you don't have any passions? how i went from 'nothing interests me' to 'multipassionate'
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- Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2019
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you don't have any passions? nothing interests you? nothing lights you up? listen to what i did to go from nothing interests me to multi-passionate ;) you can get there too!
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After 2 years watching.It is so much helping.
i love hearing that! keep going hun! wink, wink. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Lots of love...
After exams I was so bored, everybody was busy with what they love, thus they can’t chat with me. I’m interested In a hobby, but not in doing it. Like.. I’m not excited for any activity. Sooooo.. I just stay in my room playing games and watching RUclips. Sometimes I get bored with those games, and I just watch RUclips. Then... I got nothing else to watch, and I get bored again.
exactly. the games and the yt keep you distracted slash disconnected from your soul or your inspiration, your interests. have you tried to meditate or spend some time in silence? not fun, but worth it! ;)
I relate but now I'm so bored I can even find RUclips videos that interest me anymore
I'm in the same boat, I just can't seem to find anything I'm actually passionate about. If someone were to ask me, I couldn't list a single genuine interest of mine.
Everyone around me already knows what they want to be and I'm here just unsure. I'm not understand in anything really.
try spending time in silence so you reconnect with your soul self ! :)
I often find myself hobby jumping. I have ADHD and over recent years I’ve struggled to hold a hyperfixation for longer than a few weeks. I believe this is due to my depression and I’ve actually recently started a mood stabilizer that has already started helping the sudden loss of motivation I experience when I start working on something. I find this video to have really funny timing because just yesterday I watched a video that said to stop spreading passions and to just pick one thing and do it everyday for a year. I think it had a good point about just throwing yourself in and getting started instead of just thinking. I like your video a bit better. I’m told all the time that I know a ton about what seems like everything and I’m very animated about the information. It’s fun in the sense that I have a fact for everything, but it is difficult as I feel like I can’t commit to anything. I have so many half finished projects in my room currently and it seems like I keep starting new ones or just pick up some of them at random and peck at them for a little bit. I think it’s just a struggle with long term attention.
Anyway, I appreciate the encouragement to be multi passionate. I struggled so much (and still do) with picking my major in university because I swear I’ve thought about going into every field there is out there at least once. I do feel like I come back to certain categories, like fabric work comes up yearly at the very least. Same with art and language. The hardest part for passion is sticking through for the results. It takes time, and while it’s rewarding, there are a lot of times that my effort felt like too high of a price for what I ended up with. That, or I don’t see or feel enough forward momentum. It’s hard to be passionate in a bubble. I think honestly that having community would make passion finding easier. I wish it was easier to do so
actually i didn't intend to promote passion chasing or being multipassionate... i wanted to encourage those people who think they are different in the sense that nothing interests them. my experience shows that i was wrong when i thought the same. and my case was extreme since i discovered that not only i had interests, but i had many of them... i believe now that all of us do. i don't think we should desperately search for a passion that we might have. i think we should follow our small interests/ curiosities/drives... and then if something turns out to be a passion, fine, if not, fine too...
on the other hand... my thoughts about being multipassionate ... everything is great. being into only one thing your whole life, never having passions but just curiosities and having fun with those or feeling passion towards several different things... the absolute must though is to honor how we are!!! we are all amazing no matter how we are designed. the problem is that the society we live in tells us we must be one way. so, also the schools, they are wrongly put , not in sync with our nature. they push you to choose, which is absolutely wrong (for you and people like you at least), but it suits what the society needs: not unique, but uniform, unhappy us, who are going to do jobs we hate and in the way we are not wired for. in this way the society, our culture also makes us believe that there is something extremely wrong with us, if we cannot fit into its molds. there is nothing wrong with you. try to follow the breadcrumbs and honor your drives because they are nudges from your soul guiding you through life. don't try to change yourself in order to fit in.
also, i suggest you check out the human design system. it's a modality like astrology etc... see what type you are. if you are a manifestor, you are actually born to start projects and not finish them ;)
Ive never thought about it like that. Thank you so much for making me realize :)
How powerful yet a short video! Thanks to all of u in the comments too.. u made me feel better, hope everyone else did too :)
thank you Tom W! makes me happy that you found it helpful! heart xx :)
Thank you so much ena!
have you discovered your passions/ curiosities/interests?
or you think you don't have any?
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I tell myself so much to not even try doing most things beacuse what I fear more than anything isn't critisicm its because I dont think anyone will even take a look at anything I create
love,
one. you can keep going like that, not doing any of the things you are nudged to try, but.... when it comes to the authentic soul nudges, not doing them will just make you feel worse and worse... probably until the pain of not doing them becomes stronger than the pain you imagine you would feel in the imagined scenario! that was my case ;)
two. you need to move your focus away from 'anyone' and onto yourself slash what you want to do and do it. play. trust me after you create something (if it's from your core), you will feel the reward (it's a delicious feeling not comparable to anything else!), even if nobody else even takes a look at it. ever.
let me know how it's going for you! ;)
@@enaanand you are too damn sweet you know what that really just gave me the nudge to just be ok loving what i love even if no-one else sees its value. You are such a beautiful soul and I've really needed this you have done more for me then you will ever know, when I make something I could even send it to you if you'd like (a good youtubers opion would be of great use) just thank you for everything ;)
@@trejubei i'm happy if i helped you in any way! :) ... yes, send it if you feel like it, but don't mind my opinion (or anyone else's too much) ... thanks so much for the kind words! :)
Produce massively. Expect and receive more criticism until you get used to it, just like anything else in life.
that's a good tip! ;)
these days are too exhausting for me. Thanks for the video 🌟
for many of us! sending love! and thanks! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I feel like being too much in my own head - such as ruminating on certain thoughts and mindsets with my OCD prone brain has taken me away from feeling passion in my life. Are there any things you would suggest that don’t involve being with yourself too much to get over this? Also, thank you for the great video
hi A! i think what you are feeling is actually the case for most of us: being too much in our heads (left brain) which keeps us cut off from our passions/ inspiration (right brain)...
can i ask you why you don't want to be with yourself too much? there's this quote from PASCAL: all of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.
if we want to get out of our head, definitely the best is to go into silence. which can be meditation but there are other things that can also take us into the desired state and frequencies:
walking for example (but not walking and keeping thinking, but trying to for example notice what's around... , even better if you do it in nature because nature calms us down on its own... beside that, it can be some activity that occupies your whole being (and so you are unable to think about your problems ;))... for someone it can be painting, cooking, even cleaning the house... also dancing or exercising...
it's pretty unique for everyone,but what you are after is the state of calm, peace, relaxation...first. that's the state in which the free flow starts and ideas and passions reveal themselves ;)
i hope this helps a bit... thank you for the nice words!
i'm preparing another video on how to get inspired! stay tuned ;)
@@enaanand thank you very much
@@user-gh7hl5fv6h I have OCD... How did you decide.. Because my head doubts everything whether I actually like it or not... With stem I get stressed and I don't know if I'm interested or not... As sometimes its hard and with humanities it's easier but I don't think I'm passionate.. Its just easy... I'm not sure What I want or if its because of validation.. As that's hwy economics was a big choice last year. I'm not sure at all.
Thanks for this video, it has helped me a lot.
You're welcome!
After 3 years i came here for getting some help
Thanks ❤
I love your cardigan xx God Bless you
thanks ;)
This really helped me today. Thank you.
thank you! i'm happy to hear that! much love :)
I have done my masters holding second position in the university. Then took one year to prepare for entrance for p.hd but couldnt make up to it.. then starting preparing for banking exams.. 2 years passed, but couldnt clear because i found the subjects too boring to focus & continue. Then i remained home for another one year doing nothing but stressing and crying all through this year. Then i enrolled for diploma in cosmetology & became a makeup artist. But its been 6 months that i had not been getting any job in this field too.. i am totally lost & shattered right now. I know i have lots of potential but the adversities of life have left me hopeless. I am lying at home just like a sloth at the age of 27 who is still dependent on parents for every penny.. shameful!!! Please help me a way out
hey Sania! first i want to say that i really feel for you, i'm sorry for what you are going through. i know how it is when you feel you have a lot of passion inside of you but have no idea how to manifest it in the physical... i'm not any kind of guru or sage.. in these videos i just share what i have been through and my insights... but as i said in this video, i think this applies to all of us, we need to go into silence first. this same thing you will hear from many big teachers as well... in order to be able to hear your soul voice and feel the inner nudges you need to have time for silence. then you follow the instructions from the inside. one by one. and often it will be a hit and miss... i have had many curiosities and pulls towards different things... yoga, reiki, branding... to name just a few... and often it turned out that the thing is not my thing... and i kept moving on... it can be frustrating, but that's the way i believe... and even when you do find something and it really is your thing, after a while life may have new plans for you... we need to go with it the best we can... one more thing... it's a wide topic, but i want to say that life purpose/es even when we are in sync with it, doesn't mean it will give us financial benefits, or maybe not for a while, maybe at some future point... however it will always always always give us instant emotional and inexplicable fulfillment which has to be experienced in order to be understood... ;) if you have more questions, feel free to ask me, i will give my best to help, although this might not be the optimal way... i might start one on one sessions... keep going! and 27 is an awesome age!!!
Hey Sania, I can totally relate on your feelings and you are not alone! I graduated 2015 and I've been trying to find a long term job from my field ever since. Now I'm doing a phd without a funding and still trying to find a job at the same time. I'm 35 and feel like the last 7 years have gone to a drain.
But at the same time I feel I haven't really found my passion in life. It's probably the main reason I haven't got those jobs, cause I never really wanted them. I just needed the money. But it is hard to know what I want in life, especially if I don't get opportunities to try the jobs in the first place.
Yo "multipassionate" is my new jam!
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Thank you x
I loved this!
thank you! i love to hear that :)
Love your content. How do I find the blog post in this video?
thank you so much! :) unfortunately i cancelled the hosting of my website/blog a while ago because frankly i couldn't afford it... so now it's off... i hope that changes soon though :)
I am 18yrs old.. 2yrs back I wanted to be a singer and a dancer , to be my career cos I thought I can express my self through it and not take that just as my hobby...couldn't even sleep for a week thinking me performing infront of a large crowd.. but practiced rarely (cos I was lazy).. not much ...but now it is not that thriving like before... doubting whether to take it as career or not cos I don't know whether it would make me happy and express myself like I thought before..... is it because of the lack of discipline or anything else .... should I stop doing it or not.... what do you think ... I am confused af.... I always change my ambitions but this stuff stuck a bit longer like 2yrs 😅..... so what should I do....pls give me an advice
love... keep doing it as long as it makes you feel enthusiastic about it, as long as it is fun to do it. however while you are doing it, do not try to define it or make anything of it (doesn''t matter if it is a hobby or it will become a career... just play with it!! go with the flow and then it will either grow into something like a career or stay a hobby or it will lead you to something completely unrelated.... you cannot know this in advance... the only thing you need to know is what makes your heart sing right this moment and honor that... and then the same the next moment, and the next one ... got it? ;)
@@enaanand thank you so much 🥰🥰....this helped me 💝
oh i have this feeling going on and it really frustrates me... i will make a new start :)
good luck!😉
Idk what my passion is ?
i m not interested in anything
and I have to choose my career what should i do?
try following the steps that i listed in the video hun... it helped in my case. start following your small curiosities they will lead you to something bigger...
It’s been since February since I haven’t been into my passions… and it’s the end of July. I went off my meds in February and they gave me ketamine and I just rather do nothing now but hold my phone and watch videos.. I don’t think anything is gonna change. At all. If the tap on the shoulder was gonna happen I think it would of happened by now. Don’t you think?
i am sorry for what you are going through Monnie. However i'm not a doctor. If you have some health problems i do think you should listen to your doctor. and tell them how you feel. After that, as i said in the video, and this is just my experience, i am not giving advice, i am not an expert of any kind, try some kind of activity other than watching videos, some activity that would calm your mind. like walking, spending time in nature... this is important in order to feel the nudges. much love to you!
I feel the same, after covid i could not work anymore, all my children are married so it is just me and my husband, he still works but nothing interested us for a hobby,i use to make my own close and close for the grand kids, but just to get started makes me miserable if I just can come over that bridge but i do know 🤔 ❓
@@hendadiedericks2670 well they stuck me with ketamine… which led me to gaining 20 lbs.. shortly after watching this video I got back into my hobbies and I’m picking up more hobbies. I’m currently writing a book on mental health and how doctors need to make a cure for everything instead of on going issues popping pills daily.
I read that every artist has these types of things that happen to them where they don’t create anything and that’s the process of creating art as well not creating anything at all. Get onto instagram and look for inspiration even if you’re copying someone else’s work. It’ll come back. You’ll get bored of doing nothing. I promise you it’ll return. Sometimes you just gotta scribble to make art. Scribe art is an actual thing. I had Covid back in January and when I got sick that’s when I made the most art. Sometimes you gotta look outside the box as well and just draw what you see outside. It’ll come. Let me know when it does.
I'm soooo bored! I wanna try to get into some fighting sport but no where is open. :'(
i suggest you start relying on your creativity/ imagination more. if the thing that popped in your mind is unavailable, what's the next best sounding thing you can do? if you are passionate about travel, and you cannot travel physically atm, how do you satisfy the thirst for it? if you are a fine stuff lover and you cannot afford those atm, what do you do?
@@enaanand Tbh I just want to do something I'm proud of (and to *something* with my time); boxing is just one if the only things I know.
first. ask yourself why you want to do something 'you are proud of' . this screams for a bit of digging. second. why not doing something that lights you rather than something that you know. third. about the boredom. boredom always has to do with us being disconnected, cut off from who we truly are. do something about that ;) the point is you need to wake up your enthusiasm, your appetite for life. otherwise you are just a sad robot.
@@enaanand I'm not really passionate about anything, and I want to do something that could maybe help boost my confidence. I also want to keep my mind of some of my problems, I feel like boxing could help with that if I actually did it. Or maybe something that keeps me from thinking about stuff.
you certainly are into something, but in order to discover what, you need to calm your mind, in other words yes, get it off your problems for a bit... to do that try meditation or anything like running, walking, cleaning, washing dishes, gardening...
Thank u
you are very welcome 💜
I spend sm money on useless shit hoping I’ll get motivation and passion for it then it just never happens I just want a talent
i'm sure you have many talents. do what i said in the vid, spend some time in silence and follow your curiosities no matter if they turn out to not be the real thing! keep going! ;) also check numerology and your natal chart ;)
@@enaanand thanks for the video and replying means a lot :)
I'm tired of everything I am not interested in anything I wasted two years after graduation and still not found what my goal is , I don't have any skill talent or interest it's literally suffocating For me I just have question what should I do even I can't talk and share with others
go deep within and listen to the deepest voice. try astrology. natal. it helps tremendously and it can confirm to you what you somewhere feel yourself, about yourself.
Well done.
thank you! :)
I've tryed all these things...but everything is the same. All is so boring and lifeless for me 😞
how long have you practiced meditation for?
@@enaanand Well, it's difficult to say. I've begun meditating 15 years ago for about 2-3 hours a day. I do chakras exercises, qi gong, mantra, Bach's Flowers, etc
Now I know this true fact that we should connect to ourselves deeply.
I don't have regular job for 10 years while living as Shut-in. Really regretful and want to kill myself even though I know I have to be positive. Sometimes youtube raise me up. Appreciate that. 👍
i'm sorry for what you are going through. sending love!! xx
How have you managed to survive without having a regular job? I’m also suicidal
so sorry... have you asked for help? sending love!
@@enaanand yes, 4 different therapists over 4 years. Tried meds. Tried spirituality. Exercise. Friendships, routine, work, hobbies, going outside, consumerism, minimalism, self care, meditation etc etc. Nothing helps. We can only take so much. Sorry for sharing this amount of negativity with you despite you just trying to help