The Takeaway Is A Vibe Check For Difficult & Disrespectful Women

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  • When to use the takeaway to check a difficult and disrespectful woman’s behavior so she respects you.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who shares a short success story on how he used the takeaway strategy from my book 3% Man, to change a woman’s behavior from aloof, flakey and disrespectful to a complete attitude change. He had a good 1st date, but after that she would wait days to reply to him. Then he used the takeaway in a simple but smooth way that caused her to back up, apologize and respect and highly value his time. The takeaway is a cheat code for all types of personal and professional negotiations to get what you want instead of getting jerked around.
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Комментарии • 76

  • @kevinkoperniak7062
    @kevinkoperniak7062 9 месяцев назад +28

    2 days to respond? Women look at their phones non stop. What a bunch of nonsense..Good for this guy.

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino 9 месяцев назад +91

    This is crucial. They may act all sweet and nice in the beginning, but acting too cocky and nice can make them attempt to walk all over you. Let her put in some effort..

    • @bloodwashedsaint
      @bloodwashedsaint 9 месяцев назад +4

      Amen Jesus created you fellas great wisdom

  • @johny8113
    @johny8113 9 месяцев назад +29

    The word BUT hit her like a ton of bricks.

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS 9 месяцев назад +56

    Girls are always on their phones. It's unlikely she was away from the device for 48whole hours....

  • @LulaRoberts
    @LulaRoberts 9 месяцев назад +25

    I will use this advice when I come across a problem like this.

  • @terrodar19
    @terrodar19 9 месяцев назад +34

    After my friendly divorce, even my ex wife treats me differently when i pick up the kids, since i no longer argue w women, i have developed an unmovable stance and no longer look weak in any regard

    • @Somebody-Man
      @Somebody-Man 9 месяцев назад +6

      How does she treat you differently now compared to before?

    • @christophervan6966
      @christophervan6966 5 месяцев назад

      Good on you.

  • @JJ-bf1ib
    @JJ-bf1ib 9 месяцев назад +32

    In work or social events, I approach women twice only indirectly. If they open up further and want to talk to me, it will progress to later asking them out if I liked them. If they don't open up after the second approach. I don't talk to them anymore. Those with low interest or just want attention usually get mad at me every time I pass them by.

    • @JayTronik1
      @JayTronik1 9 месяцев назад

      Hmm, I wonder what exactly do you mean by approaching women indirectly ..... cause if it's you doing the approach it's pretty much direct in my perception. You probably mean small talk or something similar?

    • @JJ-bf1ib
      @JJ-bf1ib 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@JayTronik1 Yes small talk. Like asking about something about work or directions. I read her receptiveness. If they put effort and say hi back after passing them by again. They are good signs of interest and playfulness. I approach twice asking again about work or something just in case they are shy or if they don’t have initiate conversation. Even shy ones you can tell if they like you. Sometimes those that I ignored after my two attempted approaches they initiate conversations.

    • @JayTronik1
      @JayTronik1 9 месяцев назад

      Well thanks, It's definitively worth a try . I'll try to remember that @@JJ-bf1ib

  • @Stuntkrazy929
    @Stuntkrazy929 9 месяцев назад +18

    Adding this line to my arsenal. Thank you to the writer and the coach for sharing this one

  • @mefik
    @mefik 9 месяцев назад +8

    Coach is a beast.. I Used the takeaway once and it hit her like a JDAM. The best part is that it acted like a vibe check as well and realised she wasn't a good candidate. 💯

  • @dorkga1092
    @dorkga1092 9 месяцев назад +39

    I saw a great quote somewhere which said that you shouldn't look at boundaries like putting a restriction on a relationship, but rather giving the other person an opportunity to continue having a relationship with you.
    This guy's situation demonstrated that perfectly. If he wasn't that into the girl, he could have simply walked away for good. But because he liked her enough, he called her out and actually gave her the chance to keep him in her life especially since he was kind but firm. And it seemed like she was trying to play hard-to-get. Good for him! And great video, Coach!🤘💛

  • @wang220
    @wang220 9 месяцев назад +5

    Good life advice. When a car salesman tried this kinda thing on me I just get up, say thank you, and head for the door. You won’t make it 5 feet away before he asks you to wait while he get his manager. Then the manager comes over after they chat in another room. The manager of course isn’t taken aback by this technique. So when he highballs you with a slightly better offer and then you walk out no matter what he says. Your phone will be ringing the next day that salesman is working, and he will be ready to deal.

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 9 месяцев назад +14

    AMEN to the title.

  • @13sprintuser
    @13sprintuser 3 месяца назад +1

    What a classy reply to a woman who obviously didn't give AF

  • @couchmayne4351
    @couchmayne4351 9 месяцев назад +5

    Love how you threw the sales metaphor I been the top salesmen at my company for years and I was always scared of sales jobs this job worked for me because it doesn’t rely on strictly sales but it does make you more money if you do and when people ask me what do I do that makes me so good at it I tell them I’m just honest and don’t come off desperate they call in I give them the deals they can take it or leave it if they try to play hard ball and say they have better prices at other companies I tell them well check them out see what they are offering and about 90% of the time they call back or buy from me, same goes for women again coach thanks for another great video

  • @4ws0m0
    @4ws0m0 9 месяцев назад +4

    I recently purchased a new car and used the takeaway to get them to remove all of the dealer add-ons, it truely is a beautiful thing. You know you're on the right track when the sales manager steps into the office haha

  • @shars4782
    @shars4782 9 месяцев назад +11

    I'd really like to see you again, but I like spending time with people that are excited to see me. I'm not getting that vibe. Take care.

    • @DaveO0808
      @DaveO0808 4 месяца назад

      truly a chad response👍

    • @godsbruh
      @godsbruh 2 месяца назад

      too much explanation. these never work

  • @ChristopherT1
    @ChristopherT1 7 месяцев назад +9

    Yup. First time I used this was #2 of 3 on the roster so I had zero shits to give. She gave me some bullshit excuses and showed low effort and I whipped out the No THANKS and pulled way back. Next thing you know she’s at my house in a low cut sweater and naked within two hours. Still dropped her later for that red flag.

  • @apeshitphilosophy5221
    @apeshitphilosophy5221 4 месяца назад +2

    Anything but high interest = block them. Any sign of disrespect is a bad sign. Even if they correct their behaviour or come back, don’t accept it (unless you have a long history together)

  • @303cris
    @303cris 9 месяцев назад +7

    i did the take away buying some wheels for my truck, got a lower price.

  • @mrsalviboy94
    @mrsalviboy94 9 месяцев назад +9

    Some believe making you chase and beg will make you value them more but it seems they want submissive men no matter what, for what? To look good in front of her group.. fellas they would rather look dominant and empowered in front of the group than earn your respect and secure you, that along tells you where you stand.

  • @sahajdhungana1140
    @sahajdhungana1140 9 месяцев назад +2

    It’s my birthday coach! Appreciate the upload!

  • @christophervan6966
    @christophervan6966 5 месяцев назад +1

    Good one. Thanks.

  • @urbanproductions4852
    @urbanproductions4852 9 месяцев назад +4

    beautifully done

  • @kevinkoperniak7062
    @kevinkoperniak7062 9 месяцев назад +7

    Difficult women… =99.9 percent of them !

  • @Xxxxxrrr6464
    @Xxxxxrrr6464 9 месяцев назад +2

    Good vid
    Thanks Corey

  • @Zeus-william0303
    @Zeus-william0303 8 месяцев назад +2

    Great job cory

  • @Blodia1990
    @Blodia1990 5 месяцев назад +1

    Had a woman that took 4 days to respond, after SHE asked me to hang out🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣

  • @timnichols7760
    @timnichols7760 9 месяцев назад +2

    Nice!!!

  • @materiialart8226
    @materiialart8226 9 месяцев назад +1

    I need to do the take away on my boss, I didn't like he was speaking to my co worker. I am a well skilled technician and I know I would not like for anyone to talk to me like that..

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino 9 месяцев назад +2

    Based emailer

  • @WhoDatMutt
    @WhoDatMutt 3 месяца назад

    Sounds like a solid plan😎

  • @neilanderson9151
    @neilanderson9151 4 месяца назад +1

    Not a bad response. Maybe no response would be good too. :)

  • @stephenwilson9244
    @stephenwilson9244 3 месяца назад

    I’d really like to see you again but I really like spending my time with people excited to see me. I’m not getting that vibe, take care ;)

  • @TurbulantSynider
    @TurbulantSynider 2 месяца назад

    The book is so many things. Like its not that if i read 10-15 times it wil work.... I have to make notes and then workable tasks and so on and practice. Its a graduation level book... 😅 I am feeling demotivated from women already and that book is such a huge task. 🐑

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  2 месяца назад +2

      That's why most people are mediocre and lazy. Success requires real work.

    • @herbert993
      @herbert993 Месяц назад

      You could always just date Palmala the rest of your life if you don’t want to put in the work.

  • @songs794
    @songs794 9 месяцев назад +1

    hell yea

  • @westernmike365
    @westernmike365 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yo just shifted muh paradime

  • @staatsanwaltschaftemskirch4709
    @staatsanwaltschaftemskirch4709 9 месяцев назад

    Yes

  • @tommyvuitton3113
    @tommyvuitton3113 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, must be a tech issue. This video apparently has 5.2 million likes with under 2k views.

  • @trrealestatenycrealestate200
    @trrealestatenycrealestate200 9 месяцев назад +5

    i would have been more direct , I would have said don't bother texting me again and delete her

  • @dlwilliamson5644
    @dlwilliamson5644 9 месяцев назад +3

    Coach, how much enthusiasm could he possibly have if he waited THREE days before reaching out after a decent make out session?
    As a woman who has is financially secure, fit, athletic with dear friends and hobbies that has affection and good vibes to offer; if a guy cannot see enough value to ask me out for a second possible "HHH" then I too, have lost enthusiasm. In my opinion, he waited too long to ask for a second date. It would have come across to me (speaking only for myself) that if I have not heard from a guy in three days after a make out session, he could not find anyone else and thus, I am an "option". Some women are accepting of being an option while others like myself do not appreciate the "Hey, I could not find anyone in the last three days so what are you up to?" mentality. Again, this is the way I would read a guy who did not reach out after a make out session. Hell, if you can even get us to kiss you a lot then you are so close to being invited "in". Cheers! 😘

    • @ParkourEh
      @ParkourEh 9 месяцев назад +13

      Stuff like this leads many young men astray and is probably why there's such a horrible loneliness epidemic amongst guys and why women struggle to find worthy partners.
      You're essentially asking guys to put you on a pedestal and to be exclusive with you after a first date. But the moment they do, you lose attraction because a part of you feels he's weak. Lose- lose for the both of you.

    • @user-lm6ro4ec9v
      @user-lm6ro4ec9v 9 месяцев назад +2

      And THAT is why she waited to respond. Some men can’t look in the mirror

    • @dlwilliamson5644
      @dlwilliamson5644 9 месяцев назад

      @@RarelyCheck RarelyCheck, thank you. Most definitely gave me a RealityCheck". I agree no matter how many boxes a person think they check you do not know until you become exclusive. Even with the agreement of exclusivity you can be disintegrated quickly if the scales get upended. Thank you for your thoughtful and well articulated response. Genuinely, I appreciate the "reality check". Cheers.

    • @dlwilliamson5644
      @dlwilliamson5644 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ParkourEh Thank you for your response. Admittedly, I don't emotionally invest in a guy if he waits three days to reconnect. I also have to own that after the date and I call on the way home to thank him for a wonderful evening I am most likely open to a second date to get to know him a wee bit better. Honestly, I do not expect to be placed upon a pedestal. I simply do not think it is wise for me to mentally invest in a guy that may not be into me enough to make plans for a second meeting. Again, I appreciate the thoughtfulness and generosity in your response. Cheers.

    • @westcountrywarzone8064
      @westcountrywarzone8064 9 месяцев назад +3

      If a woman is attracted a to a guy..... the timescale is irrelevant. The only thing that matters is a woman's emotions. If Brad Pitt didn't call you back until 5 days had passed after a first date, you wouldn't blow him off would you ? Enough said.

  • @jameshunt3504
    @jameshunt3504 9 месяцев назад +5

    @coachcoreywayne godbless 🙏🏻 u my big brother from another mother. I don't want to make this too long. So all I'll say is both, My parents died extremely young, I was an only child. My father was a very masculine, loving man. He was a true leader and true alpha male. He taught me as much as he could about. Women and understanding how not to Chase them!! He died unexpectedly from cancer at 51 years of age when I was 27. I needed help and I found your work when I met a woman who turned out to be a very wicked evil narcissist 10 yrs ago.
    so I can't thank you enough. You have really taught me so much. You just don't understand almost like a surrogate, Father figure not knowing so I wish UHealth and, The greatest blessings my brother from another.
    happy holidays if you are ever in New York. Or New Jersey please reach out. I would love to buy you dinner and drinks my treat. Sincerely Patrick James Holmes III 🙏🏻 RESPECT ❤😊💪🏽🍻

  • @slashdash5279
    @slashdash5279 9 месяцев назад

    This is great.

  • @PuritanPilgrim
    @PuritanPilgrim 9 месяцев назад

    Can women be trusted with confidential information or secrets?

    • @dlwilliamson5644
      @dlwilliamson5644 9 месяцев назад +6

      If you have to ask then don't. Your secrets and confidential information is something that you value. Do not share these things until they regardless of gender, have EARNED your trust.

    • @PuritanPilgrim
      @PuritanPilgrim 9 месяцев назад

      @dlwilliamson5644 very good response. Thank you kindly. I'm just getting out of the redpill community and getting into Corey's work. I lot of them say women aren't capable of keeping secrets. It's in their DNA.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 9 месяцев назад +6

      Women love a good gossip. They live for it.

    • @anshumanaich8320
      @anshumanaich8320 9 месяцев назад

      If she worked for the CIA.

    • @chrisw8838
      @chrisw8838 9 месяцев назад +2

      Anything you say can and will be used against you.