobile. Assuming they're more like 300 lbs, it still depends on their taste. It's very subjective. Which woman are we talking about? It's not that simple. Also, no two people have the same personality. There's bound to be differences and different faces. Some people prefer jacked people others prefer chubby or big beautiful people. Do you prefer a muscular women like leanbeefpatty or do you prefer a skinny women? Do you prefer a slim build with some muscle or do you like thicker women
@@charliewalker9443 if you have been around girls when the speak to each other freely about which guy they like, particularly fit celebrities, Haney cavill, Ryan Reynalds, Chris Evans etc, then it’s a clear pattern. When ever there was a school athlete or teacher that had similar body type, they reacted the same way. We know what the general attraction fantasy is. Don’t play coy. Either you’re being naive or you’re extremely young
@@its9333 I think you are simply believing all of what you hear and half of what you see. Look at most people on the planet. They have fantastic sex lives with their average partners because attraction is so much more than simple appearance. The fittest guy can be the ugliest without a sense of humour and those same people you speak of will Immediately be turned off by them. I’d argue you are being naive for reducing very complex realities into simple presets of attraction.
Exactly. When I was in my early 20’s I was training kickboxing and was in good shape and it was much easier getting laid back then then it was after I stopped because of time issue and I gained some weight suddenly the number of women that is willing suddenly went down. But then I got back in shape and it got easy again. And also as Coach Greg said at 8:25 if you got money it also gets easier. Which is true I posted a screenshot of my bankaccount saldo on Tinder and damn it got easy just with a couple of 100k+ suddenly 99% of my likes became matches. A friend of mine also once told a girl I was well off and suddenly ahe and her female friends was flocking us all night.
I have a friend that put on a bit of weight and had a potbelly hanging out and his girlfriend says she loves it and she doesn't want him to lose his potbelly! He got back in shape and looks incredible and of course the TRUTH comes out! She can't stand all the other women that look at him now! She is insecure and always on top of him when they go out! Now this is the only reason why she said she loved his body fat! She doesn't want other women looking at him! So when women say they love the fat they are lying! They don't want other female women looking at their man! Plain and simple!
Some women don't like jacked or extremely fit men because it then takes the personal accountability off of them to stay in shape, that's pretty much what it is.
I've talked to some gorgeous women and when I was working in a high end clothing store, this dude that was jacked came in. I mean like ripped, super ripped. Some of the girls were saying he was just meat head. They didn't know this guy at all, but that's what they were saying. I'm 6'3 and not fat, but I'm not Phil Heath lmao
@@Capnamerica84 It's because they know if he were to date them, he can pull side pieces easily and they will have female competition always. They want a man they can control and have fearful of losing them. That's one reason you see supermodel type women with average looking dudes, they don't want a dude better looking than them. It's a threat and they don't like the competition.
these body builders got horrible looking bodies outside of the competing community, they are literally obese even if it's muscle. they just look straight up terrible.
The women that say fat is better are fat. A great personality and good looking face that isn't bloated can compensate, but not replace, a great physique. You don't have to be huge, but a Christiano Rinaldo build is what women like. If you have a fat gut, you may not be able to reach her "down there" with your "down there".
In my late 30’s, I dated a woman in her mid 20’s. She was thin athletic build. She claimed she was attracted to dad bods. She also stated that she didn’t notice my thinning hair because she was preoccupied looking at my shoulders and my @$$. Based on this experience, it sounds like many women confuse “dad-bod” with “bear mode”.
Bear-mode is good as long as you don't store the fat mostly in your gut. When I cut from 235 to 207 (I'm 6'0''), most people said I looked better at 235, although they did say that cutting made me look younger.
Over the years after clsoe to 2 decades of being in the gym and observing people, I've noticed that women almost always look better when they lose weight, as long as they don't reach some extreme anorexic levels the weight loss almost always flatters them. But as for men, nope, that's not always the case at all their before with extra fluff often looks better (in clothing at least). Obviously tho if you're comparing a guy going on cycle and adding size and leaning out at the sams time that doesn't count.
@@Ben-ld1qi height is a big factor. someone who is 6'3'' and 30% bf will probably just look "big" whereas someone 5'6'' and 30% bf will be considered short and fat.
Greg, I’m a newer subscriber and saw you on the joubilee (??) podcast on my recommended. As a 25 year old, 6’3, 330 male who’s worked out enough to have decent form but never had the ambition to actually cut down, you have motivated me to do something about it. I’m a month in and down to 313 with making easy changes to my diet and cutting out soda. I’ve been working out everyday because I’m not motivated, but I’ve made it an actual habit/hobby. No overweight person should get to the mindset there’s nothing wrong with them, but with the world. Make the change for yourself and your loved ones.
My thoughts exactly!! How is being fat making anyone’s life better. I never understood why anyone, especially men enjoy their belly’s hanging over their belts, I mean how F’ing uncomfortable that has to be!
have you ever met anyone who actually admitted to it? the food companies employ food scientists who create food that makes you want to eat more, restaurants give free bread because there is a higher chance that the customer will order dessert
As a 6-foot guy with above average looks, I've found that being fitter definitely attracts more girls, assuming everything else is on point. The three main factors that matter are Money, Personality, and Outward Appearance. 1. Appearance: Dressing well and maintaining a fit physique significantly improve your outward appearance. 2. Personality: Confidence and having a passion beyond just getting laid are crucial for a strong personality. 3. Money: By money, I mean having a respectable and stable income. For most adult women, having a solid career is a basic gatekeeper criterion for a serious relationship. Having a lot of money alone won't help if your personality and appearance aren't up to the mark. While some girls might be really into wealth and showiness, most won't be physically attracted to you based solely on money. You need to excel in all three aspects if you want to date a lot of girls. I believe dating a variety of people helps you understand them and yourself better, which is why I advocate for aiming high in all these areas.
@@blind_warriorr Man, I checked out your videos and first off, you're a total Chad. I swear, you must be an alien or something! Your resilience and empathy are next-level, dude. Seriously, women should love to be with you, just to soak up those positive vibes and achieve greatness by your side. Keep killing it, bro!
In the real world, the more jacked guys will get the girl. Most girls will never go for the obese guys. The lengths that people go through to delude themselves is truly insane. This is where we are in the developed free world now? It's sickening.
Train hard guys you might be surprised at what you can achieve. I just started July 2nd 2023 at 36 years old. Looking good is just a bonus feeling great is the key.
Dad bods got popular so women aren’t constantly reminded of their own habits. There’s a reason we typically see the most attractive women with fit men. Dom Mazzetti’s old broscience dad bod video hit the nail on the head with this topic
I am from Brazil and sometimes i don' t even understand what Greg ia talking about. I just come here to hear him yelling at 1.5 speed and mad about something. 🤣
I'm Male, 27, 188cm( 6ft 1" ) tall weighing 125Kg(275lb) Im not fat but im not average aswell. Im a little bit obese. I created a profile on a dating plattform a year ago. Guess who get's almost no matches and goes to the gym now because he woke up and wants to do smth about it. Yes i know online dating is very superficial. BUT thats what it is these days. I noticed the shift to superficiality since social media got introduced and is a habit in pretty much most daily lives of people now.
Online dating might as be dating right now. There is virtually no difference between the two. And yes, fat = attractive is bs. And I am not talking about the ripped guys, just athletic and in shape, will always stand out compared to fat. Being fat and having personality = funny friend to hang out with . As someone that used to be very fit, and now is fat, the difference is night and day
Omg yes. I fell in love with my husband because he was the first man to not "simp". Being treated normal and not like a princess is more attractive to me by a landslide, it feels more respectful.
I feel like term dad-bod is a bit ambiguous, yet I have definetly heard woman say this quite confidentlt. In my mind, dad-bod is equivalent to someone with a stronger physique, sort of like a lumberjack, handyman/construction worker, as dad's are typically seen as a strong figure.
@nattyfatty6.0 He’s clearly meaning his muscularity and how lean he is you’re coping hard because he is roasting fat people and you’re certainly one of them you’re legitimately obese
When I lost weight a lot of women started to talk with me some did hit on me but just in general more enjoyed chatting would compliment or chat for a lot longer looking more comfortable
@@C0d0ps exactly, I was 59kg before year in april (and it was cold for me even in summer), now I got around 74kg and I am alltime sweating 🥵 its problem in winter af, because I have to not wear jacket or its like fcking sauna 🤦
It's true I got in good shape after being really skinny in highschool/university and the difference in the way people treat you and the attention you get from women is huge
in my experience I have always gotten more attention from girls when im leaner like 150-160 lbs . Right now im 215lbs you can see for yourself on my channel and see the difference in weight. for some girls, the very few. See past the weight but only when you can actually make a connection with them. And in todays fast pace society. you only have 30 seconds to make a good impression so being jacked and fit is certainly gonna make you stand out from the rest.
@@BULD0SIS When girls find a man attarctive they will almost always make the first move. But this all depnds on how good looking you are as a man. If you're just average or below avrage looking, then you'll be lucky to get any girls hitting on you and making the first move unless they're unattractive, obese, or desperate. If you're above average looking, let's say a 7 and above, girls will be hitting on you left right an centre, making sexual advances. Based on your comment, my guess is that you fall into the former...
Listen, the truth of the matter is that physical traits play an important part in sexual attraction especially when it comes to confidence. It’s just a fact.
The qoute "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is true. It's all individual. Some people think fat men and women are hotter. It's all on individual taste. And there's no way to argue with that. Even when I was fit, I prefered big girls. And when I got fat, my partners at the time preferred fat guys. Because cuddles and other stuff. My mom is the same way. She doesnt think built men are hot, she sees them as "skinny" even if they're jacked. And shes always gone for chunky men. It be like that sometimes. You like whatever you were conditioned to like. GOD BLESS US ALL AMEN!!!🙏🏼❤️👑
Couldn't agree more. When someone asks me "how long have you been going to the gym?" I consider it a insult. I get compared to insecure buffoons because they simply can't fathom that someone is more then twice as muscular as them without years of training. This pathetic style of life that the crushing majority live is the reason all those kids are so skinny on top of that majority being ectomorphs.
@@impulse894Now tell us your chicken breast and broccoli diet with heavy ass weight lifting everyday while in the bathroom you are blasting steroids up yo ass😂
Y’all are not helping the case that a LOT of guys who stay fit and are way more conventionally attractive are kinda jackasses about it, which is VERY unattractive
Hey Coach, you should do a video on the relationship between ADHD and obesity / overeating. Was recently diagnosed with that and Bipolar I and PTSD and had no idea how much those conditions have contributed to my obesity and lack of self control with binge eating (I’ve been bulimic for about 17 years as well). I’ll say this about Coach, I lost 30 lbs last year eating from his cookbook 2.0 and walking about 90mins around the neighborhood 5 times a week with sporadic weightlifting. I gained most of it back this year because I basically had a mental breakdown, but with medications doing their thing I know I’ll get back into it and I’ll bring it harder than last time. Thanks Coach.
There is also a psychological aspect that women might find guys with dad bods more attractive because they know they actually have a chance of getting with that person
The problem with finding men that are 6"0 is they barely exist. Theres only around 15.4% of men globally that are 6"0. Of those 15.4%. some are married, some are gay. This drops much lower once you add in 7 figure incomes. Women dont like their options and thats fine. I have a female friend who stopped dating because she couldnt find what she wanted. But shes also a single unemployed mum of 3. She said she chose to be single. When in reality, it was because she doesnt like the options she has.
Those height statistics are bullshit. Instead of looking at all population, IT is better to look at some specific country. On USA average height is 178 cm/ 5'11. There is more than just 15% of guys above 6 ft.
@@KrzysztofMarchańskino the average height in America for a man is 5’9, but the thing is alot of guys lie about their height and women are aware and their idea of 6ft is actually about 2 inches shorter which would be 5’10.
Sorry Greg, but in terms of 7ft being prefered, that is not true, it's also considered exception to the rule just like 5ft people. 6 feet are most prefered for majority. Rest is just like obesity, disease. For example 7 feet tall is considered Gigantism and it can be lethal.
I’m 5’5 and 185, smidge extra weight on me but I’m also benching 315 and squatting almost 400 and I’ve never had an issue getting laid or getting a date/gf. Confidence but not cocky is the key
I think it comes down to most jacked guys come across as douches bag, remember for most people bodybuilding is about aesthetics first, then health, so they're all into themselves.I think of health first, then strength, that's why I like strongman type training
@thatoneguy1741 you would think that would be a logical answer, but I'm convinced the gym couple is basically a myth. It tends to crash and burn faster than most other relationships. The truth is a lot of us are fairly self absorbed people and we have to find someone who can tolerate it and focus on our better points. That goes for men and women bodybuilders
I understand that it's hard to believe if you workout hard to be attractive, but attraction and being hot has so much more to do with personality than with your body.. for some of us. I do not think: "Oh, this guy is hot, because he's fat or well build". I think: "Oh, I love that man. No matter how his weight is. He is hot as he is MY man. The one I love. The only one I want. Skinny, trained, fat.. doesn't matter. ❤
Looks matter to everyone Including you. I'm not even saying you only want the jacked fit guys, some women really like the cuddly teddy bears who wear the fat well but you absolutely care about looks. Which Informs your perception of personality. It's disheartening and insulting to men to make women's standards just so simple and easy that you just need "personality". Most people are average there are only a few standout personalities and confidence levels. Looks matter and it's important men and women be level with each other on that fact.
@Touma134 That's not true. Looks are just a bonus. When you fall in love with someone, you think they're the most beautiful person in the world. I ended up falling for people, I didn't find physically attractive at first at all. It is very subjective. Looks don't matter, it's not a fact. That's a shallow mindset to carry. You're generalizing instead of realizing human beings are complex, not simple.
@@anti1training I totally agree. I like very skinny build, not to much visible muscles, but I ended up with this man how is definitely not skinny, but still he is the only one I want. 😍 Who made man believe it's their body that makes us fall in love with them? The is a big difference between love and attraction. And not all woman choose be physical attraction. I am attracted by intelligence, humor and a kind character. 🤷🏻♀️
youre not wrong mr greg. you are very right. i am slightly overweight but i slowly lose fat and weight fir half a year. i feel better , fresher, healthier. i cut sugars, i workout, i lift weights, i do cardio and fitness. i eat less. and i feel better an d look better
1:56 Because youre conflating the average(=mean) with the median. The mean of 1,1,1,2,10 is 15/5=3 but the median is 1 because there are two observations below and two above. The two measures are only equal when the observations are symetrically distributed, ie when there are as many very hot guys as there are very ugly ones and as many sort of hot as sort of ugly. I would posit that not to be the case on dating sites where there are many unattractive men but only very few 10s. This skews the median ("50%above, 50%below") below the average. Thabk you for coming to my ted talk.
Tons of hard drugs my friend. If you wrote this thinking you did something, 600+ plus are dying faster then the general population over all......without the drugs....
I'm 5'3", 175 lbs, 30 inch waist - practically look like the great late Franco Columbo. Also middle class and I have no issues getting laid - been with women from 5' to 5'7".
@@celdur4635 his fit version would be more attractive than his fat version, yes. However, his fat version is still more attractive than the jacked guys. So it’s not so straight forward. Still, that fat guy is like the top 1% of fat guys so it’s not like it applies broadly, but goes to show that broad generalizations don’t always apply.
@@thearmwrestlingopinion2978 You are proving my point. You compare only to yourself, if you bring in others the many other variables apply. Couch Greg said so himself, height for starters.
I'm single because I can't last more than couple of months in relationships, once upon I time I could but with so many dead friends I can't stay in long relationship bc I have no where to escape. I love to be in a relationship but I know I don't ment to last long
ITS Face -> Height -> Body boosted by Money and Status. Personality is an added bonus. The Jubilee plus size model is actually close to normal weight and he has a great face and a great height to compliment that. That's why he was not complaining but I can assure you that was he jacked he would make people's jaws drop. Greg is correct.
Greg! That Tong Kat Ali is certainly giving me the energy I need, didnt realize how beneficial it would be to women but WOW its helping me!! Thanks for the clean supplements!
As a former fat guy ill say this is BS. Women wouldn't even look at me. I was invisible.
how about now?
As a former fat guy, now a gym chad, i can tell you that without money and success women still wont look at you
As a former fat guy, now gym goer, with money and success I can tell you that "caring" women won't even look at if your personality sucks.
@@giovannihernandez2236 As a former skinny guy, now gym goer that's graduating with his masters, I can tell you that women don't know a guys personality by looking at them or talking to them once, so that "personality" argument is bs
As a former fat guy, I agree with you.
I can't wait to keep making myself more unattractive when I hit the gym tomorrow!
This one it ngl 💀
Youll make yourself attractive to dude
😂😂😂😂
@@tccrowe3192 He's being sarcastic bro
@@PK-pp3lu lol no shit
Obviously they are hotter, they have a permanent coat on
Let him cook
lol!!!
let. him. cook.
took me a while to get this lol
@@garfield50096 let me know
Let them believe being fat looks good.... less competition 😂😂😂
Real also ppl like that are pushovers
I mean, not really. Not everyone likes jacked guys and people go for personality in a relationship. A good body doesn't outweigh a bad personality. I use to think being stronger and more fit made me a better option, but that just made me very conceded. No one cared about my body. Just my personality and if I was a chill guy.
@@iscrewyouall That doesn't make them pushovers lol
@@anti1trainingif you took 2 guys with the same personality and one was 500 pounds and the other was lean and jacked who do you think the girl would choose? This is coming from someone who is 239 pounds
@ObsidianArrowYT 500 lbs is an extreme. That's not mobile. Assuming they're more like 300 lbs, it still depends on their taste. It's very subjective. Which woman are we talking about? It's not that simple. Also, no two people have the same personality. There's bound to be differences and different faces. Some people prefer jacked people others prefer chubby or big beautiful people.
Do you prefer a muscular women like leanbeefpatty or do you prefer a skinny women? Do you prefer a slim build with some muscle or do you like thicker women
People tell themselves beautiful lies to avoid ugly truths.
Question follows who is lying. Coach Gregg or the opposing view?
@@charliewalker9443we all know the answer, this isn’t a question
@@its9333 we really don’t tho
@@charliewalker9443 if you have been around girls when the speak to each other freely about which guy they like, particularly fit celebrities, Haney cavill, Ryan Reynalds, Chris Evans etc, then it’s a clear pattern. When ever there was a school athlete or teacher that had similar body type, they reacted the same way. We know what the general attraction fantasy is. Don’t play coy. Either you’re being naive or you’re extremely young
@@its9333 I think you are simply believing all of what you hear and half of what you see. Look at most people on the planet. They have fantastic sex lives with their average partners because attraction is so much more than simple appearance. The fittest guy can be the ugliest without a sense of humour and those same people you speak of will Immediately be turned off by them. I’d argue you are being naive for reducing very complex realities into simple presets of attraction.
i was extremely fit 2 years ago but got fat now due to studies and stuff in general and no being fat doesnt feel good at all
didnt know studying made you fat
Haha loser
Dude I’m in the same situation lol
Exactly.
When I was in my early 20’s I was training kickboxing and was in good shape and it was much easier getting laid back then then it was after I stopped because of time issue and I gained some weight suddenly the number of women that is willing suddenly went down.
But then I got back in shape and it got easy again.
And also as Coach Greg said at 8:25 if you got money it also gets easier.
Which is true I posted a screenshot of my bankaccount saldo on Tinder and damn it got easy just with a couple of 100k+ suddenly 99% of my likes became matches.
A friend of mine also once told a girl I was well off and suddenly ahe and her female friends was flocking us all night.
Bro ive recently got stomach fat for furst time in my life and it feels horrible cant tie shoes or put on socks standing up feels weird
“ you don’t like being single, you just don’t like your options”
The ugly truth 😬😬😬
He’s spitting straight facts.
That is true lol
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greg has the balls and clarity to speak the truth
More delusional than last time
Why aren't you at least 7 ft 2+ in height though? I see 6 ft as manlets now. 😅
Yep. Who on earth would ever think that having a big belly is attractive. Nothing attractive about someone who let themselves go. It’s gross
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@@synchronicity-thelanguageo3991I honestly can’t tell if you’re joking or not.
@@synchronicity-thelanguageo3991 if you're serious, good luck finding one :)
I have a friend that put on a bit of weight and had a potbelly hanging out and his girlfriend says she loves it and she doesn't want him to lose his potbelly! He got back in shape and looks incredible and of course the TRUTH comes out! She can't stand all the other women that look at him now! She is insecure and always on top of him when they go out! Now this is the only reason why she said she loved his body fat! She doesn't want other women looking at him! So when women say they love the fat they are lying! They don't want other female women looking at their man! Plain and simple!
Yup they're all insecure
True so true
she would have eventually dumped him for being unhealthy and unattractive, is he still with her?
@@FutureProductionz239 then she'll cheat on him to get her revenge in advance because he was going to cheat on her eventually
Yeah, cause all 4 billion women are all the same and definitely think the same.
Some women don't like jacked or extremely fit men because it then takes the personal accountability off of them to stay in shape, that's pretty much what it is.
I've talked to some gorgeous women and when I was working in a high end clothing store, this dude that was jacked came in. I mean like ripped, super ripped. Some of the girls were saying he was just meat head. They didn't know this guy at all, but that's what they were saying. I'm 6'3 and not fat, but I'm not Phil Heath lmao
@@Capnamerica84 It's because they know if he were to date them, he can pull side pieces easily and they will have female competition always. They want a man they can control and have fearful of losing them. That's one reason you see supermodel type women with average looking dudes, they don't want a dude better looking than them. It's a threat and they don't like the competition.
@@Capnamerica84How tall was the jacked guy?
Nah
these body builders got horrible looking bodies outside of the competing community, they are literally obese even if it's muscle. they just look straight up terrible.
The women that say fat is better are fat. A great personality and good looking face that isn't bloated can compensate, but not replace, a great physique. You don't have to be huge, but a Christiano Rinaldo build is what women like. If you have a fat gut, you may not be able to reach her "down there" with your "down there".
It’s even harder if she’s fat too 😂
All current and former hung fat guys had a chuckle at this
In my late 30’s, I dated a woman in her mid 20’s. She was thin athletic build.
She claimed she was attracted to dad bods. She also stated that she didn’t notice my thinning hair because she was preoccupied looking at my shoulders and my @$$.
Based on this experience, it sounds like many women confuse “dad-bod” with “bear mode”.
It’s like when they say off season Cbum has a dad bod. Ridiculous.
Bear-mode is good as long as you don't store the fat mostly in your gut. When I cut from 235 to 207 (I'm 6'0''), most people said I looked better at 235, although they did say that cutting made me look younger.
Over the years after clsoe to 2 decades of being in the gym and observing people, I've noticed that women almost always look better when they lose weight, as long as they don't reach some extreme anorexic levels the weight loss almost always flatters them. But as for men, nope, that's not always the case at all their before with extra fluff often looks better (in clothing at least). Obviously tho if you're comparing a guy going on cycle and adding size and leaning out at the sams time that doesn't count.
Let me guess, you're a big burly man?
@@Ben-ld1qi height is a big factor. someone who is 6'3'' and 30% bf will probably just look "big" whereas someone 5'6'' and 30% bf will be considered short and fat.
Dr. Coach Greg! More brutally honest than last time! I LOVE it!!! Keep fighting the good fight brother Greg!!!
They won’t be saying this when they suffer from heart failure 5-10 years from now 😩
both fat and bodybuilders will suffer from heart failure
Yeah i feel sad for all of them as even the bodybuilders will suffer the same fate
@@tccrowe3192xdd momento
@@tccrowe3192no body builders won't suffer that same fate. What are you talking about? Not every body builder does gear
@@tccrowe3192haha what the heck? Ripped people are the most healthy we have
Dang this breakup made Greg take the red pill harder than last time
Extreme red pill never works
Nothing red pill about this take.
Nah, it's just facts. Nothing to do with any colour of pill
Red pill 😂 OK person who never progressed past a teens mentality
That girl was pulling him down... had so much fake about her... fake lips etc.
Greg, I’m a newer subscriber and saw you on the joubilee (??) podcast on my recommended. As a 25 year old, 6’3, 330 male who’s worked out enough to have decent form but never had the ambition to actually cut down, you have motivated me to do something about it. I’m a month in and down to 313 with making easy changes to my diet and cutting out soda. I’ve been working out everyday because I’m not motivated, but I’ve made it an actual habit/hobby.
No overweight person should get to the mindset there’s nothing wrong with them, but with the world. Make the change for yourself and your loved ones.
Why would you want to be fat
My thoughts exactly!! How is being fat making anyone’s life better. I never understood why anyone, especially men enjoy their belly’s hanging over their belts, I mean how F’ing uncomfortable that has to be!
Nobody does they just don’t admit it
i would
i’d finally get girls lol.
have you ever met anyone who actually admitted to it? the food companies employ food scientists who create food that makes you want to eat more, restaurants give free bread because there is a higher chance that the customer will order dessert
That’s not how being fat works.
As a 6-foot guy with above average looks, I've found that being fitter definitely attracts more girls, assuming everything else is on point. The three main factors that matter are Money, Personality, and Outward Appearance.
1. Appearance: Dressing well and maintaining a fit physique significantly improve your outward appearance.
2. Personality: Confidence and having a passion beyond just getting laid are crucial for a strong personality.
3. Money: By money, I mean having a respectable and stable income. For most adult women, having a solid career is a basic gatekeeper criterion for a serious relationship.
Having a lot of money alone won't help if your personality and appearance aren't up to the mark. While some girls might be really into wealth and showiness, most won't be physically attracted to you based solely on money. You need to excel in all three aspects if you want to date a lot of girls.
I believe dating a variety of people helps you understand them and yourself better, which is why I advocate for aiming high in all these areas.
Well said there. I just need to work on the money part 😂
has anyone read this dissertation?
@@blind_warriorr Man, I checked out your videos and first off, you're a total Chad. I swear, you must be an alien or something! Your resilience and empathy are next-level, dude. Seriously, women should love to be with you, just to soak up those positive vibes and achieve greatness by your side. Keep killing it, bro!
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In the real world, the more jacked guys will get the girl. Most girls will never go for the obese guys. The lengths that people go through to delude themselves is truly insane. This is where we are in the developed free world now? It's sickening.
Train hard guys you might be surprised at what you can achieve. I just started July 2nd 2023 at 36 years old. Looking good is just a bonus feeling great is the key.
Healthy is attractive in general. What you are and what you think you are.
WATCH THE GODDAMN VIDEO!!!
The “do you want to dance with me” statement was savage.
Here faster than last time
That’s what she said
@@C0d0psand he and they
Women love men they feel like they can keep.
*control
@@AQBPlays☝🏻
Women love money, women love feeling like they are important, women love themselves.
@@AadetTubesomeone gets it
Ha ha ha. Such cope.
Coach Greg making more sense than last time💪
Coach Greg callin out secual devients as being willing to accept whatever they can get is based as hell
Dad bods got popular so women aren’t constantly reminded of their own habits. There’s a reason we typically see the most attractive women with fit men. Dom Mazzetti’s old broscience dad bod video hit the nail on the head with this topic
give me some examples
Greg spitting more facts than last time
Greg flexing harder than last time
I am from Brazil and sometimes i don' t even understand what Greg ia talking about. I just come here to hear him yelling at 1.5 speed and mad about something. 🤣
I'm Male, 27, 188cm( 6ft 1" ) tall weighing 125Kg(275lb) Im not fat but im not average aswell. Im a little bit obese.
I created a profile on a dating plattform a year ago. Guess who get's almost no matches and goes to the gym now because he woke up and wants to do smth about it.
Yes i know online dating is very superficial. BUT thats what it is these days. I noticed the shift to superficiality since social media got introduced and is a habit in pretty much most daily lives of people now.
Online dating might as be dating right now. There is virtually no difference between the two. And yes, fat = attractive is bs. And I am not talking about the ripped guys, just athletic and in shape, will always stand out compared to fat.
Being fat and having personality = funny friend to hang out with .
As someone that used to be very fit, and now is fat, the difference is night and day
I Like you being as honest as you are
Been waiting for coach to react to this
I'm actually shocked men are this delusional how can this be the cas e?
Greg Keeping it real 💯
06:20 when they say a dad bod they're talking about a guy who's like maybe 20% Bf and below or someone like Jason Momoa off training
Jason Momoa on a bulk "dad bod" is what they mean
Either naturally big and strong guys or those that did physical labor or once worked out but there is now some fat covering it.
@@Touma134this☝️🙄
@@PenNamed exactly boss
Fat-jacked.
Fukin rights Greg! You nailed it with this one.
society being more delusional than last time...
“GET WITH THE PROGRAM!” Greg you are awesome 😂 be making me laugh without even trying
Omg yes. I fell in love with my husband because he was the first man to not "simp". Being treated normal and not like a princess is more attractive to me by a landslide, it feels more respectful.
Treat her like dirt and she'll stick around like mud
Coach Greg speaking facts harder than last time lol
I feel like term dad-bod is a bit ambiguous, yet I have definetly heard woman say this quite confidentlt. In my mind, dad-bod is equivalent to someone with a stronger physique, sort of like a lumberjack, handyman/construction worker, as dad's are typically seen as a strong figure.
Hope I look like Coach Greg when I'm 48
@nattyfatty6.0 as long as it's nothing like you I'm good brother....maybe back off that sodium intake your already salty enough
@nattyfatty6.0 He’s clearly meaning his muscularity and how lean he is you’re coping hard because he is roasting fat people and you’re certainly one of them you’re legitimately obese
@nattyfatty6.0 he's 5'6''
Couch Greg spitting facts harder than last time🗣️🗣️🗣️
Great analysis Greg
Greg went demon mode on this topic
I lost 90lbs and now I get hit on harder than last time 😈
I lost 90 pounds and all I got was "your face looks smaller" lol
When I lost weight a lot of women started to talk with me some did hit on me but just in general more enjoyed chatting would compliment or chat for a lot longer looking more comfortable
if a girl bumps into you by accident, says excuse me and nothing else, they aren't hitting on you
Lost 50 pounds, got more jacked than last time but it didn't matter since im broke
Probably cause you gained more confidence
My man woke up today and decided to speak FACTS
Cause the fat seals the heat in....
Muscle produces a lot of heat.
@@C0d0ps exactly, I was 59kg before year in april (and it was cold for me even in summer), now I got around 74kg and I am alltime sweating 🥵 its problem in winter af, because I have to not wear jacket or its like fcking sauna 🤦
Like a literal seal. 🦭
My dessert, my appetite, my Dinner
The hell we supposed to do with this information?
@@tsaki_titan whatever you want
@@grailness1085 shove it up where it doesn't shine?
Rizzier than last time
Lies lies lies, as someone whose weight fluctuates women throw themselves at me when I’m fit and don’t even acknowledge me when I’m fat
making eye contact briefly one time is not throwing themselves at you
It's true I got in good shape after being really skinny in highschool/university and the difference in the way people treat you and the attention you get from women is huge
You also have to either be high status or have a god career for this to even matter.
@@troysmith5749 He never said that, so take the cape off.
@@vktor5730 you were crying when you wrote that comment
I love coach Greg, the man spits 100% facts and will always make you laugh. I’ve had this same insight in women for years.
I make up for it in size you can’t see 🥶
Just show us he's been claiming this for years with no evidence just show us
Fun fact: the only external reference point that has any correlation to schlong size...
is height.
Good take Greg
in my experience I have always gotten more attention from girls when im leaner like 150-160 lbs . Right now im 215lbs you can see for yourself on my channel and see the difference in weight. for some girls, the very few. See past the weight but only when you can actually make a connection with them. And in todays fast pace society. you only have 30 seconds to make a good impression so being jacked and fit is certainly gonna make you stand out from the rest.
@@BULD0SIS When girls find a man attarctive they will almost always make the first move. But this all depnds on how good looking you are as a man. If you're just average or below avrage looking, then you'll be lucky to get any girls hitting on you and making the first move unless they're unattractive, obese, or desperate. If you're above average looking, let's say a 7 and above, girls will be hitting on you left right an centre, making sexual advances. Based on your comment, my guess is that you fall into the former...
This is the coach Greg we all need
Listen, the truth of the matter is that physical traits play an important part in sexual attraction especially when it comes to confidence. It’s just a fact.
Coach Gregg spitting facts harder than last time 🙌
Just let them believe that, so we can be the guys who get more Girls than last time😂
Girls want bears now bro 😂
You mean 🤡 @@John-q7m
The qoute "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is true. It's all individual. Some people think fat men and women are hotter. It's all on individual taste. And there's no way to argue with that. Even when I was fit, I prefered big girls. And when I got fat, my partners at the time preferred fat guys. Because cuddles and other stuff. My mom is the same way. She doesnt think built men are hot, she sees them as "skinny" even if they're jacked. And shes always gone for chunky men. It be like that sometimes. You like whatever you were conditioned to like.
GOD BLESS US ALL AMEN!!!🙏🏼❤️👑
I don’t know why your comment doesn’t have more like than last time.
I guess people enjoy being critical of others, human nature.
@@John-q7m more like soy boys
🗣️A gregggggg he gotta be attracted to everybody 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Being healthy/fit is attractive.
Being on steroids/bodybuilding is insecurity personified.
Dyel?
Couldn't agree more.
When someone asks me "how long have you been going to the gym?" I consider it a insult. I get compared to insecure buffoons because they simply can't fathom that someone is more then twice as muscular as them without years of training.
This pathetic style of life that the crushing majority live is the reason all those kids are so skinny on top of that majority being ectomorphs.
One of the most ridiculous comments I have read in a while. Nice job
@@impulse894Now tell us your chicken breast and broccoli diet with heavy ass weight lifting everyday while in the bathroom you are blasting steroids up yo ass😂
@@impulse894 How is it ridiculous? Sorry if i offended you btw
Y’all are not helping the case that a LOT of guys who stay fit and are way more conventionally attractive are kinda jackasses about it, which is VERY unattractive
“If I had to switch teams”
Give it up , Greg. Nobody is buying the straight act.
Circle act.
Lol Greg is not gay or flamboyant
@@BuckeyeBudI hope Ohio state beats Michigan this year.
@Iofm827 and if? Whats the Problem?
@@Cookie_Cutter_Creep why? do you feel sorry for them?
Glazing himself harder than last time
He speaking fax
Like literally yes, we always sweatin 🥵
Greg never fails to be funny and educational at the same time
Greg Doucette recycling content harder then last time
This ^.. wtf Greg
HOLY SHyt I’m predicting it right now! Greg js going to go on Fresh&Fit in the near future!
already been on 🤷🏻♂️
Hotter walking up a hill and can't breathe
Hey Coach, you should do a video on the relationship between ADHD and obesity / overeating. Was recently diagnosed with that and Bipolar I and PTSD and had no idea how much those conditions have contributed to my obesity and lack of self control with binge eating (I’ve been bulimic for about 17 years as well).
I’ll say this about Coach, I lost 30 lbs last year eating from his cookbook 2.0 and walking about 90mins around the neighborhood 5 times a week with sporadic weightlifting. I gained most of it back this year because I basically had a mental breakdown, but with medications doing their thing I know I’ll get back into it and I’ll bring it harder than last time.
Thanks Coach.
There is also a psychological aspect that women might find guys with dad bods more attractive because they know they actually have a chance of getting with that person
Women think Chris Bumstead has a dad bod.
@@thenerdysk8er What? Are they…….
Yes, they are.
@@Cookie_Cutter_Creep there‘s still people that believe the Rock is natural too.
@@thenerdysk8er When he was bulking, context is important bro.
@@GodBodyKing98i cant even look like Cbum off season if i wanted to. The point still stands
This man is speaking facts.
The problem with finding men that are 6"0 is they barely exist. Theres only around 15.4% of men globally that are 6"0. Of those 15.4%. some are married, some are gay. This drops much lower once you add in 7 figure incomes. Women dont like their options and thats fine. I have a female friend who stopped dating because she couldnt find what she wanted. But shes also a single unemployed mum of 3. She said she chose to be single. When in reality, it was because she doesnt like the options she has.
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Those height statistics are bullshit. Instead of looking at all population, IT is better to look at some specific country. On USA average height is 178 cm/ 5'11. There is more than just 15% of guys above 6 ft.
@@KrzysztofMarchański average height in the US is reported to be 5"9 pretty much everywhere you look.
@@KrzysztofMarchańskiThe average height in the US is 5’9
@@KrzysztofMarchańskino the average height in America for a man is 5’9, but the thing is alot of guys lie about their height and women are aware and their idea of 6ft is actually about 2 inches shorter which would be 5’10.
Sorry Greg, but in terms of 7ft being prefered, that is not true, it's also considered exception to the rule just like 5ft people. 6 feet are most prefered for majority. Rest is just like obesity, disease. For example 7 feet tall is considered Gigantism and it can be lethal.
I thought he meant 7 inches, you know...
Its all about discipline and self love you gotta love yourself first and that is a fact🙅🏽♂️
I’m 5’5 and 185, smidge extra weight on me but I’m also benching 315 and squatting almost 400 and I’ve never had an issue getting laid or getting a date/gf. Confidence but not cocky is the key
3 mins in and coach greg sounds salty asf
I'm surprised no one else is mentioning this. It sounds less like he's talking to us and more like he's venting. 😂
Red pilling harder than last time
No he doesn't, he just sounds shocked that people are this stupid. Spoiler alert: they ARE!
Rationalization is a very powerful thing.
I think it comes down to most jacked guys come across as douches bag, remember for most people bodybuilding is about aesthetics first, then health, so they're all into themselves.I think of health first, then strength, that's why I like strongman type training
Women don't want a man who is going to spend more time during the week in the gym and going over their supplement routine than with them.
@@TeKnoVKNG23that’s why you get one who’ll do it with you duhh
@thatoneguy1741 you would think that would be a logical answer, but I'm convinced the gym couple is basically a myth. It tends to crash and burn faster than most other relationships. The truth is a lot of us are fairly self absorbed people and we have to find someone who can tolerate it and focus on our better points. That goes for men and women bodybuilders
Love the fact you call it as you see it. If more people would say what they really thought we would be better off.
I understand that it's hard to believe if you workout hard to be attractive, but attraction and being hot has so much more to do with personality than with your body.. for some of us. I do not think: "Oh, this guy is hot, because he's fat or well build". I think: "Oh, I love that man. No matter how his weight is. He is hot as he is MY man. The one I love. The only one I want. Skinny, trained, fat.. doesn't matter. ❤
Looks matter to everyone Including you. I'm not even saying you only want the jacked fit guys, some women really like the cuddly teddy bears who wear the fat well but you absolutely care about looks. Which Informs your perception of personality. It's disheartening and insulting to men to make women's standards just so simple and easy that you just need "personality". Most people are average there are only a few standout personalities and confidence levels. Looks matter and it's important men and women be level with each other on that fact.
@Touma134 That's not true. Looks are just a bonus. When you fall in love with someone, you think they're the most beautiful person in the world. I ended up falling for people, I didn't find physically attractive at first at all. It is very subjective. Looks don't matter, it's not a fact. That's a shallow mindset to carry. You're generalizing instead of realizing human beings are complex, not simple.
@@anti1training I totally agree. I like very skinny build, not to much visible muscles, but I ended up with this man how is definitely not skinny, but still he is the only one I want. 😍 Who made man believe it's their body that makes us fall in love with them? The is a big difference between love and attraction. And not all woman choose be physical attraction. I am attracted by intelligence, humor and a kind character. 🤷🏻♀️
@@omeu6474 preach! ✨️💅🏼
GOD BLESS YOU AMEN!!!🙏🏼❤️👑
You’re either lying or are not representative for the vast majority of women. Virtually every woman is shallow as hell.
youre not wrong mr greg. you are very right. i am slightly overweight but i slowly lose fat and weight fir half a year. i feel better , fresher, healthier. i cut sugars, i workout, i lift weights, i do cardio and fitness. i eat less. and i feel better an d look better
1:56 Because youre conflating the average(=mean) with the median. The mean of 1,1,1,2,10 is 15/5=3 but the median is 1 because there are two observations below and two above. The two measures are only equal when the observations are symetrically distributed, ie when there are as many very hot guys as there are very ugly ones and as many sort of hot as sort of ugly. I would posit that not to be the case on dating sites where there are many unattractive men but only very few 10s. This skews the median ("50%above, 50%below") below the average. Thabk you for coming to my ted talk.
Man coach greg that voice is deep on the show
And as incredible as it may seem Bodybuilders are dying younger than participants from my 600-Lb Life. How is this possible?
Roids
Tons of hard drugs my friend. If you wrote this thinking you did something, 600+ plus are dying faster then the general population over all......without the drugs....
Heart failure
@@rprobp186 PEDs are like a deal with the devil. It's not worth it!
Good genetics as they call them.
I was ugly at one point but after trying Harder than last time,it was game over for women.
Women are more concerned with height. Sorry, Greg. 😆😆😆😆
No that’s a myth made up by men 😂 because you can’t do anything about height so it removes responsibility
That’s not true. That’s what tall guys want to hear. 🤭🤭🤭🤭
Hey man , I’m 5’8 from 220 to 165 , not even muscular and now dating is way easier than last time 😂
Im early 🧌
Your normal voice is sounding more normal than last time
A woman will pick a fat tall man over a jacked short guy every time.
Height is the most important factor.
For me thats the opposite. Good that we all have preferences
keep coping lmfao
If being tall is all that matters I'd be swimming in pussycat
must be at least 7ft2 in height for me otherwise I am comprimising. 😅
I'm 5'3", 175 lbs, 30 inch waist - practically look like the great late Franco Columbo.
Also middle class and I have no issues getting laid - been with women from 5' to 5'7".
Coach Greg, debating HARDER than LAST TIME
To be fair the fat model guy was more attractive than all the fitness guys.
That model guy's fit version would be much more attractive, incredibly more.
The face and height are unbeatable. He'd be insane if he was fit tho
@@anakinshrimpwalker1317 And that's the point. Your best version is you being fit.
@@celdur4635 his fit version would be more attractive than his fat version, yes. However, his fat version is still more attractive than the jacked guys. So it’s not so straight forward. Still, that fat guy is like the top 1% of fat guys so it’s not like it applies broadly, but goes to show that broad generalizations don’t always apply.
@@thearmwrestlingopinion2978 You are proving my point.
You compare only to yourself, if you bring in others the many other variables apply.
Couch Greg said so himself, height for starters.
Coach Greg bigger than last time
By the way, greg great video I loved everything you said
DAAAAAMMMMN daddy greg is going ballistic wtf😂😂😂
I'm single because I can't last more than couple of months in relationships, once upon I time I could but with so many dead friends I can't stay in long relationship bc I have no where to escape. I love to be in a relationship but I know I don't ment to last long
ITS Face -> Height -> Body boosted by Money and Status. Personality is an added bonus. The Jubilee plus size model is actually close to normal weight and he has a great face and a great height to compliment that. That's why he was not complaining but I can assure you that was he jacked he would make people's jaws drop. Greg is correct.
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Greg! That Tong Kat Ali is certainly giving me the energy I need, didnt realize how beneficial it would be to women but WOW its helping me!! Thanks for the clean supplements!
Greg you sound different on other channels, calm Greg the better Greg