Why Men Pull Away and Come Back (The TRUTH) 😐😑🤔
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- Опубликовано: 21 авг 2022
- This video covers exactly why men pull away and come back.
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Good quote!
Why is he pulling away?
1. He's dealing with his problems on his own
2. The relationship is progressing too fast
3. He's having doubts about you
4. You're doing something that is stressing him out and getting on his nerves. Too needy? Too clingy? Too negative?
Just leave him alone - back off and give him space. If it's you, work on yourself - your neediness etc
If he doesn't come back - you know the relationship has ended
When they wanna space , I’ll gve them universe
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Love it❤❤❤❤
That part.
My honest take on this is BLOCK HIM ASAP! AND SAVE YOURSELVES, THESE ARE NOT GOOD MEN. These men are PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU. NO SERIOUS GUY WHO HONESTLY WANTS YOU WILL PUT YOU THROUGH THIS, BECAUSE HE KNOWS THAT HE COULD LOSE YOU. IF HE'S PULLING AWAY GET RID OF HIM. LOOK FOR SOMEONE ELSE. DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELVES TO BE DISRESPECTED LIKE THIS END IT ASAP. BLOCK HIM AND LOOK FOR ANOTHER MAN WHO WILL LOVE YOU AND NOT PLAY GAMES WITH YOU.
Men pull away and come back if they are not serious with you
Sometimes this is the case but not always
@@SabrinaBendory you are right 😊
I went through a lot of guys who did not wanted me. I think it is best to let all the pain go because people can not really help you with that problem.
Love how you are real and saying it how it needs to be said. You're very insightful . Great video !
I found your channel a week ago via a RUclips ad and I've been binge watching it since! im in the early stages of dating a guy and I feel so much more equipped now thanks to your straight-to-the-point advice!
Amazing! I'm so happy to hear it!
Sabrina is the best!!!❤
Based on my personal experience. He is chasing other woman who rejected him, then he comes back to me everytime that happens. I confronted him about that and he denied but I know him since that happened before, twice. He is just an old pathetic player. And I am just a fool for loving him.
What happened to you two now?
@@Nina-ur3ld After those horrible experiences, I have decided to step out of his life. The last time we chatted in a friendly manner was March last year. He still texts me saying hello and all that just to start a conversation. I told him that I don’t want him to contact me again. I feel neutral towards him now, I really don’t care about him. If I could turn back time, I wish we never knew each other. I was stupid back then, not knowing my self-worth. Up to this days, I don’t know why he keeps pulling away and coming back but I was surely glad that happened. I found calmness and myself, I saved myself 🫶🏻. To everyone out here, know your worth. That is the most important thing. Sending much love XoXo.
He "came back" yesterday, five weeks later!! I did the work!! Thanks Sabrina!!!
How are things going now ?
@@brittanyjames3281 Better than ever...I think the whole thing made him think..he's become more "attentive"..
Are you still together?
Thank you. You really cleared things up. 😊
I'm so glad!
Well a break is understandable but 6 to 7 months to a year later?Than magically popping back up? Thats not for me..So i got rid of him..I am just done with it all..He has kept me on the back burner for years and i feel he has been playing games and leading me on..and dragging me on..So im done..
This is helping me soooo much!!
After 9 months of sporadic dating and frequent intimacy, I asked him where I stand with him. Relationship wasn’t progressing. I asked for a commitment and he said he needs more time. I gave him a lot of time. I started to cry and I went on my bed to cry. He apologized to me and left! I’m distraught! 😢I blocked him.
Me & my partner both have anxious Avoidant attachment styles (I’m a bit more expressive than he is) & we’ve know this so we’re both doing the inner work we realized it isn’t healthy for our relationship despite us loving one another etc
A month ago he got upset with something I texted and he said he needed us to back off for a bit cause he's also extremely stressed at work and personally, and that he would text me later in the summer..it's been hard, but I have been doing no contact and working on myself.. infact as part of my therapy, I actually watched every single video that u ever made Sabrina, and "liked" them all!!!! Even the topics that weren't 100% relevant to me helped a lot! And now this new video is so timely for me..thank you Sabrina!!!❤
exact situation and exact words he said to me lol....
@@Hanhaneeso It worked out!! After 5 weeks, he came back, better than ever..this really works..hang in there everyone!
however when we broke off he told me that I shouldn't be waiting on him and he'd be free only in the early next year... At this point I don't know what i should do
@@Hanhaneeso are you doing no contact ?
@@susanmichele yup 12 days today. on the day he broke off, I just tried to plead him once.. after that went no contact immediately.. our relationship was perfect. only reason for breakup was that he couldn't handle a few of my jokes and he felt more stressful accompanied with his work stress..
also he dont block me
At this point, I'm not seeing any reason gor pursuing dating. Pull away and I'm DONE.
this 👏
I pushed him to the point he's blocked me. Not the 1st time. I miss him. He may not come back this time.
How are things now?
@@Leo-pv9zi he came back but things didn't change. Back in NC again.
You look great btw!!
Calm as a cucumber not stressed. Moved on too
Needed this. Thank you! Do I let him know I am going to give him space or just fade back?
Either way is fine
5:48 we were talking about what we are. he told me that he wanted me. he wanted me to be his. we havent made it official, but we both know what we are. i think it sbecause im alwasy texting first, he got bored because theres no chase anymore. when i asked him if somthing is wrong and if i had done anything, he said "no you didnt do anything wrong." and "just school and life". i wasnt convinced on teh second one. i also asked if i could maye change anything i do, maybe he wants alittle space. he said no and that im not doing anythign wrong again. im alwasy teh one that texts first so i think its because theres no chase anymore. he doesnt call me ML or pet names anymore, or alot of compliments. i need help.im going to not text first anymore. im going to calm down. i alo asked him if he needed.. alone time, maybe he wants me to slow down on the daily text. he said no your not doing anything wrong. i dont know. help me. i want to make him text me but will it push him away? if he doesnt want me to change anything will becoming the one that doesnt text first pull him away more? i dont know.
I have hooked up with a guy a couple times . We weren't sober but when we are together it's all about us being together ect . Then after he pulls back idk what to do . I def can own that I'm being very clingy with my messages ect and wanting to figure out what we are .. I feel like an idiot I know legit he has feelings or getting hurt again and going through alot of personal stuff and shuts down. I just don't get why he's like planning a.life together when drinking then backs off sober ugh .. he had the hugest crush on me in high school but never told me so I think he does really have interest but idk .. I have to.stop messaging first lol 😆
Is there a chance he pulled away, because I was being too distant out of over-protecting myself?
I had been dating this guy for five absolutely amazing dates, but thenI got sick with covid and we didn’t have much contact during that time… when I was all healed up, I told him I would love to spend some time with him, but he was „busy with work“ and hasn‘t initiated a date since then. I didn‘t either and pulled back, myself.
Maybe me being sick just gave him time to reconsider and he realized he wasn‘t as into me as he thought. But it really felt like we had an amazing, special connection. It‘s been a month of him being distant and us just texting a couple of times, back and forth.
How would you suggest me moving forward?
how do I pull back without him thinking I’m ghosting him?
I tend to pull out and go back in
he does this everytime: we talk, we hang out, he goes ghost for like a week right after and this goes on everytime.. i know he struggles with a lot of personal things, but he does still talk to his friends and goes on tiktok.. i must admit; i do get pretty intense when he starts ignoring me.. i am this first girl he’s taking serious, or so he said.
This naturally occuring cycle is very unattractive. At this point in my life... I typically lose my interest, FAST.
But why would you want a man on and off all the time ? 😅
None of the marriages I know had a part where he pulled away!! Ladies, NEXT. You are not needy because you have VALID NEEDS!
Doubts…. Insecurity…. Emotional Security….
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Because it doesn’t talk to me 5 weeks later…..
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I’m reading a book….
Hahahaha
This all seems very one sided! Why is it that the women has to be the patient one and work on their actions? Why is it not that the man has to change his behaviour to make the relationship work? Why is it not that he has to stop pulling away and reassure her instead?
Why is it fair to prioritise his needs over yours and not yours needs over his? It seems ironic that you advice women to value themselves yet prioritise HIS needs. If your man cannot communicate with you than he is the one with the problem. He is the one who has to do the work.
Do you want a relationship with a man or a woman? Let him deal with things like a man. If you don’t like that then date someone else that deals with things from his feminine side. Quit trying to make men more feminine. 🤷♀️
@@lauraz2896 Is it a case of trying to make men more feminine or women more masculine?
There’s a middle ground. It’s called communication.
@@effiemangharam9579 I agree that communication is important. But it’s not part of a man’s DNA. I notice the difference when I date older men and then younger men.
@@effiemangharam9579 I agree with you but……that’s just the way things are so if he can’t communicate to your liking then cut him no slack and move on. As for me…..ignore the fuck out of them…..
It has been so frustrating for me. I finally know what is wrong with this dude. I given so much space and he is acting like a jerk.
Lol, I'm the one who pull back and come back. Not him.
Enough of trying to make women guilty or change themselves because of men who are obviously just hunting around and not serious about them. All the torture is needless!! When a man wants you for real, all those reasons eason mentioned doesn't make them pull away!!!
Usually men pull away because they aren't that into you or dealing with someone else - another woman! The one he is more into gets more of his attention and that's when he seems to be pulling away from you. They only return when the other relationship goes south. Don't be second best! He will do it again!,
Don't wait around torturing yourself with a million and one questions. Move on and do not let him toy with your emotions again if he ever returns.
When you finally meet a wholesome man you will see that he knows exactly what he wants - YOU almost immediately and would never ghost you!
Men and women are different - complimentary not equal.