Male Centered Women Are The Worst Type Of Friends | How To Sustain Platonic Sisterhood

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
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    My Man, My Man" Mindset Are The Worst Friends Ever!🫢
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Комментарии • 118

  • @BoredReal
    @BoredReal 6 месяцев назад +47

    We women must protect Tera Chantelle at all costs. We value your message. All young women need this message before it’s too late

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  6 месяцев назад +2

      Appreciate you so much love❤️

    • @AWholeVibe96
      @AWholeVibe96 6 месяцев назад

      This!!!!!!

    • @Hammerhead137
      @Hammerhead137 5 месяцев назад

      ​​@@TeraChantelle So basically you're just another feminist.

  • @bidah007
    @bidah007 6 месяцев назад +18

    I had a friend that I known since the seven grade. EVERYTIME she had a boyfriend she ghost me and another friend but when she’s single she comes back. Last year , she send me a text message after 7 years of absence. I didn’t respond it’s OVER for me.

    • @AWholeVibe96
      @AWholeVibe96 6 месяцев назад

      Leave her wishy washy ass where she’s at!! Ain’t nobody got time for that mess

    • @Yespls888
      @Yespls888 6 месяцев назад +1

      Wow that's crazy...7 years. That's taking a friend for granted to the next level. Glad you moved on

  • @aryan313
    @aryan313 6 месяцев назад +30

    Its true i had a homegirl who was very much like this i left her back in the year 2019 to deal with that mindest and energy. She was to man crazy it was sad.

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  6 месяцев назад +3

      That is so sad😢

    • @aryan313
      @aryan313 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@TeraChantelle and so it is!

  • @chitlinjuice
    @chitlinjuice 6 месяцев назад +58

    Those type of women are unfortunately mentally, emotionally, and sometimes physically dangerous to be around. I broke a friendship off like that last year. They'll either fight you over a man, argue with you about a man, or cry and complain to you about a man... That's usually how most male centered women's friendships are. I usually like talking about aliens, conspiracy theories, socioeconomic issues, God, and life. I literally have 1 friend I can do that with.

    • @franchesskaw36
      @franchesskaw36 6 месяцев назад +1

      💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @chelleshell2638
      @chelleshell2638 6 месяцев назад +3

      Facts! I had to distance myself from from a long ex friend that was like that. It was draining.

    • @sickofit5547
      @sickofit5547 6 месяцев назад +4

      I can’t find any woman to talk to about that. It’s hard out here. I force myself to talk about celebs because that’s all they can do.

    • @Nekole1
      @Nekole1 6 месяцев назад

      Whew, so true ❗️❗️❗️❗️

    • @AWholeVibe96
      @AWholeVibe96 6 месяцев назад +4

      SO SPOT ON!!! OMG It took me years to realize that one of the reasons I couldn’t keep female friends was because they always wanted a male in their life. Then, they would be jealous of me and try to check me about their dusty ass boyfriends😂.

  • @TrishaKnight
    @TrishaKnight 6 месяцев назад +33

    Tera can you start a group for us women who stick together & don't center our lives around men ❤️

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  6 месяцев назад +13

      I was just about to start a celibacy group on Facebook & a discord chat. What do you think about that?🤩

    • @TrishaKnight
      @TrishaKnight 6 месяцев назад +4

      @TeraChantelle Yes anywhere you'd like :) A paid group ( but still affordable) would be great, to weed out the weeds :)

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  6 месяцев назад +2

      @@TrishaKnightappreciate you❤

    • @misslolmomo
      @misslolmomo 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@TeraChantelleyes plz 🥰

    • @Yespls888
      @Yespls888 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@TeraChantelle Chile I'm married but I'll join! 😂 I honestly gave up on friendships sad to say...and you hit the nail on the head with so much of this.
      It can get even worse as you get older unfortunately smh

  • @timescale9326
    @timescale9326 6 месяцев назад +20

    I do not be around those type of women at all

  • @TempleCleanerSisterNacresha
    @TempleCleanerSisterNacresha 6 месяцев назад +20

    Shalom
    Self centered women are the worst to be friends with.
    Thank you for sharing 🌸

  • @abundantambiance991
    @abundantambiance991 6 месяцев назад +16

    Shout out to us women who are focused on MY Peace My Peace while getting our money our money being in abundant purpose & alignment.Yes Tera, this is the abundant sisterhood community tribe on all levels.

  • @Monique-j6j
    @Monique-j6j 6 месяцев назад +9

    Excellent commentary! The "I need a man" women are some of the worst as well, because it creates a desperate, Pick Me mindset. I don't think there is anything wrong with having a healthy, normal desire for the opposite sex, but the type of women you describe in your video are beyond needy and desperate. My women friends will always be my rock, with or without a man.

  • @Rosie82333
    @Rosie82333 6 месяцев назад +7

    My roommate & best friend of 10 years threw our friendship away after knowing a dude for a few months…. One day I caught him in her room with another one of our friends that was MARRIED. When I tried to tell her she let him get in my face and yell at me and then I got told I was “jealous because I don’t have a man”….. like wtf? I eventually got pushed out of the house and he pretty much took over. It was one of the most heartbreaking experiences of my life. I do know that he dumped her after a few years because she wanted kids and he didn’t. He used her and then married someone else who is probably getting cheated on.

    • @batriciaparker
      @batriciaparker 6 месяцев назад +1

      Damn

    • @SweetSkies478
      @SweetSkies478 5 месяцев назад +1

      People like that are absolutely pathetic. No self-esteem nor self-confidence

  • @lovechildheart6905
    @lovechildheart6905 6 месяцев назад +16

    True! I've been celibate for 15 years, it's hard. I'm an aquarius so I'm not a relationship person. 😂
    Anyways love the conversation❤

    • @tyheildes6210
      @tyheildes6210 6 месяцев назад +2

      You’re in the sisterhood! ✨ 💗 🤗 🫂 💕 😊💞❤️‍🔥

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 6 месяцев назад +17

    Girl. I met a 25 yr old woman who I became acquainted with quite quickly. I met her man (40) and immediately she stopped talking to me. It was the weirdest shi ever. No explanation but I figured it out. Lol they always say “he’s a good guy” just good enough compared to the rest of them 😂

    • @AWholeVibe96
      @AWholeVibe96 6 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂 never thought of it like that

  • @leebeyou992
    @leebeyou992 6 месяцев назад +8

    I do believe when a woman looses her autonomy as a human being that it’s a death of her true self! We should all be able to be free within a healthy relationships whether it’s family, friends or work related! What’s happening in society is an atrocity and difficult to bear! 😢

  • @antinatalistwitch111
    @antinatalistwitch111 6 месяцев назад +8

    U are NOT lying. They are the worst. Yuck 🤮

  • @Yespls888
    @Yespls888 6 месяцев назад +2

    I'm probably one of your older watchers, early 40s AND married but I agree 💯...so many women lose their MINDS behind men, it's crazy to.watch honestly.
    Real friendship with non male centered women should be cherished.

  • @68re852
    @68re852 6 месяцев назад +1

    Many years ago, I had a friend I had known since high school. She was like a sister to me. She had a horrible upbringing. Her mother taught her to have a toxic mindset about men and life. She was brainwashed into thinking that she had to have a man to be complete and happy. She had one boyfriend that was no good for her. I tried to warn her but instead, she turned on me. That was 39 years ago. It was the worst thing I ever went through but it was my greatest lesson in life.

  • @lalalalalala9333
    @lalalalalala9333 6 месяцев назад +3

    Through the hardest times of my life, who got me through are my wonderful friends who love me so much. During the times that I struggled a man only worsened the problem or was the cause of the problem itself. I want to repay my friends for helping me heal❤

  • @misslolmomo
    @misslolmomo 6 месяцев назад +4

    This applies to lesbians and bisexuals too, not just men 😊

    • @harrymuhammad9835
      @harrymuhammad9835 6 месяцев назад +1

      Now it's so quiet that you can hear a rat piss on cotton.

    • @InnerPower4me
      @InnerPower4me 3 месяца назад

      Yea l just posted this!!

  • @daynacurtis
    @daynacurtis 5 месяцев назад +1

    Unfortunately I had to experience this with a cousin who I thought was my friend. I’ve seen it happen with other women in my family but never thought it could happen within a my friend group. But the signs were there. Long story short my cousin haven’t spoken to me in 6 months and vice versa all because of a dude. So I had to take a hard look at how I view men and see how high I put them on a pedestal. I’ve been celibate before but I never said I wasn’t going to date again until now. Now this is only a wk in but I’m feeling good about it.

  • @kmoyao50
    @kmoyao50 6 месяцев назад +4

    Tera with the Golden mic, aight!
    A true win, is mastering your lower nature.

  • @Pressplayandrelax
    @Pressplayandrelax 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m glad you spoke on this topic much love to you 💜

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  6 месяцев назад +2

      Appreciate you so much❤️

  • @williemolet3135
    @williemolet3135 6 месяцев назад +3

    Dickmatism is too real 😮 30 and no kids ❤

  • @leebeyou992
    @leebeyou992 6 месяцев назад +5

    Actually HEALTHY relationships promote balance as well as allow growth! But unfortunately people aren’t healthy! I’ve always valued my female relationships but these women you talking about are definitely low vibrational and lack love within themselves!

  • @annmarieknapp
    @annmarieknapp 6 месяцев назад +2

    I keep a distance from women who align themselves with powerful men.

  • @loriparks8657
    @loriparks8657 6 месяцев назад +2

    Single females if you want to stay single and don't want to get married it's not mandatory to do so along with being child-free that's your choice that's your preference you're making your own life decisions . Don't let anyone else change your mind change your direction about living your own life the way that you want to live it not by what others want you to do if you do that you will be allowing yourself to have others telling you what to do for the rest of your life .

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE 6 месяцев назад +3

    A lot of gems in this video sis!

  • @nomessnostress
    @nomessnostress 5 месяцев назад

    I started centering men because I never did and thought I was weird compared to those around me... I seen the most beautiful smartest women be treated poorly and stay in the relationships.

  • @diaryofanafricanladyutanyo9656
    @diaryofanafricanladyutanyo9656 6 месяцев назад +3

    Tell monique😅😅😅

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for your viewpoint

  • @treyw.warchild8863
    @treyw.warchild8863 6 месяцев назад +1

    What was your last relationship like?

  • @QUISPEECH
    @QUISPEECH 6 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @Amber_sea989
    @Amber_sea989 6 месяцев назад +1

    Tera🩷🥂

  • @gradymorrrowjr37
    @gradymorrrowjr37 6 месяцев назад +7

    If you're in a relationship or marriage NO such thing as friends that's a lot of women downfall in a relationship or marriage can't have your cake and eat it to

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  6 месяцев назад +26

      Sounds like slavery 😂

    • @gradymorrrowjr37
      @gradymorrrowjr37 6 месяцев назад

      @@TeraChantelle Modern woman mindset 😂😂😂😂

    • @ShaeDaily
      @ShaeDaily 6 месяцев назад +10

      @@TeraChantelleThat’s wild. They don’t value community or people for that matter. Yikes!

    • @TeraChantelle
      @TeraChantelle  6 месяцев назад +17

      @@gradymorrrowjr37love being a modern woman 😈 I’m yo grandma wildest dream😚

    • @gradymorrrowjr37
      @gradymorrrowjr37 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@TeraChantelle First off my Grandmother been dead for over 30 years you'll NEVER be half the woman she was and that's FAX like the Machine 💯

  • @blue75313
    @blue75313 5 месяцев назад

    She sounds crazy

  • @JazzyReinaSpeaks
    @JazzyReinaSpeaks 6 месяцев назад +6

    Wow, just got into it with a male-centered (former) female friend today around the same hour this video was posted. She was saying that there are some good men out there, I said "I never said there wasn't any" 🙄
    The point is she's so dismissive and naive is sickening, I am allowed to share my opinion and experiences without them being invalidated.
    So yeah this video is spot on, they are the worst type of "friends"
    Who needs that? I'll detach so fast you won't know what hit ya! 🥷

    • @AWholeVibe96
      @AWholeVibe96 6 месяцев назад +3

      This!!! You just met this person and it already shows that she isn’t on your vibe. I’ve known the same chick for over 10 years and even she’s dismissive of my feelings. She’s in a dysfunctional marriage that she tries to make look good, and thinks I’m broken from my ONE ex.
      I just don’t want a relationship or sex anymore after experiencing what peace and freedom feels like. Simple!

    • @JazzyReinaSpeaks
      @JazzyReinaSpeaks 6 месяцев назад

      @@AWholeVibe96 💯🙌🏾

    • @daynacurtis
      @daynacurtis 5 месяцев назад

      Exactly.

  • @shellesbby
    @shellesbby 6 месяцев назад

    Why im watching Lauren Lake and tryna figure out who this fine woman in the audience is? And it's you. 🤎