Forgiveness is a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward someone who has harmed you. There’s absolutely a chance they will forgive. That’s different than letting her back into their lives, trusting her, or repairing or pantomiming a loving family relationship once shattered; after a hurt like that, while technically non-zero, chances are super low and will be zero if she doesn’t respect boundaries.
dont tell them that you are sorry. you are only sorry for yourself for loosing your comfort. you only started working on your marriage once you were about to loose your comfort. all in your own best interest. not in that of others. f off
That’s a temporary insanity case if there ever was one. It would have been different if the husband found out and then attacked. Instead he was literally caught off guard walking into his own house.
Considering he almost killed the AP, I think what you stated is the reason why they gave him only 7 years, and left him out in 4 due to good behavior. Sadly 2 wrongs don't make 1 good, but furtunately the sentence was small in comparisson to what it could've been. He might actually killed the guy and never seen the light of the day again. At the end of the day, poor man... his life ruined by his selfish wife.
@@lobaargentina I see your point,mine is that finding out about an affair and being surprised by accidentally walking up on it is very different. So deciding he should serve time in my opinion means no one should have temporary insanity as a plea
@@hankogle6858like the son said, if they had a proper lawyer instead of an appointed one, they would probably use that defense or another good one, like thinking his wife was being assaulted. But instead he probably got a tired, overworked public defendant that read the case details 10 minutes before going to court.
i don't understand if the cheaters are really sorry for what they did . why do they cheat in the 1st place , that husband deserve better ,op suffer is literally nothing compared to what husband might have suffered in those 4 year for nothing
How much clear can someone make it? Leave these people alone. You ruined them and yourself. Move away from everyone and figure out why you hate everyone, including yourself, so much that you would cause so much damage and pain and still want to be around and "fix" things you set out to destroy. You knew what you were doing and what it could cost you and you chose to continue. You chose it. Now live with what you've done, while trying not to damage anyone else as badly as you've done in the past.
To the cheating wife, your family is unable to forgive you. Leave them alone and invest in getting yourself in therapy, you are one messed up puppy.
Thanks for sharing! Therapy might help, but do you think there's ever a real chance for forgiveness in situation like this?
Like the name of one of young dolph’s Hit “Preach” 🗣️
Forgiveness is a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward someone who has harmed you. There’s absolutely a chance they will forgive. That’s different than letting her back into their lives, trusting her, or repairing or pantomiming a loving family relationship once shattered; after a hurt like that, while technically non-zero, chances are super low and will be zero if she doesn’t respect boundaries.
dont tell them that you are sorry. you are only sorry for yourself for loosing your comfort. you only started working on your marriage once you were about to loose your comfort. all in your own best interest. not in that of others. f off
Cheaters and homewreckers do not deserve to be forgiven
That’s a temporary insanity case if there ever was one. It would have been different if the husband found out and then attacked. Instead he was literally caught off guard walking into his own house.
Considering he almost killed the AP, I think what you stated is the reason why they gave him only 7 years, and left him out in 4 due to good behavior. Sadly 2 wrongs don't make 1 good, but furtunately the sentence was small in comparisson to what it could've been. He might actually killed the guy and never seen the light of the day again. At the end of the day, poor man... his life ruined by his selfish wife.
@@lobaargentina I see your point,mine is that finding out about an affair and being surprised by accidentally walking up on it is very different. So deciding he should serve time in my opinion means no one should have temporary insanity as a plea
@@hankogle6858like the son said, if they had a proper lawyer instead of an appointed one, they would probably use that defense or another good one, like thinking his wife was being assaulted. But instead he probably got a tired, overworked public defendant that read the case details 10 minutes before going to court.
OP's mom is continually defending her.
OP's dad should look in his wife's past. Suspect there might be some cheating there.
i agree
i don't understand if the cheaters are really sorry for what they did . why do they cheat in the 1st place , that husband deserve better ,op suffer is literally nothing compared to what husband might have suffered in those 4 year for nothing
Totally agree! The husband deserved better :(
@@RedditFamilyTales yeah did you get this from Reddit?
I appreciate how you break down each story. It really helps to see all sides of the situation
Damn, this one was just depressing.
This is most likely on the subreddit where everyone who cheats talks about things, they all say that they aren’t wrong.
How much clear can someone make it? Leave these people alone. You ruined them and yourself. Move away from everyone and figure out why you hate everyone, including yourself, so much that you would cause so much damage and pain and still want to be around and "fix" things you set out to destroy. You knew what you were doing and what it could cost you and you chose to continue. You chose it. Now live with what you've done, while trying not to damage anyone else as badly as you've done in the past.
This is the most satisfying story. Every time I hear it I just smile to myself
I never understand entire families that get so upset because someone didn’t do what they would have done.
What do you mean exactly? If you dont mind explaining that is
You’re cheating you’re always the A Hole.
Another "she's living her truth" success story.
Couldn’t he have plead temporarily insane?
Technically yes but it would be insanely hard to prove
Hoar