And how weak he is. Tho everyone isn't the same. Especially when I was bullied in school because when I was bullied in school I beat the crap out of three people and got suspended for 3 weeks. That was kind of hoping for some karma or revenge, sadly none
Aside from the obvious narcissism, they're very clearly addicted to anger. Every time they want to unleash their hostility, they always conveniently make sure OP is around, even after they've already kicked him out of the house. Everything that he does, even the way that he breathes is subject to criticism.🙄
@@SnowyWolborgI had a supervisor like this. Everything was my fault even when it wasn’t. I was his scapegoat and emotional punching bag. I’m not joking when he complained about me actually breathing too loudly. I’m so glad he got a “promotion” and is gone from my immediate team.
While the parents definitely played a role, I wonder if there was more to the story. Maybe the boy could’ve communicated better or found ways to assert his independence sooner
@@classicrockkid345 Oh, believe me, most form of manhwa and manga, books and TV tone it down a great deal. It's amazing how much some people can get away with something. Especially if they're rich and the teachers can and will be fired for trying to do the right thing.
@@classicrockkid345 Even I want to believe it's fake but there are children who unalive themselves because of bullying so real life is way worse than we can think of.
"he sent me facebook messages" that right there if there is enough meat on the bone is tatacit admission of guilt and probably some kind of thing to get a restraining order. Dumb people do things like write about their most stupid crap all the time including crimes, abuse, abusive intentions etc. Simple screenshot (Facebook is required to retain data for about a decade by law so "deleting" messages /accounts erases nothing) and suggesting Daddys company might need to explain some things if this continues or anything else happens.
Story 3, even if its wrong, should honestly name the guy and the company they inherited. If its true theyre a public figure and it wouldnt be too hard for someone else more fortunate to let the wheel of karma turn...
Whoa dude. James is one of the most heartless individuals I ever heard of. Like damn. I thought my bullies were bad but James takes the cake as being the worst. OP may not have figured out what James saw in him that made him an easy target, but I have my thoughts on what it maybe. James saw potential in OP, things such as doing great in life and making a name for himself, that sort of thing. I guess James felt threatened by this and wanted to make ops life hell. He was lucky this didn't turn into a deadly situation. That's as far as I'll take it. I wish nothing but the best for op hope he gets better and lives life the way he wants. As for James, oh I have a lot to say to him. But I'll this much, karma will get him.
It makes me so mad that women will accuse someone of SA falsely. How do they sleep at night knowing they purposely ruined someone’s life? For what? Attention? I don’t know but it seems the ones who didn’t do it are the ones who get all the punishment.
S2: OP was the victim of the title 9 sexual assault process which really is designed to be a kanagroo court. Many schools have been sued for violating student's rights.
Story 3: The bully has everything in life, and instead of just leaving someone mentally, physically, and financially more unfortunate be, he makes his life worse. I truly hate some people.
Man third story should hope op didnt choose the evil route if you know what i mean. Being rick wont save you from hot lead, must of never seen the news or movies
And then when those that experience this do go on their villain arc people are fed lies and say that all the bullied kid needed to do was reach out for help.
OMG OPs experience is downright horrible and catastrophic. I don't know what I will do but I'll organize something against that bully I mean even after all that he's still bullying you. I'll take action.
Not denying that story 3 happened or not but it sounds something out of a Korean drama. i wouldn't even be surprised if the bully or his parents had connections in the school and they let the bully get away with it. Cause from what op described his torture aint no way the school wouldn't have notice atleast some bruises if there was any. But serious though i give my sympathy to op in that story. He seemed like a smart guy who would've had a good career if it wasn't for the bully. And i kinda wish we had a good ending for him but it looks like its not the case the bully got a football scholarship,money and works in his dad's company all while op is still being tortured, is a McDonald's employee and a drug addict too (i hope he could fix that problem) and he cant even sue the bully too.
Second story is terrible sa is a terrible thing and faking it is even more terrible i hope op is right and she gets karma and im glad op was able to somewhat rebuild his life
I'm sorry but I don't buy story number 3 Its not the bullying in itself that the issue, its that the school system is so pathetic that they actually don't do anything at any point against this guy despite having several opportunities to definitively figure out whats going on between them! Where are OP's guardians in this story and what are they doing about this? If op is actually getting messages from this lerson about rehab/suicide then why aren't they using screenshots of thoes to take to the public if this person is such a big deal in life now?
your absolutely delusional if you think schools ever punish bullies especially when the victim has no parent that cares and the bully is a rich popular athlete who the school and collages fawn over.
If anything, the fact that the school administrators continuously turned the other way when it came to this bullying is depressingly realistic. The simple fact of the matter is, authority figures in schools don't want to be accused of choosing sides when it comes to the bully and the victim. Which is exactly why the zero tolerance policy was created in the first place for schools. Punish all parties involved = make it look like they're being impartial.
@@slink1313 it's the fact that the school never recognizes the bully for his satanic behavior, not them doing nothing With how the story was told it was to a point where the cops should have been called several times over
@@SnowyWolborg that's what got me, instead of punishing both of them the school continuously did nothing in situations so severe where the cops should have been called They should at least be made aware of the bullying considering the scale of everything happening
My bullies didn’t get it till my dad showed up and I started to take boxing classes and I was in heavy weight to so the moment they touched me again I had every right to defend myself no one knew I was training but I got tired of being pushed around and as a girl against 7 guys I had to show myself how to protect myself from them i thank my dad for his help and support and for being the best dad out there my dad was ready to beat some ass but I was lucky enough to do that for the both of us they tried to touch me and they got one hell of a beating I gave a few broken noses and black eyes 😂 after that no one ever came near me❤ I grew up with big guy cousins always wanting to wrestle and fight so I was used to fighting guys 😂
Story 3 is so triggering and specific that I sorta don’t fully believe it. The Camera thing is very offsetting cause there always been camera a thing in the late 90’s unless a rural town. Hard to believe it’s post 2000’s if so. That said, no redemption is possible for that bully if he got everything he wanted. Nothing is more dangerous than a man with nothing to lose and if he op does it, i would never blame him for it
S3: no way this is real. He says nobody saw the bullying and that he frequently had the crap kicked out of him. How come body ever saw his getting thrown into a dumpster? Or getting carried and thrown into a river? Or being covered in bruises, busted lips, scabs, scars, black eyes etc? Im not saying bullying this bad doesnt happen, but to say that there werent ever any witnesses makes this completely unbelievable.
@@southernflight5078 does the scholarship cover forming itself or does it cover enough expenses to mitigate dorming costs though. Because the former makes sense, the latter doesn’t
Story 1 - OP needs to learn the difference between abuse an and argument. An argument is 2 sided and can be constructive. Abuse is one sided hours of one sidedly putting a person down.
y you think that? I've been bullied almost all my school yeears. I've been hit, had food thrown on me, made fun of, called names and even got jumped getting dropped off at home. if you don't think there's legit psychopaths out here who would do terrible shit like and literally divot they're time hurting others. if you think it's fake then either you been a fuckin bully or you never been bullied
This is definitely coming from someone inexperienced things like that are very common in schools some bullies even take it as far as to kill someone for no particular reason especially the fact that the bully had parents that were rich ofc he'd be entitled assuming the story is real
@@cytercrazy482 when you mentioned that they’d go as far as killing someone, wouldn’t be surprised if they actually felt joy from that and would actually become a serial killer just for the fact that they killed somebody that they victimized for years and it wouldn’t even phase the family also.
The fact that story #3 didn't desolve into a school shooting incident shows just how much of a kind soul op is.
The fact that James is living his best life has me seeing red
And how weak he is. Tho everyone isn't the same. Especially when I was bullied in school because when I was bullied in school I beat the crap out of three people and got suspended for 3 weeks. That was kind of hoping for some karma or revenge, sadly none
The parents are narcissists in the 1st story. They isolated him, stole his joy and happiness, and was upset when he stopped playing the game.
Aside from the obvious narcissism, they're very clearly addicted to anger. Every time they want to unleash their hostility, they always conveniently make sure OP is around, even after they've already kicked him out of the house. Everything that he does, even the way that he breathes is subject to criticism.🙄
@@SnowyWolborgI had a supervisor like this. Everything was my fault even when it wasn’t. I was his scapegoat and emotional punching bag. I’m not joking when he complained about me actually breathing too loudly. I’m so glad he got a “promotion” and is gone from my immediate team.
@@SnowyWolborg that’s what narcissists do. The addiction seemed more drama based, whatever that is at the moment.
While the parents definitely played a role, I wonder if there was more to the story. Maybe the boy could’ve communicated better or found ways to assert his independence sooner
@@RetributionRadio0289that’s not how narcissists work, he willl always be in the position he’s in to them.
Story 3 : People like this exist, so it is hard to deny it . The bully is obviously a sadistic
Oh please, this sounds like a bad Bully Manwa. I don't buy for one fucking second this story is actually real.
@@classicrockkid345you're the expert
@@vincentcleaver1925 oh yeah nobody could see this jock kidnapping the same kid multiple times in a row
@@classicrockkid345 Oh, believe me, most form of manhwa and manga, books and TV tone it down a great deal. It's amazing how much some people can get away with something. Especially if they're rich and the teachers can and will be fired for trying to do the right thing.
@@classicrockkid345
Even I want to believe it's fake but there are children who unalive themselves because of bullying so real life is way worse than we can think of.
Last story, is a perfect example of why some students become killers.
"he sent me facebook messages" that right there if there is enough meat on the bone is tatacit admission of guilt and probably some kind of thing to get a restraining order. Dumb people do things like write about their most stupid crap all the time including crimes, abuse, abusive intentions etc. Simple screenshot (Facebook is required to retain data for about a decade by law so "deleting" messages /accounts erases nothing) and suggesting Daddys company might need to explain some things if this continues or anything else happens.
They are not born that way. They were made.
25:26 This is the kind of asshole that makes you empathize when a dude flips out and offs their bully.
Story 3, even if its wrong, should honestly name the guy and the company they inherited. If its true theyre a public figure and it wouldnt be too hard for someone else more fortunate to let the wheel of karma turn...
It'd probably get taken down by mods but I do agree
S3: this literally made me nauseous. I can’t even. I hate people so much.
Story 1: this is weird. They want to kick out Op but at the same time their mad on why Op doesn’t talk to them.
They didn't want to kick him out. They wanted to scare him into submission. It was a power play that blew up in their faces.
@Henri96VOExactly what I was thinking. Horrible people.
Whoa dude. James is one of the most heartless individuals I ever heard of. Like damn. I thought my bullies were bad but James takes the cake as being the worst. OP may not have figured out what James saw in him that made him an easy target, but I have my thoughts on what it maybe. James saw potential in OP, things such as doing great in life and making a name for himself, that sort of thing. I guess James felt threatened by this and wanted to make ops life hell. He was lucky this didn't turn into a deadly situation. That's as far as I'll take it. I wish nothing but the best for op hope he gets better and lives life the way he wants. As for James, oh I have a lot to say to him. But I'll this much, karma will get him.
Story 3: Pumped Up Kicks starts playing
Nah fax I’m big so it wouldn’t be a problem for me but I would a turned into Gilbert arenas lol
Fake SA accusations should be punished. The OP should find another therapist. The reader really sounds like they are victim blaming.
It makes me so mad that women will accuse someone of SA falsely. How do they sleep at night knowing they purposely ruined someone’s life? For what? Attention? I don’t know but it seems the ones who didn’t do it are the ones who get all the punishment.
It’s more common than you think, and they always get away with it
S2: OP was the victim of the title 9 sexual assault process which really is designed to be a kanagroo court. Many schools have been sued for violating student's rights.
Story 3: The bully has everything in life, and instead of just leaving someone mentally, physically, and financially more unfortunate be, he makes his life worse. I truly hate some people.
Story 2 commenter is weirdly judgy. 'I was falsely accused' 'Well we don't know you didn't do it and you may not know'
It's fair, it's a he said she said case.
@robertnoble6661 and that's fine. It is mostly the you might not know that's raising my eyebrows. In fact he is one of the two who would know.
People call me paranoid for all the security cameras in my place....well this is 1 of reasons why
Man third story should hope op didnt choose the evil route if you know what i mean. Being rick wont save you from hot lead, must of never seen the news or movies
And then when those that experience this do go on their villain arc people are fed lies and say that all the bullied kid needed to do was reach out for help.
OMG OPs experience is downright horrible and catastrophic. I don't know what I will do but I'll organize something against that bully I mean even after all that he's still bullying you. I'll take action.
S3. Wait, he dropped out of school because of marijauna possession but he's back in school again?
Yeah, that doesn't make sense at all.
The fact that nothing gets solved on story 3 is heartbreaking.
Not denying that story 3 happened or not but it sounds something out of a Korean drama. i wouldn't even be surprised if the bully or his parents had connections in the school and they let the bully get away with it. Cause from what op described his torture aint no way the school wouldn't have notice atleast some bruises if there was any.
But serious though i give my sympathy to op in that story. He seemed like a smart guy who would've had a good career if it wasn't for the bully. And i kinda wish we had a good ending for him but it looks like its not the case the bully got a football scholarship,money and works in his dad's company all while op is still being tortured, is a McDonald's employee and a drug addict too (i hope he could fix that problem) and he cant even sue the bully too.
Last story- jesus tap dancing christ....
Second story is terrible sa is a terrible thing and faking it is even more terrible i hope op is right and she gets karma and im glad op was able to somewhat rebuild his life
I'm sorry but I don't buy story number 3
Its not the bullying in itself that the issue, its that the school system is so pathetic that they actually don't do anything at any point against this guy despite having several opportunities to definitively figure out whats going on between them!
Where are OP's guardians in this story and what are they doing about this? If op is actually getting messages from this lerson about rehab/suicide then why aren't they using screenshots of thoes to take to the public if this person is such a big deal in life now?
your absolutely delusional if you think schools ever punish bullies especially when the victim has no parent that cares and the bully is a rich popular athlete who the school and collages fawn over.
@@slink1313100% Correct!
If anything, the fact that the school administrators continuously turned the other way when it came to this bullying is depressingly realistic. The simple fact of the matter is, authority figures in schools don't want to be accused of choosing sides when it comes to the bully and the victim. Which is exactly why the zero tolerance policy was created in the first place for schools. Punish all parties involved = make it look like they're being impartial.
@@slink1313 it's the fact that the school never recognizes the bully for his satanic behavior, not them doing nothing
With how the story was told it was to a point where the cops should have been called several times over
@@SnowyWolborg that's what got me, instead of punishing both of them the school continuously did nothing in situations so severe where the cops should have been called
They should at least be made aware of the bullying considering the scale of everything happening
My bullies didn’t get it till my dad showed up and I started to take boxing classes and I was in heavy weight to so the moment they touched me again I had every right to defend myself no one knew I was training but I got tired of being pushed around and as a girl against 7 guys I had to show myself how to protect myself from them i thank my dad for his help and support and for being the best dad out there my dad was ready to beat some ass but I was lucky enough to do that for the both of us they tried to touch me and they got one hell of a beating I gave a few broken noses and black eyes 😂 after that no one ever came near me❤ I grew up with big guy cousins always wanting to wrestle and fight so I was used to fighting guys 😂
Do you know how to use fullstops or any other type of punctuation?
Story 2 i wish op sued them
Wait, in Story 3 did he drop out of school or not? 🤨
Story 3 is so triggering and specific that I sorta don’t fully believe it. The Camera thing is very offsetting cause there always been camera a thing in the late 90’s unless a rural town. Hard to believe it’s post 2000’s if so. That said, no redemption is possible for that bully if he got everything he wanted. Nothing is more dangerous than a man with nothing to lose and if he op does it, i would never blame him for it
S3: no way this is real. He says nobody saw the bullying and that he frequently had the crap kicked out of him. How come body ever saw his getting thrown into a dumpster? Or getting carried and thrown into a river? Or being covered in bruises, busted lips, scabs, scars, black eyes etc? Im not saying bullying this bad doesnt happen, but to say that there werent ever any witnesses makes this completely unbelievable.
Ah, super doormat stories
Wondering why you even have a dorm at 20 if you aren’t gonna live in it. Most schools I’ve heard only required living in dorms as freshman(ie. 18-19)
He said it was provided through the scholarships. So why not?
@@southernflight5078 does the scholarship cover forming itself or does it cover enough expenses to mitigate dorming costs though. Because the former makes sense, the latter doesn’t
Dear god first op needs a spine
Story 2 pisses me off with no real ending….fuck those stories and posting them
Yes, I have seen these stories which have no real ending. They are infuriating.
Story 1 - OP needs to learn the difference between abuse an and argument. An argument is 2 sided and can be constructive. Abuse is one sided hours of one sidedly putting a person down.
In story three I’m sorry u out of school get in the gym after all that u didt beef up nope I can’t feel sorry for you
Story 3 sounds like bullshit
y you think that? I've been bullied almost all my school yeears. I've been hit, had food thrown on me, made fun of, called names and even got jumped getting dropped off at home. if you don't think there's legit psychopaths out here who would do terrible shit like and literally divot they're time hurting others.
if you think it's fake then either you been a fuckin bully or you never been bullied
Never been bullied then. Some kids are really cruel.
This is definitely coming from someone inexperienced things like that are very common in schools some bullies even take it as far as to kill someone for no particular reason especially the fact that the bully had parents that were rich ofc he'd be entitled assuming the story is real
@@cytercrazy482 when you mentioned that they’d go as far as killing someone, wouldn’t be surprised if they actually felt joy from that and would actually become a serial killer just for the fact that they killed somebody that they victimized for years and it wouldn’t even phase the family also.
@@silverblaze46 yeah you're right