22-Year-Old Mum’s Gentle Parenting FRUSTRATES Grandmother | Unexpected

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  • @Shynegaltemzyyy
    @Shynegaltemzyyy 3 месяца назад +137

    When she said “ugh baby brothers” was so cute haha

  • @SUN_MOON_SKY93
    @SUN_MOON_SKY93 3 месяца назад +369

    Dad is a walking red flag 😂

    • @ninas4968
      @ninas4968 3 месяца назад +8

      Yes 👏🏼

    • @kimberlyskye2024
      @kimberlyskye2024 3 месяца назад +10

      He sucks aha

    • @notplayinggames12
      @notplayinggames12 3 месяца назад +26

      So is her parenting 😂😂 she making shit hard for the both of them

    • @Day1lamb
      @Day1lamb 3 месяца назад +10

      He is just with her for the show and moneys once the money is gone- so is he. 👋 thag girl is very immature and should not have children

    • @justaperson_77
      @justaperson_77 3 месяца назад +3

      @@Day1lamb her being immature is the reason she had kids 🤣

  • @trublkbelle
    @trublkbelle 3 месяца назад +171

    She seems really patient and a better mom than many. Lawrence on the other hand. Something about him seems troublesome

    • @idalisjaramillo9833
      @idalisjaramillo9833 Месяц назад

      I have always thought that too!

    • @Texaslife98
      @Texaslife98 25 дней назад +2

      I’d rather this than her be abusive, but she does need to work on properly discipling her son because his behavior is only going to get worse. You don’t need to beat or scream at your kids to teach them properly. But you shouldn’t just let them do whatever either.

    • @CharmaineForrest-jh9fi
      @CharmaineForrest-jh9fi 8 дней назад

      ​@Texaslifi understand because I have a four and a half year old son but I cannot change my parenting I wish I had parenting skills but I am who I am we run of love and respect 👌💕 I'm aware that doesn't always work for a toddler but like I said I can't change I am who I am.. I grew up neglected and not cared for I over compensate now but I only use the word over compensate while texting you
      I am just me 🤷 much love 💕e98

  • @tomgolden7433
    @tomgolden7433 3 месяца назад +188

    you are not gentle parenting babe, you are permissive parenting.

  • @lorichaulk5583
    @lorichaulk5583 3 месяца назад +147

    They need parenting classes

  • @alyssanibert2105
    @alyssanibert2105 2 месяца назад +43

    Nah, she needs to stop letting that little boy run her house! Be a damn parent and gentle parent correctly

  • @aurellia222
    @aurellia222 3 месяца назад +131

    and the dad is no help.

    • @pinkpink-rp6re
      @pinkpink-rp6re 3 месяца назад +14

      Even if he tried she would shut him down.She clearly stated it's his role to make the money.

  • @noB313
    @noB313 3 месяца назад +189

    When Lawrence said he doesn't have the patience for that shit I felt it. And when Lilly said all she felt like she's done was raise babies since 16. Wtf did she think her life was gonna be like when you have kids so young or have them period.

    • @ninas4968
      @ninas4968 3 месяца назад +35

      He shouldn’t have had kids then.. 🙄 and it’s hard when your man is impatient and thinks he knows it all but don’t know shit.

    • @lizanorton2975
      @lizanorton2975 3 месяца назад +22

      And what did he think being a dad was going to be? She may have a lot to learn as a parent, but she is putting in the effort and trying her best. He just dismisses the kids and chooses not to do anything. Reality check even when you are the sole provider parenting doesn't end just because you work full time. They both need to learn and grow as parents not just lilly.

    • @asdfghjklpoi1529
      @asdfghjklpoi1529 2 месяца назад +10

      So you can sympathize with Lawrence but Lilly can go kick rocks?? 🙄 yeah sounds about right

    • @christengardner1466
      @christengardner1466 2 месяца назад +3

      Not sure if your a parent but, I got exactly what he meant as a parent but, I do sympathize with them both because becoming a mom shouldn't mean the end of your life all together or a parent in general. It's just what you make of it.

  • @Taylor112996
    @Taylor112996 3 месяца назад +94

    Man Lawrence was such a green flag at first and now he's the complete opposite 😬😬😬

    • @brooklynmcneely6741
      @brooklynmcneely6741 Месяц назад +2

      Came here to comment this

    • @mastermanifester8722
      @mastermanifester8722 Месяц назад +5

      He was never a green flag. He needs to go through anger management or something.

    • @Unpackyourthoughts
      @Unpackyourthoughts Месяц назад

      Lawrence was NEVER a green flag. I haven’t seen it.

    • @Taylor112996
      @Taylor112996 29 дней назад +3

      Idk maybe y'all watched a different show than I did lmfaooo but in the beginning he was the definition of a green flag, a total gentleman.

  • @emm6890
    @emm6890 2 месяца назад +43

    Something my mother used to say to me before i started really disciplining my kids is. "Of course you love your children. But you also have to discipline them, or else when they grow up, it'll be way too late, and they won't listen or respect you." And in some cases, raise their hand to you, i.e. hit you.

    • @christengardner1466
      @christengardner1466 2 месяца назад +2

      Agreed. I try my best to do gentle parenting but, my mom sometimes just let me know sometimes kids aren't so gentle lml😂😂

    • @cloroxbleach8661
      @cloroxbleach8661 Месяц назад

      @@christengardner1466It’s still gentle but it’s firm. Come pick up these chips you dumped all over the floor. Natural consequences. And explaining things to your kids. To see another is to teach another. Kids have to be taught to know there’s a time and place and that my feelings and actions are MY responsibility. It’s so complex but it’s not wrong. You don’t be firm and gentle but be permissive they won’t listen to anything you say by the time they hit their middle school years.

  • @madalxs
    @madalxs 3 месяца назад +50

    LOL when he said “when i get to touching on her and stuff he’s always like MOM BOOOOB!”
    LMFAOOO

  • @kaykay2004.
    @kaykay2004. 3 месяца назад +44

    “we cant have that, youll crash!”😭

  • @tamiko_8369
    @tamiko_8369 Месяц назад +10

    Mom stay out of it!! They will learn from their mistakes just like you did! That’s too much energy to speak into everything they do! Some things! Forget that dang gentle parenting! Be firm and loving! How hard is that!

  • @Readingindarknesss
    @Readingindarknesss 2 месяца назад +15

    I don’t think the new age parenting is necessarily the problem. It’s that nobody’s in agreement. He’s a hard ass and she’s a push over. And it’s even worse when you consider there’s a kid who’s not his in the mix.

  • @samanthageorge4531
    @samanthageorge4531 Месяц назад +12

    Wow, she needs to get stern quick, smart. The boy is jumping on lounges, spitting apple juice all over the car, whacking kitchen units. Climbing on the kitchen table. Is it your home or the playground? Your son doesn't seem to know how to behave appropriately.

  • @briahthompson
    @briahthompson 3 месяца назад +33

    They just need to communicate on their parenting plan they come from two different families and backgrounds

  • @emma22cutee1
    @emma22cutee1 2 месяца назад +36

    U have to put ur foot down when it comes to your kids believe me as a parent of now adults. It will come to bite you later on. If you don’t discipline your children then you don’t love them. ❤

  • @amberw6725
    @amberw6725 2 месяца назад +28

    Spare the rod spoil the child. A lot of people think that means physical punishment… it means punishment period there are consequences for negative actions.. children need to learn that at a young age or they’re being set up for failure. Especially the little boy he’s going to grow up and be perceived as a black man, self control needs to be taught for his protection. And yes I am a black woman raising a multicultural child.

  • @journeesmart4922
    @journeesmart4922 2 месяца назад +12

    How is she going to tell her mom that it’s okay for her son to spit apple juice in her car 😳 Lilly is way too entitled.

  • @florianehouenagnon4739
    @florianehouenagnon4739 Месяц назад +7

    The dad scares me. I hope this relationship doesn’t turn physical

  • @ValC-vn5vl
    @ValC-vn5vl 3 месяца назад +66

    I foresee a divorce

    • @sfletch3042
      @sfletch3042 2 месяца назад +2

      Doesn't take a psychic when most marriages end in divorce genius. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ValC-vn5vl
      @ValC-vn5vl 2 месяца назад +2

      @@sfletch3042 thank you for not being sarcastic and rude.

  • @ranizeltvay
    @ranizeltvay Месяц назад +5

    She’s confusing “gentle parenting” with “permissive parenting” 😅

  • @annastassiamartin8652
    @annastassiamartin8652 2 месяца назад +10

    He probably don’t want to get married at this point

    • @JayJayTravels
      @JayJayTravels Месяц назад +1

      That’s why you get married before having children

    • @annastassiamartin8652
      @annastassiamartin8652 Месяц назад +1

      @@JayJayTravels been married first doesn’t solve nth.

  • @lindsaystrawsburg8689
    @lindsaystrawsburg8689 3 месяца назад +13

    damn dad needs to say i got this and take LJ for the weekend while lily goes somewhere else so LJ doesnt have a choice

  • @lauramcinerney1559
    @lauramcinerney1559 3 месяца назад +23

    All these people including grandma are toxic.

  • @DJ-wp2lk
    @DJ-wp2lk 18 дней назад +2

    I think a lot of women confuse gentle parenting with NO parenting and just letting the child run wild cause it’s easier 🙄🙄🙄

  • @rebeccadavila6603
    @rebeccadavila6603 3 месяца назад +46

    This new age parenting 🤦

  • @user-st9pd6ux5i
    @user-st9pd6ux5i Месяц назад +3

    I really hope they realize that public school teachers will not put up with that behavior. Throwing themselves in the floor, hitting, kicking, screaming will not be tolerated in school.

  • @Yaa7700
    @Yaa7700 6 дней назад +1

    7:48 that high pitch “hay” is anger inducing

  • @mixdiva4203
    @mixdiva4203 Месяц назад +3

    I have a one and half year old boy and he listens better than that kid. At this point you gotta let the “gentle” parent act go

  • @rebeccadavila6603
    @rebeccadavila6603 3 месяца назад +60

    So you saying that this young lady stays home and doesn't drive, she basically still a teenager,she needs to listen to her mother and grow up,and get out there and get her driver's license and put the boy in pre k and get a job.that fiance of her's you can tell wasn't ready for no child.,he doesn't have the patience.🤦

    • @kimberlyskye2024
      @kimberlyskye2024 3 месяца назад +20

      @@rebeccadavila6603 I’m sorry but she’s being a stay at home mom to two kids… taking care of kids and a home is a job and it’s harder than a 9 to 5 a lot of times.

    • @AshleyNeco-pi8py
      @AshleyNeco-pi8py 3 месяца назад

      Not really ​@@kimberlyskye2024

    • @deevillarreal9475
      @deevillarreal9475 3 месяца назад +3

      Doesn't have, didn't want, not ready for all that they did this backwards had kids trying to grow up with them. Should have been way further this no back bone parenting, Mom talk's to 22 yo in a baby voice to 🙃 No adult guidance start adulting 😮 to patient, they don't learn with endless chances, kids need boundaries thrive with boundaries, New free range parenting 🤦🏽 these kids have no basis to behave.

  • @mamaj3539
    @mamaj3539 2 месяца назад +3

    I love how baby girl says baby brothers❤

  • @ravenbaa7989
    @ravenbaa7989 3 месяца назад +17

    Kid is a brat

  • @annastassiamartin8652
    @annastassiamartin8652 2 месяца назад +5

    Kids need discipline, structure and guidance. Gentle parenting don’t work. Smh not saying beat them but have some structure. I couldn’t do it

  • @justaperson_77
    @justaperson_77 3 месяца назад +8

    honestly the girl and here moms parenting should both be critiqued.
    The daughter is raising her kids gently like they are here siblings or like they are best friends. The daughter said that here mother is her best friend. That's not right.
    You as a mom are not there to be on the same level as your kids, you are above and beyond them. Your job is not to be al buddy buddy, but to actually parent and raise them so they grow up to be decent humans.
    By raising them so gently, you are just going to teach then that they can boss you around. As they grow up, they will keep doing what they want.
    That is probably why the daughter got pregnant so young, because she was raised to be friends with her mother and to feel like she had control over her mom, so she could do whatever she wanted.

  • @TheLovelyLexieOfficial
    @TheLovelyLexieOfficial Месяц назад +1

    So she has 2 kids, no jobs, no license so no means to leave the house and no one in her support system seems to build her up or be on her side they all seem to tear her down, pick her apart and blame her for everything. This literally seems like the perfect victim to control. I pray I’m wrong but I’ve worked with so many DV agencies this is not sitting right with me

  • @liacapa7239
    @liacapa7239 Месяц назад +2

    Ohh that guy … run girl run

  • @robyndavis7622
    @robyndavis7622 Месяц назад +1

    I'm so glad LJ is acting up for Lawrence after the agro he gave Aleeya when she was his age 😂

  • @VickieMarkovich
    @VickieMarkovich 3 месяца назад +17

    Keep your legs closed.

  • @themlj1
    @themlj1 Месяц назад +8

    Dad seems super fun and bubbly

  • @mattiadizard7431
    @mattiadizard7431 2 месяца назад +5

    Give the kid head phones with the tablet

  • @Monae6890
    @Monae6890 Месяц назад +1

    She’s a really good mom

  • @dollsNcats
    @dollsNcats 3 месяца назад +13

    Jesus Christ the way her 2 year year old is strapped in … no jacket in the car 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

  • @lindsaystrawsburg8689
    @lindsaystrawsburg8689 3 месяца назад +20

    lord 22 -- 2 kids and no license 🙈

    • @cloeshay87
      @cloeshay87 Месяц назад +1

      I'm 28, pregnant, and no license. I didn't have the luxury that most of you did of having parents teach you to drive or get you a car. And then when I was older I've been in two severe accidents causing trauma. Driving causes panic attacks. So does you driving make you that much more superior. There's reasons people don't drive and being critical over something you don't understand is just sad

    • @Trenton.D
      @Trenton.D Месяц назад +1

      @@cloeshay87ptsd is one thing but you’re 28. Grow up, be and adult, and do what
      You’re supposed to do. You can’t blame your parents for everything your entire life.

  • @takyraashelle4176
    @takyraashelle4176 2 месяца назад +6

    Aliyah is the cutest

  • @lacksobriety
    @lacksobriety 2 месяца назад +8

    This is a wreck lmfaoooo

  • @rinabitoni3746
    @rinabitoni3746 2 месяца назад +3

    That's pretty sad.. she's probably not going to do much else with her life. Smh

    • @Adryannaa
      @Adryannaa 2 месяца назад +2

      i mean now she has her own business 🤷‍♀️

    • @rinabitoni3746
      @rinabitoni3746 2 месяца назад +2

      @AdryannaWatkins-ic4nn So? A lot of people have a business. But my point was that it seems she probably won't ever go anywhere or do anything... like most people. Stay in the same town all their life and do nothing else.

    • @Adryannaa
      @Adryannaa 2 месяца назад

      @@rinabitoni3746 dude ur so dumb she has her own business and now lives somewhere else so obviously she’s doing shit with her life😂plus she lives in a damn near mansion

  • @GStreezy
    @GStreezy Месяц назад +2

    People ok to make babies but not getting married. You kids are backwards these days 😂

  • @StephenFisher911
    @StephenFisher911 2 месяца назад +3

    I get big sister vibes not mommy vibes

  • @MoonLightMysticals
    @MoonLightMysticals 20 дней назад +1

    They need to get that boy some help , he out of control , the daddy just sit there rubbing his head all day like he tired …don’t seem like he even do much . The mom does a lot of work . They should’ve took him to a park to let all that energy out

  • @isabellaross1472
    @isabellaross1472 2 месяца назад +10

    I’m sorry but her husband needs to grow up.He is not a partner in their relationship he is a burden

  • @KAYSWORLD365
    @KAYSWORLD365 18 дней назад +1

    Dad has a really bad attitude no love gross

  • @bethanycook8430
    @bethanycook8430 2 месяца назад +2

    Mom needs to be firmer

  • @ihuman7253
    @ihuman7253 2 месяца назад +2

    Cooking microwave bacon is only a weekend thing 😮

  • @MinhSen11
    @MinhSen11 5 дней назад

    These children are monsters, but definitely not their fault.

  • @ant41
    @ant41 2 месяца назад +2

    Yeah no, this type of stuff would not slide in my house hold…

  • @Hellokittylove324
    @Hellokittylove324 2 месяца назад +2

    Why can’t he play with a tablet while she drives? Is she that bad at driving

    • @adriana27100
      @adriana27100 Месяц назад

      Some people get over stimulation...autism can be as factor. I'm low end but I also like quiet while focusing. Her being a new driver, no sound or low sound is pretty normal even if she doesn't have autism, etc...

    • @jb5223
      @jb5223 Месяц назад

      She’s a new driver so I imagine it’s distracting/hard to focus on the road

  • @Cicero1
    @Cicero1 17 дней назад

    This is how entitled narcissistic adults are created. 👎

  • @ravenbaa7989
    @ravenbaa7989 3 месяца назад +7

    Terrible parenting

  • @kacistealey1297
    @kacistealey1297 2 месяца назад +1

    Why does it look like that little boy is in a seatbelt? He’s way too small for that!

  • @sfletch3042
    @sfletch3042 2 месяца назад +2

    THE "DAD" is a kid. He is a large baby like most men. Moms need WIVES😂😂😂😂

  • @EmmaWoodard-g7d
    @EmmaWoodard-g7d 27 дней назад

    As someone who is also breastfeeding a two year old this is so real 2:45

  • @carriegarcia4173
    @carriegarcia4173 3 месяца назад +27

    What the hell did she think having a kid at 16? Yes raising a kid is everyday all day, you spread your legs and got pregnant so yeah raising a kid for the next 18+ years is all you'll do. Grow up and get your license and a job. Try actually being a parent, your treating your kids like their your siblings and your not the mom. You let your kids do whatever whenever, they don't even know what NO means.

    • @toxicthoughts6923
      @toxicthoughts6923 3 месяца назад +2

      I agree she needs to try a new method to parenting but if that’s what they choose is for her to be a stay at home mom to make it easier on them and they can afford it fine I understand why it’s taken so long to get a license but her mom’s right she needs to focus on her a bit more so she can help herself and the kids she needs to learn gentle parenting doesn’t mean never saying no it’s about being responsive and still teaching your kids right from wrong while giving discipline where it’s needed and LJ definitely needs it

    • @kimberlyvarra4044
      @kimberlyvarra4044 2 месяца назад

      Yes….its definitely all her fault for “spreading” her legs…….the dude had absolutely nothing to do with it all right? It’s all her fault……you need to grow the F up!!!! Educate yourself before you go blasting someone!!!

  • @niasmith9197
    @niasmith9197 Месяц назад +1

    She's a child barely raising children with a hotheaded husband.

  • @Jennifer-b5o
    @Jennifer-b5o Месяц назад +1

    He's such a crybaby and a loser as a father.

  • @iheardyoulike7
    @iheardyoulike7 17 дней назад

    always trust your moms instincts

  • @tannehmckown2925
    @tannehmckown2925 2 месяца назад +2

    LJ is a no . 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @missykatipa7850
    @missykatipa7850 Месяц назад

    Lawrence is gonna end up with anger issues

  • @kaylasamaroo8128
    @kaylasamaroo8128 6 дней назад

    Caribbean parents watching this like 😭

  • @SPslash2011
    @SPslash2011 22 дня назад +1

    Ofc the toddler is an ipad kid😒😒😒 stop giving your kids ipads. Its lazy.

  • @stacieadams1403
    @stacieadams1403 2 месяца назад +1

    Im sorry that little boy needs home training and a stern role model or you will lose control. I don't trust your skills .

  • @Lovebugg444
    @Lovebugg444 14 дней назад

    Lmao she looks just like her mom. She needs to invest in her education or something while she’s raising her kids

  • @JeffreyAllen-b8j
    @JeffreyAllen-b8j 3 месяца назад +1

    Rosalind Flat

  • @cindyfriely1010
    @cindyfriely1010 Месяц назад

    Did she really put the ring on herself
    He was supposed to do that

  • @AzariW8
    @AzariW8 2 месяца назад +4

    What the baby tablet got to do with her driving?

  • @chelsealee2677
    @chelsealee2677 2 месяца назад +6

    22 with no energy

  • @seaden9387
    @seaden9387 Месяц назад

    What a brat

  • @LoLoLifeinFlorida
    @LoLoLifeinFlorida 2 месяца назад +1

    Kids need routine they need consequences for actions they need to be corrected you can't just let your kids do whatever you want or they're going to make your life miserable she clearly doesn't care what her mom thinks if she became apparent at 16 years old this is so scripted😂

  • @ravenbaa7989
    @ravenbaa7989 3 месяца назад +3

    Also she breastfed too long second one

  • @TJ-xg3rl
    @TJ-xg3rl Месяц назад

    watching this and reading these comments is why i think people should date in their own race... pretty sure, the dad doesn't have the patience to deal with their son because he lacks discipline. his mom literally lets him do whatever he wants, he doesn't listen/follow directions, and he's disrespectful. both parents have to be on board with "gentle parenting". and in most cases, there's no "gentle parenting" in black households. so i can understand his fustration with their son. heck, even her mom thinks their kids are out of control and doesn't agree with her style of parenting.

    • @patiwhit5219
      @patiwhit5219 25 дней назад +2

      or people could just learn how to properly raise kids. authoritarian parenting is just as big a flop as permissive. they both make adults with lots and lots of issues.

  • @missblueeyes420
    @missblueeyes420 Месяц назад

    Why does Lilly look so different???

  • @CharmaineForrest-jh9fi
    @CharmaineForrest-jh9fi 8 дней назад

    And this is why lily is a relaxed mum 'relaxed ' is a good wird by the way
    And ypyr mum calling ypu a kud thats ohr rageous
    Bet you was cooped up as a kid 😔
    Not doing the same with your own 🤗🌹💕

  • @Hellokittylove324
    @Hellokittylove324 2 месяца назад +2

    Only has a driving permit wtf lol

  • @ravenbaa7989
    @ravenbaa7989 2 месяца назад +2

    Brats

  • @HopeChilinjala
    @HopeChilinjala 3 месяца назад +5

    2nd

  • @Shynegaltemzyyy
    @Shynegaltemzyyy 3 месяца назад +1

    So wait is it dat her mum wanted her to b a baby mama forever or am I missing something

  • @Hellokittylove324
    @Hellokittylove324 2 месяца назад +1

    Breastfeeding a boy that old is just weirddddd

  • @Day1lamb
    @Day1lamb 3 месяца назад +3

    She doesn’t have her drivers licenses 😆