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7 Tips to Surviving Marriage Separation
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- Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
- You can save your marriage after separation. Being separated does not mean divorce. Being in a marriage that is separated means that you have the chance to shift your thinking and actions to bring your spouse back into an improved marriage. You can get your ex back and you can save your marriage with these easy tips.
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Tasha Curry have suffered from anxiety, depression and PTSD for most of her life. But through her issues she found personal development and have been able to maintain a long term marriage. She wants to help you get your marriage back to being loving and full of passion. The tips she share are things that changed her relationships and lifestyle. Hopefully It can work for you.
0:00 - Intro
1:53 - Tip 1
3:40 - Tip 2
5:05 - Tip 3
6:44 - Tip 4
7:32 - Tip 5
7:59 - Tip 6
8:40 - Tip 7
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Thank you for watching!! You can save your marriage after separation. Being separated does not mean divorce. Are there any tips that you have heard or done that I didn't mention?
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I filed for a divorse but I am praying that it will get better I do forgive him the abuse is far gone but if He gets help I want to save my marriage and I'm seeking healing and my focus has been horrible thanks for this
I really love my husband and I want our marriage to be healed I pray he will desire change before it's time to go to court this hurts alot
It’s been 4 years since I found out my wife cheated. It was the worst pain I ever felt in my life, especially coming back from a 9 month deployment. Have 2 kids together. We where separated 4 months, ended up moving back in together to work it out or so I thought, but it’s true when “when a good girl is gone, she’s gone forever”. It hasn’t been the same since. We separated again and it’s been a year. I’m in a much better place as I focused on myself and doing better for me. Doesn’t hurt nearly as bad but every time I see her to deal with my kids, the pain comes back. 14 years down the drain. Hang in there everyone, things will get better eventually. Know YOUR. Self worth!!! Her affair partner ended up using her and throwing her to the side. Karma is real.
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I can relate My wife seperated from me 9 months ago, for her not so new lover after 13 yrs of marriage. Now 14 yrs of marriage( anniversary earlier this month) gone down the drain. Life goes on though. Stay Optimistic.
@@chaucerparks2042 bro I’m in a much better place now. I’m indifferent to the whole thing now and have ZERO feelings for her anymore. Best advice I can give is to love yourself, workout and do the things you love!
How is or was she a good girl if she cheated? Hope you find a real good girl.
Self care is key. I am getting so much more sleep. Avoiding any unnecessary talks. I went for a walk this morning, it felt good.
After 28 years of marriage we separated for 3 years. I realized that l was better all by myself. There is no going back for me.
I have to say, I have seen so many videos and Ted Talks about this topic but for some reason, your thoughts in this subject matter really hit home for me. I am currently going through a separation and wouldn’t wish this type of pain on anyone. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Thank you for your comment. Means a lot to me.
I have been separated for a week now it's so painful and so hard
Same here‼️
Hope you are better now
How r things now? Please update us. Going through same thing. Been 2 weeks
I’m going through the beginning stages of separation. I decided to talk with a therapist. But… my therapist was very vindictive. She wanted me to pull my husbands phone record to find out if he is was texting other woman. I think I’ll find another therapist because she was weird
Counseling made my situation worse. I'm now in difficult position to win my spouse back
Ooohhh that’s bad
It is so hard to focus on myself after focusing on her for 15 years but this is my main goal.
Ditto
Take your time with it!!!! Everyone heals at their own pace, especially if you invested years and have children
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Thanks so very much. Please pray for my wife and I who have bin separated since 8 23 23 in Colorado. I'm the victim of d.v. We really need a mairicle from God. God know the details so I'm not going to go into too much detail. I believe that it's God's will we are eventually totally restored and our mairage and lives reconciled. Thankyou for reading this and praying for us I. Colorado. Take care and God bless you all who read this and pray for us. It's the first time in 15 years we have bin apart in our mairage together.thanks for your prayers for us.
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My reality is that I don’t want my marriage but my husband doesn’t want to let go. Our relationship is super TOXIC. According to him it’s because I refuse to learn my place and follow his lead. Understand that I have no issue with a man leading my problem arises when I’ve lost all respect. How do you follow someone you don’t respect?
Sounds toxic maybe too controlling , are you a horse or a wife ??? Im sorry im sure its painful Im dealing with a relationship issue currently too
Good Luck
Why don’t you respect him anymore is my question.. Just asking no offense
I wait 4ever with integrity to reconcile with my husband ❤♾
Although i dont think my wife and i will reconcile ( and i would love to) I love your message in this video. Thank you so much for helping me. I am grateful.
You are so welcome
How’s it going now?
Thanks for this video. It's so helpful. Currently going through a separation and I feel so lost with no one to talk to. He wants to leave to find himself. I don't wish this pain on anyone.
I understand same thing here but this too shall pass
You will be fine. Take it one day at a time. That's what am doing
Thank you. Your comments are so true. Hard to follow in real life but I know I should. I am a man who just lost his wife due to her infidelity and listening to this video made me cry. Thank you it is very true.
This is extremely helpful. In a separation right now and this is incredible advice. It gives me a lot hope.
My mental health spiralled where I had self harming thoughts and was out of work for awhile. Self-care was absent, I couldn’t get up to brush my teeth. My mum is a marriage counsellor so that helps a ton, my friends were trying to split my husband and I which I don’t appreciate. I also have an individual and couple counselling. I started journaling too. Some days feel impossible to get up, other days I’m ok to go to the beach.
Dealing with a separation now and it’s literally the hardest thing that I’ve had to deal with. I definitely don’t even know where to begin with trying to fix it.
Once u and your spouse is separated, it’s over for ever. Even if u do get back together, it’ll never ever be the same.
Most times it shouldn't be the same.
I watched this video twice and it was during the second watch, I understood you!
Wow....This really hit home and I thank you for sharing. My wife and I haven't physically separated, but within our home, we have. I've found myself actually doing some of the things you mentioned to get through the pain and hurt. Thank You
Thank you for watching and commenting.
Thank you Tasha for this encouraging message. In the storm and things aren’t getting better. I’ve been standing for my marriage, but I came to the realization that he is a completely different now and he is not willing to work anything out. He no longer thinks we are compatible and has a cold heart. My kids and I are trying to keep positive and we are all trying to process the new normal. We all have a therapist, but it’s still hard. Only God knows what lies ahead. In your time Lord Jesus.
You are a diamond, thank you 🙏🏻 ❤. I’m three months separated and heading into divorce, this is invaluable advice x
Thank you.
My husband decided we were separated. I feel like it’s his way of seeing other people without considering himself a cheater. We have a 6 month old and dealing with this was well as postpartum has truly been a nightmare.
Yes, hurtness is a word. I feel it. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Thank you for watching and commenting.
I totally disagree . We are separated because we didn't think of one another enough
@@zackmorra6003 i have seen this number a few times and it sounds like a scam… whoever this person is, there is no way you can get your partner back in only 3 days, what a lot of 💩
@Mark vegal yikes 😬 give it up already, I don’t need a ducking cheater in my life, someone who doesn’t want me and only wants hoes! Damn
I under what she is saying to some degree, but she fails to mention CPTSD (Childhood Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). This type of trauma causes many triggers throughout your life. My ex and I both suffer from CPTSD. I realize that I do but my ex doesn’t realize that he suffers from it as well. He kept telling me to get over it. I was seeing a psychiatrist but he was no help to me. Psychiatrists are pill pushers and really don’t talk you through your trauma and pain.
Yes “hurtness” can be a word! This is literally one of the BEST videos that I’ve ever seen! Thanks so much. This is solid!
Must read book! "Separation and Divorce-Surviving with your Children" by Bridget Michaels
Thank you for the suggested reading!
how did you know you were gong to get your husband back?
Am forever grateful to Dr. Gbenga for his counselling and teaching that have restore my mum's marriage after 9 years of separation, my Dad is back and we are happy again, thank alot Dr. Gbenga for your help.
I was diagnosed with cancer last year and my marriage went down hill after that. Now in 2023 no communication no understanding from both sides. So we decided to get a divorce but I think we should separate because it's been alot going on for the past year. I think separation is the best for us.
Thank you so much for your encouragement. I am separated with my husband and it is really not easy but just like what you said work on myself. I like your approach you're awesome!! I love to hear more of your advice wow!! ❤love it!!
Thank you so much for the kind words! Separation is not easy, but like I said by focusing on the right things (i.e yourself) it can make it more bearable. Thank you for watching and commenting.
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My wife abandon me 23 yrs marriage during my time of need. I was in a car incident and became overwhelm with depression instead of helping me she gave up on me and cheated on me then treated me like I'm cause of her unhappiness I now can't afford to move I'm stuck in the same home, but I have nowhere to go. I'm so alone hurt, and she has the nerve to flaunt the person like I was invisible, I feel empty. 😫
From experience her so called happiness will not last long. Prayers for your healing ❤
I've been through some shit, but this with my wife is the worst pain I've ever felt. I feel like a gutted deer.
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My greatest fear is waiting then her saying she wanna stay separated im just confuse on the whole thing honestly
Hi Tasha, your videos showed up in my feed and I am loving them. I must say you have a very kind and nice way of explaining about situations and how to handle them
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Just wanna make that woman the happiest
Did you ever get her back?
@@tunesgoboom No, I tried everything but through my growth I came to realize I wasn’t the problem. She went into hot girl summer, became some dudes side chick, started hanging around wannabe thugs. While I took the time to grow and level up. Now she stalks my IG but she left me when I had nothing so I became a man she couldn’t get. I also realized she really didn’t bring much to the relationship. I was putting her on a pedestal because I was in my emotions letting a lot slide with her.
@@TheWeezyfly damn. Something thing me I’m in the same boat with you but I’m still in the beginning of separation. We shall see
@@tunesgoboom wish you the best. Keep your head up bud
Will the pain ever go away?
I’m also scared that I will end up hating her…. I don’t want to feel that either. She’s always going to be there as we have kids.
Thank you so much!!! This really put things into perspective for me
You are welcome. Thank you for watching and commenting!
What if she finds another man to get underneath to help herself “detach” from you. But then says she’s open to reconciliation??
How’s it going now?
My wife is leaving at the end of the week she says she hasent loved me for a year and needs to leave to figure out what she wants. Ive never felt pain like this i just want her to love me again
I feel your pain. My husband is in the process of leaving me to find himself and has been checked out for some time now. Best wishes to you. Hope you're holding up well.
Sorry to hear that , how’s it going
In my marriage m the one fighting for us. He doesn't wanna reconcile. He is constantly avoiding me because i lashed out at him for going to see his friends and cousins every other day. And not spending any time with me. I know there's no other bigger issues there. But how can he stay away from me for 6 months over his friends. He still goes out with everyone except with me. M saad 😪. My kids are suffering in between this.
Thank you ! Self care 💆♀️
My husband want a divorce and is hurting me a lot because I don’t want to divorce.. am trying to stay strong but am hurting 😭💔
How is it going now ?
My marriage is separation and well she didn't want to wait and now has another man and wants divorce. Separation is not the key for any marriage that's when the devil comes in devours the weaker spouse.
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@@nancyclinton6482 no thanks! No evil spirits here.
@@elindigeno1215 it's not evil spirit okay. It's universal process alright.
Thank you I’m separated now and he just listens to his bitter mother and sister I love him but I’m not chasing him I’m here geez it’s gets to you but I’m doing my best keep emotions in control even though I just want to wild out !!!! 😂😢❤ thank you again for this video it helped
Thanks Tasha, great advice
Thank you.
You did a great job with this
Thank you.
This was extremely helpful for me. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for watching. I'm glad it helped.
Thank you so much for this 😢
You are welcome!
This really helped a lot!
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for this!
I'm trying to separate but i just feel trapped in
I needed this. Thank You
How are you doing now
I hope you feel much better now. I try to hit the gym and stay happy regardless. What tips do you do to ease off
I'm crying rn I want to fix this
You can no matter how dire a situation is. You just have to have patience and faith. Nothing... especially when things go wrong in marriage is going to be fixed overnight.
Great insight
Thank you for this
This is something that I needed to hear
Thank you
Thank you so much for this video. I'm going through a separation right now and I'm lost... I need help. I have a therapist which is a start. But I can't seem to self care. I worry too much...
Being Separated is the worst way of life!! How do you find someone to walk through this journey with I know no one?
It’s a lonely journey. Seek counseling and they’re walk you through it! I’ve chosen “better help” and it is very affordable care.
How long was y’all separated? Me & my been separated for 2 months now it’s hard
We were separated for a year and we did our separation twice. It was hard. For a minute we could not get on the same page. In the beginning it's the hardest but as time went on we realized that we wanted to be better people for each other and ourselves.
@@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor me and my wife been separated for almost a year now but we spend time together and things like that but she isn't affectionate with me at times. I was wondering should I have patients and see if our marriage can be reconcile or file for a divorce because being married to someone and they aren't affectionate pretty much saying the marriage is over thank you
@@kwanzaagaston3630 Great question. I wouldn't just wait but if you guys are spending time together I would ask her why she isn't affectionate and why she is being cold. Maybe there is a conversation she wants to have and don't know how to start it. Because even though you guys are hanging out what is the value of the time being spent? Are you guys just watching movies and surface level conversations? You've been separated for a year and you are still seeing each other it sounds to me there are conversations that need to be had. I would start with that question and maybe see if there is something on her mind that she isn't saying to you. From those conversations you should be able to determine to keep the marriage alive or file for divorce.
Thank you but, I got offended. My name is Nancy and yes I need to Stop Being Negative Nancy. I continued to listen. Thanks again
I'm sorry I offended you but glad you decided to watch anyway. I appreciate it😊
Good video
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Curry's are taking over!! lol. Thanks for watching.
What if your wife leaves you takes the kids and now lives with her girlfriend. First I just felt she was there too help with the kids and support since I was kicked out. I asked her once does she even want to get back together. She didn't want to think about it or talk about it. Now she has someone to talk to and cater to her needs and I'm just out here working and being there for my kids. I never considered therapy but J feel llike I nneed it. Because this is just too personal to talk to anyone else. Anyone has their thoughts on what I should do. Let me know
This is why in my videos I do talk about watching who we get advice from. Because sometimes us women go to our girlfriends and take advice from people who are not in our situation and it can make things worse. Therapy is good. When I was going through my separation and divorce I was severely depressed and had to see someone. Just to help me get through all my thoughts. You can't push anyone to make a decision. Sadly right now she may not know what she wants and her friend who she thinks is helping might not be. All you can do right now is be there for your kids and take care of you. Because if you are worried about someone else your mental health will only get worse with anxiety and stress. Please take care of yourself so you can be the best father for your kids.
@@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor Thank you so much for reaching out and giving solid advice. I definitely will continue to focus on myself and my kids always.
How long til the tears stop?
Sometimes it takes a while. I went through all the stages of grief and for me I was angry most of the time. When they stopped for me is when I stopped being angry and accepted where is was. I decided to hold my head high and do what I needed for me. It's when I let go of any expectation. I then started to feel better. Hope you do too!
Where’d you go when you separate do you rent somewhere?
gosh you're beautiful
Hey can I move from the province. After separation?
What if your spouse is dating but you don’t want to?
You don't have to. Live your life the way you want to. You can't worry about other people even if they are your spouse. But at some point you and your spouse would have to sit down and talk about staying in the marriage or not. If they are seeing other people and not concentrating on what to do with the marriage you might want to let go because their mind and actions are on being single.
Omg 😔😔😔😔 i love this video.
Thank you for watching and commenting!
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How can i be talking with you. Am in much pain.i need help
You can reach me ndconlineenterprises82@gmail.com. This is my business email and I am the only one that read and reply to this email. So if you want to talk this is the way you can reach me right now.
@@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor hi
My husband get separate please give me a tips
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No thanks she’s gonna go try other D and even tho we’re “seperated” I still consider it cheating. 😂
We are separated and now my wife is back with her x ….what do I do
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