It is ok to be a woman and not wear makeup and embrace your masculine side, that doesn’t make you a man, or something in the middle. Be proud to be a woman, we all come and think differently from one another and that makes us special. We can’t be defined. Sigh.
It’s trans people that say they hate stereotypes but constantly reinforce them, they’re the most misogynistic people without even realising, it’s always “I have these masculine traits so I’m a man” “I like this masculine thing so I’m a man” when most of the time they’re actually just gay and can’t come to terms with it, it’s people like Cam I feel like will regret their transition because of the way she’s explaining it, even the things she was saying in her testosterone video that she’s more rational which means she’s a man? Unbelievable
And saying she must be a man because she’s rational, stable, energised and in control of her emotions which are traits only men have, what the actual fuck!
I had to buzz my hair due to trichotillomania. I… left it like that now for two years lol. Short hair makes ME personally look more feminine. I think it’s my eyes. Which was so helpful for me because I always felt so boyish. But my gosh it’s so easy, keeps me so cool in the heat, and I just love it lol.
I forced my mom to cut mine off herself (she was a hair stylist a while back) soley because I was so done trying to keep up with it. Best decision lmao I'm so free 😂
@@Ashildr__ riiiiight! Also I’m so mad no one ever told me how wonderful it is to swim with a buzz or super short hair! My gosh! The only thing is when you first try to sleep after buzzing for the first time, and it feels like you have hundreds of little bugs moving all around your head when you slightly move on the pillow. Weirdest feeling ever. Don’t have it anymore though.
having a parent accept their true identity and live authentically isn’t hurting their kids, it’s only showing a good example. also what is so devastating about a haircut to their kids? what is wrong with you?
I feel like it suits you tbh, like you did give off this certain energy! Personally I'll miss the thick long hair but I'm glad you feel more comfortable.
I really like it that you feel you can express yourself. It's honestly a great thing. It's so great, I'm going to express myself as well. Thank you for giving me the green light on this. God put two genders on this earth: females and males. Thank God you were feeling like a woman when you had the girls, because the girls would NOT EXIST if you had this epiphany back before they were conceived. All I can say beyond this is that I pray for those little babies. They have so much to process. I'm going to leave it right there.
you’re contradicting yourself. you’re saying that how you present yourself does not equal gender. you then say that you can be “gender nonconforming” while being cis, which means that how you present yourself does have an association to a certain gender. completely contradictory to your beginning statement.
@@sofiakayte1362 Obviously how you present yourself has an association to a certain gender. Doesn't mean that association equates to the gender (i.e. wearing dresses doesn't = being a woman). When I say "gender nonconforming", I mean not conforming to the social constructs around gender like fashion, not gender itself. Like if you're a masculine cis woman you're not conforming to current gender norms but your gender still aligns with your biological sex. Which is being cis and gender nonconforming
I bought clippers several years ago and buzz my hair right off. People are freaked out when you’re born female, haven’t figured yourself out until your 40’s, and look like a guy. Hair is hair, clothes are clothes, who cares what we feel comfortable with. Not hurting anyone or trying to change others. Good for you Cam!
Your confidence after the purple dye is shining through! You look great, this really does suit you in a way I never considered before. So great you feel affirmed
Those kids will be so confused. Having their mom trying to figure itself out on what gender it is and stuff. You chose to make kids young, not their fault, no need to put them through your confusing figure out
Kids just like having a parent, someone to care for them and love them and have fun with them. kids don't care what someone identifies as. just be happy cam and the kids are happy
@@janessapeterson3425 confused is not equal with abused darling. And I can definitely tell you a child needs simple terms, if you complicate it too much, and add a lot of terms, anxiety will definitely lurk in
How heartbreaking. Another traumatized woman feeling the need to bring others down to make herself feel superior, why don't you spend some time learning instead of hating people you don't understand 🩵
@@olikaneI'm incredibly well educated in gender identity and sex and formerly was very pro trans/gender identity before educating myself more on it actually and I say this as a life long leftist but great baseless assumption ❤
Hear me out. We don’t have to be non-binary a.k.a. a label just because we’re not girly or manly enough. Why can’t people just like what they like without becoming a label?
That part everyone has to put lables on everything and even make ones up that dosnt make sense idk why everyone can't just be there selfs and take constructive criticism without thinking people r attacking them. You don't always have to agree with everyone you just have to respect that opinion and go on with no problem because not everyone is gonna like what you like and that's okay because opposites attract.
As someone who is non binary, this is really offensive. You just don’t know how it feels to not be a man or a woman. And that’s not Cam’s problem or mine. That’s a you problem. There’s a difference between gender identity and gender expression.
@@DJMetzler337 It is quite silly to me. Therapy is probably the way to go. You being offended by what I think is not a me problem, that is a you problem.
also I relate SO MUCH to that it feels like u can ironically experiment with femininity bc it's as u said not giving girly feminine yk.. idk if I phrased this well but I LOVE IT you're radiating joy and that's adorable
I did this at 23 on a whim, I decided one day that I wanted a super butchy haircut (I’m a queer woman, typically fairly femme leaning). Luckily I worked as a receptionist at a hair salon, so the next day I had them chop all of my hair off. Then a few days later I went even shorter, like buzz cut short. And bleached my head icy blonde. Sometimes we just want to switch it up, affirm our feelings, and experience all that our body can offer us - including different looks. Your new look is great Cam!!
I'm not uncomfortable with their appearance. I'm uncomfortable that 'they' change their mind about who they are every six months. Flavour of the month and all that. It's annoying and disingenuous but it sure makes them a lot of money. They monetized their own husband's suicide under the guise of 'sharing and public education', monetized having kids as a teenager, glorified the horror of that, complained weekly about how terrible their life was ....it's just getting to be too much. I'm not watching anymore. It's like a train wreck.
@@brunaalbanez112 I'm not uncomfortable by a haircut. I'm not uncomfortable at all. Just found out that I've been watching & supporting a channel that was about a young family who suffered a major tragedy & a strong young woman raising two daughters alone who decided she now wants to be the opposite gender. That is sad, especially for the kids who lost their Dad before they even knew him & now their Mom wants to be their Dad.
I loved loved your long hair. But it’s not about what I love. It’s about what YOU love for YOU. And I’m glad you did this for yourself and feeling more authentically yourself. Regardless of the opinions of anybody else, your opinion of your own hair and body is the most important. Good for you !
my tip for getting back to ur natural color fast is by dying it a very similar tone (maybe slightly lighter) and then the transition looks less noticeable :)
I've been watching you since like 2018 and I just want you to know that I love watching your videos. I feel like our own personal journeys are so similar. I feel less alone watching your videos and I appreciate that so much. Keep living your life 💕
Poor kids? It’s almost like just because they have a queer parent doesn’t mean they won’t turn out queer oh wait they won’t do it just because of them bc they’ll know they can be their happy most authentic self with an amazing parent who will raise them to be responsible humans
cam I’m so excited for you!!! I cut my hair similarly in feb this year and you’re exactly right, every haircut from here just gets better as you learn how you like it! Running your hands through it and feeling so fresh is the best feeling 💓 the more authentic you are the better you look I promise
I cut all my hair off 2 years ago and I dressed very masculine and I was young and I found my self but I always where a hat and I where it backwards. And a coach told me the way you where your hat is the way you want to go in life.
I know it’s so tragic to see the photo of her with her husband at their wedding, normal hair color and beautiful clothes, a lovely child, literally the dream we all aspire to that’s the bedrock of happiness and civilization, and to now see her like this. Let’s pray for her. She did a complete 180 and has lost it.
Trauma will do it to ya. I really hope she gets the help she needs soon before the girls are old enough to see it. I can’t believe her family isn’t stepping up more to support her.
Getting pregnant young, marrying so young and the trauma she endured this is all the result of mental health issues. Sadly but I see it a lot people wanting to be something else due to so many underlying issues.
I don’t care, present your self however you want, but please don’t confuse your little daughters with the f pronouns. you gave birth to them, you’re their mother, not a ‘they’
Don't comment rude comments like this. If Cam doesn't want to use she/her pronouns then that's non of your business. The kids will support and continue to love their mothers. Changing pronouns won't change that.
What makes you feel like "they, them"? And not just a "tomboy". Or why do you feel like you have to put a title on it, and not just look at it as you being you and your personal style ?
Yeah the they them thing is completely fake. It’s very unfortunate because it’s all manufactured by the elites as 1) a distraction and 2) for people to not have kids to lower the population. It’s so sad to see people like her fall for it. I don’t know how there is never a realization moment of “hey, isn’t this they them this literally made up and meaningless?”. Poor girl.
Hope you are living your most authentic life and some commentators just need to just idk, not be mean and mind their business 🙄 You're still a parent to your daughters and they seem happy and healthy. You're truly a phoenix. I also survived my baby's daddy suicide so I know EXACTLY the feeling. It's a lifestyle I don't exactly wish for anyone else but it is what it is.
@@CEDL4072 they were soooo happy and healthy with this fool was on social media begging for money because her poor baby was hospitalized with no insurance because their “mother” puts them in daycare even though she doesn’t work so she can decide who she wants to have sex with and get bad haircuts 😊🙃
Don't comment rude comments like this. If Cam doesn't want to use she/her pronouns then that's non of your business. The kids will support and continue to love their mothers. Changing pronouns won't change that.
Gender affirming? Does that mean you’re transitioning or you don’t identify as a woman anymore? Sorry I’m really confused by the title & what that means
it just means they are presenting them self in a more gender neutral way, cam cutting their hair shorter makes them feel better about their gender, they have come out as non binary which means they neither identify as female nor male, their new haircut affirms to how they feel about their gender.
@@michaelaleigh2001 thats your opinion and i get it, pronouns are confusing but you have to understand that they are a person and they are the same person they where when they started.
As someone who worked as a receptionist for a hair salon, doing that to the schedule puts them super behind and late for their upcoming involved appointments, and they are usually super mean to us😂 but they shouldn’t be that way to the client.
@@OliviaRehrigit's not the haircut, get that through your skull first of all, it's the fact that she thinks she is not really a female, which is what she BIOLOGICALY is!
What the fuck is wrong with you people deal with their trauma in different ways and frankly it's none of you business cam is the strongest bravest person i have had the privilege to watch them and their beautiful kids grow up through the ups and downs but they are strong and you are an insufferable peace of human garbage ❤
Good job I really love it on you so who cares what other people think! I'm a 68 year old woman and I used to have a short kinda buzz cut in my mid twenties and loved it!!
I’m genuinely astonished at the comments. Like why are yall actually so pressed because they wanna cut their hair? Like it’s literally hair guys. Chances are Delilah and Collette won’t actually notice if people start calling their mom with different words because they likely don’t understand pronouns yet. It’s not going to corrupt their world or confuse them. They know who their mom is and that their mom isn’t becoming a different person. Cam is simply cutting their hair and using different pronouns. The kids aren’t suddenly going to think they don’t have a mom anymore and like explode?
What is a woman? You don’t know the answer to that basic question and now her kids will struggle with it too, and that comes with a whole host of other issues, including identity crisis’s like the one she is having
i used to watch your videos so much, i’m glad i found this channel again. I came out as trans a few months ago but i’ve known for a long time. you got this :)
God loves everyone, as a religious person you should know that. I go to church every week and they have never taught or tolerated hate of any kind. they are not lost, God still loves them and this is a part of His plan for them. don’t judge God’s decisions for their life
@novarayc homosexuality ia forbidden in Christianity and all Abrahamic faiths. It is in the bible and is God's word and order. If you truly believe, you will follow God's word. Or maybe that word will be changed again as the Bible is constantly corrupted. I wonder when the next update is. Fear God and stop with this nonsense. The Almighty is the all knowing, all powerful and all-seeing. Yes I agree, God loves all his creation regardless of their sin, and maybe this is his way of testing Cam. However, sin is sin. Homosexuality is a sin. As told in the story of prophet Lot in the old testament and how the entire nation was destroyed because of their disgusting sins of homosexuality. And even if God loves everyone, he will love them more if they turn back to him in repentance.
no one needs to agree with cam, but cam wants to do what makes her the happiest of herself. It’s not necessarily for anyone but herself. People want to express themselves to find their people too.
oh get a grip. Cutting your hair short means nothing. Some people begin to just simply hate long hair after dealing with it for so long and are much happier with short hair. If someone is happy with cutting THEIR hair short fine... it does not affect you an any way.
I absolutely love this hair cut for you!!! It really helps mix the masculine and feminine look. Plus the purple really suits you. So happy to see how happy you are 💜
Shes so mentel shell never be happy . I feel so bad about the girls . Its all about herself never talks about her girls. just complains alot about her life its so depressing.
Okay I’ve been thinking this for a minute but she treats her kids like roommates or something. She used to love doing mommy daughter things and all this fun stuff and now she’s so disconnected. Disassociating maybe. Idk. She needs help.
@@HB-uy5ov You call Trans people harmful for being around kids, you call them selfish for not wanting to be around their kids after Transitioning. Will you please make up your minds on this subject.
@@akiews20you can’t switch genders either way no matter what you do to yourself, you are born who you are you cannot change you’re gender. It’s not possible
i cut my hair in december of 2023 and i loved it! Didn't and still don't have supportive people in my life so I'm glad they do. Even though I have 4c hair, its so much easier. I didn't cut my hair for gender identity purposes; I cut it for mental health purposes and technically went behind my parents back. I can't tell you how many times I've been misgendered but for some reason I'm kinda okay with it. I can't dye my hair or really explore/experiment because i'm still underage and till have to obey my parents or whatever but seeing Cam do what they want with their hair despite the hate and societal norms make me so happy because I know what its like firsthand to have people talk s**t. Couldnt be more proud
I'll admit at the start of the video was like noooooo please. By the end I think you made a bold choice and it paid off!! 🔥🔥🔥 I love the color and after the cut I could see the jake gyllenhaal resemblance more (it's the eyes definitely) you look amazing with long or short hair honestly. Happy you found something you are comfortable with.
Everything she's been through has clearly caused the confusion. Nobody starts thinking this way unless they either have a lot of trauma, or want attention. Someone in this position needs therapy, not new pronouns.
@@lt4865 , or they have never fit into the boxes society has for them. I know that’s how I am. There is nothing wrong with realizing who someone is. It’s not for you to say.
You're allowed to figure out who you are, outside of being a parent, while also being a good parent. These negative comments are very odd. Those kids are loved and cared for.
What’s odd is that it is considered normal for women to declare they are not women because they don’t ‘feel’ like it, and for people like you to claim these people are stable enough to raise children as well as they could before they became mentally ill and it isn’t something that will negatively impact the children to be exposed to madness during their development
The short hair suits you SO incredibly well Cam! Thank you so much for feeling secure enough to share these changed in your life, as a trans person myself that first gender affirming haircut is truly life changing😊
I was absolutely stunned when I saw the thumbnail & title of this video! I never would’ve expected this kind of haircut on you but OH MY GOD idk how but you look so genuine to yourself now. I’ve been watching your videos since the very beginning and you seem so much more confident and authentic and comfortable now and you look SO AMAZING!! I’m so proud of you Cam ❤️
@@janessapeterson3425”find herself” girl look at her eyes. Look at the look in her eyes. If you can’t tell it’s because you’re lying to yourself. Affirming this behavior will only encourage the spiral. She’s already 100% set up her daughters to have mental health problems as teens and I’m already willing to bet that both of them will be bi at a very minimum.
9:10 I didn't expect to see the Blur dude.. But the haircut truly suits you I'm so glad you had the courage to chop it all of. 😁 For a sec I was playing around with the 100/99 like button. 😎
I just came from your TikTok and I’m glad RUclips seems to be more supportive. I love your new hairstyle! It suits you a lot. Cutting your hair will also set an example to your girls that they’re allowed to have self expression and be themselves. You’re a cool human being, keep being your TRUE AND AUTHENTIC SELF! 😊❤
I love this hair cut and color on you! It really makes your eyes pop and seriously makes you super androgynous. Congrats on living more authentically you!
@@reddneckkpieces, I thought I would get attacked if I gave my personal opinion, so I offered a fact, and she most certainly achieved that look. No seeing individual will ever find that haircul feminine. This is perhaps the poster look for a man's appendage falling off, but because "she" is so liberal, she's probably good with it.
@@reddneckkpieces I get a lot of people don’t like it and that’s your personal opinion but if it makes her happy, just leave her alone because she looks confident beautiful and happy in her own skin😅
@@Ansley-mp2jm it's pure delusion she's living in, convincing yourself that you're someone you're really not, it's only going to hurt her in the long run.
I wouldn’t unfollow because she obviously needs support. She is obviously deeply damaged and needs empathy to get her out of it. If everyone leaves her, the only people left are those who support this kind of stuff and the further spiral.
@@oliviaanderson1210 I dont support the LGBT community + I think this change has to do with the trauma she is experiencing and I wont be supporting a lost of gender identity. RUclips might not be the right place to heal. Ive been here since the beginning, it broke my heart when I saw what happened to Landon and I was interested in all her projects. But THIS. nope.
@@oliviaanderson1210I see what you’re trying to get at, but no one can’t make her get the help she needs from behind a screen. Unfortunately I think she’s gunna have to hit rock bottom first. She’s already spiraling, pray for her children.
Cam, I'm so happy for you! The cut looks so cute on you and the purple is so cool! Seeing your smile beem after getting the haircut made it for me. So happy to you progressing on your journey and finding the things that help you feel like you. Forget the negative, this is a positive for you ❤
@@manjisano8544 growing up too fast could've caused them to not find themselves. Especially since they had their oldest girl when they were 16. People take time to self discover. Katelyn Jenner took years to find herself and be comfortable with it.
awh cam! you look amazing and it's so clear how happy it made you to change it up. thanks for sharing this with us, always rooting for u and hoping you and the girls are doing well!
I went from long hair to completely buzzed on the sides and back and a little shorter than yours up top. I loved the haircut but absolutely hated it on my face. Growing it out has been the biggest pain and I absolutely loved when mine was a little bit longer than yours is now. It definitely takes some time to play around with it to get it right!
I’m seriously blown away by how amazing you look with that haircut!! Wow! It makes your eyes look bigger, it suits you so well! I’m so happy for you Cam♥️ love from Canada
It looks so good and I’m so glad you’re more comfortable now! Also getting it buzzed on the back & sides always feels so good (from someone who has short hair)
Yikes another identity crisis while neglecting your children and letting them living in chaos with literally zero structure. Mom of the year ladies and gents.
@@MrPandabee at least my family has HEALTH INSURANCE and only has one dad and I don’t give legal rights to strangers I’m in a “trouple” with. So compared to this fool yeah I am mom of the year lol. And you’re dumb if you think she’s a good mom. Pull your head out of your ass.
Fed, clothed, able to go to school, food on the table, toys in their room, bed in their rooms, friends and family….. such a shame they have to live that way. Lol
This is going to sound ____ phobic but it’s not coming from that place at all. I just want to say, I think you have been through a lot. I think you have had to be there for your kids, I think a lot of pointless things. However, really I feel like you’re just a person who fell in love with the illusions everyone sells. Life, happy family, kids. Then everything kinda started to shatter and fall apart… and walls closed in. You never got to live in your skin, mess up, try again, and go through a rebellion within yourself because of your kids. Rebellion is not always “no mom and dad” but sometimes it’s at yourself. Angry and self correction for your past mistakes, and overcompensating you being free. Whatever you decide, I wish you well. Feeling free, in control, empowered by your life is something you can attain in so many ways. Gooodluck. 🎉
i swear im always in sync with you! i just cut my hair too! i cut like half of it off into a bob to be more gender affirming. im going to go shorter in a couple of months to have a more masculine cut but now just wasnt the time
All these comments are giving you traction and views, don’t listen to them I’ve been here forever and watching you way before Landon, you’re an icon and I love how connected you are with yourself ❤️
@@gabbywade4587They're have a female body, but they're not a girl. Another comment said they identify as gender fluid, but I'm not 100% sure about that
I love your new look cam and congrats on the change! A few years ago my mum used the colour remover because she used to die her hair blonde all the time and wanted a change sadly yes it turned out bright orange like you said and she has short hair. Even did it days before we went on holiday to New Zealand. It was Christmas I said to her just say it’s a Christmas colour
haven’t watched the video yet but have been following the haircut stuff on tiktok and dude, you look awesome!!! i’m so happy you’re finally feeling like yourself! i started watching you when i was 16 and thought i was a cis girl lol. now i’m 23 and genderfluid. i’ve loved growing up alongside you and it’s so cool to see how we both evolve in parallels, though we are strangers on the internet :) wishing you the best!!!!!
Honestly the new cut suits you. I know how you felt about getting the haircut. I decided one day to cut my hair short after having long hair my entire life. It was honestly the best decision. It's been several years since I cut it, I have never once regretted it. Please don't worry about the negative comments. You do what you want and what makes you happy. You will still have people here to support you.
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Damn I missed a whole chapter
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They came out like years ago
Me
@@deanmadethis_ They just said they came out in January; it hasn't even been a year
@@deanmadethis_ That was regarding their sexuality, NOT their gender.
Thank God I found few decent folks in the comment section who are aware about the spiraling messed up situation. So heartbreaking.
Yeah same 😆 people can say what they want. This is someone who needs help
its sickening
very sad :-(
How is getting a hair cut heartbreaking
It is ok to be a woman and not wear makeup and embrace your masculine side, that doesn’t make you a man, or something in the middle. Be proud to be a woman, we all come and think differently from one another and that makes us special. We can’t be defined. Sigh.
Or maybe you could mind your own damn business and get a life! 😊
@@ChuckyCourville I’d rather keep triggering you instead.
@@bluebelldiscoI read your comment and I loved what you said, but I love you even more after what you replied to that person 😂
@@ChuckyCourvillewe need people preaching the truth.
shut up bitch
holy moly i missed a lot
I did aswell
Ikrrrr
so real
This is just another example that people NEED therapy. Everyone who decides to make these changes have gone through trauma and that’s what caused it.
She is in therapy. She has been for a long time.
@@gloomyxbabee she needs more
@@maegenflynn7565u sound ignorant
@@maegenflynn7565good thing you don’t get to decide that
@@maegenflynn7565because she wanted a haircut?
You need some therapy and class
Short hair doesn’t mean masculine long hair doesn’t mean feminine I wish we’d drop that already
I know! I wish she would realize that it's perfectly okay to be a tomboy and not identify as "non binary". There's only male and female!
It’s trans people that say they hate stereotypes but constantly reinforce them, they’re the most misogynistic people without even realising, it’s always “I have these masculine traits so I’m a man” “I like this masculine thing so I’m a man” when most of the time they’re actually just gay and can’t come to terms with it, it’s people like Cam I feel like will regret their transition because of the way she’s explaining it, even the things she was saying in her testosterone video that she’s more rational which means she’s a man? Unbelievable
And saying she must be a man because she’s rational, stable, energised and in control of her emotions which are traits only men have, what the actual fuck!
She’s throwing around words like transphobia when she’s literally a misogynist
I had to buzz my hair due to trichotillomania. I… left it like that now for two years lol. Short hair makes ME personally look more feminine. I think it’s my eyes. Which was so helpful for me because I always felt so boyish. But my gosh it’s so easy, keeps me so cool in the heat, and I just love it lol.
I forced my mom to cut mine off herself (she was a hair stylist a while back) soley because I was so done trying to keep up with it. Best decision lmao I'm so free 😂
@@Ashildr__ riiiiight! Also I’m so mad no one ever told me how wonderful it is to swim with a buzz or super short hair! My gosh! The only thing is when you first try to sleep after buzzing for the first time, and it feels like you have hundreds of little bugs moving all around your head when you slightly move on the pillow. Weirdest feeling ever. Don’t have it anymore though.
@@BMarie774 small price to pay to damn near wake up and go hahaha
Short hair like this doesn’t make a female more feminine lmao 😂 this hair cute is awful
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Bro you be putting your kids through it
BIG time, her children don't deserve to be affirming their mothers delusions, especially after losing their father at such young ages!
@@reddneckkpieceshow does this affect there kids?
@loovegab she's brainwashing them, it's as simple as that.
having a parent accept their true identity and live authentically isn’t hurting their kids, it’s only showing a good example. also what is so devastating about a haircut to their kids? what is wrong with you?
She definitely is she even gave up custody because her being a man is more important
I feel like it suits you tbh, like you did give off this certain energy! Personally I'll miss the thick long hair but I'm glad you feel more comfortable.
being more masculine and not wearing makeup does not equal gender, you can be cis and gender nonconforming
love this comment!
I really like it that you feel you can express yourself. It's honestly a great thing. It's so great, I'm going to express myself as well. Thank you for giving me the green light on this. God put two genders on this earth: females and males. Thank God you were feeling like a woman when you had the girls, because the girls would NOT EXIST if you had this epiphany back before they were conceived. All I can say beyond this is that I pray for those little babies. They have so much to process. I'm going to leave it right there.
you’re contradicting yourself. you’re saying that how you present yourself does not equal gender. you then say that you can be “gender nonconforming” while being cis, which means that how you present yourself does have an association to a certain gender. completely contradictory to your beginning statement.
@@sofiakayte1362 Obviously how you present yourself has an association to a certain gender. Doesn't mean that association equates to the gender (i.e. wearing dresses doesn't = being a woman). When I say "gender nonconforming", I mean not conforming to the social constructs around gender like fashion, not gender itself. Like if you're a masculine cis woman you're not conforming to current gender norms but your gender still aligns with your biological sex. Which is being cis and gender nonconforming
I bought clippers several years ago and buzz my hair right off. People are freaked out when you’re born female, haven’t figured yourself out until your 40’s, and look like a guy. Hair is hair, clothes are clothes, who cares what we feel comfortable with. Not hurting anyone or trying to change others. Good for you Cam!
how do you know someone is affirming their own sexuality/gender? Don't worry, THEY'LL tell you...
Your confidence after the purple dye is shining through! You look great, this really does suit you in a way I never considered before. So great you feel affirmed
Those kids will be so confused. Having their mom trying to figure itself out on what gender it is and stuff. You chose to make kids young, not their fault, no need to put them through your confusing figure out
Lol
Kids just like having a parent, someone to care for them and love them and have fun with them. kids don't care what someone identifies as. just be happy cam and the kids are happy
Yeah….. they look so confused, abused, malnourished and sad lol
@@janessapeterson3425 confused is not equal with abused darling. And I can definitely tell you a child needs simple terms, if you complicate it too much, and add a lot of terms, anxiety will definitely lurk in
@@janessapeterson3425lets not lie 😅
How heartbreaking. Another traumatized woman falling into this nonsense.
How heartbreaking. Another traumatized woman feeling the need to bring others down to make herself feel superior, why don't you spend some time learning instead of hating people you don't understand 🩵
cry me a river u miserable bitch
@@olikaneI'm incredibly well educated in gender identity and sex and formerly was very pro trans/gender identity before educating myself more on it actually and I say this as a life long leftist but great baseless assumption ❤
@@nancyok, I don’t believe that for one second. And even if that were the case, you should respect the “choices” of others if you truly feel that way.
I'm sorry, but how is this bad?
Hear me out. We don’t have to be non-binary a.k.a. a label just because we’re not girly or manly enough. Why can’t people just like what they like without becoming a label?
Sometimes labels are comforting to people and that’s ok. If they aren’t for you that’s ok too.
That part everyone has to put lables on everything and even make ones up that dosnt make sense idk why everyone can't just be there selfs and take constructive criticism without thinking people r attacking them. You don't always have to agree with everyone you just have to respect that opinion and go on with no problem because not everyone is gonna like what you like and that's okay because opposites attract.
As someone who is non binary, this is really offensive. You just don’t know how it feels to not be a man or a woman. And that’s not Cam’s problem or mine. That’s a you problem. There’s a difference between gender identity and gender expression.
@@DJMetzler337 It is quite silly to me. Therapy is probably the way to go. You being offended by what I think is not a me problem, that is a you problem.
@@shawnahamilton4241you being bothered by someone else’s pronouns sounds like a you problem.
also I relate SO MUCH to that it feels like u can ironically experiment with femininity bc it's as u said not giving girly feminine yk.. idk if I phrased this well
but I LOVE IT you're radiating joy and that's adorable
I did this at 23 on a whim, I decided one day that I wanted a super butchy haircut (I’m a queer woman, typically fairly femme leaning). Luckily I worked as a receptionist at a hair salon, so the next day I had them chop all of my hair off. Then a few days later I went even shorter, like buzz cut short. And bleached my head icy blonde. Sometimes we just want to switch it up, affirm our feelings, and experience all that our body can offer us - including different looks. Your new look is great Cam!!
It’s very sad how people get so bothered and uncomfortable with other people’s appearances 😔 you’re so strong Cam, your kids are lucky to have you!
No you can be honest. It looks awful lmao.
I'm not uncomfortable with their appearance. I'm uncomfortable that 'they' change their mind about who they are every six months. Flavour of the month and all that. It's annoying and disingenuous but it sure makes them a lot of money. They monetized their own husband's suicide under the guise of 'sharing and public education', monetized having kids as a teenager, glorified the horror of that, complained weekly about how terrible their life was ....it's just getting to be too much. I'm not watching anymore. It's like a train wreck.
Hey camliy fam
@@brunaalbanez112 I'm not uncomfortable by a haircut. I'm not uncomfortable at all. Just found out that I've been watching & supporting a channel that was about a young family who suffered a major tragedy & a strong young woman raising two daughters alone who decided she now wants to be the opposite gender. That is sad, especially for the kids who lost their Dad before they even knew him & now their Mom wants to be their Dad.
@@MicheleKaufman-k2ltheir pronouns are they/them. Is it that hard to be fucking respectfully? Leave if u don't want to be
I loved loved your long hair. But it’s not about what I love. It’s about what YOU love for YOU. And I’m glad you did this for yourself and feeling more authentically yourself. Regardless of the opinions of anybody else, your opinion of your own hair and body is the most important. Good for you !
my tip for getting back to ur natural color fast is by dying it a very similar tone (maybe slightly lighter) and then the transition looks less noticeable :)
I've been watching you since like 2018 and I just want you to know that I love watching your videos. I feel like our own personal journeys are so similar. I feel less alone watching your videos and I appreciate that so much. Keep living your life 💕
Your poor kids
No, your poor kids. They may have a mother who doesn’t love them for who they are despite being “different”. That’s the tragedy here.
Poor kids? It’s almost like just because they have a queer parent doesn’t mean they won’t turn out queer oh wait they won’t do it just because of them bc they’ll know they can be their happy most authentic self with an amazing parent who will raise them to be responsible humans
Children don't care if their mom has a short hair cut or covers her body with fabric designers label "womans clothing".
@@DJMetzler337frfr
cam I’m so excited for you!!! I cut my hair similarly in feb this year and you’re exactly right, every haircut from here just gets better as you learn how you like it! Running your hands through it and feeling so fresh is the best feeling 💓 the more authentic you are the better you look I promise
Go off!!! Love that you are doing what makes you feel like yourself. Your kids are so lucky to have a parent like you to look up to!
Lol
Do you think you’re a man now? Genuinely curious. Think about your daughters and how confusing this will be for them. I feel really bad for them.
@@SavannahAusteen Oh shut up, they are allowed to be what they want
I feel bad for you honestly
Why do u care about cam, let them express themselves however they want to
@@MissClassyDollallowed*
Yeah this is heartbreaking. Another lost to this nonsense.
@@nancyok It's not nonsense? They are presenting how they want too, stop being so judgemental
Those poor babies.....
It’s a haircut… relax
@@kileylogan6342it’s definitely more than that
@@strongroots2345lmao no it’s not it’s a fkin hair cut 😂 jesus christ lol
@@mamabee20221 don’t use God name in vain and yes it is she spiraling anybody that has eyes can see this.
I cut all my hair off 2 years ago and I dressed very masculine and I was young and I found my self but I always where a hat and I where it backwards. And a coach told me the way you where your hat is the way you want to go in life.
???
@@biancawiseowlbackwards
Bs. How one chooses to wear a hat doesnt mean a thing.
@@ShockResistor thank you it really doesn’t but that coach was a really bad coach and I got excluded
I’m so lost she was straight married to a man I’m assuming her loss made her change I’m not sure if that’s true to self 😢
I know it’s so tragic to see the photo of her with her husband at their wedding, normal hair color and beautiful clothes, a lovely child, literally the dream we all aspire to that’s the bedrock of happiness and civilization, and to now see her like this. Let’s pray for her. She did a complete 180 and has lost it.
Trauma will do it to ya. I really hope she gets the help she needs soon before the girls are old enough to see it. I can’t believe her family isn’t stepping up more to support her.
Getting pregnant young, marrying so young and the trauma she endured this is all the result of mental health issues. Sadly but I see it a lot people wanting to be something else due to so many underlying issues.
@@aliciaolsavsky4098 I agree I worry about her
why do you think this is your business? stand down and consider shutting your mouth, since its so obvious you never do
I don’t care, present your self however you want, but please don’t confuse your little daughters with the f pronouns. you gave birth to them, you’re their mother, not a ‘they’
this isnt your business, pipe down and shut up.
This!! She is a she she is a mom was a wife
Don't comment rude comments like this. If Cam doesn't want to use she/her pronouns then that's non of your business. The kids will support and continue to love their mothers. Changing pronouns won't change that.
@@millyofdaworldhola984it’s my opinion and it’s not going to change
@bbygirl97 ok that's fine but it's still hurtful to comment this.
What makes you feel like "they, them"? And not just a "tomboy". Or why do you feel like you have to put a title on it, and not just look at it as you being you and your personal style ?
Yeah the they them thing is completely fake. It’s very unfortunate because it’s all manufactured by the elites as 1) a distraction and 2) for people to not have kids to lower the population. It’s so sad to see people like her fall for it. I don’t know how there is never a realization moment of “hey, isn’t this they them this literally made up and meaningless?”. Poor girl.
@@oliviaanderson1210there’s… lot of nonbinary people who are parents so i’m not sure where you got that “fact” from?
Hope you are living your most authentic life and some commentators just need to just idk, not be mean and mind their business 🙄 You're still a parent to your daughters and they seem happy and healthy. You're truly a phoenix. I also survived my baby's daddy suicide so I know EXACTLY the feeling. It's a lifestyle I don't exactly wish for anyone else but it is what it is.
@@CEDL4072 online=making it everyone’s business. Glad we cleared things up 😊
Why do they need to put their business on social media?!
If they feel the need to get views from this nonsense, then we can comment on it.
@@CEDL4072 they were soooo happy and healthy with this fool was on social media begging for money because her poor baby was hospitalized with no insurance because their “mother” puts them in daycare even though she doesn’t work so she can decide who she wants to have sex with and get bad haircuts 😊🙃
She*
Are your kids allowed to call you MOM. Omg poor babies. Ughh
Poor babies???? Just because someone identifies as non binary doesn’t mean they can’t take care of their children!!! Jesus Christ you need help
Don't comment rude comments like this. If Cam doesn't want to use she/her pronouns then that's non of your business. The kids will support and continue to love their mothers. Changing pronouns won't change that.
Gender affirming? Does that mean you’re transitioning or you don’t identify as a woman anymore? Sorry I’m really confused by the title & what that means
it just means they are presenting them self in a more gender neutral way, cam cutting their hair shorter makes them feel better about their gender, they have come out as non binary which means they neither identify as female nor male, their new haircut affirms to how they feel about their gender.
@@Finley____S24 like robots for A I
God this sounds so idiotic 😂 This they them shit is so out of pocket
They came out as Genderfluid in February and use They/Them pronouns
@@michaelaleigh2001 thats your opinion and i get it, pronouns are confusing but you have to understand that they are a person and they are the same person they where when they started.
This is not a cute look for you
This is not a cute attitude of you
I agree, the haircut isn't her.
Too bad nobody cares what you think.
@brittanielynn8114 it's called an opinion, dumb cu$%
@brittanielynn8114 it's called an opinion, dumb c#$%
Oh, sheesh, another one bites the dust. Best of luck to you. This is where i check myself out ... 😶🌫️🫡
Yeah I won't be coming back here for a while😢😶
@@reddneckkpiecesnobody cares
@@whereisthefrankocean you are the ones that don't care
@@reddneckkpieces neither should you
don’t let the door hit you on the way out
As someone who worked as a receptionist for a hair salon, doing that to the schedule puts them super behind and late for their upcoming involved appointments, and they are usually super mean to us😂 but they shouldn’t be that way to the client.
wth has this channel come to… these poor girls
@@persephone385 shhhh let them be themself it’s not your life
Shes not doing anything wrong
Get your judgemental ass out of here 😊 unsub and be happy, no need to leave this type of comments 🫡
@@MissClassyDoll look through her videos, she takes on a new persona every month, it has to be confusing as hell for her kids
@@persephone385 She deals with her mental health as do I! She's figuring herself out like I am, stop being so judgemental
You really have a lot of trauma and it’s showing
Lmfao. Getting a haircut doesn’t mean you’re spiraling. You’re weird.
@@OliviaRehrigit's not the haircut, get that through your skull first of all, it's the fact that she thinks she is not really a female, which is what she BIOLOGICALY is!
What the fuck is wrong with you people deal with their trauma in different ways and frankly it's none of you business cam is the strongest bravest person i have had the privilege to watch them and their beautiful kids grow up through the ups and downs but they are strong and you are an insufferable peace of human garbage ❤
Good job I really love it on you so who cares what other people think! I'm a 68 year old woman and I used to have a short kinda buzz cut in my mid twenties and loved it!!
At this point, just change the channel name...
I’m genuinely astonished at the comments. Like why are yall actually so pressed because they wanna cut their hair? Like it’s literally hair guys. Chances are Delilah and Collette won’t actually notice if people start calling their mom with different words because they likely don’t understand pronouns yet. It’s not going to corrupt their world or confuse them. They know who their mom is and that their mom isn’t becoming a different person. Cam is simply cutting their hair and using different pronouns. The kids aren’t suddenly going to think they don’t have a mom anymore and like explode?
What is a woman? You don’t know the answer to that basic question and now her kids will struggle with it too, and that comes with a whole host of other issues, including identity crisis’s like the one she is having
i used to watch your videos so much, i’m glad i found this channel again. I came out as trans a few months ago but i’ve known for a long time. you got this :)
Wow you are a lost soul. May God bless you with his grace.
God loves everyone, as a religious person you should know that. I go to church every week and they have never taught or tolerated hate of any kind. they are not lost, God still loves them and this is a part of His plan for them. don’t judge God’s decisions for their life
@@novarayc This isn't God's decision for Cam's life; this is Cam's decision for Cam's life.
@@novaraycGod loves her immensely, but He still calls her to repentance for this.
@@lianadotjpegshe not to Let God decide for her
@novarayc homosexuality ia forbidden in Christianity and all Abrahamic faiths. It is in the bible and is God's word and order. If you truly believe, you will follow God's word. Or maybe that word will be changed again as the Bible is constantly corrupted. I wonder when the next update is. Fear God and stop with this nonsense. The Almighty is the all knowing, all powerful and all-seeing.
Yes I agree, God loves all his creation regardless of their sin, and maybe this is his way of testing Cam. However, sin is sin. Homosexuality is a sin. As told in the story of prophet Lot in the old testament and how the entire nation was destroyed because of their disgusting sins of homosexuality. And even if God loves everyone, he will love them more if they turn back to him in repentance.
Everyone is on their own journey, and this is a part of theirs. To those leaving hateful comments I hope your day gets better…
no one needs to agree with cam, but cam wants to do what makes her the happiest of herself. It’s not necessarily for anyone but herself. People want to express themselves to find their people too.
Them Cam is Genderfluid and uses They/Them pronouns
@@lpsnat6563 ok that’s good to know, I wasn’t sure exactly
They/ them is odd to say to one person imo, but the haircut looks good on them 😬.
@@Pokemon23491so is it weird (for example) when someone leaves their glasses and a stranger finds them and says “look someone forgot their glasses”?
@@Pokemon23491When you start using it, it becomes natural pretty quick! It is correct grammar
No love, you are spiraling
Lmao theyre so happy what are u even talking about- its just a haircut
I’ve had my hair long , short, natural and coloured changing your hair doesn’t mean you’re spiralling. Get a grip
oh get a grip. Cutting your hair short means nothing. Some people begin to just simply hate long hair after dealing with it for so long and are much happier with short hair. If someone is happy with cutting THEIR hair short fine... it does not affect you an any way.
She a lost girl
@@kristinalastname9445she*
I absolutely love this hair cut for you!!! It really helps mix the masculine and feminine look. Plus the purple really suits you. So happy to see how happy you are 💜
Shes so mentel shell never be happy . I feel so bad about the girls . Its all about herself never talks about her girls. just complains alot about her life its so depressing.
Okay I’ve been thinking this for a minute but she treats her kids like roommates or something. She used to love doing mommy daughter things and all this fun stuff and now she’s so disconnected. Disassociating maybe. Idk. She needs help.
@@HB-uy5ov You call Trans people harmful for being around kids, you call them selfish for not wanting to be around their kids after Transitioning. Will you please make up your minds on this subject.
@@ethandollarhide7943fr though
THIS IS SAD THESE R GODS CHILDREN THAT R BEING CORRUPTED
Stfu why do you care about cam and their kids
Not ur kids, not ur opinion
Omg why would you do that to your hair? Not cute at all.
Not your hair. Not your opinion
Hope this helps
Right!!
She's completely changed
breaking news: people change 😱
@@hamildiggthonysauce you don't have to be so rude! i didn't mean it in a bad way lol. Nowadays people just attack anyone. Go drink some water 😂
@@makeuprudie6540 apologies if you took that as rude. i didnt intent to be rude.
*they
@@makeuprudie6540if you didn’t mean it in a rude way start with using their pronouns
those kids are going to grow up so confused.
Who isn’t confused tho
Honestly was thinking the same. This girl needs to deal with her trauma not switch genders.
@@HB-uy5ovShe is not switching genders just so you know
@@akiews20you can’t switch genders either way no matter what you do to yourself, you are born who you are you cannot change you’re gender. It’s not possible
i cut my hair in december of 2023 and i loved it! Didn't and still don't have supportive people in my life so I'm glad they do. Even though I have 4c hair, its so much easier. I didn't cut my hair for gender identity purposes; I cut it for mental health purposes and technically went behind my parents back. I can't tell you how many times I've been misgendered but for some reason I'm kinda okay with it. I can't dye my hair or really explore/experiment because i'm still underage and till have to obey my parents or whatever but seeing Cam do what they want with their hair despite the hate and societal norms make me so happy because I know what its like firsthand to have people talk s**t. Couldnt be more proud
I'll admit at the start of the video was like noooooo please. By the end I think you made a bold choice and it paid off!! 🔥🔥🔥 I love the color and after the cut I could see the jake gyllenhaal resemblance more (it's the eyes definitely) you look amazing with long or short hair honestly. Happy you found something you are comfortable with.
May I ask what makes someone SO confused ?
Don’t come for me as a judgemental or a hater. I want to try and understand and be educated.
It’s the complete opposite of confusion actually. It’s being able to do what makes you feel like you, not just be who the world thinks you should be
Many people have never felt like they fit into the gender binary. We who are non binary are more common than you think.
yeahh i mean she has a very feminine face… and the confusion of being masculine???
Everything she's been through has clearly caused the confusion. Nobody starts thinking this way unless they either have a lot of trauma, or want attention. Someone in this position needs therapy, not new pronouns.
@@lt4865 , or they have never fit into the boxes society has for them. I know that’s how I am. There is nothing wrong with realizing who someone is. It’s not for you to say.
You're allowed to figure out who you are, outside of being a parent, while also being a good parent. These negative comments are very odd. Those kids are loved and cared for.
What’s odd is that it is considered normal for women to declare they are not women because they don’t ‘feel’ like it, and for people like you to claim these people are stable enough to raise children as well as they could before they became mentally ill and it isn’t something that will negatively impact the children to be exposed to madness during their development
Oh girly this ain’t it 😅
@@michaelaleigh2001 Just like your face that ain't it either
not a girly
@@MissClassyDoll aren’t you funny 😆
@@erinm1373 ur delulu 🫶🏻
it seriously isnt…so sad looking back i know landen would be upset
The short hair suits you SO incredibly well Cam! Thank you so much for feeling secure enough to share these changed in your life, as a trans person myself that first gender affirming haircut is truly life changing😊
I was absolutely stunned when I saw the thumbnail & title of this video! I never would’ve expected this kind of haircut on you but OH MY GOD idk how but you look so genuine to yourself now. I’ve been watching your videos since the very beginning and you seem so much more confident and authentic and comfortable now and you look SO AMAZING!! I’m so proud of you Cam ❤️
Seek therapy.
maybe you should?
It’s almost as if going to therapy helped her find herself….
@@janessapeterson3425”find herself” girl look at her eyes. Look at the look in her eyes. If you can’t tell it’s because you’re lying to yourself. Affirming this behavior will only encourage the spiral. She’s already 100% set up her daughters to have mental health problems as teens and I’m already willing to bet that both of them will be bi at a very minimum.
You need to seek therapy, judgmental prick.
YOU LOOK SO SICK! been watching since your first video, so great to see you happy ❤
Same
unfollowing lolll
Thank God, don't need loser transphobes here anyway
I am proud of you for doing what makes you feel comfortable and not worrying about what others may think.
Why the he'll did you screw your nice hair?
9:10 I didn't expect to see the Blur dude..
But the haircut truly suits you I'm so glad you had the courage to chop it all of. 😁
For a sec I was playing around with the 100/99 like button. 😎
guys i feel like it was js yesterday her and her bf were raising their first baby, what happened
Nah fr like yeah she’s been through a lot but jeez ya know
i know
Yeah crazy
So a woman can't cut her hair without being judged?
@@MissClassyDoll i was js asking what happened, and idk if that's a girl anymore
I just came from your TikTok and I’m glad RUclips seems to be more supportive. I love your new hairstyle! It suits you a lot. Cutting your hair will also set an example to your girls that they’re allowed to have self expression and be themselves. You’re a cool human being, keep being your TRUE AND AUTHENTIC SELF! 😊❤
I love this hair cut and color on you! It really makes your eyes pop and seriously makes you super androgynous. Congrats on living more authentically you!
Speaking just facts here, if you wanted a less feminine haircut, congrats. You succeeded.
yeah, thats what cam wanted lol
Yeah I feel sorry for her, that haircut looks horrible in my personal opinion😶
@@reddneckkpieces, I thought I would get attacked if I gave my personal opinion, so I offered a fact, and she most certainly achieved that look. No seeing individual will ever find that haircul feminine. This is perhaps the poster look for a man's appendage falling off, but because "she" is so liberal, she's probably good with it.
@@reddneckkpieces I get a lot of people don’t like it and that’s your personal opinion but if it makes her happy, just leave her alone because she looks confident beautiful and happy in her own skin😅
@@Ansley-mp2jm it's pure delusion she's living in, convincing yourself that you're someone you're really not, it's only going to hurt her in the long run.
i have no need of being this early … but i just wanna say im so proud of you and how far you have grown since I first started watching !
Not even kidding I was just sobbing over feeling my haircut is making me dysphoria
I hope you can get a haircut you love one day 😊❤
It's always the traumatized kid. Time to unfollow
I wouldn’t unfollow because she obviously needs support. She is obviously deeply damaged and needs empathy to get her out of it. If everyone leaves her, the only people left are those who support this kind of stuff and the further spiral.
@@oliviaanderson1210 I dont support the LGBT community + I think this change has to do with the trauma she is experiencing and I wont be supporting a lost of gender identity. RUclips might not be the right place to heal. Ive been here since the beginning, it broke my heart when I saw what happened to Landon and I was interested in all her projects. But THIS. nope.
@@oliviaanderson1210I see what you’re trying to get at, but no one can’t make her get the help she needs from behind a screen. Unfortunately I think she’s gunna have to hit rock bottom first. She’s already spiraling, pray for her children.
OMG! Ugh I love seeing what's new on your channel. So happy for you!
Cam, I'm so happy for you! The cut looks so cute on you and the purple is so cool! Seeing your smile beem after getting the haircut made it for me. So happy to you progressing on your journey and finding the things that help you feel like you. Forget the negative, this is a positive for you ❤
Have yall noticed the way she acts and talks and the switch when she cutted her hair ?
Yesse lolll
It is probably because their more confident and feel more like themselves
@@demon_sfate5669 u can think like that but seeing what she’s been through it’s not hard to say her trauma made her turn confused big time
@@demon_sfate5669she?
@@manjisano8544 growing up too fast could've caused them to not find themselves. Especially since they had their oldest girl when they were 16. People take time to self discover. Katelyn Jenner took years to find herself and be comfortable with it.
I’m happy ur feeling confident cam. We love you ❤
If L woke up and saw this... He would have gone back to sleep voluntarely.
This is so sickening. Not only did the girls lose their dad, they also lost their mom in a way. You're so confused and its sad.
I’ve been here since day one and I could not be more proud of you Cam 😊
You look beautiful cam!! I can see the confidence change, it really suits your face💓 you’re inspiring to me as someone who is gender fluid ☺️
awh cam! you look amazing and it's so clear how happy it made you to change it up. thanks for sharing this with us, always rooting for u and hoping you and the girls are doing well!
I went from long hair to completely buzzed on the sides and back and a little shorter than yours up top. I loved the haircut but absolutely hated it on my face. Growing it out has been the biggest pain and I absolutely loved when mine was a little bit longer than yours is now. It definitely takes some time to play around with it to get it right!
I haven’t watched this Chanel in a few years and this video came up on my for you page. Like where have I been I’ve missed a lot damn
I’m seriously blown away by how amazing you look with that haircut!! Wow! It makes your eyes look bigger, it suits you so well! I’m so happy for you Cam♥️ love from Canada
It looks so good and I’m so glad you’re more comfortable now!
Also getting it buzzed on the back & sides always feels so good (from someone who has short hair)
Yikes another identity crisis while neglecting your children and letting them living in chaos with literally zero structure. Mom of the year ladies and gents.
I couldn’t imagine reaching this hard HAHAHA 😂
@@janessapeterson3425 good thing you don’t have to babe cause it’s not a reach 🙃😊
how do u knw she is neglecting her kids? her kids are in school and happy. stfu and stop talking about people's lives u dont knw about. wh000re.
You don‘t know her or how her kids live.. Really hope you are a mom of the year because putting other moms down like that wouldn‘t cross my mind
@@MrPandabee at least my family has HEALTH INSURANCE and only has one dad and I don’t give legal rights to strangers I’m in a “trouple” with. So compared to this fool yeah I am mom of the year lol. And you’re dumb if you think she’s a good mom. Pull your head out of your ass.
Those poor Children 😢
Fed, clothed, able to go to school, food on the table, toys in their room, bed in their rooms, friends and family….. such a shame they have to live that way. Lol
This is going to sound ____ phobic but it’s not coming from that place at all.
I just want to say, I think you have been through a lot. I think you have had to be there for your kids, I think a lot of pointless things.
However, really I feel like you’re just a person who fell in love with the illusions everyone sells. Life, happy family, kids. Then everything kinda started to shatter and fall apart… and walls closed in. You never got to live in your skin, mess up, try again, and go through a rebellion within yourself because of your kids.
Rebellion is not always “no mom and dad” but sometimes it’s at yourself. Angry and self correction for your past mistakes, and overcompensating you being free.
Whatever you decide, I wish you well. Feeling free, in control, empowered by your life is something you can attain in so many ways.
Gooodluck. 🎉
i swear im always in sync with you! i just cut my hair too! i cut like half of it off into a bob to be more gender affirming. im going to go shorter in a couple of months to have a more masculine cut but now just wasnt the time
I think your long hair looked great, but I think you being happier makes the short hair cut look even better
Its prob due to the trauma from her husband dying.
All these comments are giving you traction and views, don’t listen to them I’ve been here forever and watching you way before Landon, you’re an icon and I love how connected you are with yourself ❤️
15:49 i was thinking cam looks like a character and pointed it themselves 😭😭😭 so real for that
Girl. What?! 😢
Not a girl and if you don’t agree then don’t comment. Commenting that won’t change them
@@ashermaxcrew DNA says she will always be a girl...
@@ashermaxcrew If she's not a girl then how did she get pregnant? I'm so confused...
@@gabbywade4587They're have a female body, but they're not a girl. Another comment said they identify as gender fluid, but I'm not 100% sure about that
@@Gay_Forest_CryptidStop spreading bs,you're born a female or a male. Nothing else no matter how delusional you want to be.
I love your new look cam and congrats on the change!
A few years ago my mum used the colour remover because she used to die her hair blonde all the time and wanted a change sadly yes it turned out bright orange like you said and she has short hair. Even did it days before we went on holiday to New Zealand. It was Christmas I said to her just say it’s a Christmas colour
haven’t watched the video yet but have been following the haircut stuff on tiktok and dude, you look awesome!!! i’m so happy you’re finally feeling like yourself! i started watching you when i was 16 and thought i was a cis girl lol. now i’m 23 and genderfluid. i’ve loved growing up alongside you and it’s so cool to see how we both evolve in parallels, though we are strangers on the internet :) wishing you the best!!!!!
You look amazing 😍❤ cutting my hair was a big step to feeling more like myself :)
Honestly the new cut suits you. I know how you felt about getting the haircut. I decided one day to cut my hair short after having long hair my entire life. It was honestly the best decision. It's been several years since I cut it, I have never once regretted it. Please don't worry about the negative comments. You do what you want and what makes you happy. You will still have people here to support you.
Your new hair made me want a grape jolly rancher but I do not want to go to the store rn however I might go get some jolly ranchers tomorrow
dude it looks so good!!!! congrats on another step towards your true self!