Marriage Separation Advice (Separation Anxiety)
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
- In today's video, I am talking about the separation anxiety that we go through when we get separated from our spouse. Separation anxiety is a normal thing to go through when you don't want to be separated from your spouse. It can be hard to go through but it is something that you can get through.
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Tasha Curry have suffered from anxiety, depression and PTSD for most of her life. But through her issues she found personal development and have been able to maintain a long term marriage. She wants to help you get your marriage back to being loving and full of passion. The tips she share are things that changed her relationships and lifestyle. Hopefully It can work for you.
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Tasha, your video makes such sense. My husband and I will be having our 39th anniversary in less than 2 weeks. Tonight, he wants a separation. So, I’m going to be leaving our home in Austin to stay with my best friend in Fort Worth. Although it’s going to be hard, I’m doing it. Going to have to leave my sweet little doggie Max and my son Geoff. But. You are right. I’m going to have to get my shit together. Put my emotions in time-out. I’m being remarkably calm right now. But when he left to go with the place he’s staying with my friend, I broke down. We began dating 41 years ago this month. So much shared history.
After listening to your video, I will be searching no further videos. Bless you for your inspiration. And whether it works out in the end, who knows. But I certainly feel better. ❤️
Well that's what my aim is. To just help people feel better. I know it's hard and thank you for sharing your story. You two been together longer than my husband and I so I can understand the history and the life shared. But you can get through this just focus on you during this time.
I really needed this. My wife after 25 years has moved out on me a month ago. This is so hard and all I want is to reconcile our marriage. I am trying so hard to be patient.
How are you doing so far?
@@Hopeless-cv3cj Things are the same. She is still cold to me. I keep praying for her heart to soften. The problem is outside influences manipulating her.
@@ronblakeofficial I feel you about outside influences that can potentially influence her. All we can do is be the best person we can be and hope they see.
This was so good and helpful in redirecting the "thoughts, anxiety and fears" makes alot of sense to work on myself while just being patient during this process.
I needed to hear this cause man I miss my wife
I feel you man. Me too. We just separated 3 weeks ago.
Trust me fellas it gets better
@@bigrelly2001 been standing for 3 years now
Mine too Big Dawg 💔
@@dwightwiley490 bruh it’s been 3 years. Most people would have been like forget it. I’ve had a lot of women try to talk to me too but that ain’t what I want, I want my wife and my family back💯💯
Thank You Tasha! Mind opener for me. We are still living in one roof, She just want to love herself and that her door is still open.
That’s how I was just a few weeks ago. I sent flowers. She loved them. We Been communicating on the daily now again, we weren’t talking. We just had a 3 day get away. She told me since I am still her husband is she wants too work it out. She wants too heal together. Now we’re looking into getting our own place together… Love your channel, & your advice. It really helps with the mental.
Thank you. I'm glad you two have decided to work things out. Your comment means a lot. I'm here to help as much as I can.
Ive been watching this on repeat to not only understand what to do, but to also soothe the pain. I am afraid. Im trying not to be.
Me too ❤️🩹
Yep, I noticed I was doing the same thing
I'm so glad I found your channel! So many great tips. My husband has been hinting and speaking on coming home to me and I've noticed that it's when I have my emotions under control and not being argumentative and pushy.. but he's also is saying he still needs time and this is going on 2 years of being apart. We've been spending more time together but I feel like It's only when him and his girlfriend or ex-girlfriend are on bad terms. When I question him about her, he always says they are not together anymore but he needs time before he
jump back in a relationship with me. I think he's in a dilemma between me and her. I've caught him lying several times when it comes to her. We also just had twins during our separation because we are still sexually active with one another and that still haven't been special enough for him to completely leave that girl alone and come back home. Some days he's super in love with me saying he's ready to come home and other days he's not affectionate at all and calls me by name.. I feel like he's confused. Do you think that's a good idea for us to still be having sex? I don't want to push him away to have sex with his now girlfriend 😔 but I also don't want to be feeling used. If you can Please help me Tasha
This is a dilemma I faced with my separation too. Now my husband wasn't dating anyone else to my knowledge because if I asked he denied and there were some questions I wouldn't ask because I was afraid of the answer. I'm doing a video on this in the next two weeks. But I didn't want to push my husband away as well because of the same reason I didn't want to lose him. But even though it's your husband you can't keep anyone with sex. From what it sounds like he is confused. I'm not sure why he's holding on to the other woman but I feel like he's not thinking about your feelings at all. Most guys want to feel needed. It's not just sex, they want to feel like they are making a difference and that could be why he's confused as well. (I'm assuming). Men want to feel useful he comes to you because you are what he knows. But if you are using that "I can do this without you" that also can push a man away. I know you can do it, he knows you can do it. But like I said he also wants to feel like he's helping. What I would do is take some time and think. I wouldn't have sex every time I see him and don't worry about the other woman because honestly, she holds no candle to you. You may not think so be she has to work harder to keep his attention you don't have to. You have to put your feelings first and that has to be your focus your feelings and your mental health. I hope this helped you.
This is becoming my reality and it hurts so bad 😢
@@ashleyh3672 🙏💗
Exactly what i needed to hear now.....
Thanks for your videos!
You are very welcome! Thank you for watching.
Thank you 😔🙏 I needed to hear this. The anxiety is killing me..
I really to hear this I am a total mess dealing with my separation
Its a tough time. It's a rough road ahead but you can get through it. One day at a time.
How is it going now?
Just don’t bother, when it’s over it’s over, move on
I like what you said about when you have a conversation with your spouse have zero expectations! I am definitely at the point now were I’m no longer trying to get my spouse back but just working on me! Thanks for this video ❤
You're welcome! That's the most important thing to work on you.
This was great, Tasha! I needed to hear this.
I miss my wife with all my heart. I just finished my therapy. I wish that we can fix things.
I really need this I’m recently in a separation it’s going on two weeks…. I did a lot in the past and the past is causing my present hard
This anxiety is killing me. She ignores me and stone walls me to death and im having soooo much trouble getting over her and stop focusing on getting her back...
It’s hard you have to let her go in your heart
This is the best advice. Thank you
If they leave its God bringing in peace for the both of you unless there is infidelity involved then it's different then divorce becomes an option I too have seen infidelity and restoration thereafter. God allows divorce even though he doesn't like it he says it happens because of the hardening of the hearts which makes sense.
Glad I listened to you yoing lady .glad i found your video
Wow this is spot on what’s happening with me
I’m finally at this point leave my husband alone even though I cheated on him I’m doing everything I could to show him I am changed person Chile that man just want to see me suffer . It sucks but determined to let him be
Exactly what I wanted to hear thanks
Why it has to be me? He cheated on me
Subscribing. This is so needed!
Exactly me, but Iam the guy, We live together and I still do all that, I need to relax
You do need to relax. I am the worrier in my marriage....I worry about everything. But if you put your anxiety on other people eventually they will walk away. Believe me, my husband almost walked away from me.
Yes you do have emotional but there nowhere I'm taking my husband back it's time for a new being
This was very helpful
what if i didn’t break the promise or want the separation. we will be married 25 years in october.
Women require way too much maintenance. Me me me me. Don't change for them. Don't need them.
Should I do joint thanksgiving with my separated husband? Some of the kids really want to.
Mine is a little different. I have 2 kids from the marriage. So it’s stress and fear on how I will manage them alone.
this is opposite for me. my husband us sweet and he tries. he needs to change. i hinted on what i want and i tried telling him. i am not sure he unferstands.
It's good that he tries at least. But maybe you should look at what you need instead fo what you want. The reason why I say this is because we could want a brand new car but what we really need is a reliable car. You may want your husband to be more affectionate but he might not be that so you need him to at least just tell you he loves you or in his way show you. Our husbands is not us and what we may do may not be what they are going to do. But you can also show him...So if there is something I need from my husband I'll do it for him and he in turn will do it for me. I hope you understood that. My brain is going faster than my typing.
Love this to my bone
I’m going through this we’ve only been married 4 years we have a 1 year old son and she’s currently pregnant now and she decided to move out 4 days ago.. it hurts so bad because I have no closure on the situation. I love my family
How are things going? I’m currently going through it
Not good at all she doesn’t want to communicate with me but we are living in the same house again! That’s a positive but very little communication
@@georgeblackwell4670 yes her moving back in is a positive. I think you will get through it. I am moved out. We communicate but just recently she has not been responding back even after asking for me to call Any advice?
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Tasha, I’m trying to get your free guide, but it’s not working. Am I required to sign up for Mail Chimp? If so, why?
No you shouldn't be required to sign up for mailchimp at all. When you sign up for the guide it will ask you to subscribe I may have to change that you, but I put it in place to make sure people are ok with me collecting their e-mail. Do me a favor send an e-mail to my e-mail in my bio. I'll repy to the e-mail with my guide. I may have to look at what is going on with my link. Thanks for reaching out.
Hey Tasha, I’m trying to get your e-book but the link says it’s broken. Can you send me the right info? Thank you!
It's on my website. Here it is..mentorformarriages.com/
book link did not work for me.
Here is the book link: mentorformarriages.com/. I need to fix it in my other videos.