Autism Doctor Meets Autistic Patient……🧑🔬
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„You made a mistake. But mistakes are good. You should make more.“ True words
Yeee
...says the doctor..which made it scary
@@anonymx7720 mistakes make you wiser, and know how to handle the next situation. They're necessary sometimes
@@Extra_Three what about during a surgery
Yes , but maybe not with my MRI -- especially if it will hurt me.
The "you're like me" changed the patient's expression altogether. He felt he was not alone. There was hope for him.
Damn allergies… that’s why my eyes started watering… yeah… that’s why.
@@timd381😉
I mean imagine feeling disabled like you can never accomplish anything in life, and then seeing someone just like you working as a doctor, that facial expression is the realization that even with his disability he could do anything.
@@HaMsTeR6942 it's exactly how I feel everyday (I'm an autistic woman who still didn't find what she has to give to the world)
@@a.g.demada5263 Please look up videos and information about autism!
You have more to give the world than most non- neurodivergent people! My son has high-functioning Autism (Aspergers). He and other autistic people I know are very smart and talented, which I'll bet you are too, you just haven't discovered it yet! I believe once you discover who you really are (not dumb, or weird or whatever other label people try to put in you), you'll begin to blossom! You are okay, you just need some guidance or knowledge about what you CAN do, vs what you can't!
I love the loud and clear, but still calm “He’s NOT Psychotic, He’s Autistic.”
I loved that part too 🥹
Me fr
That's how society treats autistic people when they have an episode they treat them as if they gone insane
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My parents after I'm referred into a mental ward
The importance of having someone who can relate to your frustrations and tell you that you are not alone is priceless. As humans, sometimes that’s all we need.
True, I had mine : Julie Dachez, a french autistic woman who indirectly helped me thanks to her book relating her story (I'm french too). I had the chance to meet her in february and she signed my book.
And last Friday, I became that person for someone. It's kind of funny because all I did was to fall of my knees because my legs couldn't support me (I was tired because I came back to work after three weeks of vacations) and I explained that to the colleague who helped me to stand up (he was giving informations to a woman who asked how to be diagnosed and I fell in front of the open door). I heard the woman asking if I worked here and that it gave her hope
Yes
Frr
but the sad thing is that a lot of people would think your trying to get attention if you say you relate to them. :(
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He saw himself and felt hope,understood and peace for once. This is beautiful😢❤
They understand each other.
😢❤
And made eye contact
@@dionmoviesclipsno they didn’t have you not watched the show he was troubled that he was treating someone with autism
OMG ... this touched my soul.
“Mistakes are good you should make more”
That hit me like a brick wall
😢 why can't everyone be kind in real life like this?
If your not failing, your not trying
Saw the other clip where he says the opposite earlier today lol
I’ve never seen this show before but in another short I’ve seen, he chastises a student doctor who makes a mistake while scrubbed in for surgery. She says “My anatomy professor says mistakes are good. That’s how we learn.” He replies that mistakes are not good and tells her to go rearrange a bunch of supplies and leave.
Me too
"mistakes are good, you should make more, you're like me" relatable as an autistic specimen
“Specimen” I usually refer to myself as a creature lol
They aren't in surgery tho 😅
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@@Altarix05dont do that
Relatable as a non autistic specimen too!
"If you don't make mistakes you will never learn" True words.
Ngl he is the most wholesome doctor
He has good habits.
@@dionmoviesclipshes called the good doctor for a reason
I thought he was a surgeon
@@Splatomix a surgeon is a doctor....
@@doorman4509i agree, good dr is appropriate. Great would be too much.
That connection between Dr. and patient was real!!
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yes
@@lordeden2732 wow.. i mean, even if they were "bad", they get hundreds of thousands of dollars so.. i mean.. they musn't be doing that bad. that and its also spreading awareness.
@@lordeden2732funny because autism is a spectrum and just because he doesn’t fit what you are use to doesn’t mean it’s rubbish. The autism community acting ableist towards they own is crazy to me. I’ve personally met an autistic just like him. We are all different. I myself am autistic and so are my 4 kids and we are all so different . In tried of everyone saying he did bad acting as an autistic person but we need to remember it’s a spectrum and not 2 autistics are the same. I understand we want more autistic people to play the roles but we are actually. It’s ok it a typical person does as well because he showing a different type of person with autism. If you want an autistic actor watch heart break high. There is an actual autistic female playing herself as autistic. And it’s funny people didn’t know she is actually autistic in real life and talked about her bad representation of autism when they didn’t even know she is actually autistic . So why are we acting this way of an actual autistic plays an autistic character and yet they say she’s horrible
I felt it. Good acting
When he said "He's not psychotic. He's autistic." I really felt the way he feels. God bless him.
Let ur shitty god out of this.
Yeah
Many ppl thinks that autistic ppl dont have empathy. That is far from the truth. The Challenge is understanding the situation. Neurotypical or neurodiverse- it doesnt matter. Its hard to relate if you dont understand. That doesnt mean unable to be empathic. Many with autism actually have high empathy. Just need help understanding the social situation❤
This brought tears 😢 to my eyes. I have a 12-year-old with Autism and it's so comforting and a joy to know someone understands. 🙏🏼
I'm a 30 years old woman who was diagnosed only last year (it's hard in France where I live) and last Friday I became that person for another woman, came for informations, by falling on my knees
Jesus christ, this is a show not real life, one badly written show, this dude is not doctor, he is God, he doesn't need to do any tests to see what the problem is.
I'm 55 and was only diagnosed last year.
I worked as a chemist in the chemical and the pharmaceutical industry.
People just thought I was eccentric.
It was a relief to get my diagnosis as it made me fit in with a group of people instead of feeling lost in a sea of neurotypical people who can be two-faced.
@@lynn69jackson yes, I can understand
I’m a 21 year old autistic person with very different autism than both of them but I’m crying watching this. I feel so seen
"You're like me" really touching. Showing the patient that he is not alone and there are people like him who struggle and that it is ok to make mistakes in order to learn and move on.
Edit:OMG thank you for so many likes. I never really expected to get some! Thank you!❤❤❤
I have Autism and I can definitely say that it's a lot more common than people realize.
I am autistic as well and I can understand the panic in the boy
What's the name of the movie
Bro hit him with the "im you" treatment 🗣🔥🔥
@reginaumoh8866 it is a show called "The Good Doctor".
The first time I heard someone calling someone else autistic the nicest way ever
I work with a few poeple that are diagnosed as autistic (and many more that are not diagnosed, but I am sure they are on the spectrum) and all of em are the nicest ppl that I ever had the pleasure to work with
@@KlavierMenn then you never had the pleasure to meet my ex 🤣
@@Nicolas-lz6pgnot all people are the same.
He's autistic himself..so he understands
@@briannnaaI’m sure they know, they are just sharing their personal experience.
This makes me realize how much we need more qualified professionals who know how to deal with people who are different. The world is lacking sensibility and empathy.
Nah we don’t need more “qualified professionals” we just need exactly what you said at the end. You don’t need a degree to do that.
I understand because I teach children with Autism and I hate when people have no knowledge about Autism and I get mad when people in the community puts them down.
@@ginakirwin726 I am not autistic but I am also an inclusion studdent and while I was in school the professors did not know how to deal with me. Called me lazy and stupid.
@@ginakirwin726 how many went on to become surgeons since we're talking about people having knowledge about Autism? Isn't the cliche that they are all Savant syndrome ones spreading BS about a condition that you would absolutely not want an emergency care giver to have...
That is true man
he knows how to talk to him because he is also autistic.he is the perfect doctor for autistic patients
He understood the autism that the patient had and helped him overcome his fear❤😢
I'm also autistic and this mad me sad
@@user-jp1qs9qw5twhy?❤
Autism isn't a excuse for assault 💀
@@breadm8101I’m autistic and I already know that he wasn’t trying to hurt anyone. He was very overstimulated and was stressing, causing fast movements. And involuntary motion. It may not seem like it but he was not trying to hurt anyone
@@TickleTipsonlll womp womp
he made that kid feel so understood 😢 the "you're like me" made my heart melt
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Right!🥴😭
what's the name of this show?
As an autistic person, seeing that doctor treat the patient fills me with joy.
Are you autistic?
Problem is doctors now are only there to subcribe you meds. not see you as human patient
@@klm20079prescribe maybe?
@@klm20079they subscribe meds?
Amen to that brother
The eye contact at the end. How hard it must have been for them both, but Shaun made the effort to comfort the patient and the patient turned to him for comfort. That bond is unimaginable 😢
This is how genuine autistic people be treated with love and respect
Im sorry but i have aspergers (type of autism) and i do not want to be treated like a baby
@@tbvr2039So when you have a meltdown, what works for you?
@tbvr2039 "Aspergers" is an outdated term for autism coined by Hans Asperger, who was a N@zi responsible for collaborating in the murder of children with disabilities under the Third Reich. Please refer to it as Autism or ASD (autism spectrum disorder). Thank you. 😊
@@tbvr2039I'm somewhere in the banana pepper range. He's saying the more severe, ghost pepper autists don't get a whole lot of understanding even from us.
@@sabiti5428 i get that but this series really badly represents autism, in the series shaun has aspergers, people with aspergers DO NOT act like that
No lie meeting another autistic person feels like you finally have 1 person in the world that can understand you. Surrounded by people who only feel pity or disgust. When i was 19 i met a 26 year old man who was also autistic. He didnt even told me i just knew because he didnt treat me like an alien. Just another person. Miss you Mark i hope you are still ok.
That’s a moods same here I feel like I can finally be like a human around autistic people
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I keep seeing people saying this and it makes me think I should be retested. I got tested in 97 and they said I have ADHD and a processing disorder. Since I started working at a place that hires people with disabilities of all types I have found a few people with autism have said they thought I had it too like them. My parents and brother said my son who is high functioning autistic is exactly like me when I was his age. His personality quirks to likes, dislikes, fears and right down to his favorite animal.
@@taramccormick4042I don't think you are special and intelligent
Lol autist
Bro is such a good actor
For not having autism he really understands it
Actually he is autistic himself in the show! (Speaking of Dr. Murphy)
@@Mari-fd6ku I believe hes referring to the actor, not the character
You should see him on bates motel too he did a incredible job in that acting
@peanutbuttah_ i recently seen that show and can concur. Altho that show is psychologically traumatizing at some points.
The actor himself is actually autistic. Not the character alone, but he himself is autistic. But they want him to play the stereotypical autistic😅
"He's not psychotic, He's autistic" Loved that line#Spreadawarness❤
“mistakes are good. you should make more” sobbing❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ as an autistic person I had no idea how much I needed to hear that
Mistakes are a part of life. Its how we learn. We fall and we get back up again. We are pushed to the ground and we get back up again. We get lost and we find our way again. People look down on us because we are different and don't conform to "normal", but we are still people. Be it Autism, ADHD, OCD, or just different. I make a lot of mistakes, but I live, I learn, I adapt, I keep going even when others would give up.
@@robertfergusson5367 I am not Autistic, but I have always lived by what you say...if more people did we would have less day to day conflict because we would believe in ourselves
Mistakes are the only way we learn. ❤
What is a normal person?
I am not autistic, so I can not relate to your challenges. I am bipolar and I am facing my second fight with cancer. I also have agoraphobia and severe migraines, I am on oxygen and have depression.
So I can understand what being different is and facing challenges. I still remind myself that no two people are alike and that we all face challenges. Some are more obvious, like ours, some you can't see. But there is no normal when everyone is different from each other.
Keep learning from your mistakes. 😊
@@MTetzke you’ve got this❤️ much love peace and healing to you
The way he said you are like me 😊😊
Two autistic people encouraging each other
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I’m also autistic too!❤
Am autistic doctor encouraging for me as a high functioning autistic
This just gives me a true insight as to the level of strength that autistic people seem to be gifted with, physically and emotionally.
Its both its a gift and a curse, and you get very lonelly because its almost like you are of another specie, its hard because almost no one understand you.
I my case was harder, because where i live in Brazil light levels of asperger's are generally ignored because its hard to diagnose, specially in the 90s.
Im kinda okish now but the damage has already been done, i try to help broken ppl as i can, but the life is specially unclement with the neurodivergent. Ppl should be more kind with eachother.
@@DarkusObscuriusthis reminds me of my own struggles. I wonder if you also feel it's invasive to look into another person's eyes. Not because its a funny cute thing. Its more like overloading on information you feel you aren't supposed to have. A lot of emotions show in the eyes. People always found it strange i didn't like to look at them while speaking. Stuff like that. 😅
@@DarkusObscuriusAsperger’s isn’t a real thing, it’s just autism
@@ScarletFlame101786personally I struggle with eye contact, especially as of late. For me it's gotten worse over the years. I can look at my father, mother, and brother in the eyes, but I can't do the same for anyone else for long, mainly a few seconds. I'm not sure if you also are like me in this aspect, but I find it such a challenge to express my emotions, and I also feel like no one understands me bc of my high IQ. Most of the time I'm mentally falling asleep in the middle of conversations bc it doesn't stimulate me.
The struggles are real . Because of my autisum, I am smarter than I should be, and it gets me into trouble as well as psychological damage
Autism to autism communication, I genuinely love interactions like that
"Mistakes are good. You should make more mistakes."
Yes because you learn from mistakes. 🔛🔝 quote
Those mistakes tell your brain never to do that same thing again.
Well your parents made you thats a mistake
Hacks into Govt and launches nukes.
In interrogation "A doctor told me to make mistakes"
@@thedarkknightdeltakx-4756 well if you don't know the difference between mistakes and crimes I think you can try it. The responsibility is yours anyway..,.. 🥱🥱🥱
I’m autistic and the way he said out loud « he’s not psychotic he’s autistic » gave me shivers, i got mislabeled and invalidated all my life by professionals and seeing an autistic doctor standing up for an autistic patient is just so healing to see
I had learning disabilities, possible autism. Everyone thought I was stubborn & bad. I'm 70. Used a lot of homeopathic detoxes to get better. I have a son who has Autism. He's been incarcerated x 21 yrs. I think he's innocent of the charges against him. The judge, prosecutor, & defense attorney colluded with each other. Can't afford a lawyer to bring out the truth.
May the Lord save your son 🙏@@debbyrabold6069
@kimkardashian @@debbyrabold6069
As an autistic adhd person, thank you for your comment! 🧩
Omg youre not autistic lol
Shawn is the nicest doctor I think I’ve ever seen.
Not like Dr. House though
It’s a show bruh
@@easyguyphareal7567 Dr house is an asshole of his own kind, a professional one at that
I'm the 666 like letz gooo
You could even say he's the good doctor
I hear that loud and clear.
I LOVE WATCHING THE GOOD DOCTOR
Dr. Murphy and Dr. House working together would have been epic
He would slap house
😂😂😂And house would probably slap him back and convince Shawn to share his Vicodin @@theseeker4700
Frr
Is that possible 😮 I swear it would be a phenomenal episode
I'm looking forward to their meeting.
That’s why we need more autistic professionals, we know how to deal with and empathise with other neurodivergent people
Nope
There are tonnes of autistic people in the medical field. They just aren't all caricature's.
Nobody gets more pissed off by autists than other autists. We don't need pandering because you think we can somehow understand each other better
This makes me cry... don't know why, never been diagnosed as autistic, just ADHD...but the panicky feeling and being told to SHUT UP doesn't make the panicky go away, it just makes me silent
@Name-ps9fxokay edgy kid
I love how hes always putting himself on level with his patients. It feels more natural and it makes me wanna hug him.
We have a lot of empathy. Sometimes it overwhelms us to the point we meltdown.
I have been coping without treatment for most of my life. I finally got professional help. I am 50 years old and able to function without a lot of masking of symptoms.
he would not like your hug
@@billygreen9915 what makes you say that?
Which he probably would hate. :D
@giyuutomioka6974 in the show he hates contact, it's a symptom of tactile autism
I love he acts exactly opposite of the stereotype for autism calmer than all the adults there.
What are we without mistakes? Such words of wisdom. Mistakes teach.
Wish I’d learned many of mine sooner❤ this is lovely
The true teacher of humanity is mistakes
Mistakes wouldn’t exist if people knew guidance. All mistakes aren’t good because some are intentional
'you're like me.'
bro realized 😭
spiderman into the spiderverse moment
literally me fr fr
This Doctor's approach makes me cry..... Doctors ought to be as kind as he is...... As soft spoken as he is......
It's bc he's not egoic😌--Dr.s like that are always humble &kind...Egoic Dr.s are the ones who are stubborn & unpleasant🫤
Totally 😭
I don't really care if it's the good Doctor or House, their personality shouldn't matter as long as they do their best to solve the problem.
@@With_All-My-Heart Seems you have never met a rude, insensitive, arrogant doctor who is full of prejudice and those who don't even listen to what the patients are going through.
@@shashivibhuti7615 I have been to the hospital a lot of times in my life actually and have met those kinds of doctors. (Former cancer patient.) But I do know that there are different kinds of people in the world. Just because someone is arrogant or prejudiced doesn't mean they can't be a good doctor. Everyone's brains work differently and it's not a crime. (Edit: I do like if they're nice, but I prefer that they fix me.)
Autism to autism is amazing he really played this character amazing it shows that people on the spectrum like me ain’t stupid we learn in different ways and he learns seeing a “board” like I do
The doctor put what he was saying into regular sentences that the others could understand - this calmed the patient down that someone heard him !!
No, he was responding to what the -caricature of autistic people- autistic patient was saying.
No he was relating to the kid? The kid was freaking out and he just explained he’s been there before (being autistic and lost) and then talks about his mri mistake. At no point was he trying to put the kids thoughts into a more coherent form? If that’s what you’re implying. They are both autistic one is just panicking and the other is calming them down xd
I like people who explain such important things ;)
The best thing for autistic people to have is people who understand them..... As an autistic person myself i understand this....
The brief eye contact at the end between both of them. So powerful when eye contact can be difficult for us 💚
Yep that one moment was basically the autistic sign of "holy crap you DO understand me!" It's so hard to feel truly understood when everyone around you just sees a mind that can't comprehend the world without help when in reality we CAN comprehend the world just in our own way we simply need a little guidance to gain that understanding of our environment
Same
I have ADHD and I’m on the spectrum and when I say that it’s always “you’re seeking attention” all I want is to be understood
I'm in tears... And feel represented! ❤
I respect that, i have Asperger syndrom Autismus and had fr that type of doctor 😅 ✋️
I even have depresion but from asperger syndrom my IQ is 129 with 5 years (now im 15)
he just opened that kids eyes to all sorts of new opportunities he didn’t know he had because of how most of society still treats autism
How so?
@@mbaelstromos0002 One example I can give is my family, they don't admit my cousin is autistic, it's his 'little problem' like it's shameful or something.
A autistic can always see if a other person is autistic, its like a power thing us autistic people have.
The look ok his face is so innocent. Edit: I never expected so many likes thanks guys!
My "man" sounded like a tiktok npc
If you aren’t in a persons shoe or you’ve never experienced what they are experiencing it’s will be so hard for you to be able to understand them, despite your qualifications
To go from playing Norman Bates to playing Dr Shawn Murphy on 'The Good Doctor' is insane! Such a great actor
And August Rush!!! He’s a phenomenal actor
English actor Freddie Highmore. Was also Charlie in the Tim Burton remake of Charlie and The Chocolate Factory.
Is the actor of Dr. Murphy even autistic himself?
He's exceptionally humble. Saw him in an interview once. I also hate that this show ended. I may go back to watch the series again.
I remember August Rush
This doctors intervention was so kind, patient, reassuring, and wise. We all make mistakes. Mistakes are to learn from. It’s all good you’re safe now.
The show is on Hulu (as of this comment) called The Good Doctor. It's a very good show
Every day is day one❤ we learn
Thank you, I forgot the title 👍
This doctor deserves an oscar for his role...
"Trained professionals" believed the patient was psychotic. I wonder how many times this happens
I can only imagine how many illnesses we know of today were all treated as psychotic and put people in institutions because of not understanding the patient
It's happened to me, the worse part is the antipsychotics they force inject you with give me psychotic symptoms
They are trained for medical, it is sad, as they are not familiar with the autistic spectrum, which is understandable, it shows in such a variety of ways!
My husband is autistic, and at a tough moment in his life, a crappy psychiatrist diagnosed him wrongly with schizophrenia.
I am also in the spectrum, and I have lost count on how many times I have been diagnosed with personality disorders, have been medicated and sedated, and even mocked at just because I'm not very good at communicating what is really happening to me.
Too many. I am so afraid of something like this happening to my autistic child one day.
This guy played this character so well for this series.
Oh what's the show called?
The good doctor
@@ekebibeatall531 thank you so much!
The reason he plays autistic so well is because he is actually autistic. I watched the behind story about this show and he was more than thrilled to play this character because he got to be himself!!
@@AsiaGregory1Freddie Highmore does not have autism. However, his commitment to authentically represent his character's experiences has been remarkable. Highmore has family members with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), lending a personal perspective to his role. But his understanding doesn't stop there.
The hope and relief in his eyes when Shawn said You're like me. Oh God
Ikr? Imagine feeling like shit because even taking the bus is a struggle, with people telling you that you'll never amount to anything because of how your brain is wired.
And then you look up and see proof that people like you can be doctors!
Whoever plays Dr. Murphy played the functioning autism role perfectly.
Man.. he felt SEEN. *Understood*. Thats an amazing gift you can give someone.
Especially someone who’s autistic because as an autistic person, we’re not going to listen to other people if they don’t listen to us, we’re going to think we did something wrong doesn’t matter if you told us that we didn’t if you don’t at least we did something wrong
Oh yeah, as someone on the spectrum myself (milder than these two, but still), man does it feel good when someone UNDERSTANDS!
is this a film
@@user-xg7mh8ow7k no it’s a show. It’s called the good doctor.
@@user-xg7mh8ow7k the show is about a Doctor Who is autistic who no one thinks can actually be a doctor because of his autism
This is legit. As a high functioning autistic person myself, the relief and sympathy in my heart just flourished when he recognised that and stood up for him, because he knows what its like.
As a phone screen, I agree
I feel like they need to reclassify a lot of the forms of autism, a lot of the "high functioning" ones shouldn't be labeled high functioning, especially when compared to people whove got autism like mine, the form I have makes Shaun look less high functioning, idk what it's called but it's almost impossible for an average person to be able to tell I have autism and only people who work in the community can ever call it
@@GothJesusone reclassification i like to use as a joke is “diet”/“lite” to “deluxe”/“premium” it’s just fun for me and helps me feel a lot less guilt and discomfort
@@GothJesus it's honestly the same way with me. I actually had a friend refer to people who are "neurotypical, like us (referring to me and her" when she was telling me what she learned about neurodivergents. I didn't say anything... how I already knew all about being neurodivergent and it's nothing like what her arrogant uneducated ass thinks, because I am NOT neurotypical. I blend in really well, but I am at home with my people. I understand what you mean.
@@GothJesusautism has a spectrum of symptoms.
It's like how when you have a cold, you might have a headache, stomach ache, runny nose, and cough. Those are all symptoms, but the cough is the biggest giveaway of having the cold. Two people can get the same cold but if one has a lot of coughing and the other didn't get any of the coughing or didn't get much of it, people will be like "it doesn't seem like you have the same thing"
I love how he's bonding with a patient with the same condition as him, just shows how people help eachother when they are in bad situations, especially if it's a shared experience
He's a good doctor and a very encouragement man himself as a good doctor❤❤❤
The series name is "The good doctor" for those who needs it
Thank you... which episode though?
Idk 😅in each episode there's alot of patient cases so I can't remember
These clips bring me to tears every time.
Season 1 episode 7 “22 steps”
Thanks
As an autistic individual, this is heartwarming seeing it takes a few to sit down and learn about our experiences and problems without being called psychotic or whatever.
as an autistic person i can say i dont act like that not saying hes a bad person or laughing with the person
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@@mr_fox_man Well that's because not every autistic person is the same
@@mr_fox_manthankfully, you're not on a high level of the spectrum, my mother works with autistic and down syndrome children and teenagers, each person is an unique mind, and an unique experience.
Just a few times she had to deal with high level kids, but they are really hard to manage, I respect her really much for her job, equal, that's the reason that I respect so much people with that condition u.u
Me and my cousin are autistic
Do you know how good it would be for an autistic child to see someone like them become a DOCTOR. This is amazing.
no it's not, the autistic representation in this show is horrendous and autistic people have been speaking up about it constantly but no one listens
Albert Einstein was autistic as well
@@user-mo3jl4gt3qWHY DON'T WE LEARN ABOUT THAT IN SCHOOL OMG😭
@@cherry-sg8rl yeah like this topic isnt really getting teached in school
The fact that he is the only one that understands how he sees the world
Autistic meets Autistic the calm is real and instant connection amazing to see 1st time and every time....
I have seen it with my grandson. Who does parroting, yet in the school he attends he has non verbal friends, and like this video they do make eye contact with each other.
I've only really found anyone else with autism like I do once, I can say that connection is real.
I love the way dr Murphy talks, the way the cuts his words
He sounds like an AI .
@@jackdobrinski I don’t know but it sounds good.
He's very direct, but it's good for the patients.
@@dionmoviesclips yeah he is
I hate it.
I just love how he handles his patients with dignity.. compassion and understanding
Pls, What's the movie name?
@@firstlady7128show called good doctor, ran from 2017-2024 so you can binge it
@firstlady7128 it's a series called the good doctor, it's an amazing show.
He wrangled well. He has a fine future ahead of him.
I have sibling with autism and this scene hits everything home! They don’t communicate how we do. People need to understand that and need to be patient and have someone who understands what they are trying to say or how they feel.
God bless you and your parents that cannot be easy. From what I have seen online from other parents that have autistic children I know for a fact that I could not handle that. It is so admirable parents and siblings that can deal with it. You guys are honestly great. I know that I could not handle the violence and I'm talking about somebody that would be severely autistic. That is something I would not be able to deal with. And I think we should all know our limits because that's how people get abused a lot. People try to do more than they're capable of doing out of obligation or the fear that they're going to be judged. My biggest fear would be having a child and being abusive to that child when it is not their fault! I would much rather have somebody care for the child that could give it the home and all the medical stuff that they deserve! I believe in a lot of ways that people with down syndrome and a lot of autistic children are honestly blessed by God because they can see angels and things that we cannot see. They also are truly innocent because they never do anything out of maliciousness. Their brain just works in a different way.
OH WOW JUST BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE AUTISTIC MEAN A LOT OF DIFFERENT THINGS AND NO PEOPLE LIKE ME WITH AUSTISM aren't different OR special we ARE on the same level as a NORMAL PERSON, wanna know who is different, YOU, BECAUSE YOUR A misinformed MONSTER!!!!
@@jenniferforeman1599Hey as an autistic person I see you’re trying but please, we’re not aliens. Please don’t put us on a pedestal. Also yes it can be difficult to *be* autistic but if you understand autistic people, I promise we’re not as horrifying as a lot of the internet makes us sound.
Also for the record we’re not “truly innocent” and we are definitely capable of maliciousness. We’re humans, not angels, nor can we see angels. Please just talk about us as people, since we are just people.
@@jenniferforeman1599Also down syndrome and autism are conflated but they are not the same thing
Also “They don’t communicate how we do”. I think I get what you mean, but it comes across like you’re saying we autistic people speak another language. Autistic people are just people. We communicate a bit differently but we definitely still communicate how anyone else does. You know, words and nonverbal cues. The way we use them is different sure, but it’s still the same tools.
Autistic or not, this shows honesty and compassion and sympathy, which should definitely be presented more in all of us.
His rant gave Dr Murphy enough information that he used it to calm him and reach him. Even his mom was flustered but dr Murphy's tone and words connected him to bring peace to the chaos in his mind. Watch how dr Murphy only looses his peace when ppl try to tell him he's psychotic or dont know what he's talking about or doing. He just uses his knowledge and calmly find a solution to the problem even when others are scared, crazy or simply clueless.
Dr Murphy is autistic. People don't understand that those who are autistic have problems in the processing of information, they are often overloaded and stressed. All should be made aware of autism, most do not like eye Contact, or being touched and causes them them to act out.
It wasn’t a rant, it was an autistic meltdown
I love this show! My grand children's pediatrician was autistic. Best doctor that we ever had!
At first my daughter didn't know how to take him, but once we realized he is autistic, everything made sense. Everything is black and white and he says exactly what he means. He is awesome, brilliant and very caring. ❤
If you don't know, this show is called "The Good Doctor" and it's incredible
Thanks for that : )
it's based off a korean drama by the same name which is just as good
I think bros aucustic
No it is not, it paints autism in the exact wrong way. As someone who’s also autistic, I direct people to the movie wonder if you want good autistic media.
show or movie
As an autistic person, I understand the struggles the challenges I go through and the challenges of trying to do something new. But I know that not only me but my fellow autistics knows that as long as we have people (even if it's just one) that understands, supports, cares, and loves us unconditionally we can be able to do anything and live our lives without fear.
Help me
Me too man :)
As the mother of two beautiful young people with autism, thank you for saying this. All I can do is understand to the best of my ability, support them through their challenges and love them through everything😊
@@Step27613 Of course☺️
@@Step27613 Of course☺️
Best thing a sick sufferer will ever hear is for his physician to tell him that he was once like him. Nothing more inspiring and soothing
Same with rehab councilors
He didn't say he was once like him. He said he's like him. They're both autistic on different parts of the spectrum.
I love this doctor ❤ We should have lots of doctors like him. He's special but he knows more about his patients, because he has empathy which is very important in his line of work.
DAMN WHY DID SHE GO FLYING LIKE THAT 😭
I don't want to spread misinformation but I think autistic people sometimes don't know their own strength and what they can do to people. In this situation he was scared and trying to defend himself.
She went flying because he pushed her.
No that was more like a throw
@@Jackthefolf_245No kidding but he means this guy is scared and not that strong RN and bro sent her flying
Autistic people are really strong, just like blind people have great hearing and deaf people can see really far.
Working with diagnosed and undiagnosed autistic kids for years I can tell u this calm demeanor of acceptance combined with facts without the confusion emotions is the absolute best way to work with ALL kids in/out of a crisis not just autistic. We adults sometimes get in the way and make things worse than they need to be .
❤ this idea
Truer words have never been shared...❤
Yes, deescalation. I worked with autistic adults and it is the same thing. Remain calm because then we can hopefully co-regulate and help them with self-regulation in the future.
@@s.mariehardesty6398 yes! That regulation of everything lol life, emotions, reactions all of that is key!
Lovely dis doctor is good
I'm a diagnosed autist who has been in the mental hospital before, this makes me tear up. We need more people who understand us.
My son is autistic. I thought I was blessed when he was born, and I was. But watching him grow and accomplish things is another huge blessing. I couldn't dream up a more perfect son if I tried. He's so brilliant. Everything a mom could ever hope for. As his mother, I always pray he finds people who understand him. And as his mother, I wish that for you as well. Everyone deserves understanding
Same dude plus adhd
Jesus loves you.
i met another autistic person back in a psych ward at 13! (i have diagnosed autism) he couldn't speak so he would communicate by pointing at what he wanted. the supervisors mentioned that he rarely ever smiled or laughed.
played a board game with another patient in the ward. the autistic boy was watching us, and as i was jokingly complaining about losing, he began to chuckle at my fake frustration. it's been 6 years since i last saw him so i hope he's doing alright.
All the love and light to you
This is an example of empathy and I'm here for this amazing doctor
That eye contact... my child is autistic & sees ppl clearer than I but not by looking by listening by watching their body language it's speak all the volume she needs in the moment. x
My personal understanding of how my autism affected my development is that I learnt how to do things by observing them and trying to recreate the results.
I have abnormal walking patterns, but I still walk with the same efficiency as others.
I pronounce and spell words inconsistently between UK and US english, but I still talk the same as others.
These examples could go on for most passive activities that don’t require focus after learning. I believe this process of development is why autistic children tend to walk before neurotypical children and typically excel in subjects that they observe for long periods of time.
Wow what you said hit me hard. How ur child can read people thru there body language, it's says a lot about someone.
Surgeon: " I make a lot of mistakes"
Trust me, they do, I have a scar to prove it XD
As long as they realise they fucked up in time and fix it, it's alright xD
Almost like they're human or something!
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F you the human body is surprisingly durable as long as your vital points are functional and you have a decent amount of blood other than that you can have certain organ(s) + limbs removed and still remain living or even thrive just because you have a "certification" granted to you by you in this s**t and think you know it all doesn't mean you should doubt others experiences and authenticity you know it all knowledge you base on your shallow perspective should be kept to the person that gave you your certificate your self.@@ant3917
It's about making sure they don't make a life threatening mistake or if they are going to make one it's not in the OR.
God the kid’s actor is spectacular you can so clearly see the frustration and panic draining from his face and the relief and calming taking place
That's Coby Bird. He's actually autistic in real life. He's a very talented young actor.
The "Your like me" is more powerful then you think... imagine hearing that from a DOCTOR...
Shaun saw his younger self in that kid, calmed him down and gave him encouraging words. Respect bro
And for any parents with an autistic kid, they should read Kristen Neff's book self-compassion. She has an autistic son and the skills this doctor showed are skills you can use on yourself so you can be in a state to provide compassion for others.
Dr. Murphy is the epitome of an example of High Functioning Autism. This moment shows how he can connect with patients in an amazing and...interestingly...calming way. Yes, he's blunt...but patients come to find his bluntness to be empowering. Maybe not at first, but definitely when it matters.
"High functioning" is outdated language. We use "low support needs" now. We don't judge people based on how well they appear to "function" according to neurotypical standards.
From what ive seen, he is still more severly autistic than most, i have autism and i know at least 50+ people with autism, and each and every one of us can function in a way a lot closer to how neurotypical people function, although it is still fairly obvious we have autism. What you see in tv shows and movies is often unrealistic to how most people with autism act, and it gives people the wrong impression as they are often shown to be socially or completely incapable, which just isnt true, we function differently, not less
@@natk1105it's the same thing. Nobody cares... a term is a term
@@Meikelegteiagreed. I have not met one autistic person who acts like the doctor does in this clip. I also am on the spectrum myself but I might as well have a completely different diagnosis if we look at how autistic people is portrayed in media, we are worlds apart in behaviour.
@@natk1105it means the same fucking thing however you phrase it. Besides, it's only offensive if you want to be offended.... which reminds me, thank you for reminding me why I shouldn't ever be involved in the ASD community. I am a high functioning adult with Asperger's syndrome, as is stated in my medical journal since March 2012; I am far too outdated and offensive to fit in.
“You’re like me.” That phrase gave so much hope.
I just got home from a flight that I traveled alone for the first time in my life. I got lost and cried because I couldn't go down an escalator. I was at frustrated with myself for not being able to do anything in my own.
"Mistakes are good. You should make more of them" Genuinely made me tear up.
"Mistakes are good, you should make more."
-Dr Shaun Murphy
"Like your Parents, you were a Mistake"
@@juliaortiz2720 That's not okay
@@juliaortiz2720 sorry girl not your mirror
The good doctor might i add.
@@GranlusofcSo real 😊
people who clip movies trying their hardest to resist their natural urge to play "time and hope (cinematic)" in the background
BRO ONG AND THEY USUALLY LEAVE IT AT A CLIFF HANGER LOL
Literally dude 😂
Bro are we gonna ignore the amount of strength the boy had to just fling the nurse back like that at the beginning of the video?
Hysterical strength is a thing, when the brain identifies a life and death situation it can temporarily override biological safeguards that keep us from tearing our muscles apart and shattering our own bones. A real world example of this was 63 year old Laura Schultz in 1977, her grandson had been pinned under a car, in desperation she lifted said vehicle off of him with one hand and simultaneously dragged him out from underneath it.
The threshold is different for everyone, autism can make those thresholds so completely different it seems psychotic to others.
It happens when people are scared . I'm a psych nurse and see it occasionally - 100 lb patients picking up 50 lb chairs. The public needs more education about autism.
You'd be surprised what the human body can do in flight mode. My son was 6 years old 60lbs soaking wet, and it took 6 adult police officers to hold him on a stretcher, during a bad meltdown.
That’s a hat I was just about to say
You would be surprised how strong people are in fear and panic it's staggering
If only there was someone like him when I was younger that would have helped me so much and saved me from so much medical trauma
“i make a lot of mistakes” is exactly what you want to hear your doctor saying
edit: yes i get it he was just trying to comfort him, this comment is very obviously a joke
Yeah, you learn from mistakes so they don't happen again.
Doctors make mistakes all the time. All of them do, it's human nature. No doctor is perfect. I'd much rather have one that admits and acknowledges that, than one that pretends they're flawless.
If you think that your doctor dontmake mistakes, just because he didnt told you that, you are just naive 😂
@@LuckZanellai think it was just a joke lol
In this instance he is telling his patient what that patient needs to hear (Shaun knows this first hand) and also de-escalating patient. (Helping patient calm down)
I love the part where the doctor said "You're Like Me." Power, Beautiful....., Made Me Cry!
Same
I love how the camera perspective pans in showing Dr. Murphy (I'm a Murphy) with his confidence and pride at his efforts to live a especially productive life despite being autistic. Brilliant acting!
He’s not living his life despite being autistic. He’s just an autistic person living his life.
It’s funny what pride means now. Pride meaning glad or confident turned into this-schmits
What's the name of the movie please?
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@@BookloverFantasy92 better said than I!
the look of hope the kid gave him at the end melted my heart
It feels wonderful to have at least one person who takes time to understand without judgement ❤
So so true! And that goes for non autistic patients as well! When my Mother was 90 yrs old she had a pacemaker inserted to help her heart. Following the operation she was sent to rehab for a couple of weeks!
After the 4th day they threatened to discharge her if she didn’t “cooperate“ and exercise when told! The 6th day they carried out their threat and discharged her, forcing her to leave rehab. They treated her as is she was simply acting like a Diva!
The next day she collapse @ home, I called 911, an ambulance rushed her to the hospital where we learned the wire had fallen out of her pacemaker AND THAT’S WHY she was always extremely tired in the rehab and unable to exercise!
If they had only taken Mom seriously, listened to her complaints about having no strength & explored possibilities they could have avoided all the stress and chaos they caused everyone
The part where he said you’re like me hit me hard. Even how he looked up to him he looks like he thought „oh he’s like me and he became a doctor!“ this really made me smile man
I really like the way Dr. Shaun Murphy stare to the autistic young man.... Not to mention the words he said, mistakes are good, you do more... You're like me!
He was noting the appearance of the eyes 😂😂😂
Even though he's pretty bad autism fep as an autistic person I still like some of these moments
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The way he went from masking in front of the ones holding the patient down to unmasking to calm the patient. Such tiny details, always has been an incredible actor
"You're like me" that part was awesome 👌 ❤
As an autistic, myself, I honestly understand the patient.
"You're like me" ❤ that got me emotional
People on the spectrum might get mistaken for some other conditions. But their moment of realisation that they are accepted for who they are. That warms my heart.
I see my son ( also Autistic) in this Dr so much. It’s heart warming and heart breaking at the same time. The world needs to be more understanding
the "you're like me" was very brave of him to say in front of a whole group of people.