Can A Separation Save Your Marriage?

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Комментарии • 278

  • @latoyacooper615
    @latoyacooper615 8 месяцев назад +13

    I’m reading so many excuses on here, it’s sad. If you want your marriage and your spouse do whatever it takes for your marriage. Seek God and not your family and not your friends, most marriages fail because there is NO God. ❤

  • @wcriteser
    @wcriteser 3 года назад +57

    I hate, literally hate my separation. I thank God for what he’s convicted me of in this separation but I really want my wife back home. I’m working on myself spiritually, intellectually, emotionally, and physically. My PIES. I gave my life back to Jesus, my marriage and my worries. It’s helping most of the time but I’m human and fall apart from time to time.

    • @maureen.k9527
      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад +4

      Don't let anyone come in between you and your love,you can actually win their love and make it too deep that the ocean are jealous :)

    • @maureen.k9527
      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад

      I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my partner back to me after separation

    • @maureen.k9527
      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад

      Here I leave his WhatsApp
      number he will surely help you

    • @triciaanythingispossible6377
      @triciaanythingispossible6377 2 года назад +6

      Me too i miss my husband even after all the hurt he did

    • @maureen.k9527
      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад

      @@triciaanythingispossible6377 send him a message on WhatsApp

  • @Coach_MarcyBob
    @Coach_MarcyBob 3 года назад +49

    Why would u date ? Y’all still
    Married. Don’t bring Adultery into
    Your space. New gets old too just like marriage 😒

    • @ashelywashere
      @ashelywashere 3 года назад +3

      Exactly!

    • @tbynoe37
      @tbynoe37 3 года назад +2

      Facts!

    • @deja9462
      @deja9462 2 года назад +2

      I thought he said not to involve others.

    • @phyllipscott3408
      @phyllipscott3408 2 года назад

      @@deja9462 He did state not to date others.

  • @lepetitemorte1635
    @lepetitemorte1635 2 года назад +4

    I love that you’ve shared this free of charge. Thank you. So many people need this info. (Me) and without additional commitment.

  • @katainz
    @katainz 3 года назад +21

    my husband has done this, he is with another woman and wanted me to be on a waiting list to see if he loves me. yeh right, its over and im moving on with the kids we have too.

    • @johnorton618
      @johnorton618 3 года назад

      my husband left me for his ex girlfriend he had before he got married to me I was so eager to get him back because I loved him, my world came crumbling when my husband engaged his mistress ,the fear of sharing my home with a strange woman took the better part of me. I lived in agony and torment, then I decided to seek the help of Dr Aguiyi just to get back my husband. I told him my problem, he promise to reunite my husband back to me and he did exactly what he said. For sure he brought back my husband to me and we two are peacefully together for good. if you have any problem in your home, marriage/relationship and email: aguiyispellcaster@gmail.com or WhatsApp him on +2348151642717.

  • @vidalmercado1593
    @vidalmercado1593 2 года назад +4

    This was the best message I’ve heard yet. I got hope when honestly I lost hope after my most recent talk with the wife…

  • @mentaltoughness6365
    @mentaltoughness6365 Год назад +8

    Friends and Family members will make things worse never get them involved get professional help

  • @kenyoncarter4926
    @kenyoncarter4926 2 года назад +2

    This is so essential and spot on!

  • @raydokai8142
    @raydokai8142 2 года назад +3

    So encouraging Thanks so much!

  • @yanadalton5655
    @yanadalton5655 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much. Great points!!

  • @chrisallen7827
    @chrisallen7827 3 года назад +14

    Wow, amazing. Going thru it right now and after watching this I feel like I have a better plan!!! Thank you!!!

    • @drkgmailcom
      @drkgmailcom 2 года назад

      Contact this gmail if you want to know how to get your ex back

  • @Rashad2038
    @Rashad2038 4 года назад +35

    I'm trying to save my marriage but im not getting anywhere but after watching this video, it really sounds like a good plan.

    • @israelgoya384
      @israelgoya384 3 года назад

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    • @shakathato9782
      @shakathato9782 3 года назад

      @@israelgoya384 Let me introduce you to someone that help me restore my relationship with my ex after two month of separation,message her on WhatsApp for help:+2349069313955

    • @legalmemories
      @legalmemories 3 года назад +3

      Can’t save a marriage on your own - if you’re dealing with a remorseless cheater just let it go

    • @shellenesmith3348
      @shellenesmith3348 2 года назад

      Did things work out?

    • @Rashad2038
      @Rashad2038 2 года назад +2

      @@shellenesmith3348 It takes 2 to put in the effort if you know what I mean. Currently separated

  • @porcelli5566
    @porcelli5566 3 года назад +1

    This was great, thank you

  • @brandonmaddox4862
    @brandonmaddox4862 11 месяцев назад +4

    Me and my wife are trying a in house separation, as in living in separate rooms, we don’t have a time table, but we know we need to work on ourselves, listening to these rules makes it easier to have a idea of how we can hopefully work ourselves back together

  • @nikkilamar5417
    @nikkilamar5417 2 года назад +1

    This sounds like a feasible plan. After what I’ve been experiencing for is some sound information. Very helpful

  • @TheTonyAndreas
    @TheTonyAndreas 3 года назад +4

    Man this is amazing information! Thank you for sharing!

  • @only4him330
    @only4him330 11 месяцев назад

    This was the best breakdown I've seen

  • @KingLatt
    @KingLatt 3 года назад +12

    I mindset has truly changed about my separation! I asked God for direction and I received it! Thank you

    • @andie8589
      @andie8589 2 года назад

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    • @andie8589
      @andie8589 2 года назад

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  • @Neeko_Z
    @Neeko_Z 3 года назад +3

    Very thorough, really good points

  • @Coach_MarcyBob
    @Coach_MarcyBob 3 года назад +32

    We tried the in house “separation” personally it doesn’t work. They’re still in your face, you see them everyday. They still want to argue still want to talk about petty disputes. Still expect you to cook wash clothes etc.
    I’ve decided to move out. My kids are impacted(mostly because of me) so I’m
    Leaving them with dad and getting
    Them on the weekends.

    • @m.l.5284
      @m.l.5284 3 года назад +3

      In house separation worked well for me and resulted in reconciliation after 4 months. It gives so much chance to talk, when appropriate, and not loose contact. Actually it was very tricky to avoid her moving out.
      I get your point about house work. He might expect this from you, is case he the only one bringing in the money, it this is the case, and in this case it seems to be fair, you doing most of the house work.
      If you want to actually save your marriage and family, you have to accept that temporarily things will be unfair. Accept it, it is worth the price. Don’t accept unfair deals forever, he will probably find out soon, that things are not ideal if he if alone with the kids.
      I could tell you so much, but I an not the native speeker.
      Wish you much success, and wish you can get a reconciliation. Being separated parents is so much harder. There are so many things to get back together, just it takes its time and wise choices. I hope your marriage and family can get together again, at the right time. Get back to him and your kids, at the right time. Just talking from my experiences. Wish you all the best.

    • @BPb123
      @BPb123 3 года назад +1

      @@m.l.5284 hello, I'm currently starting a separation but have not done the legal paperwork yet. My husband is the angry kind, pissy all the time and suffers from depression, epilepsy, the list goes on... how did you separate in home? Do u ignore ea other? I don't understand how it can work.

    • @m.l.5284
      @m.l.5284 3 года назад +7

      @@BPb123 I don’t know your story and can‘t judge. It very much depends if you have kids, how many years of marriage and more. But, a person with real depression and and epilepsy needs psychological and medical treatment, if this is really the case. If you loved each other, you should have supported each other, and still should.
      You asked how „in-house separation“ works. It doesn’t work well as a separation, and it never was my intention to separate. She wanted separation, until she found out, that she didn’t really want it. It was her friends and family, that pushed her. When she understood the consequences for her, of being a single mother and would have to find a job, she stopped the madness. It this point, it was so much better, she hadn’t moved out.
      How in-house works: sleep in different rooms, avoid discussions, talk about necessary topics, don’t talk about the separation, nor the relation, don‘t touch the topic, be friendly, keep some distance, you will still see each other every day, it’s no problem, when you respect the rules, go into your room, when you don‘t want contact, go to common living room, when you want contact. Talk about, positiv things only, even if you don’t feel positiv. Positiv talk de-escalate, negativ topics escalate. Don’t talk about legal stuff when you meet, just avoid the topic, even if you feel you should talk about. Only talk and do positive things when you meet, avoid anything provocative. If you have nothing positive to say, then talk about neutral things, even politics is fine, if the other is interested, at least it keeps you in contact. Over time, things will de-escalate, takes some weeks or months. Slow down the legal stuff, give much time in all legal aspects, do not go to court. Legal pressure will make things worse. Don’t end up fighting about kids. Be careful with layers, they act in their own interests, they earn money from your divorce, they will try to push you into separation and divorce, because this is how they generate their income and you pay it. They don’t act in your best interest. Take your own decisions, don’t just follow advice of others. Also, advice from friends is NOT helpful in this situation, because they only judge, based on what you tell them, so friends are just your echo-chamber, not an independent instance. Once things cooled down a bit, start doing events together, both of you and the kids. Do something together on the weekends. Ah, and share the housework, make a clear plan, to avoid discussions. He makes breakfasts for the kids, you prepare lunch etc. This is for the kids. For yourself, take your own responsibility, make your own meals, wash your own clothes. Finally , at the right point, stop the shit, do yourself a favour and the kids. Find a marriage counsellor, initially you can start individual sessions, later together. Don’t ask him for agreement, just start it without him, only for you. Later you involve him.
      Getting back together is much easier when you still live in the same house. At the moment, keep some distance, you need it. But don’t move out. You will look foolish to all your friends, when you change your mind later and move back in. Keep that in mind. Do the separation the soft way, all options open.
      Wish you the best.

    • @deniserobinson3526
      @deniserobinson3526 2 года назад

      I feel yea.

    • @antoinelyons5323
      @antoinelyons5323 2 года назад +2

      M. L. Great wisdom

  • @edgarquezada6103
    @edgarquezada6103 4 года назад +1

    Very useful great advice👍

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 4 года назад

    Good info.. Thanks!

  • @sharongeorge6677
    @sharongeorge6677 3 года назад

    Every good advice!!!

  • @julieajamison
    @julieajamison 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for this❤

  • @giuliagiannina3283
    @giuliagiannina3283 2 года назад +1

    There's no time limit for separation. Only take care of myself, careless about hurting him/her you are not hurting me. Look for healing the inside and make myself respect.

  • @hoochiebe1
    @hoochiebe1 3 года назад +2

    Best advice advice ever

  • @user-oc5yg7wi5l
    @user-oc5yg7wi5l 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you; this is helpful. I can’t find the video you referenced in this video.

  • @faceofbeauty-byjo7821
    @faceofbeauty-byjo7821 3 года назад

    Wow!! So powerful

  • @SAS4
    @SAS4 Месяц назад

    Work day/play day. That’s good. Separated. Moving out soon. Sharing news with our kid this weekend. We’ve rehearsed the conversation several times. Scared but necessary for reconciliation

  • @UpTheHillMusic
    @UpTheHillMusic 3 года назад +13

    We're not married but we're separated. I'm set to move out in a few weeks. It's going to be difficult I have two small girls with her. She's convinced she doesn't want to try anymore. We tried couples therapy, it didn't work and I feel it Contributed to the breakup. She's been feeling like this for a while.
    I'm working on myself and hope that we can save our family.

    • @Randomdudeinamerica
      @Randomdudeinamerica Год назад

      I'm in the same boat, she wants separation. 2 girls, idk what to do.

    • @onlyreika8771
      @onlyreika8771 11 месяцев назад

      Update

    • @m.l.5284
      @m.l.5284 6 месяцев назад +3

      It's now 2 years. What happened?

    • @m.l.5284
      @m.l.5284 6 месяцев назад

      For all men (and women) I this situation, with children: don't move out. Stay, as long as you can, with your children, as close as possible.
      Eventually your spouse will change her mind. It takes time. For me it took 4 months, until she wanted her family back. We lived in the same house, separate rooms. Children were mostly with me in that time. Play it correctly, don't force her. Get professional help. Couple therapy is a good approach. Find a therapist, and do a single session without your spouse, firstly. So, the therapist knows the situation well, before your spouse joins. Plan events with the kids. If your spouse want to join, fine. Otherwise, it's only you and the kids, that's fine. You can send her photos from our events with kids, without further comments, so she sees what she missed. Show her, you don't need her, you are fine with the kids alone. She can/will join when she is ready. Again, don't force her. Kids will force her and ask her to join. Talk to other women. Don't tell her, she will find it out by herself. A little jealously can help. She needs to understand: her window is closing, to take you back, otherwise some other women will take you away. That speeds up things, and she needs to act, to get you back. That was my story, in short. I did a lot more, then I can tell here. Do everything possible. We finally did more and more excursiones with the kids, she joined and finally, we went on vacation trip, all together. That ended the separation. Things are still not easy, even years later. We continue to make slow progress, and build up our relationship, from a new base. It hard work, but I kept my family. Wish you good luck.

  • @msprettykawaii950
    @msprettykawaii950 3 года назад

    Yes, Im tempted

  • @nonameandplants6130
    @nonameandplants6130 4 месяца назад +1

    Me and my husband are doing this at the moment 2 hours away from each other but we needed it

  • @kemmab6511
    @kemmab6511 4 года назад

    Omg the truth 🙏🏽

  • @meenashankar6417
    @meenashankar6417 2 года назад

    Thanks

  • @_QueenofCaliSouth
    @_QueenofCaliSouth 4 года назад +16

    Thank you I needed this I currently separated and am broken

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      @queendenia8067 3 года назад

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      @_QueenofCaliSouth 3 года назад

      Queen Denia Thank you I’ll contact him

  • @epsirevived3875
    @epsirevived3875 2 года назад +1

    My husband have already moved out with the O.W, theyre together now for 4 months , so what can I do but leave him alone and move on.

  • @joveeviernes673
    @joveeviernes673 4 года назад +4

    good message for the broken hearted heart..great coach

    • @marthamijares4049
      @marthamijares4049 3 года назад

      Need help my husband left me to have kids with another woman. He Went to see a physic and she told him he was going to have a divorse. He fell for it and left me. We have been seperated for 2 1/2 months. I need help. Need to restore my marriage he actually told me he moved on we have bills together and told me not to call him anymore. So how will this help me?

    • @gabitom5056
      @gabitom5056 3 года назад

      Have you done anything about it yet

  • @justinbrown5722
    @justinbrown5722 2 года назад +5

    I cheated almost a 2yrs ago
    Think my wife wants this
    Wish I could rebuild her trust in me, it’s the worse feeling I’ve ever felt
    Feel like I failed her on all levels
    Thnx for the advice

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      @maureen.k9527 2 года назад

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  • @jeanhelanhatch7523
    @jeanhelanhatch7523 2 года назад +2

    I love that these steps are about sorting yourself out and not going back to old crap, but getting well separately and having 2 touch points in a week...also to be exploring new for yourself. And that you stay celibate in every regard. A must xxx

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  • @theworldfamousdjforeplay8988
    @theworldfamousdjforeplay8988 2 года назад

    Make sure to always have an attorney, my wife and I agreed on something and when we went to court she asked for the total opposite out of spite and today I have to suffer the consequences of not having an attorney present.

    • @theworldfamousdjforeplay8988
      @theworldfamousdjforeplay8988 2 года назад

      @Amarachi Jacinta congrats, I'm glad you're happy in your relationship.😊 unfortunately I don't want a woman that would listen to another man before me to return to me. I don't want her back anyways. I gave her walking papers and I don't want them back. My mentalityis, If my woman says bless you when you sneeze, you could have her. 🤧

  • @k.augburn5508
    @k.augburn5508 3 года назад +4

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  • @niydeira
    @niydeira Год назад +1

    What if one is completely done with the marriage and the other want to try this method and fight for the marriage

  • @Lilian4you
    @Lilian4you 10 месяцев назад

    Same here.he is always in my face even when he is not home with the hurtful text messages...very toxic environment. If there is in-house separation then we've been separated without knowing..we don't talk ..just text message. If i ask him a questionhe will act like im not on the room, never picks his calls, .my husband has a phd in grudge bearing when he doesn't get his way and he is also manipulative and controlling, using "I'm the man and only my decision counts as a punch line. And I'm over it cause he treats me like a nobody. I don't think in-house separation will give him a wake-up call cause he has even said to me that if it was not for him i will be homeless. He told me he hates me in anger and how if he had enough money, he would give me a divorce. So it is not just about your children but your emotional, mental and physical health have to matter...out of home separation in my opinion works better

  • @beamarlo3962
    @beamarlo3962 3 года назад +9

    What if you want to move out but you're the stay at home parent? Thinking of divorcing because cannot have a conversation without argument, especially finances.
    25:00 totally agree, hasn't worked in 22+ years of marriage. Need a brand new relationship but it's hard when there's no agreement, no commitment, no following through. So very agree that just because you're intimate, doesn't mean everything's fine. So problems are just shoved under the carpet and then the bad relationship goes on and on again.

    • @cedrichaynes2756
      @cedrichaynes2756 Год назад

      Negative energy in our house holds members

    • @orchider143
      @orchider143 Год назад

      Sounds familiar. Could be covert or neglectful narc.

  • @kathyamweg8742
    @kathyamweg8742 3 года назад +3

    I want him to do this soooo badly. Becoz we hav been married for 18yrs & really dont think he wants to divorce & he dont think it will work

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      @lovemelody6065 3 года назад

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  • @103thecraig
    @103thecraig 2 года назад +1

    My wife left October 2021 with our 2 children I would never date anyone else I’m hopeful she will return

  • @yurimiranda8716
    @yurimiranda8716 5 месяцев назад

    I wish I had found this video four months ago, I would have done everything differently, but now it's too late

  • @metoor6036
    @metoor6036 3 года назад

    What if your husband won’t meet up with you?

  • @spyda7591
    @spyda7591 3 года назад +7

    Experiencing my first seperation and never saw it coming. I admit it was mostly my fault and now I'm scared she's not coming back.

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      @rachealflorian8112 3 года назад

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    • @bds8350
      @bds8350 11 месяцев назад

      Me 2

    • @kesienaokoro2111
      @kesienaokoro2111 2 месяца назад

      She will come back

  • @gladiatoroui1897
    @gladiatoroui1897 Месяц назад

    Is separation for 6 months apart (20-30 min by car) and he is back with his parents a long one? Is there hope?

  • @leoceh6073
    @leoceh6073 2 года назад +4

    You know what my grandfather said to me years ago once you cut the apple it never becomes whole trust me people
    Most people use a trial separation to get out a have horizontal fun sorry that’s what I see all the time

  • @brendadean9291
    @brendadean9291 4 месяца назад

    My ex husband suggested a separation where he lived in the basement and saw the other woman. I absolutely did not agree to this and divorced him. I had 2 young children at the time.
    They were 2 and 6.

  • @SonOfBeaufort
    @SonOfBeaufort 3 года назад +6

    It's very hard to separate inside the house because of all the distractions

    • @johnorton618
      @johnorton618 3 года назад

      my husband left me for his ex girlfriend he had before he got married to me I was so eager to get him back because I loved him, my world came crumbling when my husband engaged his mistress ,the fear of sharing my home with a strange woman took the better part of me. I lived in agony and torment, then I decided to seek the help of Dr Aguiyi just to get back my husband. I told him my problem, he promise to reunite my husband back to me and he did exactly what he said. For sure he brought back my husband to me and we two are peacefully together for good. if you have any problem in your home, marriage/relationship and email: aguiyispellcaster@gmail.com or WhatsApp him on +2348151642717.

    • @24klogan86
      @24klogan86 3 года назад

      @@johnorton618 is he legit just curious?

  • @harrymcnicholas844
    @harrymcnicholas844 2 года назад +1

    No, it is simply a prelude to a divorce.

  • @albertvanderford1351
    @albertvanderford1351 2 года назад

    My husband abandoned me and will not talk to me since hurts bad i want him back

  • @lmfisher650
    @lmfisher650 6 месяцев назад

    What if you separate because he was having an emotional affair, your husband then tells you he wants to see other people and monkey branches to the coworker he has an emotional affair with? I love him and don't want to divorce but I'm not living there now and in no contact and he is ghosting me. I have got a lawyer to divide assets but don't want to go as far as divorce. I can't look at him the same anymore after he had gone further with his coworker. I feel betrayed and abandoned.

  • @thehalterfam527
    @thehalterfam527 2 года назад +1

    I’m trying to apply this to my marriage, what would you recommend, when your spouse is requesting an out of state separation for more than 6months? And there has been no infidelities.

    • @jeanhelanhatch7523
      @jeanhelanhatch7523 2 года назад

      Great advice. Vinaka, thank you. Separation to work on your own crap. Yes yes yes

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  • @lovehopefaithstrength3450
    @lovehopefaithstrength3450 Год назад

    So hurt and upset please pray for us

  • @sandiebeach0926
    @sandiebeach0926 Год назад

    I need a Spiritual friend.

  • @laundrybest2290
    @laundrybest2290 2 года назад

    Hang on forever

  • @kimberlymartis8666
    @kimberlymartis8666 4 года назад +6

    What if my husband do not want to tell me how long is the seperation?

    • @Somegirl3602
      @Somegirl3602 3 года назад

      He won't

    • @michaeltrabulsy5380
      @michaeltrabulsy5380 3 года назад +3

      If he had the affair, and states that he still wants to give the marriage a chance, then it is important for clear understanding and agreements to be honored. If he is not willing to do that, then you have a decision to make. Otherwise, the mistake becomes more out of control in regard of giving the marriage a fair chance to heal. It almost always take 2 to tango and if the marriage has a chance for repair, each has to acknowledge and realize their own accountability for why an affair happened in the first place. Hope this helps. There is no healing if both don’t truly want a chance to rebuild and keep the marriage.

  • @rolemodel376
    @rolemodel376 3 года назад +5

    JESUS WILL SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE. Trust him give your life to him and he will make your crooked paths straight. It will have some time but he will making and molding us.. I sood to save even I am not allowed to play with my kid. Still I want jesus to work in me first.

  • @nonameandplants6130
    @nonameandplants6130 4 месяца назад

    I've learned alot about myself normal I leave for another guy but this time I didn't and it feels different this time. And he wants to do dates I told him he Pl the dates I don't wat to know when or were just pick me up find a baby sitter luckily I live with my aunt right now she would watch them for a little so it will make it easier on both of us but I just wat him to plan it. What's funny is I was so angry but saw him yesterday and we talked and gave each other a hug it felt good kinda miss it I just don't miss the fighting around the kids and just plain out screaming at each other. And I think it will bring the spark back with not being around all the time.

  • @richettaricks8130
    @richettaricks8130 2 года назад +2

    I'd like to know what should be the consequences for the cheating partner when it's discovered they have cheated a second time, if you both plan to stay together???

    • @latoyacooper615
      @latoyacooper615 8 месяцев назад +1

      There should be no consequences, pray about it and give it to God, if you love your spouse and you want your marriage pray for your husband, pray your husband loves you as Christ lives the church, pray what God has joined together let no man separate, you are the head and not the tail, your marriage will succeed under Christ Jesus, ask God to show you him. God says ask and you shall find. Good luck sweetheart I’m praying for you and your family ❤

  • @Kimmie980
    @Kimmie980 3 года назад +1

    Well my husband want even talk to me period! I am done

  • @melonyanderson6847
    @melonyanderson6847 4 года назад +7

    My husband moved out and filed for divorce we have a covenant marriage I want to reconcile and put the marriage back together I'm praying for conviction and that he will repent co e back to God and me and our marriage

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    • @gabitom5056
      @gabitom5056 3 года назад

      Have you done anything about it yet

  • @justnikki1690
    @justnikki1690 3 года назад

    So how do you forgive an abusive marriage?

    • @SMSBJM1981
      @SMSBJM1981 2 года назад +1

      You don't. Move on.

  • @St.Irenaeus
    @St.Irenaeus 4 года назад

    Ive heard mixed things about this. Hmmm. We might need this though

    • @gabitom5056
      @gabitom5056 3 года назад

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  • @autonomist
    @autonomist 6 месяцев назад

    My wife wanted a separation after I found out she cheated.
    And to see other people.
    Found out it was to continue talking and seeing affair partner…
    Says she doesn’t want a divorce, because she loves me.
    But this doesn’t feel like love after ten years of being her lover and best friend…
    We have kids.
    This is hell snd I’ve lost almost 30 lbs in four months feeling sick to my stomach with fear and anxiety and not having my wife’s love and affection and fearing not seeing my kids together everyday…..

    • @silentcousin8366
      @silentcousin8366 5 месяцев назад

      Gross tell her to kick rocks. If you don’t have respect for yourself no one will.

  • @hollywoodstudioguy3836
    @hollywoodstudioguy3836 2 года назад

    Feeling this what if your in a marriage with older children by your spouse???

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  • @user-ku9ps5rz7h
    @user-ku9ps5rz7h 4 месяца назад

    Separation might work but only if both parties wants to work to make it better, wants to improve themselves and the relationship. By the time you're thinking about divorce it's likely too late to save marriage because you've already tried everything you could and nothing works. You've been to solo holidays, you've tried talking with your spouse about problems in the relationship, you've been sleeping in separate beds, but if your partner is unwilling to make it work then ether you bend backwarts and/or live a hollow loveless life with someone that only wants to divorce you. No thank you. Separation in my case ended up to be just waiting period for divorce.

  • @deadhead92
    @deadhead92 3 года назад +3

    I think this would work only if there wasn’t cheating involved on one side and the one side cheating doesn’t give effort doesn’t give belief.

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    @bronzed_in_chocolate 3 года назад +1

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    @giannadiaz6478 3 года назад +2

    Ok my husband up and moved out. I’m blocked tho so idk if he wants to be separated for a while or is completely done.

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  • @andrewm2459
    @andrewm2459 2 года назад +1

    This all sounds like a great plan but it's really hard to implement when the other party has totally shut you out.
    Separated for 4 months going on 5 and haven't heard a word. A no contact order was granted and that is in place for another 5 months

    • @Fkisa04
      @Fkisa04 Год назад

      Wow this is my exact story

    • @shroomssadow4981
      @shroomssadow4981 11 месяцев назад

      Wait…there are no contact orders?

  • @ericcollins553
    @ericcollins553 3 года назад +2

    My wife was not willing to give up her relationship with her AP since D-day. She has him over the house several times since I been gone.

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  • @jocelyndelarosatv6102
    @jocelyndelarosatv6102 2 года назад +2

    What about the reason of separation is because of a cheating husband? I found out 2 weeks ago that my husband is cheating on me again for the 4th time.. and he is happy that we're separated because he have other woman and they're planning to get together and have their own family...

    • @RashedaF
      @RashedaF 2 года назад +1

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    • @doreen1289
      @doreen1289 10 месяцев назад

      Wait for woman number 5 or 6.. he has no respect for and you don’t respect yourself.

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  • @LatoriaMartin
    @LatoriaMartin Месяц назад

    Dating outside the relationship? Maybe platonic and No sex either cause if you have sex you being ignorant and might as well continue the separation and divorce casue it shows ya not serious. New gets old too.

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  • @nohelimartinez1835
    @nohelimartinez1835 2 года назад

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    @user-mj1ht1tw2w Год назад

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  • @KGB94TV
    @KGB94TV 3 года назад +5

    This advice is ungodly and straight wicked!
    "And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife. But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy." (1 Corinthians 7:10-14, KJV)

    • @shannasansom522
      @shannasansom522 3 года назад +12

      Wow. Did you listen to the entire video? He is not talking about divorce. He's talking about restoring a marriage in a strategic and meaningful way. One of the main reason divorce is so prevalent especially in the church is becuase people take verse like this and shame couples into staying in a toxic situation, then one (or both) leave the marriage and the church.

    • @rg516
      @rg516 3 года назад +5

      And adultery is one of the 2 main reasons that God will allow divorce. The other is abuse. So when u have a couple that is dealing with a spouse that had an affair, and they are still willing to take him back and try to restore the marriage, then it may take a separation to get him to realize what he may lose. If u are willing to work on the marriage, but then there is abuse, (verbal or physical) separation for awhile may be the only thing that can get ur unfaithful husband to snap out of it and realize what he is doing?? If not, divorce may be the only path. U gonna condemn someone who is being abused whether verbal or physical?? Listen to the video, read ur bible and don’t judge!

    • @mrhollister8520
      @mrhollister8520 3 года назад

      KGB94 TV Very few people are “married” according to Hebrew culture today. Having a record filed at city hall does not constitute marriage, & adultery is not what we have been programmed traditionally.

  • @Eliteman-hh3fe
    @Eliteman-hh3fe 2 месяца назад

    This is a ridiculous video. If you separate, you will end up sleeping with other people

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