''She loves herself enough to do a mommy makeover'' YES!! Your daughters will grow up knowing that mommy always made sure she felt good and confident in her skin, no matter how it was achieved! I am all for this and hearing the doctor and nurse speak was so beautiful.
But shouldn‘t you love yourself enough to not change anything about yourself? It always seems like it‘s way too normalized to change ourselves when in reality we should start by changing our mindset not our bodies.
They grow up thinking they are only worthy if they look like the beauty standard. Their mama even did plastic surgery because her tummy wasn't perfectly flat. Should this really be normal and even be seen as something positive?? This has literally nothing to so with REAL self love.
@@PrettyGirlRock1115everyone knows that looking better takes away from your anxiety. I always feel better when I’m all dolled up rather than when I’m in my oversized pjs in bed.
I think being a person can be very hard sometimes and if this is something that makes her heart happy idc if it's an add or not. Also props to your husband for genuinely caring and reaffirming that love for you throughout this process. You did this for you and I think that's beautiful.
You’re not alone here girl because I use to say the same thing until I had my fourth child via c section. I got a tummy tuck and breast lift I didn’t have another choice but I did it for myself. I’m very happy now 😊
Sad you are telling us that cosmetic surgery made you happy, as mother's we should be happy with ourselves the way we are. Praise the lord😊 God bless us all
AS A MOM OF 3 THAT HAD A MOMMY MAKEOVER. YOU NEEDED A TUMMY TUCK NOT LIPOSUCTION. YOUR SKIN WILL LOOK LOOSE ON YOUR LOWER ABDOMINAL AREA BECAUSE ONLY A TUMMY TUCK WILL HELP REMOVE THE EXCESS OF SKIN AND FIX THE DIASTASIS RECTI YOU HAVE. GOOD LUCK ON YOUR RECOVERY. IT’S YOUR BODY YOUR CHOICE I JUST WANTED TO COMMENT THAT DUE TO THE FACT THAT I HAD SEVERAL PLASTIC SURGERY BEFORE TO ENHANCE MY BODY AFTER HAVING KIDS.
Yes, excess skin can only be removed by a tummy tuck. I opted for AirSculpt myself knowing I would have loose skin because I’d rather not be put under and go through a full blown surgery. I think that’s why she speaks of having realistic expectations. Essentially you’re giving up one thing for another. I would love to be completely flat with no excess skin but I just wasn’t willing to go the tummy tuck route. I’m a little over a year post op and still happy that I went the route I did. I will add for those who don’t know…they’re limited in how much fat they can remove. So if you’re overweight, it’s going to take multiple procedures. I could honestly have done lipo 3 times but I’m not paying for all that. lol So the one will have to do for now. 😂
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your in-depth experience, as a mom of 3 who never considered a mommy makeover, this is now a consideration thank you!
Some people who have cosmetic surgery are being dishonest. You feel insecure. Why can’t you just use the word “INSECURE”. This isn’t a health necessity, this isn’t an emergency. This is for vanity. “I want to look good.” Why did you praise God for the existence of this tech for you to get this vain surgery? Does God need you to look amazing on the outside to follow Him, or to be amazing on the inside according to His laws and decrees and commands?
No, I think she just wants to look good… and she thanked God for that possibility (however it was accomplished) You know… look good, feel good, do good… She just wanted to feel good…
What is it taking away from you for her to feel confident in how she looks and feels? Stop being weird. I’ve had my teeth removed, rearranged, whitened, all to look and be better. I’ve had my hair professionally done in the salon to get better looking hair. If I want to get a low invasive procedure to that removes fat and makes my breast and body look better, my salvation isn’t hindered either way. Stop projecting your insecurities onto other women.
@@Nitra813 did you get those procedures to glorify the Kingdom of God? Tell me how did they glorify the Lord? You told me your business and I never asked for it? And that’s not weird? What is it taking away from you that I’m stating my opinions? You’re calling me insecure yet my opinions were enough to solicit this response? Mk have a blessed day
Wait, I’m confused? Why are you criticizing her? Is she in sin somewhere I am unaware of? HER HUSBAND and her made this sound decision together to do this. I am on a weight loss journey and YES, I praise God for seeing me through it because it is most definitely important to care for my temple and I have lost a good amount of weight and should I be criticized for that?
That's exactly what I thought. And idk what it's like in other countries, but where I live, it's not legal to make ads for plastic surgery with comparison pictures from before and after and I think that's very good
@@nursejoonloves2794 the message i get is that there is something wrong and shameful with a body after pregnancy and we should all want to change it. It's an AD, she makes moneys from making women believe that they dont look good, because she believes that she doesnt look good. I'm sorry, but I dont get any positive message from this (i find it hurtful), although I'm glad you do :)
You just had a baby! Of course you are not get your body back that fast! I used a bandage on my belly with all my pregnancy and that helped me a lot! But each body is different.
I’m 43 and had babies 15 years apart. My last was at 40 and I’m almost 3 months post op from the AbEX with liposuction from Sono Bello. This was also a minimally invasive procedure. Let me tell you lady, I wish I had this done years ago! I feel so confident in my body and the way clothes fit! Life changing!
@@tashaax1993xanimalloverx I had my first at 27/28 and then i had a cpl of iuds, i took the 2nd one out after a cpl of years i think it was and then boom i was pregnant at 34/35 all natural.. Good for you for waiting!! I went to school with girls in the US why were pregnant before they graduated!!! I just couldn’t believe it, then everyone acted surprised when i had a baby and even more surprised that i just took to motherhood (cos i def used to enjoy going out etc) and i was even more chill when i had my daughter in my 30’s… i think the obgyn should be able to tell you how ur egg count is, incase ur concerned but these days ppl are having babies older and older 😊
Girl... I wish i looked like your before.... You looked great before and amazing now❤ congrats on your selfless decision... Us moms deserve the best bc we pour out our best 😊
I think it’s funny that people think she would really go through all this for just an ad😂 she did this for herself and gave us an honest review/brought us along for her experience to show what it’s actually like for normal ppl
So many ppl saying she looked good before only because they probably wished they had her before. Just know someone somewhere probably thinks the body you hate looks great but there’s nothing wrong with wanting to look better. Only person looking yourself in the mirror is you! If you are okay with what you see great and if you want to enhance that’s okay too❤
Obviously every person is different, but if you can work on your mindset and recovery before doing something like this postpartum. I understand there are occasions when physical changes can do enough psychological damage that something like this can actually be helpful, but it's better if you can just heal and work on your body and mind recovering. This is an ad and while it's possible she did the procedure for her own self, it doesn't change the fact that it won't be the same for everybody. Postpartum is hard but it's important to be gentle to yourself during that time
@@brooklin_bernek I don't mind it, what I do mind is that she didn't make a disclaimer. If I'm not wrong that's illegal in the us but it's also just out of character. I understand that the internet isn't always truthful but I've come to expect better from her. The fact that there isn't more about her journey behind the decision and honesty about the side effects also rubs me the wrong way a bit considering that she's been against bod mods for so long
Watch carefully 4:00 So the nurse said no exercise "activity or cardio for 3-6 weeks". Nothing that is going to elevate your heart rate for aleast two weeks. You were back at gym after 1 week I see how influencer makes sponsored video make it so called "self love", they make they process look so easy specially like " you were back at gym after 1 week post-partum " When you were advised against it.
I actually think you had a great body b4 especially after having children. Also u want to be careful with fat transfer...its not a new concept at all. The fact youre awake is the only new thing about it. Many BBLs are done by using fat from the stomach and they often get issues because fat can harden and migrate and even dissapate over time especially if u lose weight.. i hope it goes well and this doesn't happen but i thought that's something they would tell u..
I love how she changed her mind about surgeries but ITS AN AD? Did she really change her mind or get a good deal for promoting this? Remember folks you are being manipulated HENCE THE WORLD INFLUENCER
@@heyimneverland8451this. Changed my mind, researched the heck out of it, contacted the brand… and we decided to work together. I never endorse things I don’t believe in. If you don’t wanna be influenced… then simply choose not to be. Power in making your own choices people! This is my my humble and honest opinion ❤
Wow, you've given me so much to think about! Thank you for doing this. I've been thinking about doing something like this. Thanks for being brave and honest and giving us inspiration to live our best lives. In turn we can give our best to our families. ❤ Blessings!!!
As a trans person, im so tired of the narrative that getting plastic surgery to feel comfortable in your body means you hate yourself. Videos like this are refreshing There are things no amount of exercise and toning can change! Mommy makeover, top surgery, face lift or just a boob job- your body is a temple and it's yours to decorate and make look how you want. ❤
I think this is weird too. There is just so much pressure for women. I don’t think it’s men who put this pressure if not it’s us as women-we allow the ads, the snarky behavior etc. We don’t focus on loving and cherishing our bodies, minds, and each other… I’ve seen videos like, “I used to weigh more and now that I lost weight, women are mean to me.” My thought is, well how is your attitude? Sure we can admire people, but the problem becomes when we idolize unhealthy and unrealistic things. It’s when we allow mean people to manipulate us because however they act or look, or don’t for that matter! Beauty is more than just exterior-it’s the true genuine inside self and how is that person’s heart and actions. I’ve met all kinds of people and truly think diversity is how God designed us; but I will tell you, all people now think they are all just so pretty and therefore can act however they want. I’ve also met some quirky and stereotypical “unattractive” people (which btw I think is wrong and we should focus on the real heart and actions), but that have been awful people too… Anyways, men and women need to be accountable in this subject matter, but I think it’s mostly women who allow it-we allow and turn a blind eye to the unhealthy stuff-porn, film and photograph editing, and don’t ask more from our men too. We all need to be better people. And plastic surgery, the research I have done shows that it actually hurts our mental health. I think it’s odd that this was an #ad. Self-love but then feels she needs the plastic surgery? I just don’t get it… Why can’t we love and enhance in a balanced way how God made us-not change ourselves all together 😢
Wow the fact she has #AD on this speaks volumes. You sold your body and put your life at risk having an unnecessary procedure when you have two little humans that need you!! So irresponsible
I don’t understand the mean comments, it’s her choice her body and she is being transparent, in sharing her journey and what she felt she wanted to feel more beautiful. So what if it was free? She’s still sharing her journey, and not just lying about it and giving her audience unrealistic body image , not knowing it was achieved through surgery. Women should uplift each other and not gate keep, well maybe gate keep their critical comments. Because despite if you like her decision or not, you will be now informed if this is something you might want , if you have been considering a mommy makeover yourself . Live and let live ❤
Forget the haters. I would love an update. I used to hate plastic surgery and then sometimes I like it. But I don’t post about. We change our minds all the time. Too many bitter Betty’s upset that you changed your mind. If you were their broke friend they would congratulate you. Either way. I’m loving the long videos and great vibes ❤ The end results look so good. Wish they could have shown the procedure. Was not expecting the holes in the body. I thought it was non invasive lol
how much did it cost? I have my baby around the same time and this sounded interesting! I think you should do what makes you a happy mom and wife! looking at how your hubby taking care of you is so great!
I'm sorry, but how you talked about yourself in the beginning does not match the "before" shots. "So much skin you could hide inside of it like a turtle"? You have a normal midsection. You don't look like you were ever pregnant. Please take care of yourself.
For lipo it takes 6 months you will snatched more. Dont stop with your lymphatic until 6 months and to maintain them 1 a week. It depends on the person if you want to take care of your body 😉. Then in the future get skin thighting, jplasma and morphus 8 for the skin to tight. Some dont need tummy tuck and they get that combination and the skin sticks more. But i think its better when you are finished with bbys 🤰🏻. if you dont want to go for surgery and pain again.
I am happy, that you are happy! Big blessings to you and applause for you, that you share! Hope all wounding will heel soon! ❤Blessings to your beautiful kids and husband too! Hugs!
I’m contemplating between fat transfer for breasts after childbearing or implants. What information did you use to make your decision and is the fat transfer staying put in your breasts?
Fat transfer is more expensive but feels much more natural in the end and has a better rate of not rejecting due to it being your own tissue; implants need to be replaced every 15-20 years (sometimes as little as 10). Implants also can be over or under the muscle which makes a big difference in healing and results. Another potential downside of fat transfer is if you lose weight, they may shrink.
I don't recommend implants either, but I worked at Air sculpt for awhile and a majority of the fat transfer to breast patients have enlarged areolas afterwards. Something to keep in mind
Also everyone freaking out but she didn’t get surgery. It’s not evasive and they only tweak wat u already have. They don’t put in stuff. Or take it away
Yes keep vloging!! I want to see results. You did tummy and breast. Did you do anything with the bum? Asking for myself. Big thing i want to see when healed is breasts. Maybe pics so you dont have to show video and can cover nips but i would love to see compared to breast augmentation. Thank you. Looking great
I understand that you did this because you wanted to feel better but isn’t that the entire idea of cosmetic surgery? If you love yourself this much why do this? I agree with everything you do and say on this channel but this- no. You don’t need to reshape yourself to feel beautiful. And although how much ur telling ppl that u “feel beautiful either way” you clearly dont. So accept it atleast. You don’t need to pretend to be smth ur not. If u feel like shit own it atleast we’ll understand where you are coming from. But despite feeling beautiful if you think this is justified then those don’t feel beautiful enough should DEF do surgery .
Okay I’m sure you look great after but mentally you don’t seem great. Your skin is always glowing and now you look sad and just drained emotionally . You mentioned post surgery depression - that worries me
Physical beauty alone does Not bring positive self-esteem/self-love. In fact, some of the most physically beautiful women lack self-esteem/love and are immoral.
One of my biggest fears with pregnancy is the changes my body might experience! Thanks for sharing! Also would love to hear about your home birth experience if you ever feel touched to share:)
This is so not you, dont you teach your girls to love their bodies just the way they are? What is this teaching them? That if they grow up and have a body that looks like yours did before you had procedures, that theyll need them too. I dont think promoting stuff like this is good for society. This should have been done privately but then you wouldnt have been able to profit off it. Body shaming yourself when you have young girls is a weird idea. And to make a public video they can watch when theyre older is crazy, or maybe theyll be with a guy one day whos like well why didnt you get work done like your mom? What if they think that, oh i have a tummy so ill just get work done like mom did. Sad.
1. Don’t act like you wouldn’t take the option of fat sculpt if you were given the opportunity of a mommy makeover 2. If their daughters had men like that, Nika and Emeka would immediately advise for their daughters to drop a man who treated them that way. 3. You suck at comprehension- if she were to work out and get muscular would you say the same? Bodies change whether we push that change or not, she’s controlling the change in a different way. LET IT REST
What is wrong with everyone??? She got the thing done and she is happy with it, so it’s either you’re happy or not with it but no one cares… keep your opinions to yourself and let her be happy, it’s not your freaking life and body….
Yes please! I didnt even know this was a thing! I have wanted a mommy make over but didn't want the extreme cutting an stuff of a full tummy tuck or breast job just always looked so painful and I always heard such terrible stories. But now this might give me hope of changing my body back ❤
I think you look good!!! Ignore the negative comments you did what YOU wanted to do. It irks me how ppl preach woman empowerment and we can do what we want to do but then comes the negativity...Just be quiet 😂 it's not your body its hers and she can do what she wants period...GO GIRL with her bad self ❤
I don’t like hearing all the negative comments you make about your body, boobs, skin etc at the start… but you do you, I guess this video isn’t for me, hope you’re happy!
Everyone thinks they would never do something immoral until the devil tempts you and makes excuses for you to give in to doing the immoral thing you said you would never do in the first place. Do NOT be thanking God, Creator of Life, for something the devil is convincing you to do. Cosmetic surgery should be people im drastic accidents, not for normal mothers. You are lying to yourself and only listening to people who will tickle your ears and that's not what you need. You are becoming part of the problem by getting cosmetic surgery for a normal body and calling it "not good enough". Other women will think the same about themselves. The Lord God made you, it is Enough!!!
I had two babies. Two years worth of clean eating and gym. Same during the pregnancy. You can. I look better than before kids. If you gonna research all that time for a doctor, might as well do the research to learn how to care for your body. I mean kylie jenner got “good” docs and look at her……
Of course this is an AD lmao these RUclipsrs are master manipulators don’t fall for this!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL no matter what these influencers are making you feel like you need OR you feel are available to you. THESE PROCEDURED COST ALOT DO NOT GET IN DEBT BC U SEE THIS RICH LADY GETTING IT AND SHE GETTING A DISCOUNT OF FREE BC OF THIS VIDEO!!
Wow! As soon as I saw the story on Facebook, I came right over to subscribe and watch. I’m an au natural woman as well, but I believe that enhancing your appearance doesn’t have to go hand in hand with vanity. I think anything within reason that doesn’t necessarily jeopardize your health or safety should be considered if you believe you’re a potential candidate. No one deserves to suffer with unsightly changes that’s easy to mend with a few adjustments here or there. It’s no different than including exercise in conjunction with dietary changes. The reality is that there are extremes and health risks associated with many things, just as there are minimal to small changes with minor to no risks. Each has its pros and cons, and it’s important that, in all your desires, you select the options with the least risk and greatest outcome. Vanity comes into play when you’re not doing it for the right reasons. Enhancing you, like brushing your teeth two to three times a day, is simply maintenance. Sometimes, some people take the surgeries, dieting, etc. too far. There’s no need to risk your life, as the purpose was to improve it, hence enhancing it for the right reasons. I love you for taking this time to realize air sculpting is what you want and feel you're worthy of, and it’s your right to change your mind if you want to. Oftentimes, you’ll speak, you’ll never, and then divine orchestration will reveal just how much you don’t necessarily know about what you'd do if you were in that situation. For that fact alone, I’m almost always certain not to speak too negatively or narrow-mindedly about anyone’s circumstances. I'm wishing you all the best in your recovery. Thanks for sharing, as during breast feeding x2 for approximately 12 months each, I concluded that if the density of my breast changed, I’d consider fat transfer versus artificial implantation. I believe this is a wonderful compromise and will equally address both my stubborn pooch and deflated breast, as well as keep me alert and unheavily medicated. Well Done! The results after the bruising and swelling go down are going to be nothing short of AMAZING! I can't wait to witness your transformation. 🙏🏾Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB and TellItByB🫢💭, branches and affiliates of ⚜️HairByB (Facebook Profiles: Brenda Brown-Rodrigues & Hair By B)
I wish some great plastic surgeon would offer me a free or reduced price, but they don't. Girl do you get your body done if it makes you happy, ijs. AD or not.
Let me just say one thing. For all of those people saying “it’s an Add” WELL DUH! In the right bottom corner guess what it says “#Add”. But it should matter if it is an add. She’s doing this for her, she could have turned it down. She dosent deserve hate at all.
Oh be quite u hypocritical people of someone offered y’all free cosmetic surgery for what ever u wanted to fix about your self you’ll take it, with every surgery there’s a risk you gotta be willing to to take why hate her for the risk she choosing to take. Yall people are so fickle it’s concerning
You could show yourself in a bathing suite/ bra top. lol the bottom is the more personal part. Haha. Oh well. You do you boo! Whatever makes you feel good. You looked good then and now !
These tik tok influencers are dangerous and controlable by a force, cuz why reviewing this some insecure people cant even affort this and get more insecure for the rest of their lives or taking loans so please
''She loves herself enough to do a mommy makeover'' YES!! Your daughters will grow up knowing that mommy always made sure she felt good and confident in her skin, no matter how it was achieved! I am all for this and hearing the doctor and nurse speak was so beautiful.
This is a paid #AD procedure. She sold her body
But shouldn‘t you love yourself enough to not change anything about yourself? It always seems like it‘s way too normalized to change ourselves when in reality we should start by changing our mindset not our bodies.
THANK YOU!
They grow up thinking they are only worthy if they look like the beauty standard. Their mama even did plastic surgery because her tummy wasn't perfectly flat. Should this really be normal and even be seen as something positive?? This has literally nothing to so with REAL self love.
@@PrettyGirlRock1115everyone knows that looking better takes away from your anxiety. I always feel better when I’m all dolled up rather than when I’m in my oversized pjs in bed.
I think being a person can be very hard sometimes and if this is something that makes her heart happy idc if it's an add or not. Also props to your husband for genuinely caring and reaffirming that love for you throughout this process. You did this for you and I think that's beautiful.
Let the woman live and change her mind. I wish I had someone who let me get a makeover for free. More power to you momma! You look beautiful! ❤
Amen.... 100% I would have agreed to it as well lol
Yes, she was the product. You cant tell me kylie jenner looks good with all the good doctors and injectors shes had…. And she has money.
She did what she felt she needed to do to get her confidence back. It's her life, her body and her decision!
She's chosing to posting this so we chose to opinionating😊.I Love this family so im not hating im just stating❤
I would love to see before and after side by side. Wishing you a speedy recovery.
Didn't see anything I dont get it lol
I was a little disappointed to that there wad no before and after pics!
You’re not alone here girl because I use to say the same thing until I had my fourth child via c section. I got a tummy tuck and breast lift I didn’t have another choice but I did it for myself. I’m very happy now 😊
Sad you are telling us that cosmetic surgery made you happy, as mother's we should be happy with ourselves the way we are. Praise the lord😊 God bless us all
Her stomach looks fine before the procedure.
We all know that and she knows that too but she wants to be MORE confident in her body
I know. But if she wants to do this, she wants to and we can’t stop her❤ I will still love her
Yes. I agree with you both. I was just commenting my thoughts
Where are the "before" pics?? I love this girl, droopy bod or not! She's awesome!!❤❤
I thought as much
AS A MOM OF 3 THAT HAD A MOMMY MAKEOVER. YOU NEEDED A TUMMY TUCK NOT LIPOSUCTION. YOUR SKIN WILL LOOK LOOSE ON YOUR LOWER ABDOMINAL AREA BECAUSE ONLY A TUMMY TUCK WILL HELP REMOVE THE EXCESS OF SKIN AND FIX THE DIASTASIS RECTI YOU HAVE. GOOD LUCK ON YOUR RECOVERY. IT’S YOUR BODY YOUR CHOICE I JUST WANTED TO COMMENT THAT DUE TO THE FACT THAT I HAD SEVERAL PLASTIC SURGERY BEFORE TO ENHANCE MY BODY AFTER HAVING KIDS.
Yeah I think in one of her post op videos you see some of the excess skin. Well maybe she will get that removed another time
Yes, excess skin can only be removed by a tummy tuck. I opted for AirSculpt myself knowing I would have loose skin because I’d rather not be put under and go through a full blown surgery. I think that’s why she speaks of having realistic expectations. Essentially you’re giving up one thing for another. I would love to be completely flat with no excess skin but I just wasn’t willing to go the tummy tuck route. I’m a little over a year post op and still happy that I went the route I did. I will add for those who don’t know…they’re limited in how much fat they can remove. So if you’re overweight, it’s going to take multiple procedures. I could honestly have done lipo 3 times but I’m not paying for all that. lol So the one will have to do for now. 😂
Why all caps tho
@@katieroo95😂😂😂
Thank you Love for sharing your experience. I appreciate you every day, you have gotten me through some really tough times. Thank you for being you.
Yes thank you for sharing and i would love for you to please continue your recovery. You look great.
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your in-depth experience, as a mom of 3 who never considered a mommy makeover, this is now a consideration thank you!
#AD and Honest review go together in a video?
Some people who have cosmetic surgery are being dishonest. You feel insecure. Why can’t you just use the word “INSECURE”. This isn’t a health necessity, this isn’t an emergency. This is for vanity. “I want to look good.” Why did you praise God for the existence of this tech for you to get this vain surgery? Does God need you to look amazing on the outside to follow Him, or to be amazing on the inside according to His laws and decrees and commands?
No, I think she just wants to look good… and she thanked God for that possibility (however it was accomplished)
You know… look good, feel good, do good…
She just wanted to feel good…
What is it taking away from you for her to feel confident in how she looks and feels? Stop being weird.
I’ve had my teeth removed, rearranged, whitened, all to look and be better.
I’ve had my hair professionally done in the salon to get better looking hair.
If I want to get a low invasive procedure to that removes fat and makes my breast and body look better, my salvation isn’t hindered either way.
Stop projecting your insecurities onto other women.
@@Nitra813 did you get those procedures to glorify the Kingdom of God? Tell me how did they glorify the Lord? You told me your business and I never asked for it? And that’s not weird? What is it taking away from you that I’m stating my opinions? You’re calling me insecure yet my opinions were enough to solicit this response? Mk have a blessed day
Wait, I’m confused? Why are you criticizing her? Is she in sin somewhere I am unaware of? HER HUSBAND and her made this sound decision together to do this.
I am on a weight loss journey and YES, I praise God for seeing me through it because it is most definitely important to care for my temple and I have lost a good amount of weight and should I be criticized for that?
The fact that this video is an AD for plastic surgery is disgusting. U are promoting insecurity. Having plastic surgery is okay, but not like this
Then how
That's exactly what I thought. And idk what it's like in other countries, but where I live, it's not legal to make ads for plastic surgery with comparison pictures from before and after and I think that's very good
She is promoting self-love BECAUSE as moms, we always put ourselves last. Good for her and showing us ANOTHER way how to live.
@@nursejoonloves2794 the message i get is that there is something wrong and shameful with a body after pregnancy and we should all want to change it. It's an AD, she makes moneys from making women believe that they dont look good, because she believes that she doesnt look good. I'm sorry, but I dont get any positive message from this (i find it hurtful), although I'm glad you do :)
You just had a baby! Of course you are not get your body back that fast! I used a bandage on my belly with all my pregnancy and that helped me a lot! But each body is different.
U used bandage after u gave birth???
@@ayyotube5224 It’s basically a compression garment
She doesnt even work out
@@ayyotube5224it’s needed 😩 Literally all of the organs need to re-accommodate and that’s painful
I’m 43 and had babies 15 years apart. My last was at 40 and I’m almost 3 months post op from the AbEX with liposuction from Sono Bello. This was also a minimally invasive procedure. Let me tell you lady, I wish I had this done years ago! I feel so confident in my body and the way clothes fit! Life changing!
Can I ask that you had ur last baby at 40 was that natural? Just as I'm 30 but not ready yet and I worry I may not have time
@@tashaax1993xanimalloverx yes, completely natural!
@@tashaax1993xanimalloverxyou have got time. If you are not in a serious relationship, work on that, stat!
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I just had one at 41 all natural and healthy…
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I had my first at 27/28 and then i had a cpl of iuds, i took the 2nd one out after a cpl of years i think it was and then boom i was pregnant at 34/35 all natural..
Good for you for waiting!! I went to school with girls in the US why were pregnant before they graduated!!! I just couldn’t believe it, then everyone acted surprised when i had a baby and even more surprised that i just took to motherhood (cos i def used to enjoy going out etc) and i was even more chill when i had my daughter in my 30’s… i think the obgyn should be able to tell you how ur egg count is, incase ur concerned but these days ppl are having babies older and older 😊
Girl... I wish i looked like your before.... You looked great before and amazing now❤ congrats on your selfless decision... Us moms deserve the best bc we pour out our best 😊
I think it’s funny that people think she would really go through all this for just an ad😂 she did this for herself and gave us an honest review/brought us along for her experience to show what it’s actually like for normal ppl
So many ppl saying she looked good before only because they probably wished they had her before. Just know someone somewhere probably thinks the body you hate looks great but there’s nothing wrong with wanting to look better. Only person looking yourself in the mirror is you! If you are okay with what you see great and if you want to enhance that’s okay too❤
Obviously every person is different, but if you can work on your mindset and recovery before doing something like this postpartum. I understand there are occasions when physical changes can do enough psychological damage that something like this can actually be helpful, but it's better if you can just heal and work on your body and mind recovering. This is an ad and while it's possible she did the procedure for her own self, it doesn't change the fact that it won't be the same for everybody. Postpartum is hard but it's important to be gentle to yourself during that time
Soon as I seen ad I was so disappointed in her, she is so about self love and then she gets a surgery and it’s free and a sponsor, I’m crushed
@@brooklin_bernek I don't mind it, what I do mind is that she didn't make a disclaimer. If I'm not wrong that's illegal in the us but it's also just out of character. I understand that the internet isn't always truthful but I've come to expect better from her. The fact that there isn't more about her journey behind the decision and honesty about the side effects also rubs me the wrong way a bit considering that she's been against bod mods for so long
Watch carefully 4:00 So the nurse said no exercise "activity or cardio for 3-6 weeks". Nothing that is going to elevate your heart rate for aleast two weeks.
You were back at gym after 1 week
I see how influencer makes sponsored video make it so called "self love", they make they process look so easy specially like " you were back at gym after 1 week post-partum "
When you were advised against it.
The fact that this process will help you be more comfortable in your own skin, more power to you.
Love to see the journey to the finish and I’m proud of you for being so open and vulnerable and share your story!!! 🎉
I definitely would love to watch the rest of your journey!!!
You are the best looking young mom I ever saw❤ you Re a princess❤ I don't know what is better to be a princess or queen lol
Keep doing you! Whatever makes you happy and healthy. That is the lesson.
I am happy for you. Of course, you are aware what is best for you and what will make you feel comfortable in your own skin. ❤
I actually think you had a great body b4 especially after having children. Also u want to be careful with fat transfer...its not a new concept at all. The fact youre awake is the only new thing about it. Many BBLs are done by using fat from the stomach and they often get issues because fat can harden and migrate and even dissapate over time especially if u lose weight.. i hope it goes well and this doesn't happen but i thought that's something they would tell u..
I'm supportive of one who knows what they want and what they need to stay on top of their game ~ It's called growth!
Thank you for the information and you are so brave and confident don’t let anyone put you down ❤
SO PROUD OF YOU. Please keep vloggin! Love it❤
You are the real life Mrs. Maisel when it comes to comedy! 😂
I love that she’s confident to say hey I don’t like this about my body and I’m doing this for me. So what if they are doing it for free.
Yea gurl u gota do wats best for u! U pushed out two beautiful babies!! U deserve to do wat the hell u want!!
I love how she changed her mind about surgeries but ITS AN AD? Did she really change her mind or get a good deal for promoting this? Remember folks you are being manipulated HENCE THE WORLD INFLUENCER
or did she change her mind and decided to try to make deal and it worked out in her favor😭😭 y’all are so conspiratorial and for what
@@heyimneverland8451this. Changed my mind, researched the heck out of it, contacted the brand… and we decided to work together. I never endorse things I don’t believe in. If you don’t wanna be influenced… then simply choose not to be. Power in making your own choices people! This is my my humble and honest opinion ❤
Wow, you've given me so much to think about! Thank you for doing this. I've been thinking about doing something like this. Thanks for being brave and honest and giving us inspiration to live our best lives. In turn we can give our best to our families. ❤ Blessings!!!
As a trans person, im so tired of the narrative that getting plastic surgery to feel comfortable in your body means you hate yourself. Videos like this are refreshing
There are things no amount of exercise and toning can change! Mommy makeover, top surgery, face lift or just a boob job- your body is a temple and it's yours to decorate and make look how you want. ❤
Jesus loves you
@@kybye11facts ❤
The conflict in your statement is mind blowing
I think this is weird too. There is just so much pressure for women. I don’t think it’s men who put this pressure if not it’s us as women-we allow the ads, the snarky behavior etc. We don’t focus on loving and cherishing our bodies, minds, and each other…
I’ve seen videos like, “I used to weigh more and now that I lost weight, women are mean to me.” My thought is, well how is your attitude? Sure we can admire people, but the problem becomes when we idolize unhealthy and unrealistic things. It’s when we allow mean people to manipulate us because however they act or look, or don’t for that matter! Beauty is more than just exterior-it’s the true genuine inside self and how is that person’s heart and actions. I’ve met all kinds of people and truly think diversity is how God designed us; but I will tell you, all people now think they are all just so pretty and therefore can act however they want. I’ve also met some quirky and stereotypical “unattractive” people (which btw I think is wrong and we should focus on the real heart and actions), but that have been awful people too…
Anyways, men and women need to be accountable in this subject matter, but I think it’s mostly women who allow it-we allow and turn a blind eye to the unhealthy stuff-porn, film and photograph editing, and don’t ask more from our men too. We all need to be better people. And plastic surgery, the research I have done shows that it actually hurts our mental health.
I think it’s odd that this was an #ad. Self-love but then feels she needs the plastic surgery? I just don’t get it… Why can’t we love and enhance in a balanced way how God made us-not change ourselves all together 😢
Wow the fact she has #AD on this speaks volumes. You sold your body and put your life at risk having an unnecessary procedure when you have two little humans that need you!! So irresponsible
Yes please this video is helpful I'm really thinking of doing this please more videos current after months of recovery..
I don’t understand the mean comments, it’s her choice her body and she is being transparent, in sharing her journey and what she felt she wanted to feel more beautiful. So what if it was free? She’s still sharing her journey, and not just lying about it and giving her audience unrealistic body image , not knowing it was achieved through surgery. Women should uplift each other and not gate keep, well maybe gate keep their critical comments. Because despite if you like her decision or not, you will be now informed if this is something you might want , if you have been considering a mommy makeover yourself . Live and let live ❤
Thank you for sharing your journey. You look beautiful as always. 💕Strongly considering this for myself.
Forget the haters. I would love an update. I used to hate plastic surgery and then sometimes I like it. But I don’t post about. We change our minds all the time. Too many bitter Betty’s upset that you changed your mind. If you were their broke friend they would congratulate you. Either way. I’m loving the long videos and great vibes ❤
The end results look so good. Wish they could have shown the procedure. Was not expecting the holes in the body. I thought it was non invasive lol
how much did it cost? I have my baby around the same time and this sounded interesting! I think you should do what makes you a happy mom and wife! looking at how your hubby taking care of you is so great!
I'm sorry, but how you talked about yourself in the beginning does not match the "before" shots. "So much skin you could hide inside of it like a turtle"? You have a normal midsection. You don't look like you were ever pregnant. Please take care of yourself.
Hahaha omg sweetheart you needed your princess sleep and after you wake up you be energetic confident❤ I want you to be happy ❤
Loved hearing about this experience and your thoughts!!!
For lipo it takes 6 months you will snatched more. Dont stop with your lymphatic until 6 months and to maintain them 1 a week. It depends on the person if you want to take care of your body 😉. Then in the future get skin thighting, jplasma and morphus 8 for the skin to tight. Some dont need tummy tuck and they get that combination and the skin sticks more. But i think its better when you are finished with bbys 🤰🏻. if you dont want to go for surgery and pain again.
You didn’t really show the after too much, but I don’t see much of a difference yet!!! Let us know how the rest of the recovery goes♥️
We are happy for you and your family.
What was the cost of the procedure?
God blessed you all!
Can we see a before and after after the 6 week marl I'm a mom of 4 and was thinking of getting something like this done
Me sitting here with my mommy pooch lol
Same girl, same
Me sitting here with my mommy apron
I am happy, that you are happy! Big blessings to you and applause for you, that you share! Hope all wounding will heel soon! ❤Blessings to your beautiful kids and husband too! Hugs!
I’m contemplating between fat transfer for breasts after childbearing or implants. What information did you use to make your decision and is the fat transfer staying put in your breasts?
Fat transfer is more expensive but feels much more natural in the end and has a better rate of not rejecting due to it being your own tissue; implants need to be replaced every 15-20 years (sometimes as little as 10).
Implants also can be over or under the muscle which makes a big difference in healing and results. Another potential downside of fat transfer is if you lose weight, they may shrink.
I don't recommend implants either, but I worked at Air sculpt for awhile and a majority of the fat transfer to breast patients have enlarged areolas afterwards. Something to keep in mind
Also everyone freaking out but she didn’t get surgery. It’s not evasive and they only tweak wat u already have. They don’t put in stuff. Or take it away
Honestly is that self love . What you looked like before is What i look like now 3 years after the last second kid. And jogging every day almost .
Yes keep vloging!! I want to see results. You did tummy and breast. Did you do anything with the bum? Asking for myself. Big thing i want to see when healed is breasts. Maybe pics so you dont have to show video and can cover nips but i would love to see compared to breast augmentation. Thank you. Looking great
I’m interested too!!
Same!!!
You can’t do your front and backside at the same time.
Oh ok makes sense haha
I thought they said no fat burning workouts for a few weeks though?
I would never, six kids deep here. She’s so brave!
I understand that you did this because you wanted to feel better but isn’t that the entire idea of cosmetic surgery? If you love yourself this much why do this? I agree with everything you do and say on this channel but this- no.
You don’t need to reshape yourself to feel beautiful. And although how much ur telling ppl that u “feel beautiful either way” you clearly dont. So accept it atleast. You don’t need to pretend to be smth ur not. If u feel like shit own it atleast we’ll understand where you are coming from. But despite feeling beautiful if you think this is justified then those don’t feel beautiful enough should DEF do surgery .
Okay I’m sure you look great after but mentally you don’t seem great. Your skin is always glowing and now you look sad and just drained emotionally . You mentioned post surgery depression - that worries me
Physical beauty alone does Not bring positive self-esteem/self-love. In fact, some of the most physically beautiful women lack self-esteem/love and are immoral.
Hey!! Dont losten to these people you do what is best for you ! 💯 ❤
Thank you for sharing this experience with us ❤
One of my biggest fears with pregnancy is the changes my body might experience! Thanks for sharing! Also would love to hear about your home birth experience if you ever feel touched to share:)
FIRST!!! LOVE UR VIDSS
How was the pain during the procedure, did the numbing shot pain ?
This is so not you, dont you teach your girls to love their bodies just the way they are? What is this teaching them? That if they grow up and have a body that looks like yours did before you had procedures, that theyll need them too. I dont think promoting stuff like this is good for society. This should have been done privately but then you wouldnt have been able to profit off it. Body shaming yourself when you have young girls is a weird idea. And to make a public video they can watch when theyre older is crazy, or maybe theyll be with a guy one day whos like well why didnt you get work done like your mom? What if they think that, oh i have a tummy so ill just get work done like mom did. Sad.
1. Don’t act like you wouldn’t take the option of fat sculpt if you were given the opportunity of a mommy makeover
2. If their daughters had men like that, Nika and Emeka would immediately advise for their daughters to drop a man who treated them that way.
3. You suck at comprehension- if she were to work out and get muscular would you say the same? Bodies change whether we push that change or not, she’s controlling the change in a different way. LET IT REST
This is for mothers who want safe boost of confidence not little girls .
What is wrong with everyone??? She got the thing done and she is happy with it, so it’s either you’re happy or not with it but no one cares… keep your opinions to yourself and let her be happy, it’s not your freaking life and body….
I'm recovering from my procedure and I've had a different experience 🙃 Just remember everyone is different
Not recording her knocked out sleeping 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you for sharing this AD
Yes please! I didnt even know this was a thing! I have wanted a mommy make over but didn't want the extreme cutting an stuff of a full tummy tuck or breast job just always looked so painful and I always heard such terrible stories. But now this might give me hope of changing my body back ❤
I think you look good!!! Ignore the negative comments you did what YOU wanted to do. It irks me how ppl preach woman empowerment and we can do what we want to do but then comes the negativity...Just be quiet 😂 it's not your body its hers and she can do what she wants period...GO GIRL with her bad self ❤
I don’t like hearing all the negative comments you make about your body, boobs, skin etc at the start… but you do you, I guess this video isn’t for me, hope you’re happy!
Same. I stopped using my faja early.
Blessings 🙏🏼🎉
Everyone thinks they would never do something immoral until the devil tempts you and makes excuses for you to give in to doing the immoral thing you said you would never do in the first place. Do NOT be thanking God, Creator of Life, for something the devil is convincing you to do. Cosmetic surgery should be people im drastic accidents, not for normal mothers. You are lying to yourself and only listening to people who will tickle your ears and that's not what you need. You are becoming part of the problem by getting cosmetic surgery for a normal body and calling it "not good enough". Other women will think the same about themselves. The Lord God made you, it is Enough!!!
Your body took this procedure so well. Absolutely beautiful.
I had two babies. Two years worth of clean eating and gym. Same during the pregnancy. You can. I look better than before kids. If you gonna research all that time for a doctor, might as well do the research to learn how to care for your body. I mean kylie jenner got “good” docs and look at her……
What pain medication did you take?
It’s an ad? Oh wow. That’s disappointing.
Of course this is an AD lmao these RUclipsrs are master manipulators don’t fall for this!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL no matter what these influencers are making you feel like you need OR you feel are available to you. THESE PROCEDURED COST ALOT DO NOT GET IN DEBT BC U SEE THIS RICH LADY GETTING IT AND SHE GETTING A DISCOUNT OF FREE BC OF THIS VIDEO!!
good for you!! love yourself
Cost?
Are we going to get a week three post op video?
Wow! As soon as I saw the story on Facebook, I came right over to subscribe and watch. I’m an au natural woman as well, but I believe that enhancing your appearance doesn’t have to go hand in hand with vanity. I think anything within reason that doesn’t necessarily jeopardize your health or safety should be considered if you believe you’re a potential candidate. No one deserves to suffer with unsightly changes that’s easy to mend with a few adjustments here or there. It’s no different than including exercise in conjunction with dietary changes. The reality is that there are extremes and health risks associated with many things, just as there are minimal to small changes with minor to no risks. Each has its pros and cons, and it’s important that, in all your desires, you select the options with the least risk and greatest outcome. Vanity comes into play when you’re not doing it for the right reasons. Enhancing you, like brushing your teeth two to three times a day, is simply maintenance. Sometimes, some people take the surgeries, dieting, etc. too far. There’s no need to risk your life, as the purpose was to improve it, hence enhancing it for the right reasons. I love you for taking this time to realize air sculpting is what you want and feel you're worthy of, and it’s your right to change your mind if you want to. Oftentimes, you’ll speak, you’ll never, and then divine orchestration will reveal just how much you don’t necessarily know about what you'd do if you were in that situation. For that fact alone, I’m almost always certain not to speak too negatively or narrow-mindedly about anyone’s circumstances. I'm wishing you all the best in your recovery. Thanks for sharing, as during breast feeding x2 for approximately 12 months each, I concluded that if the density of my breast changed, I’d consider fat transfer versus artificial implantation. I believe this is a wonderful compromise and will equally address both my stubborn pooch and deflated breast, as well as keep me alert and unheavily medicated. Well Done! The results after the bruising and swelling go down are going to be nothing short of AMAZING! I can't wait to witness your transformation.
🙏🏾Blessings
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I wish some great plastic surgeon would offer me a free or reduced price, but they don't. Girl do you get your body done if it makes you happy, ijs. AD or not.
Amen! ❤
Is it actual surgery like cutting?
Please keep vlogging about it!!
Let me just say one thing. For all of those people saying “it’s an Add” WELL DUH! In the right bottom corner guess what it says “#Add”. But it should matter if it is an add. She’s doing this for her, she could have turned it down. She dosent deserve hate at all.
Oh be quite u hypocritical people of someone offered y’all free cosmetic surgery for what ever u wanted to fix about your self you’ll take it, with every surgery there’s a risk you gotta be willing to to take why hate her for the risk she choosing to take. Yall people are so fickle it’s concerning
lol as if you wouldn’t take it if you were offered free surgery.
To me it looks worse after or am I tripping ?
How can review be honest when the procedure was done for free so you can advertise it. Make it make sense
I’m with you!!!! 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼
I was wondering, do the incisions scar?
I can only fall asleep on my stomach. Id have to pass 😢😂
You could show yourself in a bathing suite/ bra top. lol the bottom is the more personal part. Haha. Oh well. You do you boo! Whatever makes you feel good. You looked good then and now !
Wow you look like a calm version of bretman rock 😂
These tik tok influencers are dangerous and controlable by a force, cuz why reviewing this some insecure people cant even affort this and get more insecure for the rest of their lives or taking loans so please