Real Friends - When You Were Here (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2023
  • Available now - vyd.co/WhenYouWereHere
    Official music video for When You Were Here performed by Real Friends
    Copyright (C) 2023 Real Friends.
    RealFriends #WhenYouWereHere
    Producer: Errick Easterday, Michael Herrick (@easterxdaily, @micahelherrick_)
    Director: Errick Easterday, Michael Herrick (@easterxdaily, @micahelherrick_)
    Set Design: Trevor Post (@trevorpost)
    Set Design Assist: Skylar Storm
    BTS: Morgan Newell (@morganxnewell)
    PA: Aaron Elkins
    Dancer: Lilly Comstock (@lillycomstock)
    Lyrics:
    I’m still avoiding the exit that goes to your old house
    Listening to Konstantine
    Like we did at seventeen
    But I know it’s not helping me out
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I don’t really wanna die
    But I don’t wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I’m just scared to death
    That you’ll always mess with my head
    Like you did when you were here
    You said I’m being destructive
    I guess I’m just stuck in my old ways
    The self pity I’m caught in is like a broken cassette
    Wrinkled tape of regret
    Yeah, we were both too selfish to change
    I can’t get over this cause you’re already over this
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Комментарии • 357

  • @realfriendsband
    @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +492

    This is the first music we’ve released without the support of a record label in over ten years. With that being said, your love and support for us goes further than ever now. When you share this video or song, know that it means the world to us. This is literally not possible without you. You’re a part of this. We love you.

    • @kimblylemonicus9070
      @kimblylemonicus9070 8 месяцев назад +2

      Saw y’all in Austin this summer and you guys were incredible 🤘🏼 keep it up

    • @dustinrimmey4053
      @dustinrimmey4053 8 месяцев назад +1

      I knew I would love it because it's ya'll....a Konstantine reference in the opening third

    • @slash196
      @slash196 8 месяцев назад +2

      This slaps like the original shit. Labels be holding you down dudes

    • @jeremycoleman5989
      @jeremycoleman5989 8 месяцев назад +2

      Love you guys!!!!!

    • @michaelengelking9047
      @michaelengelking9047 8 месяцев назад +1

      Awesome saw your show in Tampa got a shirt and some random girl was like I love Real Friends I got nervous brushed her off but almost got to make a friend because of you guys...anyways love the music

  • @streetleague72
    @streetleague72 8 месяцев назад +80

    "I don’t really wanna die, But I don’t wanna be alive" . Hits me pretty hard lately, such relatable line of lyrics, great song guys!

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +3

      thanks for telling us. so glad you're digging it. -KYLE

  • @raphyd1466
    @raphyd1466 7 месяцев назад +12

    That passage in the chorus where Cody sings "I think I'm just scared to death" and the drummer plays the same rhythm as Cody's enunciation is so damn satisfying, brillantly done

  • @fabulouspain5341
    @fabulouspain5341 8 месяцев назад +32

    I haven't listened to them since Dan left.... this is fuckn good.. wish I didn't sleep on them after the change

  • @adambusenbark5997
    @adambusenbark5997 8 месяцев назад +33

    Cody sounding the best I’ve ever heard him, great job!

  • @gabby_8123
    @gabby_8123 8 месяцев назад +31

    YES!! AMAZING! Such a powerhouse both lyrically and melodically. Real Friends Forever

  • @drewmcgill5290
    @drewmcgill5290 8 месяцев назад +22

    I haven’t liked a pop-punk song in a long time. This rules and goes hard.

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +9

      Thanks for letting us know. There’s more where this came from.

  • @Kittypeony
    @Kittypeony 8 месяцев назад +25

    What a powerful voice and talented band ❤❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks for the kind words. It means the world. -KYLE

  • @Kevinolvera22
    @Kevinolvera22 8 месяцев назад +16

    I don’t think these boys, will ever realize how much we truly love them and appreciate them! Love the fucking song!🖤🥺

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +4

      We love and appreciate you too. Big big love.

  • @alwaysevolving281
    @alwaysevolving281 8 месяцев назад +23

    Damn, the vocals sound so good.

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +3

      he is sounding pretty damn good. thanks for the love! -KYLE

  • @EliteLMS
    @EliteLMS 13 дней назад +1

    I think they're the best they've ever been!! Love this song😍

  • @Thompson1246
    @Thompson1246 7 месяцев назад +11

    As much as we all miss Dan, the new singer is honestly killing it

  • @cheemsdog7071
    @cheemsdog7071 7 месяцев назад +4

    Cody putting a little Youth Fountain scream in there. Really proud of you guys, can't wait to see you live again.

  • @DonySetiawan
    @DonySetiawan Месяц назад +1

    I’m really grateful for Cody being in Real Friends. Everything is perfect right now for you guys! Please don’t ever think to break up or something like that. Love from Indonesia. 🇮🇩

  • @jeffwilkerson1145
    @jeffwilkerson1145 18 дней назад +1

    First time listener to your band, you guys are really,really good. 🔥💯

  • @ca9847
    @ca9847 8 месяцев назад +11

    This is the kind of song/lyrics that get stuck in my head and I’m here for it. ❤

  • @macadabra2125
    @macadabra2125 8 месяцев назад +40

    I freakin love Cody's voice, so great seeing him getting the love he deserve

  • @EmirOfOoey-Gooey
    @EmirOfOoey-Gooey 8 месяцев назад +10

    Nah cause I literally just mistyped a lyric from a different band missing RF and then this comes out... the universe is fucking real.

  • @godfreygallego8551
    @godfreygallego8551 8 месяцев назад +3

    DOOOOPPPPEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! KEEP MAKING THESE KINDS OF MELODY AND RHYTHMS IN POP PUNK !!!!! THESE ARE WHAT OUR EARS AND BRAINS ARE CRAVING FOR!!

  • @GBAmerica1781
    @GBAmerica1781 4 месяца назад +2

    I heard this on Jango for the first time a few days ago and I keep replaying this over and over again. This is a fantastic song. Eager to listen to more of this band.

  • @Doc_FeelGood69
    @Doc_FeelGood69 6 месяцев назад +4

    Heard of you guys on NHL23 and have been hooked since. Reminds me of early 2000's punk / emo. Love it.

  • @iluvpost-hardcore4204
    @iluvpost-hardcore4204 8 месяцев назад +5

    Konstantine always tore me apart and made me cry
    Now I hear that song and know that...

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +1

      I like that you noticed the connection

  • @emmashmusic
    @emmashmusic 8 месяцев назад +7

    Absolutely love the grunge-y vibes!!!! I can hear that Static Dress influence too!!! Killer song!! ❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      glad you are digging it. thanks for jamming with us

  • @Rao-ce3em
    @Rao-ce3em 3 дня назад

    Need that new album ❤❤❤

  • @asthisatia8914
    @asthisatia8914 Месяц назад +1

    After a long time i discover really good band.

  • @cameronliterally
    @cameronliterally 8 месяцев назад +3

    Real Friends is in top form

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +1

      thank you for saying that. makes us feel pretty alright.

  • @leightonstarks2328
    @leightonstarks2328 8 месяцев назад +16

    Thank you guys. the day you guys released this I was having death thoughts for the first time in years. Just a really hard season. The chorus is everything. It's not that I wanted to die, I want to live, I just want the pain to stop and sometimes death feels like the only way it will stop. I have several practices now to get me through to the next day and people to reach out to. But this song helped me the day you released it. So seriously, thank you.

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +2

      ❤ thank you for connecting

    • @JoeydrinksSherry
      @JoeydrinksSherry 8 месяцев назад +1

      Don’t give up, brother. I know I’m just a random stranger. But I’m rooting for you! 🤙

    • @leightonstarks2328
      @leightonstarks2328 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@JoeydrinksSherry Hey thanks man it means a lot. I'll never give up. Generally happy considering how crazy life is right now. I'm rooting for you too!

    • @JoeydrinksSherry
      @JoeydrinksSherry 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@leightonstarks2328 No problem, and hell yeah! I’m glad to hear that. & thanks man, I appreciate that more than you know. Going through an unforeseen trial right now so that means a fucking lot. Seriously

    • @ca9847
      @ca9847 3 месяца назад +1

      Life is so very hard and expectations we place on ourselves (and others place on us) is unreal. I don’t know you, but there are people like me who do care. It’s what a band like Real Friends brings together. People like you who can feel safe talking about their feelings, and people out here who care. I’m sending you a hug - Chrisann

  • @dannielehawkins4338
    @dannielehawkins4338 8 месяцев назад +3

    Man, another one to add the the life track. This is going to be the soundtrack to so many peoples adolescence, and make them feel so much less alone.
    Always producing quality.
    Congratulations on the independent release!

  • @fixingthepast
    @fixingthepast 8 месяцев назад +5

    This song absolutely hits all the right spots. Really vibing with it.

  • @alonso4989
    @alonso4989 20 дней назад +1

    ridiculously good vocals!

  • @Coryaria
    @Coryaria 8 месяцев назад +4

    It’s the gritty vocals for me. 🤘🏻🤘🏻

  • @ca9847
    @ca9847 4 месяца назад +1

    I just love this song more and more and more. I want even more people to share it with because it’s so raw, so genuine, and so true.

  • @oscarenriquegarcia3157
    @oscarenriquegarcia3157 6 месяцев назад +1

    This has to be one of my most played songs on my phone, it just hits so damn close to home. I guess 5 years do simply fade away.

  • @Noumu
    @Noumu 8 месяцев назад +10

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE INSTRUMENTALS ON THIS TRACK GUYS! you guys evolved so much and i'm really happy to see my all time favorite band keep on releasing new bangers

  • @GGaemer
    @GGaemer 8 месяцев назад +4

    literally hit after hit after hit

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +1

      thanks for saying that. we love you!

    • @GGaemer
      @GGaemer 8 месяцев назад

      @@realfriendsbandright back atcha!

  • @jgarr127
    @jgarr127 8 месяцев назад +3

    I think I've never heard of any of you before, but RUclips recommended and I think it's cool

  • @fredericklong9649
    @fredericklong9649 5 месяцев назад +2

    This dude was amazing in youth fountain and he’s great hear pleaseeee do a tour with youth fountain

  • @apaucokes2140
    @apaucokes2140 6 месяцев назад +2

    Real Friends all day love from Manila PH \m/

  • @codyb6849
    @codyb6849 8 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my goodness that Singing your drummer is awesome and the guitarist an the bassist heaven to my ears perfection guys an happy weekend love Cody

  • @niloclaaskion4153
    @niloclaaskion4153 8 месяцев назад +4

    I've been following the band since 2014 when I first got dragged to a concert. Honestly though, that night was wonderful and I have loved seeing the evolution of the band since. You all have been there for me in a way that pulled at my heart strings and felt like a healing bowl of soup at the same time. This bop is absolutely fantastic, congrats on releasing such an incredible song independently and keep on rocking!
    Sincerely,
    A lost boy with bony knees

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +2

      that was really nice to read. thank you for such kind words. we appreciate you so much. love- Kyle

  • @LUCIEN-MX
    @LUCIEN-MX 8 месяцев назад +2

    I all of a sudden love this band after the NHL games

  • @marisaburns4720
    @marisaburns4720 8 месяцев назад +2

    This is BEYOND EPIC along with Torn in Two EP, you guys are killin it!! I’m still jamming out to those songs two years later every week❤❤❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      thanks for such kind words. we appreciate you.

  • @sharmacs284
    @sharmacs284 4 месяца назад +2

    this song is fucking awesome know that, im jumping all around my room lmao

  • @danrockwell420
    @danrockwell420 7 месяцев назад +1

    THIS SONG is so painfully relatable.. im sure to many of us

  • @SwelIy
    @SwelIy 8 месяцев назад +3

    You guys killed it at House of Blues, I was excited to hear this one again!

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +1

      ahhh such a sweet show. thanks for rocking.

  • @Findingfrisson
    @Findingfrisson 6 месяцев назад +1

    Goosebumps, this is the first song I’ve listen too since 2016 and I’m so happy with the change and keeping the band alive :). Also love the poetry Kyle i have ur books 🩷😊

  • @J-racks
    @J-racks 6 месяцев назад +1

    Damn this shit hit so hard. Just had a buddy of mine pass away a couple weeks ago and he was the life of the party. He always told me I was better than the party life and I’d rise above it. This song can be interpreted in so many ways and that’s why it’s beautiful, but I take it as a friend telling another friend that he’s there.
    Maybe I’m just grieving

  • @-zeromeia-
    @-zeromeia- 6 месяцев назад +2

    Masterpiece

  • @user-jd8qs7jm9u
    @user-jd8qs7jm9u 8 месяцев назад +2

    One of the best RF songs ever

  • @xnotrustx
    @xnotrustx 7 месяцев назад +2

    & the boys do it again! I am thoroughly convinced that the guys cannot make a bad song. Big record company or not, you guys will have a loyal fan in me for life. ♡ keep 'em comin' boys! You guys are amazing!

  • @user-jx9oq9jk8z
    @user-jx9oq9jk8z 8 месяцев назад +1

    been here since 2016 ❤️ I just saw y’all in on tour and you guys brought the best energy ever!! I’ll always support you guys, much love from WI 🫶🏻

  • @RoamingThePNW
    @RoamingThePNW 6 месяцев назад +2

    F I R E

  • @cosmicotterrrr
    @cosmicotterrrr 8 месяцев назад +2

    I recently just started listening to you guys and I have to say I’m obsessed. Everything from the lyrics to the instrumentals. Keep it up guys love ya😁🫶🏻

  • @lexidarling
    @lexidarling 8 месяцев назад +3

    "Listening to Konstantine like we did at 17" I felt that in my soul.

  • @CorbinPostYT
    @CorbinPostYT 8 месяцев назад +1

    I got this song as an ad and loved it

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      wow, what a great ad.

    • @CorbinPostYT
      @CorbinPostYT 8 месяцев назад

      @@realfriendsband wow you responded i didn't expect that. luckily i found it because it was on my tv so it didn't show the name or your band name but i found it and i also enjoyed some other song. are you guys inspired by Set It Off?

  • @exitbags
    @exitbags 7 месяцев назад +3

    Cody always reminds me of that actor who played REACHER

    • @widexawake_
      @widexawake_ 2 месяца назад

      This does sound like a song Thad Castle would 100% sing at the Karaoke 😂

  • @baerito980
    @baerito980 8 месяцев назад +1

    I cannot and don't think I'll ever really ever be able to express my love and gratitude for you guys 😭💙

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      we love you!!! your kind word mean the world.

  • @eglovesmusic
    @eglovesmusic 8 месяцев назад +2

    Always excited to see what comes next for you guys. Always evolving and getting better.

  • @hlroxas6506
    @hlroxas6506 8 месяцев назад +6

    lyrics:
    I'm still avoiding the exit that goes to your old house
    Listening to Konstantine
    Like we did at seventeen
    But I know it's not helping me out
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I don't really wanna die
    But I don't wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I'm just scared to death
    That you'll always mess with my head
    Like you did
    Like you did
    Like you did when you were here
    You said I'm being destructive
    I guess I'm just stuck in my old ways
    The self pity I'm caught in is like a broken cassette
    Wrinkled tape of regret
    Yeah, we were both too selfish to change
    I can't get over this cause you're already over this
    I don't really wanna die
    But I don't wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I'm just scared to death
    That you'll always mess with my head
    Like you did
    Like you did
    Like you did when you were here
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else
    I wish I could tell you that
    I don't really wanna die
    But I don't wanna be alive
    Like I did when you were here
    I think I'm just scared to death
    That you'll always mess with my head
    Like you did
    Like you did
    Like you did when you were here
    I wish I could let go & blame someone else I LOVE THIS SONG SO MUCH

  • @user-uy5zf6ob1i
    @user-uy5zf6ob1i 8 месяцев назад +3

    めちゃくちゃ良いやん!
    from japan

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +1

      we wanna come to back to Japan

    • @user-uy5zf6ob1i
      @user-uy5zf6ob1i 8 месяцев назад

      @@realfriendsband
      My friend and I say we can't wait!
      Looking forward to seeing you guys.

  • @chrisharris7819
    @chrisharris7819 6 месяцев назад +1

    Y'all really have locked in y'all's sound keep up the good work! 🤘

  • @rugbyreferee-smb
    @rugbyreferee-smb 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love you guys. Thank you for new music

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      thanks for the love. your support means a lot to us.

  • @duhsilverrfox
    @duhsilverrfox 8 месяцев назад +1

    Where has this Real Friends been?! This is beyond good and so heavy both lyrical and instrument. Keep up the amazing work!

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +2

      there is more where this came from. :)

  • @HaIfTruism
    @HaIfTruism 7 месяцев назад +1

    It gonna suck when I start to get sick of this song but I can't stop hitting that replay button, it's too good

  • @ScrotacleseDatrueGod
    @ScrotacleseDatrueGod 6 месяцев назад +1

    This song is huge. You guys keep this up!

  • @viincreations
    @viincreations 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love you forever ❤

  • @JamesEdwardTagle
    @JamesEdwardTagle 7 месяцев назад +1

    really love the lyrics, definitely will keep on supporting real friends.

  • @dusky193
    @dusky193 8 месяцев назад +2

    Love everything about this

  • @joshuaflores7621
    @joshuaflores7621 8 месяцев назад +2

    YOOOOO LFG

  • @BrandonKO55
    @BrandonKO55 7 месяцев назад +1

    A new favourite I'm playing on repeat.

  • @yogarizqipratama2647
    @yogarizqipratama2647 19 часов назад

    2:01 Fav Part🔥

  • @valeriewesleon
    @valeriewesleon 8 месяцев назад +1

    I got to see you guys three times this year and loved every second. This song being released the same day as that last show was such a highlight. Much love ❤️🤘🏻

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +2

      that was Denver. Such a special show. thanks for the love.

  • @saramommy33
    @saramommy33 8 месяцев назад +1

    Yes!

  • @Curtis.Carpenter
    @Curtis.Carpenter 8 месяцев назад +2

    🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @soggyscarecrow
    @soggyscarecrow 8 месяцев назад +2

    Dope

  • @anitabongrip
    @anitabongrip 8 месяцев назад +1

    been listening since 2013 and still my favorite band out there 💔🎶

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      that's a long time. we appreciate you.

  • @sweetzkillz88
    @sweetzkillz88 8 месяцев назад +1

    Forever grateful for real friends ❤️

  • @jasonlong2311
    @jasonlong2311 8 месяцев назад +4

    Love to hear a something corporate reference

    • @iluvpost-hardcore4204
      @iluvpost-hardcore4204 8 месяцев назад

      This is actually the second time they referenced this song. the first time was back in 2014 when Dan lambton was still in the band

    • @ca9847
      @ca9847 8 месяцев назад

      Or a reference of lyrics from a song by The Starting Line.
      “Tell me what you thought about”

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +1

      so happy this has been noticed. I love them.

  • @arisnurcahyoofficial
    @arisnurcahyoofficial 8 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, what a great day.

  • @damo.hutchinson
    @damo.hutchinson 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good song

  • @MrTravroth
    @MrTravroth 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hitting hard. thanks for the music.

  • @PunkRockVibes
    @PunkRockVibes 8 месяцев назад +1

    I dig the music. Rockin. See you on Dec 12.

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      that show will rock. thanks for listening.

  • @micah_wasowski
    @micah_wasowski 6 месяцев назад +1

    I LOVE REAL FRIENDS

  • @17emiliano45
    @17emiliano45 6 месяцев назад +1

    My favourite song actually

  • @Stereo1229
    @Stereo1229 7 месяцев назад +1

    Good job!! Powerfull song and great video 🔥🤘

  • @GrayWoIf
    @GrayWoIf 8 месяцев назад +4

    Yeh more sad songs to drive to

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад +1

      exactly. thanks for jamming. tell your friends.

  • @yudokaufman5197
    @yudokaufman5197 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love this kind of Real Friends! ❤

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      hell yeah. there is more where this came from too.

  • @galaxyrose15
    @galaxyrose15 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love this band!!!

  • @brandonfaletti1472
    @brandonfaletti1472 8 месяцев назад +2

    Absolute banger

    • @realfriendsband
      @realfriendsband  8 месяцев назад

      love to hear it. thanks for the love. -Kyle

  • @999ozzysquad
    @999ozzysquad Месяц назад

    Screaming like chester ❤🎉

  • @carolynshuluk8161
    @carolynshuluk8161 8 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful

  • @camrynbariesheff
    @camrynbariesheff 8 месяцев назад +1

    you guys, this is absolutely fantastic!!!! 🥹

  • @JayRogersMD
    @JayRogersMD 7 месяцев назад +1

    Yess!!!

  • @JoeydrinksSherry
    @JoeydrinksSherry 8 месяцев назад +3

    Fucking Rips!! Bring on that new album, fellas. WE ARE READY!! (Please)

  • @cobra1xtz
    @cobra1xtz 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is the first song that I've liked since Dan left. This is cool, feels great to jam Real Friends again.

  • @Moss_streams
    @Moss_streams 8 месяцев назад +1

    another great song!!! love it keep up the good workk!!!!!

  • @codywessing6011
    @codywessing6011 8 месяцев назад +1

    Couldn't have found this at a better time. Love the music guys!

  • @user-kh4yo3yx2s
    @user-kh4yo3yx2s 6 месяцев назад +1

    bro this song is fire, love from brazil guys

  • @FraserNapier
    @FraserNapier 2 месяца назад

    rad as heck as always

  • @jennlinh
    @jennlinh 8 месяцев назад +1

    love it!!