Life Unscripted Vlog + Why To Not Care What Others Think | Sandra Hart
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Not caring what others think isn’t selfish, it’s healthy!!😊☀️
I noticed a big shift when I turned 50 that freed me of so much rumination I had about whether someone didn't like me, or did I say the wrong thing, or act the wrong way. It was absolutely magical that that veil was lifted. But I love that you mentioned that you can't do anyone harm either. I've definitely seen mean people who say something awful and just say, "well that's how I am and I don't give a ____." Be a good person. Keep your side of the street clean. Let the rest go.
I totally agree! I just turned 60 and I feel so free now. It's really liberating to not care about what other people think but that does not mean we are a 'mean' person. My mom used to say: If you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing.
I agree with 50 . 60 is a lot different. 😊
Family members .You try so hard to make them happy and they try to laugh at your face without empathy .
@@user-mg9yn9ry5x I've let go of really toxic family members, even my own brother. My good friends are my family and I got to choose them.
I’m writing down this saying…Keep your side of the street clean 😉
Sandra, every time I look at your videos and listen to your thought and ideas, I feel like I’ve been with a friend. You have an authenticity and freedom that’s a joy. You are appreciated just as you are! Thanks again for sharing with us all.
@@divinecomedy0 Well said. I feel the same way.
Yes so agree with Miss Sandra ,
I followed Romper room all those
Many years ago when my children were
So very young, how they sat on the floor
Glued to the television,
And to the theme of
Bend and stretch ,
Reach for the stars
There goes Jupiter
Here comes Mars
And this was on BBC Television UK !965 or maybe the 1970’s
I am a senior of 81yrs now
So I love an appreciate
Sandra, especially todays message
Why care what others think 🤔
Follow your own dreams ,
Mary Canada 🇨🇦
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Hello Mary. A fellow 🇨🇦 here.
Thank you for your generous sharing. I love the images from Romper Room days gone by….reaching for the stars and planets. Fills me with awe!
“When you’re old who cares” … love it. We don’t get a refund for unused life 🥳 you my dear.
Miss, Naomi Very Well Said, Blessings To You 🙏😊
Ms Naomi I agree, we don’t get a refund for unused life. I never thought about it before, you are so right 😂
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I watch videos about “ growing older “ and life seems so grand. But I think the common factor is financial stability. You can be your true self all you want but without financial security life is a whole different ball game. No one seems to talk about that.
You are right. At any age, hoping to make it to the end of the month financially affects so many aspects of your life.
You are a great inspiration!
I grew up being told that I had to be nice to people or they wouldn't like me. In trying to please everyone else, I lost the person I really was, always trying to emulate someone who seemed to have it all together. I went through two abusive marriages and divorces, and have been on my own for more than 30 years. Your videos have helped me A LOT in recapturing who I really am. Yes, I do feel like this is a safe community of friends.
I really needed to hear this today. I just turned 75 a week ago Saturday. I lost my kitty Jude in March of this year after 11 years. I decided to start up my painting again. My daughter bought me some paints for my birthday. It helps the quiet moments without my cat. She really kept me busy. Thanks so much for sharing. Have a beautiful week. God bless you.💕
An animal brings so much joy, I know as we get older we worry what will happen to them if you die. But please think about rescuing an older animal from a shelter. In the Uk we have a charity called the cinnamon trust where you foster cats & dogs from elderly people that pass & should you pass they then take care of them. Don’t cut yourself off from the joy of owning another pet. Take care❤
@@kimneely4034 Thank you. I have given it some thought. 💕
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What a wonderful charity.I inherited my husband's dog and he's everything to me.I worry because there's no one who will take him.He has so much anxiety and has become fear aggressive after our last move.
@MegaJansue I’m sorry the loss of your beloved cat.
@@Candid_cl Thank you so much.💕
Ms. Sandra, I am 61 years old. I have also gotten to a place in my life that I don't care what people think. I always wanted to please others. I have also learned to stand up for what is right. Love you 😊
You're such a sweet, gentle, loving and happy woman. I admire your wisdom and strength so much.
You had me when I saw your sweet sleeveless sundress in the opening. I now struggle with the sleeveless issue, especially when I get those dreaded purpura purple bump spots. I’ve learned to cover them up with some make up and think who cares if my arms look a little “spotty.” I am trying to follow your formula- life unscripted and to enjoy living the panorama of it all. Love You Ms Sandra ❤
Yes, I’ve been covering up my “bat wings” and crepey skin but sick of being hot! I exercise with weights but it doesn’t make much difference. 😆 Oh well.
Remember, who cares? It is what it is and enjoy your life
@@lifewithsandrahart exactly!
Great video Sandra I reached this stage of not caring what people think probably when I turned 28 I am 73 years young now . I don’t hurt anyone or insult anyone, I am very careful of others feelings. I just turned deaf ear on what people think of me. All my life I like classy fashion, colorful clothes, high heels & wearing makeup not to forget long hair 2 inches past my shoulder . I heard this so many times aren’t you old for long hair??? Women in your age should not wear red, OMG how you walk in these high heels, you are old you can fall & break your neck🙀 You still dye your hair, what is wrong in grey natural looking hair & the list of comments goes on. In the beginning I used to explain why I color my hair because grey wash me out, why I hate black & dark clothes they don’t go with my skin tone etc…. Then I stopped explaining , when I hear one of these comments my answer is yes I am still wearing high heels I love them & no I am not worried of falling & breaking my neck it is my neck after all.. This is me take me the way I am or leave me alone 😃
I admire you for continuing to take pride in your appearance. Not caring what others think doesn't mean letting yourself go in that respect.
I wish I could still wear heels. Bunions😩
Loved your comment, I would break my neck lol😂
@@maryabdel-malik656 Right On Sister!
Wonderfully said... I'm 60 next year and getting to the point of not caring about others opinions and judgements.I don't dress for others. I'm dressing for my liking and comfort. If others like it wonderful if not then don't keep looking. Your videos are helping other woman to have the knowing that's it's okay to age and not feel bad about the changes and embrace them in ones own way and in ones own happiness. Thank you for this Sandra...💜💛💚.
Love that!
@@lifewithsandrahart❤❤❤
Being free of the menstrual cycles was a liberation i am grateful for. It was painful a whole week of every month of every year all those years. Then there was 10 years of hot flashes. THAT made me look worn out, just beat . Do now thats over and now, now i enjoy the freedom of no makeup snd watering my plants in the yard in clothes i jump into. No propriety, Stress is so unhealthy !
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Hot flushes can last all your life.
Oh yes, but the occasional hot flash at 67. Just smile
Sandra you are spot on with the topic of this video. I always let my self worth be determined by others. However once I turned 60 I said as you have said. I know my own value and I am happy. I must say my husband, who passed away 2 and a half years ago always said the same as you "Who cares" as long as I care. We were married for 51 years ( Iam 74) and he was my biggest supporter. Now I am my biggest slupporter. Thank you for maybe getting others of our age to value their own self worth.
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I’m 71. I stopped wearing makeup when I was 55, 4 years before I retired. I just got tired! Lately I have been vain about crepey arms but you are an inspiration.
Love your words, “Just live your life, let the joys unfold”! 🌸
Amen Sandra! I don't care what others think. Just be kind. Be a good person and be respectful of others. I'm so happy and free in my early 70s!🤗💖
I don't care either what other people think.😊 True freedom.
Truly!
Thank you for being so open and wise. I will be 82 tomorrow and I at not at that "I don't care what someone else thinks" and everything you said is so true. I do know that I lose out on life a lot because I put too much emphasis on pleasing others. Hoping your Vlog today will inspire me to let go more! Thanks !
Make yourself happy
Happy Birthday!🎉❤🎉
That rain sounds WONDERFUL!
Yes, Sandra it’s very freeing to not care what other people think
I wish younger people would learn to not care, I always feel bad
When I hear about young people being bullied because they don’t seem
To fit in.
I loved your Vlog Sandra. It was like spending a day with you. What a pleasure! I am now 60 and I am definitely at the point of not caring what others think. It is such a free feeling! We can be who we want as long as we are not hurting anybody. Thank you for your continued inspiration and love. ❤
I think being old enough to retire plays a big role in not caring what others think. We're on 'the other side of the mountain' and can enjoy the view from here.
You look adorable in your long dress. Very pretty 😍 ❤❤
Sandra, wise words as always. I am traveling right now in Norway. My hair is a mess in part because it has rained a lot and I’m traveling light with no hair tools. I don’t care! I’m having fun and meeting interesting people from all over. I’m not on a tour. I’m on my own which is how I like to travel. I’ve had such low self esteem most of my life but I’m finally feeling positive.
I see you are now at 500k. Go Sandra!
❤go you xx
Hello Sandra 🖐. I always enjoy listening to your wisdom. When I was young I did care about other peoples opinion and it made me feel miserable, but now as I'm getting older I care less and less. I'm 48 and it's so liberating, it's pure freedom. Still there is room for improvement, but I'm so grateful. I agree with you: as long as we don't hurt anybody. Thank you so much lovely lady 🙏
I love hour shorter hair the best! You look great!
Please do more of the out and about videos. Very enjoyable. Love your sundress❤
I have also become much less concerned about what others think of me as I age. It feels so great compared to earlier years. You have a kind audience because you attract others like you. You are a literal beautiful ray of sunshine. I hope to be living a great life like you in my 80’s.
Thanks Sandra, it's heartwarming to be part of this community and to know I'm loved.
Sending love to you too xx
Your not being selfish,i am in the same frame of mind as you Sandra,after all we can’t please everyone,just enjoy life,as long as nobody gets hurt ☘️☘️
I love this video. It’s good timing because I told a friend last week that I realized that I don’t give a s**t anymore what anyone thinks about me or how I live my life! Thank you!
For me this time in my life (80) I will not let little irritations or health setbacks stop me from enjoying my day. I may go out and shop, or go to lunch with friends, or just sit in my comfortable home and read and listen to music. I love living life on cruise control at this time.
I’m the same age and agree with what you say x
Wishing you both health & happiness
I agree. When I turned 60, I thought: You know what, if certain people don’t like me by now, when will they. So I might as well do what I like, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone. So, just be happy, and who gives a flying flip as you said. I laughed so hard when you said that because that’s really it in a nutshell. Thank you .This video was very helpful and enjoyable.
Oh my, yes I agree Sandra. I’ve spent so much of my life caring and stressing over other people’s opinion of me! Now at 53 yes I think the switch flicked off…I really and truly don’t care!!!!! I’ve given up trying to impress my parents because no matter what I do it has always been twisted into a negative…however my siblings have always been praised. Not anymore, I don’t care a flying hoot! Finally, freedom!❤❤❤
Its wonderful to be 71 and enjoying life just doing my own thing. Aches and pains, yes, to be expected but the freedom to be me and live my own life making my own choices good and bad is marvelous 😊😊
Seeing you unscripted has brought the biggest smile to me face❤😊 I've never loved a video so much! You are amazing!❤ There's a time for the younger generation to be on the stage. Let them enjoy it. Time for us to enjoy our freedom to be ourselves! I'm only 56 but realize what's going on because I was married to the most amazing woman who was 33 years older than me for 26 years. Let's enjoy all stages of our lives!❤
Brava, Madame! Your conversation today was so timely and a great invitation to each of us to live our best lives by not focusing on what others think or say! I was reminded of my favorite Eleanor Roosevelt quote: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” I hope we can each celebrate ourselves daily for the unique and awesome women we are.
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It's a great thing not to care about what people think everyone has an opinion, and I don't care. Life is getting shorter. Let's enjoy what we have left. Always be kind.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Collin Street Bakery is famous for fruit cakes and started in Corsicana TX 🎉 Texas is my State. I love your videos! Oh my I hear what you're saying I have a lot of Narcissistic relatives. I have to consider the source often times!!
I live in Oregon and have ordered from Collin Street Bakery many times! Wonderful fruitcakes!
You just keep getting prettier. Thank you for the message and your reminder that we are all unique and to hold our head proud.
My saying is “I’m the best I can be today” yesterday gone tomorrow isn’t here yet so just live in the now.
Thank you for another great topic lovely lady ❤
I agree Sandra, about the not caring about others opinions. What I personally fight with is my own opinion...when I was young and saw older or even obese people not caring about what they let show, I remember thinking I will not be that way. So I fight myself over these issues. A couple others were the short hair and elastic pull up pants😂I'm 66 now and I dare say I'm getting there because the pants have arrived on me, and not to forget the comfortable shoes vs the stylish ones❤love all your content❤
Always loved comfortable shoes . Well done. You can buy some lovely coloured flats. I have mauve and light pink joggers. Both slip on and laced.
I remember at age 16 coming home from school upset because I was told someone had said something about me.
Mom said something that’s stuck with me for all my 71 years. She said “ when they’re talking about you they’re letting someone else rest”.
About age 30 I stopped caring what others thought or said about me. A sister in law and her family accused me of having affairs when in reality I was working 3 jobs as a nurse to support my two children whose irresponsible father was present but not contributing to the family finances.
Like everything, as time goes on the Truth prevails.
I love you and your incredible wisdom.
Stay strong and healthy.
I’m sending Hugs and Love from Arkansas.
So true, I always say “if it’s not illegal, too costly, or hurtful “ all is well.
I’ve given so much of myself to others over the years. Time now to just be me, accept the ravages of time, do and think for myself and yes not care about criticism. There is nothing wrong with trying to please yourself, nor should there be any guilt. As you say, as long as you are not hurting anyone “who cares”…. Blessings to everyone.
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Hello Nana Sandra, My goodness, we have those very same wall tiles in our kitchen that you have !! Montreal got a few days of Beryl rain last week. I got my ballot from Florida on Friday. I get them sent to me. When I was in Junior High in Miami, I took a Home Ec class, where I learned how to sew and mend. I have my sewing kit in my desk cabinet, I use it quite often.
Learning not to care, took a long time for me, but became easier the longer i stayed sober. Hope all is well today.
Thanks for sharing and being here today. I am slipping my ballot in the mail mailbox today.
I can’t imagine living my day to day busy life without giving myself a moment to receive this positive, encouraging, loving energy from you .. thank you so much for the love you have given to us and the world, Sandra Hart❤️
I'm all for feeling the freedom of thought that a certain stage of life brings. I personally want and hope to continue to not let myself respond to any programming of looking and feeling "old." Staying healthy, happy, comfortable and current makes me feel good. And feeling good about myself is what brings me the freedom to truly be me!
Preach on Sister!
Thank you
You are beautiful, Sandra, inside and out. You are a wonderful mentor for all of us aging women. I love your little doggie - adorable!
You are so right..as I have gotten older which is 63 I have finally found the freedom of living my life as I see fit so I don't care ..what other are thinking .As long as you don't hurt anyone with your actions live your life to its fullest.
OMG did this speak to me , I am in hospital and look my worst , I was so worried about my looks I didn’t want visitors. I didn’t even want the drs and nurses seeing me look like this , listening to you I realize how silly that it all is . I’m 71 yo why should I have anxiety over my looks when I’ll. Thanks for a great video.
I would be like you too ! Get better soon xx
Hope you are home by now!!! Let your natural beauty shine!!!!! Who cares??!!!💕 Feel better soon. Love your way!
So inspiring for me today Sandra you are a joy to listen to and learn from … I’m almost 70 and so low… you absolutely lifted me … now to get a grip, I’m very fit but need to embrace, for example, the crinkly skin, dress colourfully and not care what anyone else thinks… pretty tricky though 😂 thank you Sandra❤
Everytime I watch your videos, I just want to thank you so much. Your words of wisdom resonate and mean so much. I'm 60 and feel like my feelings are finally changing after years of being a chronic over thinker, worrier of what people think, way too sensitive and too much of a people pleaser. I'm now just starting to accept myself and feel so grateful for all I have at this stage. Your videos inspire me to embrace the years ahead rather than fear them 💖 xx
Thank you lovely Sandra and your sweet furbaby Mooshi 🧡🐾🐾🧡 for today's Vlog - wonderful. I'm just about ten years behind you, and I try to always remember what Eleanor Roosevelt said ... what other people think of me is not my business. Now, I'm going to also remember what you said ... who cares. I love you and this community.
I love that quote but Eleanor Roosevelt, I had not heard that one. Going to remember it.
I really enjoyed seeing you go about your daily life. Making coffee, sitting with MoShoo. You are such an inspiration to me. Needed to hear your words of wisdom. Love that dress on you. Thank you.
I have been in the I don’t care phase of life since I turned 70😁 So freeing!!
Siempre líndo verla y escucharla, feliz domingo!!! ❤️❤️
Thanks so much for being here
Thank you for sharing this Sandra. This is one of my favourite videos. ❤❤
Thanks so much
Love it... Who gives a flyin flip!🤗
Exactly, living our lives unscripted and organically both in beauty and diet. Inspiring mindset and lifestyle. Thank you Sandra.
Thanks so much, Sandra for this inspiring message when I need it the most. Hope that you always stay happy and healthy. So much love from Vietnam to you. I sincerely hope that this channel can go on for a very long time ❤
Wow! What a wonderful video! Thank you Sandra so much🙏I came to the point in my life that I absolutely don’t care about what others think about me😀Yes, I see them, but that’s it! I focus on myself. Love❤️
Look forward to Sundays so I can spend some quiet time listening to you…and seeing your videos. ❤
I thought this was one of the best videos you have ever done. Your honesty and topic about who cares what others say was on point.Just being you and who you are, I just love.Thank you for being a beautiful woman...
What a wonderful video Sandra. It has taken me years to set boundaries and recently to have a “don’t care” attitude. It is freeing! Love you and MooChu is adorable!
You are so lovely and helpful , as always. This video with Mooshie and your CONTENTMENT ANND GRATITUDE! I hope we meet someday. Everything you say is true but thanks for the reminder. At 72, Your example and words mean a lot
I am 41 years young and let me say Ms. Sandra ... you inspire me beyond belief. I look forward to my Golden girl years! You are gorgeous! Thank you for what you do! I hope to be like you when I grow up. God bless you❤
You're glowing in that sundress, Sandra! Love it! Great advice, although not always easy...and of course it's natural to care what people who love us think...it's ok to take in feedback but ultimately we make the final call.
You certainly are the voice of reason. I know you fall in love more and more every time you look into your sweetheart furry babies face! Just precious! Love your summer dress! Life’s too short to worry about most of the nonsense we’re exposed to. I choose peace…and of course love. Self love that is! Xo
It has been MANY decades since I cared what others think. I am myself and don't have regrets about that. Like you said, be yourself and just don't hurt anyone else. Confidence as we age is beautiful. ♥ Elle
It’s so true, isn’t it Elle!! You are very wise for your young tender years!😍😍 At my age, everyone under 60 is young!!! Love you ! 💕
Yes, being kind is the most important!!
Thank you for the words of wisdom. “Just live your life unscripted…” The freedom of not caring what others think is true freedom… I’m getting there.❤️
When we were Young we seemed to be in competition with one another so we look for approval, you knew other women would judge what you're wearing, as you get older you really don't care, as you get older you become invisible to the younger generation ,so there is that. I don't give it any thought what people think one way or the other, have a wonderful day rain or shine, no rain here in Jacksonville
I agree 👍
Yes,who cares, a great message to remember!
I love being old. It is freeing.
I agree, we do care less what others think as we get older. Great topic!
Love that you're trying something
new with your format of the video.
Lovely to see you go about your day with your wee pooch😊 and of course your message too - completely agree! Big love from Scotland ❤️🐶
Sandra, Thank you! You are so lovely inside and out! I agree, I am 63y and I feel so much more relaxed and accepting of what I look like. I don't care much what others think of me now. I care now about also being kind to myself.
I loved you as a kid watching Romper Room, and I still love you!! You are so great Sandra, and such a gift to us! ❤
Sandra, I have always been attracted to and curious about the uniqueness of others... Different ages, cultures, ways of looking at the world. I've discovered that people respond to my interest in them by being interested in me. It's a two-way street. No need to try to impress or please or judge. When I'm just being me, they are free to do the same and a respectful friendship can develop. I learned this lesson pretty early in life, but it's never too late. True freedom!
The best thing about aging is retiring! Freedom of time! AND you are soooo right, we don't have to worry what others think!! Just awesome!!!
Oh Sandra, your talk about not caring what others think is so powerful! The main obstacle I give myself in life is comparing myself to others and caring too much what they think. I realise it is a waste of energy but I struggle to let go of it! I need to listen to this on repeat 😆 thank you for your wisdom and for being authentically you, and I totally agree with you (as an actress and a person) that it would be lovely if actresses and others allowed themselves to age naturally, thereby keeping their uniqueness 💕
Hi Sandra I agree, as long as you’re not hurting anyone, why care about what people think about you.Thank you for this freeing yourself video. You are such a breath of fresh air. Take care and continue to be free❤
Hello Sandra I hope your procedure went well last week. I love your message about learning from our mistakes and not caring what people think. Such wise advice. Take care and thank you for your video. 💕
Oh my gosh! I just realized from another comment you were on Romper Room. Omg Romper Room was the only glimpse at a normal life I had. I was born into poverty in NorCal…. That show was such a big part of my childhood. Thank you Sandra Hart!
I am finally learning it's ok to not be a people pleaser. At 62 I finally figured out that I am me. I can still be kind and giving of my time but on my terms.
Thank you, Sandra, for being you! YOU are truly loved too!
Isn't the internet a marvelous thing. I live in the south of England and would probably never have met you without it! Here's to your widespread community.
Vlog and dog were great, thank you😘😀❤️
I’m still working on exposing my arms. I also have imperfect looking thighs with cellulite and last year gained a belly I’ve never had before. I do plan to loose that, but the saggy arms and cellulite thighs I want to be rid of my horrible thoughts about them. I do love and appreciate my miracle body. It’s been through so much and the pain isn’t easy living with either, but a grateful true survivor of so much with many miracles. Like yourself I’m disappointed in Hollywood lately for many reasons. I adore and appreciate you greatly. Hugs of love to you, Sandra. 💕
Congratulations on 500k subscribers, Sandra!
Love your new style of video. So mice to see clips of your city and your adorable companion. Thank you.
My mother used to make snitchy comments about me, I dont think she liked any of her children. I'm happy when people smile and acknowledge you.
You're winning, Sandra! Thank you for your unscripted vlog, I love it!
I needed to hear this
Glad you were here today
I love the flowing, colorful dress you're wearing. Thanks for the advice to be your own person.🪶
Hi, Sandra. Thank you for your video! Best wishes to you! Welcome. ❤
Thank you too
I think that experiencing concern over others' opinions of ourselves allows us to reach a point of 'not caring'. It's a process. I think when you say 'I don't care', Sandra, a person needs to reach that stage in their life to really understand that. It's like you've earned it. I get it! Love it! Thank you and adorable Mr. M!!🧡💃😘