Tove Lo - Grapefruit (Official Music Video)
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- Опубликовано: 11 окт 2022
- Tove Lo - Grapefruit (Official Music Video)
Dirt Femme Out Now 🦂: tovelo.ffm.to/dirtfemme
❗️TW❗️
I’ve tried to write this song for over 10 years. I know I haven’t talked about it a lot in interviews or even in my music which is my most honest place. I guess I had to find the right way to share the feelings and the vicious circle of behavior I was stuck in. I’ve been free from my ED and my body issues for a very long time but they did take up too many of my teenage years. I’m not sure why I wrote this song now. Maybe the 2 years of stillness brought back memories, maybe I needed all this time I’ve been free from it to be able to look back without feeling pain. One of the many feelings I remember is needing to crawl out of my own skin. I felt so trapped in a body I hated. I wanted a video that portrayed that, and Lisette and Toogie knew exactly how to create that with me. It was honestly really hard putting myself back in that headspace but it was necessary for me.
I’m gonna let the song speak for itself now ❤️
Director: Lisette Donkersloot
Production: Co Imposter
Executive Producer: Avtar Khalsa
Head of Production: Todd Ruhnau
Line Producer: Alberto Caruana
DP: Nicholas Wiesnet
Production Designer: Wesley Goodrich
SFX Artist: Chelsea Delfino
Wardrobe: Annie & Hannah
Make-up: Nick Lennon
Hair: Preston Wada
Creative Director: Charlie Twaddle
Choreographer: Teresa Toogie Barcelo
Location Manager: Alex Dominguez
Post Production: B-Movie Italia
Post Prod EP: Andrea Biscaro
Post Prod EP: Matteo Stefani
Editor: Mattia Levi
Color: Ethos
Colorist: Kaitlyn Battistelli
Color EP: Natasha Sattler
Color Producer: Nat Tereshchencko
VFX: Exchanges VFX
Executive Producer: Luca Loschi
Producer: Letizia Sala
3DCGI Supervisor: Marco Negri
VFX Supervisor: Mirko De Angelis
Lyrics
Counting while I run the tap
I'm on my knees
Choking on my hands all night
In my sleep
Counting all the calories
Now get ‘em up
Body positivity
Help me out
The swans of ballet
Their skin and their bones
That’s not me
I’d die for my love though
Break, break till I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
1 2 Grapefruit
How am I back here again?
3 4 lose more
I know my mirrors are lying
5 6 hate this
Take back the body I’m in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
1 2 Grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
3 4 lose more
Kill my obsession please die
5 6 hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
Sweet girl you’re so disciplined
Now keep it down
I don't like my measurements
Won't make a sound
Diana how she guards the clock
She’s in control
Now why is everyone in shock?
You let her go
The swans of ballet
Their skin and their bones
That’s not me
I’d die for my love though
Break, break till I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
1 2 Grapefruit
How am I back here again?
3 4 lose more
I know my mirrors are lying
5 6 hate this
Take back the body I’m in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
1 2 Grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
3 4 lose more
Kill my obsession please die
5 6 hate this
How am I still in this fight?
When I'm hurting
Every time I have a bad day
Then everyone gets lost
But I’m learning
Every time I feel out of place
That you’re all I’ve got
1 2 Grapefruit
How am I back here again?
3 4 lose more
I know my mirrors are lying
5 6 hate this
Take back the body I’m in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
1 2 Grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
3 4 lose more
Kill my obsession please die
5 6 hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
#tovelo #grapefruit #dirtfemme 
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This song is for all of us who have or will struggle 💗
💖❣️
Tove, I struggle with body related Gender Dysphoria and being under weight. Thank You so much ❤❤❤
Queen.
Love you to!
Thank you. 😢
Tove, I cannot thank you enough for this song. I’ve struggled with my weight all my life. I was so afraid of gaining weight and not fitting in society that I just stopped eating. I existed to lose weight. At my lowest I couldn’t get out of bed anymore because I didn’t have energy. Anorexia almost killed me in 2018. The cruel thing is EDs are very silent because no one wants to talk about it. I wanted to find help, but I didn’t. I had to figure a way out by myself - and your music played a very important role on my recovery. It reminded who I really am.
If it had took me, I would have missed out on so much! I wouldn’t have been accepted in the University of my dreams - which I did in 2019. I wouldn’t have been able to meet you and hug you too thank you for everything - which I did in the same year. I wouldn’t have met the love of my life, who kindly loves every piece of myself that I’ve always hated - and I did in 2020. This is just to name a few examples.
I know it’s so hard talking about it, but I’m so glad you did through your music. We have to talk about it - awareness is everything. To each one of you suffering from an eating disorder out there, know that you are not the number in the scale. You are loved, you matter. EDs are a lifetime struggle, but recovery is possible. Most importantly: it is so worth it. Don’t give up on you and the life you have ahead. This is my before and after. I’m so glad to finally be me.
Thank you once again, Tove. I love you!
This comment really touched me . I can barely maintain above 105 on top of have body related gender Dysphoria. Just know that you are loved 🥰
Glad you’re still here 💜
Glad you found the strength to love yourself; and people who can be themselves and love themselves are the most beautiful.
Please keep being your beautiful self!
I've been struggling since I was 13 and I'm 40 now. It got especially bad when I started factoring in beer calories as a meal.
@@TechnicJunglist vodka cran doesn't help much either 🙄
Ok, so, don't get me wrong, I LOVE Marina and Lana Del Rey, but why doesn't Tove Lo get the recognition she deserves for being and indie queen? Her voice is honestly angelic, she's such an unappreciated talent ♡
You dont know that you have to play your part in an dark agenda in the musc buizz to be succesfull and if you dont 90% you will never get big even if youre music is in an level of an world star? Open your eyes. Everything that jave the power to manipulate an huge amount of people get used to do so. Universal and Sony are the biggest in the music buizz.
I think (and this is just my personal opinion) that she doesn't get the recognition she deserves bc she's way too sexual, which I don't mind at all, I actually like her bc of that BUT the doble standard sociaty we live in isn't ready for her lyrics as in a woman talking about sex so openly on her songs. Taylor's been dragged for wrting too many songs about ex boyfriends now think about a woman talking about explicit sex like Tove's done and keeps doing.
@@maximilianogasconrodas9009 that's not it, its simply she isn't American with Ariana Grande production team ....
Her time is coming. Everyone will hop on the Tove Lo bandwagon. For now we just keep loving her. She's here for those of us who understand her. 💜
@@maximilianogasconrodas9009 pretty sure you're right. This other person that brought up Arianna Pequena doesn't understand that Tove doesn't write metaphors and loose comparisons, she just says everything straight from the heart which I think we all love. Arianna and others are far more subtle (34+35 etc whereas Tove writes "Hey You Got Drugs" and gets to the point). Good observation
17 yrs of this madness. I'm 56 yrs old in December. This disorder doesn't care about your age, sex, colour... I'm sending everyone my ❤️ and understanding 🤗🐾
You are so, so loved. I’m so glad you’re still here.❤️❤️❤️❤️
This song hits really hard for anyone going through or knowing someone with an eating disorder, or just anyone who struggles with body image. I've come a long way with my body image, so this song doesn't hit me there, but strangely the chorus reflects how I feel about my struggle with panic attacks. This song came at the perfect time for me ❤️ Thank you
MY SONGS ARE WAY BETTER THAN TOVE LO
Covid legacy? The ex and GF are asking me for more money but no sex?
I just woke up alone to a room everyday for years in such a mood as that. Its not that way anymore.
well what i see
_Luke 10_
*19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.*
May the grace of JESUS be with you
Yo 615 stupid people. It has to do about chemical reactions that grapefruit does and corruption and drug cartels
I cannot believe all these years later and she’s still doing the same amazing, flawless, perfect work but on a higher level each era. This is truly amazing and beautifully heartbreaking at the same time.
Never stopped after Habits (Stay High)!
Agreed. It’s heavy
She gets better and better
i like how this song talks about a struggle with body image without putting down anybody's body type & just keeping the focus on the common struggle with meeting a standard which harms many
I'm 43, and from your photo you look half my age or so, so likely way more in tune with what's the current "standard" hence who better to ask? As to the current standard, my assumption being it being on the way too thin side going by runways and such (what little I've seen on occasion), so not expecting a reply, much less a lengthy one (I detest being of inconvenience, generally), if you'd care to enlighten me (and hopefully others), I'd greatly appreciate it, as to what is the current "standard"? Maybe just a few models' names to excemplify. I don't exactly follow fashion and related hoopla, but growing up with healthy BMI ladies in the '90s (as mentioned in the following copy from Wiki), I too well remember the later heroin chic messed up thing, and I do remember hearing some fashion shows/places requiring (or at least contemplating doing to, years back) a BMI of models higher than something, i.e. high enough that a doctor wouldn't be worried. IG + filters & photoshop galore surely can't be helping.
Wiki: Heroin chic was a style popularized in early-1990s fashion and characterized by pale skin, dark circles underneath the eyes, emaciated features, androgyny and stringy hair-all traits associated with abuse of heroin or other drugs. American supermodel Gia Carangi is remembered for being the originator of the trend. Heroin chic was partly a reaction against the "healthy" and vibrant look of leading 1980s models such as Cindy Crawford, Elle Macpherson, and Claudia Schiffer. A 1996 article in the Los Angeles Times stated that the fashion industry had "a nihilistic vision of beauty" that was reflective of drug addiction.
PS: Keto with intermittent fasting (eat 1-2 times a day) feels great and got me from 98 to 68 kg, lower fat than usual keto till goal reached, 63 kg 18-year-old boxing weight, losing about 1 kg/week. US Navy Seals studying switching to keto too, so good stuff all around. I jus lowered fat a lot, but anyone wanting to maintain weight and not feel hungry much + super stable blood sugar = psychologically more stable should at least look into it to see if it might work for them too.
@@JoachimMoeller So if you're asking me, the currently hyped beauty standard is still thinness but, like, with a BBL & the face of a Bratz doll. At the end of the day the standard is always changing. It doesn't really matter what the standard is. Any body type being held as a beauty "standard" is harmful to many as all human bodies are built differently and have different appearances at their healthiest. not everyone would look like kim kardashian, marilyn monroe, kate moss, or whoever the time's chosen body icon is after adopting a "healthy" lifestyle. Therefore, to celebrate a body type over others is never to encourage health, it is to encourage hatred/disrepect for people who do not have that body type and resentment/jealousy towards those who do- it hurts literally everyone, even the people who end up in the "pretty" category. (Also health is not even a moral high-ground from which we should judge others or ourselves & base our respect anyway.)
@Joachim For me as a 23 year old I'd say there are multiple standards. Still for some standards like being super skinny ,super defined or super musular and so on you'll sometimes need to get in a state that can be physically and mentally harmful to you
I say be yourself and fuck the beauty standards
@@uhuraenterprise6372 I agree with you, but that is so much easier said than done.
I have always loved Tove Lo for her body and sex positivity, but to hear her talk about body dysphoria and ed issues, is absolutely amazing. I am literally moved to tears, this is such an amazing song and I thank her for talking about it.
body dysphoria, you mean FAT, ThiKK is the same term, BIFFA waste bin
She looks so awesome in every video. I never heard that term body dysphoria. I learned something new.
Full circle moment; I was considering not going to a Tove gig because I felt fat and thought I’d be out of place which is Ridiculous I know. I told myself it was just anxiety and pushed through and had the best time. This track has really resonated with me, and of course it’s absolutely beautifully produced. I love it. Thank you Tove.
Bish u better come, sometimes u gotta turn your brains off. Im sure u look amazing & are a wonderful person! ❤
Yes bish, rock whatever you have...we're human.
@@Sidorido1 aw thank you so much 😊
Totally get the anxiety of it all, I’ve cancelled so many plans bc I felt too “fat” 🙄
Good on you for pushing past that! It would have been amazing 🖤
Bish you better go! Or you will regret it, this Tove community will make you feel comfortable all the time ❤ you only have to worry about your own joy
This has been one of Tove's best eras. Songs with extremely important lyrics and a special message for all fans.
I feel special to live at the same time as this exceptional artist. ❤️❤️❤️
Keep suporting the dirt femme era 🔥
Idk if it was intentional to make "grapefruit" also kinda sound like "break through" but i found it very poetic. Its so easy to miss the signs with eating disorders and many suffer in silence from society's unrealistic expectations. Thank you. 💟
Interesting about ED. I didn't watch the video but only listened to the song and I interpreted it from a Trans person's POV. I think it works on various levels. ALSO, yes love the wordplay with grapefruit/breakthrough. Sitting here being like "damn, she can play with the big dogs on a songwriting scale"
*Edit: the significance of the grapefruit is it taste sour and bitter but looking sweet and tangy. The contrast of appearance and innards
I literally thought those were the lyrics my guy
Totally! On first hearing I thought it was ‘break through!’ But then I realized the title and recognized it as ‘grapefruit!’Amazing how she can make it sound perfectly like both
YESSSSSSSSSS
I thought it was breakthrough this whole time
The line “what I see is not me” has no many meanings! It’s genius 🙌
1) the representation in media is not inclusive
2) the feeling that our bodies are simply vessels that don’t reflect who we really are on the inside
3) the loosing of ourselves by trying to be something we are not
4) the self-image that we project onto our own bodies
5) the reminder that the unkind things we tell to ourselves are not true
I love you ❤ you are radiant! ✨
I recommend watching “Naked Attraction”. It’s a dumb reality show where people choose from naked people who they want to date. But honestly, it made me feel better about my own body. Everyone’s different. They included all body types and people with disabilities and injuries.
This is her best era so far! I cannot wait for the album ❤️
her best era was Lady wood
@@aruscyrus habla
@@aruscyrus Let’s just say that she doesn’t have one bad era. Her music and artistry has consistently gotten better and better with every album!
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Her best era is every era
The art was so cool, the room that represented her body and the abuse she causes to herself and as time goes on we see the wounds she’s inflicted on herself. Such an amazing portrayal, I was oooing the whole way through ❤️
finally someone talking about this , literally thought of the same thing 🙌🏾
Literally trapped in her own skin. Such an amazing visual
It's pretty difficult to watch on silent/in slow motion, though.
one of the most underrated songs on this album
Dirt femme was so underrated
@@Wtftoveis Yeah, period. I really need to more people listen this album 😭
I’m not a woman nor a struggling person but Tove has given me a peek and appreciation for what is like to be young, in love, heartbroken, struggling, user and without a clear path in life. All with and ear for poetry and heart. Thank you Tove. You are needed!
Her music never misses. Emotional, danceable, iconic. So ready for this new album.
I sayed it thousand times, I'm going say it a thousand more, Tove Lo is one of the most underrated artists of all time, she never disappoints, you can see that everything she do is from the bottom of her heart, I love you so much. Can't believe to see in Argentina for the second time ❤️❤️❤️
All of these, all of these thousand times
I read “I slayed it thousand times”
Absolutely
you keep saying it.
She's criminally underrated, it's so fking absurd!
I've never struggled myself but I am playing this on repeat for all the strong people that I have seen go through this. YOU ARE ENOUGH.....
Its heartbreaking that I understand and relate to every word you sing. Thank you for putting it in words and a beautiful song on the hardest battle many of us will face. Fuck this sickness and its demons, may we all be free one day.
We will
I’ve been a fan for years but this album is on another level. Incredible.
Totally agree, she continues to raise her own bar with each release.
This album is like master class level. IT IS BRILLIANT!!!! Every song!!!!
Exatamente!!!!
I definitely agree with u. This album… a masterpiece I’d tell
YES IT IS OMG!!!
Every single song from this album is freaking good so far. She is serving as always 💛✨️✨️✨️
Enjoying this. Please checkout *Forever Be Mine by ninanile* I would truly appreciate it , if you would share and subscribe ✨️😊
This video made me cry. You’re the reason I broke free from a lot of things I struggle with. The video “moments” I saw two years ago and I said to myself “I want to embody tove lo” that’s exactly as free as I want to be. YOU’RE THE REASON for my breaking free from being too shy to dance. You’re the first concert I’ve ever sang out loud to and danced to. I feel so trapped in myself. This song is just perfect. I love you. Thank you for being the biggest inspiration in my life. I mean that honestly.
Beautiful comment x
Is there really an artist as real as Tove Lo? I've never listened to anyone as honest as her who addresses her feelings instead using fake positivity. She's a true inspiration
Tove Lo deserves alot more attention but the only thing is she pushes and gives us everything and more. She really knows how to deliver. Her whole music catalogue is amazing. She needs to be nominated more, perform at music events. EMAS, AMA's, Grammy. This performed live would be extraordinary. This was one of my favourite snippets from the album as I'm currently struggling with body image and starving myself. Thankyou tove lo. I'm always happy to see you return with new music.
I "liked" your comment then wondered if that were the right thing to do. Many comments resonate with our shared experience of hating and hurting ourselves but honestly, you can get through this. It never goes away completely but it does get easier and as she says " you are all you've got". Look after yourself as best you can but don't be too proud to ask others for help; my friends helped immensely, and still do on really bad days.
It’s deep, it’s simple, it’s sad and danceable, always ahead of its time. Serve again ✨🙏🏻✨
39 years living, 33 years struggling with fatphobic attacks from family, friends and society 😢 ... Learning to love myself and my beautiful body ❤ worth every second ❤
Stay Strong ❤
Always coming back here when I need a reminder. Take back the body I’m in.
This video is such a great representation of when you’re at war with your mind and you just want out from the intrusive thoughts. The way Tove has grown so much as an artist is inspiring. She’s always been super raw and honest and always peeling back the layers.
Immediate tears...Thank you for everything your voice represents. I don't feel alone knowing you and your heart are in the world.
Omg this song is immaculate someone please give Tove Lo her STARS⭐⭐⭐⭐
been struggling with an eating disorder for 18 years now, since i was 12 years old. my dad yesterday sent a childhood photo of me from that time right before the binging/purging began. she was so cute, chubby cheeked, and desperate to be loved. i just wish i could have given her a hug, told her she was perfect as she was. i remember how much i hated myself then and how much torment i went through in school. i was bullied relentlessly. this song kind of makes me choke on my feelings
i guess i'm leaving this comment for those that can relate, especially the younger ones here: it does get better. you aren't alone. you are worthy. your body you're in is deserving of health and care. you deserve to exist.
Didn't expect this to make me cry, but it did. Thank you Tove for making this and sharing it with the world.
Same! I bawled! 😭
Lies again? Germain Fighter God's Floor
I haven't been this excited about an album in a long time. Can't wait for this!
I love that she's a scorpio and she's not affraid to show it.
Here I am at 34 once again suffering with my disordered thoughts. Its a beast I have fought for at least 22 years and it never truly dies and goes away for good. Im in tears listening to this. Love it.
@Mark Park wow. Thank you for taking the time to out of your day to put me down. I really appreciate it. You never know what another person is going through Mark. I feel so bad for you.
do mindfullness
@Mark Park wtf is wrong with you she was just saying how the song helped her
@Mark Park No need to be a condescending ass. She means disordered as in relating to an eating DISORDER. It wouldn't be called a disorder if everyone had it. *You* get over yourself and stop putting someone down for no reason, precious
@Mark Park wdym "get over yourself." they're just sharing their experience lol, nothing wrong with that.
Tove if you're reading comments, thanks for your music and artistry!
I hope you never stop making music... I love every one of your songs!
Oh girl. You're singing with my voice. When can I listen to this song and not cry? Thank you for being our voice in the darkness. There are so many of us. Too many...
Increíble el sonido de este come back de Tove Lo. Se agradece que siempre hay aportaciones de sonido diferentes de Tove Lo en cada producción que saca. Sin duda es una artista que gana el reconocimiento de sus fans y que ojalá fuera más reconocida en la música. Amazing. Brazo. 👏
Estoy muy de acuerdo contigo Luis, pero este no es un come back de Tove Lo, no ha parado ni un minuto!
@@guillermobisbal7013 no me refiero a la ausencia, soy fan de ella y se de su actividad, me refiero al festejo de regresar este año con nuevo disco
Estoy de acuerdo con Tigo, pero más allá de ello, el mensaje que trasmite está canción, es simplemente profundo, ya que habla son algún trastorno alimenticio.
I’m in line with your comments, Luis … totally in agreement with you. 🙂👍
👍👍👌👌🖤
crying already at the visual conception and how it’s executed
Had this song on repeat for the last 24 hours and it will probably stay that way for weeks now!
Is magical
Same
THIS is art. The lyrics. The musical production. The message. The video. The choreo. Tove Lo is my muse.
Theres' too much to be thankful for during this new era. By far, one of the greatest/most creative and authentique artists nowadays. Sound wise, production wise and visual wise this woman keeps outstanding her singles one by one. Thanks for this incredible project
Such a talented lady! This album will stand out from the pack. 🐺🥀
My love goes to those that have suffered with body image issues x
The bridge on here is absolute groove.
I have not experienced an eating disorder before, but I relate to the feeling of depersonalization. It is a scary feeling. It's something I wish no one endures, and if you are, I hope you can get the support you need to ground yourself. One reason I really love Tove Lo is for songs like this; more vulnerable and raw songs. It's hard on her, so I don't want her climbing into this often. These songs help listeners feel less alone amid scary times, and it comes off as more authentic cause of who Tove Lo is.
This girl deserves more recognition. Her music is powerful 🔥🔥
Agreed but also I like having her Al too myself at concerts lol
Woman
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I love this song so, so much!
I don't struggle with an eating disorder, but I work with mental health issues, and the sheer pain in my mind was so bad sometimes that I felt like withering away to make it stop.
That was some months ago. I believe it was around August. I am getting help now, and work is helping too. I also see and therapist once a week. Boy, the difference does that make! I'm glad I hung in there when things got really dark. And others can do the same, get the help they need, and hang on because it truly does get a LOT better!
Keep in mind that I am still working on my mental health, but with support, the situation will improve! 💜💜
Now, I want to talk about these lyrics because they are brilliant and very poetic, and I love all the words so much. ✨
Now, whenever I hear the word "Grapefruit," I also hear the word "Breakthrough," which is impressive. And I listen to this song repeatedly and can change some of the terms to sound like I am speaking about mental health, which is what I want to do. So my creative brain wants to take it there, and hopefully, I can write, produce and be in my own "fan-made" music video of this song!
I just got out of a psych ward, have been watching this video repeatedly. It’s how I felt inside of treatment, so happy this exists.
All the singles so far have been 10/10 for me! This one didn’t disappoint either 💓😍
THIS ERA WILL BE SO GOOD!! IM TOO EXCITED!!! 🥰
Only 2.2M? This deserves billions 🔥
I love how this song sounds like it was so inspired by Robyn, her favourite artist
As someone who has struggled with weight and body image, I definitely appreciate and understand this song and video. Thank you, Tove Lo ! I’m really hoping I can see you in concert next year 🎉❤️👏🏾 proud fan from the Cayman Islands!
[Verse 1]
Countin' while I run the tap
I'm on my knees
Chokin' on my hands all night
In my sleep
Countin' all the calories
Now get 'em up
Body positivity
Help me out
[Pre-Chorus]
The swans of ballet
Their skin and their bones, that's not me
I'd die for my love though, break
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
[Chorus]
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
[Verse 2]
Sweet girl, you're so disciplined
Now keep it down
I don't like my measurements
Won't make a sound
Diana, how she guards the clock (The clock)
She's in control (Control)
Now why is everyone in shock? (In shock)
You let her go
[Pre-Chorus]
The swans of ballet ('Llet)
Their skin and their bones, that's not me (Me)
I'd die for my love though, break (Break)
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
[Chorus]
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
[Post-Chorus]
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
[Bridge]
When I'm hurtin', every time I have a bad day
Then everyone gets lost
But I'm learnin' every time I feel out of place
That you are all I've got, oh
[Chorus]
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in (Oh)
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
Obrigado por passar a letra
I just discovered this song(and Tove) and I really liked the melody and arrangement at my first listen, but then I read the lyrics and wow!! The message is so beautiful😭😭 This is the self reflected type of song I’ve been looking for🥹
Tove es una diosa en todos los sentidos, siempre anda reinventándose en cada uno de sus álbumes tanto en conceptos, letras y sonido. Sus letras son tan reales por eso es que empatizo mucho con ella. Te adoro Reina 💖💖💖
I can’t say enough how important it is for artists to make songs about things like this that people are struggling with, and can use music to get through with. On top of its importance, it has a catchy beat and really great lyrics!
Yeah I worry artists will stop being this raw because of fear of people being triggered but it really does help some who have struggled w this
(Ex: Taylor swifts music video of Anti-Hero featured the word “fat” and she had to remove that frame)
So good. 'one two / grapefruit ' is just a great example of using just a handful of words to convey a world of pain. As always I love your voice.
This feels like "no one dies for love" part 2 LOVE IT!!!!!
I recently got diagnosed with a mental disorder and finally realized why this song spoke to me in a level I didn’t understand. Thank you for writing and singing from your soul and allowing us to be part of this journey with you.
Yes 4 minutes!!!! BRING BACK LONG POP SONGS!!!! Every single released so far has been a MASTERPIECE and that’s a rare find. This album WILL NOT disappoint!! 🫶🏽
So excited for this album
She is raw talent!! Period!! And she does not have the team behind her as som US artist`s (I have nothing against them) have, still shes right at the top!!
She shouted out max martin as being one of her biggest collaborators in her special thanks. I love Tove Lo’s music but that’s pretty much the best help you could possibly ask for when making a pop record! Lol
Let's suport this independent artist
I've had anorexia for almost ten years now and am still trying to recover. This song is amazing as well as all of your others and it really speaks to me. I love you!!
Stay strong ❤
Don’t let people tear you down, you will always have people who love and support you
@@ryanap8396 thank you so much
@@losmaschin60n3s thank you!
I remember how close I was to going up. Just need to unwind. And collect all my pieces back. ♥️ then I'm finnish.🙏
She is the new Woman = Powerful in everyway!
ANOTHER FUCKING INCREDIBLE PIECE OF ART. Thank you, Tove, for being so vulnerable with us. We love you. ❤️
Thank You So Much for this! I cry and dance to this song. 3 decades of eating disorders and I'm still struggling every day. Thank you for this song and video!
My ED just started maybe 5 months ago... and I cannot eat. I'm hungry but for some reason... I can't eat. It gives me anxiety. I don't understand it.
Love to you both. 5 decades, how am I still in this fight?
@JINX Please please please get help the quicker you start the more likely it will be you shift it completely, if you wait it could really take hold. Please, I beg you. Sounds like AN, highest death rate of all mental illness. Talk to someone!!!
Her body transformation , coupled with the choreography for this song was so relevant and Grammy worthy. I am now obsessed with this song!
Was watching that on mush I was crying a lot. Brings up a lot of feelings. I love you so much!!
Second time on mush next day lol 😆
I love her deeply so much❤
I have a daughter right now who is going though some serious issues. Tove, you are providing the light for her.
I'm stan with you
her face in the final is ART
A beautiful song by a beautiful woman with an important message for people struggling with self image.
This is one of my favorites from the album. The production is so lit! And It sounds so good when I blast it in my car.
yeah, this will be your best album. no words 😩❤
Tove Lo is a huge inspiration to me and I WILL produce a song for her one day.
I love grapefruit and now I ❤ you 4 making this song to eat grapefruit to 😊
The first time I heard this I thought she said "How am I still in this body?" and I thought I'd never heard a sentence that made more sense to me in my life.
Tove Lo, your musical art is such a wonderful gift you share ❤️💛💚💙💜
This song is incredible. Cant stop spinning it. Beautiful music.
1 of the Best greatest albums of the year! Thank you very much! my soul is grateful!
I feel this is going to be her best album since Lady Wood 💕💕💕
The most underrated artist of our generation
The aperence she did on på spåret was heart stopping
it is a very healing thing to see how even if every one of us is fighting an individual struggle with EDs, there's a common ground where we find our vulnerability can be understood and represented in such a deep way. It creates a feeling of understanding and a community of warriors that can get hope from seeing others slowly getting better. I´m specially thankful for how this video expresses a lot of ambiguous and hard to explain pars of the struggle in such an open and deep way. Thank you Tove Lo
I love the fact that 80s beats are back in the industry, its not only Tove. Absolutely love it.
Kavinsky, Electric Youth etc the ‘Drive’ and ‘Stranger Things’ soundtracks saved pop music.
*LYRICS:*
Countin' while I run the tap
I'm on my knees
Chokin' on my hands all night
In my sleep
Countin' all the calories
Now get 'em up
Body positivity
Help me out
The swans of ballet
Their skin and their bones, that's not me
I'd die for my love though, break
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
Sweet girl, you're so disciplined
Now keep it down
I don't like my measurements
Won't make a sound
Diana, how she guards the clock (The clock)
She's in control (Control)
Now why is everyone in shock? (In shock)
You let her go
The swans of ballet ('Llet)
Their skin and their bones, that's not me (Me)
I'd die for my love though, break (Break)
Break 'til I wither away
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
When I'm hurtin', every time I have a bad day
Then everyone gets lost
But I'm learnin' every time I feel out of place
That you are all I've got, oh
One, two, grapefruit
How am I back here again?
Three, four, lose more
I know my mirrors are lyin'
Five, six, hate this
Take back the body I'm in (Oh)
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
One, two, grapefruit
Wish I could change overnight
Three, four, lose more
Kill my obsession, please die
Five, six, hate this
How am I still in this fight?
What I see is not me
What I see is not me
❤❤❤❤
this song has been so important to me. i can’t count how many times i’ve cried listening to this
I’m usually not into most modern pop artists, but you are one of my favorite artists, period. Have been for a long time. Janelle Monae is another and Lana del Rae, lykke Li, etc. This song alone is very relatable. As an autistic woman who has bouts of anorexia and orthorexia, thank you. 😊
Running got me through a lot and basically is my therapy, but now I have a torn labrum 😢. Have to swim and strength train, maybe write more for mental health. Listening to music helps, too. ❤
O álbum com certeza está incrível 💜
Maravilhosa!
Ansiosíssimo!
Ansioso demais
- A MULHER SÓ LANÇA HINO! MISERICÓRDIA 😍💙
😃
I heard this song over and over and over again when my wife would shower and never really noticed it. That's until I got really stoned one night and she was blasting it in the shower. I ran to the bathroom to take a leak and I found myself taking a piss with the most amazing dance moves I have ever pulled. All I have to say is I'm hooked. Great tune.
i love this mv so much. the box she is in is just skin and how her body dysmorphia is screaming for her to get our of her own skin and bones. the bruises she is making the struggle she is going through just to be herself. or not to be. i love this so much because that is just how i feel everyday looking at the mirror. Tove Lo is just the most relatable queen.
I have never seen such a beautiful or creative video before
One of the best songs about eating disorders/body dysmorphia that I've ever heard.
This is the best news ive heard today, Tove we are ready, bring it sis 😭❤️❤️the thirst is overrrr
If she doesn’t get the recognition she deserves after this album, it’s gonna be the biggest crime 😭
Just wowwwww