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Комментарии • 152

  • @salcangemi3762
    @salcangemi3762 2 месяца назад +112

    I alway wanted to be a novelist but I felt it was too late for me. I wrote my first book at the age of 48. Got a novel published at 51. Been publishing books since. Sure, I still get rejected but I’m doing it. Have another novel coming out next month. It’s never too late. Mel speaks the truth.

    • @gaetanegomes
      @gaetanegomes 2 месяца назад +5

      At almost 46 thus is especially motivating for me - THANK YOU 🙏🏾

    • @emilystowe3951
      @emilystowe3951 9 дней назад

      this "you against you" clarification is major. ❤

  • @mannya_realtor
    @mannya_realtor 2 месяца назад +34

    The action comes before the belief.

  • @lizielita
    @lizielita 2 месяца назад +68

    I love these short videos, because it's more plausible we can watch a video, that is 18 minutes long, than them for more than 1 hour. Who has almost 2 hours? Lol. Thanks Mel, you're awesome. Keep changing the world. You got this.

    • @shellslarson1476
      @shellslarson1476 2 месяца назад

      😊😊p] ]]pppqq1

    • @shellslarson1476
      @shellslarson1476 2 месяца назад

      How do you know which event in your life you're battling?

    • @lizielita
      @lizielita 2 месяца назад +1

      @@shellslarson1476 What do you mean? Ain't sure I understand your question.

    • @kasaaa_
      @kasaaa_ 2 месяца назад

      @@shellslarson1476 you could start the time you felt insecure or a failure that makes you doubt you now

  • @rjs2595
    @rjs2595 2 месяца назад +25

    "It's no joke when you feel like there's something more". True story!

  • @501wissam
    @501wissam 29 дней назад +3

    Action Action Action, Just do it.

  • @northstar5919
    @northstar5919 2 месяца назад +23

    You fight the version of you that was conditioned and made by your parents. You fight the wrong version of you. Now you need to find the real version that is hidden inside and be happy.

    • @mikey5812
      @mikey5812 2 месяца назад +1

      Hi northstar. It's so true, thank you. My father let me down, disinherited me too. Gave it all to my sister, who never worked and hung around the house. . Everything I thought we had was a lie. My greatest challenge will be getting away from this hurt and betrayal. I still hear him telling me what to do in my head.

    • @Godgreat123
      @Godgreat123 2 месяца назад +2

      I can so relate with this

    • @kaoutarrachdi4574
      @kaoutarrachdi4574 Месяц назад +1

      true

    • @mindsetacademy8737
      @mindsetacademy8737 Месяц назад

      Thank you

  • @user-fy4pk5zl7c
    @user-fy4pk5zl7c 27 дней назад +3

    I LOVE HER. There is something about Mel's energy, even if I had heard it from someone else, it wouldn't have had the same impact...I feel very connected to her.

  • @franklynmanuel
    @franklynmanuel 2 месяца назад +6

    This is going to be my morning must listen video for next 30 days to get my self pumped in the morning

  • @Michelle-md5kd
    @Michelle-md5kd 2 месяца назад +5

    I cannot thank you enough for introducing David Goggins to your audience. As a DV survivor I am often asked how I got through the hard times and I will say my friends Goggins, Jocko and Mel helped me every step of the way. I live in Boston and it would be such an honor to meet you someday. Keep up the amazing work.

  • @nickiboy33
    @nickiboy33 Месяц назад +8

    You are a true inspiration Mel. Im walking a similar path and been sober for more than a year now and battling myself every damn day. But Ive decided to go online a nd be authentic and put myself out there to inspire and to SERVE. God bless you ❤

  • @susanshearer6106
    @susanshearer6106 2 месяца назад +15

    Yes! David Goggins and Andrew Huberman are both men I admire. Both men, but David in particular, focus on 'action' and 'consistency.' Those two attributes; action and consistency, are not only the answer to achieving goals, but also apply to relationships with ourselves and others. Actions speak louder than words, and consistency builds trust. Amazing messages.

  • @user-bj5vm9df4m
    @user-bj5vm9df4m Месяц назад +3

    I would like to see Mel and David on a podcast ❤

  • @happyheart1111
    @happyheart1111 2 месяца назад +20

    Hey! Mel, I don't kno if you read comments or not, but as you disclosed the fact, that it's always our past self with whom we rage a war with, & the moment we fail to take actions because we don't feel like doing, that victim past self wins, tears rolled down my cheek & I cried silently, after this realization of my life.💞🌸
    A big Thankyou to you for sharing this & a big Thankyou to David goggins too.

    • @Kyojuro82
      @Kyojuro82 2 месяца назад +2

      @happyheart1111 so true, thanks for writing this out!! appreciate it

  • @monroy400
    @monroy400 2 месяца назад +7

    Oh Mel!!! I just had an AHA moment.. You just have this wonderful hability, to guide us; to identify the sh.. that's stopping us. It's cristal clear like never before. Discovering the Troyan horse(our old version that never left) The enemy's inside..
    Thank you
    I treasure your wisdom..

  • @melindastewart8065
    @melindastewart8065 2 месяца назад +5

    This is right on time. Love this message

  • @tomwebb6232
    @tomwebb6232 Месяц назад +4

    Very powerful, Thank you for what you do. We shine brighter together 💪❤️💪

  • @JenniferStewart07
    @JenniferStewart07 2 месяца назад +1

    I like the “cure is one day at a time”. Reminds me of look how far you would be if you started when you say you were going to.

  • @vickibazter3446
    @vickibazter3446 2 месяца назад +8

    Mel. This touched me very deeply. I appreciate your work and dedication. With Gratitude. ❤ 👍

  • @maczter
    @maczter 2 месяца назад

    Never have I ever felt so much like anyone on a pre-recorded piece of content was speaking directly to me.

  • @thotaramanivlogs
    @thotaramanivlogs 25 дней назад

    Every word you speak has great power 🎉

  • @norinekeeling4478
    @norinekeeling4478 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you for this ! So needed this today❤

  • @tsukie11
    @tsukie11 2 месяца назад +6

    David Goggins is amazing!❤️❤️❤️

  • @Rhea2891
    @Rhea2891 Месяц назад

    Just what I needed to break me out of my funk n fear @MelRobins !! THANKYOU for what you do for all of us! It's soo easy to get trapped and bogged down rendering us physically unable to take that simple action. When I heard you say, "ask yourself who you are batteling?" OMG and then reminding us of the 5,4,3,2,1 a switch went off in me in that moment and I'm not so scared of doing what I need to today! THANKYOU!! ❤🎉 You're THE BEST!!

  • @pegahhasani7816
    @pegahhasani7816 2 месяца назад

    Thanks Mel❤ you are amazing

  • @bontlemmereki811
    @bontlemmereki811 2 месяца назад

    Thank you Mel xx

  • @judygraessle7358
    @judygraessle7358 Месяц назад

    Thank you Mel

  • @jacquelinebrush2479
    @jacquelinebrush2479 19 дней назад

    First time listening and this podcast was right on point with where I am right now. Thank you for telling it like it is!!❤

  • @reginirajaretnam1018
    @reginirajaretnam1018 2 месяца назад

    Thanks Mel!

  • @MM-bw1lo
    @MM-bw1lo 2 месяца назад +1

    I love love love David Goggins and this was such an amazing video, truly freeing and so helpful.

  • @ajlazana9244
    @ajlazana9244 Месяц назад +1

    Oh Mel you are the light of my days!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mokyan7
    @mokyan7 2 месяца назад

    I love listening to David Goggins also, Mel, and I read his book and he has overcome horrendous problems by taking action again and again and again.
    The Bible says that faith without works is dead, and this is a prime example. just wishing or hoping or blaming, or avoiding, will never bring the positive changes.
    In one of your prior podcasts, you mentioned how confidence is built every time you take action. You may not have been born with it, but as you build little victories, or as David would say “cookies in your cookie jar”, you were able to rise higher and overcome obstacles
    This is what I needed to hear today Mel. thank you!

  • @CherylHuse
    @CherylHuse 2 месяца назад

    Mel you always come through with the synchronized posts for us! Thank you 🥲♥️

  • @raquelbins5753
    @raquelbins5753 Месяц назад +1

    I loved the way you started, talking about David Goggins because I am reading his book. And now I'm loving your videos/podcasts

  • @yasmeenbowie6638
    @yasmeenbowie6638 2 месяца назад

    Thank you Mel I needed to hear this one ❤

  • @kareng6721
    @kareng6721 2 месяца назад

    Just what I needed today. Thank you!😊

  • @lovelove6759
    @lovelove6759 Месяц назад

    Thanks Mel i needed this

  • @mimiminie6814
    @mimiminie6814 29 дней назад

    There is certainly a past that holds me back. However, I often believe that I was better in the past, that I was better and that my best performance phase might be behind me. I'm 22 and I know that's simply not true. This video brought tears which just means it's true and there is something there.
    Thank you so much for this Video! And talking about this dark mostly silent wars inside us.

  • @cennybkillinum
    @cennybkillinum 2 месяца назад

    Wow, the old version of yourself holding you back is actually really powerful. I had to stop and re listen to that a few times. I think it would be a good excercise to write down what future me looks,thinks,feels like and then recognise when I'm holding myself back

  • @NaturesEscapes
    @NaturesEscapes 2 месяца назад

    Yes!!! Discomfort slings us forward if we are willing to grab it!

  • @isaacmeza6271
    @isaacmeza6271 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for your vulnerability, Mel.
    And thank you so much for your motivation!!!!!

  • @user-df8mp6ln2p
    @user-df8mp6ln2p 2 месяца назад

    I heard that same interview. Powerful. Insightful. Authentic. Great interview.

  • @Florest_Adventures
    @Florest_Adventures Месяц назад

    I just love the way how Mel put it all together and she is also funny. It might sound rough about idea you are "battling" yourself but it is true.. we dont have just one personality, otherwise we would be the same every day with same mood same habits.. Thank you for your authentic podcasts and for sharing your self with us. You are truly braving the Wilderness in you❤

  • @stephaniestarling7690
    @stephaniestarling7690 2 месяца назад +3

    Just searched Kendall's single Pass Time and found it on youtube, LOVED IT!!!! Can't to see it blow up on all the socials! Thanks for this talk, so glad I was lead to this exactly what i needed today!

    • @tearstoneactual9773
      @tearstoneactual9773 2 месяца назад

      I went and found it on Spotify. It's on my main playlist now. :D

    • @snehachoudhary4082
      @snehachoudhary4082 2 месяца назад

      yeaaa...i did the same ....it is so good dude

  • @yh5476
    @yh5476 Месяц назад

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @nandedkar_anjali
    @nandedkar_anjali 2 месяца назад

    Your words saved many lives ❤

  • @Lina-cy2yc
    @Lina-cy2yc Месяц назад

    Yes! When it comes to believing in yourself with me it ALWAYLS comes the moment I start to do things. So simple and I hate myself that on and on I have to fight it even thought I know:)
    The worst is just thinking and thinking and being stuck in my mind.
    The simpliest and the hardest thing is JUST DOING. Thank you for this video💜

  • @sfg206
    @sfg206 2 месяца назад

    Really powerful message, love it!

  • @Yellow-oc4sl
    @Yellow-oc4sl 2 месяца назад

    Amazing video thank you , I will be looking into what this is bc it's true , your right I we have to keep pushing there are days when it seems impossible but the key is to keep going the best you can, wow an enemy of our own selves is blowing me away with that fact , each time we do move forward it gets closer this video I will watch over and over it's good to know this and understand this thank you and God bless you mel

  • @haricharanvalleru4411
    @haricharanvalleru4411 29 дней назад

    Very useful video

  • @claudiapmuller5227
    @claudiapmuller5227 2 месяца назад +9

    May the Lord always be with you my beautiful and divine sister Evangelist Sarah for your inspiring prayers and your wonderful words of wisdom! 🙏🙏🙏❤️🙏🎉🎉🎉

  • @kathyeulert8062
    @kathyeulert8062 2 месяца назад +1

    OMG!! I love this message as well and learned this the hard way many years ago.
    In the Creed movies Rocky takes Creed over to full length mirror and tells him it's you against you. One step at a time one punch at a time one round a time you it's you against you punch the guy in the mirror out of the mirror to be the champion you want to be.

  • @yr259
    @yr259 Месяц назад +2

    #STAYHARD 🦾

  • @HAQ74
    @HAQ74 5 дней назад

    Thank you Mel
    New to your channel
    Love from Australia

  • @nicolasdeuschel3225
    @nicolasdeuschel3225 Месяц назад +2

    I agree we have to take action. But I am unsure about the constant fighting with oneself. It is just tiring at some point. It helped to get started but for me does not work for sustainable movement. Far better I think is "you and you together" not "you against you". Like a well meaning grandmother who knows what is best and determined but lovingly says "come on, I know you don't like it, but we have to do this, trust me - you will feel better after".

  • @AntonioDrakeMusic
    @AntonioDrakeMusic 2 месяца назад

    Thank you soooo much for this Mel!!🙏🏽 Needed this !!

  • @ayaanshgaikwad2019
    @ayaanshgaikwad2019 Месяц назад

    Amazing motivation...... Need u forever in my life

  • @rolandtravas4914
    @rolandtravas4914 8 дней назад

    Wonderful video Mel. I do follow David Goggins.

  • @xander8878
    @xander8878 2 месяца назад +1

    Hey Mel, this was exactly what I needed to hear at the right time. I own a home services buisnes and got into a funk this winter. I feel like video this helped me snap out of it. Thank you!

  • @uwu-rg7rk
    @uwu-rg7rk 2 месяца назад

    This video has helped me more than you realise. Thank you.

  • @ligabanka1047
    @ligabanka1047 5 дней назад

    Hi Mel!Love your podcast!
    Its so true, this video is came up on the right time for me, Im in dillema to apply for a higher position or not, because i know there is better trained people then me.But after hearing this Im going for it, thanks ❤

  • @knoxhobbylife
    @knoxhobbylife 2 месяца назад

    This video was awesome. Really helped me put a face to some of the struggle I am working through. Battling high school me. Keep after it everybody!

  • @carina.belmonte
    @carina.belmonte Месяц назад

    One of the best podcasts in this field. What a great episode Mel!

  • @andrewb2452
    @andrewb2452 Месяц назад

    Thankyou mel

  • @Fahim2256
    @Fahim2256 2 месяца назад

    Mel I read your book "The 5 second rule" and I must say it's best. I changed my life alot by implementing. Thank you. ❤

  • @ZombieSirenMusic
    @ZombieSirenMusic Месяц назад

    Man oh man 😮 I rarely leave comments, but this one really got me. When you talked about your story and how you were battling the fourth grade you. I realized I'm also battling the third grade me. Except it went on much longer on as much more severe. 😢 Not that it discounts your story at all! Thank you for this video. Now I know who I'm battling. Now I can win ❤

  • @FaaridIrfan
    @FaaridIrfan 23 дня назад +1

    Vision without action is merely a dream. ...

  • @kathyeulert8062
    @kathyeulert8062 2 месяца назад

    OMG!! Mel I just listened to Kendall song past time what awesome and great song I even screen shot the lyrics to the song. I love the song.
    High 5 to you and your daughter
    🖐😁👍🌷✝️🦅❤️❤️

  • @AJManol
    @AJManol 2 месяца назад +1

    Great video, very helpful😊🙌🏻

  • @mariannevanhalteren8547
    @mariannevanhalteren8547 Месяц назад

    I needed to hear this right now, thank you so much you are a true friend, I wished you would come and live next door to me I would never be out of your house ❤

  • @akbarrasouli-tl5xe
    @akbarrasouli-tl5xe Месяц назад

    Thanks a lot , that’s a great advice👏

  • @bypaula4714
    @bypaula4714 2 месяца назад

    Love you.

  • @market-mamas
    @market-mamas Месяц назад

    Oh girl! This was really powerful for me! I love this message and you presented it in a beautifully strong and empowering way! Thank you for this! 💪🏼🙌🏼🔥♥️🔊

  • @tracey-leemaass8853
    @tracey-leemaass8853 Месяц назад

    Fuu**, so good!! Woah!

  • @jeetkunedoseries521
    @jeetkunedoseries521 Месяц назад +1

    HELL YEAH!!!... David Goggins is FUCKING LIMITLESS!!!... as am I ... I can honestly and painfully say that I grew up in an environment and with a Father VERY similar to the way he did and how his Dad was... The beatings and everything... I was in the Army National Guard... And in Boot Camp they singled me out but because of My Physical Training (well conditioned) and I had a mouth on me... Lol... I'm saying this because I as well had PTSD from my childhood growing up and didn't even realize it until couple years ago... And I'm now 42... I have listened to his audiobook "Can't Hurt Me" a total of 7 times in the last year or so and just started his second audiobook book "Never Finished" for the second time... Check it these books they are a FUCKING Life changer
    #PUSHYOURSELF
    #MindControl
    #BeFuckingLimitless😎

  • @s.sanketha4048
    @s.sanketha4048 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks

  • @patriciabeacham7925
    @patriciabeacham7925 Месяц назад

    Hi Mel. My dad used to say fake it till you make it 🙏🦋

  • @keilavieira3949
    @keilavieira3949 Месяц назад

    Thanks!

  • @TallahasseeTonya
    @TallahasseeTonya 2 месяца назад +2

    This helped me so much. It's not that I'm not disciplined, and not that I lack principles. It's a daily battle that I am engaged in against myself.

  • @jazzsoul1695
    @jazzsoul1695 2 месяца назад +1

    I have an old voice that likes to hang up on me and say " Your gonna end up fat, frustrated and broke like your mother!". I've been speaking back to that voice MANY times a week. I don't even have to do it in the mirror anymore. " There's no room in me for failure ideas, being fat, lazy, having run-away little girl energy!" I say it to myself strongly. Then I listen to Mel Robbins, Joe Dispenza, Esther Hicks, Louise Hay, and others. Exercise and running to funky music. Fight the Power is a great song!

  • @Michelleb592
    @Michelleb592 7 дней назад

    The progress is painfully slow. Yet people don't handle sudden drastic change well.

  • @sreenikamoulik3884
    @sreenikamoulik3884 2 месяца назад

    I love Goggins❤

  • @bethmccormick4711
    @bethmccormick4711 2 месяца назад +2

    ~Can you kindly share his link!! …Thanks Mel!! Love Ya!! ❤

  • @amirtaufiq797
    @amirtaufiq797 2 месяца назад

    Mel you look great.

  • @sylviadailey9126
    @sylviadailey9126 25 дней назад

    Yeah man. You gotta take action BEFORE you can feel it! You gotta drink a couple of shots before you can feel the buzz!

  • @donnayoung4289
    @donnayoung4289 Месяц назад

    Yes this fear of putting myself out there is awful

  • @donnayoung4289
    @donnayoung4289 Месяц назад

    That's how I feel

  • @GodisGracious11
    @GodisGracious11 2 месяца назад

    Love you Mel! You’ve helped me so much!! ❤ how you feel about David Higgins I feel about you!
    I needed to listen to your wisdom and then this video popped up

    • @GodisGracious11
      @GodisGracious11 2 месяца назад

      I am applying to school 🙏🏻
      Does anyone know about scholarships for single moms ?

  • @Martin-lp3ky
    @Martin-lp3ky 2 месяца назад

    Paul mort is brilliant if you ever come across his stuff

  • @hayyuselfhelpclasses3813
    @hayyuselfhelpclasses3813 27 дней назад

    Blessed with baby girl

  • @RaySimmonz
    @RaySimmonz Месяц назад +1

    Hmm...but there is also space for thoughts and mindset. Once you heal your traumas, actions become more doable and you don't have to be consistently fighting yourself.

    • @sharonw1899
      @sharonw1899 Месяц назад

      How do you heal past trauma s😢

  • @ianlewis1180
    @ianlewis1180 2 месяца назад

    the like button was pressed within 3 seconds because you said David Goggins.

  • @HasinaMamtaz-rw1tr
    @HasinaMamtaz-rw1tr 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @RobinLaneLowe
    @RobinLaneLowe Месяц назад

    New subscriber ❤

  • @dorsan8491
    @dorsan8491 Месяц назад +2

    but can't this battle get you tired????

  • @Red23165
    @Red23165 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤

  • @Idildeeqa8
    @Idildeeqa8 2 месяца назад

    Yees❤

  • @davidgibson4007
    @davidgibson4007 18 дней назад

    It sure as hell will be too i can see the signs of it too

  • @keso_m
    @keso_m Месяц назад

  • @wexwuthor1776
    @wexwuthor1776 Месяц назад

    I just stopped and listened to Pass Time. It's very good. Young Kendall ought to enable comments. I'm sure the positives will greatly outnumber the negatives.

  • @lindamcadarra402
    @lindamcadarra402 2 месяца назад

    ? ❤Mel! Can we pre order Kendall’s song! And can I order some for Christmas present and my nursing home guest? ❤xo