My Family “PRANKS” my Wife at our WEDDING by WEARING ALL WHITE... - Reddit Podcast

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  • @AmItheJerk
    @AmItheJerk  Год назад +10

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    • @MariMoore-nc2cg
      @MariMoore-nc2cg Год назад

      Can you tell me what the difference am I the jerk and your the Jerk pls and thank you 😊

    • @Highlander48
      @Highlander48 11 месяцев назад

      How is this the weakest comment

    • @subratabiswas7516
      @subratabiswas7516 8 месяцев назад

      Ithougtitisseriousbutwhyisthevideofunnyenglishnotmyso

  • @dutchvanderbilt9969
    @dutchvanderbilt9969 Год назад +188

    Story 1: the original poster is very unfortunate to have almost an entire family consisting largely of bullys.

    • @thegamingknight642
      @thegamingknight642 Год назад +6

      Pretty sure that's Hazing. And I think that's a crime.

    • @andrew8168
      @andrew8168 Год назад

      The men in that family are incredibly weak and 100% deserve this. The OP invited his family to his wedding knowing they were absolutely trash. Its ignorant to think you can roll around in trash and come out smelling like roses.

    • @spiderdude5591
      @spiderdude5591 Год назад

      Idk about that.

    • @thegamingknight642
      @thegamingknight642 Год назад

      @spiderdude5591 Okay, so looking it up, hazing is a crime in 44 states. However, it appears to apply only to colleges and the like.

    • @smashedmelon3156
      @smashedmelon3156 Год назад +4

      This also mean girl behavior, and also a testing what they can do. This high school clique behavior.
      Why do have to be " worthy" to be in the family

  • @Myatheroses
    @Myatheroses Год назад +65

    Someone’s wedding is definitely not the time for pranks. It’s probably stressful enough as it is without gaslighting the bride

    • @user-kl8lo6rj5i
      @user-kl8lo6rj5i Год назад +6

      Exactly right. Can you imagine using a new family member's wedding to abuse her to see what kind of a reaction you would get? Did these women never grow up?

    • @RainX04
      @RainX04 11 месяцев назад

      If someone did that at my wedding I would’ve handled it much differently

  • @vexxama
    @vexxama Год назад +39

    Straight up hazing. They got harassed when they joined the family and are now taking it out on someone else, who is then expected to become a bully for the sake of “tradition”

  • @MaveriKat
    @MaveriKat Год назад +14

    Story 1: No OP, you're not the jerk. They're clearly sociopathic.

  • @Destroyer106
    @Destroyer106 Год назад +67

    Story 1: OP should of had a backup plan if they all came in white water pistols filled with red wine if they refused to leave

    • @AndyJade-df6dj
      @AndyJade-df6dj Год назад +14

      There was a story similar to that, where op’s mother in law showed up at the wedding in a wedding dress but op thought ahead and changed the attire where the bridesmaids where wearing white dresses and op she was wearing a pink wedding dress. The look on the mother in law’s face was priceless and op’s fiancé laughed his head off. Glad to know the guy wasn’t a mama’s boy.

    • @alicornianqueen8219
      @alicornianqueen8219 Год назад +2

      ​@@AndyJade-df6djI need to see that post...

    • @loganthomas3575
      @loganthomas3575 10 месяцев назад +1

      and rotten eggs as well

  • @arcturionblade1077
    @arcturionblade1077 Год назад +80

    Story 1: Talk about toxic bullies bordering on sociopathic, controlling behavior. Those women playing childish, gatekeeping games instead of acting like adults, have no respect for boundaries and social norms, nor any any respect for OP and his bride/wife.
    Story 3: I laughed. Speaking as an IT guy myself, I recommend never, ever trying to screw your IT guy.

    • @RAID3N_2013
      @RAID3N_2013 Год назад +2

      Women. Hahahaha ☕

    • @alicornianqueen8219
      @alicornianqueen8219 Год назад +1

      ​@@RAID3N_2013 Don't you mean...
      Karens? 💀

    • @kermitthegdfrog8029
      @kermitthegdfrog8029 Год назад +2

      ​@@alicornianqueen8219I feel like narcissists would fit better.

    • @alicornianqueen8219
      @alicornianqueen8219 Год назад +1

      @@kermitthegdfrog8029 Anything besides a common noun like men or women LMAO. Saying that makes you a sexist regardless of which gender you are 💀
      No, this is not targeting you, just talking about the first guy I replied to

  • @jessicaspaw528
    @jessicaspaw528 Год назад +43

    For all the women that showed up at the wedding in white, I have no words! That's just effed up beyond measure you just don't do that!!

  • @MahsaKaerra
    @MahsaKaerra Год назад +36

    First story. NTA.
    OP set a boundary and the women in the family chose not to respect it.
    If they cannot find it within themselves to respect OP of his wife on the wedding day, they certainly wont show respect on any other day either.

  • @ApolloDragon
    @ApolloDragon Год назад +62

    Yeah, those aren't pranks, nor is it teasing. It straight up emotional and mental abuse. They bully every new girl in the family, and then when they get away with it, they are like, "You're part of the family now," that beyond toxic and manipulative in nature. They're not testing the waters or seeing if they are a good match for the family they just want an excuse to bully and abuse every new girl to get a reaction out of them. Then, manipulate them into joining in on it cause it means they're part of the family. The family members in story 1 are the Jerks not the husband he did right by defending his wife from the cruelty of his mom. They're bullies looking for excuse to justify their toxic behavior

    • @kellysunserenity4068
      @kellysunserenity4068 Год назад

      Agreed. Those women clearly haven't grown into adults. They are nothing more than pathetic children wanting attention during an occassion which doesn't have anything to do with them. Weddings are about the bride & groom becoming one. It's their day. To plan a so-called "prank" like this is DISRESPECTFUL.

    • @MarsJenkar
      @MarsJenkar 11 месяцев назад

      There's a term for what those family members are doing. It's a hazing ritual. Good on OP for refusing to stand for it.

  • @lajasnjohu5264
    @lajasnjohu5264 Год назад +8

    I remember another where they ruined this plan by having ALL their guests wear their own wedding attire. So every woman there was wearing her wedding dress and the "pranksters" "prank" was ruined. Satisfying.

  • @ScarletFever109
    @ScarletFever109 Год назад +19

    Story 1: op, you’re not the jerk. These women are nothing but a bunch of bullies. Teasing and pranking others is NOT the way to welcome someone into a family. They’re wrong for wearing white to the wedding especially after you’ve asked them not to. That was rude and disrespectful and they disrespected and ignored your boundaries. Your brother did the right thing warning you about what they’ll do. You should’ve uninvited them to stay on the safe side.

  • @synthwolfe8906
    @synthwolfe8906 Год назад +8

    story 1: I'd tell them that my girlfriend (I'm married, but in the context of it starting during dating) has trauma related to bullying and that if they pull that crap it wouldn't be taken as a prank or joke. That she would internalize it, and I'd cut off any and all contact. If they still insisted, I'd go through with my threat. I'd make it plainly obvious that anyone who so much as said an unwarranted rude word to her would be, for all intents and purposes, dead to me. Show up to my wedding wearing white? I didn't ruin my day, YOU did, dearest mother. Now begone and never contact me again.

  • @vickilundy7089
    @vickilundy7089 Год назад +24

    Story #1. The fact that these women were willing to ruin someones wedding over their prank is concerning to say the least. All of the time, money, effort and emotion invested in a wedding and they choose this time to bully a toung bride, you need to ghost them. Im curious to know what HER family thought of this "prank".

  • @Catherine.Dorian.
    @Catherine.Dorian. Год назад +8

    It’s not teasing and joking, it’s bullying and hazing

  • @bsputnik
    @bsputnik Год назад +5

    They would have enjoyed my counter-prank of the Super Soakers filled with red sugar water.

  • @aidenthompson3265
    @aidenthompson3265 Год назад +9

    Story one: Send a letter of disownment to each of them and if they get angry tell them it's just a prank

    • @QuickManEXE
      @QuickManEXE Год назад +4

      That's actually a great idea.

    • @ladyv5655
      @ladyv5655 Год назад +3

      Better yet, tell them it isn't a prank and that you are, in fact disowning them.

  • @sicilianprincess-tm5nz
    @sicilianprincess-tm5nz Год назад +6

    Story 1 this family sounds like a bunch of bullies. I would be totally pissed off.

  • @OynxWolf11
    @OynxWolf11 Год назад +7

    Story 1 - So let me gets this straight. These Beaches Bullied the hell out of that poor Girl, even have the BALLS to wear all White which is a total disrespect to the Bride, and then the Mother has the BALLS to ask Op and the Wife to apologise for what the Mother and all the Women did? Op, mate. You Need to cut ties with your Family, make them understand that PRANKS are not funny, and what they did was outright bullying.

  • @GenGamesUniverse
    @GenGamesUniverse Год назад +27

    I'm sorry, but you're supposed to be the "mother of the groom", NOT a sorority sister who's hazing the wife to be as a way of being a "newbie" to the family.

  • @kathleencowley7772
    @kathleencowley7772 Год назад +6

    Story #1 NTJ- You warned them. They had a chance. They flubbed it! Go NC for now until they understand. Might take a while. Usually, when grandbaby comes along.

  • @DigitalCowboy000
    @DigitalCowboy000 Год назад +6

    In the first/title story the OP is most assuredly *NOT* the arsehole. The female members of his family *ARE* the arseholes.
    As they had apparently been warned multiple times first *NOT* to tease his girlfriend, then his fiancé, then wife, or to "prank" her. *THEY* choose to disregard him und do so anyway. Thinking that he wouldn't make a scene at his own wedding.
    I don't believe that *ANY* of them "planned" on changing after the OP's fiancée saw them turn up in white.
    Instead of confronting the female members of his family himself. He should have had security to do it. Also hopefully there were security cameras at the venue und he could get pictures of all of them showing up in white to post online to counter their claims.
    They're just mad that before the OP that no one has stood up to them und *THEY* are now being held accountable for their actions.

  • @medybalata3739
    @medybalata3739 Год назад +3

    “So I unleashed the beast ok them😈👹” 💀

  • @QuickManEXE
    @QuickManEXE Год назад +16

    Story 1: Wow, the women in this family.... if you even want to call them that, are nothing short of awful. There is absolutely no way that this was a "prank" or a "test" or "looking out for the men". It was them being the worst people they could possibly be. The OP had every right to kick them out of the wedding, and all those nasty women were warned ahead of time, and chose to do it anyways. OP and his new wife have absolutely nothing to apologize for here, and honestly, i say the OP put his foot down harder and go no contact with them. Maybe that will wake them up. Unlikely but it is what i would do.
    Story 2: Yeah i would've done the exact same thing here if that happened to me. While i get that some companies and agencies can get very busy and possibly backlogged, this was just sheer laziness on the companies side.
    Story 3: Wow, that Tony was a complete greasebag. He did everything in the book possible to try and screw over the OP. Good thing the OP didn't take this guys threats and intimidation and other crap for a second and actually got paid double. Good thing the OP went there with a constable too when they did... sounds like Tony was more then willing to turn things ugly there. Hopefully the OP has better clients going forward and Tony gets exposed for the big jerk he is and loses business.

    • @JamesDavy2009
      @JamesDavy2009 Год назад

      Story 3: There's also the company having at least one nepo-baby. That's a red flag.

  • @andymohan20
    @andymohan20 Год назад +2

    Lol. If my wife had heard that her In laws was planning to wear what for her wedding she might have turned and wore red. 😂😂😂😂. Bc it's her favourite colour😂😂😂😂

  • @tamarasmith9060
    @tamarasmith9060 Год назад +3

    Story 1: Again bullying is bullying. Calling it a prank doesn't magically make it not bullying.

  • @xandan1668
    @xandan1668 Год назад +3

    Prank em back and say you thought they were demons and were testing their humanity.

  • @moniquethong798
    @moniquethong798 Год назад +4

    Prank? Next time his mom or any woman in his family has a birthday, wear funeral clothes to give them white chrysanthemums.🙄

  • @nyneeveanya8861
    @nyneeveanya8861 Год назад +2

    Story one missed one small opportunity. When they said they were testing for bridezilla, should have said…you got groomzilla instead now leave.

  • @jennaffermesser4303
    @jennaffermesser4303 Год назад +5

    Story 1 I'm confused about how wearing a white dress is a prank

    • @cindykq8086
      @cindykq8086 Год назад

      It never was a prank, it was a test to see how much crap OP and his wife would take. Full no-contact may be the only way to get through. There's no way I'd let bitches like that around my kids.

  • @YourShadowKeeper
    @YourShadowKeeper Год назад +6

    Story 1: The women in the family (sans OP's wife) enjoy belittling and humiliating other women to feel a sense of superiority. It's not a "harmless prank" or "trying to see if she'll be a bridezilla", they wanted to bully her to feel better about themselves and to get their kicks. If I were OP I'd ask my mother, sisters, aunts, cousins, etc if they feel better proving to myself and my partner that they care more about humiliating us on what was meant to be our special day? Then I'd state that clearly they care more about bullying the women of the family than they have ever cared about me, because no one who actually loves someone would actively try to hurt them or the person they hold most dear, and going forward we will be going NC and LC with the women of the family because I didn't ever deserve to be hurt by them or watch my life partner be hurt by them, and I refuse to let them do it when they know full-well they are hurting us, it isn't harmless or just a bit of fun. They are all bullies and none of them deserve to be in our or our future childrens lives.

  • @arnodiedrichs3371
    @arnodiedrichs3371 Год назад +3

    Story 1: Supersoaker with swineblood. Let's see if they can take a joke.

  • @the_otaku_chronicles8330
    @the_otaku_chronicles8330 Год назад +3

    You don’t mess with the wedding ceremony ever , if you’re gonna do it wait till the reception after …. Still not a great thing to do but at least it hasn’t ruined the actual
    Wedding stuff

  • @carlcheeezer
    @carlcheeezer Год назад +1

    Bro I swear to god. This guy is gonna meet a Karen and be in one of these situations, and just have a deck of cards for things to do, police? Fight back? Be responsible? It’s like you know every possible scenario

  • @coreyclark-mr9bl
    @coreyclark-mr9bl Год назад +2

    Story 1 get leverage against the mom and aunt. They're the ringleaders, the rest are just minons who were broken by these two. Take care of the leaders l, and the rest will follow.

  • @loganthomas3575
    @loganthomas3575 10 месяцев назад +1

    what a bunch of bullies.

  • @firefly4f4
    @firefly4f4 Год назад +5

    Anyone who supports the mom, stepmom, aunts, etc in that first story is a toxic AH.

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength Год назад +4

    That's not a prank...that's sabotage!

  • @Stoney-lz3ri
    @Stoney-lz3ri Год назад

    See im glad my family knows exactly the type of person i am and know better than to try to prank me cause it always end up with cops and ambulances 😂😂

  • @mathieubordeleau150
    @mathieubordeleau150 Год назад +2

    Story 3, I'd say Op owe his friend a beer.

  • @lishrich
    @lishrich Год назад

    I've heard or read these before, but the IT story was worth hearing again. Gotta love a good business revenge story.

  • @noahbogoskicards9206
    @noahbogoskicards9206 Год назад +4

    i would honestly bring legal action against them girls that was uncool not even oversimplified can make it seem funny.

  • @Amdisvt
    @Amdisvt Год назад +2

    Story 3: Tony had to pay the "jerk tax" on everything and I'm glad for it.

  • @DarlaisJijibisha
    @DarlaisJijibisha 9 месяцев назад

    Geez, that's more than a prank. This is *madness*

  • @viviennemorgan7217
    @viviennemorgan7217 Год назад +4

    i feel bad for the bride because she's dealing with entitled jerks like her in laws to be, oh and also you're not the jerk.

    • @viviennemorgan7217
      @viviennemorgan7217 Год назад +1

      who the heck decides that it's fine to wear white at a wedding and decides to take over it.

  • @ladyv5655
    @ladyv5655 Год назад +1

    I would be standing at the entrance with a bottle of red wine or possibly a pitcher of grape Kool Aid and any non-bride woman who showed up wearing white would get a "dye job" right then and there.

  • @shegeek5559
    @shegeek5559 Год назад

    NTA. You, sir, are a KISA (Knight In Shining Armor) and your bride is a lucky lady. And The Unit had their FAFO moment.

  • @autumnazure8928
    @autumnazure8928 Год назад +2

    I hope they see this video in the first story so they can see that nobody is with them.

  • @shozuetsuki7211
    @shozuetsuki7211 11 месяцев назад

    First story: NTA. They were told to come to the wedding as family members wishing the new couple well, not pulling a prank that would otherwise ruin it. OP even warned them of the consequences, and they thought they were too entitled to follow it and instead kept up the malicious act for 'a joke.' Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I can only hope he cut off contact with all of them, because they don't deserve to be near them ever again.

  • @CowboysSuperBowlWinners
    @CowboysSuperBowlWinners Год назад

    Unleashed the beast 💀💀💀💀

  • @MisunderstoodAssassin
    @MisunderstoodAssassin Год назад +1

    I don’t know if anyone realizes but I’m pretty sure this story was told before in another video if not then a similar story was told

  • @v.crowley
    @v.crowley Год назад +2

    Story 1 : unless you're a virgin on your wedding day.... Wearing white is irrelevant.... It's stupid to be so obsessed with a color that doesn't have meaning

    • @jeanglendinning1860
      @jeanglendinning1860 Год назад +1

      the fashion of wearing white for the bride was started by queen ictoria, up until then women wore what was referred to as their"sunday best"

    • @v.crowley
      @v.crowley Год назад +1

      @@jeanglendinning1860 yep.. wearing funeral colors on the mid-1800s XD but wearing white dates back to ancient Romans... Woman wore clothing of purity and chastity for the Goddess Vesta... Then Christians/Catholics took this tradition as part of the Book of Revelations 19:8...

  • @mrmoose6619
    @mrmoose6619 Год назад

    The last one is a fine example of the "ID 10T Tax"

  • @Bigdan678
    @Bigdan678 Год назад +1

    Didn’t u already do the first story?

    • @viviennemorgan7217
      @viviennemorgan7217 Год назад

      nah he did the story where op and her friend made a pact about brides wearing white and them splashing wine on women who wore white to the wedding.

  • @lindajeanfrancis2958
    @lindajeanfrancis2958 Год назад +1

    You warned them they are the ahs

  • @jbi-justbeingian2055
    @jbi-justbeingian2055 Год назад +1

    Story 1 that's toxic as hell should not be tollerated

  • @carolynjoycecaperlac4944
    @carolynjoycecaperlac4944 Год назад

    Another example of Lost reason and no accountability

  • @MLAO9k
    @MLAO9k Год назад +1

    Story one he is not the bully it’s his wedding respect his decision and get the f out

  • @lynnper69
    @lynnper69 Год назад +1

    Story 1 not the jerk

  • @TheJcjonesacp
    @TheJcjonesacp 3 месяца назад

    That last story, I bet you the server worked and they were trying to screw over op, and not pay like pieces of garbage

  • @tntguy7915
    @tntguy7915 Год назад

    Can someone explain the problem with white and wedding? I don't get it

  • @ChristopherGriffin-ee2ol
    @ChristopherGriffin-ee2ol 8 месяцев назад

    First story: if i was a girl and joined the family, I would call the cops to shut them up

  • @tetsuyaken1235
    @tetsuyaken1235 Год назад

    this story is from my cousin who is a dad, he has off-day on Monday, where he and his buddies have a game night once every 2 week, where they play old consoles from their childhood, one day his kid (m 7 old) came to his game night, asking to join them, normally his wife tuck him to bed as it sunday night, he ask where his mother, the kid reply she going out with friends, he didn't mind at first as his kid will fall asleep before 12 oclock, but it become a regular occurrence.
    he confront his wife about her night out which turn into a heat argument, she whine as to why he the only one allow to have a day to enjoy himself, while she, as a house wife have to do daily chore and taking care for their kid, which is untrue, as his the bread winner in the family, during evening he does do cleaning, cooking and playing with his kid when his wife is taking a break. also to note he knew those friends of her visit her daily, so why does she need a night out.
    currently they are on nonspeaking terms. to me, my cousin is not the jerk as even he need a break from both working home and work.

    • @JamesDavy2009
      @JamesDavy2009 Год назад

      The wife seems to have a victim complex.

  • @Gman-t9e
    @Gman-t9e Год назад

    If I was the husband I would divorce the wife asap

  • @JohnFauth-os2ic
    @JohnFauth-os2ic 2 месяца назад

    Am I the jerk for refusing to pay pay for something?I didn't do

  • @aidendegamo8445
    @aidendegamo8445 Год назад +1

    I commented at 9:14 in astralia

  • @MotaPotato
    @MotaPotato Год назад

    WHAT KIND OF GOD AWFUL SUBWAY SURFERS IS THAT?!

  • @ruthdragon962
    @ruthdragon962 Год назад +1

    This was not a prank this was a concerted effort to humiliate your wife and ruin your wedding I would put the whole lot to shame and post their toxic antics on face book.

  • @HasanTheDemonicFox
    @HasanTheDemonicFox Год назад

    story 1: is bros mom lesbian

  • @andreap9869
    @andreap9869 Год назад

    Its so hard to read with the background moving fast like that

  • @A_Very_Busy_Penguin
    @A_Very_Busy_Penguin Год назад +2

    I like mangos

  • @JGLy22086
    @JGLy22086 Год назад

    Those women were extremely childish!

  • @Abel.775
    @Abel.775 Год назад +2

    Nice

  • @daflaminporg2454
    @daflaminporg2454 Год назад +2

    Sub 1 hour club
    👇

  • @AngelSwartz
    @AngelSwartz 11 месяцев назад

    Bro doing that to a guys wedding is just wrong

  • @dennismckay583
    @dennismckay583 Год назад

    I'm sorry, RUclips, but I know that you don't study up enough and the baby in the room actually can hear sounds from Outside so that 1 about the Karen and the Airplane stuff You are wrong about how they're kind of not the jerk. That's one thing that can lower them down with being a little bit closer to you're just like. But technically that shouldn't be thing. You'd think it is ask google and i'm not a nerd

  • @williamatwell537
    @williamatwell537 Год назад +1

    Hi

  • @aidendegamo8445
    @aidendegamo8445 Год назад

    Haha

  • @sammieg8641
    @sammieg8641 Год назад

    S1 they are psycho… Dad should have divorced your mom along time ago

  • @j.l.5958
    @j.l.5958 Год назад

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @nataliescott2261
    @nataliescott2261 Год назад +1

    S1 have 0 contact the woman are pos them excluded you are doing you a favor

  • @tatsuothefamiliar3801
    @tatsuothefamiliar3801 Год назад

    Question for story 1, what's wrong with wearing white at the wedding? I thought that's what you're supposed to do.

    • @QuickManEXE
      @QuickManEXE Год назад +4

      The bride yes, not the other patrons.

    • @tatsuothefamiliar3801
      @tatsuothefamiliar3801 Год назад

      @@QuickManEXE ok, but why? For the record, I'm not Christian if that helps

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 10 месяцев назад

      @@tatsuothefamiliar3801 not about religion. There is a misconception that white meant purity, but it actually meant “affluence”. Queen Anne wore white at her wedding, and in those days lighter colors were harder to keep clean, only the wealthy could afford pastels and whites. But the traditional white only on the bride at weddings still stands.

    • @tatsuothefamiliar3801
      @tatsuothefamiliar3801 10 месяцев назад

      @@princessmarlena1359 brilliant. Appreciate the lesson.

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