Every Woman's Greatest Fear
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
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There is nothing wrong with aging gracefully.
It's actually beautiful 🎉🎉🎉
Yes @@PinkClouds3835! We're better off owning it 😊
Totally! Men don't want fake women. Women are competing with other women, that is why they get surgery. Age gracefully ladies. Men like it.
@PinkClouds3835 no its not. its cruel. especially if you are beautiful. sorry but it's the truth.
The point is the disparity between women and men in aging. @@minzygreen1167
at 57 and post-menopausal, I realize that I no longer care what others think of me. Living to other people's expectations is a game you will never win. You will never be enough for most people and too much for others. Be yourself, and be content with the gift of life you were given and the uniqueness that you are. Beauty is a very fickle master, when there is so much in life that has NOTHING to do with how one looks.
@loreleirose7118. Brilliantly put!
You wait till your 60's! Absolutely the best decade ever. Nothing to prove and no fucks to give!!❤❤❤
🙂True. I agree 100%.lets celebrate each and every day and every moment we have free for ourselves 🍀
Wonderful 😅 totally agree
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Considering they understand themselves the most; it's amazing how ruthless women can be to each other!
What makes you think women understand themselves the most?
@@spindoctor6385 oh come on.....how many men have an easy relationship with introspection? How many consume self-help media? See therapy as an option? You do know men commit suicide at more than 3 times the rate of women? And they choose violence over mediation of interpersonal disputes at seventy times that of women? Those are NOT the statistics of an insightful gender.
Women can be very crass.
They said I would " catch men" if grew out my hair. I grew out my hair and all my friends (All women) now continually
Pester me to cut my hair.
It's all a game...and I'm not playing !.
If women I spend time with were asking what my husband thinks of my wrinkles and gray hair, I’d find better friends. They’re not asking out of concern for your marriage, these women a frenemies at best.
38 years married to same woman. Salty grey hair. I think she is beautiful. Thank u for honestly sharing. Helps me to understand my wife at this stage of our lives.
My better half turns 80 next month, and she's STILL the most beautiful woman on the planet!
She's definitely not, but at least to you she is
@@Brad-pc3bi ...and you "definitely" know this how? Beauty has always been, and will always be, in the eye of the beholder...and I have always had a good eye for the beauty in the world, and the beauty that lies beneath, lol!
@@Brad-pc3bilol, what an asshat. Of course she is, to him. That’s all that matters.
@@Brad-pc3bi
Who has the ultimate authority to decide and declare who is and is not 'beautiful'?!
Certainly NOT you. 😉😊
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Been married 46 years. My wife has aged so gracefully and is as beautiful as the first time I saw her.
💜💜💜
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Have you been to an optometrist lately ?
@johnshifler5439: I don’t know you from Adam, John, but I can tell you’re a keeper. Bless you and your beautiful wife.
@@mykoelder9223 I'm sure you are bound to ( think you are ) an Adonis when you are 75...
I am 62 and have natural long blonde hair, I am starting to loose my hair which is a big fear of mine. I have been single by choice for four years and had resigned to the reality that I will never be in a relationship again because quality men are just not out there, so it’s just me and my two dogs . I was content with my future and then a friend of a friend came to my work and asked me out. We are now planning our future together. All I want to say is be natural, content and happy with yourself first the rest will fall into place.
When my hubby asked me to stay home & raise our kids, I got bashed & called so many names by women & the men said I wish my wife would do that.""
We got over that fast. We didn't care what others said or did.
We went through that same scenario. My wifes female peers were really nasty about it and some were even in our church. Another stupid thing about it is in our town if you were a rich business owner your wife had to stay home and be in all the ladies clubs for appearances. That was ok though.
@@mikehiers3332 Sounds about right. I'm glad that you both chose what was best for you & your family
@@jst2708 good for you. I’m glad to see that some younger people are embracing this dynamic as well. Raising children is not a demotion. It is absolutely the most important thing you can do for your family and for humanity as a whole.
Quite honestly, I think it's the envy that they can live out their happiness as a mother. Many of them definitely don't want to go back to work so quickly, but they have to because it's usually not enough financially. Or they don't live according to their own needs in order to look perfect on the outside.afterMotto, I'm a power woman, I can do everything, look, work, family, etc. But deep down they unconsciously suspect that it's too much and that they actually want to concentrate on their role as a mother and their family. Hence the envy of mothers who can live it out.
@@craigallmendinger8404well, it’s the best thing for humanity unless those kids are raised to be bigoted, racist, bullies or authoritarian replicas of parents who think it’s fine to trample others’ freedoms and rights, who believe that the end justifies the means even if it’s corrupt or that it’s ok to tell others they must follow the prescripts of a religion that they don’t believe in whether they like it or not. In that case it’d be better for humanity that both parents work and let the kids get a balanced public education
My wife is sixty. All I want from her is to stay healthy as possible.
Your wife married wisely. 😊
I'm right there with you. Mine is 62, and I'm praying I can last to be beside her for another 20 years.
You got it right
Well she got real lucky finding someone like you!
@@guylaraway6102👉🙄😂🤣
There’s nothing better to wear than confidence!
Ignorance often masquerades as confidence.
Every thumbs up is from a delusional woman.. confidence is most often confused with arrogance and that’s ugly..
Hmm dirty mind kicking in lol NOTHING but confidence?
You can't just wear it.
It has to be real.
True
Ageism is the last discrimination that is unchallenged and is actually accepted and encouraged by society.
My wife has treated me with love and respect throughout our marriage and I have done my best to return the same. After 42 years of marriage, our natural progression of aging is not a barrier to our companionship. Marriage is imperfect but rewarding as we grow older.
She's a beautiful woman
You guys say that about every woman, doesn't really have any meaning.. why not just say she has a good personality
@@samsonizya major part of a beautiful woman is her personality! The personality can make a ugly woman beautiful,or a n
Beautiful woman ugly! So yes! She's beautiful! The question is, just how beautiful are you? Without makeup, without sleep, without a bad attitude! What makes you beautiful? And with just a few seconds hear we see that this woman is beautiful!
Absolutely
@@samsonizyHe is just saying that she doesn't need to fear that she is unattractive because she is attractive.
Shallow people only see beautiful from a skin deep perspective. Yes she is a beautiful woman but in many ways . Intellectual intelligence stands out to me and everything else is a bonus 😊
She is drop dead gorgeous and delightfully aware
🙂😎
I wish woman could be more supportive of each other.
Exactly.
Took 3 hour for her.
Makeup, hair, clothes
Me naturally beautiful
Men like it😊
That's going a bit far in your estimation tbf. She is slightly above average for her age
Beauty is only skin deep. After 45 years,I love my wife for her sincerity,kindness,honesty and dedication. She has a beautiful heart and makes me smile when I look at her. I am so fortunate.
I find it ironic that the meida and women paint men as toxic and dangerous when women are the toxic ones and are way more savage than men.
@davevang893 dave...men are very toxic...most of them. You haven't been watching the news. Men do most of the crimes
Classic projection
I'm an old guy. Nothing more attractive than a confident, graceful woman that's not afraid to love her age.
Exactly my point! A woman should never fear not being f***able. There'll always be men who'll do you!
She's telling the truth! God bless her!
She's NOT telling the truth. Those questions are not absurdity, as decades long research on the two sexes show how women evolved to search for providers and protectors as their biology renders them extremely vulnerable for child rearing. Of course they're hard wired to be hyper aware of their vulnerabilities and time sensitive ability to have children and a family
@@gregorygan2077 A civilised society trumps evolution.
Beautiful woman. .hope she isn't insecure 24 7 365. Yes you are fuckable.
She's not a man, so how would she know the pressures and fears men do, or don't have.
She's lost, she has no clue about truth...
As a seventy-two year old woman, I can honestly say that I couldn't give a rat's ass about what anyone, man or woman think about my looks,,,,I am the Divine Feminine,,,,I am women, hear me ROAR 💪💪💪
That’s why I am divorced. I don’t want to hear a woman roar at me anymore lol.
@@danielhammond3218 😅
Lol 😂@@danielhammond3218
FACTS!!! @@danielhammond3218
“Men don’t get asked these things” Spot on! The double standards are real.
No, men just get constantly disrespected by women.
Did you listen? She said the “double standard” is largely women critical of other women.
The people asking women these things are other women… there isnt a double standard.
Have you been sacked for a false allegation?
Oh, that's right, you're a woman
@@jefferytokarsky1930 Huh??? I don’t know what women she is around but most women do not ask those kind of questions. I don’t know what she’s talking about.
I remember seeing the cover of a magazine with jlo on it years ago in my 40s, and i said to my husband, " Look how amazing she looks." And my husband's response was, " she has millions of dollars, she can afford personal trainers, plastic surgery, the best face creams, massages, etc, etc.... you're the same age as her, and without all those things and you look amazing... just stop eating so much fast food, and you'll look better than her. " i totally appreciated that
Don't compare yourself to him.
Lovely man!! He's so right and he loves and appreciates you too!!
A little tip from a man. Women are way more concerned about these things then most men. The things matter most is that you are kind and thoughtful, not mean or overly materialistic. That you love those around you and nurture them. That you aren’t a narcissist. Sure, it helps if you don’t just let yourself go, but we all get older everyday. Looks fade,loving and caring shouldn’t.😊
everything was perfect until the remark about fast food 😐
@markabbott2281 yes. Thank you, so true
She's so right! I had women telling me to dye my hair black again, I laughed, men tell me all the time that they love my hair, who cares what women think! I don't date women 😆
Exactly men don’t care about any of that stuff it’s always women. I recently stopped shaving and I’ve gotten stares from other women but men don’t care at all. Women just be hating on each other.
I think it's dangerous to think that it's one gender that reacts negatively to aging women. We're often so caught up in the "catty women" stereotype that we only remember notice women reacting. Maybe it's because their reactionsv are not verbal. Women talk more openly about it, but it's usually men who leave their wives and mothers of their children who got them through the most difficult times in life for a younger, prettier model. It's often male bosses who fire aging women or drive them into quitting by sidelining or even harassing them.
@@e.458Agreed 💯
@@e.458 😊You've made two excellent points. The husbands might NOT talk about it, but trophy wives are a real thing.
Male bosses may well be driven to push aging women out of the workplace too, but frankly they would likely be as quick to discard men they decided were past their prime too. That fact might have to do more w/the combination of aging & their agreeableness. Corporate life is brutal. Could fill a book w/behind the scenes gender inequities. It's 💯% Swimming w/the Sharks🦈.
Know first hand about sexism being alive & thriving in corporate America. Reported to an EVP/CFO of a fortune 500 entertainment company. He was quite savvy at financial negotiations. That same skill was something he greatly admired in male candidates, but highly resented in female ones. Coining sexist nicknames for the women who were using the EXACT same strategies in the same manner.
It was welcomed & encouraged for males to be direct & unrelenting about making the best deals, but in women their male counterparts were likely to resent that behavior. Male management prefered that the females flirt, cajole, & play to male ego to make advancement for any reason.
😼Met a lot of catty & competitive women in my day. Few want to uplift others w/compliments or atta girls. Sadly, most females in the corporate realm seem quicker to contaminate relations w/other women instead of contribute to their actual professional growth & development.
💚Bridget from Cali☘️
(using my pal's YT acct)
And women 80%of the time
are the perpetrators of divorce.Family breakers.
I just want to live as long as I can. As long as I have my health and my mind is stable, that will be a great life.
I think they were threatened by your natural beauty. Keep shining!
One of the advantages of aging is that all that crap you worried about never really mattered.
Exactly, very true words! What a relief.
I'd NEVER intentionally insult a woman's appearance
I wouldn’t either! If I did and found out I would sincerely apologize. Hell, I got severely burned on my face when I was 8. It’s been 52 years, but the scars will never go away. I know exactly how it feels to get teased for your looks or be called scarface.
@Tom-hz9oc .... sorry you had to experience that...but you're a survivor. Kids can be cruel, but adults are inexcusable .
I’m a better man because of it! I dated my high school sweetheart off and on for 7 years before we got married, and in September we’ll celebrate our 37th anniversary! I’m the one that won!
I have and I'm proud of it. Women need to remove body piercings, it's not attractive. Aside from that, I only insult those that wear a lot of makeup because I believe a woman is probably good looking without it.
There's a woman I know but we don't see each other often but I still keep up with her Instagram. I think she is pregnant but I absolutely don't want to ask her coz if she is not, that would be awkward
65 and fearless! There is nothing left to be afraid of at this point
The fear often has a basis in reality, especially at work. My age, my appearance, and particularly my losing my patience for BS and willingness to defend my coworkers made it hard for me in the workplace. I finally got out. But yes, I like her attitude. I like what I’m seeing above. You reach a point where you know it doesn’t matter nearly so much anymore what others think of you. It matters more how you feel about yourself.
If a woman EVER had the unmitigated cheek to ask me about my wrinkles there would be a problem. Many years ago some “friends” told me I shouldn’t let my hair go grey.
I’m now silver, and loving it. and they’re still dying their hair and they just look like old ladies who dye their hair. It doesn’t fool anyone.
Good for you. Nice haircut and grey looks fine imo..
I'm almost 50 and I refuse to cover my grey.
silver foxettes. 😉
Carpets and drapes...carpets and drapes 😅
I agree! There comes a point that you need to accept the grey. Women passed 60 still dying their hair starts to look tacky, especially if they continue on with the same colour they had when they were 20. If it makes them feel good though…who cares I guess. It’s kind of the same back, they shouldn’t be telling you to dye yours but you shouldn’t be telling them not to dye theirs either. We all should just do what we want and the heck with everyone else.
She’s 100% accurate!
I don't think so!
Weakness is a CHOICE!!!
No, she worries about totally superficial things, and listens to the wrong shallow people
@@andrewcooper-barnes6165 There seems to be SO many shallow people though. Not sure if it's more of an American thing or whether it's all over the world. I actually feel truly blessed to have become disabled in the past 10 years! At least I don't have to feel threatened that my aging might affect my income. Especially since I was in a career where fast pace is revered.
@christelhain shallowness seems to be a Western pandemic in this day and age sadly
I don't know who this woman is, but she's quite the beauty, in my opinion. Her point in making the video was not to brag about her looks, but I for one am happy to say that she looks really great, and probably better than anybody in her school or in her company when she was younger.
Please, whatever you do, ignore the advice to make your lips puffy like a black person's. Your lips look really beautiful just as they are. Don't change anything.
I would add, as to your overall message, while I'm sure you're absolutely right about women's fears, I don't think you're somebody who has those fears at all. You needn't.
I'm 66 been with the same woman for 30 years. You look beautiful and the most wonderful thing is a woman aging gracefully. You are killing it😊
It's women that put women down, not men.
Then you must never read comment sections, especially if you're the only woman in the thread.
@@sharonmassey2923Ma'am, this is the internet. When it comes to face to face and behind the back shit talking its always women starting drama, they love it and need it. They're also fundamentally broken in that respect.
@@JV-io3nn men say it to each other about women, but are hypocrites to women's faces, in many cases. I've seen and heard this in action. 🤦🏻♀️
@@GypsyGirl317 I've tried to reply twice to JV, and both times my reply disappeared, so I'm going to try responding to him via your post.
One experience that no man has had is being the lone woman in a comment thread of men, the same feeling as coming across a pack of men, but less dangerous, of course. I remember one thread in particular, that I would have feared for my physical safety if I'd had this "discussion" with these "men" in person. As usual, men don't know what they're talking about when it comes to women's lives, and it would be best if you'd all keep your stunning ignorance to yourselves until you do, and LISTEN...for a change.
Fact.
I’m a school teacher. I see this in all the female students and it has been increasing every year over the past ten years.
Yes, I work with younger woman-and they are more insecure than ever 🥲
I, too, am a school teacher and I don’t see this in all or even most of my female students. Then again, I teach 5th grade. Do you teach older students?
A big reason? Connectivity. Yes, I can’t seem without my smart phone, streaming at my fingertips, social media. But as a young, vulnerable girl it would have been 10x harder to ignore all the “influencer”’ constantly in your face, ads for all the latest & greatest hair, skin, beauty product, exercise equipment, surgery etc!! I am in my early 60’s now and truthfully I never was one to give into social norms, still don’t wear makeup on a daily basis (rarely, really) yes I have “laugh lines” and “crows feet” but don’t give a rats behind! I have lost weight but that is much more of a health focus, not vanity. I’m not saying I don’t like to look good, I have always enjoyed that, but on the other hand, I can be perfectly happy in my pjs everyday! I have also given up dying my hair although now & then I like to have a pop of purple or pink now & then for good measure! Live your days in happiness & gratitude, we are in this earth for a finite amount of time & pleasing everyone else is impossible!! Love yourselves!!
Women need to get off Facebook and Instagram. You get in your feed what you consume. The internet bogus.
Hang out with your real friends, not someone on Facebook that you haven't seen in 35 years.
If you wanna change that, then close their minds to feminism and tell them to stop chasing porn and onlyfans.
Sooo true… thank you for pointing it out!
I have good friends they don’t ask me shallow questions like that they accept me for myself not what I look like. After listening to this I’m a very lucky person.
Listen to what she said, Men compliment her, women criticize her. We all know who’s the problem…
As a woman, I learned not to trust other women at a very young age. Conniving, manipulative, demeaning…it’s BAD. They will try to make you feel like crap on purpose simply because they’re insecure about themselves…funny how that works!
In society, it’s men though. All the older men dating, staring at and reacting to young women…it keeps giving us this message even if you aren’t saying it to our faces. The way men treat us also changes as we age. We become invisible past 40.
I actually enjoy not being constantly harassed but some women are really effected by it. So it’s absolutely men as well…as much as you like to think you’re flawless lol. It’s a people problem not a gender one. Basically…we all just suck 🤷🏻♀️
No, I don't know
But I also don't care
Not anymore for many of years, even decades...
@@supernova11711 we're not flawless. No one is. It's all just insecurity or people wanting to make themselves feel better. Once you know that, you can see past the BS pretty quick.
@@supernova11711I see everyone, but then I'm weird...be well
Yes, we do. It's all relative. I trust old ladies because they will tell you the truth. Men will insult you if you're beautiful and insult you if you're ugly. I've never been insulted by a woman my age, aside from my sister when I was a kid, but that's to be expected between siblings.
Finally a Natural Woman not fearful of modern beauty standards. She is lovely and intelligent without lip injections, liposuction, fake breasts, fillers, nose reconstruction.
She’s gorgeous, though. Most women her age don’t look nearly that good.
@@Susan_FI know I don't...lol But I also don't care much as long as I'm healthy and feel good on the inside.
I understand all those fears,.I live them everyday! Thanks for the wisdom!
So glad you resonated with this. Thanks for sharing 💜
men have fears of aging too, women need to support each other. find other power from your beauty. like grace. grace is powerful and beautiful
Funny how her fears seem to grow as she ages. Mine are actually shrinking. The older I get, the less I care what people think of me or whether I'll keep my job or not. The old "I am too old for this sh*t" really has set in.
😂. For me too it is a wonderful excuse.
Amen!!! And thank you!
Yep, I'm not even forty, and I have an increasing sense of, "If they don't like me, so what? I'm not everyone's cup of tea; just like there's plenty of folks who aren't MY cup of tea." I am learning to find and focus on my tribe, my kindred spirits, and be cordial to everyone else.
I’m happy there is an off ramp, and will be happy to leave a world full of lies and hate. There are some joys here. But living with bad people for decades that create so many unnecessary issues, is something I will not miss. That makes leaving here fearless. People are cruel here. Selfish. I would be more afraid to be forced to stay here. 😂
I don’t think that’s what she’s saying.
She’s beautiful! Imperfections don’t take away from beauty they merely enhance it!
@@johnmilligan2964 nope
Define 'perfect'.
Define 'imperfections'.
Who has the ultimate authority to decide and declare what is or is not 'perfect'?!
@@trueaussie9230what we call imperfections and blemishes aren't the absence of beauty but instead evidence of life lived.
Due to a genetic passed through her mothers family my wife started to go gray at 16. Byv24 she was, if not for hair dye completely gray, as were her brothers. When I met her 30 some odd years ago she was coloring her hair as all her female ancestors on her mothers side had done since Santa Anna's first term as El Presidente de Mexico. Shortly after we got married I told her that she did not need to continue to dye her hair, at least not for me to be attracted too her. She continued to do so anyway for a few more years and then one day she asked if I'd noticed how thin her mothers hair was getting. Her mother was also still dying her hair and after 45 years the chemicals had taken a toll, so of course I'd noticed. I told her yes, i have noticed it. Then I told her straight up, "I know you're self conscious about having gray hair, but if you keep dying it you'll be self conscious about having no hair a lot sooner than you think, so which is worse, gray hair or no hair? Please, stop dying, accept the gray hair God blessed you with and understand Ill still be chasing you around the house trying to get some long after you think its fun, regardless of the color of your hair. Besides, you know I'm too busy staring at your butt to pay attention to your hair color." With that she was totally gray in under two months. Her female friends and relatives were not supportive at all. They asked what I thought about it, and isn't she worried about me finding a young "Sancha" . When she told them, "I would be if he ever stopped staring at my ass and grabbing my boobs for more than 5 minutes, but apparently he either hasn't noticed or doesnt care what color my hair is because he still chases me in the daytime before he catches me at night." Her hair stopped being their concern and the fact that their own husbands were not chasing them the way I was chasing my wife became their new concern.
Now, some years later, at 61 years old her hair is as white as fresh snow. Its so white if shes driving her car and Im driving te opposite direction I literally spot her hair before I notice it's her car coming towards me. I'm 54, when I get a haircut it looks like someone shaved a badger and my beard is a solid light gray, but my body has aged far worse due to a rough physically hard life, military service, and stupid crap done while young that I'm paying for with interest now. Ive got scars on my face, hands, arms, legs, and chest. Kidney and heart issues (inherited) and have been asked multiple times if Vietnam was the war I fought in by people my age or older including a couple of Vietnam veterans. It's pretty obvious which of us is aging more gracefully. Shes 61 and could pass for 55, 50 if she wore makeup which shes never been really big on doing. Im 54 and look great for a 70+'year old man. I honestly dont think either of us has let age change a single thing about our feelings.
Im a chunky gal & I have white hair. My hubby tells me all the time how much he loves me & how beautiful he thinks I am. Going on 39 years😊
Women also sometimes live longer because they address issues that men let slide.. it's all about balance
As an African woman, we don't really share these fears, so I think cultural context sets the tone for how we perceive the process of aging. Yes, we still want to look our best but youth is not hero-worshipped that much because it's so fleeting and short lived. Aging is revered and a privilege to experience, and shows you have lived and loved.
Finally a voice of reason and context. I agree- white women are hysterical about aging.
Preach! I totally agree with you...these fears are not at all prominent in the black community.
God bless you ☝️
@@JM-dn8yg Thank you. Blessings to you as well🙏🏾
Black don't crack. Ever. I'm white as a sheet. But black women are gorgeous. Some of you are flawless. It's amazing.
The most beautiful things in life are not always seen with the eyes but are felt with the heart.
Her honestly and assertiveness is very attractive. She is perfect the way she is.
You are absolutely right in that women are harder on women. WTF We should be supporting each other.
You won't though cos you're emotional creatures.
Depends on which kind of women, and depends on which kind of man
@@Flakz911- Humans are "emotional creatures."
I find men are much worse than women. I've never been insulted or treated badly by a woman as men have done. Some of the things men have said to me were horrific. Women have always been kind, or silent. I can count on one hand the number of times women have been rude to me. With men, I lost count. In fact, it has only been the past 5 years since I've gotten older that men don't dare open their mouths to me anymore.
@@c.g.bspendersashtray3037Right! So tired of men accusing women of being "too emotional".
Honestly what She said is true, I had this fear inside me since I was 12
Your 'fear' comes from your absence of self-worth and your reliance on others to approve and 'justify' your existence.
Why did/do you give them such power over you?!
The key is confidence. I know we have all known someone that has that X factor that makes them so attractive even if they aren't the most physically attractive person.
My lady don’t worry about it just worry about your attitude and disposition. Those are what will make a man not interested in you. You are an ATTRACTIVE WOMAN
I retired last year. I’m 66. Have never been happier. I’m grateful that men are leaving me alone. I have always been shy and awkward especially when the wolves were always lurking. Me and my husband have been married almost 30 years and I think this is the happiest I’ve ever been.
It's wonderful to see these words. ❤❤
Great perspective. Just learn some grammar however. “Me and my husband …”?
It’s not every person that will honor a promise. It’s a lot of work to keep them, and even doing everything right, does not guarantee they will continue with your joint plan decades later. Your husband is lucky. Not all people find a person that will keep their word.
@@bianchaesson1441 you know when I wrote that I thought I should put my husband and I. But that’s how I talk so that’s what I decided to write. Thanks for the grammar lesson.
@@Alady-ou2wv I think you replied to the wrong person 🤔
This woman is spot on!
This woman looks fine. Her looks isn’t the reason she won’t get a man it’s her attitude.
I experienced age discrimination the first time I applied for a part time job at a bank (post retirement from grocery) and the 19 year old woman I used to work with who always called out got the job over me when I was the one with 35 years experience in cash handling.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
She’s stunning
It’s absolutely true that other women are by FAR our biggest critiques. It’s deplorable. Stop bringing other people down because of your own insecurities!
Love this woman! 🎉❤ sooooo true.
You nailed it! I admire you ❤️ I noticed that in my 50s I was turned down for jobs. Despicable and discriminating.
Be alone it is magnificent..sublime
ABSOLUTE ❤
I've only ever been alone. It blows my mind how merciless women are towards men they don't want (the vast majority). I've never been able to have a girlfriend and I have zero confidence even talking to women. I've stopped trying to pursue relationships because I don't want someone to settle for me. I don't want to bother anyone. I've made positive changes and have had women complement me and talk to me, but I don't have the confidence or even the vocabulary to be loved or vulnerable.
If you can be in a relationship be grateful for it. I understand toxic relationships are worse than being alone, but I assure you that's not all there is.
I want to be a good father and have a family one day. I hope I can make it happen.
I just don't want to see people alone as I am.
Best of luck to you.
@@thelearningentrepreneurfirst love yourself and the right woman comes. This is true, not a cliche.
63 years old here. She is absolutely spot on.
Such an interesting empowerment perspective! Go feminine fearless women ❤
Her fears were caused by other women covertly telling her shes ugly.
"Women understand other women and hate eachother"
I love this woman’s honest, natural appearance. As an older man, though, we have almost all those same fears. Balding, I also have then lips, the same age fears over jobs, the list goes on and on. Getting older isn’t easy.
At 59 many women tell me my silver hair is pretty, but men aren't paying much attention.
I know just what you mean!
I don't know where you live but here in the Belgian countryside, lots of men LOVE women whom face and body tell their story.
The more sillicone, make-up and plaster, the less respect. Oh, they get attention from the young dudes, that's true but lots of the 'adult males' (are we ever adult?🤔) just love to talk, laugh, go out with women who have experience in live.
The connection, sharing a laugh and a tear, it all makes so much more sense.
@johancreemers6796 This is very true, and I believe everywhere (even here in Texas). But what was left out of this account, the stuff you'd mentioned, and maybe a couple hundred pounds...???
We do pay attention but don't comment as men are constantly told its ' creepy' to talk to women.All we are ever told these days that we are bad so we don't bother anymore.
I've met women who ate absolutely sexy with silver hair. I even see very young ones dye their hair a platinum silver, and some of them are hot!
She’s awesome. ❤❤
I feel this and I’m 35
Her hair is wonderful
Thank God I judge people by their actions
Gray hair and aging gracefully is a sign of confidence to me in an older woman. Confidence means a well adjusted happy person usually. As I get older, less drama and more fun is the most attractive to me in a woman. Thank you for your outlook, talk more women into it.
She is absolutely correct
This is the kind of reasoning that's truly a breath of fresh air. I applaud this woman for being the best she can be without resorting to artificial sweetners for the body.
That was straight forward!
Honest conversation is the only way to overcome these concerns
Your a fine wine, my lady, a prize amongst women, your diction embellishes your natural beauty
I lost my wife in 2015 she was not a real beautiful woman but she loved me and i loved her beauty's only skin deep and i sure miss her 😢
As a widowed woman in my 50’s .. she speaks truth!!
Paula, I think you are on to something. If you are a woman in your 50s and single, dating can be rough and disappointing.
@@marasegal1849 it can be rough and disappointing for both sexes. You may be looking for the wrong kind of man.
@@danielhammond3218 With age comes experience. Sometimes our experiences end up turning into our baggage. It is challenging to find someone with very little baggage. Integrity, trust, and honesty is hopefully what comes from our experiences. Being wiser and more discerning in the choices that lay before us.
Thank you 🙌 I wish more women would be more supportive in this way !! 🎉
Dude I LOVE THIS. When I get grey hair, I want to grey proudly.
Depressingly sad, but true.
Rock that gray, and to the women that tell her to get surgery for this and that... ignore them.
It's called self love❤️
Self love negates, and neutralizes, fear, and it's delicious 😋
Yes! 💜💜💜
Bottle it you'll make a mint.
Some is fine. Too much becomes narcissistic self obsession and is the main problem with modern western culture. We need to find balance - love of other and God are also required for that.
@OtherSideAus Self-love is never narcissistic. It is simply removing the negative and toxic beliefs, thoughts and feelings within and replacing with peace, joy and love.
Self love in isolation is a myth and destructive.
Your love of self is SO THAT you train yourself in virtue to sacrifice for others. That is what love is.
I think she's absolutely beautiful! Perfect!!
Let me tell you... once you lose those fears... it is so damn freeing!! ❤❤❤
I quit worrying about that crap a long time ago. Now the only thing I worry about as far as aging, is being able to physically keep up with a job so I can provide for my household. But, I'm also looking into working for a company that will pay for my college, so I can have a chance at getting a sit-down job for when my body just can't hack it anymore. 🤷♀️
She is beyond attractive. The way she holds herself and her presence is fetching. Its not about hair or wrinkles.
It's charisma.
No, it’s about her physical beauty. A homely woman could not speak this way. She’s been beautiful all her life, that where she’s centered and from which she draws her confidence.
I know some very beautiful women friends who have zero confidence in themselves though. So I don’t think it’s that simple. Also, what you call “homely” (🫣) women can have tons of confidence. Just being able to be your authentic self is the ultimate confidence booster I believe. Make up or not.
It seems unfortunate to value image over character, beauty is only skin deep.
And she has studiously crafted her appearance to look like she didn't studiously craft her appearance.
I do think you're right, but I also think she's completely right.
@@joshuapierce3085She is right when speaking about herself, but not necessarily others. Although umthey are common hang ups, at some point you have to admit you aren't young anymore. Lol
She’s fabulous.
I also don’t think she’s wrong.
I’m 65 and mostly had guy friends all my life. Girls and Women were just to catty for me. My one and only girlfriend has passed. My husband is seven years younger and we hit it off great. Will be married 30 years. He loves me for me. Good, Bad, and Ugly. Women want to tell you What to wear or how to dress. How to do your hair or dye it. How to wear makeup or why aren’t you wearing any. How to run your relationships or why aren’t you in one. Even on U Tube. It’s everywhere. It’s truly over whelming. So all I can say is. I’ll dress the way I want. Eat what I want. And makeup when I want. And if none of this isn’t good enough for you then don’t look at me and keep walking. Life’s too short for fake friends. My friend that passed loved me for what I was and wasn’t. Same for me. Real friendship is a blessing. Love to all. God Bless. ❤️❤️❤️
You had me at fear of being f*able
Fearless is the key
people act like graduation is the last day of highschool but you're just entering big league play
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Love this woman!! By the way she is gorgeous 😊
There's less fear when you de-center men and give yourself the love and validation that you desire.
BAM!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
She was talking about women judging other women, but you say it’s men at fault for that.
@@arangillespie She's not saying men are at fault. The women who are judging her are centering men and men's opinions (your husband would like that). Decentering men means not making decisions on the basis of what men think about her appearance.
Amen!
@@bexbexbex11I disagree. A lot of women are profoundly insecure and when they see a woman who accept herself they have to take shots at her. Their not jealous of her looks they are jealous of her peace.
I’m so Blessed. I’m 65 and married to a man 15 years younger. He and I have created the most wonderful life together. We never think about age. Yes, I’m looking older but we have such respect for each other that it goes beyond looks. It’s must deeper and spiritual.
Poor guy 😢
That's wonderful!
That's wonderful!
@@silverpenn3809poor you! 😂
@@alisonf6478 😘
Im 55 and I have never dated or married my age, my wife is 30, but this lady is so well spoken and has aged so well....she probably has allot of guys checking her out...i would.
So you are proving those fears to be correct?
@@djlivvy46 nah....I ALWAYS dated and married at least 10 years younger. I never sought women so I'm not sure why it panned out like that. If I met a woman like this one who is obviously not off her rocker, takes care of herself, isn't a druggie, has good conversation, wants a physical relationship and is loyal....I would grab her up. These days I see women my age and I rarely see one that takes care of herself. I'm old, 5'10 and weigh 180. I put in my pushups and arm curls EVERY day in order to stay somewhat firm. Doesn't take much to stay firm for all of us.
Attitude is probably what kills it for allot of women. My next door neighbor, rip, was in his 70's , very active, full head of hair, successful and overall good person would only date women. I asked him why he never remarried, wife passed, and he said....drama. Blew my mind because he did date every now and then. I get it because I've been with a female that had CONSTANT drama and it was just so stressful and, in our later years, we just don't need that drama. Just my personal thoughts.
I really like this gal. She's lovable.
Never say “all”. Not all women have this woman’s fears.
That's true. All cat ladies can attest to that.
Most do
Most do.
Well said.
Exactly. Many women do not have such fears
It's sad women attack women so much.
RIGHT!!!
I have stopped trying to be close friends with women because of the backstabbing and betrayals. When it was CHURCH WOMEN doing it, I was DONE!
Women are nasty to each other!!!
@@mare678 often church women are the worst.
Yep
Chose better friends. My friends give compliments, and I do the same. 😊
Correct analysis’
She is beautiful.
Men have it easy.
Somehow we have shorter lives than women.
Hmmm...
Curious.