It’s not even cute. It looks abnormal as hell. It’s disgusting and disgraceful. It’s psychologically abusive. It’s unsanitary. Every black person that takes part in forcing babies and children to do this, you don’t deserve parenthood and I hope someone calls CPS. If not for this, then any other reason. Any reason. This is so gross.
They're teaching an infant to hate her hair already. Who is this even for? Clearly that baby doesn't want it, so the adult is the one that hates their child so much. People like this should not be parents.
You are correct , I’m a black woman 60 years old and I never had a perm , Relaxer or wear a wig . And the young ladies wished they could have my hair . I finally got my hair in Locs in 2020 . I was never ashamed of my natural hair . I ❤ your comment ,
I believe that these women do not like their daughters at all. When you hate something you go out of your way to ruin it every fucking chance that you get.
I remember taking my daughter and her friends to a birthday party and being astonished when her friends got in my car with wigs on. These are children for crying out loud 😢
Yes! And my daughter is 8 but was 7 at the time.. she called me and said her and her cousins were gluing on long nails and I made her get them clipped all the way down and took them off when she got home… not old enough for that at all. Especially with the rough playing that they do it would’ve been so bad if one broke off
Can we please stop throwing out cancer and alopecia as excuses for participating in this ridiculous behavior? Those cases are extremely rare. But to let black women tell it you would think that most of us have been stricken with cancer in the last 20 years.
I worked at a preschool and the number of little girls who wore weave in their little heads was so sad to me. It really does affect their self esteem. Our self hate runs soooooo deep. Please bring back the PUFFS. No weave on little ones. Even adding it into braids, it alters the perception of their real hair.
Yes, not to mention the hair is sprayed with chemicals or made with chemicals in the case of synthetic hair. They don't know what they are exposing their child to.
My younger half sisters mom makes her get weave because her mom (Hispanic) doesn't take care of it correctly and is too lazy to learn so she either shaves it or makes her get super long weave that looks terrible on her. I feel so bad for my sister, and I wish she lived closer to me instead of several states away because I would love to help her embrace her natural hair 💔 honestly reminds me of myself because my mom did the same thing (besides shaving) and then would get upset at me for my hair breaking off as if SHE wasn't the one destroying my hair by perming it, constantly straightening it, and forcing me to get weave! Had she taken the time to learn my hair it wouldn't have taken me until 2 YEARS AGO at age 21 to learn to love, embrace, and take care of my hair in it's natural state, and guess what? MY HAIR IS FLOURISHING NOW! It's very unfortunate how sometimes the person who's supposed to be building you up is the one that knocks you down, unintentionally or not.
@ That is so so sad. It’s unfortunate that a lot of people have children before healing properly and pass down insecurities and beauty standards that was never meant for us. I pray your sister is able to break out of the mold like many of us had to.
Glued on wigs are disgusting. They make the scalp a breeding ground for yeast and odor causing bacteria. She's going to have bumps and ingrown hairs on her scalp! No one should be glueing wigs on and leaving them on for days to weeks let alone doing this to a child. The obsession with wigs has gone too damn far.
not only is she putting quick weave in her daughters hair, but she is putting it on and off all wrong. It's giving relaxer era. Like where not only does the mother want to straighten your hair, but she does it so terribly that you have to cut all your hair off (speaking from experience). Like what happened to all the cute black girl hairstyles that were pretty easy to do. All you had to do was braid, twist or cornrow their hair and then you're done.
black women these days have so much self hatred they dont even know how to maintain their own hair, so they cant do those hairstyles on their kids because they cant even do it on themselves
Honestly, when those tariff prices come through, I'm not gonna be mad when hair extensions become egregiously expensive. They will be forced to wear their own hair.
i think it just promotes hatred of their natural hair wearing weaves so young. then they become used to it and dont feel like their afro or puff is a "style." their mothers would have to learn to love their own hair first. i knew girls growing up who got perms very young due to their mother not knowing how to style natural hair or saying "its too much." if you have been constantly raised to think your hair as a liability and not an asset things like this will happen. its sad because our hair is soo beautiful, unique and versatile.
The last few days I’ve been seeing videos of babies, usually children of African women, who are wailing and crying, their hearts out the whole time, as they’re being subjected to the glue and getting these ridiculous wigs or weaves or whatever done. Just heartbreaking.
@Tatianaclicks It's just not about the hair. These parents dressing their little girls up like Brats dolls. Wearing fake eyelashes, lipgloss, and clothes a child shouldn't be wearing They have little girls dressing like the are teenagers or grown women. Just look at DJ Envy 9 yr daughter He had her dress up like Lil Kim for a video for Halloween and rapping Kim's song The clothes some of these girls have on are ridiculous
I’m so glad my mom always wore her natural hair even till this day. She always calls wigs “hair hats”😭🤣. So looking at her growing up I just learned to love my type 4 hair. Well 4c hair! ✨
Wanting to have kids is why I went natural. How can I teach my child to love themselves if I can’t walk around with the hair that grows out of my head? 2 years in and my hair is thriving. My goal is waist length.
@@ZimaalaScientist if they are honest will tell you only black people have hair. Others have fur. I'm not being nasty btw. Saw it on a documentary many moons ago.
Iam 21 but if I have a daughter one day she won’t be wearing any type of extensions while she’s growing up. That includes braiding hair. Black mothers definitely neglect their daughters hair and later they become dependent on weave. I don’t want that for my child. Unlike me should have a chance from the beginning. And I also don’t believe lace fronts should be worn by minors. Not just does it look bad it also makes them look much older which isn’t appropriate.
I feel you you lady I have a daughter your age and she’s been wearing braids since she was 3 not because I didn’t like her hair but to PROTECT her hair but I will say that I didn’t let ANYONE else braid her hair but me or her auntie so we were always very age appropriate with her styles and she always had a choice of what she wanted so it was fun for her as well as an education on caring for the hair with a protective style like braids but I wanna also say she has the most BEAUTIFUL xl Afro under her braids that she also as an adult likes to wear as well she does that to rest her hair and treat her edges and nape so it’s really all about educating them about their hair and teaching them to love how beautiful and versatile and STRONG it is and also to embrace their natural hair as well as protect it❤
Its all about Vanity and looking good....over health and wellness. I beleieve this has always being a prime factor amongst Black women in our communities
I worked at an after school program and the amount of young girls that walked in with ankle length braids made me so mad. I had to ask them why, and they said because I can. The braids were TO THE ANKLES. I told them that all that tension on the scalp isn't good for their natural hair. Them girls told me, "why would I care about something like that when I can throw a quick weave or a wig on". I shut my mouth and kept my opinions to myself after that.
I honestly don't get why the bigger black pop culture (for lack of a better term) creators don't talk about this. I've seen a million and one creators talk about the 20 v 1 pop the balloon BS but it's like they're terrified of calling out sht like this. This is 1,000 times worse than the 20 v 1. Not only this, but the whole over-dependence on wigs, weaves, and braids in general. Especially the new braids where you have so many pieces of hair out that you can't even really see the braids in an attempt to mimic "wet n wavy" type hair.
What's probably also going on is that when confronted about the insanity of it, the mother will say something stupid like "this is my baby". Setting them up for a lifetime of having to wear wigs and weaves because their scalps have been damaged. Then what?Teaching self hate is real.
This is so shameful. Why would you want your little child to be uncomfortable all day and night wearing that on their head. Wearing a wig all day is hot and can make your scalp itch and sweat. WTH is wrong with people.
Honestly if we went to prom with a wig back in '08 we would've gotten dragged, they look so bad 😔😭 even on the celebrities it only looks nice on TV in real life it looks clownish, I'm so sorry
thats crazy asf, they have no bounds. Smiling while installing a wig on a literal infant is just unsettling. Those women need some serious mental health checks. Poor beautiful girl she had a nice little fro too :/
Maybe teens can wear wigs 16+ but definitely not anywhere below that! Kids should learn to love their hair, not hate it. I feel like it’s the mothers hating their hair texture and pushing it on their daughters and it’s sad to see
Putting quick weave on a toddler's head is already just absurd and wrong, but the fact that it was pink is just disturbing. Wth?? 🤨 I just can't anymore 🤦♀
OMG!! This is so sad! These babies are being taught that who they are is not good enough smdh. What's next lashes, nails & full glam makeup on toddlers?
I mean we wore braids with beads but it was our own hair, nothing added in but beads. And when we wore curls our natural hair was put into rollers with nothing more than blue magic or coconut oil. This is just ridiculous.
I mean look at how they’re raising them too what do you expect ??? It just starts with the hair but what about all the little over the top clothes to go with it and then got the NERVE to post it on social media so all the crazies can look at them!! My daughter has been wearing braids since she was a little girl but when I tell you the way she ABSOLUTELY LOVES the HUGE Angela Davis Afro she has underneath and all the attention she gets from people of all races and nationalities when she’s out in the streets with it!?!?? Best believe we LOVE our hair and ourselves around these parts and we do our best to protect our crowns and our beautiful black HAIRatidge ✊🏽👑
This is so sad! Now instead of relaxers at a young age they're doing quick weaves/wigs🙃. I feel this will have a lasting effect on their self image sadly
And then the parents be like “are these your kids? are you a mother?”LIKE NO- but a child should not have a lace front in there hair is still developing itself
This baby hair hasn't had a chance to grow because it falls out before the strong hairs comes but she will be bald do to the glue and the wig, arrest them all
Sheeeeew … we’ve got grown adults out here talking about wearing their lace fronts for days, over a week even, and then complaining about infections and breakouts from allergic reactions forming (which is very serious, constant repeated exposure and use of this stuff CAN AND WILL form an allergic reaction) on top of creating hair loss around the edges with constant tugging and pulling. Factor in the amount of scalp issues it can cause … now think about how all of that is being done to a baby that isn’t even old enough to say “mom, this hurts, I don’t want this” … but something tells me even if they could speak, they’d be ignored and made to do it anyways. 😢 My heart breaks to see children exposed to this stuff so early. When you’re an older teen? Whatever. You’re old enough to start making your own choices, but 12 year olds? 10? 7? A mere toddler? Nuh-uh … no way, and this is the type of stuff I’ve seen moms of all backgrounds/ethnicities do when it comes to their kids. Stuff that makes you go “aw man wtf” because parents don’t realize how much this stuff negatively affects the way a CHILD sees themselves. Grew up with a girl that was my best friend since preschool whose mom had at-home ACID PERMS put through her hair at 4 years old until 10 back in the 90s for beauty pageants with so much makeup that she was wearing it to school by the time she was 9 (and her mom did all of that, too … because I remember staying all night and her asking if I wanted my makeup done before school one time, and I knew to immediately decline as my mom would have had a fit) I don’t think it was of any surprise that when she was a teenager she had so many issues with her hair being so thinned and damaged, had major confidence issues, and when she started doing her own hair and makeup, her mom would make comments about her she is “doing it all wrong” and how it “doesn’t look right on her” or she’d argue with her about how she couldn’t believe she was walking out the door looking “that ugly” even commenting on her outfits …. so much so, it started to come across to me as a mom being extremely jealous of her own daughter she had no control over anymore. I wish parents would just stop with all of this. Looking at all these kids in this video just makes me sad because they’re going to grow up hating their natural hair as they’ve been conditioned to think it’s not good enough or presentable unless they have something done. I see all those tightly coiled 4c curls and it makes me melt because they’re so beautiful … all to be hidden away. 😕 I don’t understand this push to make the children look way too grown. Moms, you may enjoy it, but don’t do it to the kids until they’re old enough to decide for themselves (and respect what they do decide). It just seems a lot like parents living vicariously through their children or something.
The reason the baby doesn’t have hair now is because her own mother hates it. This is sad! The amount of money spent on the wig and service could’ve went on hair care products and a routine!
My daughter wore her natural hair to the prom. These moms are teaching their daughters to not like their beautiful God-given hair as babies....we now have so many videos on how to do our natural hair. Teach your daughters their hair is beautiful!
OMG! This is so disturbing to me on some many levels. Totally uncalled for. Let these little girls bask in their natural beauty and not distort or hide it.
Wow that first clip looked like a damn exorcism smh poor baby, all my fellow believers let’s pray for these children bc this is child abuse And also Ty for validating my distaste for wigs and weave, you’re gorgeous and a great role model for younger women
My goodness, I never even thought about putting a wig on my baby or extensions. She wanted her hair straightened. I told her not until she was at least five. I didn’t want to do it then, but she kept begging. So I let her have a pearl at 5. I love natural hair.
This is extreme! If a teenager wants to wear some kind of enhancement to a formal dance, that's one thing. That could be a matter of fashion. In the 60's, women of all races wore pieces, falls, wigs, etc. to create elaborate hairdo's for special occasions. It wasn't a political issue. Nor should it be. But, with young children, just encourage them to love themselves as they are naturally.
My mom said I asked for a perm at 5, liar lol. That was chemical abuse, she wanted my hair to be curly like hers, she was tired of putting curlers in my hair every night.
Putting these wigs on babies is such a hinderance to their lifestyle. In addition to not loving their hair. Im sure their parents dont allow them to do xyz bc they going to mess up their hair or the kids have to go out with things they actually need bc momma done spent the money on hair. Let kids be kids
That lace glue was probably burning tf out of that baby it pissed me off. The chemicals were probably too strong for her delicate skin and it looked like they did something to that child by the end of the video bc why was she passed out like that?
I don't care how hateful or ignorant I sound because that is child abuse period. Some people should not have kids at all and you have a camera in the childsface I wish I knew where they lived so I could call CPS I know the babies scalp is hot and all they have to do is massage her scalp and put natural ingredients in her hair Baby was probably hungry and tired Now if she plays and messes her hair up they will punish her for being a child
I feel bad that the parents are ruining these kids' hair before it even starts forming a natural growth pattern.. it can't be good putting that much weight on their little necks having to carry that extra weight, either.
This makes me so grateful that my mom gave me natural styles till she couldn't anymore. I grew up with twists and cornrows until a certain point where my hair was so long and thick that touching it for a second would make her hands sore (/hj) so she had to get me a stylist and taught me how to take care of it (basic 4c haircare: washing, drying, simple styles, etc..) and I got my first weave at 12 just to give it a try (crochet twists). Every now and then I'd get my hair done in mostly box braids down to my back like my natural hair is just to enhance, protect, and grow my hair for about a month and repeat the process until I was on the brink of turning 18 and got locs. I remember wanting my hair to be a different texture as a kid because my other kids kept touching it or commenting on it like "what happened to your hair" or some stuff like that. I wanted my hair to be straight or less coarse like the other kids in my class (I grew up in a predominantly white and isolated classroom setting) and even started listening to affirmations to manifest a different texture (I don't remember which specific texture I wanted but it was somewhere in the c# category) just as I was slowly starting to love my own hair, but needed better management. Eventually my mom got me excited about locs and I started manifesting their formation and health before I even got them. This video bothered me so much, like literal preschoolers (exaggerating to my knowledge) are already getting weaves below the spine these days and to see A BABY BEAN, not even going to school, doesn't even have all her teeth yet, still drinking out of a bottle or in the process of being weaned off it.. GETTING A WEAVE!! I just don't understand the logic of these types of mothers like who's this even for, other than said mothers aesthetic and MAYBE a small photoshoot? What do you gain out of this other than personal satisfaction and a lighter wallet? Nothing!
My moms old friend who’s daughter is my age 38 she started getting relaxers at 3 and she would make fun of my hair because I had thick braids which she called doo doo braids but guess what I did hair shows and hair magazines as a child and my hair is still 19 inches while he hair was broken off
A one year old in lave front...?? Wtf... they are gonna RUIN her REAL HAIR for life doing this!! .. are they CRAZY?? .. 😮. Someone PLEASE CALL CPS ... fr fr
Those hens are creating insecurity at an early age smh. How disgusting. When parents do this it lets me know they are perverts why would you want your baby to look like what you find attractive?? The dad needs to take that baby from the mom.
Where are the dads? My dad would have NEVER let my mum do this to me. She would never, but let’s say she would, this would have been grounds for divorce. I kid you not.
I find it funny how AAALLL of these (if it doesn’t apply to you then I’m not talking about you) women claim that wigs and weave are also just a natural part of hair and fashion among Black women and that it doesn’t matter if you wear your natural hair or extensions/wigs. THIS is a prime example of there being something wrong with the hair industry. NATURAL HAIR is just that natural. It’s appropriate for ALL ages and no one has to worry about chemicals or whatever else is associated with these wigs potentially “damaging” something. There’s truly something wrong with the hair industry in the Black community and yall just want to ignore it and become verbally combative when people point it out. It needs to go. Embrace your own hair. Set new examples for beauty standards that’s acceptable for ALL ages.
Self hate is one hell of a drug
So accurate 😭 (I am an addict)
Children. Are. Not. Dolls!!! 🤬 Poor baby
It’s not even cute. It looks abnormal as hell. It’s disgusting and disgraceful. It’s psychologically abusive. It’s unsanitary.
Every black person that takes part in forcing babies and children to do this, you don’t deserve parenthood and I hope someone calls CPS. If not for this, then any other reason. Any reason. This is so gross.
Why do think that it's only "black people"?
It needs to stop!!!😢
No you do
They're teaching an infant to hate her hair already. Who is this even for? Clearly that baby doesn't want it, so the adult is the one that hates their child so much. People like this should not be parents.
Parents never care what the child wants, I was getting perms all the time even though I would cry and get burns.
You are correct , I’m a black woman 60 years old and I never had a perm , Relaxer or wear a wig . And the young ladies wished they could have my hair . I finally got my hair in Locs in 2020 . I was never ashamed of my natural hair . I ❤ your comment ,
Exactly 😹, do not have kids if you hate yourself 😅😢
These Africana be like this because of colonisation they don’t like themselves it’s embarrassing because the world can see it!
Some children have lost their hair do to cancer and other illness. That's why they were wigs. They don't hate themselves as you say. 🙄
I believe that these women do not like their daughters at all. When you hate something you go out of your way to ruin it every fucking chance that you get.
Those r th ones you normally see crying when th kids gomissing
I remember taking my daughter and her friends to a birthday party and being astonished when her friends got in my car with wigs on. These are children for crying out loud 😢
Omg
So sad
Just saying. Some kids do want to wear wigs ((If they want)) either due to cancer and wanting their hair or balding.
Yes! And my daughter is 8 but was 7 at the time.. she called me and said her and her cousins were gluing on long nails and I made her get them clipped all the way down and took them off when she got home… not old enough for that at all. Especially with the rough playing that they do it would’ve been so bad if one broke off
Can we please stop throwing out cancer and alopecia as excuses for participating in this ridiculous behavior? Those cases are extremely rare. But to let black women tell it you would think that most of us have been stricken with cancer in the last 20 years.
These Wig Warriors know no bounds or limits 😂
@@BantuBeauties lol they are committed to the cause!! Willing to sacrifice there own children haha
Lmao. Wig warriors is a befitting name for them!!! Imagine putting this on a baby.
😭
Wig and eyelash ninjas😂
I worked at a preschool and the number of little girls who wore weave in their little heads was so sad to me. It really does affect their self esteem. Our self hate runs soooooo deep. Please bring back the PUFFS. No weave on little ones. Even adding it into braids, it alters the perception of their real hair.
Yes, not to mention the hair is sprayed with chemicals or made with chemicals in the case of synthetic hair. They don't know what they are exposing their child to.
Your self hate runs deep.😒🙄
🗣️Say it LOUDER for the Folks not Listening!!!!!!!
My younger half sisters mom makes her get weave because her mom (Hispanic) doesn't take care of it correctly and is too lazy to learn so she either shaves it or makes her get super long weave that looks terrible on her. I feel so bad for my sister, and I wish she lived closer to me instead of several states away because I would love to help her embrace her natural hair 💔 honestly reminds me of myself because my mom did the same thing (besides shaving) and then would get upset at me for my hair breaking off as if SHE wasn't the one destroying my hair by perming it, constantly straightening it, and forcing me to get weave! Had she taken the time to learn my hair it wouldn't have taken me until 2 YEARS AGO at age 21 to learn to love, embrace, and take care of my hair in it's natural state, and guess what? MY HAIR IS FLOURISHING NOW! It's very unfortunate how sometimes the person who's supposed to be building you up is the one that knocks you down, unintentionally or not.
@ That is so so sad. It’s unfortunate that a lot of people have children before healing properly and pass down insecurities and beauty standards that was never meant for us. I pray your sister is able to break out of the mold like many of us had to.
It's sickening. The mothers projecting their self hate onto their children. The next generation of women are going to be bald if this continues.
No they won't, my mother relaxed my hair at 4, and I'm now 40. My hair full, lengthy and healthy. My real hair.
I hated getting relaxers as a child, I can't imagine getting a wig that young of an age.
I loved minds, my mother relaxed me at 4 years old. I loved my hair being done and straight.
As a mother of a beautiful black daughter this infuriates me!
I wish this conversation wasn’t necessary, it makes my blood boil.
Glued on wigs are disgusting. They make the scalp a breeding ground for yeast and odor causing bacteria. She's going to have bumps and ingrown hairs on her scalp! No one should be glueing wigs on and leaving them on for days to weeks let alone doing this to a child. The obsession with wigs has gone too damn far.
not only is she putting quick weave in her daughters hair, but she is putting it on and off all wrong. It's giving relaxer era. Like where not only does the mother want to straighten your hair, but she does it so terribly that you have to cut all your hair off (speaking from experience).
Like what happened to all the cute black girl hairstyles that were pretty easy to do. All you had to do was braid, twist or cornrow their hair and then you're done.
black women these days have so much self hatred they dont even know how to maintain their own hair, so they cant do those hairstyles on their kids because they cant even do it on themselves
Child abuse!!!
Long term child abuse
Honestly, when those tariff prices come through, I'm not gonna be mad when hair extensions become egregiously expensive. They will be forced to wear their own hair.
Yep, it's going to force some people to embrace what they have naturally
They will unalive for hair
Chile this made me HOLLER 🤣🤣 bout to be some serious mental breakdowns in these streets
Let me stock up on my wigs
@ you don’t need them. Your real hair looks better ❤️
i think it just promotes hatred of their natural hair wearing weaves so young. then they become used to it and dont feel like their afro or puff is a "style." their mothers would have to learn to love their own hair first. i knew girls growing up who got perms very young due to their mother not knowing how to style natural hair or saying "its too much." if you have been constantly raised to think your hair as a liability and not an asset things like this will happen. its sad because our hair is soo beautiful, unique and versatile.
It SHOULD be a crime for a minor to wear a lace front. Putting these wigs & weaves on children is very disgusting 🤢 🤮😪😑🫤😔😣😖☹️😒😞. Poor babies!
there are sooo many little babies (like 6 years old max) at my local church with extensions and full on wigs on too it's bizarre
The last few days I’ve been seeing videos of babies, usually children of African women, who are wailing and crying, their hearts out the whole time, as they’re being subjected to the glue and getting these ridiculous wigs or weaves or whatever done. Just heartbreaking.
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Yes! As a Nigerian woman, you are right and when we speak against it they’ll say it’s not a big deal.
@@essyisjustreacting And then they wonder why a lot of them are balding or have alopecia 🤦🏽♀
Imagine doing all that work into a pink quick weave that looks like it came from the bargain bin at Five Below 😂
Looool
It looks like a cheap plastic Hallowe’en wig, js.
@Tatianaclicks
It's just not about the hair.
These parents dressing their little girls up like Brats dolls.
Wearing fake eyelashes, lipgloss, and clothes a child shouldn't be wearing
They have little girls dressing like the are teenagers or grown women.
Just look at DJ Envy 9 yr daughter
He had her dress up like Lil Kim for a video for Halloween and rapping Kim's song
The clothes some of these girls have on are ridiculous
@@DaliaMiller STOP SEXUALIZING yOUR CHILDREN.
I’m so glad my mom always wore her natural hair even till this day. She always calls wigs “hair hats”😭🤣. So looking at her growing up I just learned to love my type 4 hair. Well 4c hair! ✨
Wanting to have kids is why I went natural. How can I teach my child to love themselves if I can’t walk around with the hair that grows out of my head? 2 years in and my hair is thriving. My goal is waist length.
Afro textured hair. 4c sounds ugly, boring and like a science project
@@ZimaalaScientist if they are honest will tell you only black people have hair. Others have fur. I'm not being nasty btw. Saw it on a documentary many moons ago.
@@ZimaalaUgly straight wigs and weaves are the science projects.
@@appleseyergnow if the other races said that bout black people’s hair you’d flip. Stop being racist.
Alot of people do not see children as humans but as accessories. These babies clearly do not want this but the parents do not care
Wtf is wrong with these mfs smfh.
Iam 21 but if I have a daughter one day she won’t be wearing any type of extensions while she’s growing up. That includes braiding hair. Black mothers definitely neglect their daughters hair and later they become dependent on weave. I don’t want that for my child. Unlike me should have a chance from the beginning. And I also don’t believe lace fronts should be worn by minors. Not just does it look bad it also makes them look much older which isn’t appropriate.
I feel you you lady I have a daughter your age and she’s been wearing braids since she was 3 not because I didn’t like her hair but to PROTECT her hair but I will say that I didn’t let ANYONE else braid her hair but me or her auntie so we were always very age appropriate with her styles and she always had a choice of what she wanted so it was fun for her as well as an education on caring for the hair with a protective style like braids but I wanna also say she has the most BEAUTIFUL xl Afro under her braids that she also as an adult likes to wear as well she does that to rest her hair and treat her edges and nape so it’s really all about educating them about their hair and teaching them to love how beautiful and versatile and STRONG it is and also to embrace their natural hair as well as protect it❤
wtf happened to the fat twists with baretts?? lil children especially TODDLERS do not need lace fronts or wigs.
Do you want Series designed to uplift your beauty?
@@Tatianaclicks yes👍🏾
Yes
Yes ma’am.
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Its all about Vanity and looking good....over health and wellness. I beleieve this has always being a prime factor amongst Black women in our communities
This is disgusting!!! Black women do better!! Traction alopecia is in the future for these poor defenseless babies!
I worked at an after school program and the amount of young girls that walked in with ankle length braids made me so mad. I had to ask them why, and they said because I can. The braids were TO THE ANKLES. I told them that all that tension on the scalp isn't good for their natural hair. Them girls told me, "why would I care about something like that when I can throw a quick weave or a wig on". I shut my mouth and kept my opinions to myself after that.
Weaves will never be "protective hairtstyles" this is self hate.
They say it’s protective styling meanwhile they wear it as a helmet 24/7
They're gluing wigs down and leaving it for days
@@Renee-pv2izthe only thing it protects them from is having to see their real hair texture
I honestly don't get why the bigger black pop culture (for lack of a better term) creators don't talk about this. I've seen a million and one creators talk about the 20 v 1 pop the balloon BS but it's like they're terrified of calling out sht like this. This is 1,000 times worse than the 20 v 1. Not only this, but the whole over-dependence on wigs, weaves, and braids in general. Especially the new braids where you have so many pieces of hair out that you can't even really see the braids in an attempt to mimic "wet n wavy" type hair.
What's probably also going on is that when confronted about the insanity of it, the mother will say something stupid like "this is my baby". Setting them up for a lifetime of having to wear wigs and weaves because their scalps have been damaged. Then what?Teaching self hate is real.
This is so shameful. Why would you want your little child to be uncomfortable all day and night wearing that on their head. Wearing a wig all day is hot and can make your scalp itch and sweat. WTH is wrong with people.
Honestly if we went to prom with a wig back in '08 we would've gotten dragged, they look so bad 😔😭 even on the celebrities it only looks nice on TV in real life it looks clownish, I'm so sorry
Glue and all sorts of chemicals on their brand new scalp wtf
Theyre treating the child like a doll
thats crazy asf, they have no bounds. Smiling while installing a wig on a literal infant is just unsettling. Those women need some serious mental health checks. Poor beautiful girl she had a nice little fro too :/
Maybe teens can wear wigs 16+ but definitely not anywhere below that! Kids should learn to love their hair, not hate it. I feel like it’s the mothers hating their hair texture and pushing it on their daughters and it’s sad to see
That babies skull has NOT fused and they're gluing hair down......abuse!
Absolutely barbaric to straddle a little baby with that itchy mess. Horrid.
Putting quick weave on a toddler's head is already just absurd and wrong, but the fact that it was pink is just disturbing. Wth?? 🤨 I just can't anymore 🤦♀
OMG!! This is so sad! These babies are being taught that who they are is not good enough smdh. What's next lashes, nails & full glam makeup on toddlers?
Why not just care for the child's natural hair? My sister started caring for nieces hair since birth and her hair is butt length at 10 years old.
This is absolutely appalling, So many black women have low self-esteem, and transferring that to their own daughters, It’s so sad.
"We has sexy... oh not sexy red"🤣🤣🤣 and please release the wicked weaves of the west.
I agree, this is child abuse. Let the kids be kids ffs!🤦🏾♀️
I mean we wore braids with beads but it was our own hair, nothing added in but beads. And when we wore curls our natural hair was put into rollers with nothing more than blue magic or coconut oil. This is just ridiculous.
Those babies are NATURALLY adorable. They do not need any of that, especially the pink hair. Brainwash has done a number on our people.
I mean look at how they’re raising them too what do you expect ??? It just starts with the hair but what about all the little over the top clothes to go with it and then got the NERVE to post it on social media so all the crazies can look at them!! My daughter has been wearing braids since she was a little girl but when I tell you the way she ABSOLUTELY LOVES the HUGE Angela Davis Afro she has underneath and all the attention she gets from people of all races and nationalities when she’s out in the streets with it!?!?? Best believe we LOVE our hair and ourselves around these parts and we do our best to protect our crowns and our beautiful black HAIRatidge ✊🏽👑
Lord have mercy WTH was they thinking doing this to them beautiful children
This is so sad! Now instead of relaxers at a young age they're doing quick weaves/wigs🙃. I feel this will have a lasting effect on their self image sadly
It's highkey abuse! Those are chemicals that go into the baby's system.
And then the parents be like “are these your kids? are you a mother?”LIKE NO- but a child should not have a lace front in there hair is still developing itself
Until we start loving ourselves, Truly. Our children stand no chance of survival in this world
Omg this is terrible 😮
The poor babies have no chance with mothers like this 😢
These ladies seem to be West African ladies in the first video. This baby is exhausted, miserable, and clearly in pain.
This baby hair hasn't had a chance to grow because it falls out before the strong hairs comes but she will be bald do to the glue and the wig, arrest them all
Sheeeeew … we’ve got grown adults out here talking about wearing their lace fronts for days, over a week even, and then complaining about infections and breakouts from allergic reactions forming (which is very serious, constant repeated exposure and use of this stuff CAN AND WILL form an allergic reaction) on top of creating hair loss around the edges with constant tugging and pulling. Factor in the amount of scalp issues it can cause … now think about how all of that is being done to a baby that isn’t even old enough to say “mom, this hurts, I don’t want this”
… but something tells me even if they could speak, they’d be ignored and made to do it anyways. 😢
My heart breaks to see children exposed to this stuff so early. When you’re an older teen? Whatever. You’re old enough to start making your own choices, but 12 year olds? 10? 7? A mere toddler? Nuh-uh … no way, and this is the type of stuff I’ve seen moms of all backgrounds/ethnicities do when it comes to their kids. Stuff that makes you go “aw man wtf” because parents don’t realize how much this stuff negatively affects the way a CHILD sees themselves.
Grew up with a girl that was my best friend since preschool whose mom had at-home ACID PERMS put through her hair at 4 years old until 10 back in the 90s for beauty pageants with so much makeup that she was wearing it to school by the time she was 9 (and her mom did all of that, too … because I remember staying all night and her asking if I wanted my makeup done before school one time, and I knew to immediately decline as my mom would have had a fit)
I don’t think it was of any surprise that when she was a teenager she had so many issues with her hair being so thinned and damaged, had major confidence issues, and when she started doing her own hair and makeup, her mom would make comments about her she is “doing it all wrong” and how it “doesn’t look right on her” or she’d argue with her about how she couldn’t believe she was walking out the door looking “that ugly” even commenting on her outfits …. so much so, it started to come across to me as a mom being extremely jealous of her own daughter she had no control over anymore.
I wish parents would just stop with all of this. Looking at all these kids in this video just makes me sad because they’re going to grow up hating their natural hair as they’ve been conditioned to think it’s not good enough or presentable unless they have something done. I see all those tightly coiled 4c curls and it makes me melt because they’re so beautiful … all to be hidden away. 😕 I don’t understand this push to make the children look way too grown. Moms, you may enjoy it, but don’t do it to the kids until they’re old enough to decide for themselves (and respect what they do decide). It just seems a lot like parents living vicariously through their children or something.
That’s horrible. I would never put a wig or weave on a child under the age of 13-14. It’s not appropriate at all.
I don’t like that they are doing this to little girls and I consider it child abuse
The reason the baby doesn’t have hair now is because her own mother hates it. This is sad! The amount of money spent on the wig and service could’ve went on hair care products and a routine!
My daughter wore her natural hair to the prom. These moms are teaching their daughters to not like their beautiful God-given hair as babies....we now have so many videos on how to do our natural hair. Teach your daughters their hair is beautiful!
OMG! This is so disturbing to me on some many levels. Totally uncalled for. Let these little girls bask in their natural beauty and not distort or hide it.
Mothers like this should be locked up.Child abuse to me.
Dang, they don’t give the child a chance at a healthy life
Wow that first clip looked like a damn exorcism smh poor baby, all my fellow believers let’s pray for these children bc this is child abuse
And also Ty for validating my distaste for wigs and weave, you’re gorgeous and a great role model for younger women
My goodness, I never even thought about putting a wig on my baby or extensions. She wanted her hair straightened. I told her not until she was at least five. I didn’t want to do it then, but she kept begging. So I let her have a pearl at 5. I love natural hair.
Pitiful. Yes let's bring back shame.
This is extreme! If a teenager wants to wear some kind of enhancement to a formal dance, that's one thing. That could be a matter of fashion. In the 60's, women of all races wore pieces, falls, wigs, etc. to create elaborate hairdo's for special occasions. It wasn't a political issue. Nor should it be. But, with young children, just encourage them to love themselves as they are naturally.
My mom said I asked for a perm at 5, liar lol. That was chemical abuse, she wanted my hair to be curly like hers, she was tired of putting curlers in my hair every night.
Putting these wigs on babies is such a hinderance to their lifestyle. In addition to not loving their hair. Im sure their parents dont allow them to do xyz bc they going to mess up their hair or the kids have to go out with things they actually need bc momma done spent the money on hair. Let kids be kids
Pure child abuse. You are right someone should call child services. Unbelievable. This was hard to watch.
That lace glue was probably burning tf out of that baby it pissed me off. The chemicals were probably too strong for her delicate skin and it looked like they did something to that child by the end of the video bc why was she passed out like that?
I don't care how hateful or ignorant I sound because that is child abuse period. Some people should not have kids at all and you have a camera in the childsface
I wish I knew where they lived so I could call CPS
I know the babies scalp is hot and all they have to do is massage her scalp and put natural ingredients in her hair
Baby was probably hungry and tired
Now if she plays and messes her hair up they will punish her for being a child
Omfg! That poor baby!
great vid! we need more of this awareness
I feel bad that the parents are ruining these kids' hair before it even starts forming a natural growth pattern.. it can't be good putting that much weight on their little necks having to carry that extra weight, either.
& they're literally toddlers! Wigs & weaves are too high maintenence for a little girl, especially when they want to play outside.
That's awful and to tell you the truth I feel it is a form of child abuse. Let children be children
Very, sad! Take the time and fix their hair.
This makes me so grateful that my mom gave me natural styles till she couldn't anymore. I grew up with twists and cornrows until a certain point where my hair was so long and thick that touching it for a second would make her hands sore (/hj) so she had to get me a stylist and taught me how to take care of it (basic 4c haircare: washing, drying, simple styles, etc..) and I got my first weave at 12 just to give it a try (crochet twists). Every now and then I'd get my hair done in mostly box braids down to my back like my natural hair is just to enhance, protect, and grow my hair for about a month and repeat the process until I was on the brink of turning 18 and got locs.
I remember wanting my hair to be a different texture as a kid because my other kids kept touching it or commenting on it like "what happened to your hair" or some stuff like that. I wanted my hair to be straight or less coarse like the other kids in my class (I grew up in a predominantly white and isolated classroom setting) and even started listening to affirmations to manifest a different texture (I don't remember which specific texture I wanted but it was somewhere in the c# category) just as I was slowly starting to love my own hair, but needed better management. Eventually my mom got me excited about locs and I started manifesting their formation and health before I even got them.
This video bothered me so much, like literal preschoolers (exaggerating to my knowledge) are already getting weaves below the spine these days and to see A BABY BEAN, not even going to school, doesn't even have all her teeth yet, still drinking out of a bottle or in the process of being weaned off it.. GETTING A WEAVE!! I just don't understand the logic of these types of mothers like who's this even for, other than said mothers aesthetic and MAYBE a small photoshoot? What do you gain out of this other than personal satisfaction and a lighter wallet? Nothing!
This is wild! Reminds me of kids in pagents😢
This is heartbreaking I can’t even watch this💔
Yes drop that series I want to hear it!
This is just shameful.
I wish black women didn't hate black women/girls 😕
“Like a weirdo” 😂
Imagine the baby girl trying to pull it off when she gets hot. Smh
I feel saddened when grown women are wesring wigs and weaves but THIS is fucking disgusting. How can you do this to your child.
FOR PROM ITS OKAY! IN MY DAY THAT WAS THE ONLY TIME YOU WORE HAIR PIECES IF YOU WERE IN HIGH SCHOOL.
She is one year old! That hair is gonna bother her and she’s gonna rip that stuff right out!
My moms old friend who’s daughter is my age 38 she started getting relaxers at 3 and she would make fun of my hair because I had thick braids which she called doo doo braids but guess what I did hair shows and hair magazines as a child and my hair is still 19 inches while he hair was broken off
A one year old in lave front...?? Wtf... they are gonna RUIN her REAL HAIR for life doing this!! .. are they CRAZY?? .. 😮. Someone PLEASE CALL CPS ... fr fr
Those hens are creating insecurity at an early age smh. How disgusting. When parents do this it lets me know they are perverts why would you want your baby to look like what you find attractive?? The dad needs to take that baby from the mom.
that is wild...i am disturbed
This so heartbreaking 💔 😢
Where are the dads? My dad would have NEVER let my mum do this to me. She would never, but let’s say she would, this would have been grounds for divorce. I kid you not.
OMG! These women hate themselves and imposing their own self hate on their children. Perms and installs on little girls 🤦♀️
I find it funny how AAALLL of these (if it doesn’t apply to you then I’m not talking about you) women claim that wigs and weave are also just a natural part of hair and fashion among Black women and that it doesn’t matter if you wear your natural hair or extensions/wigs. THIS is a prime example of there being something wrong with the hair industry. NATURAL HAIR is just that natural. It’s appropriate for ALL ages and no one has to worry about chemicals or whatever else is associated with these wigs potentially “damaging” something.
There’s truly something wrong with the hair industry in the Black community and yall just want to ignore it and become verbally combative when people point it out. It needs to go. Embrace your own hair. Set new examples for beauty standards that’s acceptable for ALL ages.
Omg I couldn’t even watch this- I feel like the mothers are low key jealous and trying to F their daughters hair up on purpose sheeeeshhhh just wow