The Best Way To Respond To A Hurting Person | Dale Carnegie Quotes And Life Lessons

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

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  • @margaritaabue7632
    @margaritaabue7632 5 месяцев назад +192

    Today is my birthday and listening this amazing words feels like a gift . Thank’s to post it . We can make the difference in our life ourselves ❤

  • @colepfiefer
    @colepfiefer 23 дня назад +261

    Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.

    • @Joanmacduff
      @Joanmacduff 23 дня назад +1

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.

    • @colepfiefer
      @colepfiefer 23 дня назад +1

      I feel your pain sister, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.

    • @Joanmacduff
      @Joanmacduff 23 дня назад +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

    • @colepfiefer
      @colepfiefer 23 дня назад +2

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Joanmacduff
      @Joanmacduff 23 дня назад +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 4 месяца назад +80

    Always stand up ,for what is right,even if you stand alone..🙏♥️

  • @WiseQuotesAndMore
    @WiseQuotesAndMore 17 дней назад +2

    Dale Carnegie was a genius whose motivational quotes are full of inspiration and wisdom. Thank you for sharing them.

  • @WiseAdvice93
    @WiseAdvice93 3 месяца назад +62

    Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you all the best in your life. May light fill your life. May God guide you to prosperity!

    • @grumpyoldgit8254
      @grumpyoldgit8254 3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you and the same to you, why has nobody else replied to you this way?

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93 3 месяца назад +1

      @@grumpyoldgit8254 Thank you very much

    • @lesleyjeal2143
      @lesleyjeal2143 2 месяца назад

      Thankyou that's so nice ❤

    • @mauriceottolia806
      @mauriceottolia806 Месяц назад

  • @mrstanbmw
    @mrstanbmw 4 месяца назад +31

    There will always be people who don't see your worth don't let it be you. Powerful

  • @WisdomAdvice.80
    @WisdomAdvice.80 3 месяца назад +65

    I wish everyone who reads this comment a life full of happiness and success!

  • @StamperWendy
    @StamperWendy 4 месяца назад +28

    The best revenge is to be an awesome person who's living an awesome life!

  • @toyabdool5127
    @toyabdool5127 6 месяцев назад +169

    People don't see the wrong in their actions. But they see wrong in others. This is happening to me. This video is so true.

    • @Yesimamodel-2025
      @Yesimamodel-2025 5 месяцев назад +7

      Happened to everyone That's why we have laws and judges.

    • @MrSimonw58
      @MrSimonw58 5 месяцев назад +3

      Life expands and shrinks in relation to your courage

    • @indranisarkar685
      @indranisarkar685 5 месяцев назад +3

      😂 stay away from your parents

    • @Fegga1955
      @Fegga1955 5 месяцев назад +3

      Daily this is happening,so many toxic people.Life gets lonely after tough relationships

    • @SRSM198
      @SRSM198 5 месяцев назад +3

      Stand tall, believe in yourself, but listen if advice rings true. Take good care

  • @m.taylor
    @m.taylor 5 месяцев назад +74

    I like "You have to do what is right for yourself. Nobody else is walking in your shoes."
    "If you don't let go of the wrong people, you will never meet the right people."

  • @wong9629
    @wong9629 2 месяца назад +21

    Don't depend too much on anyone in this world, even your shadow leaves you in darkness. 👍👍

    • @SpokenGold1
      @SpokenGold1  2 месяца назад +1

      💞🌹

    • @conniekingery4837
      @conniekingery4837 2 месяца назад +1

      I agree I truly needed one time to depend on someone Oh God it was a mistake the 1st and the last time keep independent never believe that someone will help No just slap you down Never depend the first and last time

    • @ChristinaJurlina-gv7vt
      @ChristinaJurlina-gv7vt 2 месяца назад

      Yup 👍

  • @DonLeist
    @DonLeist 3 месяца назад +8

    Live your life successfully,and give 'em the middle finger salute!

  • @bochafish
    @bochafish 4 месяца назад +10

    "How to win friends and Influence people" was a great read. One I should go back to more often. Dale Carnegie's book is a great.

  • @StoicLifePrinciples86
    @StoicLifePrinciples86 5 месяцев назад +21

    I waited 30 years for the one I loved. I had zero contact with her during the 30 years. I knew she would come around. It’s really an astounding story.

  • @thitesmarantz4970
    @thitesmarantz4970 5 месяцев назад +23

    These are the words I need to do.Thank you Lord🙏 some people are just mean.

  • @WiseAdvice93
    @WiseAdvice93 5 месяцев назад +73

    I’m leaving this comment here so that when anyone likes it, it takes me back here !

    • @darlinjacq1552
      @darlinjacq1552 Месяц назад

      That Advise is just The Way handle information like this, My Wise friend...

  • @AvageeEspinosa
    @AvageeEspinosa 5 месяцев назад +112

    The best revenge is no revenge, just move forward🌈

  • @tucky2297
    @tucky2297 3 месяца назад +19

    I pray often to to the one true GOD. I thank Him for giving me life!😢

    • @colchicine1
      @colchicine1 2 месяца назад

      And what is the name of that GOD?

  • @Pablo-gb6dv
    @Pablo-gb6dv 5 месяцев назад +14

    Thank you Lord for this very graceful voice....

  • @MajidahMateen-xd9rx
    @MajidahMateen-xd9rx 4 месяца назад +11

    Amen to all of these from Dale Carnegie and beautifully well written 🙏🙌❤️💯💯🎯🎯

    • @angelabelleni5298
      @angelabelleni5298 2 месяца назад

      Bad transcription many errors in punctuation and misspelling. You should have somebody show you the problems in this video.
      I admire D. Carnegie but he deserves better.

  • @RealWise92
    @RealWise92 5 месяцев назад +98

    I like a saying I read years ago - "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not in fact just surrounded by arseholes."

  • @WisdomAdvice.80
    @WisdomAdvice.80 3 месяца назад +6

    Every quote resonates deeply, reminding us to stay true to ourselves and keep pushing forward. Thank you for sharing these powerful words!

  • @tucky2297
    @tucky2297 2 месяца назад +4

    Ive taken 2 Dale Carnegie courses. HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE AND HIS LEADERSHIP COURSE. The 2 courses I took were also public speaking....I learned alot from his courses about myself and others.I was president of a union at the time.

  • @SuccessSeasons
    @SuccessSeasons 4 месяца назад +6

    A man is never too old to learn. Thanks forr your video !

  • @sallyflavell6221
    @sallyflavell6221 2 месяца назад +3

    My brother read this book in his youth and lived according to these teachings. He has had a great life and been kind and caring without judging others. A good man, much loved❤
    He gives me strength when i think of him. Blessed to be his sister.

  • @emmeling.4914
    @emmeling.4914 4 месяца назад +5

    I love Dale Carnegie’s life’s quotes.

  • @Mmaskantsi
    @Mmaskantsi 5 месяцев назад +4

    Good things comes in good times, I thank you, Amen, Amen, Amen.

  • @WiseAdvice93
    @WiseAdvice93 5 месяцев назад +74

    I hope whoever reads this comment will have good luck and become rich !

    • @davidlingard312
      @davidlingard312 4 месяца назад +1

      Hope the same for you and great health God bless

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93 4 месяца назад

      @@davidlingard312 thank you very much

    • @darlenemartin8859
      @darlenemartin8859 4 месяца назад +1

      God bless...🙏

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93 4 месяца назад

      @@darlenemartin8859 thank you

    • @GinaTaglioli-vi5pn
      @GinaTaglioli-vi5pn 4 месяца назад

      Being happy with YOURSELF IS KEY to happiness!!

  • @nickjee
    @nickjee 3 месяца назад +134

    Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @jean-b8m
      @jean-b8m 3 месяца назад +7

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go,i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @nickjee
      @nickjee 3 месяца назад +2

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @jean-b8m
      @jean-b8m 3 месяца назад +4

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @nickjee
      @nickjee 3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @DAZY-m9h
      @DAZY-m9h 3 месяца назад +4

      Hi nickjee most high spiritual power is in yourself.please believe your self

  • @alicialewin2016
    @alicialewin2016 5 месяцев назад +14

    It's so amazing. That even unkind people can teach you lessons but they don't even know that as you would not like to be like that to someone else as it would possibly hurt them as much as it hurt you do kind and unkind people both serve a purpose in your spiritual growth it always comes down to forgiveness and love which we should show towards others ❤❤❤❤

  • @geraldvaughn8403
    @geraldvaughn8403 3 месяца назад +4

    Revenge is like road rage. It serves no purpose and everyone loses.

  • @lanag9318
    @lanag9318 5 месяцев назад +12

    Amen. .Very true and wise words, ,as this is what i'm going through in my life People don't see the wrong in their actions the way the treat you,they just see the wrong in you ,what you do and say ,because theyr'e insecure ,and theyare haters with low self esteem , bullies,narcissts and the like.Great advice ,God bless you always.💞💐🌸🌷💕🌺♥️💝💖💖💖💖🧬🌹thank you so much.

  • @gavinelliot3564
    @gavinelliot3564 5 месяцев назад +19

    I'm so happy it's hard to be quiet.

    • @Jason-eo1rh
      @Jason-eo1rh 5 месяцев назад

      No, you're just insufferable

  • @QuoteQuest_world
    @QuoteQuest_world 3 месяца назад +3

    Amen to all of these from Dale Carnegie and beautifully well written

  • @lucindamoran8686
    @lucindamoran8686 2 месяца назад +2

    My dad had his paper back by Dale Carnegie entitled How to win friends and Influence people! Very good paperback book always in the garage by his tools! My dad was very well liked and successful in life and a great person to boot! I read the book myself when l was 11yrs. old! I feel like the common sense in Mr. Carnegie 's book helped me too,and a strong belief in God....Thank you for this!😊

  • @sonwane1132
    @sonwane1132 4 месяца назад +5

    Incredible and the The Best video!

  • @Ilona-o3f
    @Ilona-o3f 5 месяцев назад +7

    Strongly agree- Respect starts from Conversation 😊

  • @user-ir8rz6kd2d
    @user-ir8rz6kd2d 2 месяца назад +2

    What a motivational quotes! May peace be upon him.

  • @handebarlas6248
    @handebarlas6248 4 месяца назад +5

    Invaluable!!! 👌♾🏆Thank you very much for the upload. ❤🙏

  • @vanessangauru4897
    @vanessangauru4897 5 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you for those wise words just the tonic I needed to know very helpful for one Who has been Used great help for my own stupidity

  • @melissaklemm9976
    @melissaklemm9976 4 месяца назад +9

    Hurt people hurt people❤ and then once healed we have achieved choice. And realize we choose happy,sad,anger,fear. Once we controls those. What comes out will not defile us no longer❤

  • @KeelySanders-s5y
    @KeelySanders-s5y 3 месяца назад +9

    Im not a revenge seeker, bc i believe in the bible and it say ppl always reap what they sow. So, i leave it to Jehovah God and not stoop low like some, and do any evil.
    But, it also feels good i will never let them back in my life again. It gives me strength and peace at the same time.

  • @trishamaee.galivo3589
    @trishamaee.galivo3589 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank u for this very special words I have learn lesson for this thank u

  • @Kavui5421
    @Kavui5421 5 месяцев назад +25

    Could not agree enough. Thank you Jesus for these words of wisdom. Amen and Amen 🙏🛐🔥❤️

    • @SpokenGold1
      @SpokenGold1  5 месяцев назад +2

      👍👍

    • @nancygarcia1323
      @nancygarcia1323 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, you sound like my grandma😊

    • @zodarian6705
      @zodarian6705 5 месяцев назад +2

      Except that these words of wisdom didn't come from Jesus.

    • @captain2ahab
      @captain2ahab 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@zodarian6705 He just wanted to insert Jesus in his posting.

    • @zodarian6705
      @zodarian6705 3 месяца назад

      @QuotesOfTheDay_Officials bullshit!

  • @AnnDavis-qc6zm
    @AnnDavis-qc6zm 5 месяцев назад +5

    This message is approved the truth be told Amen

  • @darrellborland119
    @darrellborland119 5 месяцев назад +7

    Excellent morning advice. My take-away is to thank those who were negative, dismiss, and move on to cultivate relationship' with those who meet my standards for today and future. Thanks and subscribed.

  • @mq18256
    @mq18256 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you. Keep standing tall at all times.

  • @ply5359
    @ply5359 4 месяца назад +6

    Only positive vibes.
    Will not waste time for retaliation. Lobe❤n 🤲🙏.

  • @Rööna-nie6246
    @Rööna-nie6246 5 месяцев назад +7

    Amen, thank you Lord❤❤

  • @bas2823
    @bas2823 5 месяцев назад +9

    STUNNING WORDS! 👍❤"

  • @user-fg8dq6tf2d
    @user-fg8dq6tf2d Месяц назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤your Video Thank you.
    I feel like you talking to me.

  • @gearyb9870
    @gearyb9870 5 месяцев назад +10

    Each of these truths is brilliant. ❤

  • @TalyaTabish
    @TalyaTabish 4 месяца назад +10

    why hurt back.. ? be kind let go and become tension free 😊

    • @SpokenGold1
      @SpokenGold1  4 месяца назад +1

      Ohh Good 👍😊

    • @TalyaTabish
      @TalyaTabish 3 месяца назад +1

      @QuotesOfTheDay_Officials letting go is far easy.. it gives ur heart ease....:)

    • @ChristinaJurlina-gv7vt
      @ChristinaJurlina-gv7vt Месяц назад

      @@TalyaTabish absolutely so true 💯⭐

  • @Krista-rt9ww
    @Krista-rt9ww 5 месяцев назад +4

    This video helped me more than you can imagine!!!❤

  • @kristineroethle5028
    @kristineroethle5028 6 месяцев назад +6

    Complete and accurate message in today's society and most are so very true and learn to heal for a successful life 🙏

  • @PureEstrogen
    @PureEstrogen 4 месяца назад +5

    I needed this. Thanks for sharing!

  • @JJmoony
    @JJmoony 4 месяца назад +3

    Well that set up my day!

  • @heidibush3307
    @heidibush3307 5 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you very much
    For realistic truthful advices 🙏

  • @janerodriguez8963
    @janerodriguez8963 5 месяцев назад +70

    A zebra never changes its color, they will use you as much as they can, don’t let it go on. Time to walk away. Let them see you are ok with out them💯

    • @SpokenGold1
      @SpokenGold1  5 месяцев назад +3

      👍🌹

    • @appledoreman
      @appledoreman 5 месяцев назад +4

      Sometimes it's not possible to walk away, for instance when you're living or working in close proximity to someone. Ultimately, insults say more about the insulter than the insulted.

    • @tinarustman8832
      @tinarustman8832 5 месяцев назад +7

      A leopard never changes their spots!!

    • @melissacarver4110
      @melissacarver4110 5 месяцев назад

      I had an evil step daughter that used me and would spy on me like hack into my phone and buy a digital picture frame to spy on me. Psycho pathetic!! I disowned she and her loser husband. So immature and insecure. I’m done! Goodbye and good riddance assholes!

    • @Bface55
      @Bface55 5 месяцев назад

      It’s not fair to animals to be compared to humans

  • @RosieTime_
    @RosieTime_ 2 месяца назад +2

    This is great to see. It tells so much.

  • @EllenJobson
    @EllenJobson 5 месяцев назад +5

    Just what i needed to hear today!

  • @IshaYusuf-w6t
    @IshaYusuf-w6t 2 месяца назад +2

    An amazing video. Very informative.

  • @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn
    @cosmeticsandpurseswithevelyn 5 месяцев назад +8

    I enjoyed it and yes Im living it at 65 Thumbs Up

  • @Kat-id7rz
    @Kat-id7rz 3 месяца назад +3

    Remember that its all in your head.

  • @kantajina9782
    @kantajina9782 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for making wonderful video all true I passed my whole life pleasing others never thought of myself 👍

    • @SpokenGold1
      @SpokenGold1  5 месяцев назад

      ❤️💯

    • @JnTmarie
      @JnTmarie 5 месяцев назад +2

      I discovered I was pleasing people hoping they would validate me and then I could value myself. It doesn’t work and leaves us empty and unfulfilled. Once I discovered I need to take responsibility for my thoughts and actions for towards myself first then the right others will naturally respect me Forcing myself to care for myself can be difficult when I feel low but I know it is the way out. Exercise care for my environment allows me to feel worthy. Be your own best friend then you can have others.❤. Love and healing kindness to all. Be compassionate. Everything is a state you are not stuck there

  • @donnadeandean2720
    @donnadeandean2720 3 месяца назад +3

    My husband took the Dale Carnegie course. Love it ❤❤❤

    • @donnadeandean2720
      @donnadeandean2720 3 месяца назад

      @QuotesOfTheDay_Officials I still have Dale Carnegie hard cover books. I will read them soon.

  • @jillconyers2710
    @jillconyers2710 5 месяцев назад +11

    I needed to hear this today!❤

  • @tessiejanebolasco9199
    @tessiejanebolasco9199 2 месяца назад +2

    Happiness is enjoying the little things in life ❤

  • @michaelwilson2151
    @michaelwilson2151 4 месяца назад +8

    The best revenge is to live well... -my dad

  • @ForLife-r5n
    @ForLife-r5n 4 месяца назад +3

    real quality video

  • @mhopi9744
    @mhopi9744 5 месяцев назад +7

    Very informative n eye opening. Used to be a doormat without knowing. Nw changing using yr helpful guidance. Ty 👏👏🙏🙏

  • @momienmohamed7752
    @momienmohamed7752 4 месяца назад +2

    I feel much better listing to this word's.

  • @annamarietaljaard1193
    @annamarietaljaard1193 4 месяца назад +3

    Words of wisdom

  • @johnduffy6546
    @johnduffy6546 Месяц назад +1

    that was a WHOLE LOTTA POSITIVE! thank you!

  • @friedadutoit549
    @friedadutoit549 5 месяцев назад +5

    Many thanks for sharing this wonderful video.

  • @clemclemson9259
    @clemclemson9259 5 месяцев назад +4

    some good reminders here - Thank You. for posting this

  • @tablemountain918
    @tablemountain918 2 месяца назад +1

    Thought provoking indeed.

  • @kazsss5672
    @kazsss5672 5 месяцев назад +4

    Just beautiful!

  • @ZebaraCell-y4g
    @ZebaraCell-y4g 4 месяца назад +2

    If I receive tomorrow this blessings I will happy

  • @Lgalitz
    @Lgalitz 4 месяца назад +9

    The worst is when these apply to your adult kids that you certainly DID NOT bring up to be so cruel and selfish. Let them go. It's on them.

  • @sheilayoung4043
    @sheilayoung4043 2 месяца назад +2

    This is so true 😊

  • @Fegga1955
    @Fegga1955 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful guidance.Silence is best❤

  • @TaoTang-ye2yc
    @TaoTang-ye2yc 5 месяцев назад +10

    Keeping smiling and beautifully treat every good human being. Time will tell how Gods punish.

  • @janbahno303
    @janbahno303 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for sharing this; I found myself in some situations described here.

    • @SpokenGold1
      @SpokenGold1  5 месяцев назад +1

      Be happy and stay strong ☺️

  • @RandyRodriguez-d7g
    @RandyRodriguez-d7g 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks

  • @marilynmouton9818
    @marilynmouton9818 5 месяцев назад +7

    Beautiful thank you. 🎉

  • @PsyQ-717
    @PsyQ-717 2 месяца назад +2

    thank you 🥰

  • @LloydMajor
    @LloydMajor 5 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for your wisdom!

  • @StoicSoulCommunity
    @StoicSoulCommunity 5 месяцев назад +12

    Take charge of your life by mastering self-control and focusing on what you can influence. Let go of worries about the uncontrollable, and remember, your journey is unique-never compare yourself to others.

  • @KalyaniDeshmukh
    @KalyaniDeshmukh 5 месяцев назад +4

    So very true and right

  • @Desiraetsel
    @Desiraetsel 5 месяцев назад +5

    ThankYou for the wise words...
    🙏💫

  • @LahAllen
    @LahAllen 2 месяца назад

    Love it hope to receive many more inspirational messages

  • @glorianieves3433
    @glorianieves3433 5 месяцев назад +5

    I am glad abd thankful for this video. ❤

  • @indupradeep5288
    @indupradeep5288 5 месяцев назад +3

    Excellent God bless you

  • @allpro2812
    @allpro2812 5 месяцев назад +11

    on repeat in my office

    • @SpokenGold1
      @SpokenGold1  5 месяцев назад

      @@allpro2812 ❤️❤️

  • @missjddrage1111
    @missjddrage1111 3 месяца назад +1

    Incredibly heavy words here. A few cut a bit deep. All inspirational. Thank you. 💐🙏🏆❤️‍🔥⚓️

  • @terrellhansley9063
    @terrellhansley9063 5 месяцев назад +8

    Absolutely

  • @JamesTrouten
    @JamesTrouten 2 месяца назад +1

    To love yourself even that much more and give no thought or energy towards the discomfort someone else brought upon you there's your answer run with it be proud of self to have that loving heart

  • @brigitnunez6735
    @brigitnunez6735 5 месяцев назад +4

    Many a true word.

  • @jameswashnis7990
    @jameswashnis7990 6 месяцев назад +4

    a brilliant man no doubt much wisdom in this video