Watched both your videos on female gaze and, in my opinion, while you are correct about many things and are right to call it out (such as the "muscular" look) you make some questionable statements that are not logically consistent. For example in this video you play a clip of Destiny. First of all; what credibility or voice of reasondoes he have on the topic? A manlet with blue hair who essentially used status to steal a swedish girl from an ugly man, bring her to the states, be in an open relationship with her allowing her to meet other men, marry her without a prenup and lose her after 2 years (exactly when she got the green card) to a taller tiktok creator. If anything he proved all blackpillers right, precisely all those voices that were telling him what would happen, he did not care to listen as his reptillian brain (of being with a kind of attractive woman as a manlet) overpowered his rationality and reason. Secondly; what he says is totally different from the conclusion that you and him make. The statement "See the average woman wants to be with a 6ft+ ...man just like the average man wants to be with a 19 year old supermodel". Hey dummy; the reason the average man isn't with a 19 year old supermodel isn't because he doesn't know what he wants, it's because he can't have her... This is precisely why redpillers try to compensate with a lot of money and why you can see Leonardo date...19 year old supermodels! This is precisely why women settle later and why singlemotherhood isn't rare these days...they wanted chad and when that fails or the scenario doesn't play out the way they wanted they start claiming "I actually love short and chubby men" to at least attract a man who can provide her with emotional and/or financial support. complete imbeciles then take their statements at face value. Here it is; if a man could be with a really cute girl who also treats him right he would, there is literally no exception, if a girl could be with a very goodlooking man who also treats her right she would, there is literally no exception. In your first video you also claimed that looks and money depend on the girl, as if a house and a car is cheaper if the girl lives in poverty and as if 5'8 becomes a tall man if the girl is 5'2. This is such a silly point and your "proof" was a clip showing 3 women who on average expected their man to make over 200K, while even the girl that looked homeless expected 70-150K, isn't the median income around 40K...? The reason the middle girl gave a slightly lower number isn't because she wants her husband to make "slightly more" (probably 4 times more) than her, it's because she isn't dumb to think that she can marry a man who has 10+million, modelling looks and is great in every sense of the word. She also didn't look that young, must have some selfawareness and got her naivety destroyed at least to a small degree. This is similar to the previous mistake; attraction isn't "relative" but what you can attract is. The girl who is 5'2 may perhaps thinks that she cannot be with a 6'2 man (eventhough I think that is false), however if she could...she absolutely would. A man who is short is unlikely to date a taller woman, isn't he attracted to an average or tall woman...or aren't the women taller than him interested in him? Just because you are older doesn't make you attracted to older. Just because you are ugly doesn't make you attracted to ugly. Just because you are poor doesn't make you attracted to poverty. Just because you are short doesn't make you attracted to shorter. ... It changes what you can attract, which as you claimed is usually slightly or significantly above the level the woman can offer. The second point ties in with your point about "stories" that women read. These stories involve men and/or desires that they cannot experience in real life, or perhaps they have experienced when they were younger and are no longer able to. In that sense it is really no different from men watching 'corn', attractive models do well and the favorite ages are younger unless if the 'story' is about a specific and popular fetish such as 'stepmom' or 'milf'. You oversimplify this as to say "see it is a story..therefore women love stories". When women actually love specific stories that resonate with their desires for a goodlooking man or a particular fetish. Covers of romance books display goodlooking, sometimes muscular men...because that sells. Vampire movies cast goodlooking young men...and teenage girls "just happen" to love the movie. Romantic movies cast a sometimes older goodlooking man...and adult women "just happen" to love the movie. Movies with a sexual undertone relate to a common fetish such as an average woman falling victim to a goodlooking or high status man...and adult women of all ages "just happen" to love the movie. How you fail to see what is going on and why those movies were made with that script and that cast in the first place, is beyond me.
Different kinds of women are attracted to different things. That being said, I'm sure there's some overlap though. I think wou just need to fall into an aesthetic that fits your personality the best and you'll probably attract women that are attracted to that kind of aesthetic that you fall into.
its called social proofing this guy takes redpill content then takes out rage and anger from that content then rephrases it then posts here. its not a bad thing but hes still falling for the same meme as those guys who say bee your self dud " that stuff works when you know what do to get the girl then beeing your self isnt harmful its quirk of yourse
When it comes to physical attractiveness . The thing that i find the most attractive is well , how he smells (perfume) , if he has a cute smile , and if he is well mannered .
"Decoding Attraction: Unraveling the Female Gaze" **Summary:** This video delves into the complexities of attraction, challenging conventional beliefs by analyzing comments from the previous video on the female gaze. The creator emphasizes the disparity between what people claim they want and their actual behaviors, exploring the intricacies of desire and action. **Key Highlights:** 1. **Desires vs. Behaviors:** - There's a significant disconnection between what people say they desire and how they behave in reality. - People may express preferences for certain traits but end up making different choices when presented with options. 2. **Attraction Misconceptions:** - Men often perceive attraction as a linear progression, akin to leveling up in a video game. However, human emotions, especially attraction, don't adhere to such simplistic formulas. - The video challenges the idea that hard work can alter unchangeable traits like height or race, highlighting the impact of societal expectations on perception. 3. **Partner Selection Patterns:** - People predominantly pre-select partners based on socioeconomic status and physical attractiveness. - The concept of "beauty status exchange" is discussed, noting that statistically, relationships between a beautiful woman and a less attractive wealthy man are rare. 4. **Inferred Attractiveness:** - The video introduces the concept of inferred attractiveness, where individuals become more interested in something if others desire it. - Girls often develop interest in guys based on other girls' preferences, leading to the recognition of unique features that make a guy stand out. 5. **Height Influence on Attraction:** - The belief that extremely attractive men have more sexual partners is challenged, especially concerning factors like height. - Height's influence on sexual success is nuanced, with the video debunking the idea that tall men exploit this advantage for multiple partners. **Conclusion:** Attraction is depicted as a multifaceted, shape-shifting phenomenon influenced by trends, age, environment, hormones, and experiences. The creator advises focusing on universal markers of attraction, maintaining authenticity, and being cautious of oversimplified formulas. **Purport:** The video aims to provide a nuanced understanding of attraction, dispelling common misconceptions and encouraging viewers to navigate the complexities authentically. It suggests that attraction is not a one-size-fits-all formula and encourages attention to universal markers for self-improvement.
3:12 NoFap isn't solely about enhancing appeal to women; it's about tackling addiction, prioritizing personal growth and goals. Along this journey, your increased focus on self-improvement can naturally boost testosterone levels, which might unconsciously captivate women. That's the stage where a few men believe they acquire "superhuman abilities." or an edge in the dating game.
My experience is that i was an introverted fat boy who couldn't get any girl, didn't have friends nor social life. After i got myself into the blackpill and looksmaxxing... i tried leanmaxxing (losing weight). After getting rid of excess fat my good genetics appeared. Girls started to be attracted to me, people started to treat me better. People, specially girls, inviting me to parties, meetings, hangouts. My good genetics were always there, since my dad was a very good-looking man in his youth. Anything other than leanmaxxing is bullsh*t.
I really like the positive maaculinity energy from this video. I Though internet men were lost in all that incel and chad mentailities shit. Just take care of yourself, be good and authentic :)
It's good to know this is just a general idea though, not the only parameters. If this were the case we would see brown skinned people go extinct because only white men would procreate. I'm 5'10 and hispanic I don't pass as white by any measure (I get mistaken for middle eastern actually) and I've had relatively decent luck. However this only happened after looksmaxing, I had to drop 120 lb or almost 55kg before women started giving me the time of day
I believe in today's world of open internet, the attraction between people is a dynamic interplay of ideas and cultural influences in their respective environment. Therefore after watching your video I feel like a reminder that as an individual one should focus on holistic self care and improvement. Cultivate a good personality, become emotionally aware, maintain a healthy physique, work towards a secured career and make thoughtful life decisions. In the end, hopefully this can authentically attract and connect you to the right individuals in a meaningful way.
This video is a breath of fresh air. I don't usually watch these type of videos because the one's I've watched are full of bullshit and meant to sell a course or products or shit like that, which is basically advertising 101. Create a problem that wasn't a problem and solve it with your product. But here the presentation is great. Girls will be attracted to different things in different people. Some girls may date short guys, some won't. Some girls may fuck fat guys, some won't. Hell some girls don't even feel attraction towards men. In my experience all you have to do is be confident and don't obsess over whether a girl likes you or not. Find someone who you like and who likes to be with you. Someone with your same interests, with similar goals and outlook on life, and remember that not everyone is going to like you, but that doesn't mean that no one will.
I joined an am-dram group after my divorce, not to meet other men, but because I was invited by another woman and I thought that it might be fun, as it was based more on improvisation than learning lines and putting on shows. One of the other members there was a young man who turned up wearing red jogging pants, a yellow shirt and a multicoloured waist jacket; I was astounded by this fashion faux pas! I thought that all he needed to complete this jester look was a hat with bells on! 😲 In May this year, we will have been married for 29 years 😂. I fell for him because he made me laugh.
0:54 is a case in point. My eyes go to the right on this frame. Captain America looked better before the transformation, too. Women just aren't a monolith. You're giving really good advice. Thank you. This is the reality; people are attracted to different things. *Every gene that exists was passed on by SOMEONE who got laid.* It's far less important to look a specific way, and far more important to send the right signals out (like keeping good hygiene) so that the kind of person who could want you WILL want you.
guys tf. I am 5'10, i look good, I have hollow cheeks, nice body that i workout 5 times a week, i dress to stand out, but still no attention from girls, only some intense eye contacts
A pretty face and an aesthetic body are required but not enough, you have to get used to starting conversations with the females you like, or even cold approach, it might be uncomfortable but it's necessary. Females do approach first but it's pretty rare, because they're just like males, they fear rejection, also they're used to the notion that the males always make the first move, but they'll send choosing signals towards men they liken hence the "intense eye contact", that's your signal.
My guy, even if you look good, women won’t approach first, even if they like you they won’t especially shy/insecure girls, those feel like they’re not “enough” for you which means they wont approach you because they’re afraid of rejection. Also looks are 40-50%. Personality is the rest. Be charismatic, work on your speech skills and approach first.
Exactly women say they want a 6 foot guy and they will never date a guy shorter but then you see them flirt and hit on guys who are shorter than them. It goes to show you that you cannot trust necessarily what women say You have to go based on their actions, not their words, for example, I work out at just a public gym, and I see women holding hands with men who are shorter than them not 6 foot chads as black pillars want you to believe, and that fact somebody who is a five is going to end up with a five I’m sorry I don’t see that in real life. I see a lot of guys who are not rich who I know that are not rich and there not chads, and they’re with very attractive girls, I think people are buying to much into the black pill conspiracies.
Cool story bro. statistically tall men do better even if they are criminals or violent. height is everything for the average guy. if you’re tall and average you’ll do better than the short average guy. combine tall with attractive or even above average and you are literally in the top percentile of men. as for what destiny said the facts are that 40% of marriages end in divorce and the vast majority of relationships fail. nobody ever cheats with an uglier person.
@@sukunawillstillwin lmao you triggered bro, don’t know what statistics you’ve read I go based what I see in the real world, not some study, anybody can make up statistics, and the reason why marriages fail has nothing to do with height I can promise you that, Women care if you’re more facially attractive then anything else.
I tend to be of the mind that many women talk about what they like as if they're talking about a man they already like-- even if they're talking about physical attributes, they're still talking about a hypothetical man that they already like. Meaning: if they say they want a man that's at least six feet tall, it may be better to understand them as saying "I would like that the man that I like to be at least six feet tall". Put another way: they'd "compromise" with a man they like not being at least six feet tall. Maybe many men do this as well? I know that there are men who talk about the attributes they want in a woman like they're in a Build-a-Bear-- but I'm both unsure if our process tends to be like the aforementioned, and I don't think there'd be any reason why it wouldn't be.
@@seg162 Why should i except something that literally has no evidence backing it in the real world, women like 6 feet only guys, which is not true, they go after the short lean pretty boy a lot of the time, im sorry but everything your saying is not adding up to to at least what i see, i'm not saying women don't like tall guys, but not to the extent as people claim, women also say they like nice guys, but then they somehow a lot of the time end up with the arrogant assholes, aka don't go based on the words of anyone go based on there actions, people in general lie with there mouths but will rarely lie with there actions. Now if you want to argue facial attractiveness then theres a different story.
the nuances of looks are relative my friend. i think as long as your in good shape, smell good, have a nice fashion sense that suits you, and most importantly are a GOOD PERSON, you'll do just fine :)
To all the dudes searching for the answers, here’s what a random dude on the internet has to say. Your face, your body, and your personality isn’t easily gonna change, and that’s not a bad thing. Why fight to change all the aspects of yourself that makes you unique. If you want to be more attractive wether that be because you want to bag a girl or simply because you want to be more likable just work on your confidence because everyone likes that. I understand that this might be easier said than done but it’s possible. When I say this I do not mean be the loudest person and try and enforce your personality on people because many will find that annoying, this is because its disingenuous to your true nature and clear that your faking confidence because your in desperation of attention. Confidence is the ability to create your own personal image and share it to others, working on this trait will not only naturally attract like minded individuals but also attract unlikely personalities you’d never imagine you’d mesh with. Now if you read all this and thought to yourself that your personal interests and stylistic choices are not “cool” or lame then here’s what I have to say: They are not, I’ve seen people of all interests be attractive, and thinking that only confines your overall attractiveness because you are trying to be someone your not and nobody wants that. I made this analogy I think perfectly explains my thought process: Tailor your personality like a suit, and make sure it fits you perfectly, and find others people that can fit into that suit, if someone cannot then that’s ok because it was designed for you to look good, if you don’t then you’ll wear a baggy suit that’ll fit everyone but it will never look good on you. This being said try and find the things you love and then try out new things so that you can build experiences, and relate more to a broader audience, this is super healthy, and gives you more options for conversations with a special gal, and figure out your own way of thinking and your own boundaries (what girl you actually want, dealbreakers, or shared interests, basically I’m saying to understand what it is you want, because you’re goal shouldn’t be to make any girl fall in love with you or see it as a girl giving YOU a chance, it’s you pursuing a girl that’s worth it to you) It’s about self respect and I’ve seen it first hand, men losing there self respect in because they are afraid of being alone and you just lose all ability to be attractive to girls when your attention and self worth/confidence is being thrown at any girl that talks to you. You need to be aware of what you want in a relationship so you can properly detect when a girl isn’t interested or giving you the attention you want. If you feel that you aren’t ready to start that journey then I firmly believe you shouldn’t get into a relationship, often times having a girlfriend is actually more complicated then not (in a good way ofc), and not being in a relationship isn’t a bad thing take some time for yourself and focus your time, and money on your own interests because they will ultimately feed your confidence and gain you more experience in life. As a final conclusion to my novel of a RUclips post, You can say and so anything and still be attractive, take it from me I’d learned that quite literally you can just spout nonsense at a girl, because it’s more about the having the conversation rather than the contents of the conversation. I know this to be true because at the beginning of any relationship, friend or girlfriend, how many times will you find yourself asking a new girl what her favorite color is? At the beginning of a talking phase it’s likely gonna show up and objectively both parties agree that this question is rather boring and holds little weight. The deeper stuff will come as you get more comfortable with the person, so just say what you want and let conversations die without forcing them for eternity, and wait for them to naturally occur again. Attraction is a process and trying too hard for one dry conversation screams desperate, and I’m not even trying to be harsh. Play it cool dude, chances are you are actually a really amazing human, deep down and I know if you have a lot to offer in a relationship, so believe in yourself.
Have the following things: Have good hygiene Have good skin Go gym and take care of your fitness Be social Collect experiences Have fashion and dress sense Have some or have money BE AUTHENTIC Have Fun
@@mateossr Keep that attidude up and you act suprised once you find out all your relationships are hallow. Looks will not sustain a relationship, it can start one. Sure, but it ain't going to keep it. But with such a respose i doubt you care. Probably just want to get girls
@@Zyncra nothing indicates that he's unhappy, that sounds like cope, and "constantly cycling through women" is kind of exactly what you're looking for in someone who gives advice on how to attract women lmao..
Yeah honestly looks don’t matter a lot to women. At least not as much as men think. I’m good looking, 6”1, Wide shoulders, but I don’t date. And it’s because of me, who I am. I’m not that great of a person and people can see it through how I look at other people.
I'm currently struggling with similar issues. I have a quote that may benefit us if we were to practice it: "A most beneficial practice is to look for the good in everyone and everything." - The Power of Concentration, Theron Q Dumont The way we look at the world and people is a reflection of ourselves. I wouldn't have come to this idea if I didn't read your comment, so thanks.
That’s cuz you choose not to date…that doesn’t mean females don’t find you attractive you just choose not to notice it, look for it, or care for you it….are you maybe 🌈???😂
Do you know why the way "women" act is different from what "women" say ? Because every woman is fucking different. What one woman says isn't necessarily going to be applied by another woman. You want to think of all women as the same person then you act confused. Understand that women are people who are individuals with differences in what makes them feel attracted, and you won't be confused anymore.
but bro, i know a lot of womans that are contradictory themselves, like, woman X said she would never be with guy X, and after 2 weeks they appear dating
@@arthursaloio2063ive also done this as a woman, to help in understanding why she may have contradicted what she’s said, i’ll use my own example/experience. There was this new guy in my class, he sat all the way in the back and the guys he would talk to were ones i found annoying so i didn’t pay him any mind only a little after i thought he’d be the type to slack off and be a dick. Then a week or 2 later he started sitting next to me all the way in the front. At first I found him really annoying and would jokingly tell one of my friends how “i hated his guts” lmao, but after a while i realized how charismatic and smart he was. He was already fairly attractive but not really my type and around 6’1 or 6’2. As the semester went on, we actually ended up being very flirty with each other and everybody thought we’d end up together but because we were on weird timing and would deny our obvious attraction towards each other, we never ended up tgt. That was around 2 years ago. We’re both in college now but in different states, and fairly decent friends. I still find him very attractive and I actually ended up talking to one of my friends how I hoped maybe sometime in the future we’ll become closer again 😂. LONG STORY SHORT: getting to know him on a more personal level ended up in me actually becoming attracted to him even after saying “i hate his guts” LMAO.
(7:33) The Magnetic Girlfriend Trope. I have heard that there is more than just women paying more attention to a man. Sometimes, men who have girlfriend become more confident and relaxed. His new demeanor makes other women more attracted to him.
I'm trying to eat healthier, but I can't seem to find the right places to eat at, and my parents are always taking me to unhealthy restaurants. What should I do?
A) convince ur parents and tell them u want to eat healthier so make home cooked meals. Diet can be a LOT of meat, LOT of carbs and not too much sugar. B) try and learn how to cook ur own recipes C) boycott fast food restaurants at all costs
That height portion was such BS bro. Being tall is a significant advantage, and being short is a signifcant disadvantage. The reason not a lot of data shows that many tall men are dating a lot of women, is because tall men only make up 15% of the population. They're literally a minority population, so women will of course HAVE to date shorter men! Same goes for men with model-like faces. How many men actually have model-like faces? A very small subset of men have model-like faces!!! You're citing data without understanding any of it.
Just because it’s in a RUclips video doesn’t mean it’s true. Exhibit A right here. Guys trying to tell us that if we work on ourselves it won’t create access to hotter women?! So if I work out, get money, expand my social circle, it won’t bring hotter women in my life? That’s what you’re saying. And gyming is not as simple as you explained it. I don’t know if I agree or disagree with what destiny was saying but I’ll explain essentially what’s going on in that entire statement he made. Men value looks so duh it’ll be more tempting for a guy to leave his girl if a hotter girl comes around. Women value security. So if their current man is decent looking and has a stable job, he pays all the bills, works out and healthy, it’ll be harder to make the choice to leave him for a man who might be physically better looking but has nothing going for him. It’s okay to question the information people so confidently spew out to you.
If she's attractive she can keep the security from one guy and have sex with the beautiful guy who has nothing going for him. Either openly or in secret. That way she gets the best of both worlds.
Bruh are you slow? He just said it’s not an exact science or a video game. You should have understood by now that people are more complex than NPC dialogue paths and stat bars
he just explained social proofing this topic is talked by redpill many times over and over. he didnt give any useful advice but just jurble words thats all
1:30 Well, if a woman desire dont match their behavior, than its just a matter of semantics, what the man want to have is the woman behavior, they say desire because they assume the desire will lead to behavior. The question will just change to "what girls actually find desirable" to "what makes girls behave the way I am looking for". At the end is the intended question people were thinking about all this time.
TF!! Henry Ford did never invent the automobile. It was called Ben Henry Ford was the first guy to make them on the bond like mass produced cars didn’t invent cars
It's actually pretty simple height+ aestethic face + athletically build with small bodyfat %..They've done countless research on women and they find height of 6'3''-6'4'' most appealing,high cheekbones + sharp jawline are indicators of high chance of survival ( dudes in stoneage with those features were the best hunters ) and low bodyfat % is also an indicator of high chance of survival..
how is low bf an indicator of high chance of survival, anybody with low bf back then would've starved way faster than someone with a higher bf%. Higher bf% also meant they had more status or resources to be able to have enough food to eat.
Yall sound like children 😂, girls are girls and they ONLY care about looks; but WOMEN are looking for wealth and a good mindset for resolving problems, “can make money?” “Can you spoil me? “ you guys got a long road
I like this video only because the end of it. I would recommend to add this: there's no secret formula to attract women, but it doesn't even matter; just be a healthy person, get a job, collect experiences, be a virtuous human being and improve your social skills, but not for women, not for capitalism, just for yourself. You need to be in peace with the lonely and that is not sad❤
Stick to dating men then. Seriously, human diveristy and uniquness boiled down to man saying "girls are complicated". Let me guess you think a man wanting nothing but sex, is the greastes, most simple man to ever exist, and thus must be liked by all?
I dont agree about the part with hard work tho. I am a big believer that with hard work and sometimes big sacrifices everything is possible. You can possibly grow taller because of surgery for example which has been invented by hard working men and women
00:51 🗣 There's a significant difference between what people say they want and how they actually act when it comes to attraction. 02:15 🧠 Attraction doesn't work like a linear video game; it's more complex and influenced by various factors. 03:37 💑 Most people tend to choose partners who are similar to themselves in terms of socioeconomic status and physical attractiveness. 06:49 👭 Girls may like guys based on who other girls also like, and this inferred attractiveness can play a significant role. 08:11 📏 Extremely attractive men (Chads) don't necessarily have more sexual partners; height isn't a significant factor in having multiple partners. 09:07 💡 Attraction is complex and can't be distilled into a simple formula; it changes with trends, age, environment, hormones, and experiences. Universal markers of attraction include hygiene, fitness, social skills, experiences, authenticity, and self-care.
It’s the face, then the eyes(the way you look/your look) think a nerdy insecure looking down at his feet vs a confident or unbothered looking straight ahead Then it’s the body naturally you want a healthy partner lastly the personality, the way you sound and talk…if you sound too excited or too feminine that’s no good
Well, as a matematician I would like to say that "real" formula of attraction is unknown or very complicated. BUT. You can create a model based on data. Model can be good or bad depending on its quality (definition of quality of such models is another good question). Absolute quality metrics are not so good, but you can compare different models using such metric. This simple model described in video is not really bad because there is no actual outperformer model in terms of quality So, stick to this model, develop yourself OR create better model and use is instead.
A quick question how did you become a mathematician?? Did you study all the fields of mathematics or just focus and specialize one specific field of mathematics to become a mathematician??
I have studied in university and got degree in "Applied Math and Informatics". Basically, I specialize in several specific field, but I have basic knowledges in other fields also, because everything is connected. In my opinion, it is not possible to specialize in all possible fields. Human brain is not that powerful.
I have all of those things except the money is that the only thing women actually care about to give a guy a shot because every relationship I’ve been in this area great guy, a great boyfriend, but none of them wanna give me a shot because I don’t make $10,000 a month
okay all you got right is its not simple but these are constants money height from personal experience all the guys with good looking girlfriends got 1 if not both and just walking around all the guys with any girl friends usually have 1 extreme thing that makes them stand out like 6'2+ rich muscular attractive even the guys that are complete idiots but are extremely confident and cocky are better off that a guys that is average with his shit together
Ford didn’t invent the car, Mercedes-Benz did in Germany way before Ford! The engine was invented by an german engineer and the car itself was invented by Carl and Bertha Benz!
I will pass on any supermodels under 25 and be very cautious engaging the 25-30 age range. Over 45 is over my current limit. Though there are more attractive women who are in their 50s often than in their 20s. At least I think if your looking for something more serious, long term and peaceful. The women in their 20s have often not hit the point where they face consequences, or lack pretty privilege. That is not to say there is a wall, there is only a wall if they build one. Walls can also be taken down with much work. That is where older more mature less ambitious more secure settled women are at an advantage.
@@teekandy attractive is subjective, I value maturity and lack of problematic personality traits over youth and physical attractiveness standards imposed by society.
@@aryeh155 i get that other stuff but saying physical attractiveness is so subjective that women over 50 are more attractive than women over 50 is a straight lie..nature made it that women around 20 are the hottest thats a fact.
All of y'all need to read the art of seduction by Robert Greene...I'm an average height, average built Brown guy and have had many wonderful experiences with women. Getting girls is not a formula, it's an adventure
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Watched both your videos on female gaze and, in my opinion, while you are correct about many things and are right to call it out (such as the "muscular" look) you make some questionable statements that are not logically consistent.
For example in this video you play a clip of Destiny.
First of all; what credibility or voice of reasondoes he have on the topic?
A manlet with blue hair who essentially used status to steal a swedish girl from an ugly man, bring her to the states, be in an open relationship with her allowing her to meet other men, marry her without a prenup and lose her after 2 years (exactly when she got the green card) to a taller tiktok creator. If anything he proved all blackpillers right, precisely all those voices that were telling him what would happen, he did not care to listen as his reptillian brain (of being with a kind of attractive woman as a manlet) overpowered his rationality and reason.
Secondly; what he says is totally different from the conclusion that you and him make.
The statement "See the average woman wants to be with a 6ft+ ...man just like the average man wants to be with a 19 year old supermodel".
Hey dummy; the reason the average man isn't with a 19 year old supermodel isn't because he doesn't know what he wants, it's because he can't have her...
This is precisely why redpillers try to compensate with a lot of money and why you can see Leonardo date...19 year old supermodels!
This is precisely why women settle later and why singlemotherhood isn't rare these days...they wanted chad and when that fails or the scenario doesn't play out the way they wanted they start claiming "I actually love short and chubby men" to at least attract a man who can provide her with emotional and/or financial support. complete imbeciles then take their statements at face value.
Here it is; if a man could be with a really cute girl who also treats him right he would, there is literally no exception, if a girl could be with a very goodlooking man who also treats her right she would, there is literally no exception.
In your first video you also claimed that looks and money depend on the girl, as if a house and a car is cheaper if the girl lives in poverty and as if 5'8 becomes a tall man if the girl is 5'2.
This is such a silly point and your "proof" was a clip showing 3 women who on average expected their man to make over 200K, while even the girl that looked homeless expected 70-150K, isn't the median income around 40K...?
The reason the middle girl gave a slightly lower number isn't because she wants her husband to make "slightly more" (probably 4 times more) than her, it's because she isn't dumb to think that she can marry a man who has 10+million, modelling looks and is great in every sense of the word. She also didn't look that young, must have some selfawareness and got her naivety destroyed at least to a small degree.
This is similar to the previous mistake; attraction isn't "relative" but what you can attract is. The girl who is 5'2 may perhaps thinks that she cannot be with a 6'2 man (eventhough I think that is false), however if she could...she absolutely would. A man who is short is unlikely to date a taller woman, isn't he attracted to an average or tall woman...or aren't the women taller than him interested in him?
Just because you are older doesn't make you attracted to older.
Just because you are ugly doesn't make you attracted to ugly.
Just because you are poor doesn't make you attracted to poverty.
Just because you are short doesn't make you attracted to shorter.
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It changes what you can attract, which as you claimed is usually slightly or significantly above the level the woman can offer.
The second point ties in with your point about "stories" that women read.
These stories involve men and/or desires that they cannot experience in real life, or perhaps they have experienced when they were younger and are no longer able to. In that sense it is really no different from men watching 'corn', attractive models do well and the favorite ages are younger unless if the 'story' is about a specific and popular fetish such as 'stepmom' or 'milf'.
You oversimplify this as to say "see it is a story..therefore women love stories". When women actually love specific stories that resonate with their desires for a goodlooking man or a particular fetish.
Covers of romance books display goodlooking, sometimes muscular men...because that sells.
Vampire movies cast goodlooking young men...and teenage girls "just happen" to love the movie.
Romantic movies cast a sometimes older goodlooking man...and adult women "just happen" to love the movie.
Movies with a sexual undertone relate to a common fetish such as an average woman falling victim to a goodlooking or high status man...and adult women of all ages "just happen" to love the movie.
How you fail to see what is going on and why those movies were made with that script and that cast in the first place, is beyond me.
Different kinds of women are attracted to different things. That being said, I'm sure there's some overlap though. I think wou just need to fall into an aesthetic that fits your personality the best and you'll probably attract women that are attracted to that kind of aesthetic that you fall into.
Facts, your goin to tend to like girls that have similar interests.
@praiseYHWH. Thanks
so I need a VPN to find the right girl ?
The paradox: women like men whom other women already like.
It's like a status 😅
If u got something popular among a circle then boy that's a jackpot 😅
Yeah that's a form of social proof :)
its called social proofing this guy takes redpill content then takes out rage and anger from that content then rephrases it then posts here. its not a bad thing but hes still falling for the same meme as those guys who say bee your self dud " that stuff works when you know what do to get the girl then beeing your self isnt harmful its quirk of yourse
that means they are NPCs without their own opinions
Ok but how do i get the first woman to begin with
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When it comes to physical attractiveness . The thing that i find the most attractive is well , how he smells (perfume) , if he has a cute smile , and if he is well mannered .
I'm weak for men with cute smiles
@@nelacaro57why dont women just say men need perfect pretty looking faces?
"Decoding Attraction: Unraveling the Female Gaze"
**Summary:**
This video delves into the complexities of attraction, challenging conventional beliefs by analyzing comments from the previous video on the female gaze. The creator emphasizes the disparity between what people claim they want and their actual behaviors, exploring the intricacies of desire and action.
**Key Highlights:**
1. **Desires vs. Behaviors:**
- There's a significant disconnection between what people say they desire and how they behave in reality.
- People may express preferences for certain traits but end up making different choices when presented with options.
2. **Attraction Misconceptions:**
- Men often perceive attraction as a linear progression, akin to leveling up in a video game. However, human emotions, especially attraction, don't adhere to such simplistic formulas.
- The video challenges the idea that hard work can alter unchangeable traits like height or race, highlighting the impact of societal expectations on perception.
3. **Partner Selection Patterns:**
- People predominantly pre-select partners based on socioeconomic status and physical attractiveness.
- The concept of "beauty status exchange" is discussed, noting that statistically, relationships between a beautiful woman and a less attractive wealthy man are rare.
4. **Inferred Attractiveness:**
- The video introduces the concept of inferred attractiveness, where individuals become more interested in something if others desire it.
- Girls often develop interest in guys based on other girls' preferences, leading to the recognition of unique features that make a guy stand out.
5. **Height Influence on Attraction:**
- The belief that extremely attractive men have more sexual partners is challenged, especially concerning factors like height.
- Height's influence on sexual success is nuanced, with the video debunking the idea that tall men exploit this advantage for multiple partners.
**Conclusion:**
Attraction is depicted as a multifaceted, shape-shifting phenomenon influenced by trends, age, environment, hormones, and experiences. The creator advises focusing on universal markers of attraction, maintaining authenticity, and being cautious of oversimplified formulas.
**Purport:**
The video aims to provide a nuanced understanding of attraction, dispelling common misconceptions and encouraging viewers to navigate the complexities authentically. It suggests that attraction is not a one-size-fits-all formula and encourages attention to universal markers for self-improvement.
Nice summary
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Are you mewing right now? -_-
No
That thing ruined my face
@@alexieuniversebro is talking chatGPT 💀
I am 🗿
@@hatakekakashi7647😂
3:12 NoFap isn't solely about enhancing appeal to women; it's about tackling addiction, prioritizing personal growth and goals. Along this journey, your increased focus on self-improvement can naturally boost testosterone levels, which might unconsciously captivate women.
That's the stage where a few men believe they acquire "superhuman abilities." or an edge in the dating game.
edging in dating?
My experience is that i was an introverted fat boy who couldn't get any girl, didn't have friends nor social life. After i got myself into the blackpill and looksmaxxing... i tried leanmaxxing (losing weight). After getting rid of excess fat my good genetics appeared. Girls started to be attracted to me, people started to treat me better. People, specially girls, inviting me to parties, meetings, hangouts. My good genetics were always there, since my dad was a very good-looking man in his youth. Anything other than leanmaxxing is bullsh*t.
Mewing works as well (takes time like atleast a year or 2 to notice results). I have the same backstory as you lol.
Leanmaxxing? That sound so retarded no offense.
im glad u got away from the blackpill bro. i used to be part of that community and my goodness was it scary
Aint no way bro put a 5 min ad in a 10 min vid
“Criminal violent past” only if ur actually attractive not some sub5 dude
I always want to get noticed by the female gays 🥵
😂😂 Damn
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Not female, Just Gay's 😏
Lesbians?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
lets go lee
I really like the positive maaculinity energy from this video. I Though internet men were lost in all that incel and chad mentailities shit. Just take care of yourself, be good and authentic :)
amen
We need organized playlists ❤
Long answer short what they care is
1) face
2) height
3) race(european passing)
It's good to know this is just a general idea though, not the only parameters. If this were the case we would see brown skinned people go extinct because only white men would procreate. I'm 5'10 and hispanic I don't pass as white by any measure (I get mistaken for middle eastern actually) and I've had relatively decent luck. However this only happened after looksmaxing, I had to drop 120 lb or almost 55kg before women started giving me the time of day
@@JerseyJake98good work
My friend is Nigerian blacker than the night sky and he has a new girl every week more or less.
@@impyrobotBlack guys have the highest "pure" sexual market view
nah bro don't know about kodiak BTS (Asian)
I believe in today's world of open internet, the attraction between people is a dynamic interplay of ideas and cultural influences in their respective environment. Therefore after watching your video I feel like a reminder that as an individual one should focus on holistic self care and improvement. Cultivate a good personality, become emotionally aware, maintain a healthy physique, work towards a secured career and make thoughtful life decisions. In the end, hopefully this can authentically attract and connect you to the right individuals in a meaningful way.
This video is a breath of fresh air. I don't usually watch these type of videos because the one's I've watched are full of bullshit and meant to sell a course or products or shit like that, which is basically advertising 101. Create a problem that wasn't a problem and solve it with your product. But here the presentation is great. Girls will be attracted to different things in different people. Some girls may date short guys, some won't. Some girls may fuck fat guys, some won't. Hell some girls don't even feel attraction towards men.
In my experience all you have to do is be confident and don't obsess over whether a girl likes you or not. Find someone who you like and who likes to be with you. Someone with your same interests, with similar goals and outlook on life, and remember that not everyone is going to like you, but that doesn't mean that no one will.
I joined an am-dram group after my divorce, not to meet other men, but because I was invited by another woman and I thought that it might be fun, as it was based more on improvisation than learning lines and putting on shows. One of the other members there was a young man who turned up wearing red jogging pants, a yellow shirt and a multicoloured waist jacket; I was astounded by this fashion faux pas! I thought that all he needed to complete this jester look was a hat with bells on! 😲 In May this year, we will have been married for 29 years 😂. I fell for him because he made me laugh.
0:54 is a case in point. My eyes go to the right on this frame. Captain America looked better before the transformation, too. Women just aren't a monolith.
You're giving really good advice. Thank you. This is the reality; people are attracted to different things. *Every gene that exists was passed on by SOMEONE who got laid.* It's far less important to look a specific way, and far more important to send the right signals out (like keeping good hygiene) so that the kind of person who could want you WILL want you.
guys tf. I am 5'10, i look good, I have hollow cheeks, nice body that i workout 5 times a week, i dress to stand out, but still no attention from girls, only some intense eye contacts
A pretty face and an aesthetic body are required but not enough, you have to get used to starting conversations with the females you like, or even cold approach, it might be uncomfortable but it's necessary. Females do approach first but it's pretty rare, because they're just like males, they fear rejection, also they're used to the notion that the males always make the first move, but they'll send choosing signals towards men they liken hence the "intense eye contact", that's your signal.
Dang, go talk to one of em bruv, don’t be scared.
Most won’t reject you, hopefully, just be nice and don’t be that desperate, attempt a friendship first of course.
Ps intense eye contacts might mean something, i don’t think girls look at guys they find unattractive, so.. just give it a try man
My guy, even if you look good, women won’t approach first, even if they like you they won’t especially shy/insecure girls, those feel like they’re not “enough” for you which means they wont approach you because they’re afraid of rejection. Also looks are 40-50%. Personality is the rest. Be charismatic, work on your speech skills and approach first.
Exactly women say they want a 6 foot guy and they will never date a guy shorter but then you see them flirt and hit on guys who are shorter than them. It goes to show you that you cannot trust necessarily what women say You have to go based on their actions, not their words, for example, I work out at just a public gym, and I see women holding hands with men who are shorter than them not 6 foot chads as black pillars want you to believe, and that fact somebody who is a five is going to end up with a five I’m sorry I don’t see that in real life. I see a lot of guys who are not rich who I know that are not rich and there not chads, and they’re with very attractive girls, I think people are buying to much into the black pill conspiracies.
Cool story bro. statistically tall men do better even if they are criminals or violent.
height is everything for the average guy. if you’re tall and average you’ll do better than the short average guy. combine tall with attractive or even above average and you are literally in the top percentile of men.
as for what destiny said the facts are that 40% of marriages end in divorce and the vast majority of relationships fail. nobody ever cheats with an uglier person.
@@sukunawillstillwin lmao you triggered bro, don’t know what statistics you’ve read I go based what I see in the real world, not some study, anybody can make up statistics, and the reason why marriages fail has nothing to do with height I can promise you that, Women care if you’re more facially attractive then anything else.
I tend to be of the mind that many women talk about what they like as if they're talking about a man they already like-- even if they're talking about physical attributes, they're still talking about a hypothetical man that they already like. Meaning: if they say they want a man that's at least six feet tall, it may be better to understand them as saying "I would like that the man that I like to be at least six feet tall". Put another way: they'd "compromise" with a man they like not being at least six feet tall.
Maybe many men do this as well? I know that there are men who talk about the attributes they want in a woman like they're in a Build-a-Bear-- but I'm both unsure if our process tends to be like the aforementioned, and I don't think there'd be any reason why it wouldn't be.
Yeah so if your under 6 ft you should off yourself
@@seg162 Why should i except something that literally has no evidence backing it in the real world, women like 6 feet only guys, which is not true, they go after the short lean pretty boy a lot of the time, im sorry but everything your saying is not adding up to to at least what i see, i'm not saying women don't like tall guys, but not to the extent as people claim, women also say they like nice guys, but then they somehow a lot of the time end up with the arrogant assholes, aka don't go based on the words of anyone go based on there actions, people in general lie with there mouths but will rarely lie with there actions. Now if you want to argue facial attractiveness then theres a different story.
Short answer. Looks are crucial as behaviour/persnality. 1 of 2 are missing ships will suffer. It must have both to be healthy.
the nuances of looks are relative my friend. i think as long as your in good shape, smell good, have a nice fashion sense that suits you, and most importantly are a GOOD PERSON, you'll do just fine :)
Henry Ford didn't invent the automobile💀
To my knowledge Carl Benz invented the automobile, not Henry ford
Face is more important than height.
Henry Ford is not the inventor of the automobile.
Thanks dawg 👊🤟
To all the dudes searching for the answers, here’s what a random dude on the internet has to say. Your face, your body, and your personality isn’t easily gonna change, and that’s not a bad thing. Why fight to change all the aspects of yourself that makes you unique. If you want to be more attractive wether that be because you want to bag a girl or simply because you want to be more likable just work on your confidence because everyone likes that. I understand that this might be easier said than done but it’s possible. When I say this I do not mean be the loudest person and try and enforce your personality on people because many will find that annoying, this is because its disingenuous to your true nature and clear that your faking confidence because your in desperation of attention. Confidence is the ability to create your own personal image and share it to others, working on this trait will not only naturally attract like minded individuals but also attract unlikely personalities you’d never imagine you’d mesh with. Now if you read all this and thought to yourself that your personal interests and stylistic choices are not “cool” or lame then here’s what I have to say: They are not, I’ve seen people of all interests be attractive, and thinking that only confines your overall attractiveness because you are trying to be someone your not and nobody wants that. I made this analogy I think perfectly explains my thought process: Tailor your personality like a suit, and make sure it fits you perfectly, and find others people that can fit into that suit, if someone cannot then that’s ok because it was designed for you to look good, if you don’t then you’ll wear a baggy suit that’ll fit everyone but it will never look good on you. This being said try and find the things you love and then try out new things so that you can build experiences, and relate more to a broader audience, this is super healthy, and gives you more options for conversations with a special gal, and figure out your own way of thinking and your own boundaries (what girl you actually want, dealbreakers, or shared interests, basically I’m saying to understand what it is you want, because you’re goal shouldn’t be to make any girl fall in love with you or see it as a girl giving YOU a chance, it’s you pursuing a girl that’s worth it to you) It’s about self respect and I’ve seen it first hand, men losing there self respect in because they are afraid of being alone and you just lose all ability to be attractive to girls when your attention and self worth/confidence is being thrown at any girl that talks to you. You need to be aware of what you want in a relationship so you can properly detect when a girl isn’t interested or giving you the attention you want. If you feel that you aren’t ready to start that journey then I firmly believe you shouldn’t get into a relationship, often times having a girlfriend is actually more complicated then not (in a good way ofc), and not being in a relationship isn’t a bad thing take some time for yourself and focus your time, and money on your own interests because they will ultimately feed your confidence and gain you more experience in life. As a final conclusion to my novel of a RUclips post, You can say and so anything and still be attractive, take it from me I’d learned that quite literally you can just spout nonsense at a girl, because it’s more about the having the conversation rather than the contents of the conversation. I know this to be true because at the beginning of any relationship, friend or girlfriend, how many times will you find yourself asking a new girl what her favorite color is? At the beginning of a talking phase it’s likely gonna show up and objectively both parties agree that this question is rather boring and holds little weight. The deeper stuff will come as you get more comfortable with the person, so just say what you want and let conversations die without forcing them for eternity, and wait for them to naturally occur again. Attraction is a process and trying too hard for one dry conversation screams desperate, and I’m not even trying to be harsh. Play it cool dude, chances are you are actually a really amazing human, deep down and I know if you have a lot to offer in a relationship, so believe in yourself.
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Have the following things:
Have good hygiene
Have good skin
Go gym and take care of your fitness
Be social
Collect experiences
Have fashion and dress sense
Have some or have money
BE AUTHENTIC
Have Fun
be authentic and reliable. that's very important to gain trust and respect
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@@mateossrThat’s what all virgins say 😂
@@mateossr Keep that attidude up and you act suprised once you find out all your relationships are hallow. Looks will not sustain a relationship, it can start one. Sure, but it ain't going to keep it.
But with such a respose i doubt you care. Probably just want to get girls
@@mateossr There is no hope for these people. You are rightly laughing over them.
Thats true . Unreliable guys who pretend to be something they're not , are so unattractive
When I saw destiny my smile faded
True
same. But then i thought lets not judge. He did say some right things
@@arjunkhadke ur right
Why?
I'm not familiar with him
@@TheAlchemist1089he lets his wife cuck him
For those people, who don't believe in Jaw line Exercises
Bro , I'm here ~
I changed my jawline and more define by doing jawline exercise every day !
Destiny should be the last guy anyone listens to when it comes to dating.
fr i was just about to say this 😂
why do you say that? he seems to get a lot more girls than people like you who watch this type of content a lot and need the help
@@todoz11hes also very unhappy and constantly cycles through horrendous women
@@Zyncra nothing indicates that he's unhappy, that sounds like cope, and "constantly cycling through women" is kind of exactly what you're looking for in someone who gives advice on how to attract women lmao..
@@todoz11 his wife left him
Your vibe attracts your tribe
One of the realest videos about this. Thanks
Yeah honestly looks don’t matter a lot to women. At least not as much as men think. I’m good looking, 6”1, Wide shoulders, but I don’t date. And it’s because of me, who I am. I’m not that great of a person and people can see it through how I look at other people.
I'm currently struggling with similar issues. I have a quote that may benefit us if we were to practice it:
"A most beneficial practice is to look for the good in everyone and everything." - The Power of Concentration, Theron Q Dumont
The way we look at the world and people is a reflection of ourselves. I wouldn't have come to this idea if I didn't read your comment, so thanks.
That’s cuz you choose not to date…that doesn’t mean females don’t find you attractive you just choose not to notice it, look for it, or care for you it….are you maybe 🌈???😂
Do you know why the way "women" act is different from what "women" say ? Because every woman is fucking different. What one woman says isn't necessarily going to be applied by another woman. You want to think of all women as the same person then you act confused. Understand that women are people who are individuals with differences in what makes them feel attracted, and you won't be confused anymore.
but bro, i know a lot of womans that are contradictory themselves, like, woman X said she would never be with guy X, and after 2 weeks they appear dating
Ok then all men are same
@@arthursaloio2063ive also done this as a woman, to help in understanding why she may have contradicted what she’s said, i’ll use my own example/experience. There was this new guy in my class, he sat all the way in the back and the guys he would talk to were ones i found annoying so i didn’t pay him any mind only a little after i thought he’d be the type to slack off and be a dick. Then a week or 2 later he started sitting next to me all the way in the front. At first I found him really annoying and would jokingly tell one of my friends how “i hated his guts” lmao, but after a while i realized how charismatic and smart he was. He was already fairly attractive but not really my type and around 6’1 or 6’2. As the semester went on, we actually ended up being very flirty with each other and everybody thought we’d end up together but because we were on weird timing and would deny our obvious attraction towards each other, we never ended up tgt. That was around 2 years ago. We’re both in college now but in different states, and fairly decent friends. I still find him very attractive and I actually ended up talking to one of my friends how I hoped maybe sometime in the future we’ll become closer again 😂. LONG STORY SHORT: getting to know him on a more personal level ended up in me actually becoming attracted to him even after saying “i hate his guts” LMAO.
You want a faster horse, don't you?
No women act different from what women say because they're all obsessed with not being like other women, appearing virtious
for the first time I'm pretty early but these vidoes are seriously helping me
(7:33) The Magnetic Girlfriend Trope. I have heard that there is more than just women paying more attention to a man. Sometimes, men who have girlfriend become more confident and relaxed. His new demeanor makes other women more attracted to him.
Lol
"make some money"
Truer words, bro...
I think you are right ,attraction is not simple it is complicated thing
Wanna be attractice? Simple. Market yourself.
Ford inventor of "mass production". First automobile was made by Karl Benz.
I'm trying to eat healthier, but I can't seem to find the right places to eat at, and my parents are always taking me to unhealthy restaurants. What should I do?
A) convince ur parents and tell them u want to eat healthier so make home cooked meals. Diet can be a LOT of meat, LOT of carbs and not too much sugar.
B) try and learn how to cook ur own recipes
C) boycott fast food restaurants at all costs
Cook.
Eat the most healthiest food at the restaurant Fr like McDonald’s get the egg white McMuffin for example(im thinking fast food)
Your parents are cuckijg you, you need to finish your education, get a good job then leave as soon as possible
if you're old enough, just say no.
That height portion was such BS bro.
Being tall is a significant advantage, and being short is a signifcant disadvantage. The reason not a lot of data shows that many tall men are dating a lot of women, is because tall men only make up 15% of the population. They're literally a minority population, so women will of course HAVE to date shorter men! Same goes for men with model-like faces. How many men actually have model-like faces? A very small subset of men have model-like faces!!!
You're citing data without understanding any of it.
Blue pill back in fashion
Just because it’s in a RUclips video doesn’t mean it’s true. Exhibit A right here. Guys trying to tell us that if we work on ourselves it won’t create access to hotter women?! So if I work out, get money, expand my social circle, it won’t bring hotter women in my life? That’s what you’re saying. And gyming is not as simple as you explained it. I don’t know if I agree or disagree with what destiny was saying but I’ll explain essentially what’s going on in that entire statement he made. Men value looks so duh it’ll be more tempting for a guy to leave his girl if a hotter girl comes around. Women value security. So if their current man is decent looking and has a stable job, he pays all the bills, works out and healthy, it’ll be harder to make the choice to leave him for a man who might be physically better looking but has nothing going for him. It’s okay to question the information people so confidently spew out to you.
If she's attractive she can keep the security from one guy and have sex with the beautiful guy who has nothing going for him. Either openly or in secret. That way she gets the best of both worlds.
Bruh are you slow? He just said it’s not an exact science or a video game. You should have understood by now that people are more complex than NPC dialogue paths and stat bars
@@serbu4169 facts, every individual is different. you can't apply generalizations to each individual
@@zmmgbb545 thx for putting it more kindly for me heh
he just explained social proofing this topic is talked by redpill many times over and over. he didnt give any useful advice but just jurble words thats all
1:30 Well, if a woman desire dont match their behavior, than its just a matter of semantics, what the man want to have is the woman behavior, they say desire because they assume the desire will lead to behavior. The question will just change to "what girls actually find desirable" to "what makes girls behave the way I am looking for".
At the end is the intended question people were thinking about all this time.
Hendry Ford did not invent the automobile.
true
what people want and
what people need / desire or actually choose irl are totally different
TF!! Henry Ford did never invent the automobile. It was called Ben Henry Ford was the first guy to make them on the bond like mass produced cars didn’t invent cars
It's actually pretty simple height+ aestethic face + athletically build with small bodyfat %..They've done countless research on women and they find height of 6'3''-6'4'' most appealing,high cheekbones + sharp jawline are indicators of high chance of survival ( dudes in stoneage with those features were the best hunters ) and low bodyfat % is also an indicator of high chance of survival..
Nah🤣the studies on the perfect height revealed that its actually 6-6’1
nah bruh they don’t give af about height😂 as long as u have an aesthetic face
how is low bf an indicator of high chance of survival, anybody with low bf back then would've starved way faster than someone with a higher bf%. Higher bf% also meant they had more status or resources to be able to have enough food to eat.
@@zincc9681 Exactly. Being around 15% is the most healthy looking for most men, going low will just make you look skinny and starved.
Yall sound like children 😂, girls are girls and they ONLY care about looks; but WOMEN are looking for wealth and a good mindset for resolving problems, “can make money?” “Can you spoil me? “ you guys got a long road
Thank you for calling out nofap. Those guys are really down bad lol
The guy in the blue hair, never ever have I heard such delusion out of a guy...
This was actually a pretty solid video. I’m pleasantly surprised. Remember fellas; no matter what, stay in that gym!
I like this video only because the end of it.
I would recommend to add this: there's no secret formula to attract women, but it doesn't even matter; just be a healthy person, get a job, collect experiences, be a virtuous human being and improve your social skills, but not for women, not for capitalism, just for yourself.
You need to be in peace with the lonely and that is not sad❤
Don’t put advertisements sneakily into the videos!
"Henry ford the inventor of the automobile" yeah the inventor 💀
inventor of production line for car manufacture.
You should rather say girls are complicated...
🤣🤣🤣
Exactly
Stick to dating men then. Seriously, human diveristy and uniquness boiled down to man saying "girls are complicated". Let me guess you think a man wanting nothing but sex, is the greastes, most simple man to ever exist, and thus must be liked by all?
the perfect video at the perfect time
I dont agree about the part with hard work tho. I am a big believer that with hard work and sometimes big sacrifices everything is possible. You can possibly grow taller because of surgery for example which has been invented by hard working men and women
Also if you have a very good posture or other factotum helps
The maxilla is the holy grail, it trumps body game and height
Yes
Doing every video but that living space video 🤦♂️🤦♂️
00:51 🗣 There's a significant difference between what people say they want and how they actually act when it comes to attraction.
02:15 🧠 Attraction doesn't work like a linear video game; it's more complex and influenced by various factors.
03:37 💑 Most people tend to choose partners who are similar to themselves in terms of socioeconomic status and physical attractiveness.
06:49 👭 Girls may like guys based on who other girls also like, and this inferred attractiveness can play a significant role.
08:11 📏 Extremely attractive men (Chads) don't necessarily have more sexual partners; height isn't a significant factor in having multiple partners.
09:07 💡 Attraction is complex and can't be distilled into a simple formula; it changes with trends, age, environment, hormones, and experiences. Universal markers of attraction include hygiene, fitness, social skills, experiences, authenticity, and self-care.
When a woman gazes at you, act with curiousity🔎
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Anyways this video is a gem 😅
U cant simplify the science behind attractiveness ❤
In my experience they like tall, thin, messy dark hair look, and glasses with good hygiene
Video starts at 9:45
It’s the face, then the eyes(the way you look/your look) think a nerdy insecure looking down at his feet vs a confident or unbothered looking straight ahead
Then it’s the body naturally you want a healthy partner lastly the personality, the way you sound and talk…if you sound too excited or too feminine that’s no good
Soo onpointfresh has a girlfrnd 😏😏😏
One video I would love to see from you is about alter ego's
Height just makes men more secure in themselves, short dudes don't get laid that much cause they have a hard time being secure
Well, as a matematician I would like to say that "real" formula of attraction is unknown or very complicated.
BUT.
You can create a model based on data. Model can be good or bad depending on its quality (definition of quality of such models is another good question). Absolute quality metrics are not so good, but you can compare different models using such metric.
This simple model described in video is not really bad because there is no actual outperformer model in terms of quality
So, stick to this model, develop yourself OR create better model and use is instead.
A quick question how did you become a mathematician??
Did you study all the fields of mathematics or just focus and specialize one specific field of mathematics to become a mathematician??
I have studied in university and got degree in "Applied Math and Informatics". Basically, I specialize in several specific field, but I have basic knowledges in other fields also, because everything is connected.
In my opinion, it is not possible to specialize in all possible fields. Human brain is not that powerful.
Nope. It’s very easy Just look good. You clearly haven’t entered the Blackpill rabbit hole
I have all of those things except the money is that the only thing women actually care about to give a guy a shot because every relationship I’ve been in this area great guy, a great boyfriend, but none of them wanna give me a shot because I don’t make $10,000 a month
can you make a video about quitting smoking? i really need your opinions, i believe your ideas will be different from other people.
Thanks man❤️
okay all you got right is its not simple but these are constants money height from personal experience all the guys with good looking girlfriends got 1 if not both and just walking around all the guys with any girl friends usually have 1 extreme thing that makes them stand out like 6'2+ rich muscular attractive even the guys that are complete idiots but are extremely confident and cocky are better off that a guys that is average with his shit together
Karl Benz invented the automobile, not Henry ford
I can simplify the secret to attraction. Looks like a Greek god and every girl will be chasing you.
Yep, no answer as well.
Henry Benz didn't invent shit, it was Carl Benz
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You mean Henry Ford. 😅
Broooo you know that Henry Ford did not invent the automobile, it was a German invention, by Carl Benz in 1886
It's interesting that you put the game Remember me there lol such an unknown and underrated game imo 2:22
Dude we need video about layering pls
Dude ford didnt invent the automobile
Ford didn’t invent the car, Mercedes-Benz did in Germany way before Ford! The engine was invented by an german engineer and the car itself was invented by Carl and Bertha Benz!
BRO WHY'D YOU CHANGE THE THUMBNAIL,
THE PREVIOUS HAD HIGHER CLICK RATE AND WAS BETTER!
what if i want to attract guys
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just watch any BTS music video and you will understand female gaze
Just look good that’s all
Great video but henry ford did not invent the automobile this is a myth😂
What girls actually find attractive ? My answer is simple - 6ft+ facially handsome guy.
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I will pass on any supermodels under 25 and be very cautious engaging the 25-30 age range. Over 45 is over my current limit. Though there are more attractive women who are in their 50s often than in their 20s. At least I think if your looking for something more serious, long term and peaceful. The women in their 20s have often not hit the point where they face consequences, or lack pretty privilege. That is not to say there is a wall, there is only a wall if they build one. Walls can also be taken down with much work. That is where older more mature less ambitious more secure settled women are at an advantage.
More attractive women in their 50s than women in their 20s ???????? Tf ?
@@teekandy attractive is subjective, I value maturity and lack of problematic personality traits over youth and physical attractiveness standards imposed by society.
@@aryeh155 i get that other stuff but saying physical attractiveness is so subjective that women over 50 are more attractive than women over 50 is a straight lie..nature made it that women around 20 are the hottest thats a fact.
@@teekandy that’s your opinion. It is still subjective.
@@aryeh155 you do you bro but r u not planning to have a children or start a family? It'll be considerably harder with 50 yrs old women
All of y'all need to read the art of seduction by Robert Greene...I'm an average height, average built Brown guy and have had many wonderful experiences with women. Getting girls is not a formula, it's an adventure
Those women were only with you until Chad calls back.
useful thoughts!
Height is just a shit test
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