Friendships Over 60 And A Day With Moo Shu And Me | Sandra Hart
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- Spend the day with Moo Shu and me here in South Beach. I share my thoughts on finding friendships over 60 and the reality of aging!!
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No make up and you still look vibrant youthful and angelic I love and adore you I was feeling so down and now I look up and here you are reminding me to be grateful thank you so so much from the time all the times I watched you when I was 5 years old you are still inspiring me❤
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Your comment and kindness overwhelms me! Thanks so much!
Thanks a lot, dear Sandra, for sharing your day with us. You are radiant and your peacefulness is contagious. Maybe the vet does not see you, but we do! And each week we wait for your kind, thoughtful message and your beautiful spirit! Keep on inspiring us to give the best of ourselves! We ❤ you!
Sandra you are so right. I notice this when I go out with my Mom. She is visually impaired so it takes her a while to do things at the cash register etc. And people take to her very loud, and also as if she were a child. That bothers me because she is as sharp as ever. I think it's up to us to re-education people on how to treat our elders. Also, as usual your wisdom is on point. ❤
Great suggestion!!!
Sandra I absolutely admire you! You are right! We are in charge and we decide about it!
You look beautiful with/no makeup🌺😍🌸
Thank you so much! Exactly!
Wow, I’m not alone in finding it impossible to make new friends. I’m alone in Florida, been here only 3 years. Its been much harder than I thought to find new friends.
Hi! Have you looked online? There are groups in different locations that meet up monthly-- some are by professional interest, by hobby, by town, by church or synagogue.
Please don't get discouraged.
I live in Maryland and am also seeking friendship with adults; just casual, enjoyable conversations or going out for theater!
I'm not of any particular religion..but when I lived in Florida I joined the Unitarian congregation. We had many, many activities going on. Pot luck at each others home, walking for a cause, theater, book club, etc, etc. If I hadn't found this intellectual group of people I would have been an unhappy camper in Florida. And of course there was the club house and swimming pools where I lived. I moved back north cause I missed my daughter and grandchildren. I also got involved teaching English one on one to Spanish ladies. Good luck. No one should be friendless❤
@@ritalagrenade621 thank you!!! 💕
Great suggestions from our community! Thank you!!
Love hearing about your precious puppy!
When my husband and I moved to a new neighborhood we met a lot of neighbors walking our dog. We would always know the dog's names but it took us awhile to learn the owners' names! About 6 months after my husband died a neighbor's husband across the street died. I reached out to her to help her through and we have become friends. Reaching out to help a neighbor is always a good thing.
You are a very lovely woman with a beautiful heart & it reflects through your life & outlook! Thanks ❤
Thanks so, so much!!
I remember one time we went to buy a car. The salesman only spoke to my husband as if I wasn't there. He finally said to the man, you need to talk to her, she makes the final decision. Then the man changed his tune. Thanks for sharing your day.
You look wonderful with or without make-up. Your personality is beautiful. It's always a pleasure to listen to you, you are so wise and encouraging. Thank you from Germany ❤
Thank you so much!
Thank you for this wonderful vlog. Very uplifting! I’m 78!
When I was doing private duty and being at a doctor's appointment with a client the nurse started talking loud to him and using baby talk. I just stared at her and said. Why are you yelling and talking to Mr.R like that?? He had the biggest smile on his smile. It's OK. It's OK Rita. I guess I was fed up having people talk down. Not very classy on my part, but hey😂 Now at 84 there's occasions when I'm ignored😂 or talking to differently. Thank goodness though, that I'm not turning into my father. He tried to educate the younger generation when he felt he was looked upon as just an older handsome gentleman. Lol😂 he was super classy and funny.
I really like the walking tour of your neighborhood. You look great and as always, I enjoyed the content. Thank you.
Thank you so much!
Would love to see more videos like this one, Sandra! Just comforting, intriguing and encouraging to see more mature peoples everyday life.❤🌺🌿🌵🌴🌸
The dynamics of life and friends change dramatically once one loses a spouse. I’m not necessarily a dog lover but I love my Zumba dancing. Also, once a month my friends and I play dominoes. That’s rather a perfect schedule for me and not stressful and filled with stress.
Thanks so much for sharing. Great ideas.
Thank you for sharing Sandra. I always enjoy your videos and the comments shared by the lovely ladies in this community. It's so nice having like minded women to chat with. Just a bit of caution when choosing pen pals online, be careful of scammers. It's so sad we have to be aware of these kinds of people at all times. Wishing you and everyone a very good, peaceful day.💐
Yes. You are right. The site I listed, they check. Really important.
You are so right about dog people. I am one but don’t have a dog right now. You have encouraged me with your little MuShu. ❤
😊 you look awesome
Thanks so much!
Hi Sandra Love the walkabout. My two closest lifelong friends live far away - even though we text and phone it’s not the same as having them live close by. I miss them and wish we could visit at each others houses like we did back in the day. I have learned to enjoy “friendly contacts” from people in my life who are not personal friends but who I have known for years because I see them on a regular basis- hair stylist, skin care facialist, cashier at market. I live in a neighborhood of dog walkers too and a friendly hello makes a feeling of community. I just turned 73 and your ❤ videos are helping me to come to acceptance on that which falls away over time and what comes to us next if we let it in.
Great comment and informative. Tks.
Goodmorning Sandra. Glad to be able to tune in on your informed videos. You look glamorous the way you are without makeup. Continue on with the cheerful videos. ❤
Thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing your day with us. I love how you cherish the simple things - simple but enjoyed. I adopted my dog about 2 years ago after not having a pet for 25+ years. I also live in a condo, so walk her 3X a day. She brings me such joy. Besides the love she gives me, I get to know my neighbors, their dogs, feel the changes in the seasons, and enjoy the ebb and flow of the nature around me. I am grateful. ❤
Hi, Sandra. Thank you for your video. ❤❤. Welcome.
Thanks for watching!
) You hit on an issue that I face too! When I'm with my Adult children's, they always talk to them, and never look my way! This does offend me!
This is very true. I believe the reason they do this, is because it's similar to a mother and child scenario. It doesn't offend me, it saddens me a bit, that I've lost my full independence. That is why they do go with us and so I take comfort in knowing I have someone who cares enough to do that. It is a good thing to have and it gives them purpose, and compassion. One day they will be in our shoes and how blessed they are to see how one ages graceful.
Good perspective.
I’ll speak up next time in the most unoffending way, If I can.
You're beautiful Sandra!
I really appreciate that!! Made my day!
You look great without any makeup. 👍💝
Thank you so much
❤❤ Sending My Deepest Regards, Blessings, Love ND Heartfelt Gretitude... you looking so pretty.... your sharing is always amazing... loved & appreciated..❤️❤️🙏🙌🙏💐💐❤️❤️
Thank you! You too!
Sandra, you are absolutely beautiful without make up! You are like the beautiful rose close To you at the end of the vidéo !
Thank you for showing us your beautiful place, so calm and harmonious ! And also MooShu❤
You are a wonderful example to me! 🌹🙏❤
You are a gift, Sandra Hart. ❤
Thanks for sharing. Great no makeup looks wonderful..... from the Ozarks
Thank you so much!
Sandra I ❤️ your Sunday visits. Gardening makes you beautiful.
Thank you Sandra. Your videos always calmly inspire me.
I know what you mean about drs and nurses looking at your daughter to give instructions to rather than you, who are the owner of your pet or your SELF.
I had been giving my sister ( a year older, with many dibilitating issues and in a wheelchair, yet fiercely independent ) rides to her Dr appts. I would go with her into the little consultation rooms to push her wheelchair. They would come in the room, greet us and then look at ME and talk ABOUT her. It was pretty subtle.. and I guess I didnt realize it. But one day she said to me " do you notice that they do that, like Im not even there"?. I hadnt. From then on, I was hyper aware. After the initial greeting I stopped looking at them. I would focus on her.. and then so did they.
I had forgotten about that.
In my keto /Carnivore community, we talk about how we seem to have lost control of our own medical care, as Drs assume we dont have choices about our care. Our motto is "RESEARCH and BE the Captain of your OWN ship".
Stay as healthy as you can be. The mental clarity is amazing! And youll be no longer requiring their services. Im going to be 67 next month and on low carb for 5 yrs. Im off all meds, reversed pre diabetes, high bp, sleep apnea and lost 80 lbs. And Ive never felt better! I feel like Im 40!
May God Bless and keep us all learning truth.
I love your calming words. Your a beautiful woman with or without makeup. God Bless you.
Blessings to you Sandra, you are beautiful, thank you for all your inspiration and wonderful wisdom that you impart❤
Sandra! I came to comment how much glow you have in this video and how beautiful you are ❤️❤️❤️
You just made my day!! Thank you!
Wow, thank you so much for a fabulous conversation today, Madame! I loved what you said about connecting people through so many paths; especially for those who are homebound. It's so important for everyone to know they are valued, given dignity and respected - the more we can reach out to one another, the more we can reflect the gifts of love and compassion. Wishing everyone in our community a positive and love-filled day! Wishing Moo Shu a safe and healthy recovery from his procedure, too! 🌻💌🐶
Such a beautiful Lady you are Sandra. Thank you for sharing this peaceful day with us ❤
I would love to see you visiting with your daughter. I love mother-daughter relationships. I am 66 and lost my mum 2 years ago so would love seeing a conversation between the two of you. I'm sincere, not creepy. Love, Susie
You look beautiful with or without makeup. Your videos always make me feel good. I had 2 pen pals in elementary school. One was in California and the other one was from Wisconsin. I live in Georgia. We wrote for years. You are so organized. I wish I was more like that. Your Puppy is adorable. 🦴 He already loves his Mamma. ❤ I know he a big comfort to you. I lost my Yorkie boy 2 years ago. I still miss him. He was 12 years and 4 month. Thank you Sandra for taking your time to put these videos on.❤
Thank you for a look at your day,God bless ❤
You're beautiful ❤ and you can be in charge and you are !! 😂 I admire you, Sandra!
❤love you! Be Happy
You, too!
Amaze, inspire, and beautiful are 3 words that come to mind when I see and listen to your videos.
You are right , sometimes in my 80s i feel invisible. Hay ho, never mind, i feel blessed. 🕊️🙏😃😻
I've been watching your videos as a 19 years old and I look up to you so much. I am not afraid of aging anymore since I met you because you're graceful, beautiful inside and out and I can imagine myself as an 80 years old exactly like you. 💗
Wow, thank you!
I've noticed people do that to seniors and children. In the process of assuming a lot, they show disrespect and, IMO, cluelessness. The worst part is they're not bothering to assess the persons awareness. They just assume because of the physical appearance. Come on! Didn't that guy know who he was talking to!! Apparently not! Nice vid, Sandra, as always. Thank you. 🧡💃
MooShu is adorable. Sandra you are beautiful with or without makeup. Your top floor garden is a beautiful place for looking at the stars, meditating etc❤
You live in such a beautiful place!!! I am so happy you have a new pup to enjoy your life with you!!! Being a dog person myself, I can wholeheartedly agree that dog people are usually wonderful people and can definitely become very special lifelong friends!!!
Sandra, this is just what I needed this morning! More like this please🩷 Delightful! Thank you!🌿🌺🌴🦋
Oh wow your comment/observation about how store staff/people in general "bypass" older humans, assuming they don't pay the bills or manage expenses of the house (and instead defer to a younger person who is with them), was so insightful about our culture (it happens here in Australia too!). I love how you remained graceful in expressing this, but it does highlight the hidden assumptions we have about people who have spent more time on this planet. I appreciate how you create videos that show how capable, kind, fun, energetic and cheeky we can all be as we get older. Thank you! Wishing everyone here a wonderful week 🥰
Thank you for the stroll around your neighbourhood. Your cheerfulness always makes me smile
Yes, we seniors can still be in charge ! Thank you dearest Sandra for speaking about this .
you look gorgeous Sandra! you are a breath of fresh air!
This was a great respite for me! We are in the throes of terrible weather here in the Heartland and it is so stressful. You gave me a nice break to a beautiful and calm place. Thank you - and at 77 I know what you are talking about - we seem invisible! 😊
Yes I too notice at the stores or wherever, the people talk / look to my daughter or sons! But in my early adult days, people spoke to my mother, as a sign of respect! I think times have changed 🤔
You're so right about dog people. For the most part they are kind generous and have empathy. ❤
Hello Sandra, I worked in an environment where we were trained to communicate with people directly., acknowledge everyone and then speak with the customer directly. I enjoy the information that you share. Thank You so much. Take care
You don’t need makeup..you’re so beautiful. You are such an inspiration to me…I love seeing you every Sunday. Yes one can make friends with having a dog..that’s for sure. Have a great week. Sending a big hug for you and your fur baby. ❤️
Oh my God Sandra you are such an inspiration to me. I started watching you during the pandemic, and I want you to know, you are a beautiful beacon of light, hope and Love💞. I am 78 and some days struggle with depression, but you always lift me up to a hopeful place, full of tranquility, hope and love. 💕 THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart.
What a blessing Moo Shu is!! I think of Arthur every time you are in the garden. I know you miss him so!! Great suggestions on meeting friends, Sandra. Blessings, and much love..MaryEllen
He loved that garden so much. Every time I visit up there most days I think of him. Thank you for being here my dear friend. Love you, MaryEllen. Sandra.
Yes Sandra at age 81yrs I find this situation with my daughter
Is exactly the same as yourself .
On Appointments especially,
The Questioner will address my daughter over my head 🤷♀️
I am used to it now, and tell myself , it matters not
For me I love the quote
The Essence of Life
Something to do
Something to Love❤
And something to look forward to.
Amen
I love your little fur baby Moo Shu
Mary Canada 🇨🇦
It was so much fun to join you for the day. You look my age (72) - and you walk with no hesitation - beautiful stride. And also climbing the stairs! I think walking your dog keeps you mobile. I think Florida is probably keeping you young too! Think of all of us that live in the north. May 5 and it is finally, truly spring. upper 60's and the occasional 70's.
I hope you and Moo Shu have had some great times together, though your relationship with each other is still very young.
Thank you for sharing some of your life with us, Sandra.
Sandra, you are a dear friend and I absolutely love your spirit, energy and zest for life! Your garden is an oasis that makes my heart happy. Blessed to have you in my life.
Thank you so much Donna, I am so happy to have you in my ‘bag of marbles.’ Thank you also for stopping by to spend a few minutes with me tonight! MooShu sends Daisy high 5 paws! 💕
No make up, but you still look very nice Sandra ... I so relate to what you say. Making friends while walking our dogs, people ignoring us as if we dont matter any more. I, like you, want to be in charge of my life as long as I can. Make my own decisions, God willing. But anyway, you are lucky to have your daughter there , keeping you company . Its nice to have some family member close by . I am sure you miss Arthur . Enjoy your life Sandra, and thank you for sharing your day with us ... I so wish I could have another little dog myself....
Always such a pleasure to see you and enjoy seeing a little into your life. Love and hugs…still beautiful without makeup ❤️💁🏻♀️🙏
Thank you so much!
Dear Sandra, really enjoyed spending a wonderful day with you ❤ you are so beautiful without any makeup 🌷Much love and many blessings 🙏
So much wisdom in this video Sandra. Thank you for sharing your day with us. It’s a reminder that the simple things in life are what bring us real happiness. You have a beautiful garden and you enjoy it. You have a loving dog who brings you such joy. The added bonus is that he brings you new friends along the way! You are kind. You are confident. You are loving. I look forward do to more videos like it. Blessings and love.
I have found as we age less makeup looks much prettier.I used to do the black eyeliner etc but it makes me look haggard so now just some lipstick and concealer and go. Mascara makes my eyes water and itch so none. You look pretty all the time because
#1 you are pretty and
#2 your inner light shines through.
Bless You Sandra
Thank you Sandra ❤ stay well
Thank you for taking us on your walk with your daughter & sharing Moo Shu with us. You look wonderful as always. Yes, dog people are the best people. It is difficult to find & make new friends when we are older. We definitely have to join some type of group. I enjoy helping others to help make their life better. Moo Shu might be mad at you for having him neutered!! Haha! And yes we can still be in charge of our life. Thank you always for your wisdom & videos!❤ Have a great week.
I’m originally from the small south Arkansas town where the Anthony family live, they are the owners of the Farm where the Derby winner was trained.
Interesting video to ponder, Sandra. My take is that we can inadvertently give off signals that we are not in charge. An example... Recently I went to an oncology consult with my sister. I was quite impressed that the doctor always addressed her, except when directly answering one of my questions. It could have gone the other way. He could have assumed that someone had to accompany her, because she was not able to handle the situation on her own. Wrong assumpution, but easy to make. The lesson I've learned? Life is a lot more simple, when we make the effort to always 'show' people who we really are. Don't make them guess. It helps them and it helps us. Thank you, Sandra!
Great advice!
I love your hat 👒 a good reminder for skin care/ protection when in the sun.
A wonderful video full of wonder, beauty, and love for one another. Thank you for your precious time you give to us. ❤ 🙏 ❤
Also any local nursing home and hospital has people without family or family that are not nearby to visit regularly.
I knew a retired nurse that baked 5 dozen sugar cookies every morning and distributed them at the local hospital she had retired from. She did that as long as she could.
You are such an inspiration and a wonderful human being, dear Sandra! Thank you very much!
It’s nice you’ve met people through walking your dog. I go to Silver Sneakers three times a week and have made new friends as well as the Bible studies I attend. I agree about joining clubs…I made new friends playing mahjong at our community center. It’s a great idea about having a pen pal if one is housebound. Also if a person is able, it’s nice to invite neighbors or friends over for tea or coffee.
You look so lovely, you are glowing, Sandra. I’m 53 and you have more of a social life than I do! 😊 I agree about meeting people through walking your dog. And I have to add it is so refreshing to see someone with minimal makeup. I also wear minimal during the day now that I’m bit older, I apply makeup up when I go out. Oh Sandra I also have to add that when my son and I went to have our Covid shots the doctor continually talked to him! Totally ignored me…my son is only 22. I just couldn’t understand it. I questioned whether it was because I was grey…and looked older, but refused to believe that was the case. I thought about it for days and yes, that was the reason. I was offended, especially since I feel young. It was something I wasn’t prepared for!❤❤❤
You are right about dog and animal people!❤
That's right, dog people are always nicer individuals. Thanks God, I've a dog too, a lovely Schnauzer boy. I am from Germany too, so nice to meet friends from other countries. Enjoy your day, dear Sandra, abd stay happy and healthy. ❤😊
Happy mother’s day xo 😘🙏🌸😊🫶🩷💋😊
You look beautiful without make up!! 🌷 It was Great to spend a day with you!! ❤️
You STILL Look GREAT Without makeup! 👍😃💯🌸🌸🌸🌸
Happy Mothers Day Dear Mary❤
❤Dear Sandra😊Thank you for sharing your wisdom and beautiful mind ...cute dress fits on you.
When my husband passed away, I started traveling with a local Motor Coach company. I made some wonderful friends thru this experience, we now plan our trips together and check on each other daily. We really grew close during the covid shutdown. You look lovely.
Thank you Sandra! Absolutely loved your garden, I could feel the heat and enjoyed looking at the flower swinging in the air while you talked about how to make new friendships, such an important topic!
I love your dress!!!!
WOW what a skyline! Bet it looks beautiful lit up at night. You have a beautiful life. I love Florida and the beach but not the crowds so I would not be able to live there although it seems very convenient that you can walk to a lot of places which is great for your health. . I live out in the country in rural Indiana . I'm 63 and before I retired at 60 I joined a large church partly because I wanted to meet new people and be involved more in my community. I had to "Make the Effort" so to speak. I only knew one person who went to this church and every week I will move to a different seat and I just introduce myself to people, ask them how long they have attended an make some small talk. I have met one really good friend, quite a few other general friends and joined a ladies group as well. If not a church join a "community type organization". Especially if you are in a rural area, as you get older it is so easy to get isolated. But remember people are not going to come to you, you have to make an effort. I'm intrigued by an adult pen pal and going to check that out. Thanks for the info. Love your beautiful videos
Thank you Sandra for sharing your activties and uplifting message. Please let your son know that most cities, through their Parks and Recreation Dept offer toddler and parent classes. In addition, many of the YMCA's also offer classes for toddlers and their parents. I have seen men of various ages attending. Afternoons at the park is another way of meeting 'dads' with toddlers.
Hi Sandra, you've really hit the nail on the head here. I'm 66 and if my daughter accompanies me to the vets, or any work I've had done on the house, or taking my car for a service, they look to her and ignore me. It really annoys me. It makes me feel invisible. Thank you so much for your video xxx
Thank you Sandra have a great weekend 🌹🙏
Without makeup you are still beautiful. Wish I lived in Florida on the beach. Wonderful!
I love how you dress up for the day and I find that dressing up is more important than make up. My mother used to talk to me about ageism and I made sure that when she was with me ,the people addressed her by directing the conversation towards her when she was in her 80s and early 90s. Because, like you, she was a vivacious , beautiful, strong and lively woman and it hurt her feelings that people no longer addressed her. Thanks for bringing up the subject. My mother is now gone but here I am at 65 beginning to feel the same problem as though I were invisible.
You look lovely my dear ,always a pleasure to hear you ..Many blessings 💐
It was fun seeing more of your home and your life. I water my plants with plastic bottles with holes punched in the top so they gradually release during the week (hopefully!) while we are gone). With my moving all over the world, I am good at meeting new people and you gave great suggestions. I loved your garden and views. You have a beautiful life. Love to you. ♥ Elle
Elle, bottles are the best way to water plants slowly. I buy terra-cotta cones that go in the ground and also release it the same way. Like Arizona sometimes it gets so dry here. Thanks for coming by today. Love your way.💕 Sandra
Hello from Saudi Arabia …I’m 28and I love you thank you for your existence
Thank you for being here.
Thanks for sharing your day Sandra.
You are a lovely lady with a lovely heart❤
Love the balcony! We've had no rain for several months in Perth. Autumn has only just started. Re dogs I prefer corgis but hardly ever see one. You're beautifully turned out as always Sandra.
About 'overlooking' older people, very often they have hearing problems. I know this with my mother and a sister with MS and people assume they can't hear them.
Loved this Sandra. I noticed that you moved very well in your garden and heard you do yoga. I know not everyone is able to do this, but the yoga must make such a difference for those who can. Thankyou.
Yes! Thank you!
You are really one of the sweetest persons I have come across on RUclips ❤️ love your channel Sandra 😊thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you so much!