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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @Yaya-lu8bs
    @Yaya-lu8bs 9 месяцев назад +337

    Man cannot understand or comprehend love unless he has God in his life😮😮😮😮😮 amen

    • @Blessedbeneo
      @Blessedbeneo 8 месяцев назад +13

      Only if He loves his wife, like Christ loves the church!

    • @abeeikah2384
      @abeeikah2384 8 месяцев назад +15

      Absolutely without God u cannot comprehend it. Why? Coz how can u forgive wen u r hurt, and how can u sacrifice etc etc. Dat foundation must be laid b4 u can genuinely say u love someone

    • @Blessedbeneo
      @Blessedbeneo 8 месяцев назад

      ABSOLUTELY, and you must learn to love yourself, otherwise you won't know if you are being loved@@abeeikah2384

    • @Daniel--zt5wh
      @Daniel--zt5wh 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@abeeikah2384
      💯

    • @kevdian222
      @kevdian222 8 месяцев назад

      Bruhhhh men and women. Im sick of women like you. Trynna put blame on men. Just stop it!

  • @jasminasinanbegovic6225
    @jasminasinanbegovic6225 9 месяцев назад +360

    That 100% unconditional love comes only from God. Very few people can love "unconditionally " in a sense of having almost no expectations. Because if you go totally selfless until you lose your own self completely, you will be ran over and disrespected 💯. You may have the sweetest soul, but respect is a condition to access it, and if disrespect is continuous is where my unconditional love is gone. You need to be very strong charactered, pure hearted and knowledgeable and wise person with great tolerance to be able to offer that kind of love. Know the limits of what you can tolerate so you don't end up abused, people take kindness for weakness everyday.

    • @kajilai
      @kajilai 9 месяцев назад +19

      Oh best believe God's love is conditional 2... you just can't do what you want. Faithfulness to Him is a condition necessary to sustenance of that relationship. He may be long-suffering/ patient, but long term God doesn't tolerate unfaithfulness.

    • @jasminasinanbegovic6225
      @jasminasinanbegovic6225 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@kajilai of course in a long term everybody will get their paycheck from God, eventually it's called a Judgement Day. But believe it or not, no one is more giving and merciful then God. No amount of punishment in this life is greater then only eyesight He gave us and yet tolerates whole kind of sins done with eyes for example, people sin for a lifetime not even putting a slight of effort in trying to be aware of it. How much of a mercy is that? What a human does for God at any point in his life in any amount it's disrespectful even to compare it. Those are not even a conditions considering that humans benefit from them and God doesn't need it. He doesn't need our prayers, our greatfulness, absolutely nothing. We need it. No need to say that no human will tolerate lifetime of stupidity and disrespect and that you can comeback anytime, not even mentioning that no human can give you what God did. So fulfilling Gods "conditions" is the most simple to do, plus it's rewarded.

    • @thealchemist333
      @thealchemist333 9 месяцев назад +18

      THIS!!! 🎯🎯🎯 I AGREE. Unconditional love is more of a spiritual love and it is often between you and the divine within as you ascend into pure consciousness
      It's not something to be given frivolously to someone at your expense
      I like how you explained it

    • @jasminasinanbegovic6225
      @jasminasinanbegovic6225 9 месяцев назад +9

      @@thealchemist333 I seriously like your understanding of it 👌😊

    • @thealchemist333
      @thealchemist333 9 месяцев назад

      @@jasminasinanbegovic6225yeah I think we're on the same page 😊👍

  • @Txksls
    @Txksls 9 месяцев назад +187

    Having their best interest at heart💯

    • @dianeshepherd6903
      @dianeshepherd6903 9 месяцев назад +2

      In Jesus name thank you Jesus truth TRUTH Truth 301/2 yrs married been through it all speaking truth on ALL levels I never give up on that person but u stand ur grounds

    • @Blessed.2.Teach.4God
      @Blessed.2.Teach.4God 9 месяцев назад +4

      Having their best interest, above our own... your thoughts?

    • @SophiaDilworth-bq7sg
      @SophiaDilworth-bq7sg 9 месяцев назад

      Exactlyyyyy

    • @jobareliezerqanduwiseduality
      @jobareliezerqanduwiseduality 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Blessed.2.Teach.4GodThat's Truth ✊🏾

    • @yazzipedrosa6934
      @yazzipedrosa6934 9 месяцев назад

      Ifatunde, you the truth!!

  • @heiresswithjesus
    @heiresswithjesus 9 месяцев назад +57

    God is love. Fearing God is the beginning of wisdom and teaches you how to love correctly.

    • @sbella6719
      @sbella6719 8 месяцев назад +2

      Having a reverence for God is not the same as FEAR! There is no fear in Love

    • @catdaddytv0706
      @catdaddytv0706 8 месяцев назад

      Why fear God if God is good. It's basically subconsciously programming our mond to fear good

    • @dnzwill
      @dnzwill 7 месяцев назад

      Sounds like religious dogma to me. You don’t want to burn in that lake of fire they programmed you to believe in. 😮

  • @marielane9966
    @marielane9966 9 месяцев назад +52

    Love is only unconditional when they are not destroying you

    • @Freespiritedqueen
      @Freespiritedqueen 8 месяцев назад

      SAY IT HONEY❤

    • @kjb17
      @kjb17 8 месяцев назад

      Love is giving someone power to destroy you but wholeheartedly trust that they won’t.

    • @jennifercooljeo6552
      @jennifercooljeo6552 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@kjb17that’s not love I’m sorry

    • @kjb17
      @kjb17 8 месяцев назад

      @@jennifercooljeo6552 it’s a quote

    • @ShadaeMastersAstrology
      @ShadaeMastersAstrology 8 месяцев назад

      There’s a destructive aspect of love. We don’t want to admit this however when things become unbalanced in a relationship, destruction is lingering somewhere. Love is extremely temperamental and requires balance.

  • @Divinelydestiny
    @Divinelydestiny 8 месяцев назад +49

    Love is unconditional, but relationships have boundaries. There’s a difference

    • @jennifercooljeo6552
      @jennifercooljeo6552 8 месяцев назад +3

      FACTS!!!

    • @sigmasiren7
      @sigmasiren7 8 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly.

    • @Sinningupdates
      @Sinningupdates 7 месяцев назад +3

      Ofc all the women want to talk about boundaries like it’s not another word for conditions. How about you pick one man and stick with that ONE man till death does you part? Even if you made the wrong choice it’s still your choice. Accountability is a real thing.

    • @Divinelydestiny
      @Divinelydestiny 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@Sinningupdates what if that man doesn’t take accountability? We grow and if your not in alignment with someone anymore that’s okay, we shouldn’t force ourselves to make a toxic situation work, that’s unhealthy, even if you love that person. my thing is that as a woman I’m not just choosing my partner for myself, I’m choosing my children’s father, and my future generations future. and not every man that is interested in me is going to take dating that seriously, so I have to choose wisely.
      I’m celibate and just focused on my relationship with god so I’m putting trust in gods ways that are better then my own and his perfect timing🙏🏼

    • @Sinningupdates
      @Sinningupdates 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@Divinelydestiny I agree with the sentiment. At the end of the day he was still your choice. What ifs and coulda shoulda wouldas just don’t cut it in reality. You should’ve thought about that before giving the body that‘s suppose to be for your future husband away before he even met you or could prove himself to you. There’s a man out there that would climb mountains and swim oceans and hold up the sky for you and you can’t even make a good choice?? This is why we need to bring strong fathers back honestly it’s sad they should be the ones to teach daughters this. It takes a village.

  • @melmoultrie
    @melmoultrie 7 месяцев назад +2

    Love is truly choosing that person everyday. Every single day. Yes. Even THOSE days. ❤️

  • @naturalstoneartist
    @naturalstoneartist 9 месяцев назад +62

    Love isn’t something you fall into, it is something you become.

    • @jamescarter5041
      @jamescarter5041 9 месяцев назад

      What do you mean?

    • @naturalstoneartist
      @naturalstoneartist 9 месяцев назад +4

      @@jamescarter5041 becoming one with creation and all life. From a non judgmental perception.

    • @offgridprincess133
      @offgridprincess133 9 месяцев назад +2

      Love is a spell. Hence why people fall in love. It is a spell one falls under subject to that can make one very vulnerable and choose emotion over logic.

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel333 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love can be unconditional but tolerance is not. I can love u and want the best for you from a distance.

  • @mistyjordan7147
    @mistyjordan7147 9 месяцев назад +10

    Exactly. When you're right within, Gods love will truly show unconditionally, through your actions from Gods love. Especially when you keep God in your circle in all the days of your life. Love comes from the greater one that lives within you. Period.

  • @soniamckenzie1262
    @soniamckenzie1262 9 месяцев назад +18

    Unconditional love is from the heart and having that person best interest at heart 💜

  • @Hope-qy8dr
    @Hope-qy8dr 7 месяцев назад

    That is called loving someone more than you love yourself. Buzzer sound!

  • @Simssmith-uh9il
    @Simssmith-uh9il 9 месяцев назад +4

    He nailed it! I feel like most women are looking for that type unconditional love and most man are looking for contracts

  • @Adel-O.4324
    @Adel-O.4324 9 месяцев назад +25

    Preach brother ✊️💯

  • @ThePr0t0type2
    @ThePr0t0type2 8 месяцев назад

    Thank youuuuuu!!! And coming from a black man...quite refreshing...

  • @duffykarlston873
    @duffykarlston873 9 месяцев назад +10

    Αmen, brother!!! At last, a real man speaks out!

  • @sisiejackson
    @sisiejackson 9 месяцев назад +8

    Never been said better ... AND ... IT IS LITERALLY THAT PLAIN AND SIMPLE .... People make it difficult by not being READY for a REAL relationship and not being HONEST with their partner ... 🌞

  • @Jazzycoach24
    @Jazzycoach24 7 месяцев назад

    Period Dr. Umar! Well said! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

  • @dekaronde603
    @dekaronde603 9 месяцев назад +6

    Love is patient never do records of wrong unselfish not boastful and unconditional..❤️🙏

  • @MegaTamarra
    @MegaTamarra 9 месяцев назад +3

    Wow I learned something new about Dr. Umar today. He really knows what love is. These love songs and movies have romanticized and distorted the whole concept of love. And the kicker is, it’s not a feeling. It’s an energy which cannot be rationed or harnessed.

  • @pnut5066
    @pnut5066 9 месяцев назад +1

    Unconditional as well as...Responsible Love...

  • @brittanyclifford1989
    @brittanyclifford1989 8 месяцев назад

    Yess love is unconditional, to have that someone the way he speaks, I'm glad I have that. 💯💯💯👍

  • @RyanCampbell-d4f
    @RyanCampbell-d4f 7 месяцев назад +1

    Excellent sir 👍🏽

  • @JeanetteaMccleese
    @JeanetteaMccleese 8 месяцев назад

    Yes love isn’t one sided Amen

  • @CarmaMckennon-kj3mg
    @CarmaMckennon-kj3mg 9 месяцев назад +1

    I agree.To Love and Be Loved,unconditionally.And you said it committed.

  • @SamDavidJr
    @SamDavidJr 9 месяцев назад +46

    On top of that, most contracts time out…

    • @coldfact.
      @coldfact. 9 месяцев назад +1

      I think contracts could essentially be good. More direct terms better understanding & options to renew or terminate team-ship at the desired reassessment time. 👏🏽😄

    • @SamDavidJr
      @SamDavidJr 9 месяцев назад

      @@coldfact. True! That’s a way of seeing it.

    • @newlife9606
      @newlife9606 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, they all have a expiration date.

  • @ky-anawilson4694
    @ky-anawilson4694 8 месяцев назад

    Been there done that. Love someone so much you stop putting urself first.

  • @Sugi1971
    @Sugi1971 8 месяцев назад

    True, hence it is better to love and to lose that love than never to love at all.

  • @loniwatson8110
    @loniwatson8110 9 месяцев назад

    Love is not a contract.
    Amen

  • @jetblack1365
    @jetblack1365 9 месяцев назад +18

    Amen! Thank you this is perfectly said. ❤❤

  • @SophiaDilworth-bq7sg
    @SophiaDilworth-bq7sg 9 месяцев назад +1

    Dr.O always comin with the truth

  • @Electro_Sabotage
    @Electro_Sabotage 7 месяцев назад

    This guy's is seriously deep. I like this explanation

  • @beverlyjohnson7866
    @beverlyjohnson7866 9 месяцев назад +1

    I totally agree on everything this young man have just said totally agree😊😊😊😊

  • @tammygrice20256
    @tammygrice20256 8 месяцев назад

    Truth 💯🕊️🤍🌟✨
    Love is Unconditional ❤

  • @humblewarrior3610
    @humblewarrior3610 9 месяцев назад +17

    That's Deep🎉

  • @blairwalker5466
    @blairwalker5466 9 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely 100% Big Facts Real Shit ❤️‍🩹

  • @iamtaliba.divine.love1322
    @iamtaliba.divine.love1322 7 месяцев назад

    Unconditional Love but no unconditional tolerance!

  • @exposinghiddentruth3590
    @exposinghiddentruth3590 9 месяцев назад +21

    Basically loving unconditionally; is that you don't expect the one you marry to be perfect, because you know you are not perfect.
    But you did marry, because of certain things you (love) about each other.💡😉👍

  • @kayodudu5190
    @kayodudu5190 8 месяцев назад +1

    Well said

  • @LisaHolmes-z5q
    @LisaHolmes-z5q 9 месяцев назад

    So true 2that, love is unconditional

  • @MiracleMariie-jg8gu
    @MiracleMariie-jg8gu 7 месяцев назад

    I loved my kids dad so much an he constantly tells me he don't want anything with me. An that breaks me so bad bcuz I gave him all of me more than I could ever give someone else.

  • @c.r.e.a.m.7212
    @c.r.e.a.m.7212 8 месяцев назад

    HE SPOKE THE TRUTH 💯😌

  • @gwenlee9562
    @gwenlee9562 8 месяцев назад

    The love MUST be unconditional X 2. So no one will ever lose.

  • @torisamuel7174
    @torisamuel7174 9 месяцев назад

    ❤ Great words to listen to instead of rap bars.

  • @MrFloydsUniverse
    @MrFloydsUniverse 8 месяцев назад +1

    It's the love you have for yourself that creates your love for her!

    • @Nyc99
      @Nyc99 7 месяцев назад

      He didnt even learn nothing, but go teach😅

  • @CarolynFanning
    @CarolynFanning 8 месяцев назад

    Right on, love is unconditional.

  • @TheresaWinston-n9g
    @TheresaWinston-n9g 9 месяцев назад

    That is how I am I love my family unconditionally

  • @josiahcox5305
    @josiahcox5305 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank u Jesus 🙏 😊

  • @noshamey1495
    @noshamey1495 8 месяцев назад +1

    ❤ Love is a sacrificial act❤ Its blessing is the feeling of knowing you are blessed ❤ it couldn't be anything less. B Less or A more❤

  • @alexwebstar
    @alexwebstar 9 месяцев назад

    That’s correct and I agree with this word!!!

  • @rrichardson542
    @rrichardson542 9 месяцев назад +1

    Well said SIR!!!!

  • @falanajerido875
    @falanajerido875 9 месяцев назад

    Having their best interest at heart. That is love

  • @DemeshiaParker
    @DemeshiaParker 8 месяцев назад

    Truth is, God already to us how to Love

  • @Heartchakra777
    @Heartchakra777 8 месяцев назад

    Yes love is unconditional good/bad time sick/healthy 😊 not perfect but work in progress 💚💚💚

  • @lettiepayton4359
    @lettiepayton4359 9 месяцев назад

    Love is the greatest of them all true authenticity

  • @tammygrice2025
    @tammygrice2025 8 месяцев назад

    Truth Unconditional Love has no conditions
    Contracts have conditions 🕊️♥️🌹✨

  • @hurdyb1
    @hurdyb1 8 месяцев назад

    Umar hit a grand slam with this answer.

  • @REALBETTYBOO
    @REALBETTYBOO 9 месяцев назад +18

    TRUE LOVE KNOWS NO BOUNDARIES !! 🙌🏽💜💯👑🦄🎶✨ !!

  • @Living.Divinity.Tarot123
    @Living.Divinity.Tarot123 8 месяцев назад +1

    You must begin with fully loving yourself. Self Love then you can begin to love another, Through the whole process God must be there. Before, During & After.
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @OlavFischer
    @OlavFischer 7 месяцев назад

    Ain't no loss in love!

  • @cristysmith3797
    @cristysmith3797 8 месяцев назад

    Love is unconditional but there are boundaries in a relationship there is a differance

  • @zasembothobilemkhize3976
    @zasembothobilemkhize3976 8 месяцев назад

    Love is unconditional

  • @DarryHardaway
    @DarryHardaway 7 месяцев назад

    YOU RIGHT UMAR

  • @STAY-SINStaySharpInNature
    @STAY-SINStaySharpInNature 9 месяцев назад +1

    Stand On It 1,000.000%

  • @sheilaallen2146
    @sheilaallen2146 9 месяцев назад +10

    Well said 🌹

  • @latonyamorris2208
    @latonyamorris2208 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for saying that 🤨☝️
    Most people never known Real Love and a lot of people can’t handle real love, they will destroy, it before they will appreciate it!

  • @TiffanyDreisReturn
    @TiffanyDreisReturn 8 месяцев назад

    Yes! Preach. Took me awhile to learn.

  • @user-vu3yh9vk6j
    @user-vu3yh9vk6j 8 месяцев назад

    Real talk! Love this ❤ Facts

  • @tylass1347
    @tylass1347 8 месяцев назад

    My brother the term Love is Blind kind of to me personally defines What Love Is you really love somebody you don't care about nothing else but that person that you can't see❤

  • @hazelrivers7642
    @hazelrivers7642 8 месяцев назад

    I agree love is unconditional

  • @Jacqueline-e1e
    @Jacqueline-e1e 7 месяцев назад

    So my king, wear your crown 👑

  • @marloboyd1885
    @marloboyd1885 9 месяцев назад

    Going through this right now and still learning more about being unconditional but moving forward just like the Sun ☀️ daily👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽🙏🏾

  • @TRUTHSEEKER-mh4jv
    @TRUTHSEEKER-mh4jv 8 месяцев назад

    That is absolutely correct!!! I am experiencing it personally, hope nothing but the best for them, even if it doesn't include me💯❤️👑

  • @dragonlily2175
    @dragonlily2175 8 месяцев назад

    Committed to their best interest even if it's to your loss. FACTS Sometimes when you really love someone you let them go and love them from a distance and wish them well. Too many people settle for contracts.

  • @luckie6682
    @luckie6682 8 месяцев назад

    Amen, its equal give and take , unconditional, you are the other half ,think alike, together like glue, Amen

  • @maxeycents8284
    @maxeycents8284 9 месяцев назад

    Yesss. You want them to be happy even if it’s w/o you.

  • @nae_petey_son
    @nae_petey_son 7 месяцев назад

    Love=Action

  • @scenicviewhomesteadtreasa
    @scenicviewhomesteadtreasa 8 месяцев назад +2

    Love is unconditional until someone continues to beat the shit out of you ...

    • @Nyc99
      @Nyc99 7 месяцев назад

      Than you never love anyone but yourself, and get tf out of there quick fast. Dont look back, absence can beat too hard like fists

  • @antoinettewashington6733
    @antoinettewashington6733 9 месяцев назад

    WOW So TRUE BLESS Man of GOD ❤ This would be a BETTER WORLD 🌎 if We (GOD’S Creation) LOVED 🥰 LIKE THIS TO GOD BE THE GLORY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥AMEN 🙏🏾

  • @sherrireid4246
    @sherrireid4246 8 месяцев назад

    Absolutely! True Facts🙌

  • @janetvasquez610
    @janetvasquez610 9 месяцев назад

    Lovethis guy.. really do.. thank you.. i always say this.. teue lovestinks bc you cantturn it.off .. but i wohkdnt change it for nothing

  • @charcoalelement6276
    @charcoalelement6276 8 месяцев назад

    Perfect explanation! 👍💯

  • @c_thesweetheart
    @c_thesweetheart 9 месяцев назад +5

    Amen my brother 🙏🏽

  • @thomaswaffle5121
    @thomaswaffle5121 9 месяцев назад

    If you fall in or out, it's not love. Unconditional love is something you become.

  • @patriciapressley9990
    @patriciapressley9990 8 месяцев назад

    Facts.......(BLESSED)

  • @BerniceMccrea
    @BerniceMccrea 9 месяцев назад

    Absolutely speaking fact. A lot of men/women have never considered/studied the traditional marriage vows to know and understand them. I Old lady now; sure wish I understood this many many years ago.

  • @leoniabrahams5586
    @leoniabrahams5586 8 месяцев назад

    That's rare to meet... now a days

  • @williambillingsley2426
    @williambillingsley2426 9 месяцев назад

    Thats so true 100 all the way

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 9 месяцев назад +4

    This touch me deep down inside thand you

  • @Crystal-dj6ns
    @Crystal-dj6ns 9 месяцев назад

    ❤PREACH DR. UMAR❤
    UNDER NO CONDITIONS JUST PURE LOVE.

  • @sammydane5988
    @sammydane5988 9 месяцев назад +5

    Men, recognize when your woman Loves you unconditionally! Or it's a contract of your woman saying to you thru her actions that "I'm your woman for as long as you're Paying For Me!"!

  • @YusuphaKaddy
    @YusuphaKaddy 9 месяцев назад

    wow thanks for your good massage

  • @pencilheadfamily19
    @pencilheadfamily19 8 месяцев назад

    Righteous 💛🦅💛

  • @brandypeay5350
    @brandypeay5350 9 месяцев назад

    I don’t even think us a human beings have the capacity to truly love unconditionally. TRUE LOVE is such a deep word/feeling/action beyond our human imperfect comprehension. They’re conditions on everything in THIS life❤❤❤I believe the only unconditional love is that from God.

  • @God_sChosen7773
    @God_sChosen7773 9 месяцев назад

    Well said BROTHA

  • @NiniiibeeNiiniibee-hz5bh
    @NiniiibeeNiiniibee-hz5bh 9 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂no we on earth ... Only parent and child can have unconditional

  • @JayStudwell
    @JayStudwell 9 месяцев назад +1

    Speak 👑

  • @rahsunallah2825
    @rahsunallah2825 9 месяцев назад

    Actual facts god!!!!!

  • @sarisatravis7479
    @sarisatravis7479 8 месяцев назад

    Contract🤔 even to your loss🎯

  • @jahkeyp5270
    @jahkeyp5270 9 месяцев назад

    Tell them brother, as I feel some people don't OVER STAND, what LOVE really is...
    If you TRULY LOVE someone you WOULD NEVER take the Mickey out of your partner and ridicule them...LOVE protects and would never see ANY HARM come to the other person...That is LOVE and I AM WAITING FOR TRUE LOVE❤❤❤❤