I find it amazing how health is overlooked outside, Here in Brazil if you go to a doctor and he gives you a doctor's note stating what is the problem and how long you have to be off work its literally illegal to take any actions against the employees during that time
Story 1: Honestly, the aunt is just as bad as the uncle and cousins. She fully knew that op's mom had been giving her kids op's stuff, and didn't try to return it. She only started apologising and doing something about it when op caught them. Also, from the sound of it, she still did not return the stuff op's mom had given them
Story 1; while it is a certain level of wrong to go through some one's purse like that, the fact that your family were trying to commit *_felon level grand larceny_* completely wipes out the rude act of dumping out her purse. You are _not_ the jerk.
I woulda locked my stuff somewhere and beat the living devil out of he- Just kidding I wouldn’t do anything about the mom but I would lock the doors windows and any entree in my room
*Story 1:* That's insane! Why would anyone actually encourage others in the family to steal *your* belongings? If you have their stuff and they want it back, they should tell OP themselves, why would someone give permission to someone else to do it? That makes no sense.
My guess is they are in India where gold and clothes really make a difference in how one is treated they still have a lot of problems with cast system culture over there. Also wouldn't be surprised if the parents were an arranged marriage. Could explain the way the relatives shook out.
@@skittlemenow I fail to see why it should matter where in the world you live. Stealing from other people should never be condoned. Family or not, this is *not* acceptable.
@@jasoncarpp7742 Where in my comment did I say that stealing is okay? I was just making a guess as to their motives and the potential that it was a cultural issue. Nothing about that says or otherwise implies that stealing is okay.
Story 1: Okay id be furious if you tried to rob me of 12 cents, much less 12K. The uncle, the 2 kids and the OP's mom should all be shamed in the town square, and disowned by the rest of the family. The uncle is clearly a mooch and leech. He seems to love borrowing money, but not paying back. Also, what kind of parent just straight up lets someone steal something from her own child, claiming "they need it". That's just disgusting. Glad that the OP's dad is helping with a new apartment here. If i were the OP, id disown all guilty parties here. I honestly can't believe they would try and blame the OP for anything here. Story 2: After that one boss forced the OP to work after being assaulted, i would've walked out or sued... or both. That is just 100% unacceptable. Its always bad bosses that ruin it for pretty much everyone. I dont get why bosses will just work you into the ground, then get mad when you work OT. Thats just stupid. Hope the OP is doing better and hopefully this place shuts down because of how bad they treat people. Story 3: This didnt seem like a good relationship here. Both the OP and the 'bf' are both in the wrong here. The OP's comments werent really necessary, and his equal reaction was the same. If you mesh well as friends, great.... but i dont think those 2 are meant for each other. Story 4: That would be really irritating, especially if the OP is also on commission. If the OP was only on commission, i wouldn't be helping anyone like that, but if the OP was on hourly as well as commission... then keep talking, you paid to just stand there and talk. As for the 'You wont see me here again!" line, i can't see anyone at that place will miss that guy and all the money he doesn't spend.
Story 1: OP handled this genuinely well, if i were in the situation, i would have absolutely blown up and probably get arrested for assault charges if someone did that to me. Not a jerk.
That story about the casino trip, I think the girl might be leaving some stuff out that made the guy blow up, like she did this kind of stuff more than she was leading on and this was just the final straw.
Story 1: I’m assuming this is the OP mothers brother so she’s just letting him do whatever he wants, and since he’s an only child she may consider his kids like her children. Personally, I cannot stand it when people have 4 kids let alone 8 then struggle financially and ask for help or can’t get by, like wtf are you thinking by continuously getting your wife pregnant?
Story 1: It is not disrespectful to go through someone's bag, if they have $12,000 worth of *your* stuff in there as well. $12,000 of someone else's property is Felony Level Larceny.
Story 3: Both couples admit they are not in a relationship but the narrator talks about them like they are when they are not. Obviously the woman patched things up so she didn’t get stranded. She was basically a distraction for some guy and a headache who is post wall
Story 1: I don’t know if it’s an option but I would call the cops on this mother, because all that stuff the daughter got has got to be worth more than maybe $20,000+ I could be wrong, it’s not like the daughter is gonna go back to the store’s and rebuy them…..no and plus she could filed charges against her mother for this.
Story #2: Dude was forced to work 19 hours. I feel bad for him. He did not deserve any of that, especially since he was trying to move and put his stuff in a storage unit.
Story 1: *FILE EVERY THINGS THATS GONE MISSING!!!* contact a lawer if things go south as it already looks like it, If this is no the the firts time they stole something its not gonna be the last.
I got so tired of people wasting my time when I work for commission and that I straight-up told them "unfortunately my manager doesn't allow me to hangout, I do have to help other customers that are purchasing today" 😅 some people got angry but they had to deal with it
Story 1: Is Op's mom related to this uncle, i.e is he her brother (not brother-in law)? Because if he's her brother in law, her husband's brother, then there may be some hidden relationship between the two of them because I just can not fathom how someone can be so entitled to give permission for anyone, let alone family, to rob their child. I mean what the actual hell was she thinking? Op could have reported that to the police in which case, OP's mom would have been a legal accomplice for the robbing and would have also had a legal punishment, not as severe I don't think but still bad. Also the type of trust between a parent and child is one you can't replace, but you can very easily lose and OP's mom most definitely lost some of that trust.
Story 2 sounds like a easy lawsuit. Get given huge workloads, then get told off and given 5 hour days Then get punished for those 5 hour days. Retaliation was done and easily provable.
Story 1. Snatching the purse is what upset his mother. Man i would have e done a lot worse. Someone my mother knew tried to rob us we weren't well off and neither was he. When she caught him she grabbed a double barrel (empty but he wouldn't know) and chased him down the road. I wouldn't have gone that far but I would have done more.
First story tell the op to change locks bruh also tell them to go to their moms and uncles houses and take all of her/his things and leave block them and go zero contact with them
Story 3: red flags on both sides. Wait what? There is a reason to get mad though. She is *testing* the BF and that is bullsh*t. She tested him by the first question regarding his friends. She *wanted* a specific answer and got mad when he was honest with her. Then she got mad the second time when he referred to her as a female friend. Nah. This dude is just tired of the test and tbh if I was him I would leave her
the boyfriend got mad over something so small and op is mad about the fact that she's called a female friend like you can be careful around your friends.
@@viviennemorgan7217 well, looks like that's is not the first time that happens. that could`ve been the last Straw. my gut is telling me that something doesn't feel right about that case!
@@viviennemorgan7217 here is the thing. She did that to herself. OP asked her,”hey what I should I type” and she said,”type what you feel makes sense.” She was testing him. He asked for honest open communication on the label/text he should give and she gave essentially a non-answer with the hidden expectation he answered the way she wanted. That is toxic. One, it shows lack of communication skills. Two, it means she was testing him and tests are dumb. So yeah OP should just dip.
1st story- op mom is terrible i think she likes opes uncle more than her husband and her child (not romantic or maybe) she is horrible i would divorce her if i was her husband 2nd story- what kind of boss do that to their employee i would quit the job if they gave that much stress
Last story: Definitely not a jerk. Pretty sure they've already confirmed that they are NOT a customer and has already been given beyond the average courtesy a guest can expect. Not being a customer but expecting service anyway makes them the jerk instead.
Story one- gun safe instead of a floor safe, heavier to carry and harder to break into plus you can mod them with a little work to hold all the more expensive stuff such as your watches and chains (as well as other things) for when people come around you don’t trust so you don’t have to keep locking your door, I would also call out my mother and ask if she would accept them stealing from her
Last story: Yeah I work in a call center and I deal with this everyday. Spend 30 min on the phone talking about cell phones then they say "Thank you, I'll go into the store and pick up my phone"
Story 4: SO, me and my father have gone to a few stores to buy stuff, but taking even 4-5 min asking for stuff knowing we won't buy from them makes me very awkward. Imagine doing that for 30 mins straight and have the audacity to say "You won't see me again!" when confronted about it. Like seriously. What a jerk!!
Story 1: She literally can't replace stuff when they're from tournaments and stuff like that. Seriously that stuff is like one of a kind and they are irreplaceable. It's the uncle's fault for stopping cash assistance and thinking they're going to mooch off of family like literal leeches.
Tell your mom to get back everything she gave away, if she doesn't you will report the theft of your phone. Even if you don't want the things back it's still the point of principle. Your mom is going too far.
If you are in a in a state where you cannot work they can't force you to work and they cannot threaten to fire you that's unfair dismissal and you can sue over that
Okay, I can get shopping for a deal - take D&D5e books for instance - $50 in store, $35 on Amazon - but if I'm planning to buy it off of Amazon, I'm not going to enter the comic/game store to ask 20 questions about it over a period of 20 minutes.
@@JamesDavy2009 Yeah, I mean, after a while, it's like, "Buy a candy bar or something - and buy them one too." I mean, it's one thing if you and the clerk are on good terms, and you're just legit shooting the breeze, but when someone wants to buy something, step out of the way, especially if the clerk is working on commission.
Story 1: op, you’re not the jerk! You mom was wrong for allowing your cousins to steal from you. And just because they couldn’t afford them? That’s a stupid excuse. Your aunt did the right apologizing for what happened. Your mom is just incredibly toxic, and your father should’ve divorced her. What she and your uncle did was unforgivable. Just because they’re not well off. I know how it feels to have people borrow money from me only for them to ask for more. That was an unbearable situation to be in. I was forced to distance myself from them because I realized I’m better safe than sorry if I do. Your grandparents did the right thing cutting your uncle off. Never an easy decision.
Get your stuff back phone included, get a restraining order with jail if they trespass. Finally block them on everything and install cameras just in case.📸
I consider myself lucky in a way, my own mother showed me that ya can't trust anybody, not even your closest blood relatives. Not only that, i was in and out of foster care among other things. Thanks to my step dads influence, I'm quite a generous person to those I consider friends and family but thanks to my mother, if you fuck me off, I literally do not give a shit about you, I don't care about your sob stories, I don't care if you *really* need my help. I guarantee, I wouldn't feel any guilt in these situations, I would laugh, grab my shit, and tell them to fuck off
The first story: I can relate. It's not as bad as the OPs, but no one likes to be robbed or have their stuff given away without permission. I'm a comic book geek. I went to art school in the 80s in a different state. If you are around my age and like comics you may remember some of the trade paperbacks from the 70s. "Sons of Origins" , "Bring on the bad guys" , "the Origins of Marvel comics", etc. I had first issues of Luke Cage, Rom, Star Wars, and all that. I akso had this Flintstones light table thing. It was aliteral light table but made as a toy so you could trace premade pics of the cartoon characters. I had alight bulb moment during my freshman year that I could use that in my studies. (not to draw the flintstones, but in general). after all, I was going for Graphic Design. But when I came home for spring break I found that my grandmother had GIVEN MY STUFF AWAY to younger relatives. Notably, two younger cousins. I was pissed, but not "I'm going to explode" pissed. When my grandmother, who I loved dearly told me "It was just comic books and toys" I explained to her that they WERE MY THINGS. And the comic books? I paid for them MYSELF from money I earned delivering newspapers. I ended with asking how she would feel if she went away for awhile only to come back and find out that I'd given away things she owned. My grandmother was not a karen or an entitled person. She would do thing "for family" that I disagreed with, but she admitted that she should not have given my stuff away. So, there's no big heartburn there. But nowadays I won't let anyone touch my stuff. Whenever says "But its just *insert whatever it is* beware. I have a little action figure of Ultraman. It's just stuff. It's probably only worth a dollar. But it was given to me by guys I served with in Desert Storm. So it's not just stuff to me.
for the third story i feel like that the OP wasnt telling the whole story. i get bad vibes by them choosing and picking. i bet it wasnt JUST the trip. stuff before problably happened and hell problably more ON the trip. the way that woman acted seems like a manipulative pick and chose situation, the "little fights here and there" was her trying to get the guilt of "oh yeah i get mad over dumb things i dont explain and hes at the point where he hates my guts." off of her. The sign was the passive agressing its your phone do what you want is what made me thing that.
Story 2) No, the first red flag was being called in to work, over the weekend, when you were just out of the hospital. Then you just kept working and never took time to heal. You should have held your ground and said NO from the jump. I'm not sure but, you might have a labor law violation to report and/or sue over.
My daughter is an only child. She's always been very private so we wouldn't even enter her room unless she invited us in. We never allowed anyone into her personal space and if anyone did that to her I'd be kicking some ass. I wouldn't care about the girls property if they were hiding my kids stuff in there. Smh what am I missing here?
Ha, mom used to steal my toys and give them away. I'd hear her meet other parents and she'd say "My kids have a whole box of toys they never play with" and some of my stuff would be gone. The 3rd time I heard her say the usual, I said "I play with ALL my toys!!" And if a kid stole from me, she would feel bad for THEM because they were caught.
Now for story two. Who bought that stuff. You, your dad or your mom. If it is you or your dad then no reason to do it. But if your mom bought them, some things go down for that
S1. How old are you? And you have a lot more than 12000$ of stuff in your room? What is the relationship between your mother and your uncle? You should involve the law in this. Either your mother or/and some of this person will have some serious prison time (thief over 12000$). That will wake her up.
Story 4: "You're not getting MY business!" OP: "I never had your business in the first place! Time thief! It's cheaper for me if you DON'T come back! Take it up with Amazon. (the company, not the dominatrix you hire on Saturdays)
honestly the op in the first story should call the cops on their mom and uncle and their cousins possibly getting them arrested and the kids would probably be better off without them
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My mom was like that mom when I was a child, my grandma (her mom) was like that too. Their excuse where we have money and my cousings not and we didn't need so much .
Story 3 sounds like the girl is a big problem she probably doesn't realize that guys can't read minds and puts too much into little things. if it's not important enough to straight forward and blunt about it's not important enough to be pissed about
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I find it amazing how health is overlooked outside,
Here in Brazil if you go to a doctor and he gives you a doctor's note stating what is the problem and how long you have to be off work its literally illegal to take any actions against the employees during that time
Same in México. Here, we have free medical attention when one is working, as is mandatory to give it even if one works building a house.
It's the same here in the USA too. Not sure what happened with this story.
Story 1: Honestly, the aunt is just as bad as the uncle and cousins. She fully knew that op's mom had been giving her kids op's stuff, and didn't try to return it. She only started apologising and doing something about it when op caught them. Also, from the sound of it, she still did not return the stuff op's mom had given them
Y'know.. I have issues with my problems with my family but I'm glad I never had problems like this.
My only problem is chewing on legos
@@reindeerbuilder My question is: Do you still have teeth?
@@genericweeb6392 probaly abt 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001 teeth left
Story 1; while it is a certain level of wrong to go through some one's purse like that, the fact that your family were trying to commit *_felon level grand larceny_* completely wipes out the rude act of dumping out her purse. You are _not_ the jerk.
Agreed OP should get their dad to sue the mother in a federal court anything exceeding 5 grand is a matter for a federal court
Also, constantly stealing from your OWN SON. I’m pretty sure he can sue her for allowing and STEALING his things.
More personal that the purse is someone bedroom and that didn't stop them from stealing things from there
I woulda locked my stuff somewhere and beat the living devil out of he-
Just kidding I wouldn’t do anything about the mom but I would lock the doors windows and any entree in my room
*Story 1:* That's insane! Why would anyone actually encourage others in the family to steal *your* belongings? If you have their stuff and they want it back, they should tell OP themselves, why would someone give permission to someone else to do it? That makes no sense.
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My guess is they are in India where gold and clothes really make a difference in how one is treated they still have a lot of problems with cast system culture over there. Also wouldn't be surprised if the parents were an arranged marriage. Could explain the way the relatives shook out.
@@skittlemenow I fail to see why it should matter where in the world you live. Stealing from other people should never be condoned. Family or not, this is *not* acceptable.
@@jasoncarpp7742 Where in my comment did I say that stealing is okay? I was just making a guess as to their motives and the potential that it was a cultural issue. Nothing about that says or otherwise implies that stealing is okay.
I think the op wouldn't want to tear the family tree
Story 1: Why the HELL has the op not sent the video they recorded to the police yet? like why not???
Agreed. Best idea, honestly.
Because, I'm sure, they drilled into them that family is everything and that you're not supposed to be against family.
@@AngelusNielson Also true.
@@AngelusNielson I bet the op is torn between sending the video to the police and sticking with family honestly
If you have an @$$hole family, though, then by all means, let the police destroy them! 👊🏻💪🏻🔥
If you can, escape and start living your own life.
Wow...
Also, for the first story, I, sadly to say, would have probably lost my cr*p. Props to OP.
Pun unintended
Dude, "crap" isn't even a curse word
Sigma move by the op
@@DorkVaderYT Some people would have gotten mad at me for using a "cuss word". Better safe than sorry.
Story 1: the mom says it's wrong to go through a woman bag while letting the woman in question go through the ops room
Story 1: Okay id be furious if you tried to rob me of 12 cents, much less 12K. The uncle, the 2 kids and the OP's mom should all be shamed in the town square, and disowned by the rest of the family. The uncle is clearly a mooch and leech. He seems to love borrowing money, but not paying back. Also, what kind of parent just straight up lets someone steal something from her own child, claiming "they need it". That's just disgusting. Glad that the OP's dad is helping with a new apartment here. If i were the OP, id disown all guilty parties here. I honestly can't believe they would try and blame the OP for anything here.
Story 2: After that one boss forced the OP to work after being assaulted, i would've walked out or sued... or both. That is just 100% unacceptable. Its always bad bosses that ruin it for pretty much everyone. I dont get why bosses will just work you into the ground, then get mad when you work OT. Thats just stupid. Hope the OP is doing better and hopefully this place shuts down because of how bad they treat people.
Story 3: This didnt seem like a good relationship here. Both the OP and the 'bf' are both in the wrong here. The OP's comments werent really necessary, and his equal reaction was the same. If you mesh well as friends, great.... but i dont think those 2 are meant for each other.
Story 4: That would be really irritating, especially if the OP is also on commission. If the OP was only on commission, i wouldn't be helping anyone like that, but if the OP was on hourly as well as commission... then keep talking, you paid to just stand there and talk. As for the 'You wont see me here again!" line, i can't see anyone at that place will miss that guy and all the money he doesn't spend.
I'd have my mother arrested and I would also press charges and file a restraining order.
Story 3: OP was 'dating' a Chad. He had options while the OP thought they were in a relationship. Not how it works.
So you're saying that it's the guy's fault that she thought it was romantic?
Story 1: OP handled this genuinely well, if i were in the situation, i would have absolutely blown up and probably get arrested for assault charges if someone did that to me. Not a jerk.
Throw the whole family in jail!! Cut the toxic people out of your life. That is their issue for spitting out 8 kids
8? 👀 damn they really had fun in the be-
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story 2: you were not expendable, but treated like you were. Unless they pick up their game, the company will fold
That story about the casino trip, I think the girl might be leaving some stuff out that made the guy blow up, like she did this kind of stuff more than she was leading on and this was just the final straw.
Agreed
There is nothing ONLY about $12,000!
1st story feels like maybe the aunt has some sort of dirt on OP's mom that she's using to make her do this stuff
Stealing all that money over time…sounds to me like a drug issue or a gambling habit.
Story 1:If they rob you than you can give them a free home called jail LOL
Story 1: I’m assuming this is the OP mothers brother so she’s just letting him do whatever he wants, and since he’s an only child she may consider his kids like her children. Personally, I cannot stand it when people have 4 kids let alone 8 then struggle financially and ask for help or can’t get by, like wtf are you thinking by continuously getting your wife pregnant?
The guy in the first story should sue his mum, and call the police on the thieving relatives.
2:57... yeah i'll throw around some money... FOR A LAWYER
I’d have called the police on those family members who stole from the OP.
Story 1: It is not disrespectful to go through someone's bag, if they have $12,000 worth of *your* stuff in there as well. $12,000 of someone else's property is Felony Level Larceny.
Story 3: Both couples admit they are not in a relationship but the narrator talks about them like they are when they are not. Obviously the woman patched things up so she didn’t get stranded. She was basically a distraction for some guy and a headache who is post wall
i think the two older cousin are really ur mothers kids
thats why is supporting them so much its just the thought
Story 1: I don’t know if it’s an option but I would call the cops on this mother, because all that stuff the daughter got has got to be worth more than maybe $20,000+ I could be wrong, it’s not like the daughter is gonna go back to the store’s and rebuy them…..no and plus she could filed charges against her mother for this.
Story #2: Dude was forced to work 19 hours. I feel bad for him. He did not deserve any of that, especially since he was trying to move and put his stuff in a storage unit.
Story one : i think you should get the police involved stealing stuff? Call the police they will handel it out
"You won't see me here again!"
*me, playing the world's tiniest violin* "Oh no!"
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For some reason the 4th story sounds like the person is robbing the store with someone and he's the detraction so they can steal a lot of stuff
Story 1: *FILE EVERY THINGS THATS GONE MISSING!!!*
contact a lawer if things go south as it already looks like it,
If this is no the the firts time they stole something its not gonna be the last.
Story 3: HE SAID YOU'RE NOT HIS GF. What do u mean "What should I do?" Nothing he's not your BF and said "I can't take it anymore"
this mother is like hey rob op of everything in his room like are you serious?
but next time she does that threaten her about calling the police
If that was my mom stealing from me, she would be dead to me. My God!
I got so tired of people wasting my time when I work for commission and that I straight-up told them "unfortunately my manager doesn't allow me to hangout, I do have to help other customers that are purchasing today" 😅 some people got angry but they had to deal with it
Story 1 is too much it would be so hard not to lose it on your mom in that situation she didn't give them her things
Story 1: Is Op's mom related to this uncle, i.e is he her brother (not brother-in law)? Because if he's her brother in law, her husband's brother, then there may be some hidden relationship between the two of them because I just can not fathom how someone can be so entitled to give permission for anyone, let alone family, to rob their child. I mean what the actual hell was she thinking? Op could have reported that to the police in which case, OP's mom would have been a legal accomplice for the robbing and would have also had a legal punishment, not as severe I don't think but still bad. Also the type of trust between a parent and child is one you can't replace, but you can very easily lose and OP's mom most definitely lost some of that trust.
8:54 I honestly always applaud people who work even in pain that takes a lot of dedication
Story 2 sounds like a easy lawsuit.
Get given huge workloads, then get told off and given 5 hour days
Then get punished for those 5 hour days.
Retaliation was done and easily provable.
typical, when it comes to entitled people and criminals, they're not much different at all.
These videos inspire me
Me too, I should've been robbing my rich cousins all this time 😂
Story 1. Snatching the purse is what upset his mother. Man i would have e done a lot worse. Someone my mother knew tried to rob us we weren't well off and neither was he. When she caught him she grabbed a double barrel (empty but he wouldn't know) and chased him down the road. I wouldn't have gone that far but I would have done more.
First story tell the op to change locks bruh also tell them to go to their moms and uncles houses and take all of her/his things and leave block them and go zero contact with them
if I was the poster I would sue my mom or something bc that's just not ok
Story 1 I'd try and get my mom arrested because that some BS right there you don't just get to take things that aren't yours
Story 3: red flags on both sides. Wait what? There is a reason to get mad though. She is *testing* the BF and that is bullsh*t. She tested him by the first question regarding his friends. She *wanted* a specific answer and got mad when he was honest with her. Then she got mad the second time when he referred to her as a female friend. Nah. This dude is just tired of the test and tbh if I was him I would leave her
i seriously don't know.
the boyfriend got mad over something so small and op is mad about the fact that she's called a female friend like you can be careful around your friends.
@@viviennemorgan7217 well, looks like that's is not the first time that happens. that could`ve been the last Straw.
my gut is telling me that something doesn't feel right about that case!
@@hSonoh you're right about that.
@@viviennemorgan7217 here is the thing. She did that to herself. OP asked her,”hey what I should I type” and she said,”type what you feel makes sense.” She was testing him. He asked for honest open communication on the label/text he should give and she gave essentially a non-answer with the hidden expectation he answered the way she wanted.
That is toxic. One, it shows lack of communication skills. Two, it means she was testing him and tests are dumb.
So yeah OP should just dip.
1st story- op mom is terrible i think she likes opes uncle more than her husband and her child (not romantic or maybe) she is horrible i would divorce her if i was her husband
2nd story- what kind of boss do that to their employee i would quit the job if they gave that much stress
Working 19 hours per day? Surely there's a law against that much of a workload.
You know what this guy should do? Put the name of the game in the background in the description. I WANT TO PLAY THEM, THEY JUST LOOK SO FUN
Last story: Definitely not a jerk. Pretty sure they've already confirmed that they are NOT a customer and has already been given beyond the average courtesy a guest can expect. Not being a customer but expecting service anyway makes them the jerk instead.
Story 1: *press charges pleeeaaassseee*
Story one- gun safe instead of a floor safe, heavier to carry and harder to break into plus you can mod them with a little work to hold all the more expensive stuff such as your watches and chains (as well as other things) for when people come around you don’t trust so you don’t have to keep locking your door, I would also call out my mother and ask if she would accept them stealing from her
Person 2, I would have considered looking into filing claims for punishment for retaliation.
What a bad mom in story 1 like you just give your childs stuff away!!! LIKE WTF
Story one: you can sue or call the police on them
Last story: Yeah I work in a call center and I deal with this everyday. Spend 30 min on the phone talking about cell phones then they say "Thank you, I'll go into the store and pick up my phone"
Story 4: SO, me and my father have gone to a few stores to buy stuff, but taking even 4-5 min asking for stuff knowing we won't buy from them makes me very awkward. Imagine doing that for 30 mins straight and have the audacity to say "You won't see me again!" when confronted about it. Like seriously. What a jerk!!
Story 1: She literally can't replace stuff when they're from tournaments and stuff like that. Seriously that stuff is like one of a kind and they are irreplaceable. It's the uncle's fault for stopping cash assistance and thinking they're going to mooch off of family like literal leeches.
Tell your mom to get back everything she gave away, if she doesn't you will report the theft of your phone. Even if you don't want the things back it's still the point of principle. Your mom is going too far.
If you are in a in a state where you cannot work they can't force you to work and they cannot threaten to fire you that's unfair dismissal and you can sue over that
I would have told them that I was going to send this to the Cops! Husband should divorce mother.
I can not believe it has only been like two min and people have all ready started commenting 😂
Yea.
Okay, I can get shopping for a deal - take D&D5e books for instance - $50 in store, $35 on Amazon - but if I'm planning to buy it off of Amazon, I'm not going to enter the comic/game store to ask 20 questions about it over a period of 20 minutes.
Any person who shops around would just look at the item prices and compare them to those on the websites. No questioning the salesperson needed.
@@JamesDavy2009 Yeah, I mean, after a while, it's like, "Buy a candy bar or something - and buy them one too."
I mean, it's one thing if you and the clerk are on good terms, and you're just legit shooting the breeze, but when someone wants to buy something, step out of the way, especially if the clerk is working on commission.
why would they take his stuff for support 🤣🤣 like bruh don’t steal peoples things
Story 1: op, you’re not the jerk! You mom was wrong for allowing your cousins to steal from you. And just because they couldn’t afford them? That’s a stupid excuse. Your aunt did the right apologizing for what happened. Your mom is just incredibly toxic, and your father should’ve divorced her. What she and your uncle did was unforgivable. Just because they’re not well off. I know how it feels to have people borrow money from me only for them to ask for more. That was an unbearable situation to be in. I was forced to distance myself from them because I realized I’m better safe than sorry if I do. Your grandparents did the right thing cutting your uncle off. Never an easy decision.
Get your stuff back phone included, get a restraining order with jail if they trespass. Finally block them on everything and install cameras just in case.📸
I've definitely changed tires for people on the road before
Story 1:it's time to get the cops
He could sue his uncle
And Mom
I consider myself lucky in a way, my own mother showed me that ya can't trust anybody, not even your closest blood relatives. Not only that, i was in and out of foster care among other things.
Thanks to my step dads influence, I'm quite a generous person to those I consider friends and family but thanks to my mother, if you fuck me off, I literally do not give a shit about you, I don't care about your sob stories, I don't care if you *really* need my help.
I guarantee, I wouldn't feel any guilt in these situations, I would laugh, grab my shit, and tell them to fuck off
Story 1: I think the extended family should return the jewelry
The first story: I can relate. It's not as bad as the OPs, but no one likes to be robbed or have their stuff given away without permission.
I'm a comic book geek. I went to art school in the 80s in a different state. If you are around my age and like comics you may remember some of the trade paperbacks from the 70s. "Sons of Origins" , "Bring on the bad guys" , "the Origins of Marvel comics", etc. I had first issues of Luke Cage, Rom, Star Wars, and all that. I akso had this Flintstones light table thing. It was aliteral light table but made as a toy so you could trace premade pics of the cartoon characters. I had alight bulb moment during my freshman year that I could use that in my studies. (not to draw the flintstones, but in general). after all, I was going for Graphic Design. But when I came home for spring break I found that my grandmother had GIVEN MY STUFF AWAY to younger relatives. Notably, two younger cousins. I was pissed, but not "I'm going to explode" pissed. When my grandmother, who I loved dearly told me "It was just comic books and toys" I explained to her that they WERE MY THINGS. And the comic books? I paid for them MYSELF from money I earned delivering newspapers. I ended with asking how she would feel if she went away for awhile only to come back and find out that I'd given away things she owned. My grandmother was not a karen or an entitled person. She would do thing "for family" that I disagreed with, but she admitted that she should not have given my stuff away. So, there's no big heartburn there. But nowadays I won't let anyone touch my stuff. Whenever says "But its just *insert whatever it is* beware. I have a little action figure of Ultraman. It's just stuff. It's probably only worth a dollar. But it was given to me by guys I served with in Desert Storm. So it's not just stuff to me.
Communication is the key to a relationship
You should not let them get away with this
Story 1: okay first i thought his mom was a little right but when he posted an update that thought just disappereared from my mind instantoy
for the third story i feel like that the OP wasnt telling the whole story. i get bad vibes by them choosing and picking. i bet it wasnt JUST the trip. stuff before problably happened and hell problably more ON the trip. the way that woman acted seems like a manipulative pick and chose situation, the "little fights here and there" was her trying to get the guilt of "oh yeah i get mad over dumb things i dont explain and hes at the point where he hates my guts." off of her. The sign was the passive agressing its your phone do what you want is what made me thing that.
Story #1 WTF!!!!! Get the police involved man!!! Like come on it’s time you should get extra protection on your door!
Story 1: Get the people stealing arrested by the police!
Story 2) No, the first red flag was being called in to work, over the weekend, when you were just out of the hospital. Then you just kept working and never took time to heal. You should have held your ground and said NO from the jump. I'm not sure but, you might have a labor law violation to report and/or sue over.
My daughter is an only child. She's always been very private so we wouldn't even enter her room unless she invited us in. We never allowed anyone into her personal space and if anyone did that to her I'd be kicking some ass. I wouldn't care about the girls property if they were hiding my kids stuff in there. Smh what am I missing here?
Nice to see your still here
I would try to get my property back to even if it means getting the police involved I wouldn't not feel bad about then having to go to jail for this
This is a good channel
Holy shit yes it is I can’t get enough of this channel
Eh OP for 1st story sounds fine. Not a jerk.
Nah nah nah I would go to their house and steal the stuff they stole from me and yell and never let them in my house again
Ha, mom used to steal my toys and give them away. I'd hear her meet other parents and she'd say "My kids have a whole box of toys they never play with" and some of my stuff would be gone. The 3rd time I heard her say the usual, I said "I play with ALL my toys!!" And if a kid stole from me, she would feel bad for THEM because they were caught.
Now for story two. Who bought that stuff. You, your dad or your mom. If it is you or your dad then no reason to do it. But if your mom bought them, some things go down for that
S1. How old are you? And you have a lot more than 12000$ of stuff in your room?
What is the relationship between your mother and your uncle?
You should involve the law in this. Either your mother or/and some of this person will have some serious prison time (thief over 12000$). That will wake her up.
The secondary stories are always about relationships where the solution is obvious (dump them)
Story 4: "You're not getting MY business!" OP: "I never had your business in the first place! Time thief! It's cheaper for me if you DON'T come back! Take it up with Amazon. (the company, not the dominatrix you hire on Saturdays)
Last story. OH NO! The asshole who takes up the employees time and never buys anything wont come back. Whatever will they do?
Last story. “Fine I’m not coming back here again”. So the fuck what?! You didn’t buy shit here.
I would buy a safe like cmon
You had the ability to lock your room from the outside, which I don't believe, and you had a party but didn't lock it then?
Story 1, I can relate to but on a smaller scale. I believe that might be the reason why I am sort of a packrat now.
The grandparents gave about 168,000 according to your estimate amount that they have been given a year💀💀💀💀
honestly the op in the first story should call the cops on their mom and uncle and their cousins possibly getting them arrested and the kids would probably be better off without them
My mom was like that mom when I was a child, my grandma (her mom) was like that too. Their excuse where we have money and my cousings not and we didn't need so much .
i am so sorry for u the things u have seen....
Story 3 sounds like the girl is a big problem she probably doesn't realize that guys can't read minds and puts too much into little things. if it's not important enough to straight forward and blunt about it's not important enough to be pissed about