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1 John 2:3-4 if you don't keep God's commandments you don't know Messiah. Keep sabbath on saturday not sunday Isaiah 66 repent from pork and from christmas idolatry Deuteronomy 12:30
I used to idolize relationships and marriage a while back. Now, I am to the point where I cannot say I am the least bit concerned about getting married, having a relationship or even going out on another date. If God wants me to stay single for my whole life, I can accept that because God sees everything about me and He knows best. I won't be so foolish as to argue with Him. This is not to say that I don't have the slightest desire for marriage because I do.; I would rather focus on correcting my own conduct, walking closer with the Lord and doing what He wants me to do. Thanks for your videos
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7 year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
Jackie you are right person to speak on the "Idol of marriage" because I know God delivered you from that and ironically enough; not too long after that; you met your husband Lance 😄🙏🏼 When I was in my 20s I definitely made wanting to have a girlfriend an idol and it never worked out with any woman I met. Now in my early 30s, I believe God removed that idol. Your content has helped. I believe everything happens under God will and mercy. I could never be angry at God for what has happened. Have a blessed week Jackie!
Praise the Lord Georgio !!! I know the Lord has a very special woman of God in store for you. I am certain of that :) I pray she come at the perfect time in Jesus’ name!!!
@@debbiejenkins4039 Always wanting a girlfriend just so you don't have feel lonely or to fill a void in life can definitely be idol like it was for me. Thank God I broke out of that because I put myself through some unnecessary things back then.
Just yesterday i was at a crossroads of letting go my desire for someone and just trust on what is God's plan for my life. I didn't want to let it go, this idol of my own plans for marriage. And here we are again, Jackie, God using you.
Wow this literally just happened to me. I fell into deep repentance to the Lord because I finally felt the feeling of betray & pain that I’ve been causing God when I put these people first before him or when I sin against him with these things/people. I finally understood how God feels when we chose other lovers & we continue to speak empty words to him, how we say we love him but yet there’s no obedience. “if you love me, obey my commandments.” After this heartbreak, I was finally able to see how everything else will always fail you, but God will always be there to pick up the broken pieces. I am done putting other things before the Lord.
Hallelujah! Amen!! I felt the presence of God in this video! Thank you so much for sharing! My idolization for marriage is crumbling and my heart is on fire for the Lord! ❤️🔥🥰🙌🏻✝️
I used to idolize men and marriage and ended up with the wrong, unequally yoked person. I left him after 21 years because of unending pain and trauma. I turned again to Jesus and with Him , i found peace again. He is our eternal spouse.❤🙏
1 John 2:3-4 if you don't keep God's commandments you don't know Messiah. Keep sabbath on saturday not sunday Isaiah 66 repent from pork and from christmas idolatry Deuteronomy 12:30
@AMazingQuelly Read Matthew 15 in context. It's about eating with unwashed hands. Matthew 15:20 [20]These are the things which defile a man: 👉but to eat with unwashen hands defileth not a man.👈
@AMazingQuelly Loving neighbor is Yeshua quoting from Leviticus 19:17-18, meaning that you rebuke people who break sabbath, worship pagan gods🎅🎄🎃🐰, or eat pork. Not kissies and huggies. Hippies twisting this to preach is why the church will be destroyed.
@AMazingQuelly Hebrews 10:26-27 [26]For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, [27]But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
Sabbath is saturday not sunday mark 7:6-9 God does not like christmas (Jeremiah 10) And people who eat pig meat (Isaiah 66) Plus wearing cross necklace or mary statues (no carved statues 2nd command)
This has helped me alot. I just came out of a relationship that was not blessed by God and i have been praying for marriage. Now that i have seen this , i feel different. It is so important that we focus on God , he will never fail us or let us down. Amen❤🙏
Amen! Wow Jackie this video made me realize that I no longer idolize marriage like I used to ❤ I stopped using social media, been reading the word daily day and night, I find myself wanting to please the Lord more. Thank you for this!
I can testify that this is true, I went around dating unbelievers, going from man to man and never being able to fill the void. Finally I was so heart broken that I ran to Jesus and was born again. I was extremely lukewarm before in lifestyle (drank, clubbed etc) and never REALLY knew Jesus. Now after being thrown flat on my face, and having to start over, I can say Jesus is the only thing I need. God’s grace has carried me and is healing me. God is so merciful because I did nothing to be worthy but He pulled me back. So although it may seem lonely, just know that if you choose Jesus fully you will never feel as lonely as you did when you were trying to fill that void by yourself,
Thank you Jackie, I needed this, I asked god to remove this idolizing marriage and wanting love. I’m frustrated because I don’t want it to be heavily on my mind and I expressed this to him. I trust gods timing and have been in a period of isolation, even though I get impatient I told god I refuse to try and control. ( I don’t indulge in dating apps or social media apps)
Amen! Thank you Jackie! I love how God uses you to deliver His messages. I am at that point where I don't want to have nothing to do with men in a romantic sense. I just want Jesus. I am sick and tired of being used, abused, taken advantage of, and getting my heart broken. I'm tired and exhausted. I want Jesus to reign in all areas of my life. I want peace, and for my children to grow up well. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
Thank you sooo much Jackie! I can count when I came across your channel in 2024 as one of the turning points in my walk with God. The devil's been attacking with hope deferred lately, and I was begging God to help me keep my joy in Him. This title resonated with me so much! If you feel called, I'd love your thoughts on 'FOMO' as a Christian.
First off girl I LOVE YOUR USERNAME ITS TOO CUTE! Also, I can promise you sis that your hope in Jesus will NEVER be Deferred! He will bless you abundantly when you make Him your delight!
When you just said how god will speak to you and you immediately started saying “do you remember when” (what god was saying to you in that moment) blew my mind bc when I read my bible god also reminds of certain chapters and situations in the Bible that help me grasp the full meaning of my situation in that very moment and just hearing you saying you also have god do the same just makes me feel so much clarity
But the thing is you can feel that way in marriage too. They will fail you. You need to understand that if you don’t feel satisfied with Christ now as a single person without anyone else, you will place them in the place of Christ and that’s a weight no one can carry but Him. You need to be content with Him alone first. He’s better than any spouse trust me.
Wow!!!!!!!! The way you broke this down!!!! My mind is blown! Thank you for making this plain and getting straight to the point without all the fluff. I needed ALL of this, thank you for your obedience!
The Bible says in Revelation 18:23 that the entire world is deceived by Babylonian sorcery. Look into the origins of holidays like 🎄 🎅 🎃 🐰. These are pagan holidays that serve other gods which God hates. Romans 1:22-27 says that serving false gods with these holidays is the reason why we're living in Sodom and Gomorrah right now. If you do not repent from these holidays you will be deemed an idolater on judgement day, so if you don't want to burn in everlasting fire then you need to repent from this wickedness that Satan has deceived you into doing. Then go pick up the Bible and start reading it from Genesis to Revelation, because you will be destroyed for rejecting God's knowledge. Did you know that you're supposed to be keeping the Saturday Sabbath? Read Exodus 31:16-17. That commandment is forever, meaning you're still supposed to keep it today. Did you know that you're not supposed to be eating pork? Go read Isaiah 66:15-17. God will consume unclean eaters with fire in the tribulation. Did you know that the Bible explicitly forbids putting up a Christmas tree? Read Jeremiah 10:1-5. Do you wanna know why the government is so terrible? It's because God is using it to punish his wicked, covenant-breaking people. Read Leviticus 26. This punishment was prophesied thousands of years ago. Read Romans 13. You speaking evil against the government is helping nothing. If you actually want to be protected then start obeying the holy covenant - the ten commandments. You do not have a lot of time left. Pride goes before destruction and we are at delusional levels of it. Judgement is coming to the house of God first so you better be prepared before tribulation comes to a stiffnecked people who hate God's commandments and reject his word. Because you are not getting raptured if you're ignoring everything God is telling you. If you don't want to be told depart from me I never knew you then you better start getting to work.
Thank you Heavenly Father for this message! Lord increase Jackie and her anointing along with her family. Amen 🙏🏾 this is a great eye opener praise God
I agree with this 💯....going through the idolising process but I'm so peaceful❤❤❤This video is just a confirmation to me that I'm on the right path...God is my heart!!!!
I needed this reminder to never go back to putting my covenant with God at the bottom of my list. Lord you will forever and will always remain on the throne of heart .❤️
Wow Women of God.Im speechless❤You were speaking directly to me and now I know what to do on how to get rid of Idolizing marriage.God really used you 🙏
Preach! This is such an important topic to touch on especially when it comes to us Christians. It is not when YOU think you're ready to have a spouse, it's all HIS TIMING. God will not give us a Godly person if we are not a Godly person ourselves, devoted to the Lord. You have helped me realize this more and more, thanks Jackie. All praise to the Lord! (Also, you should definitely bring back "Mini Mic Michael" one of these times 😂)
YOOOO MINI MIC MICHAEL OH MY GOSH you have me rolling brother Andrew 😂😂😂😂😂 thank you for this comment it really encouraged me and I am so glad I could be used to help you! Much love to you from Lance and I - hang in there Jesus is for you !
Thank you, I was drifting away for a ling time from God, this video speaks volume to my heart, i was desperate tonight 20/1/2025 but God send me a message❤️🙏🏼 Sv. Jovan🙏🏼
wowwwww! this was amazing. Thank the Lord for his faithfulness and goodness and allowing you to be an amazing vessel for him. I am 18 and currently judy got out of my first God centered relationship and it grew both me and the man closer to the Lord but we were idolizing each other and the idea of marriage and we decided to separate and this video came right on time because since we have separated and my focus has only been on the Lord he has been performing miracles in my life, he has brought deliverance, restoration, and healing. He is so good and i’m so blessed for this video to come right when it did! thank you so much for your obedience to the Lord.
It's Amazing that your videos always notify in my phone and when I watch it, it always speaks exactly with my situation. God is really moving in your life and been using you, your videos to speak to me directly. ❤
Thank you Jackie. Your teaching is so annointed. I have to confess, I have been idolizing a man and it has been tearing me apart because circumstances prevent us from being together even though I felt God was showing him to me. You are so right, it's not to get alone with God so then I can get my husband faster, it is literally to lay it down and just turn my face to the one who is my eternal husband and recognize he is the only one who can fill the brokenness in my heart. Not the man, he would crumble under that kind of pressure. Thank you.
God is not supposed to be your eternal husband, he is your eternal and heavenly father to guide you and prune you to reflect His image and one day work in his kingdom. It's ok to want marriage but it's gotta be done in a Godly, non idolistic way.
it's so great that you talk about this from the perspective of judgement. God has been speaking to me with very similar messagas. He reigns over everything, even the Darkness, which He uses to pass judgement. How else would we learn? We are creatures of habit, of the flesh, we like our comfort zones and only when taken out of them and faced with trials and trubulations we experience true spiritual growth. This way we gain more spiritual discernment and. I feel so many Christians avoid this aspect of faith, it's like trying to spiritually bypass certain lessons believing that yoiu only need to repent for your sins. We need to repent, but we also need to learn, grow before he sanctifies us and this is the most difficult part of it. I like the phrase the Dark night of the soul because we need to face the darkness and transcend it, understand what we've done wrong and also why we've done it. If we fail to understand the lesson, God will have us repeat it. Than you so much for sharing this. Blessings to everyone watching.
Life with the seat up.. Chin has caught up. Well, better that than ever go through the soul chilling nightmare of another's darkness with such unlimited dark potentials..
Was gonna say at first that i'm not a fan of this sort of forced humor now and then, but you really did speak important stuff so i am glad i watched till the end. God bless.
The Lord really is the one who helps me piece everything together! Sometimes I go a long time without posting because God simply doesn’t give me the green light yet. Also, our sweet baby has been sick the past 3 days with a high fever and doctors can’t figure out what’s wrong… if you remember please pray for her. Blessings to you always Steven!!
I know this VERY long Jackie, but i hope you can find time or a way to read i believe this is really good. And I know the lord is using you to speak to us because i literally have been praying about this yesterday and today! I was crying out to God that as much as i want to have a wife and marriage and family, i know i cannot and do not want to make it more important than it should be and if its even God's will for my life! Just like you said i was too fixated or focus on wanting a woman to love and love me back and i literally everytime got hurt used took advantage of turned on or broken hearted! I realized i cant and dont want to live that way and go down that path and that i needed God to protect and shield me from that and even help me stop being a simp or desperate or idolizing women! Most men don't see it to admit it because they believe its ok because we meant to mate with only women but we shouldn't make that what are life is about! And that part about people being angry or questioning God about it is so true, i know from experience! I even wonder how other people who just got saved could get that like that but others been waiting for a long time and still don't have it? I question it like is it really God or just people using that to get it or one of the people intentions was always that or something I don't know. But i realized i don't want to go that route and do that at all and want it to be really from God for God. I finally realized that we cannot live this life for anything or anyone fir ourselves and own way will and desires. It ALL has to be for God and about God including wanting love for a person and being married and not for us to want it for our own self and own way and own plan. We cannot want it selfishly because thats why it wont happen right because that goes all against what it supposed to be about which is selflessness and serving the other person! We cannot want marriage for selfish reasons and desires or some fantasy or dream or so someone else can make us feel better or not be lonely. You supposed to make it about God and his glory amd purpose for it and about what you can do for the other person and how to make them feel right and not alone and uplift and help them! Its about what you can do for the other person not what they can do for you. So if we have that mindset about it we already failed which is why lots of divorces amd break ups happen. We have to get out of this worldly way of doing things especially involving other people and stop making it about us! The bible says the greatest commandment is to love the lord your God with ALL your heart soul mind amd strength and 2nd love others as you love yourself. But the world says you gotta love yourself you gotta do what you gotta do you gotta do what feels good or feels right. Its all selfish and thats why we see so many people fail and don't get it right and they dont even see thats the problem because they refuse to be vulnerable and make it about someone else and not them. How much better would that and society be in general if people acted as if they cared and worried more about someone else than being selfish wanting others to worry about them? If God was that way we probably wouldn't be here thats why he gave his only begotten son, HE GAVE! So thats what we need to do in general in everyway and especially for getting and having a mate and spouse we need to make it about GIVING to show love.
Good break down with the word of God this was definitely meant for me to hear I thought God had a potential partner for me In Arizona I thought he gave me a sign I literally seen a license plate that said Arizona but I seen she might be with someone else lol idk but I been idolizing relationship or partners def need healing thanks for being used pray for me yall
Hmmmm I'm already married, but this confirms what I have been having breakthrough with. I stopped idolizing my husband and my marriage. He had to take my husband, my children, and my family from me to finally understand what it meant to love him more than mother and father, husband and child. Jesus is everything to me.
I’m 28 and my boyfriend and I wanted to marry last year. Then hé came into a burn out and his mother came sick and was in the hospital allot Then my father got cancer. When my boyfriend finally recover from the burn out I got in one to 🙁 When we finaly overcome it al I got vulvodynie after 28 years never have anything there and waiting for marriage my entire Life. We wanted to marry so bad this year and I am so dissapointed in the lord. I do not experience him at all anymore and it feels like the ground is taken under my feet. Its so alone and i needs Gods healing and prayer so much! 😭
This is for me. I literally bought rose colored glasses the day before separating from my husband… two pairs.., they did not work. I still couldn’t ignore his demons. The energy was too much
This is another form of how I relate to God. I typically don't make relationships with beautiful women; I find inconsequential women and they just flourish around me...but they get attention. I feel like an incubation chamber for suitable brides.
I'm a woman of almost 33, left by my abusive husband a year ago which God allowed to happen because I was seeking Him more and more. He delivered me from a situation that I was stuck in. The healing process has been very hard but knowing Jesus as the closest friend has been so rewarding. Build a relationship with Jesus He will speak to you about a spouse aswell. Speak to Him about all your desires. God has brought a man of 42 in my life recently. I would never have thought about being with someone like him, his age, his looks, his culture, his situation everything is unexpected... a lot of things look impossible even but I trust God, He knows what we need and His timing is perfect.
Sabbath is saturday not sunday mark 7:6-9 God does not like christmas (Jeremiah 10) And people who eat pig meat (Isaiah 66) Plus wearing cross necklace or mary statues (no carved statues 2nd command)
12:47 1. Get rid of your addictions (phone counts) 2. Stop relying on emotions (you won’t always feel like it) 3. Usher the Presence of God daily (Worship, read your Word) Fall in love of Jesus! This is the only relationship that will last for eternity.
Another example of God using the devil to destroy the wicked would be the story of Ahab’s death in 2 Chronicles 18 and in 1 Kings 22 Here is a little piece of it. “Then Micaiah said, “Therefore hear the word of the Lord: I saw the Lord sitting on His throne, and all the host of heaven standing on His right hand and His left. And the Lord said, ‘Who will persuade Ahab king of Israel to go up, that he may fall at Ramoth Gilead?’ So one spoke in this manner, and another spoke in that manner. Then a spirit came forward and stood before the Lord, and said, ‘I will persuade him.’ The Lord said to him, ‘In what way?’ So he said, ‘I will go out and be a lying spirit in the mouth of all his prophets.’ And the Lord said, ‘You shall persuade him and also prevail; go out and do so.’ Therefore look! The Lord has put a lying spirit in the mouth of these prophets of yours, and the Lord has declared disaster against you.”” II Chronicles 18:18-22 NKJV
I am 18, this year march 1 I'll be 19. I don't care about marriage or love , I understand that I can live by myself, in death marriage or not marriage we are going to die the same way. I was surrounded by negative energies/People that always says I am single so I tried to get a Girlfriend(partner) but failed, all of them don't have pure heart, and I know its a test for my by God, the test on how I will feel after rejection/fear but I overcome these anxiety ,sadness and stress of rejection through Meditation and listening Healing frequency(free on youtube). Lastly, I believe in God, I got my Spiritual Awakening after removing all of my bad behaviors,bad things ,bad Personality,bad emotions(sadness,anger,lust, all bsd emotions etc),hungry for bad junk foods. After taking care of my health and mind I got Spiritual Awakening on last week of november 2024. I saw Hindu Gods Lord shiva,vishnu,Christian God Jesus Christ, Infinite Gods That'll be every religions Gods and One angel. Lastly I am a Pisces ♓ Zodiac sign.
Good video, felt like you were speaking to me this whole video. A similar passage, 1 Kings 22, starting around verse 19, The Lord sent a lying spirit to the false prophets to deceive Ahab to fulfill the prophecy of Ahabs death in battle.
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But I do remember when the Lord did send me my husband. He sent me him when I DIDNT WANT HIM. I'm super thankful he sent me someone who has the patience to deal with me. He is a man of God now too. I'm so thankful he sent me a man more holy than I. I wasn't worthy when he chose me. Be he qualified me anyways. I'm so thankful Jesus
I can confirm by my own experience with God guiding my life in that area that this message is 100% spiritually true... About the presence, I strongly suggest to you all to read the book "The Presence" by Bill Johnson. Read it and tell me about it later.
It's because no one wants to get married or stay married. Everyone is getting divorced or cheated on or is only economically viable for themselves alone. People have and are becoming completely autonomous from each other. God is allowing this to happen.
I actually used to believe that God said to Noah that he will not judge the earth again with water but with fire. I actually re-read Genesis 9 where God makes his covenant with Noah, promising not to again judge the earth with water. But the judgement of fire is actually not there in the text. God simply made a covenant to never again judge the earth. That it's an everlasting covenant and that he will never again destroy all flesh. Meaning that God is not going to destroy us. God is about mercy rather than wrath.
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“He uses those very same people to hurt you so you’ll run to God” I second this Jackie !!!!!
Right sis ?! It’s literally what happens. Happened to me!
1 John 2:3-4 if you don't keep God's commandments you don't know Messiah. Keep sabbath on saturday not sunday Isaiah 66 repent from pork and from christmas idolatry Deuteronomy 12:30
I used to idolize relationships and marriage a while back. Now, I am to the point where I cannot say I am the least bit concerned about getting married, having a relationship or even going out on another date. If God wants me to stay single for my whole life, I can accept that because God sees everything about me and He knows best. I won't be so foolish as to argue with Him. This is not to say that I don't have the slightest desire for marriage because I do.; I would rather focus on correcting my own conduct, walking closer with the Lord and doing what He wants me to do. Thanks for your videos
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7 year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
The spiritual counselor is Suzanne Ann Walters, she unite partners and families together.
I'm grateful for this valuable information; I've just taken a moment to find her online.
Jackie you are right person to speak on the "Idol of marriage" because I know God delivered you from that and ironically enough; not too long after that; you met your husband Lance 😄🙏🏼 When I was in my 20s I definitely made wanting to have a girlfriend an idol and it never worked out with any woman I met. Now in my early 30s, I believe God removed that idol. Your content has helped. I believe everything happens under God will and mercy. I could never be angry at God for what has happened. Have a blessed week Jackie!
Praise the Lord Georgio !!! I know the Lord has a very special woman of God in store for you. I am certain of that :) I pray she come at the perfect time in Jesus’ name!!!
@jackieVanTine_ Aye thanks so much for that prayer Jackie 😁🙏🏼 Until then and even after, I'll continue to better my life while seeking Jesus
Not sure if an idol
@@debbiejenkins4039 Always wanting a girlfriend just so you don't have feel lonely or to fill a void in life can definitely be idol like it was for me. Thank God I broke out of that because I put myself through some unnecessary things back then.
@@jackieVanTine_Amen
Just yesterday i was at a crossroads of letting go my desire for someone and just trust on what is God's plan for my life. I didn't want to let it go, this idol of my own plans for marriage.
And here we are again, Jackie, God using you.
You can trust Him :) let it go
@@jackieVanTine_ 😭
Wow this literally just happened to me. I fell into deep repentance to the Lord because I finally felt the feeling of betray & pain that I’ve been causing God when I put these people first before him or when I sin against him with these things/people. I finally understood how God feels when we chose other lovers & we continue to speak empty words to him, how we say we love him but yet there’s no obedience. “if you love me, obey my commandments.” After this heartbreak, I was finally able to see how everything else will always fail you, but God will always be there to pick up the broken pieces. I am done putting other things before the Lord.
Hallelujah! Amen!! I felt the presence of God in this video! Thank you so much for sharing! My idolization for marriage is crumbling and my heart is on fire for the Lord! ❤️🔥🥰🙌🏻✝️
I used to idolize men and marriage and ended up with the wrong, unequally yoked person. I left him after 21 years because of unending pain and trauma. I turned again to Jesus and with Him , i found peace again. He is our eternal spouse.❤🙏
1 John 2:3-4 if you don't keep God's commandments you don't know Messiah. Keep sabbath on saturday not sunday Isaiah 66 repent from pork and from christmas idolatry Deuteronomy 12:30
@matthew953 Matthew 15:11 John 3:17 James 4:12 God bless❤️🙏
@AMazingQuelly Read Matthew 15 in context. It's about eating with unwashed hands.
Matthew 15:20
[20]These are the things which defile a man: 👉but to eat with unwashen hands defileth not a man.👈
@AMazingQuelly Loving neighbor is Yeshua quoting from Leviticus 19:17-18, meaning that you rebuke people who break sabbath, worship pagan gods🎅🎄🎃🐰, or eat pork. Not kissies and huggies.
Hippies twisting this to preach is why the church will be destroyed.
@AMazingQuelly Hebrews 10:26-27
[26]For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins,
[27]But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
Lord l pray for this young lady to give her strength in Jesus name amen
Amen thank you so much brother John :)
@jackieVanTine_ my pleasure
He is right.
Sabbath is saturday not sunday mark 7:6-9
God does not like christmas (Jeremiah 10)
And people who eat pig meat (Isaiah 66)
Plus wearing cross necklace or mary statues (no carved statues 2nd command)
This has helped me alot. I just came out of a relationship that was not blessed by God and i have been praying for marriage. Now that i have seen this , i feel different. It is so important that we focus on God , he will never fail us or let us down. Amen❤🙏
I was almost in tears by the end of this.. such an anointed message. God bless and prosper you and your husband!
Amen! Wow Jackie this video made me realize that I no longer idolize marriage like I used to ❤ I stopped using social media, been reading the word daily day and night, I find myself wanting to please the Lord more. Thank you for this!
This was the first time i heared about idol of marriage and it's so true. Thank you. Love from an Italian Catholic 🙏🏻
Thanks!
I can testify that this is true, I went around dating unbelievers, going from man to man and never being able to fill the void. Finally I was so heart broken that I ran to Jesus and was born again. I was extremely lukewarm before in lifestyle (drank, clubbed etc) and never REALLY knew Jesus. Now after being thrown flat on my face, and having to start over, I can say Jesus is the only thing I need. God’s grace has carried me and is healing me. God is so merciful because I did nothing to be worthy but He pulled me back. So although it may seem lonely, just know that if you choose Jesus fully you will never feel as lonely as you did when you were trying to fill that void by yourself,
Thank you Jackie, I needed this, I asked god to remove this idolizing marriage and wanting love. I’m frustrated because I don’t want it to be heavily on my mind and I expressed this to him. I trust gods timing and have been in a period of isolation, even though I get impatient I told god I refuse to try and control. ( I don’t indulge in dating apps or social media apps)
BEAUTIFUL❤POWERFUL MSSG!!
THANK U🙌🙏😍
GOD BLESS YOU💫
You be teaching girl!! 😊🙏🏾
Amen! Thank you Jackie! I love how God uses you to deliver His messages. I am at that point where I don't want to have nothing to do with men in a romantic sense. I just want Jesus. I am sick and tired of being used, abused, taken advantage of, and getting my heart broken. I'm tired and exhausted. I want Jesus to reign in all areas of my life. I want peace, and for my children to grow up well. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
Thank you sooo much Jackie! I can count when I came across your channel in 2024 as one of the turning points in my walk with God. The devil's been attacking with hope deferred lately, and I was begging God to help me keep my joy in Him. This title resonated with me so much! If you feel called, I'd love your thoughts on 'FOMO' as a Christian.
First off girl I LOVE YOUR USERNAME ITS TOO CUTE! Also, I can promise you sis that your hope in Jesus will NEVER be
Deferred! He will bless you abundantly when you make Him your delight!
Dear Jackie, you explained it extensively. Thank you so much.
God loves you. God bless you and your family ❤🙏🏻
When you just said how god will speak to you and you immediately started saying “do you remember when” (what god was saying to you in that moment) blew my mind bc when I read my bible god also reminds of certain chapters and situations in the Bible that help me grasp the full meaning of my situation in that very moment and just hearing you saying you also have god do the same just makes me feel so much clarity
I just hate being rejected, unwanted, undesired single and alone for so long 😢
But the thing is you can feel that way in marriage too. They will fail you. You need to understand that if you don’t feel satisfied with Christ now as a single person without anyone else, you will place them in the place of Christ and that’s a weight no one can carry but Him. You need to be content with Him alone first. He’s better than any spouse trust me.
So true. It's terrible to be married and still feel that way. That's horrifically depressing 😮
Wow!!!!!!!! The way you broke this down!!!! My mind is blown! Thank you for making this plain and getting straight to the point without all the fluff. I needed ALL of this, thank you for your obedience!
The Bible says in Revelation 18:23 that the entire world is deceived by Babylonian sorcery. Look into the origins of holidays like 🎄 🎅 🎃 🐰. These are pagan holidays that serve other gods which God hates. Romans 1:22-27 says that serving false gods with these holidays is the reason why we're living in Sodom and Gomorrah right now. If you do not repent from these holidays you will be deemed an idolater on judgement day, so if you don't want to burn in everlasting fire then you need to repent from this wickedness that Satan has deceived you into doing.
Then go pick up the Bible and start reading it from Genesis to Revelation, because you will be destroyed for rejecting God's knowledge. Did you know that you're supposed to be keeping the Saturday Sabbath? Read Exodus 31:16-17. That commandment is forever, meaning you're still supposed to keep it today. Did you know that you're not supposed to be eating pork? Go read Isaiah 66:15-17. God will consume unclean eaters with fire in the tribulation. Did you know that the Bible explicitly forbids putting up a Christmas tree? Read Jeremiah 10:1-5.
Do you wanna know why the government is so terrible? It's because God is using it to punish his wicked, covenant-breaking people. Read Leviticus 26. This punishment was prophesied thousands of years ago. Read Romans 13. You speaking evil against the government is helping nothing. If you actually want to be protected then start obeying the holy covenant - the ten commandments.
You do not have a lot of time left. Pride goes before destruction and we are at delusional levels of it. Judgement is coming to the house of God first so you better be prepared before tribulation comes to a stiffnecked people who hate God's commandments and reject his word. Because you are not getting raptured if you're ignoring everything God is telling you. If you don't want to be told depart from me I never knew you then you better start getting to work.
you speak so heavily into my life. you’re actually the biggest encouragement.
i started making my own videos because of you!!
Wow sis that’s amazing and humbling to read… it means so much I could encourage you to be bold in all that God has made you to be! God bless you :)
Thank you Heavenly Father for this message! Lord increase Jackie and her anointing along with her family. Amen 🙏🏾 this is a great eye opener praise God
Thanks so much for that prayer sister - love you!!!!
This is so good! Preach WOG! You’re talking to me! 🔥🔥🔥
I agree with this 💯....going through the idolising process but I'm so peaceful❤❤❤This video is just a confirmation to me that I'm on the right path...God is my heart!!!!
SO TRUE AND SO GOOD ❤❤❤ Thank you JESUS. God bless you Jackie! I love you
God bless you sis :)
AMEN.
GOD OUR FATHER IS ALSO OUR 1ST AND ONLY HUSBAND🙏
PRAISE GOD🙌💯
Yeah, I hear you, I know what you mean, but it still sucks to be lonely.
Its sure does. We're weren't created to be lonely for the rest of our lives.
Thats true. God saw Adam and saw that he was alone and God didnt think that was good😢
@@lynnd.5135 yep. ‘it’s not good for man to be alone.’
Very relatable 😊 Glory to Lord Jesus Christ. Yes it happened to me as well i can clearly relate with your words.
Thank you Jackie I understand. God bless. 🙏❤️
I needed this reminder to never go back to putting my covenant with God at the bottom of my list. Lord you will forever and will always remain on the throne of heart .❤️
Your word always comes at the right time! Bless the Lord!
Wow Women of God.Im speechless❤You were speaking directly to me and now I know what to do on how to get rid of Idolizing marriage.God really used you 🙏
Preach! This is such an important topic to touch on especially when it comes to us Christians. It is not when YOU think you're ready to have a spouse, it's all HIS TIMING. God will not give us a Godly person if we are not a Godly person ourselves, devoted to the Lord. You have helped me realize this more and more, thanks Jackie. All praise to the Lord! (Also, you should definitely bring back "Mini Mic Michael" one of these times 😂)
YOOOO MINI MIC MICHAEL OH MY GOSH you have me rolling brother Andrew 😂😂😂😂😂 thank you for this comment it really encouraged me and I am so glad I could be used to help you! Much love to you from Lance and I - hang in there Jesus is for you !
Thank you, I was drifting away for a ling time from God, this video speaks volume to my heart, i was desperate tonight 20/1/2025 but God send me a message❤️🙏🏼 Sv. Jovan🙏🏼
Amen sister amen! Thank you! Your videos are so on point! Glory to God!
Lord God have your way in my life let your will be done in Jesus name amen
Amen I come in agreement Lord!!!
I am blessed by this video tonight, thank you for your efforts in sowing seeds.
Absolutely - that makes me so happy to hear it blessed you!!! 🙌🥹
wowwwww! this was amazing. Thank the Lord for his faithfulness and goodness and allowing you to be an amazing vessel for him. I am 18 and currently judy got out of my first God centered relationship and it grew both me and the man closer to the Lord but we were idolizing each other and the idea of marriage and we decided to separate and this video came right on time because since we have separated and my focus has only been on the Lord he has been performing miracles in my life, he has brought deliverance, restoration, and healing. He is so good and i’m so blessed for this video to come right when it did! thank you so much for your obedience to the Lord.
Woohoo! Thank You Lord, this was good my sister ✨
Jackie, this was a word in season. Thank you for being obedient to God
I needed this wake up call, Thank You Lord for your amazing timing 🙏 🙌 💜
Come on and praise God 🙏🏼😊
This is soooo timely. I literally prayed this prayer last night
Jackie, You are not just a thinker with wisdom, enhanced is your understanding of biblical philosophy through deep meditation🎉
It's Amazing that your videos always notify in my phone and when I watch it, it always speaks exactly with my situation. God is really moving in your life and been using you, your videos to speak to me directly. ❤
Thank you for your videos which have helped me stop idolising marriage. I'm enjoying singleness 🎉💃🏼
Thank you Jackie. Your teaching is so annointed. I have to confess, I have been idolizing a man and it has been tearing me apart because circumstances prevent us from being together even though I felt God was showing him to me. You are so right, it's not to get alone with God so then I can get my husband faster, it is literally to lay it down and just turn my face to the one who is my eternal husband and recognize he is the only one who can fill the brokenness in my heart. Not the man, he would crumble under that kind of pressure. Thank you.
God is not supposed to be your eternal husband, he is your eternal and heavenly father to guide you and prune you to reflect His image and one day work in his kingdom.
It's ok to want marriage but it's gotta be done in a Godly, non idolistic way.
it's so great that you talk about this from the perspective of judgement. God has been speaking to me with very similar messagas. He reigns over everything, even the Darkness, which He uses to pass judgement. How else would we learn? We are creatures of habit, of the flesh, we like our comfort zones and only when taken out of them and faced with trials and trubulations we experience true spiritual growth. This way we gain more spiritual discernment and. I feel so many Christians avoid this aspect of faith, it's like trying to spiritually bypass certain lessons believing that yoiu only need to repent for your sins. We need to repent, but we also need to learn, grow before he sanctifies us and this is the most difficult part of it. I like the phrase the Dark night of the soul because we need to face the darkness and transcend it, understand what we've done wrong and also why we've done it. If we fail to understand the lesson, God will have us repeat it. Than you so much for sharing this. Blessings to everyone watching.
Life with the seat up..
Chin has caught up.
Well, better that than ever go through the soul chilling nightmare of another's darkness with such unlimited dark potentials..
I appreciate the shared words here. & Fire can also refer to the HS (H.Spirit) re: purifier/refiner.❤
God bless you Jackie
Very good sister. You listen.
Wow this was much needed for me today. Thank you 🙌🏽
Absolutely! Glory be to God. Amen
I needed this word S. Jackie! 🤍
Praise the Lord 🩷☺️🙏🏼
@@jackieVanTine_ Amen!
Was gonna say at first that i'm not a fan of this sort of forced humor now and then, but you really did speak important stuff so i am glad i watched till the end. God bless.
i just love your creativity on these subjects Mrs Jackie
The Lord really is the one who helps me piece everything together! Sometimes I go a long time without posting because God simply doesn’t give me the green light yet. Also, our sweet baby has been sick the past 3 days with a high fever and doctors can’t figure out what’s wrong… if you remember please pray for her. Blessings to you always Steven!!
@@jackieVanTine_ U got it
I no longer have faith for marriage but I do want to be good to God. He's been there for me. I don't trust people.
I know this VERY long Jackie, but i hope you can find time or a way to read i believe this is really good. And I know the lord is using you to speak to us because i literally have been praying about this yesterday and today! I was crying out to God that as much as i want to have a wife and marriage and family, i know i cannot and do not want to make it more important than it should be and if its even God's will for my life!
Just like you said i was too fixated or focus on wanting a woman to love and love me back and i literally everytime got hurt used took advantage of turned on or broken hearted! I realized i cant and dont want to live that way and go down that path and that i needed God to protect and shield me from that and even help me stop being a simp or desperate or idolizing women! Most men don't see it to admit it because they believe its ok because we meant to mate with only women but we shouldn't make that what are life is about!
And that part about people being angry or questioning God about it is so true, i know from experience! I even wonder how other people who just got saved could get that like that but others been waiting for a long time and still don't have it? I question it like is it really God or just people using that to get it or one of the people intentions was always that or something I don't know. But i realized i don't want to go that route and do that at all and want it to be really from God for God.
I finally realized that we cannot live this life for anything or anyone fir ourselves and own way will and desires. It ALL has to be for God and about God including wanting love for a person and being married and not for us to want it for our own self and own way and own plan. We cannot want it selfishly because thats why it wont happen right because that goes all against what it supposed to be about which is selflessness and serving the other person! We cannot want marriage for selfish reasons and desires or some fantasy or dream or so someone else can make us feel better or not be lonely. You supposed to make it about God and his glory amd purpose for it and about what you can do for the other person and how to make them feel right and not alone and uplift and help them! Its about what you can do for the other person not what they can do for you. So if we have that mindset about it we already failed which is why lots of divorces amd break ups happen.
We have to get out of this worldly way of doing things especially involving other people and stop making it about us! The bible says the greatest commandment is to love the lord your God with ALL your heart soul mind amd strength and 2nd love others as you love yourself. But the world says you gotta love yourself you gotta do what you gotta do you gotta do what feels good or feels right. Its all selfish and thats why we see so many people fail and don't get it right and they dont even see thats the problem because they refuse to be vulnerable and make it about someone else and not them. How much better would that and society be in general if people acted as if they cared and worried more about someone else than being selfish wanting others to worry about them?
If God was that way we probably wouldn't be here thats why he gave his only begotten son, HE GAVE! So thats what we need to do in general in everyway and especially for getting and having a mate and spouse we need to make it about GIVING to show love.
Wow just what i need to hear. Thanks 😊
So glad I could minister to you 🥹🩷🙌
Yep been there! Waiting on Ruth now❤
So fire 🔥🔥🔥 Actually
Good break down with the word of God this was definitely meant for me to hear I thought God had a potential partner for me In Arizona I thought he gave me a sign I literally seen a license plate that said Arizona but I seen she might be with someone else lol idk but I been idolizing relationship or partners def need healing thanks for being used pray for me yall
Hmmmm I'm already married, but this confirms what I have been having breakthrough with. I stopped idolizing my husband and my marriage. He had to take my husband, my children, and my family from me to finally understand what it meant to love him more than mother and father, husband and child. Jesus is everything to me.
I’m 28 and my boyfriend and I wanted to marry last year. Then hé came into a burn out and his mother came sick and was in the hospital allot Then my father got cancer. When my boyfriend finally recover from the burn out I got in one to 🙁 When we finaly overcome it al I got vulvodynie after 28 years never have anything there and waiting for marriage my entire Life. We wanted to marry so bad this year and I am so dissapointed in the lord. I do not experience him at all anymore and it feels like the ground is taken under my feet. Its so alone and i needs Gods healing and prayer so much! 😭
This is really helpful! thank you
Love it ❤ Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏
This is for me. I literally bought rose colored glasses the day before separating from my husband… two pairs.., they did not work. I still couldn’t ignore his demons. The energy was too much
What a blessed man will be/is your husband.
This is another form of how I relate to God. I typically don't make relationships with beautiful women; I find inconsequential women and they just flourish around me...but they get attention. I feel like an incubation chamber for suitable brides.
13:34 an on really resonates with me, amen sister❤🙏🥰
God put a superfluous desire in me and I don't tryst myself to fulfill it
It just looks like something is wrong with me, if I am unable to share my life with someone else, but God
I’m 40 and never married, not even close. Have lost hope
I'm a woman of almost 33, left by my abusive husband a year ago which God allowed to happen because I was seeking Him more and more. He delivered me from a situation that I was stuck in. The healing process has been very hard but knowing Jesus as the closest friend has been so rewarding. Build a relationship with Jesus He will speak to you about a spouse aswell. Speak to Him about all your desires. God has brought a man of 42 in my life recently. I would never have thought about being with someone like him, his age, his looks, his culture, his situation everything is unexpected... a lot of things look impossible even but I trust God, He knows what we need and His timing is perfect.
Just surrender to God.
Can relate turning 40 this year,never married just feels so hopeless 😢
Sabbath is saturday not sunday mark 7:6-9
God does not like christmas (Jeremiah 10)
And people who eat pig meat (Isaiah 66)
Plus wearing cross necklace or mary statues (no carved statues 2nd command)
So good, thanks
12:47
1. Get rid of your addictions (phone counts)
2. Stop relying on emotions (you won’t always feel like it)
3. Usher the Presence of God daily (Worship, read your Word)
Fall in love of Jesus! This is the only relationship that will last for eternity.
Wow I just asked this ❤
Mee too ! ❤ timely
I see a lot of people posting on marriage. Im unmarried I'm not.concerned about marriage. God bless🙏🏽✝️🕊️
Hold up Jackie r you bumping the goku pov healing chamber !?🔥🔥
Another example of God using the devil to destroy the wicked would be the story of Ahab’s death in 2 Chronicles 18 and in 1 Kings 22
Here is a little piece of it.
“Then Micaiah said, “Therefore hear the word of the Lord: I saw the Lord sitting on His throne, and all the host of heaven standing on His right hand and His left. And the Lord said, ‘Who will persuade Ahab king of Israel to go up, that he may fall at Ramoth Gilead?’ So one spoke in this manner, and another spoke in that manner. Then a spirit came forward and stood before the Lord, and said, ‘I will persuade him.’ The Lord said to him, ‘In what way?’ So he said, ‘I will go out and be a lying spirit in the mouth of all his prophets.’ And the Lord said, ‘You shall persuade him and also prevail; go out and do so.’ Therefore look! The Lord has put a lying spirit in the mouth of these prophets of yours, and the Lord has declared disaster against you.””
II Chronicles 18:18-22 NKJV
Wanting to be married is not idolizing marriage. Ask God for what you want.
It’s possible to want marriage PLUS idolize it. It’s also possible to want marriage and not idolize it.
It’s not black and white.
This feels like absolutely confusion
Thank you God ❤
I am 18, this year march 1 I'll be 19.
I don't care about marriage or love , I understand that I can live by myself, in death marriage or not marriage we are going to die the same way.
I was surrounded by negative energies/People that always says I am single so I tried to get a Girlfriend(partner) but failed, all of them don't have pure heart, and I know its a test for my by God, the test on how I will feel after rejection/fear but I overcome these anxiety ,sadness and stress of rejection through Meditation and listening Healing frequency(free on youtube).
Lastly, I believe in God, I got my Spiritual Awakening after removing all of my bad behaviors,bad things ,bad Personality,bad emotions(sadness,anger,lust, all bsd emotions etc),hungry for bad junk foods. After taking care of my health and mind I got Spiritual Awakening on last week of november 2024. I saw Hindu Gods Lord shiva,vishnu,Christian God Jesus Christ, Infinite Gods That'll be every religions Gods and One angel.
Lastly I am a Pisces ♓ Zodiac sign.
All true!!❤
🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞 Powerful revelation!
Good video, felt like you were speaking to me this whole video.
A similar passage, 1 Kings 22, starting around verse 19, The Lord sent a lying spirit to the false prophets to deceive Ahab to fulfill the prophecy of Ahabs death in battle.
praise God Amen sis 💜🌟😍🙏💜🙏🌟🌟🙏💪
Yes indeed 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤much needed priceless confirmation word praises to the lord Jesus praises Abba father praises to the most high God praises in the name of Jesus praises praying 🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
But I do remember when the Lord did send me my husband. He sent me him when I DIDNT WANT HIM. I'm super thankful he sent me someone who has the patience to deal with me. He is a man of God now too. I'm so thankful he sent me a man more holy than I. I wasn't worthy when he chose me. Be he qualified me anyways. I'm so thankful Jesus
Amen sister
Thank you ❤
I can confirm by my own experience with God guiding my life in that area that this message is 100% spiritually true... About the presence, I strongly suggest to you all to read the book "The Presence" by Bill Johnson. Read it and tell me about it later.
So True 🙏🙏
It's because no one wants to get married or stay married. Everyone is getting divorced or cheated on or is only economically viable for themselves alone. People have and are becoming completely autonomous from each other. God is allowing this to happen.
The bible also says that about nightmares... they are from him as warnings
I actually used to believe that God said to Noah that he will not judge the earth again with water but with fire. I actually re-read Genesis 9 where God makes his covenant with Noah, promising not to again judge the earth with water. But the judgement of fire is actually not there in the text. God simply made a covenant to never again judge the earth. That it's an everlasting covenant and that he will never again destroy all flesh. Meaning that God is not going to destroy us. God is about mercy rather than wrath.