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Jacki my dear one can you as an American woman please keep you‘re pervert thoughts to yourself and keep fucking you’re own man because you don’t even have children and my dear one god did NOT create marriage and sex just for fun like all you american women think and jackie my dear one we european women re not that desperate as YOU 🇺🇸
By the way, she is a really make-up and self-promoting "Christian servant" of the Lord! I wouldn't be surprised at all if his Lord was the adversary of our Creator - aka Satan. I don't want to watch this anymore. 1 Peter 3:3-4 is a very significant standard for a God-fearing woman. And there are those, so I won't stay here any longer. Goodbye.
@@jackieVanTine_ I want to ask that no matter how many exams I am taking, I am not getting success. What is the reason for getting success? There is no time, I am old enough to study, I am not coming to the exam, how many books have I read, have I watched the video, I don't know. Where do you get it from and then how do you get the job? Can you tell me if you can go to this mantra or do it by repeating it?
Same, perfect timing of the Lord our God. 🙏 Well said, God sees if two of you can be yolked to work for the Kingdom.Don’t be equally yolked with unbelievers
It’s a few things: You’re not ready and your partner is You’re ready and your partner isn’t You’re both not ready You’re both ready and the time hasn’t happened yet
I use to idolize marriage so bad! But God has delivered me and now I desire that with HIM ! I want a marriage with HIM! And if He sends someone He does if not I’m perfectly content with just Him and I❤. I love Him so much. He’s so good y’all. Don’t rely on someone else to give you attention you want , let God give it to you. And He will never hurt you nor do it out of impure intentions. He just loves you. That’s it.
It's not good for man to be alone, the bible says. There is nothing wrong with being married. It's so ridiculous when people say marriage is an idol. Such nonsense
@@elenabernardo5024 Marriage isn't for everybody. Some are called to live solo and not to get married! Look at Paul and Jeremiah! Jackie has mentioned that we are not to idolize marriage, and that really convicted me to want to stay alone! I have alot going on in my life, why would I want to bring a man into my messy life, it's not fair to him! Blessings! And plus, I prefer to live alone! I've been thru too many bad relationships, im.not going down that road again!
@Luciaimparato9390 Exactly. If you don't want to be married, then don't be for those who choose it. But for those who want it, it shouldn't be considered an idol.
@elenabernardo5024 Yes, I agree! If people want to have a spouse in their lives, that's their wish, but not to get caught up in just focusing on them and not take time out for God, thats when idolatry comes into play and becomes a problem!
Marriage is a gift. Singleness allows you to serve God more freely. I’m still single at the age of 47 and I’m content with that but I need to remember to put God first above my needs and desires. “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.” Matthew 6:33 NLT
Sir, you can not stay that long. The scripture has always two sides on it. Prov. 18.22 said, he who finds a wife fines a good thing and the favor of the Lord is with him..... to find favor from God and to see good things, find a wife and get married. Two is better than one.... it needs two people to walk the journey of life. To fulfill God's promises and purpose in life, get married.... period
@@ElvisBoskiPlease do not discourage this brother in Christ. Some people are called to singleness while others are called to marriage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single, in fact, the Bible encourages it due to one's ability to focus solely on the Lord rather than having a divided focus in marriage. It is not biblical to tell others that they need to be married. If it's in God's will for them, He will bring it about. Both singlehood and marriage have their own blessings.
@@lilacscoffee9360 There's a time for singleness and a time for marriage, we are to make the best use of the season we are currently blessed with and do it joyfully. Seasons change, use each of them well while we have them and enjoy the journey God has for us. God has other singles to carry on our 'single's jobs' once it's His time for us to marry. Serving one's spouse is also a 'job' from God for us.
@lilacscoffee9360 absolutely no one is "called" to singleness. You may use your free will to marry or stay single. Most people desire a mate and it's completely biblical to want one
I was just talking to my spiritual mother about this topic. She asked me a question. She said how is your marriage? I chuckled and said I'm not married. She said yes you are. She asked again how's your marriage? I said to God? She said yes. She said get your marriage with God together and then the Lord will send your wife. That was like a hour ago. Then this popped up.
A parent who loves The Lord is more precious than Gold. I was raised by a gentle, humble servant of Jesus, who was my Dad and best friend. Seeing his humble and unique relationship with God, filled with intimacy and not religion, inspired me. I am not religious, I don't attend church, but I love Jesus. I choose Him. I'm not perfect in my walk and miss the mark, likely often. But, I try. And, I believe that's all any of us can do. I too thought that marriage would be for me but now at 45 (or 22 and holding as I like to say) I know that being single is 100% okay and has so many perks over a life tied to one person in just about every way. 25 years of being in toxic relationships and seeing that God is the only one that has continuously shown up for me, has taught me, with confidence, that He is our one and only true love. Your mom sounds awesome! :) Blessings to you from Canada.
It's crazy that happened to you! I had a similar epiphany.. yesterday I realized I should be treating God like my spouse and be faithful... and then I watched this video and read your comment the very next day!
4:44 This makes me think of my older Sister. She turned at least 7 men down. She even confirmed that number with me. lol. They all had a common reason as to why she pitched them. They were looking for her without looking for God first. My Sister was not convinced that these men truly loved God enough to adequately love her. This standard led her to the right man. She is happily married now. She has shown me personally that a happy marriage is an achievable dream and not an oxymoron. 😃👍
This message was CLEARLY and undoubtedly for ME today. At work today, I asked Lord God for clarity and wisdom about this very subject. Hours later, I arrived home and saw this video. Thank you, Jesus, for this messenger and your prophetic word. I love you, Lord. ❤ ✝️
For us who have desired to marry but are still single, I believe God has some very special plan and surprise waiting. A perfect father will not give you a stone if you ask for bread.
Thats me, im 37 now, never been kissed, never been on a date. I actually look the complete opposite, because i was born with terrible dark circle undereyes, i have to wear a full face of makeup or else i look like a drug addict lol. Ive always just been invisible. I was trying to make peace with just being single forever. But i want a child so badly. I was recently diagnosed with type 1 autoimmune diabetes, which has nothing to do with diet or weight, your body attacks and kills your pancreas. I dont see how anyone would choose me with so many weird things. Needing a miracle 😭
I understand your pain dear brother/sister. I thought the same with many/autoimmune health issues of my own. But God eased my worries and reminded me that He looks at the heart and not outer appearance. (1 Samuel 16:7) The spouse God has ordained for you will do the same, as we should strive to be like Christ, the Son of God and walk in His ways. :) You are very beautiful! And God sees you and loves you. Praying for you! 😊
Brother or sister i am so sorry! I was dating boys since I was 15. Never been married. I was used and abused. Only now at 32 i am saved. I have diabethes since I was 19 (it was actually a curse, from my aunty lol, you ask the Lord were your diabethes came from!) give me your name let's pray for each other! I am Katrina
I had an aunt with type 1 diabetes. She died when she was 82 and she was married and had a happy family life with two kids. Through Christ all things are possible. Some women become mums late in life. Having kids in your forties is no longer frowned upon. If things are meant to be, they will be. Have faith in Him and his divine timing. x
Jackie, God be telling you my business 😂😭 I was having a conversation with God about this topic for the past few days. This message was convicting yet peaceful . Thank you for this video ❤
I'm so sorry Jackie; I'm laughing so hard. Your thoughts - your expressions; those sound effects are everything! This is good coming from a woman who was married over two decades! This is gold! Thank you Jackie; youre Awesome!!! God is so good!!!!
If my husband never came around I would be single forever by my choosing and I would happily do that! If anything ever happened to him and God forbid but if it did I wouldn’t remarry. Marriage is hard work. Singleness is a gift.
@ it’s easier said than done to be honest. I just gotten a peaceful separation and got really broken myself. God supernaturally appeared. We are 3 generations Taoist biz owner. To encounter the Man on the Cross is truly an experience. All I can say is, God is Real and Living. =)
last night I broke down and cried and said exactly what this is titled. I was frustrated because I’ve been content with being single with Jesus, and out of nowhere 4 days ago, I had an ex call and tell me i’m their wife they know it, and how they’ve grown and all these things. it’s weird, and frustrating, because I’ve been in such contentment and then here this call comes!! it makes me fear, and want to run!
The Holy Spirit brought your message to me 2nite, I had been feeling alone, unlovable and that I'd be single till I die all day. Your video didn't stray from the things I needed to hear. Thank you for listening to our Lord and sharing his messages. May he continue to bless you and your life. May he keep you safe under his mantle, and grow your gift as a guide to Christ. Thank you again 🙂
I don’t see how God puts up with us wretched creatures, choosing to stay committed to His promises of marriage with his church, we just always breaking his heart. And yet His love is unconditional, unfailing, undeserving….Who is this God whom has chose to be like this? All I can say is that God is good, even if I can’t understand it. I will trust in His plan for me with or without, with plenty or in need of, I will be content as long as I have his faith. ….God must have a strong heart cause marriage sounds tough, especially for Him. But I guess He has found it worth it…Love far surpasses all the pain and hurt that a relationship comes with, especially the pain of giving up. Prolly why God hates divorce, an unimaginable pain that would be for Him and for us. I think God has cried a lot of tears by this point in history, prolly still does…. God is good
I really needed to hear this message and its has me motivated to stay focused on serving the Lord. My heart is clear and my mind is clear of all doubts now. I need to refocus and do all I can to work in his kingdom. This spiritual food was for my spirit now i can know what i must do. SERVE THE LORD AND ENJOY THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS AND WORK FOR LORD. God bless you Sister Jackie
im just 19, no romantic experiences, scared of commitnment and career obsessed. seeing my friends happy and in love does make me feel like im missing out sometimes but this video reminded me of how much i love myself and my alone time. thanks.
Here is a perspective for you, I am 30 and been alone nearly 9 years. Here's some advice, don't just give in because your friends are happy and you are envious of what they have. It will end in heart break as you could end up with someone who isn't right for you. Fix things in yourself, stay on the right track, keep God close and you will eventually find the right person. You need an equal yoke.
I'm 18 i got to tell you don't get in a relationship God does not give it's rubbish 🥲 self experience better single i wish i could also tell i never dated
Jackie, you are a wonderful vessel of the Lord. He has used you to calm the roaring waters of my soul. Thank you and may the Lord continue to bless you abundantly as you follow Him. ❤️
I agree with most of what you said. I just don’t agree that single people don’t understand that marriage is a gift. I have waited for years and just grateful to be able to get to that one day.
This video gave me a totally different perspective. As I grow in my beliefe, I also recieve messages about my future relationship and how to prepare. You delievered that message I felt within for a while. I'm not christian, but I certainly resonate alot and I thank God for bringing you into my awareness and manifest this message. Thinking about it deeper, God actually guides and prepares me for a near relationship and I feel it. And the more I feel it approaching, the more I feel closer to him actually, the more I let go and focus on building myself, strenghten my boundaries and healing traumas. Not only that, but also thinking and feeling from others perspective and operating myself to learn how to lead one day. I thank you again for this wonderful video and gifted knowledge, AMEN🙏🏻
@@danirm1171 Dani I’m so glad I could help :) If you ever wanna talk about spirituality email me at ascendwithjackie@gmail.com I’d love to chat with you and hear your point of view!
I hope that you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Real Christianity isn't about religion, it's about a relationship with God. God tells us in His Word, which is the Bible, that the only way to God is through Jesus. "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6 (KJV) Jesus is the Son of God. The most important relationship we'll ever have is with Him! If we do not have a relationship with Jesus, then we do not have a relationship with God. I implore you to read the Bible and pray to Him for discernment regarding your faith. There is literally nothing more important than knowing and following Jesus. Please, please do so while there is still time. May God bless you ❤
Funnily enough I’ve been single my whole life and didn’t realize what a gift it was until I gave my life to Christ, having 0 distractions in my life is the most peaceful thing ever.
Jackie thanks so much for keeping it real and telling us what we NEED to hear AND being encouraging all through Gods word and for His glory. It’s such a gift that God has given you and you steward it so well. Really helps so many of us in our walk with Christ. Praise God.
Wow! you are really great at preaching with your style of humor weaved into it. I really enjoyed this message and connect with it. I really look up to you given your knowledge and your biblical walk. Watching this really had me thinking about stuff and the email I sent you.
Amen. This is a great message. I know that I need to change a lot before God can bring me and my wife together. I know I have to seek the Kingdom first but admittedly I sometimes do get distracted by thoughts of marriage. I pray every day for God to help me and He has.
Keep fighting the Good Fight of faith sis, your obedient lifestyle to the Father is going to wake up the foolish who are void of oil for their lamps. I'm so proud of you.
Heavenly Father, I've heard hundreds of messages this year, and by far, this is the best one. Thank you, Lord Jesus. Holy Spirit, You knew exactly when I , and so many watching, had to listen to this powerful message. Holy Spirit, thank You for using Your servant Jackie, and for her courage to grant us with the enormous gift to seek You first and Your kingdom, for the glory of Jesus Christ. Now, Lord Jesus, I ask that You may bless her and her family and cover them with the blood of Jesus Christ, as she continues to share the Word of God, by way of the Holy Spirit with boldness. Amen! You are blessed woman of God. Thank you, Jackie!
I don't look, nor do I want to attempt to have a wife. I enjoy my singleness and piece and quiet far more than anything else and I'm blessed and grateful for that blessing that God has given me. Being single is a blessing and not a punishment and I'm grateful for everything that God has given me
Ive been confused about this issue in my life recently. I needed to hear this. My take a ways are : 1) Think about and focus on Jesus FIRST 2) Work on yourself as a man/woman and as a Christian 3) God will do the rest Thank you
The difference with me is I don't blame or get mad at god thinking he hasn't sent anyone. I just don't think I'm good enough for anyone or to become a mother. Don't want to mess a child up like it happened to me.
Once the Lord showed me that when approaching a woman, I should have cared more about what she hope and need, and care to offer me as answer to those wishes. Love is all about giving and there is a lot of joy in it.
Amen! What an encouraging word. There are people going to hell all around us. God wants people to make it to heaven more than he wants us to get married. His word says seek first his righteousness(his will) and all of these things will be added on to us. God's will for us isbto love him above all things to make disciples. Thank you for speaking to me. I need to focus on being God's wife before anything. What an incredible purpose! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
G/F of 4 years just left me on Christmas morning... I'm tired of being a single dad that can't find someone to marry and grow old with. Why did she leave you ask? ...because she said I always prioritized my daughter over her. It's not true. I've done everything for her and her son. On Christmas morning I told my G/F that my daughter was coming over at 1pm to open presents with us. My daughter is 22 and hasn't visited me in a year here. I was excited to see her! However, I apparently forgot to discuss and 'ask permission' from my g/f first. The fact is she knew my daughter was coming over. We wrapped her presents together the day before! Nonetheless, she completely lost it, screamed at me, cussed at me, told me that I prioritize my daughter over her and left as my daughter arrived and came inside. It was crushing. Our presents are still sitting here under the tree... She's a mother herself and I would never ever act that way if her son showed up at our home. He's always welcome. All I can do is leave it up to God. He's in control.
Jackie... this is sooo very good! I wish my ex could watch this. I use to tell her all of these things when we were together on a seemingly everyday basis. She had alot of childhood traumas when she was a kid. We are divorced now but I sometimes wonder how much of this she remembers and experiences these things with someone else. Either way really good stuff for those who are married or thinking of getting married. As you stated marriage is about serving the one that you are with. Its so very easy to do in the beginning but turns into work as the infatuation stage begins to slowly fade away after the first couple years or so. If anyone is reading this comment you have to "Love Intentionally & on Purpose" as times moves on within the relationship! Love is an ACTION word!
I thank God for you Jackie for a very inspiring message. God has timely message for everyone. You are the vessel God is using to share this to beautiful message to everyone that needs to hear this. Keep it up God bless your ministry.👏
I just stumbled on this. After being abused all my life, the worst , a psychopath cruel, demonic, malignant narcissist (passed away last yr on the lap of one of his harem girls)...I have finally embraced being alone. Me and my fur babies....I love the quiet life instead of the chaos. Being alone is not that bad.
I'm whole in Jesus.Despite my well-intentioned,non-idolized past efforts,it's always been a dead end.Recently,I told God that He would have to bring me a godly woman if it's going to happen.
Last night I was talking to God and I was just saying I’m content with my singleness. Back when I was in the world I kept going after women and having sex outside of marriage. I’ve repented and gotten baptized this year and I’m now celibate and waiting till marriage. Till then, I’m focused on JESUS. WOOO🎉
Thank you for your honesty Jackie. So much of the world value that we need to be delivered from 🙏 may the Lord restore the upright spirit within us ❤️ bless you and Lance as you continue to seek His kingdom within you and through this union with one another.
Praise Jesus!Ave Maria!Hallelujah I needed to hear this Messege!Right now!Thank you for this Beautiful Messege!You were lead by the Holyspirit!Jesus knows when to bring the right spouse his timing is perfect so we just need to be patient and enjoy the present moment we are in…❤️
You might say that before watching this video, I did not know Jackie squat about truly preparing for a Godly marriage. 😄Thanks. This has been exceedingly enlightening‼️
I appreciate the truth and honesty about this topic of partnerships Jackie 🙏🏼🔥 That drawing you made described real relationship dynamics so well. I think people need to have realistic expectations. It can't always be about one person in a marriage. I believe if it's in God will for a person to have a spouse; it will happen but there is great joy and purpose in the single season. I'm 34 and single right now but I do want marriage one day. I'm currently bettering my life and getting right with the Lord until then.
Amen, i really needed to hear this, for i think i was having a selfish view of marriage. It is a great reminder to always put God first and prepare yourself to be the proper spouse rather than just hoping for one and not really bringing anything to the table. Thank you.
...LEARN TO LEAD BY FOLLOWING THE LEADER!!! Great word jackie.....right on....we have been married for 44 years!!!everything u said...TRUE!!! THANK YOU JESUS!!!!
I'm so blessed by your testimony and by your courage. Thank you for sharing this powerful Word. Please keep up the good work, you're reaching us out here. To God Be All the Glory. Amen!
May the birth of the Prince of Peace remind the world where its true happiness lies; and may your hearts be filled with hope and joy, for the Saviour has been born for us. Merry Christmas Jackie!
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Jacki my dear one can you as an American woman please keep you‘re pervert thoughts to yourself and keep fucking you’re own man because you don’t even have children and my dear one god did NOT create marriage and sex just for fun like all you american women think and jackie my dear one we european women re not that desperate as YOU 🇺🇸
By the way, she is a really make-up and self-promoting "Christian servant" of the Lord! I wouldn't be surprised at all if his Lord was the adversary of our Creator - aka Satan. I don't want to watch this anymore.
1 Peter 3:3-4 is a very significant standard for a God-fearing woman. And there are those, so I won't stay here any longer. Goodbye.
@@jackieVanTine_ I want to ask that no matter how many exams I am taking, I am not getting success. What is the reason for getting success? There is no time, I am old enough to study, I am not coming to the exam, how many books have I read, have I watched the video, I don't know. Where do you get it from and then how do you get the job? Can you tell me if you can go to this mantra or do it by repeating it?
just like me 🫣
There are so many lonely people in this world (including me). I pray for each and every one of you.
God bless you ❤🙏🏾✝️
@@AdrieneJones-i7pThank you. God bless you 🙏🏻❤
But what are you doing to not be alone?
@@oscarfuentes3264 great
I'm alone but not lonely. I love my peace and safety.
This popped up at the right moment. I literally just got done praying about this and feeling frustrated and God used you to speak this to me
Amen Travon 🙏🏼😊
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Same, perfect timing of the Lord our God. 🙏
Well said, God sees if two of you can be yolked to work for the Kingdom.Don’t be equally yolked with unbelievers
Same
Same thing happened I was praying praying and this came on my youtube feed
It’s a few things:
You’re not ready and your partner is
You’re ready and your partner isn’t
You’re both not ready
You’re both ready and the time hasn’t happened yet
Good way of looking at it!!!!
I pray to be ready and for her also
Sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what else to say
Yawn 🥱
The appointed time is always now
I use to idolize marriage so bad! But God has delivered me and now I desire that with HIM ! I want a marriage with HIM! And if He sends someone He does if not I’m perfectly content with just Him and I❤. I love Him so much. He’s so good y’all. Don’t rely on someone else to give you attention you want , let God give it to you. And He will never hurt you nor do it out of impure intentions. He just loves you. That’s it.
Well said, Amen! For the past few months , I've let go of the desire of marriage! I've been Isaiah 54! God is all I need!
It's not good for man to be alone, the bible says. There is nothing wrong with being married. It's so ridiculous when people say marriage is an idol. Such nonsense
@@elenabernardo5024 Marriage isn't for everybody. Some are called to live solo and not to get married! Look at Paul and Jeremiah! Jackie has mentioned that we are not to idolize marriage, and that really convicted me to want to stay alone! I have alot going on in my life, why would I want to bring a man into my messy life, it's not fair to him! Blessings! And plus, I prefer to live alone! I've been thru too many bad relationships, im.not going down that road again!
@Luciaimparato9390 Exactly. If you don't want to be married, then don't be for those who choose it. But for those who want it, it shouldn't be considered an idol.
@elenabernardo5024 Yes, I agree! If people want to have a spouse in their lives, that's their wish, but not to get caught up in just focusing on them and not take time out for God, thats when idolatry comes into play and becomes a problem!
Marriage is a gift. Singleness allows you to serve God more freely. I’m still single at the age of 47 and I’m content with that but I need to remember to put God first above my needs and desires.
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”
Matthew 6:33 NLT
Sir, you can not stay that long. The scripture has always two sides on it. Prov. 18.22 said, he who finds a wife fines a good thing and the favor of the Lord is with him..... to find favor from God and to see good things, find a wife and get married. Two is better than one.... it needs two people to walk the journey of life. To fulfill God's promises and purpose in life, get married.... period
@@ElvisBoskiPlease do not discourage this brother in Christ. Some people are called to singleness while others are called to marriage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single, in fact, the Bible encourages it due to one's ability to focus solely on the Lord rather than having a divided focus in marriage. It is not biblical to tell others that they need to be married. If it's in God's will for them, He will bring it about. Both singlehood and marriage have their own blessings.
@@lilacscoffee9360 There's a time for singleness and a time for marriage, we are to make the best use of the season we are currently blessed with and do it joyfully. Seasons change, use each of them well while we have them and enjoy the journey God has for us. God has other singles to carry on our 'single's jobs' once it's His time for us to marry. Serving one's spouse is also a 'job' from God for us.
@lilacscoffee9360 absolutely no one is "called" to singleness. You may use your free will to marry or stay single. Most people desire a mate and it's completely biblical to want one
Godly people talk crap behind your back, judge and don’t get caught godly people are the worst people I don’t go to church anymore and don’t miss it
If it's meant to be!!! Then it will come!!!! Don't worry about what people think or say!!! Put it in God's hands!!!! He's doesn't delay!!!!!❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
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I got saved last week and I got married today after being single for decades. I also got a new job making 6 figures a year. Thank God 😭🙏
I was just talking to my spiritual mother about this topic. She asked me a question. She said how is your marriage? I chuckled and said I'm not married. She said yes you are. She asked again how's your marriage? I said to God? She said yes. She said get your marriage with God together and then the Lord will send your wife. That was like a hour ago. Then this popped up.
Wow that’s God speaking to you so clear!!!!!!
@jackieVanTine_ yes amen 🙏
A parent who loves The Lord is more precious than Gold. I was raised by a gentle, humble servant of Jesus, who was my Dad and best friend. Seeing his humble and unique relationship with God, filled with intimacy and not religion, inspired me. I am not religious, I don't attend church, but I love Jesus. I choose Him. I'm not perfect in my walk and miss the mark, likely often. But, I try. And, I believe that's all any of us can do.
I too thought that marriage would be for me but now at 45 (or 22 and holding as I like to say) I know that being single is 100% okay and has so many perks over a life tied to one person in just about every way. 25 years of being in toxic relationships and seeing that God is the only one that has continuously shown up for me, has taught me, with confidence, that He is our one and only true love.
Your mom sounds awesome! :)
Blessings to you from Canada.
@alexisenchanted thank you so much. Can I ask you something
It's crazy that happened to you! I had a similar epiphany.. yesterday I realized I should be treating God like my spouse and be faithful... and then I watched this video and read your comment the very next day!
4:44 This makes me think of my older Sister. She turned at least 7 men down. She even confirmed that number with me. lol. They all had a common reason as to why she pitched them. They were looking for her without looking for God first. My Sister was not convinced that these men truly loved God enough to adequately love her. This standard led her to the right man. She is happily married now. She has shown me personally that a happy marriage is an achievable dream and not an oxymoron. 😃👍
This message was CLEARLY and undoubtedly for ME today.
At work today, I asked Lord God for clarity and wisdom about this very subject.
Hours later, I arrived home and saw this video.
Thank you, Jesus, for this messenger and your prophetic word. I love you, Lord. ❤ ✝️
For us who have desired to marry but are still single, I believe God has some very special plan and surprise waiting. A perfect father will not give you a stone if you ask for bread.
Halleluja, seek first the kingdom and then what is for you will find you Amen
@Squirrel2021 yessssir 🫡
How to seek the God's kingdom? What are all the ways ?
Thats me, im 37 now, never been kissed, never been on a date. I actually look the complete opposite, because i was born with terrible dark circle undereyes, i have to wear a full face of makeup or else i look like a drug addict lol. Ive always just been invisible. I was trying to make peace with just being single forever. But i want a child so badly. I was recently diagnosed with type 1 autoimmune diabetes, which has nothing to do with diet or weight, your body attacks and kills your pancreas. I dont see how anyone would choose me with so many weird things. Needing a miracle 😭
I understand your pain dear brother/sister. I thought the same with many/autoimmune health issues of my own. But God eased my worries and reminded me that He looks at the heart and not outer appearance. (1 Samuel 16:7) The spouse God has ordained for you will do the same, as we should strive to be like Christ, the Son of God and walk in His ways. :) You are very beautiful! And God sees you and loves you. Praying for you! 😊
Spend more time reading the word of God out loud and it'll help
Brother or sister i am so sorry! I was dating boys since I was 15. Never been married. I was used and abused. Only now at 32 i am saved. I have diabethes since I was 19 (it was actually a curse, from my aunty lol, you ask the Lord were your diabethes came from!) give me your name let's pray for each other! I am Katrina
Your miracle will surely come... trust God.🌸🙏
I had an aunt with type 1 diabetes. She died when she was 82 and she was married and had a happy family life with two kids. Through Christ all things are possible. Some women become mums late in life. Having kids in your forties is no longer frowned upon. If things are meant to be, they will be. Have faith in Him and his divine timing. x
Jackie, God be telling you my business 😂😭 I was having a conversation with God about this topic for the past few days. This message was convicting yet peaceful . Thank you for this video ❤
I'm so sorry Jackie; I'm laughing so hard. Your thoughts - your expressions; those sound effects are everything! This is good coming from a woman who was married over two decades! This is gold! Thank you Jackie; youre Awesome!!! God is so good!!!!
I’m totally thinking of this
If my husband never came around I would be single forever by my choosing and I would happily do that! If anything ever happened to him and God forbid but if it did I wouldn’t remarry. Marriage is hard work. Singleness is a gift.
@ it’s easier said than done to be honest. I just gotten a peaceful separation and got really broken myself. God supernaturally appeared. We are 3 generations Taoist biz owner. To encounter the Man on the Cross is truly an experience. All I can say is, God is Real and Living. =)
@@RayMak Praise the Lord He found you :)
@@jackieVanTine_ and turned my 18 year old secular channel into Worship…
last night I broke down and cried and said exactly what this is titled. I was frustrated because I’ve been content with being single with Jesus, and out of nowhere 4 days ago, I had an ex call and tell me i’m their wife they know it, and how they’ve grown and all these things. it’s weird, and frustrating, because I’ve been in such contentment and then here this call comes!! it makes me fear, and want to run!
Girly, that’s the enemy. Press the red button and keep on praising because that means something is around the corner !
@@jackieVanTine_ thank you Jackie
@@jackieVanTine_ exactly my first thought that's the enemy
Do not talk to an ex. They are ex for a reason. Keep drama away from you.
@ heavily noted, thank you!
I paused it right on 4:32, "What about you?" yiiiiiikkkesssss! lol :) Good message.
This thought popped in my head and then this video showed up on the homepage. God has been using you so much - God bless you both! ❤🙏
Cmoooon praise God 🙌🙏🏼
The Holy Spirit brought your message to me 2nite, I had been feeling alone, unlovable and that I'd be single till I die all day. Your video didn't stray from the things I needed to hear. Thank you for listening to our Lord and sharing his messages. May he continue to bless you and your life. May he keep you safe under his mantle, and grow your gift as a guide to Christ. Thank you again 🙂
I don’t see how God puts up with us wretched creatures, choosing to stay committed to His promises of marriage with his church, we just always breaking his heart. And yet His love is unconditional, unfailing, undeserving….Who is this God whom has chose to be like this? All I can say is that God is good, even if I can’t understand it. I will trust in His plan for me with or without, with plenty or in need of, I will be content as long as I have his faith.
….God must have a strong heart cause marriage sounds tough, especially for Him. But I guess He has found it worth it…Love far surpasses all the pain and hurt that a relationship comes with, especially the pain of giving up. Prolly why God hates divorce, an unimaginable pain that would be for Him and for us. I think God has cried a lot of tears by this point in history, prolly still does….
God is good
Well said. You should write a book!
I really needed to hear this message and its has me motivated to stay focused on serving the Lord. My heart is clear and my mind is clear of all doubts now. I need to refocus and do all I can to work in his kingdom. This spiritual food was for my spirit now i can know what i must do. SERVE THE LORD AND ENJOY THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS AND WORK FOR LORD. God bless you Sister Jackie
Jackie thank you for your transparency, marriage is about purpose well said
im just 19, no romantic experiences, scared of commitnment and career obsessed. seeing my friends happy and in love does make me feel like im missing out sometimes but this video reminded me of how much i love myself and my alone time. thanks.
Here is a perspective for you, I am 30 and been alone nearly 9 years.
Here's some advice, don't just give in because your friends are happy and you are envious of what they have. It will end in heart break as you could end up with someone who isn't right for you.
Fix things in yourself, stay on the right track, keep God close and you will eventually find the right person. You need an equal yoke.
Hope you find someone good. Christ be with you.
I'm 18 i got to tell you don't get in a relationship God does not give it's rubbish 🥲 self experience better single i wish i could also tell i never dated
Jackie, you are a wonderful vessel of the Lord. He has used you to calm the roaring waters of my soul. Thank you and may the Lord continue to bless you abundantly as you follow Him. ❤️
@@morelifeministry that’s so beautifully said sis - you are BEAUTIFUL!!!! God is for you 😊🩵
Thanks
I agree with most of what you said. I just don’t agree that single people don’t understand that marriage is a gift. I have waited for years and just grateful to be able to get to that one day.
Thank you dear Jackie for this message 🫶 I came back to listen again
Holy crap, this must’ve popped up on my RUclips feed for a reason. Thanks for the encouragement. 🙏🏻🙌🏻
This video gave me a totally different perspective. As I grow in my beliefe, I also recieve messages about my future relationship and how to prepare. You delievered that message I felt within for a while. I'm not christian, but I certainly resonate alot and I thank God for bringing you into my awareness and manifest this message. Thinking about it deeper, God actually guides and prepares me for a near relationship and I feel it. And the more I feel it approaching, the more I feel closer to him actually, the more I let go and focus on building myself, strenghten my boundaries and healing traumas. Not only that, but also thinking and feeling from others perspective and operating myself to learn how to lead one day. I thank you again for this wonderful video and gifted knowledge, AMEN🙏🏻
@@danirm1171 Dani I’m so glad I could help :) If you ever wanna talk about spirituality email me at ascendwithjackie@gmail.com I’d love to chat with you and hear your point of view!
I hope that you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Real Christianity isn't about religion, it's about a relationship with God. God tells us in His Word, which is the Bible, that the only way to God is through Jesus.
"Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6 (KJV)
Jesus is the Son of God. The most important relationship we'll ever have is with Him! If we do not have a relationship with Jesus, then we do not have a relationship with God. I implore you to read the Bible and pray to Him for discernment regarding your faith. There is literally nothing more important than knowing and following Jesus. Please, please do so while there is still time. May God bless you ❤
Funnily enough I’ve been single my whole life and didn’t realize what a gift it was until I gave my life to Christ, having 0 distractions in my life is the most peaceful thing ever.
Jackie thanks so much for keeping it real and telling us what we NEED to hear AND being encouraging all through Gods word and for His glory. It’s such a gift that God has given you and you steward it so well. Really helps so many of us in our walk with Christ. Praise God.
Wow! you are really great at preaching with your style of humor weaved into it. I really enjoyed this message and connect with it. I really look up to you given your knowledge and your biblical walk. Watching this really had me thinking about stuff and the email I sent you.
Amen. This is a great message. I know that I need to change a lot before God can bring me and my wife together. I know I have to seek the Kingdom first but admittedly I sometimes do get distracted by thoughts of marriage. I pray every day for God to help me and He has.
You got this brotha!
Keep fighting the Good Fight of faith sis, your obedient lifestyle to the Father is going to wake up the foolish who are void of oil for their lamps. I'm so proud of you.
This was soooooo good! So eye opening. Someone is going to be set free. God bless you Jackie
That’s my hope 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Heavenly Father, I've heard hundreds of messages this year, and by far, this is the best one. Thank you, Lord Jesus. Holy Spirit, You knew exactly when I , and so many watching, had to listen to this powerful message. Holy Spirit, thank You for using Your servant Jackie, and for her courage to grant us with the enormous gift to seek You first and Your kingdom, for the glory of Jesus Christ. Now, Lord Jesus, I ask that You may bless her and her family and cover them with the blood of Jesus Christ, as she continues to share the Word of God, by way of the Holy Spirit with boldness. Amen! You are blessed woman of God.
Thank you, Jackie!
I don't look, nor do I want to attempt to have a wife.
I enjoy my singleness and piece and quiet far more than anything else and I'm blessed and grateful for that blessing that God has given me.
Being single is a blessing and not a punishment and I'm grateful for everything that God has given me
Powerful Jackie thanks 🙏 and God bless you and your family !
Ive been confused about this issue in my life recently.
I needed to hear this.
My take a ways are :
1) Think about and focus on Jesus FIRST
2) Work on yourself as a man/woman and as a Christian
3) God will do the rest
Thank you
This was good. I was hesitant to click this, but The Holy Spirit convicted me to. Glad I did. God bless
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The difference with me is I don't blame or get mad at god thinking he hasn't sent anyone. I just don't think I'm good enough for anyone or to become a mother. Don't want to mess a child up like it happened to me.
Once the Lord showed me that when approaching a woman, I should have cared more about what she hope and need, and care to offer me as answer to those wishes. Love is all about giving and there is a lot of joy in it.
Amen! What an encouraging word. There are people going to hell all around us. God wants people to make it to heaven more than he wants us to get married. His word says seek first his righteousness(his will) and all of these things will be added on to us. God's will for us isbto love him above all things to make disciples. Thank you for speaking to me. I need to focus on being God's wife before anything. What an incredible purpose! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
Lmao. Overspiritualizing everything to this extent is a sickness. So much arrogance
Wooow this message hits different. Praise God! And thank you so much ❤️🙏
G/F of 4 years just left me on Christmas morning...
I'm tired of being a single dad that can't find someone to marry and grow old with.
Why did she leave you ask?
...because she said I always prioritized my daughter over her. It's not true. I've done everything for her and her son. On Christmas morning I told my G/F that my daughter was coming over at 1pm to open presents with us. My daughter is 22 and hasn't visited me in a year here. I was excited to see her! However, I apparently forgot to discuss and 'ask permission' from my g/f first. The fact is she knew my daughter was coming over. We wrapped her presents together the day before! Nonetheless, she completely lost it, screamed at me, cussed at me, told me that I prioritize my daughter over her and left as my daughter arrived and came inside. It was crushing. Our presents are still sitting here under the tree... She's a mother herself and I would never ever act that way if her son showed up at our home. He's always welcome. All I can do is leave it up to God. He's in control.
She isnt right for you. Definitely don't take her back if she asks.
Amen. Well said. I'll keep praising God in the hallway!🙌
AMEN BROTHER !
8:01 Wow!!! Girl you hit that one right on head!!👏🏾💯✝️
Louder for the people in the back!
It’s about PURPOSE.
Thank you for sharing. Those of us who have been sexually abused hold a special place with God
It is not good for him to be alone, so I shall make a helpmate for him❤
Thank you, Jackie, your words woke me up. You are a gift
Jackie... this is sooo very good! I wish my ex could watch this. I use to tell her all of these things when we were together on a seemingly everyday basis. She had alot of childhood traumas when she was a kid. We are divorced now but I sometimes wonder how much of this she remembers and experiences these things with someone else. Either way really good stuff for those who are married or thinking of getting married. As you stated marriage is about serving the one that you are with. Its so very easy to do in the beginning but turns into work as the infatuation stage begins to slowly fade away after the first couple years or so. If anyone is reading this comment you have to "Love Intentionally & on Purpose" as times moves on within the relationship! Love is an ACTION word!
Solid advice!
Today I asked Jesus to show me a sign. It’s funny how I came across this video right before going to sleep.
That’s good. Your best video yet. I love the passion and Pepe. God is good. All glory to God 🙏🏽
Haha I love Pepe he’s my homeboy!
Jackie God keeps using you to talk to me in my worst days when I feel I will never find my wife. I needed this video, may God keep blessing you 😭🫶
Amen sister! What a blessed and true word from God! Thank you very much!
I thank God for you Jackie for a very inspiring message. God has timely message for everyone. You are the vessel God is using to share this to beautiful message to everyone that needs to hear this. Keep it up God bless your ministry.👏
Thank you thank you Ephraim :)
I just stumbled on this. After being abused all my life, the worst , a psychopath cruel, demonic, malignant narcissist (passed away last yr on the lap of one of his harem girls)...I have finally embraced being alone. Me and my fur babies....I love the quiet life instead of the chaos. Being alone is not that bad.
May God bless you with greater peace and joy and love amen
Thanks this is actually an answer to my prayers. Happy holidays
Thank you sister I was blessed by your video ❤
I'm whole in Jesus.Despite my well-intentioned,non-idolized past efforts,it's always been a dead end.Recently,I told God that He would have to bring me a godly woman if it's going to happen.
Amen, something I’m going through and this Lady puts it across amazingly 😇
Last night I was talking to God and I was just saying I’m content with my singleness. Back when I was in the world I kept going after women and having sex outside of marriage. I’ve repented and gotten baptized this year and I’m now celibate and waiting till marriage. Till then, I’m focused on JESUS. WOOO🎉
That’s awesome Love to hear this! 🙌🏽
Jackie, I'm at a loss for words. Thank you so much for being used by God for this. It's exactly what I needed to hear. 😭 God bless you.
God will make it happen when he decides.
So very well said! That was definitely the Holy Spirit speaking through you
This word came at the perfect time. God bless
Thank you for your honesty Jackie. So much of the world value that we need to be delivered from 🙏 may the Lord restore the upright spirit within us ❤️ bless you and Lance as you continue to seek His kingdom within you and through this union with one another.
THE TIMING! THE WORD! INCREDIBLE!!!!
Praise Jesus!Ave Maria!Hallelujah I needed to hear this Messege!Right now!Thank you for this Beautiful Messege!You were lead by the Holyspirit!Jesus knows when to bring the right spouse his timing is perfect so we just need to be patient and enjoy the present moment we are in…❤️
Its the selfish I am! Thank you for this!
You might say that before watching this video, I did not know Jackie squat about truly preparing for a Godly marriage. 😄Thanks. This has been exceedingly enlightening‼️
I appreciate the truth and honesty about this topic of partnerships Jackie 🙏🏼🔥 That drawing you made described real relationship dynamics so well. I think people need to have realistic expectations. It can't always be about one person in a marriage. I believe if it's in God will for a person to have a spouse; it will happen but there is great joy and purpose in the single season. I'm 34 and single right now but I do want marriage one day. I'm currently bettering my life and getting right with the Lord until then.
For sure brother!!! I have not grown spiritually THIS MUCH since I got married in all my years with the Lord.
Amen, i really needed to hear this, for i think i was having a selfish view of marriage. It is a great reminder to always put God first and prepare yourself to be the proper spouse rather than just hoping for one and not really bringing anything to the table. Thank you.
Just felt librated by watching this Thank you so much❤for making this video Keep doing it 🎉
Best analogy explained in this topic. I really needed this reminder and it clearedy doubts. Thank you so much ❤
@@shayflowers8471 praise God sis !! Glad it helped :)
Thank you for the wonderful video and message.
Thank you, you are amazing this popped up on my feed and at 3:58 I truly believe i was meant to see this video
This was confirmation message. 🕊Thank you.🕊
Amen praise the Lord brother 😊
Thanks for this hope message GOD’s timing is perfect ALLELUIA 🕊️👑🥳
Yessss and our timing is not lol we think it is but it’s not!!!
Marriage is a blessed and divine mirror. May we bring all the gifts of the Spirit with us into our daily lives and into every relationship. 🙏❤
Great message.
Wow. Such a beautiful Sermon. Thank you Jackie!
For sure :)
As a man and and Christian I have a long ways to go!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Idk why but when I read the title it instantly made me cry.
Yes, Jackie for sure 💯,, in the other hand just like Boaz we will make a move, what you would tell to Boaz
Wise, very wise you are dear. Is wonderful and refreshing to see modern day Christ Followers God Bless you🙏
Marriage is a three ring circus
1st the engagement ring
2nd the wedding ring
3rd the suffering
...LEARN TO LEAD BY FOLLOWING THE LEADER!!! Great word jackie.....right on....we have been married for 44 years!!!everything u said...TRUE!!! THANK YOU JESUS!!!!
Amen sister
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So glad I noticed this video pop up on my feed and listened. God is good. This has helped me realize how to improve in my marriage.
Amen Brittany :)
Jackie, you are gorgeous ❣️❣️❣️
Thank you !!!
I'm so blessed by your testimony and by your courage. Thank you for sharing this powerful Word. Please keep up the good work, you're reaching us out here. To God Be All the Glory. Amen!
Jesus Christ please have mercy on me.
May the birth of the Prince of Peace remind the world where
its true happiness lies; and may your hearts be filled with hope and joy,
for the Saviour has been born for us. Merry Christmas Jackie!
Can't wait. 🙂🙌
This came up at the right time. I been praying to Jesus Christ about this. God bless you.
So glad it could bless you Jay :)
everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
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@@MightOfChrist Haha. I was going to reply 'no' to it
Nah that’s witchcraft
😂 everything you believe will crumble when you read the holy scriptures WIXIFIR7X because what you believe is built on sand.
Jesus is KING and lord
Go play in the traffic instead of wasting our time!