I minimized my life into a carry-on.

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  • Опубликовано: 12 апр 2023
  • Finally got the call from the vet yesterday! Next time you see me, it’ll be on O’ahu!! Thank you guys for following my crazy journey. It’s such an honor and privilege to be able to call this my work. Feeling really grateful today. I hope you enjoy this video and see you in the comment section :)
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Комментарии • 571

  • @MalamaLife
    @MalamaLife  Год назад +178

    Happy Thursday everyone! I hope you enjoy the video ( I apologize for the audio quality in advance 😅)

    • @Z3nHolEminD
      @Z3nHolEminD Год назад +1

      Whoa ! Is it Thursday ,, thank you Malama Life for these personal peeks into your families fabulous life . Many blessings

    • @marcellixxx
      @marcellixxx Год назад

      Where are you moving too? 😊 Now?

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 Год назад

      Phillipians 3 : 13 & 14

    • @bbellebe
      @bbellebe Год назад +2

      Thank you ❤️ I love your videos 😍 you always stress that every approach to life would be different, individual which helps me a lot to detach from copying other people's lives and to embrace and start loving my own ❤️ I was often ashamed of who I am....😢 But with your help I'm trying to change that 🙂

    • @atreyee09
      @atreyee09 Год назад +2

      Hey dear.Your voice is soooooo therapeutic 😍I discovered your channel when I wasn't in peace.Thank you for the little changes in my life that make me a happier person.Loads of love and best wishes.

  • @bonnielouuu3195
    @bonnielouuu3195 Год назад +877

    My dyslexic behind read that as, "I minimized my life into a crayon" 😂

  • @Bethany-fo6lt
    @Bethany-fo6lt Год назад +374

    About ten years ago, my town went through a massive tornado and had major destruction. My home was not hit, but I watched my neighbors lose everything. One family, I will never forget, was hanging around the foundation of their home, cleanup of the house needed to happen, but they were in borrowed lawn chairs around a small camp fire they made, and the only possessions were a few flowered plants that somehow survived, replanted in pots, and they were making hot dogs and just talking and laughing. Yes, they lost everything, but everyone was safe and they could rebuild. Seeing this changed my view of my possessions. I can honestly say that if I would ever be in that situation, I would act the same way as them.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +26

      What a story! That's really moving

    • @solarcowgirl
      @solarcowgirl Год назад +5

      that’s so touching. it’s nice knowing they still had comfort in the things that actually matter, even with such a horrible loss.

    • @Bethany-fo6lt
      @Bethany-fo6lt Год назад +1

      @Orange300 They had their documents in one of those waterproof, fireproof cases. That was found intact. The computers were destroyed, but they told me everything they needed was backed up to a cloud.

    • @LoboLady2007
      @LoboLady2007 4 месяца назад +1

      That family has their priorities straight and they know what’s really important!!! They know it is not their things or stuff, but rather it’s the people in their lives that are important and that came through the storm alive, well, and unscathed!!!

  • @suzanner3894
    @suzanner3894 Год назад +305

    Great video. My father always said: “the more things you own, the more they own you”. I have found that to be sooooo true.

  • @jasminealixandranorth
    @jasminealixandranorth Год назад +98

    I've been a minimalist for many decades, holding on to a few things that held value to me - photo albums, a small box of sentimental items from my father. A few Scandinavian chairs, an indoor hammock - and a handful of Japanese dishware. Two months ago my 17 year old Bichon Havanese dog passed away. I realised that all these years of minimising should have been done in one go - after my little dog passed in January (she was the love of my life), I came home to an empty apartment. The few things that I have kept had lost all meaning. She was the heart of the apartment - all material possessions pale and ultimately mean nothing when you lose something living and tangible.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +12

      I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️ heartbreaking

    • @jasminealixandranorth
      @jasminealixandranorth Год назад +8

      @@MalamaLife - Thank you. Yes, devastating. However, really puts things in perspective 🌈💚

    • @SYW-kj1lk
      @SYW-kj1lk Год назад +3

      sending hugs - a lost pet is always hard

    • @pricklypetal
      @pricklypetal 11 месяцев назад

      @ellenorth1928 I am sorry for your loss. My almost 17-yo dog died more than two years ago. I couldn’t empty his med drawer for a year. I still have his full wardrobe. (Yes, he had a wardrobe lol… clothes handmade by my mother who is now in hospice.) I can’t even bring myself to discard unopened rawhide chews. He was a dog who himself had many material possessions, and I struggle with letting them go. I miss him immeasurably.

  • @jtwanger
    @jtwanger Год назад +81

    Your videos are literally the most relaxing thing. Every time I watch I can feel my blood pressure go down and my heart just relaxes

  • @IEVAKambarovaite
    @IEVAKambarovaite Год назад +85

    I did go through a period where for 9 months I was backpacking with just one backpack. This helped me realise how little I needed. I still call myself a minimalist, but I definitely have too much stuff.
    But I also Iove having my little things. I love having that sanctuary. You're an inspiration x

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +17

      Experiencing living extremely minimally makes us appreciate our things but also makes us realize that we don't need much at all!

    • @IEVAKambarovaite
      @IEVAKambarovaite Год назад +3

      ​@@MalamaLife that's the beauty of it ❤️

    • @johnsonjo8454
      @johnsonjo8454 Год назад +1

      @@IEVAKambarovaite hi💋

  • @leebradford6283
    @leebradford6283 Год назад +28

    Right there with you. It is easy to get rid of things that truly don’t matter. We gain so much more. I had cervical cancer at 38 and I am nearly 41 and I am clear! But during the time when I was sick, I got rid of a lot of stuff. I’ll never run myself into the ground again. It isn’t worth it x

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +4

      Happy for you 👏❤️

    • @ThanhTruc-cy3sp
      @ThanhTruc-cy3sp Год назад +2

      Be strong and be more in somewhere with more natural things is good for your health

  • @thewanderingstarseed
    @thewanderingstarseed Год назад +44

    I e been minimizing for years now and I’m finally stuck with dealing with my childhood items. I tell myself “if my house were on fire, would I run into the house to grab these things?” The answer is no, but it’s still so hard to part with them. I will get there. Thank you for always updating us on your beautiful journey ✨

    • @cocomarineblu993
      @cocomarineblu993 Год назад +20

      Make a box, the size you can fit under a bed or a small tote, and allow yourself to fill just that one with your most cherished items and memories. Choose some from each category and things that will likely stand the test of time. I did this and I can put most of my stuff in my car.

    • @cescortes2616
      @cescortes2616 Год назад

      😊

    • @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook
      @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook Год назад +3

      I want to keep this small toy cage, my Art Sketchbooks I am reducing. Photos from albums are being cut to REDUCE the weight.
      Edit::::: I am a Artist mixed media designer so paint draw make th8ngs n collage- I can fit my things after reduc8ng items to 3 large suitcases at the moment

    • @sandraankenbrand
      @sandraankenbrand Год назад +2

      Its not bc of the things... its bc it makes you realize that childhood is gone... forever

  • @ritchiewong16
    @ritchiewong16 Год назад +51

    Hi Sophie 👋,
    I think I should be thanking you simply because I feel like I learned a lot from you, especially when you and your husband embarked on your journey to move to Portugal.
    One lesson from one of your previous videos that I will never forget is, “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”
    Sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤗

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +7

      Thank you so much ❤️

    • @PolinaM20
      @PolinaM20 Год назад +2

      I want to agree. “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened” is something that touched me. I want to keep it in mind, it’s something that made me feel free and open to new experiences. Thanks for the reminder 🙏

  • @subhiksharengan
    @subhiksharengan Год назад +39

    Honestly today was crappy. I felt terrible. But then your video came. Damn I realised how much I had and how happy I can be with what I have. I love being a viewer of this channel and navigating my life through your videos

    • @marcellixxx
      @marcellixxx Год назад +2

      😊 why you so upset ❤?

    • @alyfink
      @alyfink Год назад +2

      I hope you have a better day today :)

  • @fleurvdelft
    @fleurvdelft Год назад +4

    Every time I see something like this I think it's so cool, but also I don't think I could ever do it. I rotate most of my hobbies and even if I haven't practiced one in a while I will usually come back to it at some point. A lot of my "things" are hobby related e.g. art supplies, crochet and knitting needles (+yarn), cameras, climbing/workout gear, instruments, bike, camping gear (stove/tent/pots), etc. to name a few. I've decluttered stuff before and had to buy it again because I became interested in a hobby again and essentially paying double. I personally find that feeling of freedom in having the things I have, the freedom of picking up an old hobby or freedom of having many creative outlets available whenever I feel like expressing myself. I don't think the meaning of freedom is the same for everyone and a lot of people seem to equate freedom with just the freedom to move/travel. I think minimalism is beautiful, but I honestly don't think it's for everyone and I think it's maybe even slightly condescending describing people as being "stuck" in their lives when they don't chase the same kind of freedom you do. Their definition of freedom might be different than yours and that's perfectly ok.

  • @CharVillena
    @CharVillena Год назад +7

    I love hearing about your Minimalism experience, Sophie! I resonated so much with this video. I, too, went to the extreme in the first couple of years of my Minimalism journey. I’m an Artist and I’ve never met another Minimalist Artist, so I had a tough time getting rid of my art supplies. Eight years in, I’ve found my happy medium. I now have the perfect amount of supplies for what I create.
    We get so caught up in other people’s way of living a Minimalist lifestyle, that we forget to focus on what brings value and joy in our own lives. There’s no one size fits all, and I love seeing other Minimalists live their life most authentic to them. Everything we’ve learned in the beginning were meant to be experimented with. I feel like if we set strict rules for ourselves, it’s no longer enjoyable. At least, that has been my experience. If something is not in alignment with who we are, then we can let it go and take what resonates the most.
    I hope your move back to Hawaii is a smooth process! Also, I hope to somehow bump into you in San Diego 😊

  • @lillysummer3546
    @lillysummer3546 Год назад +23

    I have severe pain and symptoms similar to a urine infection since 2015. And Malama helps me a lot with my anxiety. When I think of her I think of the good in this world. Malama is like a flower. So beautiful and so healing. Her courage, her voice and her words are so helpful. Thank you Malama! For your videos and your help. I too hope to be a minimalist that I am able to fit everything in one bag one day.

    • @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook
      @My_Secret_ArtSketchbook Год назад +1

      How much water do u drink please? The Colour of Urine shows about your health.

    • @anjafernandez758
      @anjafernandez758 Год назад +3

      Sounds like interstitial cystitis , I tried it all. When I found Brittany , a Canadian homeopathic healer I was skeptical but also desperate , I followed her ic diet, it’s been 6 years of being pain free.

    • @littlerainbowgirl94
      @littlerainbowgirl94 Год назад +2

      You could also look up “hyperactive pelvic floor”. It can mimic symptoms of a uti. I hope you will get better soon. Wishing you patience and power. 💛

    • @emmaleo3084
      @emmaleo3084 Год назад

      Ask a doctor to test you for ureaplasma

  • @kaceykelly7222
    @kaceykelly7222 Год назад +10

    Not sure why this showed up in my 'feed' but glad it did! Just hearing some of your most basic comments and suggestions were incredibly valuable to my current life circumstances. Please continue with this most valuable work...

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much for watching:) glad you enjoyed it

  • @saraphanar6507
    @saraphanar6507 Год назад +2

    I really resonated with your thoughts ❤ thanks for sharing. You told me smth that I have never thought about before or haven't seen in this angle. I do appreciate your work for us, your subscribers ❤

  • @miriamarzaga5994
    @miriamarzaga5994 Год назад +4

    Thank you Sophie! Your videos brings calmness every time. I’m so glad I found your page! Can’t wait for your next video ❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @kristahayenga7199
    @kristahayenga7199 Год назад +7

    Perfect timing as I get ready to de-clutter my home. Thank you 🙏

  • @tiffanycraig8353
    @tiffanycraig8353 Год назад +3

    I have been inspired by your way of seeing "things". The intention for each "things" make you be more mindful. It give "things" purpose, and because of that purpose, I gain satisfaction. Thank you for helping me realize minimalism in my own terms and translate it to my own version. Cannot wait to see you in your new destination!

  • @vijijeyakumar
    @vijijeyakumar Год назад +2

    Very authentic you are. Wishing you good luck in settling. I can't agree more as I moved with my suitcases only. No regrets at all. Life is a journey. Thanks for sharing.

  • @JenKimBlankenship
    @JenKimBlankenship 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for the video 😊 I’ve recently started a no buy year (no clothes, makeup, etc) and it’s been difficult. Watching your videos helps reset my mind and recenter my priorities! ❤

  • @Pwpwowososo
    @Pwpwowososo Год назад +7

    I remember packing 2 suitcases filled with my kids clothes and a couple of their favorite toys when we decided to leave the States and move back to the Philippines.
    My kids were still young, ages 8,5,and almost 2.
    I told myself I will try to see if we’ll like it there and stay for 6 months.
    6 months turn into 1 year then 2 and now 6…
    We let go of a lot of things.our house, cars.
    Simplified our lives, and realized we didn’t need much to be happy as long as we’re all together.
    Now we get to visit other asian countries, experience their culture, food .
    My kids are learning Tagalog( filipino language) I have my own garden lots of cats which we rescued. And I’m the happiest I’ve been all my life.😊

  • @lioness2000
    @lioness2000 Год назад +3

    Very important lessons. When I started minimalism, I went to the extreme too, and ended up having to buy some stuff back that I had gotten rid of. Now I have balance and peace in my home, even though I ma moving in a month, but I know moving will be easy, since me and my spouse don't have much. Beautifully made video, thank you!🌟

  • @kiyomibowman8466
    @kiyomibowman8466 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your inspiration and balanced advice. Your content resonates for me in so many ways. You help me to continue to stay focused on my own journey. Happy travels! Look forward to more when you are back in Hawaii

  • @zara3828
    @zara3828 Год назад +6

    Following a house fire we lost all our belongings, very suddenly. At first it was so traumatic, just horrible, but now 6 months later I have a lot less *stuff* but honestly feel so much more free than I did before.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +2

      I'm so sorry to hear that. Glad you're able to see the bright side of it

  • @sakinastraveldiary4562
    @sakinastraveldiary4562 Год назад +6

    I didn't even care much about my wedding dress because if my husband is with me and happy then that's the greatest gift from that wedding that happened.

  • @janethassing2523
    @janethassing2523 Год назад +6

    I lived for 3 months out of a carry on and a small duffle bag. It was so freeing. Love your channel. Safe travels and settling in to your new place.

  • @tigerslash7261
    @tigerslash7261 Год назад +1

    Hi Sophie😊
    I always find my self going back to your videos especially when I am overwhelmed with all the stuff in our home.
    Already started decluttering.
    It feels a bit lighter now.
    Thank you for the inspiration❤
    Erin

  • @LauraFaceyFace
    @LauraFaceyFace Год назад +9

    This was so interesting. I really enjoyed your sharing how stressful over minimising can be as well as some of the downfalls (laundry all the time). This still doesn't take away from the positives but just give a more realistic idea .

    • @Alondra_Dessy.
      @Alondra_Dessy. Год назад

      *Congraulations 🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you; Gist the above username for acknowledgment*

  • @bollybelly
    @bollybelly Год назад +3

    Hi Sophie! I just love you and your amazing videos. Today you seem ever so relaxed in your speaking and left us with a very insightful and personal piece. Your journey is truly something to treasure, keep going girl, you’re on a good path❤

  • @CeritaFandaVancouver
    @CeritaFandaVancouver Год назад +8

    Hi Sophie, I love your philosophy about the balance of minimalism. When I immigrated from Indonesia to Canada, my life was packed in one suitcase and since then I tend to be essentialist. It's less stress, easier, and faster for dusting, cleaning, and organizing. Have a safe flight back to Hawaii! My son was there two years ago & it's still in my bucket list.

  • @jessssalemme
    @jessssalemme Год назад +16

    honestly this is goals! I love the inspiration and really need to try to minimize my life in a lot of ways!

  • @PilgrimKat
    @PilgrimKat Год назад

    This is such good stuff, thank you for sharing your life lessons with us! Really good point about the day to day of our lives not changing much if we lose certain possessions. Yes, there would be a sadness and perhaps even grief at the loss, but we would recover and move on way faster and easier than if we lost our health or family. As long as we have the essentials, our stuff is not of primary importance. But glad that you didn't lose your sentimental items in the end all the same!
    A few years ago I lived out of a small carry on for a few months - it was one of my most free and creative seasons. I think our stuff probably subconsciously gets in the way more than we realise.

  • @BenvindadeJesus
    @BenvindadeJesus Год назад +1

    Thank you for this content. I am timorese and portuguese and in three months I will be moving from Portugal to UK. These last few days have been so frustrating for me just worrying about getting rid of almost everything at once and at the same time fearing of letting go some materials possessions although I know and practice minimalism for 6/7 years now. This video just taught me that I don't have to go that extreme because it can turn inconvenient and that life doesn't change even if I let go of those possessions when i have good health and also will have my family next to me, my boyfriend, friends and experiences. I really appreciate your videos, thank you Sophie.

  • @CafecitoMerendero
    @CafecitoMerendero Год назад +10

    Your videos are always so inspiring, happy and safe travels to Hawaii, may you enjoy your new home!! Also, your doggies are too cute 🐾

  • @heatherhillperez
    @heatherhillperez Год назад +2

    Your videos are so great! You are so wise, Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 😊

  • @chanteyshescookinguplife5352
    @chanteyshescookinguplife5352 Год назад +2

    I am new to to your channel and so glad that I found it. What a profound difference decluttering and balancing your perspective can make in your life. Thank you so much for sharing. I look forward to your videos.😊

  • @English_raccoon
    @English_raccoon 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you deeply from Moscow ❤❤❤. You constantly radiate calmness, lightness and awareness. Not to mention all the incredible aesthetics that are priceless.

  • @andreadybvik
    @andreadybvik Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your insights! I've moved around a lot living from just a suitcase and a small backpack, and I really resonate with what you're sharing 💛

  • @lilylee5924
    @lilylee5924 Год назад +1

    Safe travels to Hawaii! I enjoy your videos and you are a great inspiration!

  • @the.whimsical.bookworm
    @the.whimsical.bookworm Год назад +5

    Just wanted to say how much I have appreciated your calming videos and life chats over the past few months since I found your channel.❤ Seeing your insightful ways of viewing life's circumstances has really helped me more than you know!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +3

      I appreciate you watching them! Thank you

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 Год назад +3

    That's great how you're acknowledging that extreme minimalism isn't a great idea either. Not owning what you need is definitely not fun and is a common experience for people going through hard times. I had a life trauma which meant I had to suddenly move into an unfurnished rental place. It wasn't v clean so I spent months cleaning it and getting things fixed, then I had to furnish it. When I moved here in terms of furniture I only had a blow up air bed, one wicker chair, a £5 ikea coffee table and a small bookcase. I remember sitting in that chair with my cat on my lap huddled in blankets as it was snowing outside and the window was broken. Eventually I furnished it, got things fixed and it's lovely now. It started to feel cluttered though so I'm currently decluttering to get the balance right.

  • @ThereseDavidson
    @ThereseDavidson Год назад +6

    ”Detach from people to adjust and pursuit something better”
    Yes! This is what i’m doing right now and finding I have space and energy for creativity ❤

    • @Alondra_Dessy.
      @Alondra_Dessy. Год назад

      *Congraulations 🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you; Gist the above username for acknowledgment*

  • @alejandraesperon5278
    @alejandraesperon5278 Год назад +5

    Safe travels to you and your beautiful family! You inspire me ❤🫶🏽

  • @LearnEnglishwithCamille
    @LearnEnglishwithCamille Год назад +2

    I’m always so excited to watch your videos. Thanks for sharing your journey with us❤

  • @jaimewilliams9978
    @jaimewilliams9978 Год назад +1

    My husband, our four kids, and 1 live full time in an RV. It’s been in the shop since the end of January. So we’ve been living in suitcases for almost 3 months ourselves. It’s been such a wonderful experiencing having to live with less and developing a capacity to enjoy less. I completely agree with how resourceful and resilient you become when you have less. And how stuff really doesn’t matter. The essentials truly are the simplest things and the other things we can borrow and enjoy without owning. Whether in hotels, with family or friend’s in their homes, we’ve used their things and never felt any lack. I do agree that it can feel inconvenient and at cost more at times, but also watching my children play with anything and nothing, has been teaching me not to see less as an inconvenience but an opportunity for creativity and contentment.
    I’m really interested to see how we are both going to re-enter our spaces keeping these new perspectives with more space.

  • @janecosh3590
    @janecosh3590 Год назад +3

    Wishing you all the very best for your transition. Thank you for your videos.

  • @juliaodonovan
    @juliaodonovan Год назад +1

    I hope you have a safe and smooth journey to Hawaii! I have also had transient times in my life when I had to scale down for luggage, but I didn't know about minimalism so I almost never decluttered. It made travelling difficult 😅 I'm looking forward to seeing how you expand from your carry-on to your new home!

  • @rachelrathman1424
    @rachelrathman1424 Год назад +1

    Thank you Sophie and good luck on your journey back to Hawaii! 🌺

  • @RajashreeDarastekar
    @RajashreeDarastekar Год назад +2

    Thanks for making this video. I feel grateful for the people around me my lovely family and friends. Rest nothing matters really. Thanks so much!

  • @soniakapoor17
    @soniakapoor17 Год назад +1

    Hi from India, I have been watching your journey when you started making videos initially.
    Love the way you bring up the videos to us.
    Best of luck for your future ❤

  • @mpgibson6342
    @mpgibson6342 Год назад +1

    So excited that you are going back to Hawaii! Great video, I agree that going too minimal can be problematic - as with all things, balance is essential.

  • @ikammel
    @ikammel Год назад +3

    I love your videos, they always put things into perspective. I wish I could practice what I get from them more.
    Sending you and your husband lots of love!!!🎉😊

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +1

      Sending you lots of love back! Thank you for watching

  • @katievr9249
    @katievr9249 Год назад +3

    Your videos always help me to not consume, I go watch them every time I’m tempted to buy something I don’t need.

  • @TheMennomilist
    @TheMennomilist Год назад +4

    It is really awesome that you are able to fit your life into that small of a case. I have done that in the past and it feels so nice. It is good that you learned so much through everything. That is really scary to ship things out but not know if they arrived or not. I am glad that you have learned that you have what you need with you. Glad they did arrive!
    Great values that you shared in this video. Thanks so much for that. Have fun in Hawaii!!

  • @katiej8596
    @katiej8596 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for your perspective on our things. I'm a very sentimental person but definitely stress out when it comes to certain items. I feel obligated to hold onto so many things and I don't want to feel this way. I feel relief and some permission to let go of these burdensome feelings and items. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I found you last week and you are so inspiring to me. ❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  11 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much for the comment and for supporting me 😊

  • @mariek4671
    @mariek4671 Год назад +3

    I followed you for a while now and it's always your vlogs that bring me calm and peace. Just happy feelings. 😊

  • @Kimberlee7270
    @Kimberlee7270 Год назад +2

    Thank you for showing us we can be happy w/o stuff...
    Safe travels along your new journey.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +1

      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @newleaf_22
    @newleaf_22 Год назад +3

    Love how you were able to live out of a carry-on! Inspiring. Can't wait to see you in Hawaii ~ wishing you the best in the transition ❤

  • @SakshiSingh-oi8tg
    @SakshiSingh-oi8tg Год назад +1

    All these things that I learn from your journey

    • @Alondra_Dessy.
      @Alondra_Dessy. Год назад

      *Congraulations 🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you; Gist the above username for acknowledgment**

  • @kevinhenry68
    @kevinhenry68 Год назад +1

    I love your videos! Thank you so much for sharing these bits of wisdom. ❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      Thank you for watching ❤️ I really appreciate it

  • @annalieagad1342
    @annalieagad1342 Год назад +3

    This made me reflect back to the time lockdowns got implemented in our country. It was March 2020, everything happened so fast. We ended up getting stranded in the island where we went for a 3-day hike. We ended up staying there for almost 2 months with only our hiking bags. Realized that I really don’t need that much stuff to have a great life.

  • @pinkypanchal3439
    @pinkypanchal3439 Год назад +1

    Sophie thanks a lot for showing us so much and I’ve learnt a lot from
    You .

  • @JohnAdams-we9gs
    @JohnAdams-we9gs Год назад

    Hey, hey, I'm glad everything is working out for you! Keep moving forward!

  • @eVaniwithaV
    @eVaniwithaV Год назад +2

    Such enlightening lessons! Thank you for sharing!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      ❤️ happy to share! Thank you for watching

  • @silverphoenix1418
    @silverphoenix1418 Год назад +1

    Wishing you a very safe, pleasant and enjoyable journey to O'ahu. Alway a pleasure. Thank you for being such a positive inspiration. The greatest tribute I can give to you is by following your lifestyle in tidyness and lifestyle. God Bless You. You're simply the best. 🙂

  • @MichelleL22
    @MichelleL22 Год назад

    What an adventure! I had three cross country moves in three years with two kids and several pets at one point in my life. I can say that only having what we use made it so easy for me to pack and unpack (and pack and unpack and pack and unpack! Lol) the movers were always astonished because I would have 90% unpacked and put away before they were done unloading furniture! I agree, there would be things I would miss if they were lost, but my life wouldn’t be altered at all.

  • @takeii_onLife
    @takeii_onLife Год назад +1

    I think something that doesn't get enough credit / acknowledgement in your videos is that everything we seek in life ultimately requires conscious sacrifice. There is much more panache in the nonchalance of not getting attached to things, but adapting to life's vicissitudes by giving up the things you've put much more time and effort (not just money) into, than getting out of, can be a very frustrating struggle. It takes an enlightened mind to constantly choose to give up or let go of old comforts, in order to allow room for new enriching balms to enter your life, and for that, hats off to you.

  • @williamclark1244
    @williamclark1244 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey. As always, your content is very inspiring.

  • @poppycalliope
    @poppycalliope Год назад +2

    Your videos are so beautiful ✨️ I always admire everything you say, stuff is just stuff and I remind myself daily that health & my loved ones is everything I need to be truly happy ❤ can't wait for the Hawai videos 🌿🦋

  • @Golgibaby
    @Golgibaby Год назад +2

    Much mahalo and aloha for your ideas that shift ways of thinking. Been following since you left Oahu, excited to see your follow up coming back--to state the obvious, things are not the same. Safe travels to you and yours.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      Thank you so much for watching and supporting me

  • @jeniefersarmiento4908
    @jeniefersarmiento4908 Год назад

    You inspired me a lot and this video is one of the most that i can resonate with…Enioy the journey of life❤️🙏

  • @louisetilbury3443
    @louisetilbury3443 Год назад +2

    Oh my goodness. Was starting to wonder what had happened. I love your videos. They really do stick with me long after watching. You make me consider possessions from a different angle. You have helped me consider what I value most from my late mothers things, which is not the things that have cost value but rather a personal value - a big brown jug that she would put daffodils in every spring time. Which I now have. It greets me every day and is a comforting way to carry on traditions . Look forward to the next video in Hawaii. ❤

  • @jennapalmer8917
    @jennapalmer8917 9 месяцев назад +1

    This really moved me. Thank you for sharing. Love your content.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @fadhilahdgp
    @fadhilahdgp Год назад +2

    Love your videos, make me peace and happy 😊!!! Always wait your videos

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

    • @fadhilahdgp
      @fadhilahdgp Год назад

      @@MalamaLife you're welcome 😄

  • @stellalee2659
    @stellalee2659 Год назад +2

    This video was so essential for me especially because I am also moving soon! Same city, just different place. And boyy, I am so overwhelmed of how much things I have 😅 Glad your packages arrived safely 😊 and safe trip to Hawaii!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      Excited for your new move stella!! 😍

  • @noagoldwasser3147
    @noagoldwasser3147 Год назад +1

    Oh, your videos are just too short, I almost watch them twice !You always inspire me, thank you❤

  • @robinb1979
    @robinb1979 4 месяца назад

    I love your honesty 💕

  • @alyfink
    @alyfink Год назад +2

    Wow - This sounds like a strenuous process. It's admirable to see you following what feels right for you! Thank you for sharing!

    • @alyfink
      @alyfink Год назад +1

      Great message on appreciating the important things in life

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      Thanks for watching ❤️

  • @chaisezamo1430
    @chaisezamo1430 Год назад +1

    Wishing you all the best in Hawaii and looking forward to your your new adventure. Lots of love and hugs.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      Thank you so much! Big hugs back

  • @Thetinyfit
    @Thetinyfit Год назад

    When I lived in Oahu I had two suitcases. Ten people in a two bedroom apartment. It felt (when I moved) like I took nothing and when I got there it felt like too much. I wasn’t there for too long, but day-to-day we don’t need much. I like the idea of having not a lot of “crap”. Makes it too easy to get distracted, to lose things.. I try to keep it simple, but not always easy to keep that in the forefront

  • @starfish3156
    @starfish3156 5 месяцев назад

    I had a hard time getting rid of things then something traumatic happened and now it’s easy to get rid of things people you love are more important than things! I’m not a slave to my stuff no more and it’s freeing! It really is ❤ God bless you all take great care xoxoxox thanks for the video ❤

  • @allymj
    @allymj Год назад +5

    Your channel is my peaceful and happy place. I listen here or on Spotify while cooking or having my morning coffee every day now as part of my routine to center me and move me forward on my journey. Thank you so much for putting so much effort into your work, I can't begin to describe how you're changing my life! By the way, I have two off the wall questions I always find myself asking...where do get your strapless bras for your racerback tanks 😂 and where is your wedding set from? ...if you don't mind sharing.❤❤❤ Thanks again and sending lots of love every day😊 safe travels!❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      Thank you so much for the support. It means a lot to me 😊 message me ig or email me for the bra and wedding set 🤭

  • @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas
    @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas Год назад +6

    It's all about balance in life exactly as you said it! I have sent my stuff back to Italy as I will be moving back there from England and now I live with just a handful of clothing items and after a while it's so boring, mainly for a creative person like myself :) Plus yes, I always have to wash everything so it's a huge energy waste as well. Cannot wait to get back to my clothes :) Great to see you so excited, cannot wait to see you on your next adventure! Stay well until next time, much love! xx

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +2

      We're going through a similar chapter in our lives Mihaela :) yes I'm tired of doing so much laundry 😆 I'm happy for you that you're moving back to Italy! Wishing you the best ❤️

    • @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas
      @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas Год назад

      @@MalamaLife same to you my dear!!

  • @user-eh7ib7tq1x
    @user-eh7ib7tq1x 5 месяцев назад

    I appreciate your video clips. I am into the minimal life these days. I want to focus on my precious things more by getting rid of useless things in my life.

  • @kinkilky7184
    @kinkilky7184 Год назад +1

    I think i am a minimalist, in progress haha. I don't simply spend money, but along the years i still found there are items which i do not use it frequently. Now i have 7-8 working attires that i will wear during my 5 working days to allow some changeover, for more than 5 years. The simplicity makes me feel less burden, feel clean and tidy. Your video will still give me idea along the way. And i must say thank you, because you are brave, you "opened up" my view and concerns on couple of things. And you always reminded me to prioritise myself but not only on my work...hope to see you soon in RUclips. Have a smooth journey back to Hawaii. Good night.

  • @starfish3156
    @starfish3156 5 месяцев назад

    That’s what I did only I could fit all my sentimental items in a checked bag and shipped it! The cost is also cheaper to do it that way, I agree with you 💯 take great care safe travels

  • @TGYtco
    @TGYtco Год назад +1

    I love the perspective you bring with this video.

  • @taylor5237
    @taylor5237 Год назад

    I found your channel recently and love watching your videos! They're so relaxing and refreshing. This one specifically reminded me of a quote I really like from Fight Club, "The things you own end up owning you." I used to think of this only in terms of owning many things, but I've realized it can go the other way as well. When you try to get rid of everything and take minimalism to the extreme, sometimes your concern is still about "stuff." I made this mistake a few years ago and realized that in trying to take minimizing further and further, that I was still overly obsessing over material things- just in another direction. I hope moving back to Hawaii goes well! Looking forward to seeing your next video when you're back. I was wondering if I could ask where you found your winter coat? I've been looking for a winter coat the past few years that will work for most occasions and yours is really cute and looks so comfy!

    • @Alondra_Dessy.
      @Alondra_Dessy. Год назад

      *Congraulations 🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you; Gist the above username for acknowledgment*

  • @evangeliaanastasopoulou7489
    @evangeliaanastasopoulou7489 Год назад +2

    I have been binge watching your videos for the past 2 weeks . I'm so glad I have found them. They are so relaxing and informative. Continue doing what you do best 🤎🤍😊☺

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад

      Thank you! I really appreciate you watching them 😁

  • @AnandaParameshwari
    @AnandaParameshwari Год назад +2

    yeah, I am still on the way exploring since I started my simple life from 2020 inspired by Your vedio Dear Sophie❤ It is really such a beautiful journey till now, I can see my grow both on materialistic and mentally /spiritually. I am experiencing understanding deeper and deeper my own preferences, and what I truly need or want is an amazing path . Thank you soooo so much Dear⚘️ and longing for your further sharing soon.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +1

      How amazing ❤️ very happy for you! Thank you for watching my videos

    • @AnandaParameshwari
      @AnandaParameshwari Год назад

      @Malama Life Love you and wishing you all the best, settle down smoothly and happy life ever❤️⚘️🫠

  • @ranjeetalama1847
    @ranjeetalama1847 Год назад

    Just love your videos always inspiring 😍 and I am learning everyday to live every moment and living life with minimalism 😊.

  • @annemiekwesterop7454
    @annemiekwesterop7454 Год назад

    Love watching your videos and wise words. Beautiful outside & inside 🙏🏻

    • @Alondra_Dessy.
      @Alondra_Dessy. Год назад

      **Congraulations 🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you; Gist the above username for acknowledgment

  • @marysbite
    @marysbite Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤ IT WAS NEVER EASY TO LET GO MOST OF YOUR VALUABLE STUFF but from 4suitcase im down to 2suitcase now it feels great just to have the things that are essential only thanks dear

  • @teringuyen989
    @teringuyen989 Год назад +4

    I love your videos! I found the same thing about having too little. I lived in France (I am from the U.S.) for about 11 months and had brought very little with me. I had left a little behind at my parents house, but not much. I found it was OK living with what I had probably because I knew I was coming back home. But during the end of that stay, I went back-packing in Italy for three weeks. Of course, back-packing is different than living normally, but I remember it was hard to use only the little things I was able to bring.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Год назад +1

      I can imagine! Sometimes we need to go through these experiences to appreciate!

    • @teringuyen989
      @teringuyen989 Год назад

      Yes, for sure!

  • @dishas
    @dishas Год назад

    This was such a soothing video..my soul loved it ..I had to comment ❤

  • @s.sflower
    @s.sflower Год назад

    Your videos are so great Sophie ❤ pls keep them coming

    • @Alondra_Dessy.
      @Alondra_Dessy. Год назад

      *Congraulations 🎉I have a (Mystery Box) package for you; Gist the above username for acknowledgment*

  • @roxanamihnea2536
    @roxanamihnea2536 Год назад

    You are right, Sophie! The loved ones and moments matter because we can lose our belongings in a second. I know how you feel. In the last year I lived în 4 cities so I'm tired of packing all the time.

    • @alyfink
      @alyfink Год назад +1

      We've been moving around a bunch too and are also tired of packing. It can also be a fun opportunity though - Trying to make the most of life :)

  • @fionaokeefe1906
    @fionaokeefe1906 Год назад +3

    I enjoy watching Sophie’s videos because now that I’ve moved Im still donating cups and plates! You don’t know the space I have now in the cupboards because I now have more space for the cookware and the things I do use! I’ve had to think about ok im not using this so why am I holding on to it? It’s more about letting go of the junk and letting in the items that are useful and important to you! So yes clearing the clutter donating to charities and only keeping the essentials is what makes life so much easier imo so thank you Sophie for helping me to realize that❤have fun in🌺Oahu🌺

  • @reneechaplin8686
    @reneechaplin8686 Год назад +1

    While I am a minimalist, I still want to down-size to my goal of no more than 3 carry-ons. But just like you said, it can be so difficult & I don’t want to go too far & then have to “add back” some items (particularly clothing items).👍