I was on a date with this guy... we were vibing, went to the movies he paid for EVERYTHING without a blink. So I getting info and I asked about where he lives... he said he lives with his cousin momentarily and the situation was'embarrassing' I told him I understand and continued to pry... he got really mad and walked off the date😂. GOOD-I got all the info I needed!! And a great quesadilla meal😂
Content Idea: I think we need a class focused on asking questions and actually playing them out in conversation. I did something similar with the guy I’m dating now, and it kept him engaged. However, there was a point where I felt he was overwhelmed, and at that point he told me he appreciated women who are “relaxed.” I picked up on that signal and slowed down a bit, but I would like to know or see some examples of how this approach might work, how it could go sideways, and how we should react. It also feels a bit masculine, but I do want him to be uncomfortable . 😬 Do you have any suggestions on how to approach this in a more feminine way? P.S- I do the wall thing on dates😂 Also when do you recommend bringing it up because I don’t have pineapples until I’m in a committed and monogamous relationship and tbh some men have given me the title to get pineapples but my intuition is pretty good and sensing when something is off.
Many of the situations in the Discord Time segment sounded spooky crazy 😱 like serialkiller crazy!😱 Like ladies please don't put your safety at risk for the D! It's not worth it and it's not cute. It's dangerous and sad. 😢
Tomisin, I've done everything you've said. We met in February and now were here and he's asking me to move in. I'm scared now because I feel like I'm going to wear out my welcome, for I have been giving him space. How do I keep this relationship happy while moving in with him? Can you do a video for after your in a relationship is solidified.
move in if you want but DONT help him pay rent!! he took care of all his bills before you came he shouldn’t be trying to put you in a roommate situation. give him space by having a job and SAVING YOUR MONEY SINCE UR NOT PAYING RENT!! that way when you’re ready to leave you’re not trapped
Spoiler alert… the “5 moves” are all the same. Get the guy talking and opening up by pretending to be fascinated by him. The rest of the video is just him repeating the same points over and over. I just saved you 2.5 hours. You’re welcome.
this is Red. you are absolutely right. the boyfriend thing was a lie. i softened the blow by lying about a bf but itwas still wrong to lie about. him and i are only 4 years apart so im not ahead of the game but i will say, your advice is valuable. thank u.
Ah, I see. It took me a minute. You told the guy you had a boyfriend but you didn’t. I think sometimes these guys can be intimidating. I can see why you might lie in order to get him to back off. In fact, personally when I feel truly threatened, the gloves are off. Take care of yourself. It takes guts to put yourself out there and get feedback. ❤
@@Hanna_Hoh thank you so much. he is right though, i shouldn’t have allowed it to happen as long as i did. i don’t need his attention anyway. he didn’t read the other messages but i said i did block him
~ 01:34:52 ~ told you ... all these girls tht have ALREADY given away their squirtle & now send a question are ALWAYS WASTING YOUR TIME Koz aint n0thin else really 2 give thereafter. Unless the gurl is very lucky that the guy swings back around 2 her.
He should to do a free discord session on a weekend. The freeloaders ALSO give him money by their views. Its rude to supporters to already have hundreds of discord message and bypass them to answer the paid ones.
~ 01:52:53 ~ I suspect she is lying about something. 'im disappointed in your looks', means they were likely phone or app dating & she sent him "prettied-up", filtered pictures. And the guy was disappointed she did not look as good in real life as she did in the pictures. But i susoect she has been watching your channel for a while so she WILL NOT tell you she met this oke in an app or off the internet!
~02:02:34~ Another liar. The dude did not send pineapple video out of the blue. She HAS been chatting to him on phone or apps while she was having a boyfriend! But she wont tell u that.
@@bigthangz5489 not lying lol. he sent me an anime porn video out of nowhere . i told him i had a boyfriend even though i was single because i was afraid of retaliation knowing how he thinks. i have not been chatting with him; i decided to hear him out because that’s what i was taught from a young age. even if u guys go through a breakup, hear their side.
I was on a date with this guy... we were vibing, went to the movies he paid for EVERYTHING without a blink. So I getting info and I asked about where he lives... he said he lives with his cousin momentarily and the situation was'embarrassing' I told him I understand and continued to pry... he got really mad and walked off the date😂. GOOD-I got all the info I needed!! And a great quesadilla meal😂
Just clicked on a random video to let you know your advice has been working
The Bible says “be slow to speak and quick to listen”… I don’t think it’s manipulation 🤷🏽♀️
Anyone with with any sort of emotional maturity and social intelligence knows that. You don’t need a book of fairytales to tell you
@@AussieGirl235 calm down
@@DrYettyBby Perfecrly calm over here. Sounds like you’re autistic
@@AussieGirl235she said what she said, jus cuz u an unbeliever don’t b mad 😂u kno so much yet u watching still, humble yourself mam
@@toneyfox6328No thanks. I said what I said and you can eat shit
Goldmine of info!!! Ty! 🙏🏻
Content Idea: I think we need a class focused on asking questions and actually playing them out in conversation. I did something similar with the guy I’m dating now, and it kept him engaged. However, there was a point where I felt he was overwhelmed, and at that point he told me he appreciated women who are “relaxed.” I picked up on that signal and slowed down a bit, but I would like to know or see some examples of how this approach might work, how it could go sideways, and how we should react. It also feels a bit masculine, but I do want him to be uncomfortable . 😬 Do you have any suggestions on how to approach this in a more feminine way?
P.S- I do the wall thing on dates😂
Also when do you recommend bringing it up because I don’t have pineapples until I’m in a committed and monogamous relationship and tbh some men have given me the title to get pineapples but my intuition is pretty good and sensing when something is off.
Good babe ... now make them commit & marry u before u give the squirtle. You will get so much more.
Many of the situations in the Discord Time segment sounded spooky crazy 😱 like serialkiller crazy!😱 Like ladies please don't put your safety at risk for the D! It's not worth it and it's not cute. It's dangerous and sad. 😢
Tomisin, I've done everything you've said. We met in February and now were here and he's asking me to move in. I'm scared now because I feel like I'm going to wear out my welcome, for I have been giving him space. How do I keep this relationship happy while moving in with him? Can you do a video for after your in a relationship is solidified.
Whatever you do, don’t you move in with him girl😂. Unless you’re the type who’s gonna be okay with dating 10 years and no ring later on
move in if you want but DONT help him pay rent!! he took care of all his bills before you came he shouldn’t be trying to put you in a roommate situation. give him space by having a job and SAVING YOUR MONEY SINCE UR NOT PAYING RENT!! that way when you’re ready to leave you’re not trapped
Moving in and being his 50/50 gf for 10 yrs ? 😮😮😮
Spoiler alert… the “5 moves” are all the same. Get the guy talking and opening up by pretending to be fascinated by him. The rest of the video is just him repeating the same points over and over. I just saved you 2.5 hours. You’re welcome.
this is Red. you are absolutely right. the boyfriend thing was a lie. i softened the blow by lying about a bf but itwas still wrong to lie about. him and i are only 4 years apart so im not ahead of the game but i will say, your advice is valuable. thank u.
Ah, I see. It took me a minute. You told the guy you had a boyfriend but you didn’t.
I think sometimes these guys can be intimidating. I can see why you might lie in order to get him to back off. In fact, personally when I feel truly threatened, the gloves are off.
Take care of yourself. It takes guts to put yourself out there and get feedback. ❤
@@Hanna_Hoh thank you so much. he is right though, i shouldn’t have allowed it to happen as long as i did. i don’t need his attention anyway. he didn’t read the other messages but i said i did block him
~ 01:34:52 ~ told you ... all these girls tht have ALREADY given away their squirtle & now send a question are ALWAYS WASTING YOUR TIME
Koz aint n0thin else really 2 give thereafter. Unless the gurl is very lucky that the guy swings back around 2 her.
how youmake them feel
How u make them feel
He should to do a free discord session on a weekend. The freeloaders ALSO give him money by their views. Its rude to supporters to already have hundreds of discord message and bypass them to answer the paid ones.
~ 01:52:53 ~ I suspect she is lying about something.
'im disappointed in your looks', means they were likely phone or app dating & she sent him "prettied-up", filtered pictures. And the guy was disappointed she did not look as good in real life as she did in the pictures.
But i susoect she has been watching your channel for a while so she WILL NOT tell you she met this oke in an app or off the internet!
~02:02:34~ Another liar. The dude did not send pineapple video out of the blue.
She HAS been chatting to him on phone or apps while she was having a boyfriend!
But she wont tell u that.
@@bigthangz5489 not lying lol. he sent me an anime porn video out of nowhere . i told him i had a boyfriend even though i was single because i was afraid of retaliation knowing how he thinks. i have not been chatting with him; i decided to hear him out because that’s what i was taught from a young age. even if u guys go through a breakup, hear their side.
Guys can somebody pls summarise I can't listen right now
Does not work on narcissist! They are masters at faking you on
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