Why Leaving a Narcissist is So Hard

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  • Опубликовано: 14 июн 2024
  • Leaving a narcissist is harder than you think, and I'm here to break down exactly why!
    In this video, we explore the psychological reasons behind why leaving a narcissist can be so difficult. We discuss how The Worst Day Cycle creates an attraction and compulsive desire to attract narcissists.
    If you've ever wondered why it's so hard to break free from a narcissist's grip, this video provides valuable insights and understanding. Watch till the end to learn more about the emotional challenges involved in walking away from a narcissistic individual.
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Комментарии • 18

  • @azsuehayes
    @azsuehayes 20 дней назад +11

    Illness from trauma and Narcissistic abuse. I experienced autoimmune activated by abuse that among other life threatening conditions. You arre so smart Kenny 'Wise'.

  • @TKouklaki
    @TKouklaki 20 дней назад +14

    Narcs most of the time are co dependants and they try to keep you on their side, sometimes they even chase you. They are nasty and they need always a loyal audience.

  • @JamesMandolare
    @JamesMandolare 20 дней назад +10

    Thank you for the insights. The narcissist might be pretending to be perfect for you-at least until they have you under control. It is like an addiction to a dangerous drug! They play on your weaknesses. But the co-dependent is not a narcissist and is capable of emotional attachment and love for the other person. It is hard to go "no contact" when you love the narcissist, and it hurts a lot-but the narcissist is disassociated from any true feeling so you suffer alone. I worked so hard to overcome my abusive childhood but the narcissist wants to put you right back into that abusive role as a slave to their every whim.

    • @thirstonhowellthebird
      @thirstonhowellthebird 19 дней назад +2

      I’m really sorry that you went through that. I’m starting to believe that people who have had abusive childhoods are just actually meant to be and stay single. The damage done is so thoroughly embedded in the central nervous system, which has been completely shattered that I’m not really sure it’s recoverable.

    • @JamesMandolare
      @JamesMandolare 19 дней назад +3

      ​@@thirstonhowellthebird Thanks. "Hell is for children" The foundations of personality are laid down in that innocent impressionable age before self-awareness sets in at age seven or so. Until then we are forged and carved by the family and later the friends, teachers, and experiences that come in time. And it is through self-awareness that we can guard ourselves from the shadows and flaws done by the cruelty, inequity, and ignorance of the long-gone days of childhood. If we can take a good hard look at ourselves, and forgive the past, we can minimize the emotional damage done to ourselves and to others. You are certainly right about the sad fact that the emotional damage means being doomed to a solitary life.

  • @fridastwin
    @fridastwin 20 дней назад +7

    It is correct that trauma doesn’t need to be a life threatening event to qualify. My husband is German, and trust me, culturally, we have vastly differing perspectives on what causes shame or damage.

  • @liana2136
    @liana2136 20 дней назад +7

    Heart breaking that you didn't get a better explanation for why she was saving the cottage cheese. 😢

  • @trishf2184
    @trishf2184 16 дней назад +2

    Because when they are "normal " to you, it's the fix you/we need. It the crumbs. We got nothing as kids and if/when they give us "something ", we are so grateful that we think we may get more. We stay. Only to get kicked to the curb within hours.

  • @trishf2184
    @trishf2184 16 дней назад +2

    Having worked in a TRAUMA ER...your guest is correct. "Trauma" does MEAN a life-threatening injury.
    We were clear about TRAUMA.

  • @shawnineshawnine1494
    @shawnineshawnine1494 17 дней назад +1

    I saw you at the Riverbank Antique store in Prescott with two young men. You popped in on my feed, probably because I've listened to Dr. Ramani for a couple years.

  • @sunflowerhealth1616
    @sunflowerhealth1616 20 дней назад +4

    The range of situations that the term 'Psychological trauma' covers is quite well summarised in Wikipedia, may be of related interest?

  • @omar.8000
    @omar.8000 6 дней назад +1

    Hello Kenny, I want to point out that I’m 26 years old living in Saudi Arabia. I’ve been raised by a narcissistic abusive father. Even if I want to detach myself physically and move out/set boundaries from him is difficult due to typical and traditional father/son relationship in our culture. What do you think about it?

  • @jenster29
    @jenster29 18 дней назад +1

    There are different traumas.
    There is trauma when you feel like your life is in danger and there is emotional trauma aka complex trauma.
    That's how we get cPTSD.

  • @gtnutz3548
    @gtnutz3548 20 дней назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Dawnarow
    @Dawnarow 16 дней назад +1

    I'm still attached to mine for a simple reason. She is sexually attractive and I know all of her missing parts. Is there a savior complex? Yeaa.. kinda. She gets rejected harshly and has found unhealthy coping mechanisms (from contacting someone else that will pick up / using her charms to reel someone in to denial and having no clear grip on reality / religion's endless excuses for not taking responsibility

  • @noturbo
    @noturbo 20 дней назад +4

    i lived in the same house from 0-10 i dont even remember having a meal there or what my bedroom looked like , so much trauma in that house, my dad beat me one day with a cane till i left my body i was 6 ish so many things happened there i am still working them out.
    oh wow i just bliped then like went away um now tears , i was in this online thing with someone with BPD NPD etc i like seen red flags in the 1st week of knowing her googled symptoms come up with that stuff NPD etc and like nearly 2 years latter and how many blockings and me going back and her coming back the last time i tried to end me 106 days NC right now and then losing my job last month because i finally snapped at the NPD boss i cant get out of bed the last couple of weeks its horrible f&k
    i am crying at least writing this right now thats a good thing i think.
    i will probably delete this because shame right because i am horrible
    the point is that i wouldn't have stayed if i didn't have the trauma CPTSD etc same with the job
    so broken, crazy stuff is i am still looking at my phone to see if she has sent me a message

    • @liana2136
      @liana2136 20 дней назад +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @noturbo
      @noturbo 20 дней назад +2

      so many weird things are happening today i was watching a twin flame video on youtube fell asleep woke up 20 mins latter and alexa was playing her fav song how the hell does that happen i live by myself alexa is in the other room i keep seeing her name just seen it like 2 mins ago and its not a common name i am getting so weirded out atm, like some how alexa started playing music while i was asleep and her fav song is playing how does that happen i need someone to tell me?