This is very true! This goes on really bad at work. The one that is easy to spill everyone’s else’s stuff and talk about someone, is the one that will talk about you as well. Those kind of people are usually miserable.
Same. This comment made me happy😄. Cause all these days I thought I was the only one who don’t have any friend. (not saying *Friends* cause I don’t even have one.) 🙂😓
guys if you play any computer games find some ppl to play with and youll notice they are your friends now, or if you dont like them find other people to play with :D
Extroverts always think we hate them even though we just think inwardly. And then they feel exploited when we ask a favor without realizing we would do pretty much anything for them except be more extroverted.
Try to slowly change your ways :) You’ll find soon enough that more people will be nice to you and/or respect you as a person. Unless you know, you are introverted, antisocial, or just don’t like being with people then ig you don’t really need to change lol. (idk)
Whether you talk or not if you have that connect never shy away asking for any help from a friend. We all are busy hustling in our lives in our own way, be there when someone needs you instead of asking why they didn't call you earlier
Basically me huh, but i didn't talk bad about anyone. i admit it that sometimes i was just faking my kindness but in my defense i just really don't want any trouble with anyone.
At least better than having those fake nice friends, I had a whole gang of them and now that I moved away from there, I got real friends for life and realised how messed up the way my "friends" treated me was.
a guy called reed in my class does this, he talks nice around the more popular ones and trash-talks me, he even left me to clean a bathroom once but i was like f this s im out
Actually I have a reason to be like this in a way. One I am not rude to people who don’t have power per say but if they’re beneath me I know my place and they should know there’s(this due to them being rude to me). The only reason I do this is because I don’t have many good friends to which I always ask for assignments or homework when needed. Besides that they’re the friends you don’t talk to out of school. Gossip is quite normal, of course I talk about how disrespectful everyone is. So being fake nice and happy has become a natural reaction. Yes, if this is a recurring thing with no reasoning such as also disrespect peers, then yes that’s when you definitely should be concerned.
Gossip is NOT normal, and why do you think of people as beneath you? Wow dude, you have some self reflecting to do. I also do, but I dont think of people as "beneath me" or gossip. Thats wasting energy bro
my mum 1.good attitude towards ppl hv power（good grades） 2.only contact me when she wants me to help buy her stuff cuz shes lazy 3.talk abt some other people bad with me 4.behind my back my mom tell everyone how bad my grades is
This is exactly what my cousin sister does(nice with people who have power and also she is always bitching about her friends and how they irritate her), and by watching ur vids I got to know that she is also jealous of me cause ahe is always nice with me in person and she always try to show me down in a grp of people and she never appreciates me about anything that I do, I just thought that she wanted me to do better and she doesn't know how to motivate me that's why her attitude is like her but no no, she don't like me 🥲 and I really trusted her well before
I always fear being a fake.. and so this video gave me some confidence. Because, when around people of power, I certainly act with more respect for their position than I do my close friends, but I avoid acting any different then. And I hate gossip. I avoid spreading it as much as I can.
*they only contact you when they need something* Yeah that's my life. Sometimes I am lonely asf and sometimes I am surrounded by people when they need something
The first 2 are understandable cause some people don't like small talk and people will always act differently around others like if they have a crush on them
One of my classmates is like that.When she is with teacher she acts really nice but when she is with a part of out classmates she is so mean and I know she talks behind all of the classes back.And she wold always text me when she needed help with the homework but when I needed she didn't help me so I blocked her.
I wish I could have been aware of this earlier. So silly of me to think people have good intentions just because I do... I had to learn this lesson on my own skin mad it hurt. Not to mention the 7 most common manipulation techniques these people use. It's like: ✔️ ✔️...✔️, not even one with ✖️ It's disappointing... People need more such tips and warning signs, so thank you very much and keep up the great work!
Thanks! You helped me spot my fake friend! I thought he was for a while but you helped me prove it! Thanks a lot Josh. And you just earned another follower lol
Don't forget there are people who suffer from social anxiety. And some who are antisocial, asocial, or introverted. So someone who may call only when they need something doesn't necessarily mean that person is being fake nice.
As far as the first one I'm the exact opposite, I hate people who have power. If you persevere yourself to be above me, I look down on you and make you feel like shit. If you are on my level or below, I try to uplift you and befriend you.
I have been best friends with a girl for over 3 years. And today I am realising how I have been used by her. She actually talks bad about me to my other best friends and says that i touch her uncomfortably (lies) and tells them multiple lies. She broke my friendship with a very good friend of mine two weeks ago
1 may be they have been humiliated bcoz of their weakness and thata why they prefer power more. 2 may be they never wanted to disturb you as they care about about your time. 3 may be they have never been get treated well by such other people but just bcoz they never able to stood for themselves they talk and release their anger. You never know what someone is going through so its gonna be so bad to judge quickly
This is basically what happens to my Ex Friend. But it's her own fault, we all might like her if she wasnt so selfish! She only cares about herself, when we were friends she manipulated me extremely and I didn't even notice. She managed to force me to stay with her, It was hard for me to break the friendship. She wanted me to do her Hobbies, and whenever I said no she still tried, and that for 2 Years! When I broke the Friendship, I found new friends, her ex best Friend is now my Friend/best Friend. I've come to be more close to the rest of my Class. And now I see how much she actually manipulative she is, and she still tries it.
Woah, this really sucks, I'm sorry you had to through that! Its great you were able to leave the friendship, I know a lot of people who wouldn't be able to do that. Hope you are doing better now
Woah, this really sucks, I'm sorry you had to through that! Its great you were able to leave the friendship, I know a lot of people who wouldn't be able to do that. Hope you are doing better now
2nd one isn't necessarily due to any bad intention. It's just that some people think that calling or messaging without a proper reason is bothersome to them
Another thing, when they realize they are losing your interest they become very manipulative. I know because I've experienced it quite a few times, one being recent actually-
I never really trusted my "best friend" because our "friendship" began because we both didn't like someone that much but after a while I thought that guy I hate became somebody that I didn't hate, but the "best friend" still didn't like him. And the reason why I don't hate the guy anymore is probably because the "best friend" became extremely f**king annoying and throws my free time in my house away. I'm thinking about giving him the news before holiday.
Well i'm the one who call my friend when I need or have something important to talk (like calling em to come online on the games XD) . I don't like ppl uselessly calling me cuz it's just waste of time..
Yeah I have the same question. If you dont need anything, why would you call them? Is that to annoy someone huh, I hate getting called randomly so I only call them when needed- This video probably judge a book by it cover just for views
No.2 always get me in my mind whenever I try to contact my old friends for something. I’m bad at socializing and I don’t usually talk to friends (unless you go out with them or something is up). So when I try to contact them for something, I think myself did I do it only because I want smth? Sometimes people do behaviors not because they’re bad but because for some people, it’s usual for them. For me I’m not the type who’s so open and talk things about me online.
Ok, I will sometimes act quite differently around teachers because of how they treat you. It’s a different relationship compared to friends, unless that teacher has created a good relationship of learning and mentorship. Around my boss however, I will act different again because they are a really nice person but again, that’s a different relationship. I’ve also noticed a lot of people (incl myself sometimes) are scared they are too clingy or too annoying to their friends so they don’t contact them outside of necessity.
I love women. People who fancy evil people are evil. People who fancy bullies are supporting evil. People who want the evil people to win are supporting evil people. It is warped, twisted, nasty, narcissistic, cowardly, creepy selfish, cruel and evil to fancy evil people. Evil is not attractive to good people. Niceness and goodness are the most important qualities in personality.
Also, I think people tend to act the way others they are around would act. Obviously most people are a little less likely to pick up the habits of others, but some do it all the time. I make it a point to try not to judge people and shit like that, but even after coming to that conclusion, my parents started having some family problems and I'd noticed they'd ended up talking bad about others more often, and eventually I started doing the same. It doesn't really say what I actually think about them, it's more like small things that I likely forget about later. Idk, just a small bit of info I picked up.
Hey Josh, finding these people arround me is rather easy, but I really struggle to deal with them, like this one guy constantly is shitting on people behind their back, but I cant avoid convesations with him without looking like a douchbag
wow this perfectly describes someone i used to be friends with. over tikw i realised he was a bad person and he became vwry aggressive and exibited these including spreading false rumors about me online behind my back after i stopped submitting to him and his manipulation over others including my friends
Everyone talks. It's a way of venting, but sometimes we need to learn when to cut it off. I've been guilty of that, when you work around women it's kinda normal. It's not because we hate each other, we just might blurt out something the other person did that annoyed us or we found unfair. Still it's not always wise and there's a better way to handle things I get that.
I hate when she provokes me and only says sorry when she wants to play genshin with me and keeps competing with me. Then she's surprised when I leave her on delivered.
My younger self knew all this but still chose to ignore all of these red flags just to act like I had friends. Btw, some of these fake nice people changed
The last point is really annoying.. Because why do we all do this? Every person I interact with, if we know the same people. Its usually the center of our conversations. OTHER PEOPLE. And I wish it would stop, I wish I would stop too. Like learn how to tell that person I'm not interested in talking about others, can we talk about something else?? Because now I know they talk about me
I have a guy in our class who is hated by everyone and once he came to my table and punched and started fighting me and one punch and he got down and then he never messed with me😂😂😂
Many of my family members are manipulative, so because of that childhood of being around my parents acting like this to their friend I had sadly become this kind of person. I would like to change, though it is very hard for me since I am used to it.
I think I know one person still does this to me...if she with her friends or someone that she thought interesting than me....she would leave me alone...ignoring me and even pretend I did not exist......I just keep it in my heart...how sad I am... She must be a fake friend...The worst thing is.... it's still happening.....I miss my bff rn....
Ive known someone for 6 years, and they do all of the listed, but we are friends, and have been for all those 6 years. I forgive him, if he makes a mistake. Afterall, he is dyslexic, and is quite stressed alot, and I forgive and forget. But I do try stop him from being mean to others.
I have explanations for the first two. for me though. 1. i act different to everyone, people pleaser. Idk who i actually am ngl 2. if i do this its either i dont wanna disturb you or youre just not that close to me. Maybe for a note on class? does that count?? 3. i dont do number 3
Is it me or im like on another level of fakeness😂. It’s like im into the nice character of a fake person like if I shttalk about my friends to somebody else I also give a fake positive point with 3 negative points lmao
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The awkward moment when you realise he didn’t do that iconic laugh
the awkward moment when you realize laughing probably wont be the most ideal thing to put in this type of video (fake friends)
Erwin??? What are you doing here. SACRIFICE THE YOUNG!!
He doesn't do the laugh when it's inappropriate or serious
Sinzou wo Sasageyo
@@kamran_aziz_69 yes
If people gossip with you, they'll gossip about you.
This is very true! This goes on really bad at work. The one that is easy to spill everyone’s else’s stuff and talk about someone, is the one that will talk about you as well. Those kind of people are usually miserable.
Ah yes, let's learn this just in case if I have friends in the future
Ayo I can be you friend :')
Same. This comment made me happy😄. Cause all these days I thought I was the only one who don’t have any friend. (not saying *Friends* cause I don’t even have one.) 🙂😓
@@yashiroyugi get online friends or just chat in discord
That's me lol this comment is *SOOOOOOO* accurate!
guys if you play any computer games find some ppl to play with and youll notice they are your friends now, or if you dont like them find other people to play with :D
Are you ok Josh Otusanya, you haven’t laughed.
Wait that was smooth by the way???
@@gamerkiler7360 explain yourself
@@KARMlCd3bt everybody realise 1 video of josh didn't laugh
This makes the comments flooded and might make the video more recomended
@@matthebee so how did you know?
@@basilplushie2534 i follow josh otusanya mwhheehhe
I talk less with my friends but that's only because I'm an introvert and shy , or else they admit I'm a really helpful friend
Hehe, same by now you prolly got over it!
Extroverts always think we hate them even though we just think inwardly. And then they feel exploited when we ask a favor without realizing we would do pretty much anything for them except be more extroverted.
I know so many of these people: acting super nice around powerful people and switching it up when it comes to people who aren't as important.
Kinda awkward when you realize you do those things
It's kinda awkward when you think you do it all the time, but you actually don't do it.
It's time to stop being fake. Have some self respect for once in your life.
@@ibrahimwesam2727 the first step to improving is to understand that it's a problem
Try to slowly change your ways :) You’ll find soon enough that more people will be nice to you and/or respect you as a person. Unless you know, you are introverted, antisocial, or just don’t like being with people then ig you don’t really need to change lol. (idk)
everyone does it to some degree
I was such a doormat I wish I could slap my old self for believing everything
SAME
And for me it was my closest cousin, I love her so much it just hurts to think all those years she's always been a selfish person
It is not you. It is them
Same I never stand up for myself and when I do, I’m doing too much. I’d feel bad if I stoped being their friend tho, lol help.
"When you not around, their probably talking about you"
Guess i have to stay with them 24/7
Lol 🤣, good luck with that 😂😂😂
Whether you talk or not if you have that connect never shy away asking for any help from a friend. We all are busy hustling in our lives in our own way, be there when someone needs you instead of asking why they didn't call you earlier
This is exactly my “best friend”
I’m sorry I hope you find someone better
Thank you ☺️
Fucking sameee
Same 100
same man my best friend forgets me after 2 days
Seeing the end of the video Josh doesn't laugh:
*THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE, BY THE GODS*
Basically me huh, but i didn't talk bad about anyone. i admit it that sometimes i was just faking my kindness but in my defense i just really don't want any trouble with anyone.
The funny thing is that I haven’t really gotten to talk to people in person or have friends
At least better than having those fake nice friends, I had a whole gang of them and now that I moved away from there, I got real friends for life and realised how messed up the way my "friends" treated me was.
I've never liked to treat other people with low power disrespectfully. Everyone must be treated equally with respect.
Some people don't even realize they're doing this. It's sad.
I talk shit about people quite often
Okay so my best friend that has been my friend for 10 years does this. Whole the time. Ever since I know her-
in sorry man
Same😭😭
it doesn't necessarily mean shes a fake nice person 100% but it is concerning... you shoud probably make new friends
Same here!!!!!!!!!
we all in some way do it, we’re just not aware of it until it affects us.
a guy called reed in my class does this, he talks nice around the more popular ones and trash-talks me, he even left me to clean a bathroom once but i was like f this s im out
Actually I have a reason to be like this in a way. One I am not rude to people who don’t have power per say but if they’re beneath me I know my place and they should know there’s(this due to them being rude to me). The only reason I do this is because I don’t have many good friends to which I always ask for assignments or homework when needed. Besides that they’re the friends you don’t talk to out of school. Gossip is quite normal, of course I talk about how disrespectful everyone is. So being fake nice and happy has become a natural reaction. Yes, if this is a recurring thing with no reasoning such as also disrespect peers, then yes that’s when you definitely should be concerned.
Gossip is NOT normal, and why do you think of people as beneath you? Wow dude, you have some self reflecting to do. I also do, but I dont think of people as "beneath me" or gossip. Thats wasting energy bro
@@morpheus_9 wait, gossiping isnt normal? I mean talking about others is a form of socializing right
@@spacecat942 yes
my mum
1.good attitude towards ppl hv power（good grades）
2.only contact me when she wants me to help buy her stuff cuz shes lazy
3.talk abt some other people bad with me
4.behind my back my mom tell everyone how bad my grades is
"Ah yes the floor here is made of floor"
what?
these are not always clear
@@Aethelhadas A lot of them are
@@A_Yk. For you
A genuine person wouldn't be disturbed by fake people.💯
This is exactly what my cousin sister does(nice with people who have power and also she is always bitching about her friends and how they irritate her), and by watching ur vids I got to know that she is also jealous of me cause ahe is always nice with me in person and she always try to show me down in a grp of people and she never appreciates me about anything that I do, I just thought that she wanted me to do better and she doesn't know how to motivate me that's why her attitude is like her but no no, she don't like me 🥲 and I really trusted her well before
What is a cousin sister?
@@jurassicjack3320 sister of a cousin
@@ididsomeunspeakablethingsa4899 Isn't that still just a cousin?
@@jurassicjack3320 A female cousin
I always fear being a fake.. and so this video gave me some confidence. Because, when around people of power, I certainly act with more respect for their position than I do my close friends, but I avoid acting any different then.
And I hate gossip. I avoid spreading it as much as I can.
When you realize this defines your best friend 😵💫😭
These videos are always things I already know but it’s nice to hear someone else talk about it.
*they only contact you when they need something*
Yeah that's my life.
Sometimes I am lonely asf and sometimes I am surrounded by people when they need something
I will die of joy and happiness when I see a notification of a new subscriber my mom and I said we would celebrate when I receive 15 thousand!
Maturity is when you realize,
*YOU DO THIS* 😑
wait so it's normal or ok to do this??
No i dont do this but if you do it not cool man
@@kntrishdekanoidze1382 I don't really do it but almost every adult around me do it
The first 2 are understandable cause some people don't like small talk and people will always act differently around others like if they have a crush on them
i do the personality witch up with my s/o cause don't i want to seem mean :')
I do 2 and 3 but I am super nice to everyone...
90% of my neighbors have done this in the 6 years I've known them
Huh say less all of my relatives and neighbours and friends have done same thing to me
One of my classmates is like that.When she is with teacher she acts really nice but when she is with a part of out classmates she is so mean and I know she talks behind all of the classes back.And she wold always text me when she needed help with the homework but when I needed she didn't help me so I blocked her.
Damnn i didn't know im one of them
👀👀
@@JoshuaOtusanya Oh my god you notice me ,best day of my life😭
I wish I could have been aware of this earlier. So silly of me to think people have good intentions just because I do...
I had to learn this lesson on my own skin mad it hurt. Not to mention the 7 most common manipulation techniques these people use.
It's like: ✔️ ✔️...✔️, not even one with ✖️
It's disappointing...
People need more such tips and warning signs, so thank you very much and keep up the great work!
Josh will always be real
Facts!
Thanks! You helped me spot my fake friend! I thought he was for a while but you helped me prove it! Thanks a lot Josh. And you just earned another follower lol
I do all of these! Wow!
me too！
Don't forget there are people who suffer from social anxiety. And some who are antisocial, asocial, or introverted. So someone who may call only when they need something doesn't necessarily mean that person is being fake nice.
Thanks for telling me about my dad's family.
These videos are an eye opener.
That is me, I want to be super toxic but I want to be nice at the same time
As far as the first one I'm the exact opposite, I hate people who have power. If you persevere yourself to be above me, I look down on you and make you feel like shit. If you are on my level or below, I try to uplift you and befriend you.
I literally am wearing the same chain as you are!
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THIS 👆🏻 right here is the nail on the head for TOXIC people not just FAKES & SNAKES (just saying) 🙌🏻🔥👍🏻
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Oh no you didn't! You did NOT just leave out the iconic laugh.
He perfectly described a politician.
This is just everybody I’ve encountered online and in real life aside from myself.
I have been best friends with a girl for over 3 years. And today I am realising how I have been used by her. She actually talks bad about me to my other best friends and says that i touch her uncomfortably (lies) and tells them multiple lies. She broke my friendship with a very good friend of mine two weeks ago
Im a fake nice person.
1 may be they have been humiliated bcoz of their weakness and thata why they prefer power more.
2 may be they never wanted to disturb you as they care about about your time.
3 may be they have never been get treated well by such other people but just bcoz they never able to stood for themselves they talk and release their anger.
You never know what someone is going through so its gonna be so bad to judge quickly
This is basically what happens to my Ex Friend. But it's her own fault, we all might like her if she wasnt so selfish! She only cares about herself, when we were friends she manipulated me extremely and I didn't even notice. She managed to force me to stay with her, It was hard for me to break the friendship. She wanted me to do her Hobbies, and whenever I said no she still tried, and that for 2 Years! When I broke the Friendship, I found new friends, her ex best Friend is now my Friend/best Friend. I've come to be more close to the rest of my Class. And now I see how much she actually manipulative she is, and she still tries it.
Woah, this really sucks, I'm sorry you had to through that! Its great you were able to leave the friendship, I know a lot of people who wouldn't be able to do that. Hope you are doing better now
Woah, this really sucks, I'm sorry you had to through that! Its great you were able to leave the friendship, I know a lot of people who wouldn't be able to do that. Hope you are doing better now
2nd one isn't necessarily due to any bad intention. It's just that some people think that calling or messaging without a proper reason is bothersome to them
now I’ve realized that the people that I work and talk all day are like this
Another thing, when they realize they are losing your interest they become very manipulative. I know because I've experienced it quite a few times, one being recent actually-
Any advice for who has a friend like this because I do 😔
Did you just describe my mom?
I never really trusted my "best friend" because our "friendship" began because we both didn't like someone that much but after a while I thought that guy I hate became somebody that I didn't hate, but the "best friend" still didn't like him. And the reason why I don't hate the guy anymore is probably because the "best friend" became extremely f**king annoying and throws my free time in my house away.
I'm thinking about giving him the news before holiday.
This is really going towards the work environment. Trust no one who talks about about others. That same jokester will talk bad about you as well.
Feel like I'm famous but not selling records the amount of people gossip bout My ass
Well i'm the one who call my friend when I need or have something important to talk (like calling em to come online on the games XD) . I don't like ppl uselessly calling me cuz it's just waste of time..
Yeah I have the same question.
If you dont need anything, why would you call them? Is that to annoy someone huh, I hate getting called randomly so I only call them when needed-
This video probably judge a book by it cover just for views
@@Lilia·Liuu yeh
Im bullied at work, bc coworkers think im a fake nice person, but in reality im just a traumatized push over. And i hate myself. For it
As a fake nice person I confirm that's 💯 % true
When you are the smartest person in class: NuMbEr 2 AbUsE
You just described my aunt,uncle, grandparents, and cousins
For the last sign that you pointed out , i think you should be more careful in how you act in front of your friends!
When you realise everyone around you is a fake nice person....
No.2 always get me in my mind whenever I try to contact my old friends for something. I’m bad at socializing and I don’t usually talk to friends (unless you go out with them or something is up). So when I try to contact them for something, I think myself did I do it only because I want smth? Sometimes people do behaviors not because they’re bad but because for some people, it’s usual for them. For me I’m not the type who’s so open and talk things about me online.
I rather have a person that admit they don't like me than a fake friend
Ok, I will sometimes act quite differently around teachers because of how they treat you. It’s a different relationship compared to friends, unless that teacher has created a good relationship of learning and mentorship. Around my boss however, I will act different again because they are a really nice person but again, that’s a different relationship. I’ve also noticed a lot of people (incl myself sometimes) are scared they are too clingy or too annoying to their friends so they don’t contact them outside of necessity.
Man actually teaching me how to life
I love women.
People who fancy evil people are evil.
People who fancy bullies are supporting evil.
People who want the evil people to win are supporting evil people.
It is warped, twisted, nasty, narcissistic, cowardly, creepy selfish, cruel and evil to fancy evil people.
Evil is not attractive to good people.
Niceness and goodness are the most important qualities in personality.
He is giving definition of my friend 😂😂
Yep but I knew he was a fake nice person long ago
I had a close friend who was exactly as you described, I got so disturbed that I moved away from her.
Also, I think people tend to act the way others they are around would act. Obviously most people are a little less likely to pick up the habits of others, but some do it all the time. I make it a point to try not to judge people and shit like that, but even after coming to that conclusion, my parents started having some family problems and I'd noticed they'd ended up talking bad about others more often, and eventually I started doing the same. It doesn't really say what I actually think about them, it's more like small things that I likely forget about later.
Idk, just a small bit of info I picked up.
Hey Josh, finding these people arround me is rather easy, but I really struggle to deal with them, like this one guy constantly is shitting on people behind their back, but I cant avoid convesations with him without looking like a douchbag
wow this perfectly describes someone i used to be friends with. over tikw i realised he was a bad person and he became vwry aggressive and exibited these including spreading false rumors about me online behind my back after i stopped submitting to him and his manipulation over others including my friends
Everyone talks. It's a way of venting, but sometimes we need to learn when to cut it off. I've been guilty of that, when you work around women it's kinda normal. It's not because we hate each other, we just might blurt out something the other person did that annoyed us or we found unfair. Still it's not always wise and there's a better way to handle things I get that.
This is why I doubt myself whenever someone says I'm a "nice person"
I hate when she provokes me and only says sorry when she wants to play genshin with me and keeps competing with me. Then she's surprised when I leave her on delivered.
My younger self knew all this but still chose to ignore all of these red flags just to act like I had friends.
Btw, some of these fake nice people changed
when you realize that in your whole friend circle, there's only 1 not fake person
just found out one of my really good friends is toxic so i am in a great mood
When you realize you do this 😳
Dude, my "friend" always ask me for stuff💀💀💀
I must be a super fake nice person, I'm a fake nice person, but I evade getting caught at all costs, so none of these things apply to me
YUP I KNOW SOMEONE WHO'S LIKE THIS
The last point is really annoying.. Because why do we all do this? Every person I interact with, if we know the same people. Its usually the center of our conversations. OTHER PEOPLE. And I wish it would stop, I wish I would stop too. Like learn how to tell that person I'm not interested in talking about others, can we talk about something else?? Because now I know they talk about me
I have a guy in our class who is hated by everyone and once he came to my table and punched and started fighting me and one punch and he got down and then he never messed with me😂😂😂
Many of my family members are manipulative, so because of that childhood of being around my parents acting like this to their friend I had sadly become this kind of person. I would like to change, though it is very hard for me since I am used to it.
I can actually relate first two points,A friend of mine did same things to me .
I think I know one person still does this to me...if she with her friends or someone that she thought interesting than me....she would leave me alone...ignoring me and even pretend I did not exist......I just keep it in my heart...how sad I am... She must be a fake friend...The worst thing is.... it's still happening.....I miss my bff rn....
Ive known someone for 6 years, and they do all of the listed, but we are friends, and have been for all those 6 years. I forgive him, if he makes a mistake. Afterall, he is dyslexic, and is quite stressed alot, and I forgive and forget. But I do try stop him from being mean to others.
I have explanations for the first two. for me though.
1. i act different to everyone, people pleaser. Idk who i actually am ngl
2. if i do this its either i dont wanna disturb you or youre just not that close to me. Maybe for a note on class? does that count??
3. i dont do number 3
Is it me or im like on another level of fakeness😂. It’s like im into the nice character of a fake person like if I shttalk about my friends to somebody else I also give a fake positive point with 3 negative points lmao
The only bad thing i've said behind someones back was the fact they have no manners and that they think they are multi-billionaires
I'm nice because it hurts my heart when I see someone frowning because of me
Talking bad about others behind their back
My whole family and friends group: