Men are out there saying much more to convince them and DEMONSTRATE the opposite. They will require of your nieces to LOWER DOWN, DESCEND, to their level and that will not even be enough. Out there is out contradicting that single statement by a lot of different means. So just saying that sentence is not enough. It actually is a part of the problem.
As a divorcee of a 22 yr marriage I can truly say these women speak facts......reality is "DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS" - LOVE AINT GOT ISH TO DO WITH PAYING THE BILLS ....LOVE is just an emotion that comes in like the waves of the ocean.....I'm at peace and wish this for every woman in this world. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻
Dating down means you will enter an arena of games, toxicity, and insecurity! Those men are the most insecure and will run game on you and abandon you before you can abandon them! They are users. Live and learn if you don’t heed this warning!! Take better be better! Do not go look looking in the garbage areas (apps bars etc) stay away from these ! Men can’t handle women are are higher status or more successful then them! It eats a their ego! They will compete and be jealous of you and feel emasculated by you! Do not date down! Make him rise up!! Dating down is trauma in the making! Don’t do it’!! They are never grateful !!!
Being raised with a religious background you think of being conceded, you are told to be humble. So when you meet someone “beneath” you, you don’t want to think that way your religious beliefs tell you no that’s not humble you are not above anyone. It takes a lot of work to change this mindset. I am still working on it.
I love this message. Never say it will never happen to you, because it happens alot. Because it happened to me I'm still a work in progress. Be smart and resilient ladies. Its a new time and that old way of thinking is over. I never had any one to tell me or teach me this. Learn to love yourself first. You can never go wrong ❤peace and blessings
Truth is I see a lot more bad and messed up situations and relationship then the ones that work out and the good strong household and husband w the kids . It’s at least for me who’s in upper middle class. Woman aren’t getting lucky 🍀 and finding the best supposes and perfect husband and kids .
I've dated down before but I can't get any feelings for them. It's like I know it's a joke so I have a Lil fun n bounce. Now I'm with the man at my level and I fell in love. I never wanted to get married and now I can't wait to marry this man. 😊
The 'down', is a state of mind. The person should align with your dreams and how you see life. The two of you should compliment each other. Your interactions should polish each other, and make each other better. And always put God in the middle of your life before you even start dating, so that God can send you the person whom you are supposed to be with...
The lady with the glasses is on point built kids daddy. Nobody wanted him until i was helping him get on his feet nope not dating down not now not ever. Cause im moving differently and that up.
I am a single mom of three children by two men. I know I have made mistakes but i am proud of myself for no longer continuing to take disrespect from them, I dated down while I was still working on myself. I am an educated mom with a degree I am proud I can set an example for my children ❤ I now know my worth,
A man dating you that’s out of his league, some reason he thinks he’s the sht and will try to do it again so don’t think he won’t cheat. Especially when pretty women sees him with you, they’re wondering what he’s got because it’s not apparent why you are with him. So now he’s got women looking at him that wouldn’t have looked at him before you, and he’s got men giving him bromance for being able to pull you. It’s not a win sis
Be careful of dating down with covert narcissists too- they will make you fall for their supportive words and “encouragement,” all the while destroying you with their actions, gaslighting you into falling for their empty and hollow words. Only. Believe. Actions. Not all men will transparently hate and disrespect you. A lot will do it behind the scenes and make you feel crazy.
Dating potential is the worst choice. You don't even SEE the real person you're dating, just the image you've created in your head. And that's right, there is no reward for struggle love, only heartbreak. I've done a lot of charity work in my relationship and Lord did I end up with a disappointment!
I hope we the women in Europe gonna catch on to this cuz it almost seems I’m the only one to Deventer men even a little , everybody even women of 45-48 stilllll changing (unstable )men instead of themselves…. Don’t get me wrong I want a good man but as long that’s not in cards I’m gonna do me …
Men collect pretty girls like Pokémon cards. Gotta get what they can’t have and once they do, they’re discarded. Men like that eventually “settles down” by marrying someone he never chased after because she can hold the fort down. Meanwhile, he’s cheating on his wife with pretty girls because the streets are always calling for these men
Prob is when he’s actually great in every other way but money. Secure, attractive, attentive, loving, respectful, reliable but not financially stable. Love is hard to find, to throw it away bc he can’t take care of you financially seems shortsighted 🤷🏻♀️
Wtf is he doing with his money? Sorry, I’ve never been in debt lived on my own since 20 and always had savings. Wtf is he doing in a world built for men that he can’t even survive? You know you need money to survive right?
What a shame to have so many good qualities but be financially unstable. How does one survive? If he’s not taking care of her financially then she will be taking care of him which is probably his plan all along! Love may not be hard to find for everyone but if it is, so what? I don’t want to date someone who seemingly can’t take care of themselves.
Love don’t pay the bills hun… If he really loved you, he would make sure y’all aren’t struggling. Are you ok struggling with a man who is not your husband? If so, I feel sorry for you.
What you mean with no money and depending on you or no money but working his butt off to take care of his (own) family ? That’s different the : I only want a rich men mentality is indeed a bit off but I think you always have to have a man who works his butt off to provide and try
As I am auntie, I always say to young women "know your worth"...
Men are out there saying much more to convince them and DEMONSTRATE the opposite. They will require of your nieces to LOWER DOWN, DESCEND, to their level and that will not even be enough. Out there is out contradicting that single statement by a lot of different means. So just saying that sentence is not enough. It actually is a part of the problem.
Dating down will bring you down. It's draining. I'm better single, and I won't date "potential" again.
As a divorcee of a 22 yr marriage I can truly say these women speak facts......reality is "DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS" - LOVE AINT GOT ISH TO DO WITH PAYING THE BILLS ....LOVE is just an emotion that comes in like the waves of the ocean.....I'm at peace and wish this for every woman in this world. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻
This needs to be applied to friendships as well!!!
Hell yeah!
PREACH!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for this comment!!!
Dating down means you will enter an arena of games, toxicity, and insecurity! Those men are the most insecure and will run game on you and abandon you before you can abandon them! They are users. Live and learn if you don’t heed this warning!! Take better be better! Do not go look looking in the garbage areas (apps bars etc) stay away from these ! Men can’t handle women are are higher status or more successful then them! It eats a their ego! They will compete and be jealous of you and feel emasculated by you! Do not date down! Make him rise up!! Dating down is trauma in the making! Don’t do it’!! They are never grateful !!!
They're traitors and proud of it 💯
Being raised with a religious background you think of being conceded, you are told to be humble. So when you meet someone “beneath” you, you don’t want to think that way your religious beliefs tell you no that’s not humble you are not above anyone. It takes a lot of work to change this mindset. I am still working on it.
You better date up the rest of it doesn't even matter. Dating down you just gone run into a bunch of games etc,etc..
Notice that males always desire the best of women. They never settle. They always look for their dream women.
I love this message. Never say it will never happen to you, because it happens alot. Because it happened to me I'm still a work in progress. Be smart and resilient ladies. Its a new time and that old way of thinking is over. I never had any one to tell me or teach me this. Learn to love yourself first. You can never go wrong ❤peace and blessings
Truth is I see a lot more bad and messed up situations and relationship then the ones that work out and the good strong household and husband w the kids . It’s at least for me who’s in upper middle class. Woman aren’t getting lucky 🍀 and finding the best supposes and perfect husband and kids .
Absolutely 💯
Glad it resonated with you💕
I learned my lesson.
I've dated down before but I can't get any feelings for them. It's like I know it's a joke so I have a Lil fun n bounce. Now I'm with the man at my level and I fell in love. I never wanted to get married and now I can't wait to marry this man. 😊
Many blessings to you, Beloveds. ❤
Im not even thinking on that level of dating down if u have done it before and absolutely not.
The 'down', is a state of mind. The person should align with your dreams and how you see life. The two of you should compliment each other. Your interactions should polish each other, and make each other better. And always put God in the middle of your life before you even start dating, so that God can send you the person whom you are supposed to be with...
The down is a state of mind and your present position. You get where you are by your mindset, determination and habits!
Dating down just gone cause you a whole lot of problems. Do as you wish meaning date who you want but I'm never doing that again
Date who you like just be smart.❤
The lady with the glasses is on point built kids daddy. Nobody wanted him until i was helping him get on his feet nope not dating down not now not ever. Cause im moving differently and that up.
Catching this before passing morning meds at work
This is just what i need
Glad you enjoyed it 😊
@@mskabueExperience this and never again 😢
I am a single mom of three children by two men. I know I have made mistakes but i am proud of myself for no longer continuing to take disrespect from them, I dated down while I was still working on myself. I am an educated mom with a degree I am proud I can set an example for my children ❤ I now know my worth,
A man dating you that’s out of his league, some reason he thinks he’s the sht and will try to do it again so don’t think he won’t cheat. Especially when pretty women sees him with you, they’re wondering what he’s got because it’s not apparent why you are with him. So now he’s got women looking at him that wouldn’t have looked at him before you, and he’s got men giving him bromance for being able to pull you. It’s not a win sis
NOTHING BUT FACTS!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥
I'm really happy to hear beautiful women.esp. black women saying no to settling. 👏🏾🫶🏾
Be careful of dating down with covert narcissists too- they will make you fall for their supportive words and “encouragement,” all the while destroying you with their actions, gaslighting you into falling for their empty and hollow words.
Only. Believe. Actions. Not all men will transparently hate and disrespect you. A lot will do it behind the scenes and make you feel crazy.
Thank you for your wisdom! xx
Do not cast your pearls before Swine.
Take him. But take him FULL-TIME, so he’s completely out of my hair. 🙄
Dating potential is the worst choice. You don't even SEE the real person you're dating, just the image you've created in your head.
And that's right, there is no reward for struggle love, only heartbreak.
I've done a lot of charity work in my relationship and Lord did I end up with a disappointment!
This morning 🌅 I texted him ngwanu 👋🏽. Am not dating down.
7 am here
Good morning y’all
Good morning 🌞
Love it.💜
Glad you loved it
I hope we the women in Europe gonna catch on to this cuz it almost seems I’m the only one to Deventer men even a little , everybody even women of 45-48 stilllll changing (unstable )men instead of themselves…. Don’t get me wrong I want a good man but as long that’s not in cards I’m gonna do me …
Good morning y’all 😅
Hey hey
27:38 she’s so beautiful I can’t believe every the pretty girls not average girl even has hard time
Men collect pretty girls like Pokémon cards. Gotta get what they can’t have and once they do, they’re discarded. Men like that eventually “settles down” by marrying someone he never chased after because she can hold the fort down. Meanwhile, he’s cheating on his wife with pretty girls because the streets are always calling for these men
Prob is when he’s actually great in every other way but money. Secure, attractive, attentive, loving, respectful, reliable but not financially stable. Love is hard to find, to throw it away bc he can’t take care of you financially seems shortsighted 🤷🏻♀️
Wtf is he doing with his money? Sorry, I’ve never been in debt lived on my own since 20 and always had savings. Wtf is he doing in a world built for men that he can’t even survive? You know you need money to survive right?
And you know men use money to directly and indirectly get access to women, right? So girl, if you’re not seeing it, someone else is.
What a shame to have so many good qualities but be financially unstable. How does one survive? If he’s not taking care of her financially then she will be taking care of him which is probably his plan all along! Love may not be hard to find for everyone but if it is, so what? I don’t want to date someone who seemingly can’t take care of themselves.
Love don’t pay the bills hun… If he really loved you, he would make sure y’all aren’t struggling. Are you ok struggling with a man who is not your husband? If so, I feel sorry for you.
What you mean with no money and depending on you or no money but working his butt off to take care of his (own) family ? That’s different the : I only want a rich men mentality is indeed a bit off but I think you always have to have a man who works his butt off to provide and try
Dating down just gone cause you a whole lot of problems. Do as you wish meaning date who you want but I'm never doing that again