new york diaries: romanticize the mundane and travel anxiety

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Комментарии • 104

  • @cassandragunkel6101
    @cassandragunkel6101 8 месяцев назад +111

    “Romanticize the mundane…the mundane is a privilege.” Deserves to be on a less shiddy tshirt. Love your vibe!

  • @harvestmoon_autumnsky
    @harvestmoon_autumnsky 8 месяцев назад +50

    I've watched your channel for a few years now and I was wondering if you've every spoken to anyone about your frequent bouts of anxiety? We only see of course what you put out for us to see, and so many of your videos have a calm vibe intermixed with your busy schedule managing a few small businesses. And you do frequently mention anxiety. You take such good care of your body, and try to keep a good mindset. Anxiety that affects your life frequently is something that can be treated. Just a thought from a caring viewer.

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад +16

      thank you, truly appreciate your comment. 🤍

  • @teetertotter5787
    @teetertotter5787 8 месяцев назад +27

    Ryan's absolute pure joy about the basketball workout. I love New York for the energy that feels like if there is anything you want to do it is possible. It almost compels you to expand your creativity.

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад +1

      hahah he really loved it! 🤍

  • @austonianb
    @austonianb 8 месяцев назад +7

    The color grade is **chefs kiss**

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад

      thank youuuuuu! 🤍

  • @zackhenderson7037
    @zackhenderson7037 8 месяцев назад +12

    Obviously we don't see everything, but something that struck me in this video was how healthy and happy your relationship seems. As someone who has struggled to build healthy relationships with partners (especially being a part of the LGBT+ community), I was hoping you two would feel comfortable sharing how you got to this point and what you think are some of the things you have done right to build a healthy relationship. I think hearing your perspective would be helpful to a lot of people, including myself ❤

  • @SkyMist227
    @SkyMist227 8 месяцев назад +2

    "the mundane is a privilege"... i love that! and it's so true. the fact that everyday things are "mundane" means they aren't anxiety inducing -- i.e. my survival is not dependent on them. the fact that things are calm and "boring" means i am doing just fine, which i sometimes forget is something to be grateful for. thank you! and i'm glad you and ryan enjoyed new york! 💕

  • @KhumoMarkham
    @KhumoMarkham 8 месяцев назад +5

    Ryan is such a coffee geek, it is so adorable! I will remind myself to romanticise the mundane more often, thank you.

  • @itspreethikaaa
    @itspreethikaaa 8 месяцев назад +4

    You know why I love your videos? Cuz they make me feel so calm and at ease. And that's rare for someone with anxiety. I reaaly love you both 💓

  • @bunnyears9935
    @bunnyears9935 8 месяцев назад +3

    Your vlogs are healing ♥️

  • @PeytonBourree
    @PeytonBourree 8 месяцев назад +4

    You got this, I know its hard to not over think but you are do amazing. Its hard to not think about life and work but you got this. You're doing amazing things and such a genuine person.

  • @johncedarleaf224
    @johncedarleaf224 8 месяцев назад +1

    What a great video and love to see you two together when you’re not working. Such a loving connection.

  • @edwinandrades543
    @edwinandrades543 8 месяцев назад +3

    I love that you guys are very much your own individuals

  • @stevec404
    @stevec404 8 месяцев назад +1

    Same here. I've been stressing about my own timeline...undone things...getting completely overwhelmed, anxious and depressed. Today I am intent on cutting down my 'list' one thing at a time. Each thing off the list will mean that particular stressor is let go of; and In about two weeks I'll be free and clear. I have a very long list! (I also took stock of my accomplishments to date, and noted that I really do have the runway space to pull this off.)

  • @matsaidso
    @matsaidso 8 месяцев назад +15

    The “romanticize the mundane” should def be on your tote bag, I remember you had a tote but I don’t believe you’re selling them them anymore 😩 so glad y’all could enjoy your time out here though, y’all seemed to be in the quieter areas so that’s amazing

  • @hugo1417
    @hugo1417 8 месяцев назад

    One of my favorite creators ! Always thrilled to watch your videos !

  • @Shell1425
    @Shell1425 8 месяцев назад +3

    The crossover with some of my favourites that I've been following for years is making my heart jump for Joy! Great Vlog as always! 🥰

  • @crane7044
    @crane7044 8 месяцев назад +1

    Its cute that sometimes u have an old married couple vibe like, but in fact u still very young 😊

  • @yellowman5942
    @yellowman5942 8 месяцев назад

    Your videos make me appreciate life a little bit more thank you

  • @l0_0l
    @l0_0l 8 месяцев назад +1

    annihilation…! one of my fave books!
    glad that you two were able to enjoy your trip and thanks for another chill vlog.

  • @popanga0994
    @popanga0994 8 месяцев назад

    y’all are absolute legends thanks again for the great content

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад

      thanks for watching! 🤍

  • @eduardosobral6692
    @eduardosobral6692 8 месяцев назад +2

    LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!!❤❤❤❤

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад +2

      thank youuuuu 🤍

  • @chloearmstrong9535
    @chloearmstrong9535 8 месяцев назад

    Oohh I love your channel so much and your videos. Also I love yours and Ryan relationship, brings me so much joy when you post

  • @Bolodebicha
    @Bolodebicha 8 месяцев назад +5

    MY FAVORITE RUclipsRS!!!

  • @Jeffh206
    @Jeffh206 8 месяцев назад

    Happy birthday! I’m a foodie like you guys and that looks like a fantastic convention. Glad you guys are having a good time. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us.. you guys look fantastic. I love your hair. You guys are always fun to watch.. sending love from Seattle❤

  • @sophiaisabelle0227
    @sophiaisabelle0227 8 месяцев назад +3

    I can relate with the anxiety part of it all. I find myself struggling to the point where it's also affecting my social skills.

  • @tstieber
    @tstieber 8 месяцев назад

    New York is such a great city. We were just there after so many years away. Only spent three nights there a few weeks ago bc it's damn expensive, but we actually went in this huge adventure where we flew to NC for my brother's wedding for a week, the rented an SUV and drove to DC to rent an apartment for a whole month and just camp out there, explore the area, work and live in a new place, then drove to NYC and back to DC. Getting out of mundanity and routines was exactly what we needed this time around, in order to appreciate it again when we got back to Cali. We are huge fans of appreciating the everyday and the routines. Then shaking it up once in a while to have a big life adventure.
    Haven't finished the video yet but sorry you have anxiety. My husband had a bunch of anxieties about our trip (no time to get into all of them) -- and he overcame them all, after years of living with them. You will too, Joe.
    Love your coffee enthusiasm BTW. Please tell Ryan to grow his hair back -- he looks like an inmate!! 😂

  • @edwinandrades543
    @edwinandrades543 8 месяцев назад

    I love the music and visuals

  • @SAMYMuslc
    @SAMYMuslc 7 месяцев назад

    Omg your brows are on point!

  • @martharechy1610
    @martharechy1610 6 месяцев назад

    Omg. Agree! I love NYC so much.

  • @remarc69
    @remarc69 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love this❤️

  • @joecheen5330
    @joecheen5330 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love how you guys shared the same jacket❤

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад +1

      haha that's one of the perks of queer relationships! 🤍

  • @shelleyritchie3568
    @shelleyritchie3568 8 месяцев назад

    Really nice getaway!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 8 месяцев назад +1

    Such a fun vlog! 👏🏽

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад +1

      thanks for watching! 🤍

  • @michaelmetcalf2715
    @michaelmetcalf2715 8 месяцев назад +1

    Happy Birthday Joe🎉🎉🎉🎂🎁

  • @m4yb3
    @m4yb3 8 месяцев назад

    Annihilation is a great book recommendation, and a fun movie

  • @fancyxyoun3973
    @fancyxyoun3973 8 месяцев назад

    look at my favorite comfort couple❤

  • @gretx.
    @gretx. 8 месяцев назад

    Rewatching this because I can’t have enough

  • @lawrenceharris7369
    @lawrenceharris7369 8 месяцев назад

    Great stuff guys. New York is a an energetic city. Love it, just couldn’t live there permanently.👍🏾

  • @inkarlcerating
    @inkarlcerating 8 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤ lovely celebration of life

  • @wehojm7320
    @wehojm7320 8 месяцев назад

    I enjoyed your vlog. Such a short stay in NYC. I realize you were there for the coffee expo but it's too bad you didn't take in a little theater. Maybe that's not your thing. The theater, museums and other cultural outlets are the reasons I go to NYC. I live in LA and the cultural scene here doesn't compare. But, as you often say - you do you. I love how you ended the vlog - romanticize the mundane and the mundane is a privilege. I've done a lot of traveling so far this year and the idea of returning home and to the mundane is quite appealing. You guys are great together. Stay well.

  • @joesimeao7611
    @joesimeao7611 8 месяцев назад +1

    Welcome to my home I hope you enjoyed your stay wish I would have run into you guys ,,,,, Ryan's smile always makes me feel good love you guys best wishes to you both ❤️👍

  • @Gingerbran
    @Gingerbran 8 месяцев назад

    What helps with my ruminating thoughts is to separate myself from my thoughts. I will repeat over and over "I am not my thoughts" which is so simple but it interrupts my rumination so I can process my anxiety. Being tired doesn't help either.

  • @probablynotmoon
    @probablynotmoon 8 месяцев назад

    also happy belated birthday! ❤🎉

  • @jitpasia
    @jitpasia 8 месяцев назад

    You guys probably get this a lot, but I truly love the way you guys style yourselves! PS - Where's the jacket from? Love it!

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 8 месяцев назад +1

    Both of you bring cute in NYC is ❤
    P.S. Absolutely iconic for not hating babies on planes.

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад +1

      thank you! babies gotta do what babies gotta do! 🤍

  • @melovil
    @melovil 8 месяцев назад

    the mundane is a privilege

  • @Maxi-333
    @Maxi-333 8 месяцев назад

    would love a trip to NYC ✨
    I have been to Canada but never the USA

  • @matthiasdegonzales6350
    @matthiasdegonzales6350 8 месяцев назад

    Please come back soon!

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps 8 месяцев назад +1

    Apologies in advance from the comment spam you about to see from me :)
    Life been a bit busy and rough so ive been like a months worth of videos behind on your content but finally got some time to catch-up ❤

  • @bryancarson5908
    @bryancarson5908 8 месяцев назад

    Lol the thumbnail after the kissing discourse on tik tok! 😂

  • @iy1231
    @iy1231 8 месяцев назад +1

    Where is Ryan's green jacket from?

  • @patrickpost4899
    @patrickpost4899 8 месяцев назад

    Tumbnail looks nice

  • @aarontheabc
    @aarontheabc 8 месяцев назад

    💙💙💙

  • @hosinw
    @hosinw 8 месяцев назад

    Maybe tou have said it, what's Ryan's background? I'm glad he had fun at his basketball game thingy 😅, I am similarly lost with most mainstream sports talk

  • @gibethegreat
    @gibethegreat 8 месяцев назад

    :) hi! can you share the name of the hotel you guys stayed? planing on goining to NY in a buget THANK YOU :)

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 8 месяцев назад

    I understand travel anxiety, I travel a lot and some places I go to trigger something, I don't know. I take the book "30 Days to Reduce Stress" by Harper Daniels with me, it has a lot of mindfulness exercises to do while traveling and it's light.

  • @edwinandrades543
    @edwinandrades543 8 месяцев назад

    Don’t forget to use the trains lol

  • @davidsheppard1362
    @davidsheppard1362 8 месяцев назад +1

    I've been to New York about six times. There's a lot to like, but one or two things not to like.

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад

      every city has it's pros and cons for sure, we love the community here 🤍

  • @inyourface127810
    @inyourface127810 8 месяцев назад

    Dam Aesop fragrances are pretty expensive range. Does anybody have any experience with them? And which ones do you use daily?

    • @andrewwakldnz
      @andrewwakldnz 8 месяцев назад

      Expensive for sure, but a bottle lasts forever. Marrakesh def my fave 👌🙂

  • @danijelpinn9364
    @danijelpinn9364 8 месяцев назад

    THE HOMIES FINALLY KISSED

    • @katahi0749
      @katahi0749 6 месяцев назад

      Wanna try it?😶😵‍💫jks vahahja

  • @user-fs2yd3ky4t
    @user-fs2yd3ky4t 8 месяцев назад

    When are you moving to nyc

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад

      nah we love vancouver! just love visiting 🤍

    • @user-fs2yd3ky4t
      @user-fs2yd3ky4t 8 месяцев назад

      @@justjoelee never say never! Could be neighbors

    • @user-fs2yd3ky4t
      @user-fs2yd3ky4t 8 месяцев назад

      @@justjoelee ahh we coulda been neighbors!

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 8 месяцев назад +2

    Gay men together forever ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Maratonei
    @Maratonei 8 месяцев назад

    As someone that watches your videos frequently I don't know what happened but the audio sounds so muffled and hard to hear. Maybe just NYC noise?

  • @jbt6007
    @jbt6007 8 месяцев назад

    yes you two are just the most styl'in two cuties but also striving for growth and expansion. I'd say good role models for young gay couples. Travel safe.

  • @br-nosilva2997
    @br-nosilva2997 8 месяцев назад

    Romanticize your life: for those who seem to have an easy life ha ha.

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад

      nah you can romanticize everything with the right amount of delusion 😂🤍

  • @ig6ph
    @ig6ph 8 месяцев назад

    Money

  • @shaddertownie1629
    @shaddertownie1629 8 месяцев назад

    First🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 8 месяцев назад +2

    Cute Gay couple ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @justjoelee
      @justjoelee  8 месяцев назад +1

      🤍

    • @dubon9999
      @dubon9999 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@justjoelee ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @junomarco
    @junomarco 8 месяцев назад

    Finally, they kissed.

  • @bornrich9264
    @bornrich9264 8 месяцев назад

    Haven’t watch the video yet, I click cuz of that thumb nail. There better be a kiss
    Edit: there was no kiss 😢

    • @probablynotmoon
      @probablynotmoon 8 месяцев назад

      yes there was in the beginning loll

    • @bornrich9264
      @bornrich9264 8 месяцев назад

      @@probablynotmoon lol you are right… how did I miss that. I must have been blind

  • @mpjung92
    @mpjung92 8 месяцев назад

    Loveee. Radio Bakery in Greenpoint is a must next time! 😊🥐

  • @pjinmotion
    @pjinmotion 8 месяцев назад

    Welcome back to NY! Should have timed it for this week and last night’s Bubble T party! 😉🫧