You were RIGHT about their feelings for you - God is exposing the truth in this video!

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  • Опубликовано: 23 янв 2025

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  • @jackieVanTine_
    @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +23

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    • @Justine-zz5ge
      @Justine-zz5ge 14 дней назад

      I wonder if the devil used his mother to discourage him and the books because he knew how it would help people.

    • @DogeRam-yd7ji
      @DogeRam-yd7ji 7 дней назад

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  • @errrrythmia
    @errrrythmia 15 дней назад +64

    a relationship with a narcissit was never a relationship to begin with

  • @Tiff_lifts_alot
    @Tiff_lifts_alot 15 дней назад +102

    Whoaaaaa! The timing! I called a friend to tell them that i have to set boundaries and keep distance because i knew our friendship is no longer healthy. I want to honor God, and once i did the deed, i felt this sense of relief, and your video totally confirmed the relief.

    • @blessyGel
      @blessyGel 15 дней назад +1

      🎉true 🙏🏼💯💯

  • @LanceVanTine
    @LanceVanTine 15 дней назад +75

    This is a powerful video!
    It's amazing how people gaslight in not just words, but deeds and actions. They think that time is forgiveness when, in actuality, there is always a responsibility to repent and ask for forgiveness when we do wrong.
    DO NOT BE FOOLED BY KIND WORDS AT A LATER TIME! If they periodically fail to repent, don't place yourself around such toxicity, lest you permit others to abuse and manipulate you.
    Great word, Babe!

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +10

      AMEN BEAR YES!!!! 🙌

    • @Acuraintegraman1
      @Acuraintegraman1 15 дней назад +2

      Struggled a lot with this lately, Sometimes I’m willing to look past things and forgive from the heart but sometimes if it’s repetitious, or bad enough I think forgiveness is needed. Even Jesus says reconciliation is required if your brother sins against you. Jesus addresses situations involving personal wrongs and reconciliation in Matthew 18:15-17. God bless and thank you.

    • @gregorydtrider8531
      @gregorydtrider8531 12 дней назад

      I have a detective investigating my brother for crimes against me. It's about to go down...

  • @mayalynn4207
    @mayalynn4207 13 дней назад +4

    I just set a boundary with a situationship I had a while back. Don’t know why I did it, but as soon as I mentioned we should stop all form of communication, I felt healed (I cried) and he apologized for treating me so poorly. I believe that this was God freeing me in his own way…❤

  • @KingMusic-y1i
    @KingMusic-y1i 4 дня назад

    I praise God for you ! 🎉❤ I’m so grateful…. Thank you for your videos !

  • @jeroenverreyken2878
    @jeroenverreyken2878 12 дней назад

    Thank you Jackie, it brings clarity. It is a colleague not someone is was ever together with, but her behavior was exactly what you described.

  • @godsdaughter3225
    @godsdaughter3225 15 дней назад +5

    When you showed the drawings of the mom and son it opened my eyes because I do feel that some narcissistics can become like that because of generational curses n from unhealed wounds . How their relationship with their parents is how they will treat you in the relationship I’m dealing with this n now I see God is exposing the truth
    What is hidden in the dark will be brought to light

  • @jacquelinemay8101
    @jacquelinemay8101 15 дней назад +37

    I love it when you call us boo boo 😅 God bless sis

  • @ElizabethPenrod
    @ElizabethPenrod 15 дней назад +18

    The lords mercy is new each day!! Remember...

  • @josephjackson3793
    @josephjackson3793 15 дней назад +9

    Remember the light ✨️ will always ✨️ shine ✨️ through ✨️ the ✨️ darkness ✨️. God comes first in my book 📖. Amen 🙏 🙌 ✌️ I am walking night to God..Have a blessed week and your family. Be good this year my sister. Loving the lord.

  • @MegaYOU
    @MegaYOU 13 дней назад +1

    Thank you, Jackie. As always. God continue to bless u and give u more wisdom. Praise God for u! Woman Of Wisdom (W.O.W) Thank God for the countless times He used u to rebuke us. Continue in the fight sister. God bless u even more! 🙌

  • @iananderson292
    @iananderson292 15 дней назад +11

    I like how you said that the nature of sin is inherently narcissistic. That makes so much sense when it comes to the time of wondering "am I the narcissist?" It's like... yeah somewhat

  • @geniuszeal205
    @geniuszeal205 13 дней назад +9

    Anyone reading this comment, please pray that I get more hours at my job, and pray that I get more money like never before! Please and thank you.

  • @geniuszeal205
    @geniuszeal205 6 дней назад

    Anyone reading this comment, please pray for my mother to understand the truth about demons! Please and thank you.

  • @TiffanyHamm
    @TiffanyHamm 15 дней назад +2

    Thanks so much for sharing ❤I had been blind to this with a parent and always confused, had to “earn/be a good child” to be loved and no one else really understanding how heavy the burdens felt to me. Recently I felt it turned into a spiritual attack, being bombarded my constant texts and calls after setting boundaries or being constantly asked last minute to cater to their needs. It’s definitely a God-sized hole they have that only God can heal and fill. When being brought up by a parent this way sometimes, it’s often difficult to see the same patterns in romantic relationships bc that treatment has been “normal”. Thankful for videos like this to remind us and help us realize their character is being exposed.

  • @CarmaletaHarris
    @CarmaletaHarris 15 дней назад +9

    Love bug! I really don't Care I'm free and I got the joy of Jesus within me thank you for the pep talk!

  • @saethenamejesus321
    @saethenamejesus321 13 дней назад

    Wow. This truly helped me understand a situation that I recently decided to let go of! I couldn’t put my finger on it but these scenarios were happening and my peace was so disturbed.

  • @aksanamedure
    @aksanamedure 15 дней назад +21

    This is EXACTLY why I ended my relationship with one of my oldest friends. God forbid I bring up something she did to hurt me, and now I’m the bad guy lol. I was questioning if I over reacted but this is confirmation that I didn’t. And the situation about the mom is also extremely relatable. Crazy.

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +3

      Nope not overreacting sis! Pray for her but keep distance !

  • @PropheticSoakingwithSarahJER
    @PropheticSoakingwithSarahJER 15 дней назад +10

    Mine was revealed Christmas evening 🙌 best Christmas gift. He was Holy Spirit baptised the next day while I prayed for him. God is good!

  • @ghostlyc777
    @ghostlyc777 13 дней назад

    So many people need these words

  • @kasiainspiration
    @kasiainspiration 13 дней назад

    wow good advice true, if there's no honest communication and real love

  • @azureblack5044
    @azureblack5044 15 дней назад +7

    Thank you, Heavenly Father 🙏
    I love you ❤ ✝️

  • @blessyGel
    @blessyGel 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you sis i really appreciate it 🙏🏼🔥 i feel.. so relieved and what a timing.. no more gaslighting arguments hurte ..God convicted them ..they did ghost me ..they come back ..i dont want the same cycles ..sanctification yes .. i am glad i am in waiting period its hard ..i will never marry wrong ..thanks for guiding me ..hugs 😭💖💜💜🙏🏼🙏🏼 i appreciate ur prayers help and keep doing this needed it

  • @ailhaj
    @ailhaj 15 дней назад +14

    I love your drawings lol visual learner here. Love you sister 😂❤

  • @ElizabethPenrod
    @ElizabethPenrod 15 дней назад +5

    Amen. Thank you, Lord, for my actions for not hearing and obeying your led in me.
    I am so thankful for your Holy Spirit in others and thankful you have allowed me to see.

    • @josephcurreri591
      @josephcurreri591 15 дней назад

      THANK YOU WHO THE SON SETS FREE IS FREE INDEED!! AMEN!!

  • @Goldenac
    @Goldenac 14 дней назад +4

    This word is scarily on time

  • @DianaVictoriaBowles
    @DianaVictoriaBowles 13 дней назад

    Thank You for the advice.I wish It came before marriage.I Will share with My daughters ,Friends AND family.

  • @505kylacakes
    @505kylacakes 15 дней назад +4

    On point especially at 3:48 - 4:04 . God bless you!!

  • @JESUSSAVEDME-p6q
    @JESUSSAVEDME-p6q 15 дней назад +1

    Lord Jesus, I wanna be more like You.. Thank you for speaking through this sister in Christ

  • @llhpark
    @llhpark 14 дней назад +1

    Funny, pretty, smart, witty but remarkably wise.
    PePe 🤣..
    Poor bugger .. with a name like that, and you, his Angel, by no disguise.
    Well done😎

  • @amandaaa777
    @amandaaa777 15 дней назад +4

    JESUS very timely

  • @KathibffnwithGod
    @KathibffnwithGod 15 дней назад +5

    Confirmation 💯 This was epic❤❤ Thank you ❤❤

  • @princessamy
    @princessamy 11 дней назад

    I haven’t been to church in 20 years but I would totally go if you were the speaker ❤😇🙏🏻😘

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  11 дней назад

      That is one of the nicest compliments thanks so much Amy 🩵 love you sis!

  • @ElissaMccarthy
    @ElissaMccarthy 15 дней назад +4

    This was right on time 😢thank u for putting this word out

  • @AMENGODFIRST
    @AMENGODFIRST 14 дней назад

    Amen! Good Vibes & Positivity! God Bless!

  • @annaburns2865
    @annaburns2865 14 дней назад +1

    I know so many 60 year olds and up who are way less mature than those of us in our 20s and 30s.
    So TRUE!

    • @whatisrealwhatisnt
      @whatisrealwhatisnt 12 дней назад +1

      @@annaburns2865 So many? I'm having a difficult time believing that. You're 20 and know many 60 yr olds who aren't as mature as you are? You've only started to experience life. Have you really spent enough time knowing what 40 years of life is all about?

  • @vanessarenae5169
    @vanessarenae5169 15 дней назад +1

    My ex husband cheated on me and lied to me for years and was verbally abusive. It has taken a huge toll on me. I know we should and are called to forgive. After being in abusive relationships where there is gaslighting. The aftermath of trauma is so hard to forgive. It's God's grace and forgiveness that we need to ask for so we can forgive. Because I can't.

  • @JustinDeane222
    @JustinDeane222 15 дней назад +11

    Misunderstandings and misinterpretations are also a thing that can lead to resentment and retaliation even though completely unjustified.

  • @SergeiChernavin
    @SergeiChernavin 13 дней назад

    I Have a Plan, Father Knows❤❤❤

  • @DJUniMekaju
    @DJUniMekaju 15 дней назад +1

    I think my daughter is going through this with her father. 😓 Thank you, Sis and Yeshua for the confirmations. It's time for her to move on, too.

  • @numbtongued
    @numbtongued 14 дней назад

    This is my exact situation with a parent of mine, I am absolutely floored.. it’s all connecting. Ty JVT, truly

  • @lysemmy
    @lysemmy 15 дней назад +4

    This video could not be more on time. The pain and devastation that comes from a covert narcissist is on another level of truama. I actually said yesterday to myself, it's time for therapy. Bc I know the issue at hand, I know I can't keep trying to confront him on my own, it's been years of this toxic abuse. He is the father of my child and it is excruciating to deal with. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

  • @sosogigi4914
    @sosogigi4914 15 дней назад +3

    Okay I take this as a sign but not in the way you'd think. God has shown me a few times that the guy I'm interested in is good, and watching this I realized that I couldn't relate to what you said. Thank you for this video , God bless you❤

    • @oofydoom
      @oofydoom 15 дней назад

      Same lol. Though we ought to still reflect and see how it could perhaps apply to other things
      But yeah I getchu. May God pull us through🕊️
      I think there’s another Christian RUclipsr (Consider The Ravens) I’ve been watching as of late that more personally resonates to my recent scenario and overall I seem to gravitate more to her now. Which is fine. I have nothing against Jackie and she had some messages to help me through in the past and still does every so often. But I know I try now to overall take any of these types of videos with a grain of salt because a): it always comes at random and b): it can cause detriment to my overthinking mind if I consume too much of it, even with the new one I'm watching.

    • @oofydoom
      @oofydoom 15 дней назад

      Yet I'm also recognizing this is a new and different season for me and that I still seek great discernment-especially in my dealings with others that I know still costs great significance. So I'm certainly grateful when this type of stuff every now and then is able to guide me in whatever way that is needed and that I feel genuinely helps me to be more at peace with in my spirit about.
      Ya feel?

  • @zephyr3332
    @zephyr3332 15 дней назад +4

    The timing of this is great. Thank you for this video, Jackie.

  • @Tasuke
    @Tasuke 15 дней назад +1

    This is good news. Thank you for this video. I have been on a spiritual journey of sorts and I had spent some time looking inward, though recent events has made me wonder about some other faults I have been made aware of. I had a dumb argument with a friend where I got angrier than I should have and it caused a falling out. That being said, this video does make me remember what my initial issue and what made me angry was. Even still, I should have handled my emotions better. I have received many videos and signs and spiritual readings on this situation and I think I understand what is needed. I want to do better with where I messed up as well though. I will keep hoping and praying for the best. Amen and God bless.

  • @kekesepheka4877
    @kekesepheka4877 14 дней назад +1

    Wow I just got out of a 2 toxic relationships. 1 of the people I can't even call her a friend anymore. She literally bit me. I disgusted, appalled. I really don't even want to talk or think about it. I blame myself . I should of left such a 1 sided friendship a long time ago. I forgive them and I truly hope God intervenes God is a God of vengeance. All I know she no longer exists....unbelievable I tried to be a good friend and now I got bite marks gosh. I feel like throwing up just talking about it. I pray God heals me. But honestly she's dead to me. No longer giving people benefit of the doubt

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 15 дней назад

    Im no longer the scapegoat!!! Hallelujah!!!! Thank you for the word.

  • @geniuszeal205
    @geniuszeal205 5 дней назад

    If I get back on my medications, the more I hear voices! Putting me back on my medications will make things worse! You better ask God to show you if that is true! Pray that I do not go back on my medications! Please and thank you.

  • @SaulHernandezServantofGOD
    @SaulHernandezServantofGOD 15 дней назад +4

    WOW, A M E N ! BLESSED BE THE LORD BRING GLORY TO YOUR HOLY NAME. .

  • @loriawinfree478
    @loriawinfree478 15 дней назад

    Turn away from our sinful nature Amen you right

  • @Jordanswoah
    @Jordanswoah 15 дней назад

    It's all God's plan for me and everyone ❤❤❤ AMEN

  • @rhodatuckey7119
    @rhodatuckey7119 15 дней назад

    Thank you, Jackie, so true, very difficult...

  • @margocollins1989
    @margocollins1989 15 дней назад

    Thank you for the message it was something I prayed about and you answered me exactly what I was concerned about and I have my answer. Thank God for his children.

  • @veronicagarza1489
    @veronicagarza1489 15 дней назад +3

    I needed to hear this.

  • @kimsvlog8765
    @kimsvlog8765 15 дней назад +4

    I hate to say this but when we stand before God one day, we won't be talking or explaining ourselves...this is our own ideas...we will automatically know because He is truth and light.

  • @wisdomokoro8898
    @wisdomokoro8898 15 дней назад

    Thank you for this
    Exactly on time 🤲♥️

  • @Godsdaughter-PraisetheKing
    @Godsdaughter-PraisetheKing 15 дней назад +3

    Gurl!!!! Needed this! Spot onnnn! Ex popped up and needed this clarity 🙏🏼

  • @zackdelarosa14
    @zackdelarosa14 15 дней назад +1

    I don't have anyone that gas lights me in my life at the moment. But that part about writing books for God stuck out to me. I'm an English major and I have no idea what career to pursue. I understand it's not about the money I trust God will provide I just want to be used as He sees fit I love writing and have been told my creative stories are pretty good and I should consider writing those but I also have been helping teach the Sunday school the past 6 months and the kids grew on me so maybe even a middle school or high-school teacher. Ultimately I'll leave it in God's hands and be obedient just thought I'd voice my current situation

  • @loriawinfree478
    @loriawinfree478 15 дней назад

    We are all sinners I love God so much thanks for Jesus christ

  • @loriawinfree478
    @loriawinfree478 15 дней назад

    Amen thanks my sister in christ

  • @HYP3M0D368
    @HYP3M0D368 15 дней назад +1

    Its crazy cause i blamed myself for leaving her and recently got closer with god cause of her i made amends to alot of my past aswell i left because i told her i couldn't do long distance but found out she never moved and lied and got back with the guy who bout killed her. Lord thank you for being there for me when i least expect it i now know your always there no matter what

  • @ValerieTaylor-c3w
    @ValerieTaylor-c3w 15 дней назад +4

    Thank you Jackie ❤😇💫

  • @lunarflare6113
    @lunarflare6113 15 дней назад +7

    Please pray for me to not have bitterness in my heart

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +1

      Father, please heal Luna of any bitterness and give her your heart to forgive others and let her give a soft answer that turns away wrath in JESUS’ name!!!

    • @lunarflare6113
      @lunarflare6113 15 дней назад

      @jackieVanTine_ I'm actually a "he" the name might be off putting but thank you so much

  • @MikeMoore-nn2lm
    @MikeMoore-nn2lm 15 дней назад +2

    Your humor at the end was hilarious like when you said (mrrried) it was like stand up comedy 😂😂😂

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +1

      Thanks brotha you’re always soooo encouraging!!!!

    • @MikeMoore-nn2lm
      @MikeMoore-nn2lm 15 дней назад

      @ your welcome! Have you ever done comedy?

  • @robertgoodsell5549
    @robertgoodsell5549 15 дней назад

    Thanks 4 sharing sister 🙏🏽

  • @barbarahinshaw3292
    @barbarahinshaw3292 14 дней назад

    I am praying for a good Godly man.

  • @neverletgo-f7c
    @neverletgo-f7c 15 дней назад

    We love you Jackie to you and your hubby❤

  • @dbrava5150
    @dbrava5150 15 дней назад

    I am touched by this but wait no one is perfect right. And I pray for all of you

  • @AshleyD.
    @AshleyD. 15 дней назад +2

    I was thinking about this whole week wow, thank you Jackie❤

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +1

      For sure sis !!! Love and miss you!

    • @AshleyD.
      @AshleyD. 15 дней назад

      @ miss you dearly, I pray to see you one day I still have the two words of knowledge you prophesied over me and it has held onto my heart all this time, love you🤍🤍

  • @aszusmc
    @aszusmc 8 дней назад

    Can you please pray for me? Please have compassion when I say, I’ve faced hardships and God has guided my path through family poverty. I want to enjoy a loving relationship with a woman, but I can’t find it, and I’m not very discerning on how to approach this.
    I feel like people are busy with their goals, and they are not valuing a relationship as much. People may not know how to connect these days, and their laziness leads to apathy.
    Please pray for me to find a wife and enjoy my life the best I can, to share love and be a blessing.

  • @CynthiaDelatorr3
    @CynthiaDelatorr3 15 дней назад +6

    You're so amazing.. I adore you, sister ❤️ the end had me rolling, but so true. Much love

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +1

      Hahahaha aww thanks sis :) love you girl!

  • @geniuszeal205
    @geniuszeal205 14 дней назад

    Pray for people to apologize to me for treating me wrong! Half of them called themselves Christians too, and they treated me wrong, so pray for them to apologize to me, now!

  • @manuelm5664
    @manuelm5664 15 дней назад +4

    Thanks for exposing the realities of married and single relationships 😮😅🧐😰😱

  • @MonaCourtney-q1u
    @MonaCourtney-q1u 15 дней назад

    Whoa oh oh oh get your self right on the right track first follow the narrow pathway first power it on user and no abusers lack nothing on the narrow way not perfect forgiven forgiveness is for number one then neighbor love thyself first yes yay & Amen Amen beloved

  • @lillerriller740
    @lillerriller740 15 дней назад +26

    NO FREAKING WAY I PRAYED ABOUT THIS YESTERDAY

  • @I_am33_HURRiCANE
    @I_am33_HURRiCANE 15 дней назад

    This is the exact representation of what my wife does and that's why I left CA to GA

  • @geniuszeal205
    @geniuszeal205 14 дней назад

    Pray for people to stop harassing me! People are hurting my feelings! Pray for them to knock it off, and pray for them to apologize to me for all of this!

  • @brianwalker5942
    @brianwalker5942 15 дней назад +1

    Good message

  • @Zunsmoon
    @Zunsmoon 15 дней назад

    Thx love - that is cool stuff. . 😎
    Someone ssid don‘t rven pray for them or they disturbur peace. Just put them in God‘s hands and don‘t look back. ✨🤷🏽‍♀️💕

  • @anneyoung2310
    @anneyoung2310 15 дней назад +2

    I thought we were perfect, but the day we were supposed to go to the beach (bad idea for a first meet-up), he cancelled. Life does go on, but dang,.... he was s'cute and we had commonality, which is an indicator of how a relationship will thrive (same faith choice, education, socio-eco similarity, major achievers, etc.).

  • @geniuszeal205
    @geniuszeal205 10 дней назад

    Pray that the lord will make sure that my half sister Talana is nice to me! Please and thank you.

  • @HGAitssimple
    @HGAitssimple 15 дней назад

    Truth.

  • @SillierHawk
    @SillierHawk 15 дней назад +3

    i swear all i hear when she pulls out the drawings is every single teacher i’ve ever had saying “now i’m not an artist guys…”

  • @Sub-m1j
    @Sub-m1j 14 дней назад

    Not sure if this video is for me, but i had a friendship or situationship with a narcissist few years ago. But I had already stopped being friends with them. Last year they contacted me wanting to connect, I told them no. Cause i finally saw the truth. The amount of mental stress he put me through was huge

  • @neortik7
    @neortik7 15 дней назад +77

    Guys and girls don’t listen to the magnetic aura book comment i suspect it’s a scam bot i saw two comments about this book it’s odd

  • @zabrinatheteacher
    @zabrinatheteacher 15 дней назад +1

    Amen.

  • @Eellas_World
    @Eellas_World 15 дней назад +2

    Hallelujah 🙌

  • @TimGriess
    @TimGriess 11 дней назад

    You should watch Freedom Ministries with Mike Popovich. Just saying. Truth.

  • @laltanpuia2751
    @laltanpuia2751 15 дней назад

    Amen 🙏

  • @lacey-romero
    @lacey-romero 15 дней назад +2

    Woooweee preach sis ❤
    🙏🙌🏻

  • @maidolyssierra2969
    @maidolyssierra2969 15 дней назад +3

    Amen 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @andymack54
    @andymack54 15 дней назад

    I Love u lil Sis

  • @annjeschka2034
    @annjeschka2034 15 дней назад

    Pepe looks kinda sick tho🤣🤣 But matter fact such a good message, thank you♥️

  • @neortik7
    @neortik7 15 дней назад +1

    Didn’t knew about lovebombing ! This is so tricky

  • @bmlove81
    @bmlove81 15 дней назад +1

    Jackie, your sense of humor is wonderful!! But don't get me wrong, the message was still important!!

  • @findmylostsheep
    @findmylostsheep 15 дней назад +3

    This was my Son's Mom, God is definitely working on her but She has some Trauma that needs some healing and Needs Jesus.

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  15 дней назад +2

      Only Jesus can do it!!!!!! KEEP PRAYING

  • @raydrayrd3389
    @raydrayrd3389 15 дней назад

    Jackie scared me.....🌟💯🌠

  • @ebuddha5
    @ebuddha5 13 дней назад

    That's the trick though, the person has to repent and be genuinely sorry and no longer sin to receive forgiveness.

  • @zienamakeda
    @zienamakeda 11 дней назад

    This was good