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LETS DO SOME MATH HOW OLD ARE YOU IN MONTHS😂
300 and something something 😂
I'll be 244 month old in 2 days
192 months old😭
I’m 420 months old 🍃
480 months old
I once got in trouble for telling someone, “people complaining about their kids is like me complaining about a hangover- you are in a hell of your own making” 😬
Haha love it!
Pretty much, except for the people who were forced to have their babies 😞
This is mostly true... For those who choose it..
I'm a mom, totally made that choice, and 100% agree with you!
Not everyone chooses knowingly. Some people's kids are disabled and require extra care and some kids are just high needs. Everyone needs support from their community but society expect mothers to do it all when it comes to their children.
As a mom of a teen, I feel absolutely embarrassed by these moms. They sound more immature than their children.
Damn you don't look old enough to have a teen!!
@@Crowski lol I'm 35 with some white strands in my hair, but thank you. I was having a crappy day and that just made my day. 😁
I'm with you, Tabby. I couldn't believe some of these.
I know it’s insane! Just the entitlement of people. I worked a job where we basically had to decide between me and another employee who would get the hours on Friday. She looked at me and said, I quote, “Well that’s easy, I will be getting the hours on Friday since I have kids and need those hours more than you”. I asked her, do I need a roof over my head, clothes to wear to work, food and gas for the car to get to work, so how do I need it less? I’m sorry I didn’t have a child when I knew I couldn’t afford it. It’s like some people think when they have a kid suddenly the world should lay out a red carpet everywhere they go.
As if they are still teens themselves.
One of the nurses in the NICU thanked me for giving my son a “normal” name lol they must see crazy names all the time
"When a childless person tell me they're tired."
This is like when a coworker wanted Christmas and other vacation of Childless coworker. They do have family members that they wanted to spend with you know.
"He calls his six year old beautiful! what can I do?" You can leave the marriage, Karen. They deserve so much better.
Agree!
Insecure much Karen?
ikr some people are just freaking crazy. I would love the shit out of a step kid! its literally all of the cuteness, none of the childbirth and less responsibility
@@sleepypanda9157 hell yeah, I'm with you! My oldest is from a previous relationship and my husband has never stopped treating him like his own. In his eyes he has 4 kids and that's it, there's no "but only 3 are mine" or anything just "I've got 4 kids" and I couldn't love him more for that!
Yes, she seriously needs to leave before she scars that poor girl.
Yeah, man.. that is some bizarre (creepy) brand of jealousy I’ can’t wrap it around 😵💫. I’d flee the country w/ his daughter &&& her mother 🚀 and maybe her mother’s mother lol
I had a step mother who hated me because I looked like my mom, she made sure I knew it too. If you can't be nice to your step kids, and you get jealous of them, don't marry or date a man with kids. It's that easy.
EDIT: I'm sorry so many people have been through this ❤️ I hope you're all doing well and got out of that situation. (And I just want to say that my dad is a great dad, he did everything he could in a very impossible situation with my real mother and worked an insane amount of hours to provide for me and the siblings, what my step mother had done wasn't his fault and honestly, i couldn't ask for a better dad.)
That happened to me too! It was really rough.
Same, most step mothers take their cues from Disney Villain’s it seems.
That dad's an ass! Unless the Stepmonster doesn't show it openly. I have 2 boys & people tell me often how much 1 of them looks like his dad, I don't see it because I see my son. Maybe this dad sees his Daughter? Personality changes people's looks. You might Think someone's pretty Until you get to Know them, then Yuck!
Yeah my stepmother was awful to me and it affected me for years and years until I worked through it in therapy. If you can't love the kids like your own, just, don't.
@@loverofawesomeness1
Only Disney took it from fairy tales and fairy tales took it from real life.
In ancient time step children from rich families were often even poisoned so that the younger bio child got the inheritence and title.
When I was in college, one of my female classmates name is Alejandro Jr. Named after her father. Her dad is so obssessed of having a son, he named her with a guy's name. On our first day of class, she got so exhausted explaining about her name to every subject teacher. Some parents are just so selfish sometimes.
OMG, I'm so glad that never occurred to my father. He wanted a Junior SO BAD and never let me or my sister forget it. I guess we dodged a bigger bullet than we realized!
That's so freaking weird. They could have named her Alejandra, which is a cute name for a girl.
@@Angie-zk4ei He didn't want her to be a girl, that's the problem.
That dad was delulu AF why just don't find a middle thing. Like calling her alexandrin or something. He put a big charge of that women, plus imagine be reminded constantly that they wanted a boy so bad but had to do whatever dream with you.... Which is stupid because doesn't matter the gender bit personality but anyways..... 😢
At 18 I would have legally changed my name.
The one at 6:12 hits too close to home. My mum didnt let me wash my own hair till I was 13. She didnt let me make my own food, clean and so on. Whenever I tried something on my own, she took it away from me, shouted at me for being too stupid and couldnt believe I had no idea how anything works and used that to make fun of me in front of my friends. When I moved out with 18 I had no idea how to take care of myself. So to every parent out here who acts the same: Please give your kid space and help them to find themselves, teach them what they need to know to go through life and dont judge/scream/slap them whenever they do things a little slower or mess up the first times. I am still struggling with a lot of things, but I also learn new things, which is quite exciting.
I’m genuinely so proud of you ❤
I’m so sorry you have a narcissist for a mother 😔
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🤗 Sorry you went through that but I’m glad you’re learning!
I hate that people gatekeep exhaustion and tiredness. I have multiple chronic illnesses (one being chronic fatigue syndrome).. im always frickin tired. Also, sometimes existing is exhausting. For anyone who needs it here’s a little internet love from a stranger 💗💗💗
Oh man, i was just going to say it was the only one I agreed with. Lol Having fibro, CFS, and having 2 babies in a row who were crap sleepers was the worst I myself have ever been. Kiddos made it worth it, but never again!
I try not to compare my experiences to others though, that is what I have learned with being sick.
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I have health issues as well. Pain is exhausting.
The jealous stepmother made my blood boil. It ts so important for little girls to get that positive reinforcement from their dads. Good job pappa.
I guess to some extent? Maybe I am projecting my own childhood onto the situation, but the whole time I kept wondering why he was constantly saying how beautiful she was. It had a gr00m3r vibe to it. There are other things to compliment a child on besides her looks. Maybe it's innocent and he's a genuinely good father, but I would also be wary and keep an eye on tha relationship they have. It made me uncomfortable. It's a common tactic "they" use when ingratiating themselves. I pray I am just being oversensitive.
@@jenx5870 It's instilling confidence. The Stepmonster might be leaving out how he also tells her how smart she is. I did it with my kids & grandkids, even the 1 whose own mom told her "it's a good thing you're pretty" I still tell her she's smart at 28 & works in a factory.
@@jenx5870 it really doesn't, it's just really common and it's actually a really sweet thing for parents to be doing (I know mine would never). Maybe it's just because of your experiences, but it's actually normal and there's nothing wrong with calling your kid pretty. Also, the woman wasn't even saying that because she thought it was wierd, she was just jealous of a six year old lol
No problem with daddy telling his child that - but at six or so, maybe the compliments should start to include other characteristics like how she's helpful, kind, good at science/math/reading, so there's something besides her physical appearance she's confident about.
New wife of my ex about our 2y son: hes cute but its bothers me that he look like his Mom🤡
Counting a baby's age up to 24 months make sense because they grow so fast and surpass so many milestones in quick succession in those first two years. After the 2nd birthday though, that baby really is just 2.
I never really thought about it but I think your reasoning is spot on. So many "firsts" occur and abilities progress in a single month between 1 and 2. Tracking development month to month makes so much sense. By 2, they're primarily working on communication and skill building rather than developing initial motor skills
"When a childless person tells me they're tired 🙄" Oh, henny, have you met my fibromyalgia?
Or any other chronic disease
No. She is the only one with problems ever. (Heavy sarcasm!!!)
Holy shit, I'm childless and I didn't know I'm not supposed to be tired. This changed my life! Literally worked through the last 10 days (5 night shift and 5 afternoon shift) and I felt a little bit of tired, but now I'm fit again. Thank you random mom, your comment helped my life.
There's a difference between being childless and being childfree. One is not by choice and the other is. I'm childfreee, which one are you?
@@ploppiplupp They can mean the same thing... And in other languages there may be only one word for it.
me with chronic fatigue and housebound reading her ‘cAnT bE tIrEd’ rant☺️😉
That comment just dripped with sarcasm. Thanks for sharing. You said what others were thinking/felling.
I have one child and I’m exhausted. And he’s away at a school camp! Maybe the tiredness has just been me this whole time. Imagine being a gatekeeper for tiredness.
I was taking my then 17 year old son and his BFF on a vacation. The BFF’s parents were taking us all to the airport when the mom started telling me about she had packed a variety of supplements and creams for his dry skin patches, etc. Then she tells me about his “special suppositories” and how he might need one if he gets constipated. I was beyond mortified. My son had packed his own bag after doing his own laundry. I had always taught my kids to be very independent and self-reliant. The BFF’s mother just could not cut the cord. Imagine being a 17 year old boy and your mom talking to someone else about your a$$ meds in front of you. I felt so bad for him.
Yeah... that's... Not good 😭🤦🏾♀️ Glad your family is the opposite of that kid's. She must've expected you to put the suppositories in his butt.
Poor kid. 🤭
On the other hand medical issues shouldn't be stigmatized.
@@KatinkaMaika since he's 17 I'm mostly hoping he's able to manage his issues by himself and use his medication when necessary. Mommy isn't gonna come along to college... Right? 🤔
This is how my 23 yr old ex is with his mom, she does everything for him (Yes, even pay his bills, buys him everything, makes him shower, cuts his hair, buys clothes, makes him take meds, etc etc and yes he still lives with her) she was also very proud and open talking about it.
He just wrecked his car a few weeks ago and she bought him a new one. I don't expect to hear good things from him, he's a HS drop out refusing to even get a GED
I'm English, and I had my daughter in the very English city of Salisbury. In the labour ward, there was a hopelessly posh woman who had also had a daughter she named Poppy. Trouble was...her surname wax Knopp. Yes. Poppy Knopp. I had the biggest fit of the giggles of my life. The mother in law stood up and announced if they named that child Poppy she was walking out, changing her will and would never see them again.
My helpless howls of laughter sort of ruined that exit.
Where ever you are, Poppy Knopp, I wish you...the best.
4:36 This sort of talk also extends to the children, from my experience. I learned very early on that I couldn’t tell either parent that I was tired without said parent rambling on their emotional roller coaster of a week and then implying “after all that you still say that *you’re* the one who’s still tired?” smh
I've never understood the people who have to turn things like this into a competition. Having young children is exhausting, so is construction work. It's not a competition, I'm tired because of X reasons you are tired because of your own reasons. Both are valid reasons to be tired.
Parents who deny their children privacy really grate on me. For context, I was still paranoid that my daughter might tip over and drown in the tub and struggled not to check to see if she died of SIDS during the night...up until she was like 8 (oof). But I was still able to understand this was a ME problem due to my anxiety, and let her have her developmental milestones and independence and not smother her.
Girl, same. Having an anxiety disorder and having kids that you want to inspire independence in is like navigating a minefield.
But taking steps back, breathing and reevaluating does wonders.
It's not my babe's fault I'm a lil crazy. Parents who smother their kids give me worst anxiety than my three year old attempting front flips.
I know a guy who literally had no privacy as a child, & then leading into his marriage. He's divorced now.
Yeah that ish is crazy! Sitting in the bathroom with your 9 and 13 yr old sons is gross and way over bounds!!
Genuine question. What's the best age to start about the privacy thing? And any tips? My nephew just turned four and he won't even pee by himself.
@@izzyt1626I think around that age is a good start. If he doesn't want to pee alone, just stand outside the bathroom (or the stall if it's in a public place) for both safety and reassurance. I'd say do this until he reaches 5 or 6 and then slowly show him going to the bathroom by himself isn't scary and remind him, even if you aren't in the bathroom with him physically, you'll be waiting on the other side for him. Though, I do advise in public places, I'd wait outside the stall, ya know? For safety to let strangers or pedos to stay away. Near let a small child go to the bathroom but themselves. Even when they're a young teen, check the stalls firsts before letting them go inside and wait inside the bathroom or stay close by. I watched a story a mother made about how she took her daughter to the park and she needed to use the public bathroom, so the mom went in to check the stalls to make sure they were empty and she found a grown man sititng in one of the stalls. He was waiting for a young girl to enter, but when he say it was a grown woman, he was upset. The mom made him leave and once the cost is clear, she let her daughter enter the bathroom and she stood outside the stall until she was done. The man never returned and she watched as dozens of little girls walked in and out of those stalls without a parent with them or even watching them from afar. She said you have to be VERY careful with public bathroom and always check first if its safe before letting your child enter, she said all it took was for her to not check, let her girl go into that bathroom without knowing a man was waiting there and for that bathroom stall to lock. I hope this helps!
Something tells me that the husband that ruins his wife’s day by daring to show his face at home probably isn’t thrilled to be returning to such hostility either. 🤷🏻♂️
What a sad marriage that must be, yikes.
My great-aunt used to say "If you keep your man in the dog house, he'll end up in the cat house."
I wonder if her feelings would be hurt if he told her he dreaded coming home at night?
Yeah blasting that on Facebook doesn’t seem wise. Takes two to tango 😬
@@krissykrupski4973 or worse; posted it on Facebook!
Parents that value privacy, you are wonderful people in this clout-chasing era. You are a blessing to your family. Your kids are lucky to have you. Keep on it.
I had a friend who gave natural birth to a 12lb 15oz boy. She did not get to the hospital in time for an epidural so there was no pain killers that way and the 80 stitches inside and out. The Dr also asked her about getting her tubes tied because her children would likely get larger. She figuratively jumped on the chance.
I was in high school in 1993 and took a class called Consumer Math, it was the best math class i ever took. Explained car interest, how to do my taxes, how the stock market worked, how to estimate at the grocery store (and tons more)...all the real world maths someone who couldn't pass Algebra needed. I think this should be a required class in every school.
I took this as well in 2006 (my senior year). Ive always been crap at math but thanks to this class I can actually do some double digit adding in my head, which before wasn't ever gunna happen lol
I took it in 2016 and it was my favorite! I did awful in algebra but consumer math was so much more fun because it felt more applicable and useful
I took this my senior year 02-03, seriously best math class ever.
Wow....I wish we had that in school...
I always thought, "why am I learning all this crap I won't remember instead of real life skills?"
Now I'm 36, I don't remember shit from highschool....I'm terrible at math and had to learn the hard way about interest, loans, stocks, etc....
I still don't know how health insurance works.. >.
Wow! Lucky!! All we had that was remotely like that was the she investment club. Went to an all girl’s school. All I remember was giving a dollar to the teacher to invest. Heard nothing back ever.
As a person with ME/CFS, I really dislike the mother complaining about childless people saying they are tired. With a chronic disease that makes me never feel rested and always tired, and way too often exhausted, I still feel for people when they tell me they are tired. Just because I have one kind of reason to be tired, doesn't mean others can't be tired too!
i feel this comment to my also CFS, multi chronic illness having soul. i'm exhausted and so are others. Both things can be true. Some people are just...sigh, horrible.
Edited to add, i wish restful, pain free days to you ahead stranger. i know the road is hard but i wish you brightness ❤️
Some moms like to be martyrs and act like they're the only people who are allowed to be tired, have a bad day, be busy etc. Doesn't decrease the irritation I get when I see that.
I don't know anything about your illness, but I hope you have more easier days than not.
Same. I have Fibromyalgia and MCAS so my fatigue is really bad and that part ticked me off. The fact that she believed that only people with children reserve the right to feel tired is so f-ing ridiculous that it pissed me off!
My English is not very good, it's not my first language 😬 but I think same of you. I have multiple sclerosis and I have 5 children 🤣 I'm so so tired but I no the other person have the right to be tired without jugement. I wish you the best 💕
Exactly!!!
My quick takes:
A) Months of age are fine up to about 22 months. 23 months should be aged "almost 2". Between 2 and 5, half years are appropriate (2, 2 1/2, 3...). Once they reach 5, whole years only.
B) Not missing your partner during a work day is fine. You should be emotionally self sufficient to last 8-10 hours without pining away for your s.o. If, however, you resent seeing them at the end of that day, then you might have a problem.
C) Re: bathroom privacy. If they're old enough to ask for it, they deserve it. If they're still toddlers, it's OK to have them bathe with the door open so you can hear them for safety, but do not go within sight. Holler out to check on them if you're worried. After that age, leave them alone. What are you teaching kids about their right to bodily autonomy if you make them shower in your presence?
D) Lots of things can cause sleep deprivation. Sorry, moms. You don't get a hero/martyr award because yours was caused by your offspring.
Imagine Phancy grows up and gets a PhD. Phancy with a PhD
One of the most annoying things ever: whenever you, a childless married woman, open up about how you're going through a stressful and/or tough time, then some of your lovely family members and/or friends (who've had kids) say one of the following:
- "Just wait until you have kids -- then you'll REALLY be stressed."
- "Be thankful you don't have kids yet."
- "Well, so-and-so is having a tough time too, but she has kids -- she's got a lot more on her plate than you do."
- "You don't have kids like so-and-so, so don't complain."
- "How are you gonna handle having kids if you're already THIS stressed out?"
- "Can't you figure it out? It's not like you have kids yet."
- "Maybe you shouldn't have kids, then."
- "You should really get your priorities straight. You won't have time to stress out over nothing when you're a mom."
- "Maybe you should see a therapist to help you work through your issues before you try to have kids."
Note: all of these were spoken to me by someone at some point -- I'm truly not exaggerating. I mean, they may be accurate by some accounts, but it's them trivializing my very legitimate struggles that gets to me.
Note #2: Holy guacamole, this is the most comments/likes I've ever received!! 😭 This community is awesome and so supportive! Though I'm incredibly sad that we've all been dealing with this toxic behavior, I feel less isolated now that I've read everyone's comments. Thank you to every who has responded!! Sending lots of love, positive vibes, and mental health hugs to you all!
Yeah unfortunately these kinds of comments seem to be common and people seem to think it’s ok. Every time someone makes these comments to me all the grief from the 10 babies I’ve lost comes flooding back.
There's nothing like looking for support and finding one-upsmanship instead.
yes!!! before becoming pregnant (and even still being preggo) I got this ALL THE TIME, especially at work. Its so annoying
I hate how people just assume that because you happen to have a uterus/are married (or ltr)/are over 25 you automatically are going to have kids... and don't consider that the struggles you're having are why you aren't.
Two of that has being spoken to my youngest Aunty and three I heard being said to my eldest cousin
As a mum with a baby who was a itty bitty bit premature and then fell off the percentile chart for weight at a couple months old, I am flabbergasted that this is something someone would want. I used to feed my baby like a damn foie gras goose lol. Boobie and then I would stick a bottle in her mouth. I was so worried all the time. She’s still little, she’s just a smol gal, but healthy is the goal here. What a weird thing to be aiming for.
I was a premie, lots of kids I went to school with were premiers. Most kids had hearing issues, including infections and variations of deafness. Many had learn disabilities, including myself. My sister and many of the adults I work with/care for now, have permanent developmental delays and cannot participate in daily living without 24/7 support. Some of these adults need more than one support just for daily living like using the bathroom or basic hygiene.
I know right, I'm currently holding my premie that will officially be full term on October 7 she now waits nearly 6lb but was only 4.4lb at birth and needed air, feeding tube etc it was traumatic, all I want is for her to eat well and grow healthy
So many moms who would give anything to see their baby healthy or to just have a baby and this woman is worried her baby might be over 7 pounds 😒
Sounds like your little girl has an awesome mom to walk her through it.
Same! My daughter was full term & weighed only 5lbs & 10 Oz. She is now 19 & stands @ 5'0 tall (same as myself), & is the tiniest petite little thing ever. She is just naturally small & petite. My son was born 4 weeks early & only weighed 4lbs 13oz. He is now 18 & he stands at 5'11 & has muscle definition. Both of my kids were so tiny & were only in the 3rd percentile all growing up. We had to keep both of them on whole milk & were constantly worried about their nutritional needs being met. I have no clue as to why someone would actually want their babies to be so tiny. I was sp paranoid that I was going to break them when they were babies because they were so tiny & fragile. Both my kids were just naturally petite & small because their father & I are as well. I just don't understand where some people are coming from nowadays 😕
I'm a mum with chronic fatigue syndrome, I can 100% say that i'd feel more rested with ten children to care for, than I do with chronic fatigue
I take care of 20 2-3 years on daily basis.. And used to work at office.. My works at office is as demanding for me as my teaching job.. Both give me stress but working with children at lease come with extra bliss because they're so adorable..
Literally called up my mother & asked her how old I was when I started showering by myself, she said she was thinking about the same thing but couldn't remember. We both came to the same consensus that it was older then 4 but less then 7. I do remember being young & asking my parents to turn the shower on for me, but was, you know, ALONE in the bathroom after that lol. If you're still sitting in the bathroom with your kid when they're 13, YOU have a problem.
Okay this is the first post I saw about this. So I’m going to ask. What if the kid had Down syndrome or something and everyone else is just taking the post for shits? Because in that context it is 100% understandable?? Right?
When that story came up I literally did a double take. Like, why the fuck do these moms need to be in there and listening/watching their kids shower at that age? The kids can do it on their own at that point so why the fuck are they in there? The kindest answer I can think of is that it's about 'control' and micromanaging their child... The worst thing I can think of makes me think of Jennette McCurdy's book and how her mom would use bath time to abuse her teenage children... 😬
Either way it's a yikes.
I stopped washing my child's body when he was 4. After that I'd be bathroom adjacent with the door open so I could assist if he needed help. I'd still have to wash his hair or else it wouldn't get done cause he in particular doesn't like water in his face.
@@CeruleanRogue right! At best it's helicopter parenting, at worst it's abuse. One's significantly worse than the other but both are still BAD.
@@shaunalennon3144 I remember, for both bathing & showering, my parents were out that door once the water temperature was where I liked it when I was a kid. Some of these parents are insane.
As someone who have an illness that wakes her up a lot, I'm always angry when I see moms saying childless people shouldn't complains
Edit: i really didn't thought this would get so many reactions. I just want to say, let's not judge people, everyone can have their reasons.
Even as a parent, I agree with you. Some people have chronic fatigue due to various reasons.... being tired should not be a status symbol. Sorry you have people do that to you. I don't know why people do this.
It's not a competition between those who have children and those who do not.**
**To avoid referral to eternal damnation based on misunderstanding I've edited my comment to clarify.
Omg yes! The whole "nOt aS tIrEd aS a mOmMa bEaR" crowd fucking infuriate me! Yes parents get tired but so do teenagers, college students, university students, people with chronic illness and disabilities and the whole "it's not a competition" dickheads can go burn too! THEY are the ones who make it a competition and if anyones gonna win, it's my disabled ass with chronic fatigue syndrome and insomnia and idgaf come at me, I will die on this hill 😆
I would suggest that while the parent is kept busy with their children, the childless person is equally busy doing something else.
And just because someone may not personally have their own children, it doesn’t mean they’re not taking care of someone else’s. Sincerely, a Very Involved Aunt 😆
I have discovered the perfect response to people who describe me as “childless.” I tell them that I am not childless; I am child free! I like to laugh at their shocked responses. So there. LOL!
9:44 we actually have a class called JAG that teaches us all about how to do taxes, budget money when you’re working before/during/after college, how to choose the right college for the career you want to pursue, how much it makes and how much is taken from it, hell my freshman year we even did landscaping and assembly for a new store that’s connected to the school district for that class
If Phancy gets a PhD, she can introduce herself as “I’m Phancy with a PhD”
@Daisy Mae even better if she marries a Mr Pants and has a Phd
@@malcolmgray.5913 BAHAHAHA 😂🤣
Dr.Phancy 😂😂😂
Lol I'm think back to my H.S. friends last name.. Like Flower, burger, weaver, yodel, rivers, Carr, etc.. lol
I can’t hate on the name phancy too much as it was a name I gave to one of the many alley cats I used to feed. Only difference was, phancy had a last name too, it was “asshole” cuz the cat was so beautiful, but a total asshole when hungry.
the moms who complain about non- moms are almost always moms who chose to be so and it irritates me so much! it IS hard to be a mom but don't be all high and mighty about how hard your literal choice was. Yes, what an avoidable sacrifice you made...
But besides (chronic) diseases everyone chose the reason they're tired from. Wether it's a stressful time consuming job, lots of sports, lots of party... whatever. So that's not a reason to stop complaining about being tired. Everybody can :)
@@MsDeeeBee they're not complaining about being tired though. They're gatekeeping it and saying others can't be tired.
Ballroom - Yes! I don't know why I'm supposed to be sympathetic for the choice someone else made.
@@snooganslestat2030 ....that's not the issue here though, as that just makes you look like you're an ahole and lack basic ability to empathize or sympathize with someone. That is possible to do even if they made a particular choice. It is if they say others can't also be tired or feel x y or z that it becomes a problem.
@@MsDeeeBee oh yes, we’ve definitely chosen the shitty capitalistic hell scape we live in🙄
i love how straight forward your content is. i listen to it just rolling and keeping me comfort while being in dark places. thank you charlotte
9:50 that class is called personal fiance and is required to graduate where im from. There are also a multitude of other classes that teach you other important things like stocks and marketing.
I'm 45 year old mom, and my kids are 23, 24, 25 now and I'm so embarrassed and disturbed by these mom's. A lot of the mom's issues come from generational trauma and generational insecurities, the worst part is that they're just passing it on to their children. Never ends well.
Exactly
I literally just read a Reddit post about a woman kicking up a fuss because her SiL said no to baby sitting her 3 kids (all under 4) for 6 months ( to save money as day care costs) because the SiL is on maternity leave! This entitled woman and her husband excepted a new mum to watch their kids for free just to save them cash and have gone NC because she said no.
I read the whole thing In Charlotte’s voice.
Same!! xD
Omg I read that one too, I couldn’t believe my eyes at the audacity
Wow what a crock of 💩 I hope the SIL never speaks to them again. The entitlement is off the charts with this one.
i just read that.its bonkers xd
They have 3 kids! They know what it's like to bring home a newborn and they still demanded SIL do it??
After hearing that my birth weight was 7lb 11 oz, AND my mother delivered me withOUT any anesthesia--I was ready to nominate her for sainthood. This occurred on the day I witnessed my first childbirth. Guys, we have no idea.
YIKES. Like I like when my hubby is at work, but I also love when he is home, balance.
Who is responsible for posting your videos at the EXACT same time everyday?!?! Is it you?? An assistant? Whoever it is...thank you. I have literally set a clock by you
It’s me babe! 😘
You can set youtube to post videos for you at certain dates and times. It could be that.
@@CharlotteDobre thanks Charlotte. I know as soon as the noon news starts I get my Charlotte laughter.
@@CharlotteDobre love the consistency, it's 2am for me, always wake up throughout the night and appreciate the content
I was thinking the same
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Love you Charlotte
The one about being tired and not being able to complain about being tired because you’re childless REALLY annoys me!! I have a chronic illness which can keep me awake and cause fatigue so if I’m tired I think I can complain freely if I feel it’s appropriate. Thank you!!
My first thought was "wow, tell me you're not disabled without telling me." I wish I wasn't tired all the time, but mental illness do be like that.
As a mother with chronic pain & a 4yo, I am ashamed at these moms that act like no one else has the right to be tired. It’s disgusting. The pure self-entitlement makes me wanna puke. 😤 You most certainly have the right to be tired or to feel any other emotion & to feel it without being judged or patronized.
I suffer from really bad chronic fatigue and get really frustrated when I see these stupid "you can't complain cause you're not a parent" posts. People can be tired for many different reasons! I will say that I do hope to be a mom one day, and posts like these make me wonder what it will be like to be a chronically ill mom.
@@spoonfulofsalt I hope to be a mum as well, although I know with my illness being genetic, the baby won’t be able to be biologically mine, nor will I carry it, but I can definitely sympathise with you because I have thought about how I will be able to cope with the fatigue from my illness and the tiredness from having a baby. Hopefully it will work out for the both of us x
@@Beautiful_Hope thank you!! You are awesome, I hope to be able to be a mum like you one day!
Hey Charlotte 😊
I just wanted to say how happy you have been looking, you truly are "living your best life" and WE LOVE THIS FOR YOU
So I don't remember exactly how old my nephew was, but this was about the time he was well potty trained, but still needed help cleaning himself and buttoning his pants.. so to him, it was still pretty natural to be in the bathroom with someone else. One day he wanted to come to the bathroom with me, but it was that time of the month. I didn't want to explain that, so instead I explained privacy. I explained why privacy is important, that using the bathroom is a private thing, and when he gets a little bigger and is able to clean himself well, he'll get privacy too. We were all good, and he respected my privacy and let me go to the bathroom alone. Then one day he announced that he needed "pie-vacy" to use the bathroom and never called for help to wipe his butt again.
Pie-vacy! Good job mom!
Such a cute story!!!! 😂😂😂
So cute!😁😁
As a professor at a university, I whole-heartedly agree with the post about financial education, training on life skills, and not forcing everyone into a path towards college. Not everyone does well in a college environment, but also you don't need to go to college to do many jobs. Technical schools or apprenticeships are much better for many technical skills-based jobs, like plumber, electrician, mechanic, etc. These are really important jobs we need for our society to function, but they are treated like second class jobs to anything you learn in college. That is so ridiculous. Also, at this point they pay better than many jobs people with college degrees are doing and you don't go into anywhere near as much debt going to a trade or technical school than to college. My friends who went to trade schools are in MUCH better financial positions now compared to my friends who went to college. And there are well-paying jobs that don't require higher education at all. Hell, we all got told to go to college or we would become garbage collectors, but there is a huge shortage of garbage collectors across the US and because of that supply and demand problem they are actually well paid in most places and, especially in locations where they work for the local government, have benefits.
I tell all young girls (specifically girls) to learn a trade before going into STEM. I wait for the inevitable 'why?' Because by the time you're 35 and coming out of STEM because of the garbage you have to deal with, you'll need a trade to back up on. Pick something that sounds cool and do it as a hobby while you're working in STEM. You'll be a master when you're done.
@@viperaaspis what are some trades you would recommend to get into?
School never prepared me or taught me about paying rent/bills I did get taught about paying taxes though. School never prepared me for real life, thank god my parents did by kicking me out on my 18th B-day and I lived in a friends garage, my only job at the time was odd jobs since I was still in school, from loving home to homeless all in one day. School never even told me about being homeless was a thing. The 80's were so cruel compared to the pampered kids of today.
I say get your associates at the fun, accepting college just because the classes and professors are fun and interesting. Don't do it to live, do it to learn (if you can).
I have felt this way since I moved to this country. Stop emphasizing college to those who aren’t interested. Community college should be free within your state. A mandatory life skills class should added every year in high school. Sex education should be thorough and include psychological effects too. My daughter teaches consent in kindergarten. Obviously not sexual but boundaries and how to honor them and speak them.
Bring back trade schools and internships.
499 months old with a 1 month old.... glad you asked us to do this. I'm going to be throwing myself a 500 month unbirthday! Everyone come and we'll spill some tea!
Omg your hair! So beautiful!!! You should never stop doing it like this....ever!!
ok, I have a friend whose son's room always stank (teen through college) and she finally asked him how he showered - and he said that the soap from his shampoo ran down his body while he showered, and he thought that was good enough. She asked him why he never used the body scrubs (those fluffy things) she bought him and he thought they were just decorations for the bathroom. Needless to say, she had a mom-to-son talk that day and I am happy to say it didn't stink anymore. It might have been wise for her to monitor his shower habit as a young boy from time to time.
Its possible she wasnt that thorough with him at the start. I think that helping and emphasizing while they are young, you can safely assume they'll be on the right path later. I mean, I dont have kids, I could be wrong, but that how my mom did it and I was allowed to shower myself around 6 or 7 I think, but definitely before 9 lol. She'd remind me of little things before I went in and ask if I did when I came out, you know like behind your ears, between the toes etc, but that stopped after a while and surely no one was coming in with me at 13yrs OMG
Teach them YOUNG and you won't have to watch a teen shower (feels creepy to even type that tbh)
@@sexigirlfay Exactly, that's how you parent these things.. you don't loiter by the shower that's so weird!
When a child free person tells you they're tired, while you're making that daft face, we are laughing at how angry you are about your own life choices 🤣🤣🤣
For real. They’re the one who decided to have a child and knew what they were getting into, no right to complain!!
Exactly
@Sometimes I Get Carried Away very real point
And it's like .....do you really want to win this contest? Fine you're the most miserable congratulation.....we know 🍷 🥂
@Sometimes I Get Carried Away It's nice to see someone apply motherhood with reality. Most people wanna tell you it's the most brilliant thing in the world (which is true for some) but for others it's miserable. It's a shame people can't say that though. I feel like the mental health of mothers would be better.
I’ve been a mandatory reporter, and while I’m sure those moms don’t mean any harm, refusing their children privacy at 9+ years old and sitting in the bathroom while they shower etc is literally grounds for reporting to CPS. Like, if I had a student tell me their mom did that, I’d be required to file a report.
Im a highschool math teacher. All the kids that dont go into the advanced math course are taking a financial math class. I teach mortgages, credit cards, inflation... They still dont care. Cheat on exam and copy each others work. We are trying guys! we are indeed trying.
These kind of people are why I never stuck with any mom groups. Early parenthood was stressful enough without dealing with these crazies too.
Agreed.
Accurate as fuck dude.
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What will work for one may not work for another.
The fact the lady wants a baby under 7 lbs while the baby is still in the womb is mind blowing.
literally makes me sick to my stomach thinking about how she may deprive her baby of vital nutrients because of her "need" for a smaller baby. That should absolutely be child neglect IMO. :(
I come from a family line where there's a lot of preemies and underweight babies...we are exactly the opposite of this silly soul...we encourage overeating while pregnant and feeding the baby more once it's here. If a kid doesn't weigh much and it's born early...the risk of SIDS is higher. Chubby babies slim down once they learn to walk and run ...all that movement burns off calories. You then end up with healthy normal kids that live well past the SIDS threat. Wanting undersized kids is just rediculous.
I was at work once (like 20 years ago...God I'm getting old lmao) and this woman was out having a cigarette and pregnant. Not going to shame that, addiction is addiction. What I found awful was that she was having a conversation with another coworker about how she was continuing to smoke in hopes that her baby would be born small. WTF???
Yep, I’m worried she might cause malnutrition in her baby if she is trying to keep the baby small, and that she might be getting confused about after birth weight loss in the baby too, most babies weight drops down below 7lbs if born around that size and anything below that is risky for the baby. Hope she learns that having a healthy baby is more important than have a miniature baby
Ok but maybe she’s just scared to give birth to a big baby and it’s her first kid. Intense Fear & pre labor anxiety is real. I doubt she will try to malnourish their unborn child (plus this is not as easy as it sounds since our biology changes to send nutrients from our bodies to the baby)
Tragedy Anne KILLLED ME😂😂😂😂
Listen with babies, the chunkier the better! Squishy babies are the best.
I think by 8yo you can let your kid take a shower alone ( and 8 seems a bit much) watching a TEENager take a shower whether or not you're the parent is creepy as hell
that's what I thought! that woman is creepy af!
I think I was about 7 or 8 when mom stopped being there all the time. I know I definitely was by myself before ten. That just seems a little too controlling. That mom needs therapy or something. I don’t think that can be good for her much less the kids.
I wander if when he's 35 she will be fighting with his wife about sitting in the bathroom waiting with a towel.
@@kristinhamilton9191 in the best case he will just be a mama's boy in the worse case it will cause him trouble in the way he acts like he won't be able to grow up normaly with such a controlling mom
@@sunnyspoumaroux607 nah man worst case is some Freudian or Oedipal shit
Ok, we have a fandom for Charlotte, but can we please start a new one for her edit team??? Seriously top notch. I think she should open a members space for the channel where we can subscribe and have access to singing and editing classes!
It opens up the child to be vulnerable when they don't know they need or deserve privacy. Also there are boundaries that should be put up, even for adults saying, "oh it's okay if I come in and watch you bathe." Heck to the naw!🤯
I'm a mother of 3 and I have not been seriously tired. I was blessed with children that are quiet and actually listen to me
Well, soon to be 3, due any day now
The moms still supervising their child's showers become those MIL horror stories on Reddit.
I have an online friend who was saying his wife was giving the kids their baths..I called them out for it!! no wonder the older two don't stay at home!!
Yeah. Hopefully the people in relationships with the children of these women learn about this before it gets too serious.
Just the thought of being in the bathroom with a 13 year old boy in the shower is too much! There are certain things I would prefer not to be around for...or aware of!
I had to do that until my kids were pretty old..but my kids also have autism. There might be more to that one than is being said. It’s possible that was pulled from a parent group for special needs kids.
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For anyone wondering, the months thing is because babies and toddlers tend to hit developmental milestones monthly, so you’re more likely to know what a baby’s developmental stage is if you’re told months rather than just a year or two. For example a freshly one year old could be around the stage where they’re standing and otherwise trying to be more mobile but a baby who’s a year and a half, or eighteen months, might be speaking to a small degree. As adults or just older people, we tend to measure milestones by years, like getting a license at 16 instead of specifically at 16 years and eight months or so, so measuring by months isn’t necessary for us.
But to call a four year old child by months instead of just saying four is definitely pushing it-
I think that mom does it to mentally keep the child a baby, since she still breastfeeds him too.
I get the whole developmental milestones thing. But let's be honest after the kid's been 18 months you're gonna say they're "almost 2 years old" instead of specifying the exact number of months.
It always gives me those vibes from the Southpark episode where Cartman's mom sleeps with the governor in order to get him to legalise abortion up to the 39th trimester.
I understand the milestone month thing, but in all honesty the only people who need to know the exact age by weeks, months, years would be a medical professional or therapist working closely with your child.
I have two kids myself, but if I run into someone with a baby at the store and I say “oh how cute, how old?” I really don’t care the exact age down to the second. Just tell me their 2 and move on.
Yep I think 2.5 years is where months stop really being relevant
Every child is different. My oldest was walking AND talking by 9 months. She was also 200 percentile for height and weight. She is now 41 YO, 5 ft 4 in and maybe 120 lbs.
Get over the comparison BS.
I read to my 8 year old daughter during her bath times, we are always busy and I enjoy spending time with her. she baths herself, all i do is read.
4:25 this is like me saying “when someone without an energy disorder says they’re tired” like ffs other people can be tiref
As a mother myself I can honestly say I don’t think it should ever bother anyone for their partner to have kids and love their kids
The women want to be the only ones that get attention. This is "evil stepmother" sotuation that is gonna develop should the man marry this woman.
@@Shazzie_Rose Exactly. She is just one giant red flag and he should run.
Sorry but I wouldn’t date a man with kids… it’s funny how people suddenly find that’s not an issue once they become parents but were not putting up with it before that. The couple’s dynamic is completely different when one of the partners already have kids.
Not because i am jealous of his past though… but all the compromises that go around kids, while at the same time you don’t have much to say as your not the parent. Hell no
Also, what psycho equates fatherly love with sexual attraction.
For the mom with "tired" post... I work at primary school, so I spend 5-6 hours of ruling rather big groups of children (15-25). And I need to GAIN their respect and obedience! Then I study at the university and also have hobbies. Do you really think I have no right to be tired? I am tired of the audacity of spoiled kids you bring up! Sorry for a little rant 😅
I live in eastern Kentucky, and so I've known coal miners all my life. The idea of this daffy creature acting like parenting is the hardest thing ever offends every sensibility I have, more so because she looks like a terrible uninvolved parent.
@@doyoureadme94 Em... Parents do not care for their children 24/7 either, in most cases, especially when children grow up a bit. Kindergarten, school, hobbies, relatives etc. I haven't told moms work is not hard I just mentioned that other can have hard days too 🤷🏻♀️ Also moms have a small band of their OWN children, I need to care for a large group, remember more than a hundred names and also special arrangements for about 20 (I never counted). Please, never belittle someones difficulties. We all have hard times, respect it.
I'm a mom, but I won't ever tell anyone they don't have the right to be tired. There's only 24 hrs a day.
@@doyoureadme94 if the kids go to school then yes parents do get a break. Parents work out of the home, that's a break from the kids. People taking care of a large group of kids, have more kids to take care of then most parents do at one time. If you get to claim that your tired is more, while you take care of your children, then why can't people who deal with a larger group of children be tired to? Especially with during the school year, kids are in school more than at home?
@@doyoureadme94 I'm also going to add, I have two small children. My family doesn't help and I homeschool both my kids. My tired isn't any more than yours. My breaks consist of running errands while my husband watch the kids. Just because we decided to be sahm (whether due to saving money or not), doesn't mean that our tired is a higher priority than others. People who work with children deserve thanks and gratitude not being insulted for being tired after taking care of other people's children
I LAUGHED SO LOUD WHEN YOU SAID *tragedy ann* I disturbed my pitbul-pot-a-mous while simultaneously flashing back to the toddler sized Ann and Andy that were at my grandparents house!
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That shits hilarious
thank you for reading the internet to me. I can't handle reading it on my own today.
I'm a single momma of 2 and I hate those mothers who go on about being tired. As if Mothers are the only people in the world who have the right to be tired 😒 Also hate the mothers who shame other mothers for wearing makeup. I wear it daily and get the mean comments and dirty looks
I don't judge by kids, I ask them how much sleep they got and what they were doing. I won't forget seeing a coworker work 36 hrs in 2 days.
Yes I told them it was illegal and that was against the laws, but they insisted that it was ok since they were going on vacation the next day.
For what?? What’s so wrong with makeup…
@@minisn3066 apparently it teaches kids that they need to cover up and be ashamed of their imperfections. Another common reason is that a mother "shouldn't have time for herself" when she has a kid. I obviously disagree with both of them
@@SammyLammy1D what in the actual hell?! That’s horrible! I have a 4 and 2 year old and I honestly don’t have time to always put makeup on anymore especially when they were younger but honestly whenever I do I feel like myself again. Self care is so important! To be guilted it absolutely disgusting especially by other moms that’s messed up. Next time someone says something to you tell them to shove it
@@nishienish26 oh I don't have kids myself yet, I just gave 2 examples my mom and her friends got told. And thenmy cousin who is currently pregnant got told the same thing when she dressed up for a date night
As a mom of 3, I feel it’s wrong to say non-parents can’t “really” be tired. 🙄 I see my adult, childless (by choice) daughter struggle to work and live. She works harder than anyone I know, it makes me tired just hearing about her schedule! She says she works hard so her dog can have a better life. 😂
As for the months for age thing, it’s how doctors keep track of when a baby needs it’s vaccines, usually until around 3 years old. Moms tend to use it with other moms too. Also, baby to around 2 years old clothing sizes are in months.
After 18 months it's ridiculous, kid's almost 2 🤷♂️
aw my best friend busts her butt for her dog too! that's their babies❤
@@stem6700 actually up until about 36 months it also serves the purpose of showing what developmental stages a child might be in. A 12-month-old (1 year) and an 18-month-old (1 and a half years) are in vastly different developmental stages as is a 24-month-old (2 year) and a 30-month-old (2 and a half years).
@@hollyd.4793 Indeed, and when you schedule your kids appointment, they always call it the whatever month appointment. And if you're on WIC, you only know your child by months. 😆
My husband's best mate is a rural fire-fighter. When Australia has the big bushfires a couple of years ago, he stayed with us for a week at one point and I have never seen anyone so exhausted still be on their feet, and when called back after 4 hours of sleep, got up and ready and out the door to do it all over again! I'm a mum of 4 and a nurse and I've never felt so tired I was throwing up, barely eating and mentally only half with us like he was for that week!
Exhaustion is a human condition, not a parental one!
I am like one of our dogs when my spouse comes home!! I do miss his face when he is at work!! And we have been 19 years together, and 10 years married!!
Phancy - "Pretty Hot And -Ncy"
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Oooooh my I remember this one roommate/colleague that I really lashed out on. She felt really entitled to my food, skip payments on bills and get free rides to and from work because she's a single mom and I'm single without kids. I was initially happy to share stuff to her but it came to a point that she got picky with my groceries, demanded which ones I need to buy and not, obligated me to go home later just because she hasn't finished her work fot the day, and the audacity to forgive what she owed me all because she was a single mom and I'm not! I was very calm to explain to her that she's not entitled to my income just because. But hell broke loose when she didn't take it well so instead of me freaking out and going berzerk, I got really petty with small things until she gave up. She still owes me $150. I'd be glad not to take it back I just don't want to see her again.
As a recovering severe insomniac, parents piss me off when they undermine my low energy with, “Well, imagine how it would be with kids.” I’m gonna start saying, “Yay contraception!” In response. Also, as someone who’s studying to become a nurse, there’s so many things that could go wrong with not giving birth in a hospital. There’s also all that bacteria in the ocean that could do harm to a newborn and the mother during such a vulnerable process
Can I ask how you were able to recover? I'm a severe insomniac myself and I purposely sleep deprive myself and have for years and Idk why I keep doing it. I think maybe it's a form of anxiety. Any advice would be helpful and much appreciated.
@@CoeurD_Amaris22 my boyfriend financially supported me while I recovered. My grades in college were suffering and it was becoming dangerous for me to drive. So I just paused everything until this past May when I started doing clinical trials for money instead of a regular clock in and clock out job and started this past fall semester.
I’ve had somebody tell me that I didn’t have the right to be tired because I didn’t have children, and I told them that was on purpose. Not having children took work, it took conversations, and it took medication. So I’m allowed to be tired just because I did the work.
Dang, insomnia and nursing school? Talk about burning the candle from both ends! Seriously though, you are one tough cookie.
I'm a Hospital CNA and we're all tired; kids or no kids. Like I have legit watched one of my nurses down two cups of coffee and then a redbull immediately after without batting an eye. I had no judgment, just deep understanding and a crap ton of respect. So yeah, you don't need kids to be tired as hell; everyday life alone is enough.
Also, congrats on the insomnia recovery (ongoing or otherwise) and I sincerely wish you the best of luck with your classes!
What i don't understand is what are these people hoping to accomplish with such statements? To scare people into not having children? It's obviously working so..
It also occured to me it could be they find parenthood more difficult than others and feel ashamed for not coping well. So if they make it seem like parenting is that difficult in general, then other people won't think they are failing. In that case the motivation is quite understandable, but the way they are trying to help themselves is really shitty and comes at the expense of others.
i am so soo glad, that in germany the register office has a say in the naming of your child so the most cruel stuff is getting sorted out and you have to rename your child.
Oh my GOSH! I know the 2019 guy! He works at the restaurant in the hotel I do the night audits for! Even has the logo for his restaurant on the shirt. Now he's a superstar!🤩
My future sister in law literally dropped her kids off with me knowing I had the flu and proceeded to tell me that I am not a mom and needed to take care of her kids because “that’s what mothers do when they’re sick and tired.” I was so shocked.
Omg I hope you slapped her!
"Future" sister in law : I hope for you that the future can be modified !😉
@@cardinalgin oh she’s definitely cut out of mine and my daughter’s life for good because surprisingly that’s not the worst thing she has done.
I would have told her to come get them back or I'm dialing 911 because THAT is child abandonment
I'd call cps on her. She drop them on you without caring about you could give them the flu. Self entitled witch 🧙♀️
I think it’s New Zealand that has a law against naming children with humiliating names. Good for them.
Both in Aotearoa and Australia, and I believe in the UK too. There's a list of names that aren't allowed, and the Registry can refuse a name if it's too silly. That said, I do know someone who changed their name to 'Robot', and also someone whose middle name is 'Obi-wan'.
@@MsSteelphoenix yeah I knew a bloke who changed his name to Titus Toilet-Seat.
Most countries seem to have some kind of naming law, Finland for example is very strict about names to the point you have to explain why you decided to choose a foreign name and not a Finnish one, also can't have more than three ( i think ) middle names.
I've heard that in Portugal, you can't name your child just anything -- one of my college professors was living there when his son was born, and he had to convince the people at the registry that the name he was giving his son was a family name (I don't remember now what it was.) In Brazil, on the other hand, parents make up all sorts of crazy names for their kids -- mushing together the parents' names as many different ways as they can, or just pulling syllables out of the air. My mom met a set of twins whose names were ND and DN -- turned out they were born in the middle of the night, and it was the custom for the pastor of the church to be notified immediately whenever a child was born, and he went immediately to the hospital to visit. The mom asked the bleary-eyed pastor, "What should I name my babies?" And he mumbled, "Um... I don't know... ND and DN." So she did. They were in their early 20s when my mom got to know them.
Omg I’m in love with these mom ones and I’m not even a mother 😂 these & the wedding ones are the best 😂
With babies you only use months until they are two years old. There is a huge difference developmentally between a one year old baby and a two year old baby. We use months to see if a child is developing correctly and on schedule
To the lady who wants a smaller baby, she can always try having a preemie. My daughter was 1lb 14oz it was soooooo much fun. I loved the stress and crying, it truly was great not knowing what if any problems she would have. On the other hand my eldest was just shy of 8lb and a chunky monkey
wow!! I spent a while in the NICU with my first (spina bifida) met a mom with 3 under 5 lbs. . Decided then and there to have so much support for premmies..they are harder to push out. oddly my late MIL was a 2lb babe sent home to die. they kept her warm on the oven door..my hubby was 10.5. my bil was 13 lbs!!
Yes I was looking for a comment like this. All three of mine had IUGR so they were born full term but small (my biggest was 5lbs 7). All the extra stress and testing was so fun 🙃 (Also I’m so sorry about the struggles with your premie babe - hope they are doing okay now! ❤️)
Right!? I was a preemie myself and have a ton of health issues. I'm a complete mess . I legit have 10 diagnosed health issues none that are mental, Thank God and I'm still very grateful and thankful for all I have. People are insane.
1.14? Not to be insensitive, but was the baby okay? That's horribly scary.
Bubs is 9 now. She is doing great. She had 2 brain bleeds, chronic lung disease, meningitis, 2 holes in her heart was a failure to thrive and had acid reflux and seizures. Now she is still small for her age (I'm only small too) but she is thriving. They couldn't tell us what damage was done to her brain but she is ahead in school and spells better than me. She is a bit of a maths wizz too.she needs an operation for her heart and then she will be fine.
The mom's with the children taking baths reminded me of (I'll say) a family acquaintance, Trudy who has two sons. At the time one was 12 the other 14. They were visiting and stayed with my aunt for two nights and three days. After they left my aunt was telling me she is not inviting them back ever, she said the whole situation was creepy and weird. She said she thought it was weird on Friday when Trudy made them a plate but okay may they were shy. All day Saturday she did everything for them, my aunt had some fruit for snacks and her kids each grabbed a piece and just started eating it like a normal person. Not Trudy's boys, Trudy took the fruit began to cut it up in little pieces like they were two and might choke, sat there and watched them eat every bite and then she watched her go the the restroom get a wet washcloth and wash both their faces. Then told them to go play. That was weird but that night it got creepy. She told them they needed to take a bath so she goes into the bathroom and runs a bath for them takes them both in there (my aunt says this was when it got real creepy she was absolutely certain this is what happened) the two boys get in the bath tub together, and Trudy stays in there with them and washes them down and washes their hair and then sends them out one at a time ready for bed. When my aunt mentioned that she was sure they were old enough to take a shower by themselves she says "Oh they never clean themselves well enough". My aunt told me she was so close to calling Child Protective Services on her, she didn't think she's doing anything and she is really overprotective but that the whole thing creeped her out. This was almost 25 years ago but I'm sure those two boys/men are probably paying a therapist a lot of money.
😵💫😬 Sonsband /incest vibes there. So creepy!
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"Oh they never clean themselves well enough".
What 12 or 14-year-old boy does? That's part of the deal. Bathing them is messed up. What if her thorough cleaning gets them aroused physically? For that matter, non-physically, considering how sick the whole situation is.
Your aunt might have been better off carrying through with calling CPS.
That is so GROSS. I feel so bad for those kids, well, they’re grown men now, but the feeling is the same. It’s creepy and messed up in many ways. Here’s one example- Can you imagine them in relationships (specifically with women) and then expecting their partner to treat them the same as their mother did?!? Feed them like babies, bathe them, etc. Ew. No thank you.
I've got a friend who went through something very, very similar. To this day he's afraid of his mother and not capable of having a normal relationship with a woman. He's 48.
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Last story - The real tragedy is that name. Poor child will most certainly be bullied.
I am a Greek and I can guarantee that if mom knew the real origin of the word Tragedy she would not name her daughter "Tragedeigh" for sure.
EDIT with definition: The word 'tragedy' is built from two Greek roots: 'tragos', meaning 'goat' and 'oide', meaning 'ode'. It literally means 'goat song', referring to the dramatic plays of the ancient Greeks named such for the actors who dressed in the skins of goats to represent satyrs, goat-like mythological deities.
I love a tragoide
Welcome to the stage, Tragedeigh Anne performing her new hit, Goat Song 🐐
My step mother treated me like crap because I looked the most like mom out of 3 siblings. She wasn't nice to any of us but she was physical with only me. That one lady seems like she thinks it's an attraction thing when he says his daughter is beautiful and that's just creepy. But I also worry for the child's safety, that jealousy can get dangerous
Tragedy Anne sounds like the best Drag name, ever!
Phancy was part of a Tanya Tucker song. I love it too.
I love that she wasn't shamed for breastfeeding, people really had a problem with the use of months at that age. 🤣🤣
I mean it's still kinda odd to have a lil human being able to talk and beginning to think by itself being breastfed
@@sunnyspoumaroux607 And all those teeth...
@@sunnyspoumaroux607 at 54 months the kid can tackle mom, unhook the bra, whip out the breast, feed, put everything back, and go brush his teeth. 😂
@@sunnyspoumaroux607 agreed. But I love the main focus being the other bit, because some cultures it is normal. So I love the focus is not that specifically.
@@LS-um3zq Yeah that many teeth is a serious indicator that the kid should go with solid food 😂😂
You know it’s a good video when you can’t stop chuckling to yourself about “Tragedy Anne” later while trying to fall asleep. 😂
I went to school with a girl whose name was usually pronounced one way like 99.9% of the time, even in other languages, and her mother decided to pronounce it an alternative way that I guess is technically right, but that literally no one would ever think to do. I can’t imagine how annoying it must be having to correct every single person who ever reads her name.
As a once pediatric nurse, we use months until 24 to make the different milestones and the vital signs ranges.
Watching this feeding my 6 month old. Stopped using weeks once he got to 3 months. Will stop using months when he gets to a year. The only one that I'm on the fence about is the sleep one. It now surprises me that there aren't more mums that are secret agents. The level of sleep deprivation that I am able to deal with now, most mums would definitely be able to hold out with basically any kind of torture lol 🤣
I said the same thing but now I will stop at 2. I kind of figured it out that the only reason people truly use months is because the difference between months is HUGE. There is a big difference between 12 months and 15 months. At one, my daughter want walking, at 14 months she was running.
@@justinesnyder9677 yeah, it's definitely a developmental milestones thing until they are around 2 years old (a 14 month old and a 23 month old are both "technically" 1 year old...but at VERY different stages developmentally).
Same thing here.
I'm 711 months, 1 week and 1 day old and my daughter and I love your content. Thanks for the smiles Charlotte!
As a teacher, it's not the unique names that are a pain, it's the unique spellings. Giving a child a unique name doesn't guarantee a unique child. It takes more work than that.
was at my husband's family event, his cousin who had like 3 rowdy children was yelling at her mom to help her. I said "You made them, you deal with them" she didn't hear me but another cousin did and started cracking up
I actually think that's quiet disrespectful of you! yes she made them but so did the dad, were you shouting at him aswell? sometimes mums just need that bit of help especially in a setting such as a family event where kids tend to forget about boundaries etc because they are in a different environment. Maybe you could of offered to help and been a friendly face when she was probably feeling frustrated and embarrassed. Instead of being a turd and humiliating her. Must be nice sat on that pedastool of yours... I guess you must think you're so funny by telling that little story but you actually just look nasty and especially to your husbands family. Disgusting!
I love hearing “hey everybody!” At the same time everyday! It starts my day off right!
For me it's 6pm and it's just nice to come home from work and click play ♡
Me too it’s become my morning ritual ❤❤
My issue is
one of my favourite songs is Wham Rap 86..
🎶Hey Everybody Take A Look At Me I've Got Street Credibility..🎶
The shower/bath one I can relate. As soon as my daughter became "self-aware" lol and asked to be left alone and do everything herself at 6 and a half-7. I used to sit outside the bathroom door and watch movies, because I wanted her to have privacy, but I was also scared shitless that my child would do something silly, like try to stand up in the tub, and try to walk on water or something, then slip and hit her head, and drown. So yeah, especially with you being a first time parent, with all the first's, it's hard to "let it go". Turned out that all she wanted to do was sing really loudly all the time while in the bathroom in general, so over time it got easier because of that lol, of course if she stopped for more than 4 minutes I'd knock on the door and ask if she was okay.
This is cute
@@naomipommerel8415 She still sings sometimes, she's 14 now...and yeah...it's still really cute...☺
My mom and i did the same thing with singing so she didn’t worry when i was at bath by myself. It brings me back, it was so long ago 😊
@@martagil4347 They go by so fast🥲
I've got a 7 and 9 year old. They bathe themselves... but of course are terrible at it for the most part, I have to do check ins and help with shampoo scrubbing or gentle reminders that water isn't free and "clean ___" so I don't think it's that weird. 9 year Olds are still kids. Some still need assistance with hygiene, and other things. We are their parents and it's our job. I'd rather be the weirdo who still helps their 10 year old than a 10 year old who smells bad and has oily hair.
The kid with the name "Phancy" ... OMG - these parents are way tooooo much 😂 !!!
9:45 In my highschool we have a "Senior Math" class that covers all those things and more - loans, budgeting, paying bills, etc. Personally I think more schools should implement that