I Haven't Felt Like A Good MOM Lately...
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
- Some days are difficult, especially after having a baby. Today is one of those days and Ellie explains how she is feeling. Jared leaves.
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Welcome to the vlog. Thanks for being here today. Some days are hard, some days are great. We just gotta take one day at a time and work through it! We hope YOU are having a good day and want you to know that we are now. Love you guys.
Ellie and Jared love you to
6th like! Can’t wait for winter videos when I come home from school
Ellie your doing great! One day at a time. Sending hugs and kisses 😍🤩
Ellie and Jared I love your vlogs! I have a nine month old and I always look at you guys for inspiration and advice! Not only in your vlogs but in your podcasts! Your latest one about discipline was amazing! I love you guys!! You are amazing even if you don’t see it for a day!! ❤️❤️❤️
Ellie. Glad you got over this bump in the road. I don't know how you don't have more bumps considering everything you have on your plate! With four great guys in your life, the tears will always be replaced with laughter, smiles and love. Have a great day!
Ellie. With out a doubt:your are an amazing mum! Never give up and stay positive❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻🕊
Right? The proof is in the pudding and just look at those kids! They are perfect!
Ellie, bless your soul. You're such a beautiful, strong woman, you're a wonderful mother and a huge role model.
Its okay to cry!!! Sometimes as moms we need that moment to vent and cry and let all out. We dont always have to keep it together 24/7. Being a mom is hard work. Your an amazing women an mother. So girl go cry, let it all out. Then get up wipe the tears, take a deep breath and start fresh. Love you guys.
Tommy is looking so chunky and I'm loving it 😍
me to
He is just way to cute!!! Loving his little smiles. 😍
Just go cut your hair and eat and sit! Lol. Thats really funny. Ellie you rock!!!!
NOT SMART PLACING A TRAMPLENE NEAR ROCKS . HELLO ! WAKE UP !
Brenda Gal Also, NOT SMART for Jared to be doing somersaults/flips/flops/twists n’ turns when just a few videos ago he mentions his hip hurting again from his hip surgery he had years ago!?!?!? What the heck is he doing on a trampoline to begin with??? I have NO sympathy for him for doing stupid stunts and then not to be aware of consequences for those poor decisions! He’s an idiot!!! And, there ya have it - all caught on film as to “why” his hip hurts! DUMB MOVE!😕😖😝😱
How rude are these comments, think about how it could affect them personally before you comment.
It's true, thats all she does. And Yeah, the trampoline thing isn't very smart.
@@justrenee4185 How would you people like it if someone talked to you that way! Your rude and mean.... If you have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all. Leave them aline. Renee, do you know Ellie personally? If you dont you are judging her on a few minutes of edited video? Not smart at all. Shes raising 3 boys for gosh sakes. Jared was just reliving his youth. His hip was hurting, but right then it wasnt. Dont be rude people. Say it nicely. Otherwise youre just a cyber bully.
Ellie- you will always be an amazing Mom, never doubt that. Love you guys!!❤️
Ellie you are a great Mom. Sometimes life gets overwhelming and we get discouraged. My husband tells me that I am the best mom my kids could have because I love them like no one else can. They are happy, healthy, smart and capable. So are Jackson, Calvin and Tommy. Remember you are still dealing with hormones. Give yourself a break. You gots this!
PS.. Say a little prayer to Saint Anthony.. He's always good at helping you find things that are lost.. wether its yourself or "things" ;)
My Anxious Heart yes! It's true. I've tried it before and it works.
My Anxious Heart I am on a first name basis with good old Tony, LOL, and it works every time.
This!❤️❤️❤️
The Bible says to pray to God through Jesus. He will help you in your struggles.
My Anxious Heart .... They are Mormon. Does that apply here? Lol
You guys might want to put up a net around the trampoline. Since there is a boulder wall next to it. Worried someone might get injured.
MrsMrMoney saying they don’t care is a pretty unfair assumption. Ellie wouldn’t let the boys go outside without her and Jared was with them when they were playing earlier.
A net around the trampoline is definitely a good idea but to say they don’t care isn’t a kind or helpful thing to say.
@@MrsMrMoney u do realise that there was someone holding the camera filming the kids play...so ur assumption that the kids were playing unsupervised is completely baseless..
@@MrsMrMoney that's a nasty thing to say the love their boys very much and would never let anything happen to them. If this is how you feel maybe you should stop watching them
Boxer Mom Nah, we didn’t have a net around ours when we were kids and we were fine. The kids will learn to stay away from the edge. I love that they don’t wrap their kids in bubble wrap and they let their kids be kids.
MrsMrMoney They play in the backyard so, why would they need to be supervised? Jackson is old enough to play outside alone in the backyard. SMDH!!!
I don't usually comment but I just feel the need to thank Ellie for her honesty... nowadays online I'm sure it's not an easy thing to do so I'd like to thank her and send all the love from Edinburgh ❤💞❤💞👭🏻
You’re probably one of the best moms I’ve watched and seen on RUclips. I watch Ellie and Jared because of the parenting tips and the way you show your kids right from wrong. You’re AMAZING Ellie! Give your self some more credit!
Ellie I think you are a fantastic mom! You are Jared have the cutest little family and I know that you guys are great parents!
You can always tell someone is an amazing mom when their baby looks at them with those adoring eyes. That baby just loves you with his whole little heart! We all have hard days as mommas, but you're doing an amazing job. It's not easy!
I feel so sorry that you feel down Ellie! You are an amazing mom even if you don't feel like it at all times :)
Ellie, I just want to thank you for today’s vlog. I have a 3 year old boy (almost 4) and having a little girl any day now. I feel like I have those days all the time. Really helps seeing someone else going through the same things.
It seems we all feel that way every now and again! One thing I have learned that the things we do are enough and children are resilient! Ellie, from what I see, you are a great mother! I'm amazed by you! Your children are lucky to have you for a mother!
Ellie you are an absolutely great mother and better yet you are an amazing mother because you have an awesome husband that helps you become a better person everything . With his support and the love of your family , being a mother just makes it a bit easier and more satisfying .
Your kids are the cutest and you can tell they are so loved and cared for. You've got so much on your plate.. with work and vlogging and momming..you're doing amazing!
Ellie, you are a GREAT mom!! Don’t ever think down on yourself or doubt yourself. You are absolutely AMAZING and your kids (and Jared) are so lucky to have you! I hope to be at least half the mother to my kids one day that you are to yours!! Keep being you❤️❤️
Ellie the way you tell your Kids to wait and don't do thing you don't Want, is so beautiful.. You call their names and get Eye contact, so you know they are listening 🙏😍.. You are the Best mom 💙
Ellie, you are one of the greatest moms ever. Your kids are so very lucky to have a mom like you. Keep being you, Ellie, you’re doing great!❤️
I'm having my second baby in 2 weeks and I wanted you to know I look up to you as a mom. Your so greats with your boys. Your such a wonderful and loving mom and that's all a kid can ask for.
Love you Ellie! Every mama in the world has those days...sometimes weeks and months too. You're a wonderful mom and those boys are clearly loved and cherished. Give yourself grace. 😍
Totally normal feelings. I had three children myself. It’s just an overwhelming abundance of love you are feeling. So much in fact that it makes you feel inadequate at times. You are tired physically and mentally yes but in your heart your love for your children cannot be measured and anyone who knows you knows this too. Take care Ellie.
This Video Was adorable and Ellie, You are a Good Mother you have been Treating your Kids So Good You've cared for them everyday, You are the Caring Mother for The Mecham Family, Jared is the Caring Father for Your Family as well, I hope you have a Amazing Day!
I think it’s so important that you show days like this because it makes other mommy’s feel not so alone! I have four kids and had a day like this yesterday. Once I went to bed and woke up to a new days I felt much better
Thankful for "Tomorrows"
Ellie...give yourself grace! 10 years ago I was in your exact position! 3 kids 4 and under. It’s tough...but it’s only for a season! Mine are now 15, 12, 10 and I wish I could go back and have those simple hard days back because in a blink they’re grown up and all you have are the memories! You’re doing an amazing job. Enjoy your babies and love yourself! xo 😘
Oh Ellie! You are the best. The way tommy looks at you just melts hearts! He already loves you so much! Hope your day gets better!
Ellie, you’re doing a wonderful job. Adding a new life to your family means you also have a new life, different from how it was before. It’s a huge adjustment. It’s okay to have awful days. I respect you so much taking care of those three little boys and running your own business. I’m cheering you on!
Ellie, you are amazing and extremely strong. Even when you have hard days, I love how you can you still continue to see the positive and smile. You are an amazing mom and I look up to you a lot. You always in the vlogs find ways to remind us that things get better! Keep smiling, it's contagious!😊 and remember you got this!
It’s nice to know I’m not the only one feeling like this on some days. Thanks for sharing Ellie! It helps other moms realize it’s normal! And you ARE a GOOD mom ❤️
You are a great mom, Ellie! As long as kiddos and babies are fed and clean and rested-its all good! Those precious smiles and coos from Tommy are heart warming! God surely has his hands on your wonderful family!
Miss Ellie, THANK YOU for being willing to show the reality of being a momma! I just had baby number 3 and it is hard sometimes, trying to still love on the older ones when the baby seems to take all the attention. Know you are the BEST momma and I love watching you guys!!
I love watching you guys, and one of my favorite things is how inspiring you are as a mother Ellie! You're doing great, hope you feel better today! Praying that you see how great of a mom you are!
❤ Ellie, YOU are doing a great job. Some days we do whatever we have to do to get through the day. Our kids are loved and happy and that is what counts.
Ellie, you are a GREAT mom! Being a mom is hard work, and even on your worst days, you shine. No matter what, your kids will always love you.
*We* all have those days. You are an amazing Mom!!
All your boys are so sweet! They are living proof that your a great mom
Ellie, you are doing exactly what good Moms do. They teach their children to listen and guide them to good behavioir. Thats is being a good Mom. You are doing great!
Ellie your a great mom don't feel down all your kids are healthy and happy because of you and jared that makes you a good mom you feed them and make them happy and your looking after Tommy it's hard but be strong if you aren't strong they won't be strong luv u guys❤❤❤
Oh Ellie. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Just know you are a great momma. You love your kids and it shows. We all go through these times as moms. You’ll make it through! You got this! Tomorrow is a new day!
I had one of those days yesterday... hubby stayed home from work. I just felt so exhausted and not coping well, which is our of the ordinary for me. Those days don't define us as Mums. You have three sweet boys, and that's testament to you both as parents. Big hugs Ellie! 💕
You are an amazing mom! We all have days like this. Just accept the feelings, remind yourself of all the incredible things you do, and keep going! You are a beautiful person inside and out. Your family's happiness reflects your efforts!!
I love your mom-honesty! Makes me feel better to know a perfect mom like yourself has those day to. ♥️ makes me normal to have them.
Dinner WAS GREAT when Jackson said that it Made my heart melt his voice just makes it sooo cute
Ellie, ur so strong and I think your so brave and amazing for showing yourself on days that aren’t so good.💗💗
I know some times it’s hard not to give in to the negative feelings but never loose sight of who you truly are. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Everything about you was lovingly placed for a reason. God Bless you and your beautiful family.
These sorts of vlogs are my favourite, when you really open up about your struggles and show us all that you're just a regular family. Hope you feel better soon Ellie x
Ellie you’re a fantastic mom! You’re so strong. All you can do is do the best you can and know that it’s ok to cry sometimes. You have three young kids which I’d be overwhelmed with and absolutely crush it everyday! Nothing can be perfect 100% of the time. Love you and your family :)
I can definitely relate to the not feeling like a great mom the past few days. Some days are just hard. Some days oatmeal for dinner is just perfect. Heck sometimes I just want a frozen meal or something. Your a great mom Ellie. I know you know that. Thank you for being open today and sharing
Ellie, you're doing an awesome job!!! Even though you might not feel that great at the moment, one can see that you are an amazing mother, because of the way your boys behave. Everyone can see how much they love you!
Sending you so much love. Your kids are smiling, laughing and their bellies are full. You're a much better mum than you realise :) keep your head up ❤
Ellie you are an AWESOME mom,wife,sister,daughter!! You're an inspiration and a GREAT example! God Bless and take care!!
Ellie you ARE an amazing mom! Without a doubt! You are doing the best you can which is all anyone can do. Your kids are so lucky to have you and Jared in their lives. I love you guys so much. Thanks for being honest with us
Tommy is such a happy and precious baby 😭😍 He's the perfect mix of Jackson and Calvin 😍
No your a great mum. You care and love your family and that's the important thing
Im so sorry that people can’t see the strong and beautiful mom you are! you are so strong! Your babies are so blessed to have you as their mommy! Like you said, tomorrow is a new day! :)
Ellie you are doing an amazing job at being a momma!! Adding any new little one into a family is an adjustment whether it’s your first or fifth. This is just your time of adjusting and getting into a new flow with a new one in the mix. Don’t be so hard on yourself! 😘💛
Omg Ellie. Thank you, for your vulnerability. You have no idea what a breath of fresh air you are - you don’t even know what you give to other moms when you let us see that even as wonderful as you are even you have a hard mothering moment of not feeling good enough, and that just made me think, Ellie is not right and neither am I! We are wonderful moms!
Ellie I’m so sorry you are feeling that way. You can rest assured that you are a wonderful mother to your children, even in your worst days. You are teaching them that sad days happen and that one recovers from that. I honestly wish that you feel better very soon. 😘💪🙏
Ellie, you are a wonderful mother! I LOVE that you just sit and eat, it proves how devoted you are too little Tommy. Nursing takes a lot out of you! And your hair is gorgeous, too ;)
Your AMAZING Ellie. I think your a wonderful mom, and your stunning. I love your new hair, it's realistic for a mommie of three. Everything you have done, is truly glorious. Look at all of your progress and keep your focus on whats ahead. Don't let little comments bother you, your the lucky one holding unto three amazingly well behaved boys, keeps her house wonderfully tidy and looking better than ever before. Sending you hugsssssss, Lisa
I know everyone could tell you this over and over again and you sometimes won't believe them just because that's how mama's are... but you are such a GREAT mom!!! You give the boys so much love and attention and are so patient and caring. I could point you in the direction of some... not so great moms but I won't do that lol. We love ya, Ellie, and will be here for you through all of the ups and downs!
I absolutely love the realness of this video! Ellie you are a wonderful mom, your boys are so happy and it shows...thank you for sharing your lives with us.
Being a mom is the hardest and the most rewarding and we often put ourselves down and don’t give ourselves and other mamas enough credit. Keep your head and your spirits up Ellie, your a great mom juggling a lot right now. We love you and are here to support you, and there’s nothing wrong with sitting and eating. I assume that’s the only time you get down time to vlog when you can eat and not have chaos. Love ya girl!
Im so sorry that people can’t see the strong and beautiful mom you are! you are so strong! Your babies are so blessed to have you as their mommy! Like you said, tomorrow is a new day! :)
You’re an amazing mom Ellie. You’ll always have ups & downs. Don’t worry too much. I love you!! 💓💓
And now we know why Jared's hip is getting worse. Lol
Hahah! I've been trying too many tricks on the trampoline!
Crystal Dinsmore It’s hip to be square
Yeah I was freaking out about his hip 😳
Ellie and Jared I thought the same thing! I work for an ortho surgeon and I was cringing watching you on the trampoline! Be careful please!
Crystal Dinsmore: YES!! I cringe when I see Jared doing those things! I have two complete knee replacements, and wish he would be more careful! He is SO young, and replacement joints don't last that long!!
Ellie- I look to your channel for mom advice. I think you do a great job with tackling everything that you need to :) I like your mindset where you say “ tomorrow is another day to start fresh “
I feel for you so much Ellie. I feel like I’m not a good mom all the freaking time...or wife. Parenting is just that freaking hard. You are an amazing mommy even on the hardest days. Your boys are so lucky to have such an amazing parent. ❤️ You inspire me daily to be a better parent. I only have 1 little boy and don’t know how the heck to get through it some days but I know I can tears and all!
ellie you are an amazing mom .. give yourself some time for you ... your love and positivity are what makes you a mom to look up to
Ellie you are an amazing mom, just look at your handsome, loving and caring little boys they're a credit to you... Your beautiful inside and out, don't pull yourself down so much! Both you and Jared are amazing parents.
I love watching you daily xxxxxxxxxxxx
I feel ya Ellie! We're transitioning with a toddler and newborn right now. The days are long and hard. It's all a process and you're an AMAZING mom!!! Tomorrow is a NEW day! 🤗
You are doing an amazing job Ellie. Be kind to yourself and give yourself a break! You are a wonderful mother and your boys are so lucky to have you and Jared.
We all have those days.. They do get better. They grow up and so do we.. You are an amazing mom...
Thank you for sharing your feelings... I'm in much the same situation as you kid-wise with our littles ages almost perfectly matched up so I feel you! And it's a comfort to know I'm not the only one who feels this way and helps remind me I am still a good Mom even when I'm struggling. 🤗
I think Tommy’s personality is starting to show & it’s soooo cute! Love this sweet family
Aww you’re a great mother💙 we all have days like this. Sometimes it’s ok to not be ok. Hang in there, love you guys!
Oh Ellie, how I understand. I've suffered from PPD and it creeps up unexpectedly still... Look at how wonderful your boys are. That is thanks to you! Well, both of you. Believe it, we've been getting glimpses of your life. It's ok to let yourself cry but you shipped just carry around an"I'm an amazing mom"mug or something, just to remind you: you're one of the good ones, one of the best.
I think as a Mom we all have days like that! When I look back at all the years I’ve been a Mom I’m blown away by how hard the younger stage is on us Moms especially. I had moments where I felt like all I do is clean up messes and poopy pants. We had our three boys in three years. Those years are a blur and I wish I wouldn’t have been so hard on myself. Ellie, you’re gorgeous inside and out and I look forward to your vlogs every morning. Keep doing what you’re doing and remember you’re a wonderful Mom and this stage won’t last forever. Hugs to you!❤️ We love your sweet little family!
Ellie you are a wonderful mom. Never doubt yourself. Love you and your family!
Ellie I totally understand. I’m a first time mom and I got lucky enough to be a stay at home mom from the day my son was born. He is now 4 months. Today was one of the hardest days so far. And this video helped me feel like I’m not alone on feeling like the best from time to time. I love watching your videos💕
Ellie you are an amazing mom don’t be discouraged. Tommy is getting so big and his little cheeks are getting chunky. He is just adorable.
Ellie and Jared you guys are amazing parents!! The boys are so precious, Jackson and Calvin are so big and smart and I still can't get over how adorable baby Tommy is!!! 😊😍❤️ Love you guys!
Elle, please believe in yourself. You're an amazing mummy. You're going through a hard season where everyone is adjusting to the new family dynamic. Be kind to yourself. You're not alone. Much love XxxX
Ellie I'm crying right along with you. We expect so much from ourselves as Moms. Muh more from myself than I would ever expect
Baby blues are tough! Hang in there Ellie you are a great mom, I can tell by your babies smiles
Seeing you sad hurts my heart Ellie. Hope today is better!! Love you!!
Ellie....when you see that sweet smile on Tommy it should let you know what a GREAT job you're doing as a Mom! Don't be so hard on yourself~
Ellie, you are doing such a wonderful job. Your boys are flourishing under your care and you always look gorgeous! I raised three kids and there were some days that I too felt like not a good enough mummy, but we can't be text book mummies all the time, because we are human and imperfect. Sending you some cyber-love ❤️
Ellie, you are beautiful even at your worst and besides being beautiful on the outside...you are beautiful on the inside. And you are an awesome Mom. I think we as mothers all get to feeling that way at times. It will pass. Sending hugs.
Praying for better days ahead! You’re doing amazing mama!❤️
Well it is ok. We moms without a dad home all day feel that way almost every day. I remember with mt 3rd and nursing and not able to get up and discipline. You had help for the last 2 months. My husband was gone from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. I was home with a 3 , 18 month and new born. some how we all lived
You’re always a good mom, Ellie. Your family made me happy everyday when I watched your vlogs and Tommy is so sweet and adorable 😊. Happy Wednesday and I hope you have a good day too with Jackson, Calvin, Tommy and Penny, Ellie & Jared. Love you guys too!
I'm a bit late, but Ellie, you ARE a good mom, and I can tell just by seeing how much love there are in Tommy's eyes when he's looking at you ♥
Ellie, you are a fabulous mom. Don't let the naysayers get you down. We all have our off days and who do they think they are to judge you? I love you guys and I am glad you share your lives with us.
Aww Ellie I’m sorry you are feeling down. I think your short hair is seriously adorable I really love it! Also you are a great mom I am pregnant with my first baby and it’s a boy and watching you and your family makes me so excited to have a sweet little boy!
Awww Ellie you're such an amazing mother! You're gorgeous and kind and you're kids are truly amazing, which is a reflection of you and Jared! Sorry to hear you had a crummy feeling day, but there's always tomorrow like you said! You share so many amazing thing and it's so appreciated! Always remember you're an incredible woman!
Oh, Ellie, you shouldn't worry, you are such an amazing loving mom. Just see In Tommy's eyes! He is soo soo in love with his mom ❤❤❤