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Well....this is my first time seeing you Miss Anna. Very good video! The person I thought was this person after 6 years left. Seeing you video, I know a couple of these qualities just weren't there...such as trusting my decisions and listening and sometimes just overall disrespect. Made it hard to feel like an equal and if anything it should have been the other way around. Is what it is. Really wanting my soulmate...Anna??
Good luck finding one that's not taken and that is at least a 7 that also checks those boxes - especially in the gynocentric West. Do you really want to waste your time pursuing that with low odds of success when you could be putting that same amount of money, energy attention and time into worthwhile pursuits with a high ROI such as physical, mental, spiritual and financial self improvement? Until modern feminism is minimized (or better yet, destroyed) and the family court laws are reformed, the odds of finding a woman with those traditional values and that is attractive are slim to none.
Part of respect & appreciation to and for her man is to make an effort to maintain physical attraction. To me, a wife or GF that gets fat/out of shape, doesn't make an effort to look sexy for her man, etc. means she's lazy and no longer feels a need to be attractive for her mate and thus, no longer respects him. The same holds true in reverse when the man allows himself to go. If a person is not willing to change for themselves, not to mention for their s.o., time to move on.
I'm not going to watch this video but I am going to comment. Forty-eight years ago this summer (1976) I met a 16 year old girl who had been deeply hurt and scarred. But, she was the warmest, kindest, and most compassionate person I had ever seen. This was evident even to my 18 year old pea brain in the way she treated children, old people, and animals, and yes, even me. She loved simple things...(a burger and fries kind of gal). I married her, and she's been beside me for 47 years now. Four children, four Grandchildren and lots of love. Best decision I ever made, outside of deciding to follow Christ. She's been battling Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma for the past two years. She does it the same way she's handled every other challenge in our lives all these years; with determination and grace. She is my rock.
What a smart young man you were! A wonderful testament to God, and the blessing he will bestow us, if we choose to follow His ways. I am praying for you both, as you go through this time, and pray for healing in the name of our Father in heaven. 🙏🏻♥️
48 years plus of marriage. I still remember the first time I saw her and am so glad we took the same college course. I looked at her that day and said to myself "I see 50 plus years". Getting close!
You basically described a practical and deeper capacity to love. - Love is patient - Love is kind, it isn’t jealous, it doesn’t brag, it isn’t arrogant, it isn’t rude, it doesn’t seek its own advantage, it isn’t irritable, it doesn’t keep a record of complaints, it isn’t happy with injustice, but it is happy with the truth. - Love puts up with all things, trusts in all things, hopes for all things, endures all things. Unfortunately many do not understand or know the meaning of this deeper kind of love.
My first wife had none of these traits. I didn't recognize it at first but after five long years, I realized my mistake and moved on. My current wife of 28 years now, has every one of these traits. I am a very fortunate man.
Hey, wow! Knowing what I feel for this person I met, I really felt your comment Edward. Sure at 66, you perhaps have been fortunate, but that does not take away the loss at all. If anything, it makes it all the greater, even if mixed with the appreciation of her and what you have had. To have both hold genuine mutual value in the other in a relationship over a long period of time is a not common, and quite exceptional life achievement in my view. I do not think any woman is going to be such to a man, when when does not in return feel the same for him. This may sound counter-intuitive but I wish you deep tears, the permission to grieve, and weep deep. Then I hope in time to turn around and engage what else you want to do or be or have for yourself in your life. I imagine she would want you to not let the loss of her stop you from going onto other things that you want to enjoy. So if you can, when you can, do that for her. In honor of her.
Great list. I met a woman with all those qualities and married her a year later. 13 years have gone by since then and she remains the center of my heart and my very best companion.
I have been married to the same woman for 48 years. It took 7 days to figure out that I had made the biggest mistake of my life. You are 100% spot on. My wife has about half of one of these traits. Wish I would have heard you 49 years ago.
Anna, when I was toward the end of your talk, I started crying because I realized I have a wife who checks all these boxes. I have a lot to be grateful for.
I've been married 32 years, and my wife checks all these boxes, so it much be a pretty darn good list. Unfortunately, with only 1 exception, I'm not seeing these in the pool of women that my 3 sons are around. I really feel for them. Tough world for them.
@@mimib95 For the first time in my life I have to say to my boys: - Check they are actually a woman! All this transgender transformation stuff makes it a confusing world. Long gone are the days of clear-cut sex education. I dread to think of the things our kids get taught in school. My Mother and Father used to worry about what I found out in the playground. yet now days it is inside the classroom that is more of a worry to me.
Using my wife's account; I'm so much the same mind set as you. 38 years with the right Gal ! I thank God for her daily. The women who married this woman's sons did very well. She built them strong!
Wow! I never realized that you knew my wife, Susan. How did you know that Susan has all 7 of your traits plus the bonus one. I am very lucky and thank God every day that I am the person she chose to spend her life with. You hit one out of the park with this video. Thankyou.
My wife had all of these qualities. We were married 44 yrs before she died from receiving poor medical care beginning with a major hospital in the DC/Metro Area. She's irreplaceable. 💔
@@YourWingmam It sometimes seems that our lives are basically free will thoughts and dreams. It's difficult to feel alive when not using all of our physical senses and have to rely on our minds eye to fill in the gaps.
You don't know what ya got till it's gone. It's a cruel lesson you learn after it's too late to improve the human condition. It can't be taught because of the timeline. Only experienced.
I'm so sorry you lost her, man... I cannot imagine your pain. She is, indeed, irreplaceable. She cannot be replaced, as she was the only person who was... her. I genuinely hope you can open yourself up to another woman while you still have time on this earth, or find solace in other areas of your life that you can develop... What I would never do is disrespect her memory, or the bond you shared by suggesting it can be "replaced", as we both know that is impossible.
You can't find those type of women in 2024. These women are literally insane. Fat girls demanding a high value man. It's laughable how delusional they are.
I’m not beautiful tall or slim but my husband of 29 years saw this video and said all of this is all me. It’s one of the nicest things he could have said.
These traits are really helpful in a good marriage. My wife of 40 years has all of them and we have been most happy together in the good and bad times.
I screenshot you with the list, including the bonus. I am 65 and still learning so much. And you have helped me in the best relationship of my life with a woman who checks every box. Well, with the sometimes issue with the respect box. But then I have only recently understood that men in relationship with a woman equate respect with love; who knew? So I am (helping?) her understand the respect thing. But then she was married to a serial cheater who checks every narcissistic box, so we both are helping each other heal. A long preface to get to my point, which is that I have a growing appreciation for your videos. You are smart and wise beyond your years. You can communicate on a level with men that makes your advice very tangible and exceptionally valuable. Maybe guys younger than 25 won’t get much because of an overload of testosterone, but for a monogamous man who genuinely wants to live and be loved in relationship with a “good” woman your videos are pure gold. It is obvious that you put a tremendous effort into preparation and producing quality which tells me you have a true passion for helping us guys be better men. Thanks
What a lovely comment! Thank you so much for appreciating the effort I put into my videos. 🙏 And you’re so right, men equate respect with love. Women do as well but in a different way. Glad you e found a keeper you can learn, grow, and heal with!
Agreed. However I think it’s very important that the man acknowledge and appreciate the respect. If a man is feeling disrespected over every little thing, this can burn the woman out and she will be less motivated. This is very important.
I gave up on it. 75 and terminally single. My two traits were loyalty and kindness. Never found it. I have possibly been too easy going. If she wants to leave, I figure "don't let the door hit you...." I'll fight for her unless I don't know why or what they want. I'm big on trying to communicate but that's a 2 way street.
@janine2432 absolutely, there are a lot of men out there who are hypersensitive to what they perceive as a personal attack and disrespect, whereas they're just BPD or covert NPD, either way using this "sensitivity" to manipulate.
My wife always treats the restaurant staff with courtesy and kindness. She also freely admits when she is wrong. Sometimes, she will take a "devil's advocate" position during a discussion, but she never is disrespectful or condescending. She always listens.
After half a century on Earth, i finally found the one you describe, having found her half a world away. The scars life has left on our hearts have become the roadmap for our thriving union, and both of us believe with the force of conviction that we are where we belong--together❣️
Yes Mam, Wingmam! This being the first video ever seen by you it’s already promising. I got divorced a few years ago. After thirty five years of marriage and well into the fight of my life against terminal cancer, I was asked (asked?) to leave. By her lawyer. I needed therapy to get through that, on top of the cancer, which I was miraculously healed from. Then, another miracle hit. A grownup woman chose me, and we married last summer. Looking back, I cannot underscore more your summary. While the first time was a one way street away from home, this time around we’re really hitting high on your scoreboard. Both of us. I never knew that it was possible to become best friends with your wifey. Until now. She’s not always having her best days, although ver often, and it’s really no sacrifice serving her needs and wants either. So in short, this list put the words in my mouth. Thank you, WingMam.
The trait I admire the most about my sweetie is her devotion and undying love for my children. She loves me for sure but would take a bullet or step in front of a train for them. Both of my children love my wife more than me and that’s exactly how it should be, she’s committed to both of them and their families 👍🏻👍🏻
How did you become so wise at such a young age, Anna? I'm 73, been married since I was 19, and couldn't have articulated these traits nearly as eloquently!
Dear Miss, I compliment you on both the content and the shape of this presentation. I was baffled by the fact that your list encompasses the most important points of a similar one I made, upon having reflected on what was lacking into a recent, shipwrecked relationship of mine. She was doing, point on point, exactly the opposite. Lesson learned. I find this list to be rock-solid, and I'd also like to add that I think these traits are the important ones for both spouses, men and women alike. They stand upon the golden rule of truthfulness, respect and kindness, the old "treat others as you'd wish to be treated". There certainly are unique features that come from the feminine and the masculine presence alone, they can't be swapped, but aside from that, this is the golden list. After having passed through the first-hand display of its complete reverse on all accounts, I can safely say one learn how to spot them, or lack of thereof. Thank you for the video, which I'll treasure. Wish you all the best. (a guy from Europe!)
You are so correct . Unfortunately minor mental health issues are causes of the affected quality of a persons state. Or the person has deficiencies surrounding around learned behaviors . Man or woman .
As a woman a really strive to check all those points. I'm definitely still a work in progress and have an occasional bad day/ week but I'm always focused on betterment. Life hasn't been kind to me but recognizing the pitfalls is getting easier and easier. I want to be a better person for myself and my partner
Spiritual awareness and integrity. Forgiveness. Self work. It all starts with inner relationship. Self awareness is key . When unconscious behavior arises being awake to your part is vital. The other will soften.There is no perfect mate.
Hi Anna, I'm learning great stuff from your channel, but I have to say that the best thing is your amazing enthusiasm and cheerful mood 🥰. Thanks for that
I certainly enjoy your enthusiasm as you speak. My newfound lady friend is such a treat., She is proud of her city even though she is at war she is one tough cookie that I can adore. She makes me laugh for her silly little comments and I do the same., There is a 16 year difference between us, and yet we act the same. She is beautiful and she is sweet and I am gentle and kind and when we communicate it is totally divine there’s no hidden secrets. No hidden lines just open communication which is perfectly fine. I tell her I love her and she responds the same. Thank God I met this woman now my life will never be the same.
I'm one of those guys who says and believes that generally, you dont go to women for dating and relationship advice. However, the advice and insight you give exactly mirror the kind of relationship I seek. Thanks.
@@andyfranks1575 I've probably seen it, don't recall it precisely. Though, might have been the one where I called her a mom😆 (I've got a few years on her)
I think it is such a blessing when individuals who have these traits find one another. It is truly a blessing. I wouldn't consider marrying a woman if she did not have these the qualities listed in this video. Life is too short to spend it with an immature, unappreciative person. Good video Anna!
Just celebrated 22 years of marriage to my "keeper" this month. They're out there, guys. You just gotta keep searching for that treasure. It just takes effort and patience.
@@themsmloveswar3985 My American buddy Dan told me that he first met his future wife while she was working at the zoo. There she was in her uniform - so he knew right away she was a keeper ... * Moscow, Russia
Wow, from past experience, my last marrage, these traits are truly on point. I'm sure I had a part to play, but my last wife had NONE of these traits! Guys, I believe Anna's right. If you find a woman like this, and you do your part, you can be happy. I'm 64 and don't plan on another relationship. Anna, I like the way you explain these things from a womans point of view, I wish I would have had this information years ago.
Thank you! Great energy! I seek this partner, and will first embody these traits myself…..and keep catching the opposite for immediate correction. And forgive myself when I don’t make the mark. Forgive everyone for moments of slip…..celebrate the conscious awareness ….return to joy! Thank you Angel!❤
Anna….this video is you at your best - emphasizing mutual responsibility/accountability for our dire dating & mating issues….as I’ve always said, the only way gender relations will improve in the West is for both men and women to take an honest inventory of our own behavior/character - the good, the bad, & the downright ugly….for too long the false moral superiority complex of feminism has let women off the hook regarding their own shortcomings….hope that you continue in this laudable direction.
It’s gone on too long, sir. 50 years. There aren’t NEARLY enough. Can’t even offer a gentlemanly helping hand without getting torched. I’m 59. Walked away in 2011. More peaceful and happy. I’d rather die happy and alone instead of married and miserable. Feminism got the females and pushed many, many males away. They got their equality. They’re STILL not happy. Imagine that. Male/female divorce happens at roughly 60% success rate, but heterosexual marriage (and birth rates) are down. Divorce rates among heterosexual marriages were initiated by the females at an 80% clip. Feminists have decided to marry each other. Divorce rate? 80%. Who initiated those divorces? You guess it-females! They can’t even stand each other! Facts don’t care about feelings. But, sir, I’m glad you found a ‘diamond in the rough’ and that you know and appreciate her. You are lucky, in more ways than one. I do sincerely congratulate you. 👍
Hi Anna, I wish there were more women around like you! Your bloody brilliant! You give me hope! Your hair looks amazing 👌🏻 Thank you for all you do on your channel. X
I married my first wife 3 months after I met her. We had 17 wonderful years until she died of ovarian cancer. I married my second wife 7 months after I met her. We were courting long distance. We are coming up to 16 wonderful years together. What they both had in common was the absolute commitment to the marriage. That is all I need to know.
This is another save for later and watch again. It's a good reminder also, to be able to reflect on oneself. As I sit back and think about the things I've done in past relationships, I am grateful for my good traits. I may be a 5 in the looks department but I'm a 10 in the hidden traits department LOL. It's the way life works sometimes that people don't understand. You can't live in the world of "that's not fair". You take what has been given and make the best of it. I've tried to live my life this way. It doesn't mean settle for anything. It means don't worry about the things you can't change. Thank you Anna!
Superb presentation • Excellent information • Great setting • Excellent physical appearance • Great use of humor that is effective in maintaining attention. • Effective hand gestures BTW, I take notes in the presentations for continued reflection.
Extremely helpful. Like Anna says, these traits are both what us guys should look for in a woman and aspire to in ourselves. Just discovered and subscribed. Look forward to catching up on her previous videos.
These are important qualities for both partners in the relationship. A lot of people think they should get all of these things without giving in return. Everyone has work to do on themselves, growing these attributes together is a sign of compatibility and longevity
When the two of you are HAPPY and CONTENT to sit for hours not speaking, not watching TV, together, just to be TOGETHER, you can be like my Great-grandparents, married 78 years and STILL sweethearts. To see Grandma at the stove cooking, and Grandpa come up behind her a steal a kiss on her cheek-him 93 and her 90. They weren't teens when they got married either-he was a bachelor and she was a "spinster". I'm 70 and single, because I've never found a "keeper" of my own. Solomon called a good wife "As a Pearl of Great Prize".
Accountability- you are right, this is indeed rare. It includes owning my feelings and reactions. This is self-awareness. How she reacts when things don't go smoothly, when things don't go her way, that will show her real character.
Here’s an oldie but goodie! A French guy goes to America for the first time. He wants to see the sights and learn English. When he gets here he’s at the airport and sees a plane flying and learns how to say “take off”. The next day he goes to the zoo and learns how to say “Zebra”. When he finally signs up for English class, his teacher (who is a woman) asks him if he knows any words so far. He looks at her and says “take off, ze bra”
About 20 years ago an elderly Canadian gentleman of 83 arrived in Paris by plane. At the French customs desk, the man took a few minutes to locate his passport in his carry-on bag. "You have been to France before, monsieur?" the customs officer asked, sarcastically. The elderly gentleman admitted he had been to France previously. “Then you should know enough to have your passport ready, the officer replied. The Canadian said, "Sir, are you sure? The last time I was here, I didn't have to show it." “I’m absolutely sure!”, he shouted. “Canadians always have to show your passports on arrival in France!" The Canadian senior gave the Frenchman a long hard look, then he quietly explained, "Well, when I came ashore at Juno Beach on D Day in 1944 to help liberate this damn country, I couldn't find a single Frenchman to show it to!" ... * Moscow, Russia
These were all valuable traits but I think its important to add that chemistry and physical attraction are high on the list for most people and can cloud judgement and good sense when meeting potential partners. I also think this is of utmost importance to younger males who tend to be more visual and focused on the physical aspects of their relationships. As a result, the beautiful among us have an unequal advantage to such an extent that often times their undeveloped minds, personalities and skills are overlooked and minimized. The western culture places high value on looks, wealth and intelligence so good luck pointing out the obvious because at the end of the day shallow people, of which there are MANY, will inevitably choose, at their peril of course, the arm candy over the "high value woman"!
That was a beautiful river behind you and thank you for advice Yes I agree Just be kimd and do not play mind games I have been hurt many times I do not think I was fair but what I have learnt is to not waste time in being retramatisming myself It's v difficult folks but just walk on!
I'm so sorry to hear that you have been hurt so much. I can't suggest anything as you haven't shared much but I hope that with a combination of learning, help and your own efforts, things will get steadily better for you until one day you can be fully happy. Lots of luck to you.
YOU, are a keeper my dear, and if there is a guy in your life he is very lucky, you should be a life coach, I love your style and your cheeky smile, you TICK ALL THE BOXES, I would take you out anyday, one of the best presentations on life skills I have ever seen, well done!!!
YES, I hit the jack pot when I met My future wife and Soul Mate for life way back in 1972 when she was only 19 and I was 20, we married a year later and had the most wonderful relationship, I mean She was the absolutely BEST thing that ever happened to me and my life!!!!!!! We were very young But just Perfect for each other, Jut on the page with everything And Everyone else Knew this about us. Too bad it only lasted for 47 years, then she passed away. And yes when she died I LOST EVERYTHING!!!!!!!! I would Never find this again, but I am glad and thankful I did have Her for this amount of time. What a wonderful And Beautiful woman!!!
Cheri was the absolute Best woman Ever. I eulogized her at her Wake, I told the true and amazing story showing We Were Meant to find each other? Everything that I did since age 15 brought me to Cheri, had one thing not happened we would never had met! This is no joke, And we lived in different states at the time. Just am amazing story and I had it all with Cheri. To bad she left so early, but we had each other for 47 years, And Cheri taught Me A Lot. R.I.P. Cheri my love, we shall see each other again!
Just wanted to thank you mostly for bringing your authenticity into your content 👑 & being confident to be korky / unique and not deleting the bloopers! I’m not planning to date anytime soon, yet always crave perspectives & tips; so yeah, I liked & subscribed! You’re very much appreciated 🙏✨👑
@@YourWingmam you have been making sense to me for years so i had to send some dollars. May you get many more. And you also linked me to Coach Corey and the 2 of you are equally high value
Dumb joke: I was putting on a new pair of Adidas for basketball in 7th grade. A guy walks up to me and asks, "Hey, are those Adidas?" I said, 'No, they're mine."
Got in on this one late. Cleaning up from the "Souper Sunday" lunch at church. Great list. My late wife had many (though not all) these traits. A man is blessed if he can find a woman such as this. Praying for you. -- Russ P
amayyyyzing! Thanks for this. Anna you nailed it! The only thing I would suggest that men add to this list is things that they personally want that is NOT the same for all people/women. For me that includes sensuality, outdoorsiness, physically active, no toxic behaviors, and sense of spirituality. But those are just for me. What I love about your list is that you've addressed the things that really matter after the "honeymoon period" of the first year or two have worn off. True, you wanna start assessing this stuff early on, but our biases will likely get in the way until time has passed. I'm 56, divorced 2 years ago and been dating someone new for a year. And that's when the less desirable issues have shown up. So... I'm communicating my needs and felings, politely. What a concept! Thanks again for all this seemingly Vanilla stuff. But here's the deal, guys, and Anna winked at this... when this list of characteristics is there, the sex gets reeeeally good, for both of you. Wow. Thanks, homegirl! :-)
I'm a 75 year old white male amd my wife will tell you that you are describing me. She will also tell strangers that, "I am not always user friendly". There is a difference between personal, intimate relationships and dealing with anyone out side of that relationship. I'm 75 and I worked for it.. It was worth it
I've met a woman I knew as a kid. She turned up locally then lives near me divorced for several years but still single. I almost went face to face with her in the local gas station. does this seem like something ment to be?
So true. All of these traits are great and necessary. This from a guy who just celebrated his 47th anniversary and was married at the ripe old age of 17. My wife was 18, I always liked "older women"...
Absolutely fantastic list, Anna! Thank you! As you reminded us during your video, men should also endeavor to possess these traits. It’s magic when both partners exhibit these essential traits! Thank you!
Well done. Great to see a woman open up and being honest. I believe that such an approach can be very helpful in all our relationships. To be encouraged and applied in a sincere manner. Opening up a door to understanding others with respect, is a real key to happy relationships. Keep up the good work. Niall
1) It's important that both partners have these traits. So everyone, male or female, work on developing yours 2) Its a pretty rare person who will have ALL of these traits. Be prepared to accept some missing ones. 3) Most importantly...concentrate on nurturing the things in life that are uniquely yours and developing them. You'll end up happy regardless of relationship. If someone falls into your orbit because they run in the same circles and are also happy, you can follow that where it goes.
Wished I saw a video like this 14 years ago. 😅 Recently divorced with no kids, and I can now see a couple of traits I sucked at, and a few I wished my now ex-wife could've done better before. Still love her and wish her all the best. But now I have a clearer blueprint to improve myself, and for me to move on to better things. Thanks heaps!
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Well....this is my first time seeing you Miss Anna. Very good video! The person I thought was this person after 6 years left. Seeing you video, I know a couple of these qualities just weren't there...such as trusting my decisions and listening and sometimes just overall disrespect. Made it hard to feel like an equal and if anything it should have been the other way around. Is what it is. Really wanting my soulmate...Anna??
Absolutely good, Anna...! You were great at this...super thanks!❤️
Yes indeed. Women may promise you the world and to stand by you no matter what- UNTIL they tire of the relationship, Then watch your back fellas.
This is really awesome.
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1: Emotional Stability/ Maturity
2: Accountability
3: Loyalty
4: Kindness & Compassion
5: Intellectual Compatibility
6: Respect
7: Appreciation
And the bonus? ;)
You just saved be 13 minutes of my lifespan. Thank you
@@YourWingmami just scrolled to the end for that. I promise I'll watch the whole thing when I have more time Ana
Good luck finding one that's not taken and that is at least a 7 that also checks those boxes - especially in the gynocentric West. Do you really want to waste your time pursuing that with low odds of success when you could be putting that same amount of money, energy attention and time into worthwhile pursuits with a high ROI such as physical, mental, spiritual and financial self improvement? Until modern feminism is minimized (or better yet, destroyed) and the family court laws are reformed, the odds of finding a woman with those traditional values and that is attractive are slim to none.
Part of respect & appreciation to and for her man is to make an effort to maintain physical attraction. To me, a wife or GF that gets fat/out of shape, doesn't make an effort to look sexy for her man, etc. means she's lazy and no longer feels a need to be attractive for her mate and thus, no longer respects him. The same holds true in reverse when the man allows himself to go. If a person is not willing to change for themselves, not to mention for their s.o., time to move on.
I'm not going to watch this video but I am going to comment. Forty-eight years ago this summer (1976) I met a 16 year old girl who had been deeply hurt and scarred. But, she was the warmest, kindest, and most compassionate person I had ever seen. This was evident even to my 18 year old pea brain in the way she treated children, old people, and animals, and yes, even me. She loved simple things...(a burger and fries kind of gal).
I married her, and she's been beside me for 47 years now. Four children, four Grandchildren and lots of love. Best decision I ever made, outside of deciding to follow Christ.
She's been battling Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma for the past two years. She does it the same way she's handled every other challenge in our lives all these years; with determination and grace. She is my rock.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!
What a smart young man you were! A wonderful testament to God, and the blessing he will bestow us, if we choose to follow His ways. I am praying for you both, as you go through this time, and pray for healing in the name of our Father in heaven. 🙏🏻♥️
You are blessed
Even though your situation may be painful at the moment, from my perspective you are the richest man in the world.
Everything is better with love. You were very wise at a very young age. Bless you and your family and thank you for sharing.
48 years plus of marriage. I still remember the first time I saw her and am so glad we took the same college course. I looked at her that day and said to myself "I see 50 plus years". Getting close!
👏🙌💕
You basically described a practical and deeper capacity to love.
- Love is patient
- Love is kind, it isn’t jealous, it doesn’t brag, it isn’t arrogant, it isn’t rude, it doesn’t seek its own advantage, it isn’t irritable, it doesn’t keep a record of complaints, it isn’t happy with injustice, but it is happy with the truth.
- Love puts up with all things, trusts in all things, hopes for all things, endures all things.
Unfortunately many do not understand or know the meaning of this deeper kind of love.
1 Corinthians 13 is love as described by the author of love. Doesn't get any deeper. Love never fails.
@@williamcooke6056 Beautiful I keep this in my wallet and read it often
My first wife had none of these traits. I didn't recognize it at first but after five long years, I realized my mistake and moved on.
My current wife of 28 years now, has every one of these traits. I am a very fortunate man.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Wow, I can relate to this - same story here
Well done. I’m a widower x 5 months and my wife had those qualities. At 66 I guess I was very fortunate. Thank you
My condolences, sir.
Widower as well with no desire to get back in the game, at least not now.
Yes you were lucky there aren't many like that left unfortunately
Sorry for your loss.
Hey, wow! Knowing what I feel for this person I met, I really felt your comment Edward.
Sure at 66, you perhaps have been fortunate, but that does not take away the loss at all. If anything, it makes it all the greater, even if mixed with the appreciation of her and what you have had.
To have both hold genuine mutual value in the other in a relationship over a long period of time is a not common, and quite exceptional life achievement in my view.
I do not think any woman is going to be such to a man, when when does not in return feel the same for him.
This may sound counter-intuitive but I wish you deep tears, the permission to grieve, and weep deep. Then I hope in time to turn around and engage what else you want to do or be or have for yourself in your life. I imagine she would want you to not let the loss of her stop you from going onto other things that you want to enjoy. So if you can, when you can, do that for her. In honor of her.
Great list. I met a woman with all those qualities and married her a year later. 13 years have gone by since then and she remains the center of my heart and my very best companion.
I have been married to the same woman for 48 years. It took 7 days to figure out that I had made the biggest mistake of my life. You are 100% spot on. My wife has about half of one of these traits. Wish I would have heard you 49 years ago.
🙏 ❤️
Sorry dude
I feel your pain, bro. 59 yo. who's had a crappy time of it. I gave up. Moving to a better country, hopefully.
YOU make you happy. No woman does that. You either roll out of bed with happiness or you do not. It is truly that simple.
@@MadRat70 The problem is not that they don't make you happy, rather that they make you UN-happy. A woman should make your dick hard, not your life.
Anna, when I was toward the end of your talk, I started crying because I realized I have a wife who checks all these boxes. I have a lot to be grateful for.
I've been married 32 years, and my wife checks all these boxes, so it much be a pretty darn good list.
Unfortunately, with only 1 exception, I'm not seeing these in the pool of women that my 3 sons are around. I really feel for them. Tough world for them.
I completely agree. My 2 sons say that women think they are creepy just for talking to them. How did it come to this?
The media created there thinking process
@@mimib95 For the first time in my life I have to say to my boys: - Check they are actually a woman! All this transgender transformation stuff makes it a confusing world. Long gone are the days of clear-cut sex education. I dread to think of the things our kids get taught in school. My Mother and Father used to worry about what I found out in the playground. yet now days it is inside the classroom that is more of a worry to me.
You're in a trance, but that's not a bad thing. It's the same girls today, just not hidden in quiet desperation.
Using my wife's account; I'm so much the same mind set as you. 38 years with the right Gal ! I thank God for her daily. The women who married this woman's sons did very well. She built them strong!
Wow! I never realized that you knew my wife, Susan. How did you know that Susan has all 7 of your traits plus the bonus one. I am very lucky and thank God every day that I am the person she chose to spend her life with. You hit one out of the park with this video. Thankyou.
Gods only roll was in you meeting her. After that it was her loving and appreciating her father that made you lucky.
My wife had all of these qualities. We were married 44 yrs before she died from receiving poor medical care beginning with a major hospital in the DC/Metro Area. She's irreplaceable. 💔
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@@YourWingmam It sometimes seems that our lives are basically free will thoughts and dreams. It's difficult to feel alive when not using all of our physical senses and have to rely on our minds eye to fill in the gaps.
You don't know what ya got till it's gone. It's a cruel lesson you learn after it's too late to improve the human condition. It can't be taught because of the timeline. Only experienced.
Bless you brother 🙏
I'm so sorry you lost her, man... I cannot imagine your pain. She is, indeed, irreplaceable. She cannot be replaced, as she was the only person who was... her.
I genuinely hope you can open yourself up to another woman while you still have time on this earth, or find solace in other areas of your life that you can develop... What I would never do is disrespect her memory, or the bond you shared by suggesting it can be "replaced", as we both know that is impossible.
My wife also has all of these traits. We have been married for 41 years in June. A definite keeper!
You can't find those type of women in 2024. These women are literally insane. Fat girls demanding a high value man. It's laughable how delusional they are.
Wonderful.
I’m not beautiful tall or slim but my husband of 29 years saw this video and said all of this is all me. It’s one of the nicest things he could have said.
Sounds like you’re both lucky! 🙏🥰
Work on your appearance. Too many spouses let themselves go while being married. It shows a lack of respect for yourself as well as your spouse.
These traits are really helpful in a good marriage. My wife of 40 years has all of them and we have been most happy together in the good and bad times.
My wife has all of these qualities a keeper for sure
I call her my soul mate.
Excellent! Some men don’t believe they exist. I’m sure you do your part to keep her inspired to be her best feminine self as well. 🙌
@@YourWingmam They must be a very small percentage.
Well then I guess you are a blessed man. 😉👍👍
Mine scored 0.
She doesn’t have all. Women never hold themselves accountable.
I screenshot you with the list, including the bonus. I am 65 and still learning so much. And you have helped me in the best relationship of my life with a woman who checks every box. Well, with the sometimes issue with the respect box. But then I have only recently understood that men in relationship with a woman equate respect with love; who knew?
So I am (helping?) her understand the respect thing. But then she was married to a serial cheater who checks every narcissistic box, so we both are helping each other heal.
A long preface to get to my point,
which is that I have a growing appreciation for your videos.
You are smart and wise beyond your years.
You can communicate on a level with men that makes your advice very tangible and exceptionally valuable. Maybe guys younger than 25 won’t get much because of an overload of testosterone, but for a monogamous man who genuinely wants to live and be loved in relationship with a “good” woman your videos are pure gold.
It is obvious that you put a tremendous effort into preparation and producing quality which tells me you have a true passion for helping us guys be better men.
Thanks
What a lovely comment! Thank you so much for appreciating the effort I put into my videos. 🙏 And you’re so right, men equate respect with love. Women do as well but in a different way. Glad you e found a keeper you can learn, grow, and heal with!
Agreed. However I think it’s very important that the man acknowledge and appreciate the respect. If a man is feeling disrespected over every little thing, this can burn the woman out and she will be less motivated. This is very important.
@@janine2432 Great advice. Thanks.
I gave up on it. 75 and terminally single.
My two traits were loyalty and kindness. Never found it. I have possibly been too easy going.
If she wants to leave, I figure "don't let the door hit you...."
I'll fight for her unless I don't know why or what they want. I'm big on trying to communicate but that's a 2 way street.
@janine2432 absolutely, there are a lot of men out there who are hypersensitive to what they perceive as a personal attack and disrespect, whereas they're just BPD or covert NPD, either way using this "sensitivity" to manipulate.
My wife always treats the restaurant staff with courtesy and kindness. She also freely admits when she is wrong. Sometimes, she will take a "devil's advocate" position during a discussion, but she never is disrespectful or condescending. She always listens.
You have a UFO on your hands.
Sounds like a good woman.
1 stability/maturity
2 accountability
3 loyalty
4 kindness/compassion
5 intellectual compatibility
6 respect
7 appreciation
Bonus- sense of humor
After half a century on Earth, i finally found the one you describe, having found her half a world away. The scars life has left on our hearts have become the roadmap for our thriving union, and both of us believe with the force of conviction that we are where we belong--together❣️
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Remember she is the ONE.
"Happy spouse, happy house" is one I'm going to have to remember.
This too works well "happy wife, happy life"...
Happy queen, happy kingdom.
@@CyrilDeretz unfortunately, happy wife happy life bears the most truth.
@@earlem9771 I subscribe to another motto : “ No wife, happy life “ works like a charm for me.
Yup, I adopted this years ago. Been happily married 32 years.
Yes Mam, Wingmam! This being the first video ever seen by you it’s already promising. I got divorced a few years ago. After thirty five years of marriage and well into the fight of my life against terminal cancer, I was asked (asked?) to leave. By her lawyer. I needed therapy to get through that, on top of the cancer, which I was miraculously healed from. Then, another miracle hit. A grownup woman chose me, and we married last summer. Looking back, I cannot underscore more your summary. While the first time was a one way street away from home, this time around we’re really hitting high on your scoreboard. Both of us. I never knew that it was possible to become best friends with your wifey. Until now. She’s not always having her best days, although ver often, and it’s really no sacrifice serving her needs and wants either. So in short, this list put the words in my mouth. Thank you, WingMam.
The trait I admire the most about my sweetie is her devotion and undying love for my children. She loves me for sure but would take a bullet or step in front of a train for them. Both of my children love my wife more than me and that’s exactly how it should be, she’s committed to both of them and their families 👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
How did you become so wise at such a young age, Anna? I'm 73, been married since I was 19, and couldn't have articulated these traits nearly as eloquently!
Thank you for a lovely compliment and your generosity! And congratulations on a long and I hope happy union! 🙏🥰
Dear Miss, I compliment you on both the content and the shape of this presentation. I was baffled by the fact that your list encompasses the most important points of a similar one I made, upon having reflected on what was lacking into a recent, shipwrecked relationship of mine. She was doing, point on point, exactly the opposite. Lesson learned. I find this list to be rock-solid, and I'd also like to add that I think these traits are the important ones for both spouses, men and women alike. They stand upon the golden rule of truthfulness, respect and kindness, the old "treat others as you'd wish to be treated". There certainly are unique features that come from the feminine and the masculine presence alone, they can't be swapped, but aside from that, this is the golden list. After having passed through the first-hand display of its complete reverse on all accounts, I can safely say one learn how to spot them, or lack of thereof. Thank you for the video, which I'll treasure. Wish you all the best. (a guy from Europe!)
Thank you so much guy from Europe! ;) Live and hopefully learn lol
You are so correct . Unfortunately minor mental health issues are causes of the affected quality of a persons state.
Or the person has deficiencies surrounding around learned behaviors . Man or woman .
As a woman a really strive to check all those points. I'm definitely still a work in progress and have an occasional bad day/ week but I'm always focused on betterment. Life hasn't been kind to me but recognizing the pitfalls is getting easier and easier. I want to be a better person for myself and my partner
So true. We've been together over 25y by now. All of your 7 points are in her. Still feels like that I fell in love for her yesterday. ❤
You did, and the day before that, and the day before that...... That's the way it is with a keeper.
You're truly blessed
Thanks! I love your perkiness and generous amount of real life examples!!
Thank you so much! 🙏🥰
Spiritual awareness and integrity. Forgiveness. Self work. It all starts with inner relationship. Self awareness is key . When unconscious behavior arises being awake to your part is vital. The other will soften.There is no perfect mate.
Very well said
"Let us examine and scrutinize our ways
And let us return to Jah."lam.3:40
Hi Anna, I'm learning great stuff from your channel, but I have to say that the best thing is your amazing enthusiasm and cheerful mood 🥰. Thanks for that
My pleasure ❤️
Agreed
I certainly enjoy your enthusiasm as you speak. My newfound lady friend is such a treat., She is proud of her city even though she is at war she is one tough cookie that I can adore. She makes me laugh for her silly little comments and I do the same., There is a 16 year difference between us, and yet we act the same. She is beautiful and she is sweet and I am gentle and kind and when we communicate it is totally divine there’s no hidden secrets. No hidden lines just open communication which is perfectly fine. I tell her I love her and she responds the same. Thank God I met this woman now my life will never be the same.
You have a keeper for sure. Most of the qualities in woman are from the far east in my experience
I'm one of those guys who says and believes that generally, you dont go to women for dating and relationship advice. However, the advice and insight you give exactly mirror the kind of relationship I seek. Thanks.
Thank you so much, I appreciate your trust!
She actually has a video on that (and agrees, believe it or not).
@@andyfranks1575 I've probably seen it, don't recall it precisely. Though, might have been the one where I called her a mom😆 (I've got a few years on her)
I think it is such a blessing when individuals who have these traits find one another. It is truly a blessing. I wouldn't consider marrying a woman if she did not have these the qualities listed in this video. Life is too short to spend it with an immature, unappreciative person.
Good video Anna!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Just celebrated 22 years of marriage to my "keeper" this month. They're out there, guys. You just gotta keep searching for that treasure. It just takes effort and patience.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
we have been married 39 years come November. Still going strong !
Anna is REALLY good! She REALLY knows her stuff. Men AND women should listen to her!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much. I appreciate that!
I won't listen, Herr Einstein.
If you are planning to settle down, don’t date a woman who is a soccer player ...
There’s only a 1/11 chance they are a keeper ...
* Moscow, Russia
😂😂😂😂😂 👍
Ha! 🤣⚽️
hahahahaha
Thanks for cheering up my day. Much appreciated.
@@themsmloveswar3985
My American buddy Dan told me that he first met his future wife while she was working at the zoo.
There she was in her uniform - so he knew right away she was a keeper ...
* Moscow, Russia
Wow, from past experience, my last marrage, these traits are truly on point. I'm sure I had a part to play, but my last wife had NONE of these traits! Guys, I believe Anna's right. If you find a woman like this, and you do your part, you can be happy. I'm 64 and don't plan on another relationship. Anna, I like the way you explain these things from a womans point of view, I wish I would have had this information years ago.
Glad I could help 🙏
I have found her, she has each and every one of these traits and she is the best thing to have happened to me!
❤️ 🙏
Thank you! Great energy! I seek this partner, and will first embody these traits myself…..and keep catching the opposite for immediate correction. And forgive myself when I don’t make the mark. Forgive everyone for moments of slip…..celebrate the conscious awareness ….return to joy!
Thank you Angel!❤
Anna….this video is you at your best - emphasizing mutual responsibility/accountability for our dire dating & mating issues….as I’ve always said, the only way gender relations will improve in the West is for both men and women to take an honest inventory of our own behavior/character - the good, the bad, & the downright ugly….for too long the false moral superiority complex of feminism has let women off the hook regarding their own shortcomings….hope that you continue in this laudable direction.
Glad you appreciate it! I agree and more to follow. Please share this video so women can know what men expect and deserve from them!
It’s gone on too long, sir. 50 years. There aren’t NEARLY enough. Can’t even offer a gentlemanly helping hand without getting torched. I’m 59. Walked away in 2011. More peaceful and happy. I’d rather die happy and alone instead of married and miserable.
Feminism got the females and pushed many, many males away. They got their equality. They’re STILL not happy. Imagine that. Male/female divorce happens at roughly 60% success rate, but heterosexual marriage (and birth rates) are down.
Divorce rates among heterosexual marriages were initiated by the females at an 80% clip. Feminists have decided to marry each other. Divorce rate? 80%. Who initiated those divorces? You guess it-females! They can’t even stand each other!
Facts don’t care about feelings. But, sir, I’m glad you found a ‘diamond in the rough’ and that you know and appreciate her. You are lucky, in more ways than one. I do sincerely congratulate you. 👍
Hi Anna,
I wish there were more women around like you! Your bloody brilliant!
You give me hope!
Your hair looks amazing 👌🏻
Thank you for all you do on your channel.
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This is one of the best & most truthful videos about what a man or woman really needs in a great relationship - thank you!! She’s out there!! 🤞🏼
This just popped up in youtube recommendations. I've been married for 10 years, this list is 100% precise.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I hit the jackpot with my woman, and after 16 years through all kinds of weather, i really am grateful to have her as my wife. 🥰A Keeper
It takes two, you inspire her to be a good woman!
I married my first wife 3 months after I met her. We had 17 wonderful years until she died of ovarian cancer. I married my second wife 7 months after I met her. We were courting long distance. We are coming up to 16 wonderful years together. What they both had in common was the absolute commitment to the marriage. That is all I need to know.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Thank you for keeping things simple.. Nothing about how to get good at playing games. It's refreshing
This is another save for later and watch again. It's a good reminder also, to be able to reflect on oneself. As I sit back and think about the things I've done in past relationships, I am grateful for my good traits. I may be a 5 in the looks department but I'm a 10 in the hidden traits department LOL. It's the way life works sometimes that people don't understand. You can't live in the world of "that's not fair". You take what has been given and make the best of it. I've tried to live my life this way. It doesn't mean settle for anything. It means don't worry about the things you can't change. Thank you Anna!
Exactly! Love this!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Superb presentation
• Excellent information
• Great setting
• Excellent physical appearance
• Great use of humor that is effective in maintaining attention.
• Effective hand gestures
BTW, I take notes in the presentations for continued reflection.
A+ ⭐️ thank you!
Extremely helpful. Like Anna says, these traits are both what us guys should look for in a woman and aspire to in ourselves. Just discovered and subscribed. Look forward to catching up on her previous videos.
Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏
You just keep getting better!
Thank you for watching!
@@Billn1971 Only if you’re filthy rich
Thank you for this Video! 💛💛💛
These are important qualities for both partners in the relationship. A lot of people think they should get all of these things without giving in return. Everyone has work to do on themselves, growing these attributes together is a sign of compatibility and longevity
All of it flows from "RESPECT."
This is your best video yet, thank you my friend, always appreciate you, love & light to you 🎉
Wow, thank you so much! 🙏🥰
When the two of you are HAPPY and CONTENT to sit for hours not speaking, not watching TV, together, just to be TOGETHER, you can be like my Great-grandparents, married 78 years and STILL sweethearts. To see Grandma at the stove cooking, and Grandpa come up behind her a steal a kiss on her cheek-him 93 and her 90. They weren't teens when they got married either-he was a bachelor and she was a "spinster". I'm 70 and single, because I've never found a "keeper" of my own. Solomon called a good wife "As a Pearl of Great Prize".
Gods roll was in you meeting her. After that it was her loving and appreciating her father that made you lucky.
@@77space-vt8wi ????
Accountability- you are right, this is indeed rare. It includes owning my feelings and reactions. This is self-awareness. How she reacts when things don't go smoothly, when things don't go her way, that will show her real character.
Absolutely!
This is a two way street.
@@leanordials8008Of course, it is.
Impossible to find such a woman with half these traits these days !!! But thank you Anna for a wonderful and cheerful presentation. ❤
My pleasure ❤️
Here’s an oldie but goodie!
A French guy goes to America for the first time. He wants to see the sights and learn English. When he gets here he’s at the airport and sees a plane flying and learns how to say “take off”. The next day he goes to the zoo and learns how to say “Zebra”. When he finally signs up for English class, his teacher (who is a woman) asks him if he knows any words so far. He looks at her and says “take off, ze bra”
Bahahaha! 🤣
Aie, mon dieu Pas de rigole. lol
About 20 years ago an elderly Canadian gentleman of 83 arrived in Paris by plane.
At the French customs desk, the man took a few minutes to locate his passport in his carry-on bag.
"You have been to France before, monsieur?" the customs officer asked, sarcastically.
The elderly gentleman admitted he had been to France previously.
“Then you should know enough to have your passport ready, the officer replied.
The Canadian said, "Sir, are you sure? The last time I was here, I didn't have to show it."
“I’m absolutely sure!”, he shouted.
“Canadians always have to show your passports on arrival in France!"
The Canadian senior gave the Frenchman a long hard look, then he quietly explained,
"Well, when I came ashore at Juno Beach on D Day in 1944 to help liberate this damn country, I couldn't find a single Frenchman to show it to!" ...
* Moscow, Russia
🤣🤣🤣
@@SteelFanther ah the French - they're always there when they need us!
These were all valuable traits but I think its important to add that chemistry and physical attraction are high on the list for most people and can cloud judgement and good sense when meeting potential partners. I also think this is of utmost importance to younger males who tend to be more visual and focused on the physical aspects of their relationships. As a result, the beautiful among us have an unequal advantage to such an extent that often times their undeveloped minds, personalities and skills are overlooked and minimized. The western culture places high value on looks, wealth and intelligence so good luck pointing out the obvious because at the end of the day shallow people, of which there are MANY, will inevitably choose, at their peril of course, the arm candy over the "high value woman"!
Very good video with good light heartedness into the video. Your hair style looks great
Thank you so much!
Completely forgot to mention that, kept looking at it all through the video mind 🙂 brownie points to you fella...
Man, do I wish I had this lost 8 years ago. I’ve been married for 8 years and together for 10 and this is so spot on!!
Thanks for stating All the things my ex never did! ... And what to look for next time !
Thank you so much! 🙏🥰
Very useful and important advise. Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
That was a beautiful river behind you and thank you for advice
Yes I agree
Just be kimd and do not play mind games
I have been hurt many times
I do not think I was fair but what I have learnt is to not waste time in being retramatisming myself
It's v difficult folks but just walk on!
I'm so sorry to hear that you have been hurt so much.
I can't suggest anything as you haven't shared much but I hope that with a combination of learning, help and your own efforts, things will get steadily better for you until one day you can be fully happy. Lots of luck to you.
It’s hard not to take out our pain on others and we all falter at times. Learn from it and aim to be your better self next time. Big hug.
I haven't listened to this all the way through yet, but I gotta tell you. Anna, I love your hair!
Oh thank you! ☺️
I agree.
I'll second that!
I bet you say that to all the good lookin gals !
I like her smile 😊
YOU, are a keeper my dear, and if there is a guy in your life he is very lucky, you should be a life coach, I love your style and your cheeky smile, you TICK ALL THE BOXES, I would take you out anyday, one of the best presentations on life skills I have ever seen, well done!!!
I appreciate that ❤
One of your best videos,and you already set a high standard .Some real gems of wisdom and uncommon sense here.
I appreciate that ❤
If anyone finds this woman please report it to NASA.
She does exist, but not in the West!
Bingo !
I have found my wife 6 years ago.... In Indonesia..
Report it to Guinness Book of World Records She's the only one
If I find her, I will definitely not tell anyone.
Wow at the curls! Love them.
Good stuff in this video
X2..... I think she needs to rock the denim jacket again with them curls though.....😊
YES, I hit the jack pot when I met My future wife and Soul Mate for life way back in 1972 when she was only 19 and I was 20, we married a year later and had the most wonderful relationship, I mean She was the absolutely BEST thing that ever happened to me and my life!!!!!!! We were very young But just Perfect for each other, Jut on the page with everything And Everyone else Knew this about us.
Too bad it only lasted for 47 years, then she passed away. And yes when she died I LOST EVERYTHING!!!!!!!! I would Never find this again, but I am glad and thankful I did have Her for this amount of time. What a wonderful And Beautiful woman!!!
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Cheri was the absolute Best woman Ever.
I eulogized her at her Wake, I told the true and amazing story showing We Were Meant to find each other? Everything that I did since age 15 brought me to Cheri, had one thing not happened we would never had met! This is no joke, And we lived in different states at the time. Just am amazing story and I had it all with Cheri. To bad she left so early, but we had each other for 47 years, And Cheri taught Me A Lot. R.I.P. Cheri my love, we shall see each other again!
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@@YourWingmam you have been making sense to me for years so i had to send some dollars. May you get many more. And you also linked me to Coach Corey and the 2 of you are equally high value
Anna, you need to cut back to 8 cups of coffee. 😂😂😂 You were funny today, good funny. You were going 5,000 mph! 😂😂 Good video
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Nah. Keep swiging the coffee Anna!
Great vid!!
12:00 Has anyone known a woman who has all these attributes at the same time?
Share so women can learn!
I like people who are honest with themselves and not delusional.
Dumb joke: I was putting on a new pair of Adidas for basketball in 7th grade. A guy walks up to me and asks, "Hey, are those Adidas?" I said, 'No, they're mine."
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PA DA DAH!!!
My wife checks all the box’s. Only the strongest of marriage’s can last through life’s most difficult challenges, like the loss of an only child.
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Lost my only child and my wife and soulmate passed away from cancer ♋️ she checked all the boxes! 📦
Got in on this one late. Cleaning up from the "Souper Sunday" lunch at church. Great list. My late wife had many (though not all) these traits. A man is blessed if he can find a woman such as this. Praying for you. -- Russ P
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P.S. Thank you for your prayers, Russ, and as I'm sure I've mentioned before, you were lucky to be with such a woman but also deserving of her!
amayyyyzing! Thanks for this. Anna you nailed it! The only thing I would suggest that men add to this list is things that they personally want that is NOT the same for all people/women. For me that includes sensuality, outdoorsiness, physically active, no toxic behaviors, and sense of spirituality. But those are just for me. What I love about your list is that you've addressed the things that really matter after the "honeymoon period" of the first year or two have worn off. True, you wanna start assessing this stuff early on, but our biases will likely get in the way until time has passed. I'm 56, divorced 2 years ago and been dating someone new for a year. And that's when the less desirable issues have shown up. So... I'm communicating my needs and felings, politely. What a concept! Thanks again for all this seemingly Vanilla stuff. But here's the deal, guys, and Anna winked at this... when this list of characteristics is there, the sex gets reeeeally good, for both of you. Wow. Thanks, homegirl! :-)
Appreciate the reinforcement of best qualities for both of us to strive for always 🙏🏼
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She is an ANGEL Sent by THE ALMIGHTY GOD. 🙏❤️
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A positive attitude now if that woman exists she deserves a gold star.
Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good women out there!
Of course they do exist, they live next to Yeti and flying saucers. First turn left behind the fountain of youth.
@@tayterlik don't forget the jackalope.
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I'm a 75 year old white male amd my wife will tell you that you are describing me. She will also tell strangers that, "I am not always user friendly". There is a difference between personal, intimate relationships and dealing with anyone out side of that relationship. I'm 75 and I worked for it.. It was worth it
"Just what the doctor ordered!" Thank you for your insights. Be kind!
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There's not a woman alive that possesses all seven of those traits. 😮😮😮
Especially "loyalty"
They don’t last long on the market that’s for sure!
I've met a woman I knew as a kid. She turned up locally then lives near me divorced for several years but still single. I almost went face to face with her in the local gas station. does this seem like something ment to be?
Yes there are, but most of them are married :-)
This was so good. Thank you so much. ❤
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Anna, you are such a refreshment with nowadays people and toxicity. I love to watch you explaining the subjects.
Wow! I didn’t realize till now, how blessed I am. Modesty aside, my wife has all these. I hope and try to be one for her. Thanks a lot!
So true. All of these traits are great and necessary. This from a guy who just celebrated his 47th anniversary and was married at the ripe old age of 17. My wife was 18, I always liked "older women"...
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Absolutely fantastic list, Anna! Thank you!
As you reminded us during your video, men should also endeavor to possess these traits.
It’s magic when both partners exhibit these essential traits!
Thank you!
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Well done. Great to see a woman open up and being honest. I believe that such an approach can be very helpful in all our relationships. To be encouraged and applied in a sincere manner. Opening up a door to understanding others with respect, is a real key to happy relationships. Keep up the good work.
Niall
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1) It's important that both partners have these traits. So everyone, male or female, work on developing yours
2) Its a pretty rare person who will have ALL of these traits. Be prepared to accept some missing ones.
3) Most importantly...concentrate on nurturing the things in life that are uniquely yours and developing them. You'll end up happy regardless of relationship. If someone falls into your orbit because they run in the same circles and are also happy, you can follow that where it goes.
If having to choose a top 7, this list is maybe the best I've seen.
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Wingmam offers stellar advice for both parties in a committed relationship.
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Thanks!
Thank you! 🙏🥰
Wished I saw a video like this 14 years ago. 😅
Recently divorced with no kids, and I can now see a couple of traits I sucked at, and a few I wished my now ex-wife could've done better before.
Still love her and wish her all the best. But now I have a clearer blueprint to improve myself, and for me to move on to better things.
Thanks heaps!
Year after year Anna, you still remain a fabulous woman.
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