From an Emotional Connection to a Cup of Coffee, This Is What Intimacy Looks Like to Us
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- Опубликовано: 23 мар 2022
- Could there be something more intimate than sex? From kissing and an emotional connection to a simple cup of coffee on a Sunday morning, we’re opening up about the things beyond sex that have the most impact in our relationships.
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It’s probably not even the coffee for Loni, it’s the realisation that she has someone who cares for her in the way she always wanted 🥺
So sweet. This made my heart smile
I can 100% understand what she feels. I am where she was.
EXACTLY!!! By the way people, this doesn’t mean she was unhappy when she was single. You get used to being single, and then once you’ve met the RIGHT person, there’s just an overwhelming feeling of shock and happiness when you’re used to being alone and then someone comes into your life and does the little things that make you so happy that normally only you would do for yourself. It’s the same feeling (but way better!) as when someone pays for you in front of the drive thru or someone at work does something really nice.
🎯💯That's exactly what it is...I know because I just cried earlier today for the same reason...I know exactly how she feels and why such a seemingly small act of kindness was deemed tear worthy.😢
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One thing about Loni, she will always stay on message. Even when she's bawling her eyes out she'll tell you why The Real is THAT show 😂😂
Oh their longest video uploaded would be if they ever did a compilation of all the times Loni said "and see that's why we do this show" 😭😭😭 gotta love her
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@@DKDiva804 I want to see that!
@@DKDiva804 lmaooo she definitely always says that while crying
@@gaila.9852 pleAsee i need that compilation lol
People who always question if Loni likes James or if she appreciates him because of the jokes she makes - EXHIBIT A. As an OG real fan its so beautiful watching Loni's transition from happy singleton to happy in love. And the mindfulness has clearly helped her open up as well 🥰
I think loni wasnt really happy when single. She always joked about it but it was more like defense mechanism. She always wanted someone to love and share her love with.
She used to make a joke out of everything too and I think that was a defense mechanism so she didn’t get emotional. I love that her walls are more down now, it makes me want to cry seeing her cry.
Yasss it’s beautiful
Couldn't agree more ♥️
True all around!
Loni has a good heart. The fact that James making her coffee made her cry is so touching. I got tears in my eyes. There is something about someone who not only cares about us but shows us through their actions that is so powerful. And it is so important to know what you value in life. It's also important to know what you need from a partner. Sometimes it's not fancy things. People often forget that sincere interest and making someone feel safe is of value.
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Well said And that’s what I’m looking for girl 👏🏾
You better preach!
Yesssss 😍
It explains how bad she was treated. I'm not even trying to play, notice how Jeannie is now. When she said Jay bringing her to the airport and leaving his family to do it brought her to tears.... Real fans notice certain things
As someone thats been watching The Real for the past 7/8 years im getting emotional watching this.coz all these ladies have transformed so beautifully...Loni went from being passive about relationships to crying over a cup of coffee...Adrienne now believes in PDA...Jeannie is submissive and has a baby...its like a whole different set of women and i LOVE LOVE LOVE it!!!
Also,everytime Loni starts crying i burst out laughing coz it always happens soo unexpectantly but at the same time shes always crying...James has really shown us how sensitive this woman is!
Everything you said is true including Loni's random outburst of tears. it comes so quickly and so unexpectedly.
I think she always held in emotions and always kept her feelings of being lonely bottled up trying to be nonchalant and acting tough always being the comedian.You can only do that for so long until you have to be honest with yourself.
I’m genuinely happy to see Loni in this space of being loved correctly.
who knew a conversation about a cup of coffee would make me cry
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It's like this show is turning even The Real Fam into Comedians !
Loni makes an important point. We really have seen the ladies of this show develop over the years. We really don't get that from other shows. Discussions like these have also given me so much food for thought and have helped me to grow as well.
You really notice how they've evolved when you binge watch past episodes.
It's so interesting you say that as I was talking with my partner about it the other day. I was telling him how refreshing it is to watch a show with real people sharing their real feelings and emotions alongside watching them grow. They aren't characters like we see in many other shows.
Most definitely!!💛
Then why the hell are they thinking about cancelling it?!! Aren't they canvassing social media? Seeing how much folks love and resonate with this show? If ratings are down then try different things, brainstorm on how to get them back up (imo its different but as good if not better than its ever been) but try to salvage it. This show is a freakin public service and worth rhe freakin effort! Wendys been on for years dishing out nothing but trash, tackiness and the worst of human failings for all to snicker and laugh at and has lasted for years. This show with all its positivity and worthiness can't just be thrown out just like that. Not fair! ....but what in life is ...smh
It's definitely the little things
Me and my hubby have these late night talks in our bed right before we fall asleep in our room pitch black lol and we just talk about our whole life! I cherish these conversations so much! We go way back and talk about everything we’ve been throughout our 9 years together! Lots of “Remember when we wanted this and now we have it” ❤️
Awwww same here.💖😁 Except for us after decades its now some deep philosophical crap like if theres higher value in being innately good vs developing into a good person or crazy convos like if God maybe still loves Satan LOL. To the point where we'd be admonishing one another about the time and work the next day and have to force ourselves to end the discussion. This morning it was if we ever think about our actual deaths, how it would be, how it actually feels.😂😂 It gets crazy . But I love it. 😁
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH. I CAN'T WAIT TO EXPERIENCE THIS WITH THE LOML❤️
That is so sweet ❤️ thank you for sharing!!
Love this! Want to start this with my soon to be hubby❤️
@@charmcharm2352 😄😄😄😄 I want that🥺. Thanks for sharing.
This segment made me teary eyed but when Garcelle said “ that touched your heart, not just your organs” I died.
Me too 😂😂🤣🤣
Omg When did she say that???🥴🥴
@@alexandraanderson39882:10 😂💀
I really appreciate Loni being so vulnerable and open on this show. You are a queen 🦋
Same
Agreed 💯
Hands down, there's no show on network TV that exhibits the vulnerability and audience connections like the hosts of this show. The Real is the best!
I second that
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!👏👏
PLEASE DO NOT CANCEL THIS SHOW. IT'S HELPED ME SO SO SO MUCH.
Loni is someone that needed some good care as she gives to others especially as a strong person, this so beautiful 😍
I agree with Loni - the little things and someone that truly care about you.
I agree, the vulnerability and growth of Adrienne Bailon-Houghton, Loni Love, and Jeannie Mai being documented throughout their time on _“The Real”_ is so evident and identifiable... Tamera Mowry-Housley and Tamar Braxton have shown that on and outside the show as well, but it’s been beautifully touching to see this showcased and exemplified by these exceptional and beautiful ladies throughout the years, since season 1 and even the pilot season, all the way to now... To know that you can change and develop throughout the years and it be positively beneficial for you, and not be scary or detrimental to your life, _IS_ truly inspiring to see. 🙌🏾🌟☀️🌸🌺🌼✨
I completely agree. This actually gives me hope for the future and the uncertainties life brings you. I really look up to these girls.
Awww Loni...that's love right there💞💞 Happy James is treating her right
LONI! I cried watching Loni express her feelings of worthiness. Yes! you are so worth that cup of coffee and so much more. Amazing what true love can do to you. It changes you! 💞
I cried too. I am so happy for Loni.
YES!!!
She deserve to be loved and be happy
Loni crying made me think of when I got my first valentines day gift ever in 28 yrs.....rly melted...its good experiencing being valued by someone
Ikr
Oh my goodness! You guys deserve all the love. Oh my heart ❤️ seeing this comment broke me. I hope to one day have my valentine sweetheart too. 😭
I'm still waiting, But God..Ecc.3:11
@@sonias9960 you will!!!!!❤
Loni is always crying lol and I keep thinking when she starts off she's kidding but full blow tears comes down
lmao always! it’s annoying 😂😂😂😂😂
yep
She very emotional. I can understand her but it is funny when she starts to break down. I have an aunt that cries like that and we're always like omg somebody grab the tissue for auntie 🤧 😢
I am like that. 1st, hormones as we age fluctuate madly, as we know. Also, when we have deep pain or voids yet keep on pushing, pressing and giving to others, our sensitivity to what we are deprived of - sky high.
I feel joy in my heart seeing that Loni is being and feeling genuinely loved. I just love seeing people (whether I know them or not) glow from being cared for and reciprocating the love received.
YES ❤️❤️
If this show gets canceled, I’m gonna be so hurt, y’all. We’ve kind of created our own little Real YT family this season. THIS season brought me back and I don’t want it to go away.😭
Fr😭😭😭 love my girlies in the comment section.
Nah I hope it does. I will not miss Loni’s crying lmao
@@jessicamarie8299 then why the hell you watch? u miserable as f eh looool
Exactly! The show itself is great but reading everyone's comments here and sharing our opinions was like watching this show with friends ❤
@@jessicamarie8299 you know you don’t have to watch these clips if they annoy you, right? Lol
Wow, why am I crying rn with Loni
Loni had me crying at this discussion!!
True intimacy!!
I really really love Loni 😊, I’m totally glad she found love ❤️
I love LOVE Loni Love. Such a precious gem. She was my first stand up comedy show I attended and was so damn worth the 2-hour drive… I RARELY simp for any celebs, but I’ll always simp for her. Idc idc. ❣️
Loni, you have me crying b/c that’s all I want in life. Having someone who shows their love in the simplistic but meaningful of ways ❤️
Damn you, Loni Love, got me crying up in here!!!! I love her so much. *All of you ladies have our hearts and this show is beyond crucial, valuable and NEEDED!!!!!*
I caught it on t.v. this morning and Loni was crying while she was saying goodbye at the end. I wonder if its because the show is really and truly ending? Or maybe she was feeling so emotional because they are aware of the executives maybe thinking about ending it. I do so hope they keep this show going. Its a public service for mercy's sake! The trashiest, vilest gossip shows have been running for years n years and something this worthy is on the chopping board? No, make it make sense!😭
It’s the little things that can make a relationship so beautiful
I love how emotional Loni is it’s so nice
Just being kind and gentle and having positive vibes always helps then intimacy
As a stay at home mom to an autistic child, the day can be overwhelming. My husband always reassures me that we are a team and to never feel like I can’t vent or express myself to him. He is not only physically present for our family he makes the effort to be emotionally present as well (something he lacked in his childhood). We make an effort to pour into our marriage, our child and ourselves. There is nothing like the feeling of knowing some HAS you. I feel so blessed to have found that. That cup of Sunday morning coffee is everything to Loni….that act of genuine care. There is nothing like it.
Same here. Sometimes I’m so forgetful with all the appointments, my husband helps me by carrying our little one’s stuff out to the car, or putting some ice in my coffee. He’s always reading all the therapist’s daily progress note and attend parent meetings if needed. I’m blessed to have a thoughtful, hard working husband who understands all our needs.
You ladies are blessed
Never cancel this show, I feel so connected to the ladies and their growth, it'd be like losing a long-time friend. Love you all for being so open and vulnerable
Not Loni making me cry 😢
I'm so glad she found someone that loves and appreciates her ❤ 💓 💕
I love how Garcelle's response what that her fabulousness took work, instead of saying, "I'm not fabulous" or something. She knows her worth. LOVE it!
So it was more like acceptance of being single rather than satisfied single huh Loni. You deserve this love Loni because you give Love equally if not more. Congrats♥️
Whoever you are, you better NOT cancel this show!! 😡😤
Hey! Pssst! Lets go have a lil " talk" with em. You down? We'll just...you know..."talk".😬
I am so happy for Loni. She has James and he has her. It’s so sweet how she speaks of how he makes her feel. She definitely deserves that love forever.
These ladies have gone to the depth of their souls this season. You can really see their growth and the strong chemistry that exists between them. What an amazing show.
Awww Loni!!! 🥺 idk what it feels like to be loved like that but as Adrienne said you can have sex with anybody but very rarely you’ll experience something like this.
It’s so nice to see People become the person they truly are when loved properly (I think Adrienne said this once)
That was very sweet, Loni. James truly makes her feel loved. I remember back in the fall when she was on Ellen and a picture of Loni and James came on the screen, Loni's face lit up and she gushed all over him!
I really enjoy the growth of Loni , I swear in the beginning she really didn’t open or cry and joked around and now she’s being more vulnerable ❤️ !
I love that Loni and James have this beautiful relationship. He really makes her happy, so so happy for her 🥰
I need to meet James. And I need to shake his hand! That man is doing a GOOD job!! ❤️❤️❤️👌🏿
I'm right behind you in that queue. May goodness also follow James for the genuine love he shows Loni.
Sex is reciprocal, the giver seeks self fulfillment too. What Loni described is selfless giving thinking only of the other person.
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I hope you guys always remain connected, and never forget these bonding times. To be blessed with genuine friendship is a treasure!! God bless you. You need that above #all things
I hope higher up sees our comments. This is the BEST most personal season of this show. The topics are so deep and exactly what we need on TV. Please don’t cancel it.
I'm not crying you're crying 😭😭😢
That was so beautiful Loni! So glad you found true love! This show is more than just entertainment, it is also healing and I hope it stays on. It is healing many of us more than you know.
I felt what Loni said. I have been single for so long. The memory of feeling that kind of closeness and love with a partner is a distant memory for me currently.
It really is the little things. Thank you Loni for sharing and being vulnerable. I recently got to experience this and it has really been a game changer for me. Now my standards have been raised and I know how I deserve to be treated. It especially feels really good when you've been used to shitty treatment and also haven't been treating yourself well in the first place. It really is about self love and then attracting a loving partner into you life.
I really feel Loni on this one, simple things that let you know someone has got your back and cares about how you're actually doing, is huge. I can't say the same right now, but I know its important.
Say what you want about this show but I really appreciate these types of conversations. I love that they have different women talking about different perspectives from their different experiences and age groups. I really appreciate that and hope that they aren’t canceled.
That’s so adorable Loni, something so simple like getting a cup of coffee in the morning that’s what everyone needs. Very healing to have a conversation and doing something simple for people.
I love the way Adriene helps Loni to cry..
This is one of my favorite favorite episodes of the real this year!!! Beautiful! Loni I am in love with you and all these ladies who open up and help us grow on the weekly! I love it so much!!!! God bless you 4 ladies!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I will forver follow and watch you 4!😘😘😘😘😘
Thank you so much!!
SAME!
I am SO mad they are canceling the show! The vulnerability & honesty you ladies show everyday is unmatched compared to any other talk show and it’s so refreshing 😩
Oh man! Are they?
I cried with Loni man that was beautiful!
Being loved well has really made Loni glow and grow! Love her!
Loni is so precious!❤ I just want to hug her. I love the support and grace all the women give each other. These vulnerable conversations make me so grateful for this show.
This show can’t end ): this is so therapeutic for so many people
An emotional connection is a turn on and is the best part of what love can be and is with that person 😘
Right on Girls!! Love you all💜💜💜💜I found it in my now husband and never knew what I was missing 💕the real REAL #4life
Loni love her some James forREAL
Aww loni! This shows that even the strongest, independent women that does everything for themselves just need a person to care about them to make them feel worth something. I feel ya girl!
I couldn't hold back my tears. Thank you, Loni, for reminding me that intimacy and fulfilment is so beautiful. Wow, I truly hope to, one day, experience the feelings that she has
I connect with you in ways you can't imagine. Please please please don't end this show. I'm from Africa. Uganda. Yes you do have followers here
Loni .you are talking recently to me! I have been in bad relationship for so long 😭, and this is a motivation for me to leave. I know I deserve better, but I feel like I only stayed to please people. Thank you so much for charging this. God bless you🙏
Lonni got me crying and she’s right! Those small special moments really stick to the heart
I love Loni's story so much. I've had my feelings invalidated on many occasions. Just something so small as bringing you coffee and asking, how are YOU doing, can mean so much to someone. I never understood how important this was until a few year ago, when people actually started listening to my feelings and concerns. ALL of our feelings are important. ❤❤❤❤
I cried watching this, because wow. You ladies have no idea how much you mean to us ❤️ The growth here, wow
Omg - I keep falling in love with Loni more every day… This season is so different for some reason. She is keeping all the way real and I simply adore her transparency. I wish I could have the courage to be so vulnerable and transparent in the public eye… Lots of love to you, Loni! So glad that you found someone worthy of your amazing company to share your mornings over a cup of coffee with. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loni, thank you for showing us your vulnerability and for sharing a wonderful message. ❤️
LONI YOU ARE SO REAL!! YOU SAY WHAT EVERYONE WANTS DEEP DOWN!!!! WE NEED MORE LONIS
Awwwww Loni 🥺 Loni is just like me the simple things are what matters to me the most. I'm not the type that like expensive gifts or an expensive restaurant. A simple walk or a bike ride on a sunny day means a lot to me. As long as I am spending time with that person and he took time out of his day to spend it with me means a lot.
It's safe to say, this segment has evoked a lot of emotions. Ladies, by any chance, you read this; just want to let you know that RealFam appreciates how open you are on the show. Thank you for bringing topics that evoke such emotions and help us understand ourselves and others.Thank you for sharing your journey with us over these years. You've helped so many people grow and brought new perspectives. We know you are also human and make mistakes; it must not be so easy to open yourself up for others to criticize you. But again just want to say there are many of us who appreciate all that you are doing and the team working in the background. May God continue to be with you and may you continue to live out your respective journies with love, laughter, triumph, and peace.
Awe Loni, I care. I hope love embraces its comforting warmth around u to heal from the most profound way. Each day it reminds u that u are loved as well!!!!!!!
Such a special moment 😭❤️ Love you Loni. Love all of them. This is why I watch The Real and have been for a few years now. It’s called the Real for a reason and I love it. I don’t think I could find this anywhere else.
Love you Loni💕💕💕 you deserve all the love and intimacy and everything great in this world
0:28 I try to explain this to people in my life and no one gets it. They tease me about my belief of having "intimacy over intercourse" I am turned on by what a man SAYS to me than DOES to me.
Having a deep connection and real conversations about life, this is intimacy to me.
If I could meet a man for once that knows how to kiss, that would make it even better.😘 Sadly dates and partners have all been the slobber all over me or ram their tongues down my throat type of guys. Evem when I tell them how I prefer to kiss, each one found it "boring".
I hear you girl. You’ll find your guy one day I promise. When it’s true love those kisses will come. My man is so incredibly gentle but also confident and I think that’s what it’s about. When you have someone who cares about you the way you do him mmmph.. *chefs kiss*😘. Intimacy is 100% more important than sex- PERIOD. And the fact that you know that- you’re going to attract the right guy eventually. Good luck mamas! Stay true.
Yep! I had to teach hubby how to kiss me.😂😂 But girl once he got it...😉 ...lets just say its been over 20 yrs now. 😁
Awwww… Aunty Loni 😭😭😭
I feel y’all on this topic
Emotional connection is everything ♥️ so blessed to have this
For me this is the ladies best season. I hope the show doesnt get cancelled
I am so happy that Loni feels cherished and cared for in her relationship with James. I was really touched by her speech. Loni has a good heart and deserves genuine happiness. I can totally relate to what she's saying - it's the little things that make all the difference and show you that someone cares about you - as simple as making a cup of coffee or asking about your day. All the ladies of the Real are amazing and love the show. Much love from Australia!
I loved Loni’s vulnerability. It’s so true ❤️
Adrienne’s looks this season 😍 sheeeeesh 🔥
Ive been waiting for this moment to see loni so happy and appreciated!
I love and need this show! Please don’t cancel it!! There’s no other show like this one!
I feel like Loni always takes care of others and she's never really been the top priority or cared for in the way she does for others. That's why this meant alot to her.
Omg, everything that Jeannie said is my truth. I needed this
I’m so sad the real is ending I feel like finally Loni is really opening up and it’s so nice and refreshing to see! Learning a lot from her
Oh Loni. You are so beautiful inside and out. I’m so glad you open up like this.
I always cry along with Loni!!! Love you girl and I relate with all of this ❤️❤️
Oh Loni!! I love this for you!! So muchhhhh 💕💕 I’m not crying I’m not crying 😭😭
I’m speechless, Loni! This is beautiful. 💗
awooooo Loni, I am sending you lotzzzz of hugs and love my sister. Stay Blessed ladies💕
Aaah Ms Loni Love 🥺🥺 you are deserving of the most pure, whole and authentic love Auntie Loni ❤️❤️
I love you you loni . Your heart is in the right place. I just wish that I could hug you right now. The world needs more people like you especially now
Loving these ladies! We love you Loni! Also Adrienne’s hair is on point!
My fiancee and I hold hands when we go to bed. We could be cuddling and holding hands or just holding hands if it's too hot to cuddle. But we always hold hands when we're going to sleep and that's our thing and I love it.